The REAL Reason Why Your Life Is So Boring
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I personally think that living a boring life is unacceptable. You should strive to become more interesting or you will most likely be filled with regret on your death bed. So today I want to talk about the real reason why your life is so boring and also 2 very actionable steps that you can take to change it. If you want to know how to stop being bored and how to be more exciting then this video will also help you out!
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I literally have no personal life. thank you school
And you know it doesnt have to be that way.
I was the same when I was in school and only realize the missed opportunities now that im years into employment. Do whatever you want but at your own pace. Dont force to be someone your not but do try what you want to do and keep doing what gives you fulfillment.
To a better life!
When you finish school it'll get worse, trust me. Think about what you wanna do now
loki yea school needs to be better
school for 12 hours, and didn't even blame the school?
*IMPOSSIBLE*
Coronavirus has entered the chat
"why are you boring" "do things that you want to do"
*me who literally dont know what i want to do*
That's the same case for me man!. No other way than to get to know yourself. Maybe even write a book about yourself (that's what I've just started)
Everything for me is boring, and get almost no satisfaction from anything, i just live
@@elpatoamo4136 iam same as you
The more you learn to walk alone the less you become boring
@Gice Rum if fucking book can cure your depression then you didn't been really depressed bruh
"why are you so boring?"
Poverty.
Lmao. Facts
Fair enough
Poverty is a mindset
@@christiangottwald692 no it's not
Just because someone is poor doesn't mean that they can't live their life to the fullest. I'm poor myself and I'm working on ways to have fun instead of just staring at a screen everyday.
Me trying to go outside
Social Anxiety: Not today
Coronavirus: Hello there
Janitra Falah SO TRUEE!!
XD made me laugh thanks
I wish I didn’t relate to this
this is really true 😢
me too
"Life is never boring but some people choose to be bored."
~ Wayne Dyer
i am the guy who playes games for 12hours and now its boring..will try something better to improve myself
@@ImprovementPill
Shame makes life boring, that's not to say that you should have no shame in anything whatsoever
@@anonymousop6406 do something suprising that makes u happy maybe u would not being bored
@@ImprovementPill is it just me or are introverts like me stay at home and lay down in bed cause they have nothing to do
@@firstnamelastname6302 yup but i am going to college and i want to Change my life have new friends etc
Damn, RUclips's trying to tell me something.
I hope you’ve listened 😂😂😂
Oi gyro
Arigatou, Gyro.
"When you got bored of being bored ..life becomes interesting..."
You'll outgrow many people once you started doing what's best for you..which makes you unique and happy ..
True!!
How easy to comment😅
Very unrealistic
True , outgrowing people is also scary
I’ll never outgrow anyone. I’ll stay a child forever
"why are you boring?"
Strict parents
@Gice Rum When you got school, Chico.
Mine are the worst
I ask em if they will give me 5 bucks to buy something
They say that they dont have any money
Then i look to see
And they do
In this shithole of a country romania
There nothing to do
@@ryzen799, sorry to hear.
@Gice Rum how do u get suspended when ur parents force u to study all day💀
Exactly same
Who else watched this in bed?
no but i still want to like ur comment
at the end of the day, no one really cares man
😁
I didn't, but I'll still like your comment
@@Noot2022 damn i commented the exact thing you said 😂
There's one thing I've always wanted to do because it'll make me rich but its just so far out of my comfort zone...today, thanks to you, I've taken the leap and I can now officially say I'm a drug dealer!!
Has FBI gotten you yet?
@@denissmith7671 honestly I hope they dont raid my house thinking I actually sell lmao
Hello future pablo escobar
Ibro that one caught me by surprise 👀
LoL
Chasing the role of being "an interesting person" is the most stressful thing you can do to yourself.
Don't do it. Don't be interesting person, because that is an outward definition. The others define you as interesting.
In general, trying to prove something to others or obtain some cool "tabs" like being intresting, eccentric, charming, sexy, etc is the source of misery.
Try to realize what you really love, where you are really comfort and seek the inner you. There is nothing wrong if you don't like travelling, or being the "extreme sports guy".
Be you and don't copy hapiness recipes.
He didn't mean that. When you are being yourself you'll be interesting (special).
