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  • Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
  • Mat Boggs shares dating advice for women and how to help your man open up emotionally.
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Комментарии • 381

  • @minenhlemlilo2704
    @minenhlemlilo2704 2 года назад +394

    Watching this while I’m single so that if I ever get into a relationship I’ll be ready . Thank you for these videos ❤️

    • @annachollom2954
      @annachollom2954 2 года назад

      WhatsApp 🙏🙏him he can help you

    • @annachollom2954
      @annachollom2954 2 года назад +1

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    • @laurie205
      @laurie205 2 года назад +11

      You are very wise to be getting yourself equipped and prepared!! My husband of 41 years passed away - which was extremely hard! But I could tell that I didn't want to stay alone. So I listened to alot of Mats videos before I started dating again. It was so tremendously helpful!!

    • @carlosverde-datingtips7001
      @carlosverde-datingtips7001 2 года назад +5

      Being vulnerable is something that couples should not be afraid of…
      learning to vulnerable in a relationship actually can work to your advantage…
      it can make your relationship stronger, healthier, and your bond firmer with your partner - it really works wonders!
      Anyway, that’s my two cents.

    • @footyfan101ful
      @footyfan101ful 2 года назад +4

      I am doing the same!!

  • @muibatmustapha8049
    @muibatmustapha8049 2 года назад +100

    Tips to make a man open up more
    1. Open up first
    2. Lead with compassion: offer compassion instead of judging
    3.

    • @rezotydnic
      @rezotydnic 2 года назад +66

      1. Open up first. Can I be vulnerable with you?
      2. Lead with compassion. Offer compassion instead of judgement.
      3. Pick a private place. On a walk for example.
      4. Shoulder up. Sit 90* angle or side by side.
      5. Talk over an activity. Fishing, going for a walk, drive etc.

    • @marciaelliott4371
      @marciaelliott4371 2 года назад +8

      I just want to say thank you for this information.. I will use this... and thank you that I didn't have to buy a book from you to get it.. your site is welcoming and informative.... thank you 💞 😊

  • @emmyblue30
    @emmyblue30 2 года назад +105

    I’ll never forget my old pastor (unfortunately, he’s now deceased) telling us not to be “fix it” spouses when our husband/wife tells us something that happened. Basically just validate their feelings - “lead with compassion” as said here. It has been great advice in my relationships - son, fiancé, mother, etc. Some of the best advice I’ve ever received as a “fix it” personality.

  • @peepeepoopoo2710
    @peepeepoopoo2710 Год назад +16

    1. open up first, so he knows that he doesnt have to keep up the perfect public image with you
    2. be understanding and empathic when he opens up, so he knows that he wont be ridiculed and judged
    3. be in a private safe place, so that your important and deep conversations dont get interrupted by or eavesdropped by others
    4. be at a shoulder to shoulder position, our personal bubble is wider to the front and back, but shorter when its on our sides, so its easier to get closer and personal to people that way
    5. talk while doing something together, so that the mind and heart dont get too stressed and overwhelmed with the deep conversation

  • @shebnem77
    @shebnem77 2 года назад +33

    “ i’ve opened up me to you to make you open up” … phrase from a turkish poem
    “İçimi açtım sana içini açmak için” 🎯

  • @ozwomanid57
    @ozwomanid57 2 года назад +68

    I want to thank you so much! I could NOT figure out what I've been doing wrong. I'm a business owner, I take care of my apartment, I maintain my car, I carry my luggage. And that was my issue. I was so into masculine energy as a Computer Engineer I lost touch with my feminine. Now I'm better at nurture, nature, and heart. I'm at the beginning of a great relationship where I feel like I AM a delicate flower instead of the flower pot.

    • @matboggs
      @matboggs  2 года назад +7

      That’s so fantastic! Way to go! ❤️

    • @mariahconklin4150
      @mariahconklin4150 2 года назад +4

      Aw that’s cute. That’s how I am at work so when I’m enjoying my time around him I try to let him lead. I’m noticing that I like when he leads.

    • @rafawells2178
      @rafawells2178 2 года назад

      Hello

    • @babarxchamp759
      @babarxchamp759 Месяц назад

      Ys it works

  • @RAWouthere
    @RAWouthere 2 года назад +36

    Mat, I started watching your videos 2 years ago when I was single and actively NOT looking for a relationship. I didn’t feel it was fair to try an enter something not feeling like a “whole” person, so figured it was a low stakes time to research. Well my mindset shifted around a few things (which happens as we learn more), and less than 6 months in, I accidentally found the best man I’ve ever met. In a pandemic, no less! Now we are about to celebrate a year together, and we seem to just keep getting stronger. Thanks for doing what you do…and for HOW you do it. 🙏🏾😻🙌🏾

    • @giftlarry9037
      @giftlarry9037 2 года назад

      Are you going through manifestation issue or relationship issue, why don't you send a message to this great man who helped me attract my partner back after many years of separation 🕊️🇧🇷.

  • @dropsofsunliteinspiration6371
    @dropsofsunliteinspiration6371 2 года назад +47

    Matt. Listening to your cabin story brings tears to my eyes. The amount of respect you have for your woman is incredible. Being able to respect when a woman is ready and when she is vulnerable is huge. This story from when you were dating 6 months in has made me realize that my boyfriend may not respect me on the level I need.

  • @ratukatak
    @ratukatak 2 года назад +23

    Thanks for this Mat. I think it’s really useful. My partner and I have been together for almost two years but for most parts our relationship has been long distance. He is a very reserved man due to his upbringing and life experiences but he told me that he has never been open about himself to any other person as he has been with me. What I usually do when I want him to open up is to first tell him that I am there for him always and that I want to know, understand and learn everything about him. I also tell him that although I am curious to know all that’s going on, he can take his time and tell me when he is ready. He told me he loves and appreciates my approach and patience with him as it makes him feel comfortable about opening up. I notice that he has become more open and more at ease about being vulnerable and it makes me happy to know that he trusts me with his heart and emotions.

  • @phoenixrising323susanburnl8
    @phoenixrising323susanburnl8 2 года назад +18

    TY Mat for this advice.
    I'm so devastated & heartbroken right now. The love of my life pulled away & ghosted me for a little while after I told Him that I love Him. Then, I reached out to Him & asked where I stood & He told me I'm the one person He never wants to hurt. He's emotionally unavailable so I let Him go heal or to find someone who He really wants.

  • @carlosverde-datingtips7001
    @carlosverde-datingtips7001 2 года назад +48

    Being vulnerable is something that couples should not be afraid of…
    learning to vulnerable in a relationship actually can work to your advantage…
    it can make your relationship stronger, healthier, and your bond firmer with your partner - it really works wonders!
    Anyway, that’s my two cents.

    • @ecerizer
      @ecerizer 2 года назад

      Very well said Carlos! Its the true face that we are afraid to show to anyone I think all it takes it to find the right person to do with! You do n be relationships yet you never feel so comfortable to open up about certain things. i personally experienced this in a 4 years relationship where I felt vulnerable yet never shared and no wonder we broke up after so many years

    • @carlosverde-datingtips7001
      @carlosverde-datingtips7001 2 года назад

      @@ecerizer I hear ya. I hope you’re in a better place now. You have to be strong... If I could be of any help - you know where to find me! 😁❤️

  • @InspiringTips
    @InspiringTips 2 года назад +33

    Great advice from Mat!
    The most important thing is not to make the conversation feel like an interrogation or like he has to "get something off his chest." The more relaxed and natural the conversation feels, the better chance there will be of him opening up!

  • @stellashepherd3229
    @stellashepherd3229 2 года назад +26

    That “shoulder up” thing is huge. I absolutely have found that to be true. #4 is so true too. Around an activity.
    Conversations on a road trip have been transformative.

  • @mira6010
    @mira6010 2 года назад +6

    My husband had a hard time growing up as a kid but talking bad about your own parents is not easy. After he saw how open I am through out the years he start doing the same thing. And when he did, he's become much more intimate than he ever was.

  • @mariamorozova3523
    @mariamorozova3523 2 года назад +19

    My strongest need in relationship is deep connection with a man, and often feel very nervous how to respond to a man’s vulnerability or how to set space not to shut him in a shell by accident. So happy and relieved I saw your video 😊 Thank you Mat for your support and tips to create real intimacy in my life!!!!!