Exactly!!! Since I stopped being "an interesting person" I became free. I started to see the huge beauty in the most simple things in my life and then more beautiful things came which I am so grateful for I can't express. Everyday. And I started to see opportunities instead of focusing on my misery. LET'S BE FREE!
Once self fulfilled, you will most certainly become interesting to those who matter, those who are seeking the same end, those who need hope.
Then why are you watching this
Thank you man.
This helped me a lot...no joke not sarcasm.
Here in Africa life never gets boring, you have to fight for food.
and water
@@miljenko4209 and WHAT?!!!!
@@iamsifo3610 H20
@@stevenchurchill6561 we dunno what that is, we have sand tho
I had a friend from Ghana 🇬🇭 he was always hungry, his other friend was from there also.
He worked, the other friend never did.
I know a friend who hate daily lifestyle of working/studying and only loves to travel overseaes and explore.
But I feel he is ignoring his responsibilities for travelling to keep his life interesting
Hi shark basically me 😅
It's just human nature 🤗
@@ImprovementPill not such a great long-term strategy though
Yeah sure he’d have not regrets. But come on he’s not gonna die anytime soon. It’s important to have a balance I think. Hustle for a couple of months or even years and then enjoy the benefits of all the work you put in
Erik Salcedo you never know when you’re going to die. It could be today, tomorrow or in 10 years
Ok but here’s a slight problem: *money*
Nah it ain't u r just boring at with and without money lol
Ur probably boring too, if u werent, then why else would you watch this video ?
Then set your goals and make more money.
Just by that statement alone one can see that you don't get it. You WANT to have this problem as an excuse, but the truth is: The key to not having a boring life is to plant one foot in order and the other one in chaos (or simply: Doing things outside of YOUR comfort zone). This doesn't require money at all!? Talking to people, doing sports, learning new things through the internet, etc.
You have an internet connection so you ALREADY have no excuse to not step out of your comfort zone.
Everything is a Mind game ur boring as well since ur watching this bum 💀
"The secret to happiness is freedom and the secret to freedom is courage."
How do you know that secret to happiness is freedom? Freedom is what makes you happy?
@@stickyschannel8497 yes.... Freedom.....
But what's the secret to courage?
@@dcgreatman to me personally is being more afraid of having regrets than anything else.
I'm very bold 💪. Let's dance 🕺💃.. May I my lady? ❤🌹
"Step outside your comfort zone this 2020 "
Me: *CRIES IN CORONAVIRUS*
🤣🤣
well i cry in tears😕
lmfaoo
i miss those days
@@pranavvkr well I suggest you try to cry in coronavirus, its pretty trendy these days...
So many people become crippled by their anxieties. They let their lives slip away from them by living through distractions. Take some time to think about what's important to you. Every day meditate on it.
Actually about to meditate too
Yeah, because people like you are judgemental
You thought writing this...will make people that have social anxiety..dont have any anxiety..sorry but those jobs are for therapy.."just dont overthing" oh thx my ptsd and anxiety just left😄!!💛💞.
@@gabrielguzman6018 How's that judgemental?
People wait their whole lifes for something to be over.
You don't want to do that. You won't do that anymore.
Backpack kid didn't invent the floss
i didn't know that.
Huh?
Задрал Мистер Слав, когда новые видео?
Oi, you're here.
Even if he didn’t create it he made it famous so he invented it. No one is asking for the creator everyone is asking for the dude who made it famous.
Restrictions make me into a boring person.I sure do have lots of things that I want to do but it's just that I lack of resources needed for thing to be accomplished and also permission from my parents.
I can feel you :)
Well they dont talk about this..
I have the same problem
@Gice Rum you can do it and one day I will ge riding your flying car invention.
@Gice Rum yes
RUclips has alot of nerves recommending me this.
🤣🤣🤣
As if it has anything to do with you.
@@wanjirukarago9308 you know the algorithm changes of what you watch you know maybe use your brain
👽
Wow this like reassured me that I wasn’t all that boring because I already have stepped out of my comfort zone many times as well as make my own choices
Lol I’ve been told something people like about me is I will do things without shame even if they are uncomfortable
As an introvert, i felt ATTACKED😂
Truth is I can't live being introverted it's so boring and depressing.
@@RaffaelloLorenzusSayde true I'm a bit of both... introverted and Extroverted most of the time I keep to myself but if you wanna talk to me I'll talk or if I feel like starting a conversation I will
@@LC-yb4wj same here I am a bit of both (but way more extroverted since I was raised in a village in Lebanon).
@@RaffaelloLorenzusSayde ohhh okay
@@RaffaelloLorenzusSayde socialise with more ppl but mostly keep to yourself?
"why are you boring?"
Pandemic.
Exactly! In Ottawa pandemic is like hell feeling!
FACTS
My life isn't boring, it's full of homework
My life isn’t boring I mean I can’t be boring since I don’t have a life
@@africancouscous big brain time
@@andronick8278 ikr
Mine is full of surprise tests and depressing moments. At least I keep smiling but who knows when my smile will last
@@ryanrobert3125 all fucking emotion is gone from me. Im now scared to talk to my dad
Thank you brother! Your work is awesome!
@@SparklingWater445 🥛🥛🥛🥛🥛🥛
@@xanderxander6322 with 🍪🍪🍪
I feel that my life is boring because I’ve spent a lot of my time tending to my depression. That being said, I still appreciate videos like this because they make me feel inspired
My life: house, school, house, sleep, again and again
@@user-vj8do6ss4b me it's just that, no Friends no fun
atleast you go to school
my life: house, sleep
@@DBDYAKU school sucks wdym
Bro life is boring. Even if I was rich sometimes I want to go ti another world who agrees with me.
I live a Boring Life, I want my death to be exciting
Same. I’m just waiting for death at this point lol
@@ImprovementPill so basically from what I understand in this is to be unique and have a different way of doing things than everyone else, in order to be not boring
Great video BTW, I hope for more
Lol
@@ImprovementPill yes it does.
Me too i want my death 💀
This is Definitely a personal attack
Ha, the way you say it flawlessly made me crack 😂😂
Am I the only person who is never bored but always overwhelmed of too many things i wanna do
Yes
Yeah it seems like im wasting my life
When you are in the zone, there is never time enough. The space before the zone, that is the County of Boredom.
"the real reason why your life is boring"
CORONAVIRUS
I instead simply add more things to my comfort zone. I do it one thing at a time. And I try to bring along with me a small part of my comfort zone with me. It’s like mixing your favorite food with the new food till you’re used to the new food.
For example I want to take ballroom dance classes (which is out of my comfort zone) so I take my best friend with me (which is in my comfort zone) that way it’s not completely new.
I have anxiety and depression so I struggle with new things. This method has helped me to keep things interesting. I hope it can help you too.
Maimounatou Koumare what do you do when you don’t really have friends?
Diana S in that case if I want to try something new without a friend I would make it something more similar to what I have already done.
For example I want to try going out for drinks (outside of my comfort zone) so I instead go to a wine and paint event (painting is in my comfort zone) this way I’m out and drinking with strangers. I’d do this until I get the nerve to go to an actual bar.
That's actually SO smart! I totally agree and I wish more people would do the same instead of going miles out of their comfort zone, getting burned and then never trying new things again
I think I'll go somewhere since travel is in my comfort zone and yes I know there's corona but Its not a big problem in my city since I see many cars on the road and that means people are going outside since the decrease of corna in my city so I'll go to the nearby mall.
@@Sunny-Smiles1234 smart asf my man
2:11 I actually felt sad for the fictional character who’s doing the floss
I love that now I have the time to listen to/watch your videos. Not only it does help me to practice my english but you even make me really think about what am I doing with my life and what do I really want it to be.
So thanks for helping me reconsider things and give me that little push to start getting out of my comfort zone.
“What’s something that YOU genuinely want to do?”
Me: i literally don’t know, that’s why I’m here
-_-
My entire life I've watched what direction the crowd was going in order to do something else. I guess I'm not that boring.
Thats what we call, a hipster
So everything you do is basically still dictated by the masses
@@jinzhouliu4 exactly!
Do you what you want to do. You are only being alternate to convention.