  • @EmpressJustice22
    @EmpressJustice22 2 года назад +44

    He's naturally an open person already, however, i know being vulnerable with him about my life has caused him to be even more with me because he told me it did. lol

    • @annachollom2954
      @annachollom2954 2 года назад +1

      Dr Frank Love Spells can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restore back my broken relationship of 5 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Frank alw ... Read more

    • @annachollom2954
      @annachollom2954 2 года назад

      WhatsApp 🙏🙏him he can help you

  • @CrystleSky
    @CrystleSky 2 года назад +44

    Mat your such a positive soul and a healthy coach that helps us all in many ways. Thank you and your wife for showing great energy and good advice.
    Love and light from a free flowing youtuber

    • @annachollom2954
      @annachollom2954 2 года назад

      Dr Frank Love Spells can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restore back my broken relationship of 5 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Frank alw ... Read more

    • @annachollom2954
      @annachollom2954 2 года назад

      WhatsApp 🙏🙏him he can help you

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    • @carlosverde-datingtips7001
      @carlosverde-datingtips7001 2 года назад +2

      Being vulnerable is something that couples should not be afraid of…
      learning to vulnerable in a relationship actually can work to your advantage…
      it can make your relationship stronger, healthier, and your bond firmer with your partner - it really works wonders!
      Anyway, that’s my two cents.

    • @CrystleSky
      @CrystleSky 2 года назад

      @@carlosverde-datingtips7001 love it ❤🙏

  • @rezotydnic
    @rezotydnic 2 года назад +12

    Great info. I will put them into action. My bf does these for me and I do try to reciprocate but wasn't totally sure how to go about it. My past was abusive soo my bf goes out of his way to make me feel safe so I can be vulnerable. It's hard sharing some things. But I'm thankful for this man and love him like no other ever.

  • @laurie205
    @laurie205 2 года назад +5

    I've noticed that touching them on their back shoulder tells me alot!! If they shrink back - then they're not ready to talk deep. But if they're feeling comfortable and you touch them there - I feel like they kind of melt into you!! Just my own observation!

  • @titanimagalasi5139
    @titanimagalasi5139 2 года назад +4

    My man and I both have natural hair, so when I'm doing his hair, especially on wash day, conditioning and massaging, that's the day when he talks the most cause he calls it his comfort zone

  • @williaminaloftin3814
    @williaminaloftin3814 2 года назад +18

    This video is right on time! Mat, you've been a huge help to me this year as I've had the courage to put myself on the dating scene. Please keep letting your light shine!

  • @luciem5372
    @luciem5372 2 года назад +2

    The sitting position is fascinating! I've always hated sitting directly across from someone. It makes me uneasy.

  • @krutimehta481
    @krutimehta481 Год назад +2

    When I was dating my fiancé, he had requested me to sit next to him instead of opposite to him… and I felt a deeper connection than normal times when he sat face to face:) now I know why it had happened 😍😍😍

  • @lauanagirard5195
    @lauanagirard5195 2 года назад +1

    Omg this changed my life, literally just understood how to communicate properly and with love and I did not know how before and I was always defensive and confrontational and I want you to know this video has opened my eyes and actually sank in and now I get it. It may sound crazy I didn't have the tools that I needed to properly work on life and that was working on it with the wrong set of tools and that's why I was failing at compassionate communication. I am so thankful to God that I found this video because before this video I really didn't get it. You have to put yourself in the other person's shoes and look at it from their perspective and I honestly have never done that before in my life and I am 34. I know everyone hears this and may or may not get it but the moment you do actually get it it feels like a spiritual enlightenment and a rebirth. I'm alive and I'm on fire and I'm so glad I found this video because it will help every aspect of my life with how I communicate with everyone.

  • @womenwhodate7643
    @womenwhodate7643 2 года назад +12

    What makes a great video?
    When you feel a lot better after watching it, and you just watch it again to feel even more better. Thanks! ❤️

    • @annachollom2954
      @annachollom2954 2 года назад

      Dr Frank Love Spells can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restore back my broken relationship of 5 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Frank alw ... Read more

    • @annachollom2954
      @annachollom2954 2 года назад

      WhatsApp 🙏🙏him he can help you

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  • @rachelcronin916
    @rachelcronin916 2 года назад +53

    Just be damn sure he is not a narcissist first!