@@jinzhouliu4 Yeah, sure. When you walk into a cattle car headed for a gas chamber, I'll be somewhere else.
So I have to expand my comfort zone by learning new things and taking risks.
Doesn't sound bad.
No it means get out your comfort zone
i just recently discovered your channel, and i always come by to watch your videos whenever i feel stressed, unmotivated, scared or anxious and it never failed to make me feel this sense of reassurance that whatever i am dealing with, i can surely do it. this channel gives me so much inspiration. thank you
I’m an emotion seeker, a pleasure seeker if you want. If I’m not doing anything, feeling anything or pushing myself mentally or physically I just sit and sulk and do nothing. It’s genuinely horrible man
The last 11 months I've done the same thing every day and you are right, time flys, my life is to an extreme boring. Sometimes I just end up watching random videos like this
Hit me hard improvement pill, if it hurts it is easier to apply changes
Dude, you are simply amazing. Your videos, among everyone else's, are the best - at least for me. They are short, simple and very effective. You point out the things that are often overlooked, not many people pay attention to but are keys to improvement. Love your videos.
I trapped myself in a hard job out of fear of going hungry and homeless.
Now I'm in my prime age, stuck doing a job that's killing me, feel completely nothing for my hobbies, and pushed away friends. Death is looking too comforting...
No bro, i understand where your'e coming, working a job you don't like, having no time for friends, and not enough money. here's an advice that can get you more cash. if you have a car in the summer, save up money to buy a cooler, fill it with drinks and water and when you see people standing under the sun or working under the sun. you will use the opportunity to sell it to them, this strategy can earn you some money and maybe if you make enough you can do it full time and control you life. by the way if you still need help with activities to do, i got a video on it
I've watched almost all your videos in the last weeks and I have to say...thank you, I really feel that you helped me to improve my life. Of course, I keep struggling with some bad habits, there is no short term miracle, but your videos have an energy and practical style that help moving the things, thanks for inspiration!
I'm going to step out of my comfort zone today and do whatever 1st comes to mind . I'm tired of stumbling through life, saying, " I wish I was there," or " I wish I had done that when I was there ." I refuse to let fear take any more of my life . That's why for me that means less sleeping, less social media, and more LIFE .🤗
i have never done anything that every kid should have experienced like going to disneyland, rollercoasters, camping, riding bicycles, traveling, etc. all my life was basically with the internet. even if we went on vacations it would be in our hotel 90% of the time for 3 days and go back to home. life was dreadfully boring. thats why i rarely remember memories from when i was a kid. until now i still havent done those things yet, and life is still the same. im just hoping that when im an adult life would be more interesting
I blame high school, I remember being so out there and always making friends and communicating. Now i act like Diego from the Dora Real life movie. So dull and boring
One and a half years ago I moved to a new city all by myself in order to study despite my family wanting me to do something else
New city, new chapter of life, new people, new things to learn
It was a big step out of my comfort zone but I don't regret it a bit
I'm happy I did it, it feels like it made me evolve as a person
Life became extremely boring when I left high school. Kicking it with the boys during lunch, roasting each other, being young and dumb with no responsibility, just the tangible things ya know. Remembering those days of doing hardcore excercises for sports teams and upcoming competitions. Attending away homecoming games and cruising around at night until the entire gang crashes at each other places.
Truly, one of the best videos I've seen this year
Thanks ❤️
Thanks for sharing this kind of useful content, it really is different from other self-improvement channels 😁😁
Love the artworks and the thumbnail btw 👌👌
True story: I was doing the floss 3 years before backpack kid ever did. Except we called it “the Jook” (combining my first and last name)
There was a video before backpack but that was way before 3 years not saying you created it but I just wanted to inform
@Mr.FuhrerAndGas lol
The reason why my life is boring ;
• strict parents
• not allowed to go outside
• not allowed to hang out w friends
• didn't have any friends
• controlling parents
• my parents decides my life path
• caged at home
• limited movement
• controlling relatives
• strict religious family
• strict rules
• brainwashed enviroment
• not allowed to get a job (i'm 16 but i really want to have job experience butt not my parents didn't allowed me SO, BORING STUCK AT HOME BEFORE EVEN QUARANTINE)
Seriously, i really wanted to get out of here soo badd. This is Boring. I want myself to decide my own life path. 😒
@@user-vj8do6ss4b @Scott Matson you're *
You sounded like a typical defensive child who is always willing to defend their & everybody 'parents'. Just bcos you live with a NICE, caring, less-strict parents & relatives then you think every parents is like yours & everyone is raised by your parents and those evil, abusive, manipulative parents should not be blamed , it's all their kids faults😏 toxic parents do Exist . Sadly you never got to experience how it feels to raised by a controlling-manipulative parents & relatives that always told you what to do & you don't have a chances to do or try something that you really interested in instead they're telling you to do something that THEY interested in, telling & forced you how you should looks like even you didn't want to just like a fucking doll/toy/robot, limited movements, so you can't relate and keep defending everyone parents 🥱 . Which i didn't include on the list bcs i still respect them & it's not people business anyways. Nor your business. but for the sake of your boring reply so- 😒
🖕 Peace
Thanks quarantine.
Hey improvement pill thank you for making the videos that you do! it helps me out alot - im currently in abit of a rut so i will try my best to step out of my comfort zone
Whenever I hear the words “life is short” it gives me the opposite effect and I just keep thinking about how we are all gonna die one day. 😐
Somehow I really feel the passion in this one. Almost felt like a drill Sargent yelling at me lol
I can’t do anything and my boredom makes me sad
try some of art
Tks for the course.
I'm learning to have 'yes' as my default response for exactly this reason, to get out of my comfort zone and to experience new things more often. Tell you what, it feels good already.
@Kai Smith thanks for the tip!!
bro if u have people giving you opportunities to do things then your life already isn't boring
This is off topic but...
Today is my birthday
I turned 15
Happy birthday! My birthday is this Sunday
Chandrakala Pambi happy birthday Brodie
@@darkseedfile thankyou 😊
Happy Birthday buddy 🙌
@@gauravboruah1250 thankyou 😊
Thanks for this video, I really needed this!
I absolutely adore your video and inspiration. Thank you!
"Much needed now"... Funny thing is I just learned to moonwalk, your dance example made me look hilarious.
Nah, it is rather because i have no money or friends. Let's be honest, we are not kids anymore so that world is opened and friendly towards us, so that tale about bright perspective of future are still capable to work. But more adult you become, more you have become experienced with life. It is diffucult for adults to out of their "comfort" zone not because they do not want to do it, but because their actual experience is valid, it is difficult for adults to perceive world as friendly new and fresh, while kids perceive world as positive and kind. For instance, kids easily can find friend by asking other kid just "i want to be friend with you, lets be friends", but adults cannot do that, they cannot just ask "hey lets be buds", even if they do ask, they cannot enjoy friendship as kids do. Kids are opened towards other kids, and trust other kids, and nothing to hide. But adults have bunch of things to aware of, they have secrets, they have shameful secrets, fo them it is difficult to trust other adults. So make your conclusions
Dear improvement pill. This is a genius video. Thank you :D
you feel like home to me, your voice sounds warm and you make me feel like you’re a friend of mine and talking to me only you vanish away my loneliness
thank you
This is why our actions matters , what choices we make ,what activities we indulge ourself with , youtube's endowing us with such a great package , but only if we know how to utilise these hints & tips and actually apply for it
Me: Right, I'm finally ready to go out more!
Pandemic: Yeah, no.
EAT THIS, I love the all might reference at the end, great video! Annddd you got yourself a new subscriber :)
Thanks for the info so useful.
My life is so boring to the point that I searched this video up-
Same here
same bruh
These two tips are well known, but often overlooked and almost never applied.
Their potential is huge and those who use them wisely can really improve their experience of life.
Try them out!
THIS is an elite perspective, i love how diff ppl have dii profound ideas that actually elevate the way ill think. Thanks for such intellectual assistance
So true.
Nice video 👌
I think RUclips is starting to be worried about me...
I have lose interest in many things. From Few years Ago, ,in the midst of my College DAYs,I have lost taste in music. RUclips is boring. Social media is boring. There is nothing to look on internet. It felt like I have seen everything in life. Nothing is left. I want to go on Adventure or Travel to Places, but I suffer from Anxiety and Panic Attack. I can't stay far from my home either, I would feel stuck.