  • @mariahconklin4150
    @mariahconklin4150 2 года назад +5

    By me being vulnerable about my feelings for him he’s been able to open up.

  • @fontedossentimentos
    @fontedossentimentos 2 года назад +6

    Love the "shoulder up" and the "campfire experience"! It's a pity that videocalls (for people at long distance, like me) are face to face and not side by side! I've opened up by letters and I'm encouraging him to do the same, patiently. It's amazing how to love another person comes from a place of compassion and self-love. Compassion is particularly important for men who had bad or toxic experiences in past relationships, and yet are doing the inner work to be in a healthy relationship at some point. Self-love is the foundation for letting things flow, to allow time for the other person to respond, in his own rhythm. It's a dance, and a beautiful one. Thank you so much for sharing your love life with us and your valuable insights! Love from Brazil! 💖☀️🌸

    • @abigealmayowa1001
      @abigealmayowa1001 2 года назад

      l know of a manl who helped me bring my ex back he can also help you just as he did mine, he does a perfect work l' m assuring you, you gonna testify

    • @abigealmayowa1001
      @abigealmayowa1001 2 года назад

      Wha'tsapp him for help

  • @footyfan101ful
    @footyfan101ful 2 года назад +9

    I am currently preparing myself for when I get into a relationship. If I do go in I will definitely come back to remind myself!!

  • @Anna_Vorobushek
    @Anna_Vorobushek Год назад

    Omg, I was sitting facing him, and he was sitting 90 degrees to me. I thought “what a super closed person he is, he can’t even look me in the eyes when speaking sincerely”. I now understand he was being vulnerable. Thank you Mat!!!

  • @sarajackson9386
    @sarajackson9386 2 года назад +3

    I did this with my partner the first time I slept over his, he woke up to find me gone as I had to go for a walk as I found it overwhelming. I came back with coffee for him and explained which he appreciated. Listening to your videos has helped me grow in this way.

    • @annafredo2197
      @annafredo2197 2 года назад

      Hi, get anyone to love or (sp) attracted you. And Alo get your Ex back coming to you begging you for a second chance or pregnancy through the help of (Dr favor helper) he helped me restore my 5 years relationship. Also Ben always keer with his words, iwill advise you to seek his help thank

    • @annafredo2197
      @annafredo2197 2 года назад

      +2348164734900⏯⏯⏯⏯ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up......

    • @annafredo2197
      @annafredo2197 2 года назад

      whatsAzpp him ☝️

  • @jennaayoub5236
    @jennaayoub5236 2 года назад +5

    Loved watching this Mat Boggs video. Great advice--shouldering up, pick a private place, do an activity...to name a few. Watching these videos are a great way to foster the right relationships. Thank you for putting out such great content!

  • @nangamsokani7746
    @nangamsokani7746 2 года назад +4

    I'm trying to get me and my sister to do #5. I want us to build our late mother's collage together so we can talk about our bringing up, what we've learned from each other etc....I want to do this because we now stay together and our kids at our mother's house and this is the first time since I left home when I was 18yrs I'm now 38yrs and I've only saw her during visitations....the reason I want us to talk its because I can see we avoid getting on each other's toes, we avoid talking about us instead we find ourselves talking about other people. I find our relationship to be not as healthy as it should be...

  • @tessapollock80
    @tessapollock80 2 года назад +4

    Your videos are more inviting than other coaches out there. You don't make me feel stupid as a woman.