This made my day ❤️. Thanks
These videos are really helpful. Thank you
I like decorating myself and giving myself self care days while acting like a goddess to myself and do what I enjoy.
Same
My parents won't let me get out of the hpuse for even a second whether its the lane by our building or the rooftop or generally just my grandma's house. At school they won't let me join any clubs because they think it "unnecessary" and irrelevant to my studies. Why? Because I am a teen and its dangerous for a girl to go anywhere without parents. Like I get it why they are so overprotective but honestly its so soul sucking and draining at this point. Before, me and my siblings used play with others in the building but they won't allow me to do that anymore. Plus, my brother who is a few months older than me is allowed to go to school on his own and even his friends house. Its just so frustrating I just don't what to do anymore. Even brother who is younger than me, has more freedom. My mother's like "You can go outside only if your parents go with you" but funnily enough she doesn't even go anywhere, not even my relative's house.
Ok i am done venting :D
Same here, how old r u?
I am turning 17 this week, my parents don't have any problem me going out but been a joint family my grand father is like over caring don't go alone go with someone yes it really sucksss ...
I was an extrovert before but now i can't even look at peoples eyes and talk... 🥲🥲As i don't have any friends, the people who i find comfortable later they ditches
Love your videos
thank you very much
Every time i get anxiety when i go outside or socialize, i just think about these thing's.
1- Everyone's gonna die(makes me feel better fsr)
2- I OD 3 times and survived.
3- my friends saw me naked when i was drunk (nothing is worse than that)
That thumbnail is literally me right now
I do many things that no one in the general population around me does, including hobbies and interests, yet people think I’m boring because I’m too insecure to talk as much as you need to to get “accepted “
Great video
Thanks men for Covering this Topic. Your topics are best and based on what people are facing day to day. Keep sharing us this type of videos.
For us introverts, we are already spending quality time together with our books and personal space. Still people think we are boring😂
Im writing books.
Give me 1 million and my life wouldnt be so boring anymore
It's nt always abut the dolla
@の忍者最高 u r an idiot af
SAME
thanks for your video! I agree that the cure for boredom is to connect with your authentic expression and access your unique sense of purpose, passion and inspiration. This, in my experience, takes us beyond our comfort zone into new, more expansive experiences.
Thank you school for keeping us in a building for most of our life and not having a single fun relaxing class
Hope everyone that watch this video has a great 2020 achieving their goals :)
Thanks
Thanks you too sir, also I just subscribed
Corona...
This comment aged well 😂
2020: “HAHAHAHA, SIKE. YOU’RE ALL TRAPPED IN YOUR HOMES. HAHAHAHAHAHA, GOTEEEM, HAHAHAHAHAHA”
Here’s to a much more exciting 2020!
Yeah...
this didn't age well...
lmaooo
Honestly I laughed at this comment even more
Oof This comment Hasn’t aged well
Thanks man ,helps a lot 👍
😄😄 this was fun to watch ... You will become interesting when you become you and not the trend.
Words to live by “when everyone does the same moves, life becomes boring”
A few weeks ago I was at our village party and I was dancing.
Nothing special you'd say, but knowing me I can't dance to save my life!!! I was frikkin scared but still I hit that dance floor.
I was waaaaaaay out of my comfortzone and the first 2 dance rounds were very akward, but in a strange way I had some kind of courage that night.
People were laughing at me in the beginning, but I genuanly did not care, my friends encouraged me and I had the time of my life.
The cherry on top was the look on my husbands when he saw me dancing. He looked at me with a BIG smile on his face. On the way back home he said how proud he was to see me bust a move.
Back home we chatted about the party. Suddenly he turned on the music, took me by the hand, pulled me close and told me softly that he wanted to have the last dance of the evening.
And NO it was't a dirty dance 😜
So go out there and try new things people!!!
Have a nice day 🙌
Iiiiiimmmprovement pill here 😁. Awesome video 💖
I remember I had a conversation with my friend and we talked about memories and how forcing yourself to do new things creates different memories and your life feels more fulfilling.