  • @joycechibwe8065
    @joycechibwe8065 2 года назад +7

    Thanks to you Mat my relationship with my man is really getting stronger..you're a great coach.😉😘💕💕

  • @jaszi33
    @jaszi33 2 года назад +11

    Perfect timing thank you Matt, just had a weekend with my guy & have been using many of your tips. Had a wonderful time, thank you 🙏💛

    • @annachollom2954
      @annachollom2954 2 года назад

      Dr Frank Love Spells can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restore back my broken relationship of 5 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Frank alw ... Read more

    • @annachollom2954
      @annachollom2954 2 года назад

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  • @humanity__1-k4l
    @humanity__1-k4l 2 года назад +15

    Hey, Mat! I am a huge fan of yours and I just want to tell you that I found my true love (my husband❤️) by learning a lot from your videos 😊 Thank you. Keep making more videos 👍

    • @annachollom2954
      @annachollom2954 2 года назад

      Dr Frank Love Spells can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restore back my broken relationship of 5 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Frank alw ... Read more

    • @annachollom2954
      @annachollom2954 2 года назад

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  • @AyuJogaComigo
    @AyuJogaComigo Год назад

    7:05 I've never thought about that, until now. Every time that I'm talking with my dad is side by side. He never talks to me directly in front of me, only when I was a teenager and we fighted. Damn, that was amazing to discover

  • @rachelmoss1967
    @rachelmoss1967 2 года назад +1

    Hi Mat, I absolutely love your no nonsense, straight to the point videos and they have been a huge help to me. I have a question for you and maybe others can join in here as i would be interested in everyones advice. Q: Who should say 'I love you' first? Ive been with my guy 10 months now- All going well, but I feel he is not letting me in emotionally which keeps me firmly on the outside. He may not love me at all of course, but I know he cares for me deeply. It would be good to know as it helps me know if I am on the right track. Is that reasonable thinking or am I barking up the wrong tree with this one?! Many thanks everyone. I love reading the comments! x

  • @alinasocarras9341
    @alinasocarras9341 2 года назад +3

    I love how simple He explains things . Learning a lot from you to put it in practice for when my King find this Queen! 😊

  • @mysoulsayings7273
    @mysoulsayings7273 2 года назад +3

    Thank you for this information! This is SUPER helpful and explains a lot of what has happened in the past. Now knowing this insight, I will handle things differently, as you have said to. In the past, we communicated as you've suggested and it went well but not good across the table staring at each other. Now I know why. Now I know what to do on purpose. This is a very BIG key to us communicating better and more peacefully. THANK YOU VERY MUCH for the insight!

  • @craftswithjeni
    @craftswithjeni Год назад

    Matt, you're a brother I never had never understood men better, after using ur tips n insights my marriage has definitely improved ❤

  • @TheMoonDejesus
    @TheMoonDejesus 2 года назад

    I’ve found touching each other while we talk allows even disagreements to stay loving.

  • @brigittewest5696
    @brigittewest5696 2 года назад +3

    Love this! You are always so positive, uplifting, and helpful!

  • @kayspencer4234
    @kayspencer4234 2 года назад +1

    We live in an area in Michigan with a lot of lakes. A long, slow paddleboat ride sounds perfect!!

  • @maryanneisma3005
    @maryanneisma3005 2 года назад +10

    Thank you for this message it is powerful

  • @janineloftin2151
    @janineloftin2151 2 года назад +4

    This video is so excellent, I watched it twice! Please keep the videos coming. Thanks Matt. Have a blessed weekend.

    • @annachollom2954
      @annachollom2954 2 года назад

      Dr Frank Love Spells can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restore back my broken relationship of 5 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Frank alw ... Read more

    • @annachollom2954
      @annachollom2954 2 года назад

      WhatsApp 🙏🙏him he can help you

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  • @777SO
    @777SO 2 года назад +7

    I always love and appreciate your videos, your time and you dedication Mat thank you for sharing with us it’s amazing🙏🏽. I’m single working on my growth and purpose, let me tell you when Mr “right”will show up I’m gonna be ready ready😌✨. Say hi to Irene. Sending you many blessings from France💙

    • @annachollom2954
      @annachollom2954 2 года назад

      Dr Frank Love Spells can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restore back my broken relationship of 5 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Frank alw ... Read more

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      @annachollom2954 2 года назад

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  • @briannalisaphotography5477
    @briannalisaphotography5477 Год назад

    Loved the one about talking over an activity and not talking just too talk!!

  • @rachelg.2593
    @rachelg.2593 2 года назад +2

    This all applies to marriage too! Thank you for your videos. Great content!

  • @giulz8
    @giulz8 2 года назад +1

    Shoulder up is something that really works great for us, cause he really needs to feel safe and not in conflict spooning and walking work great !

    • @abigealmayowa1001
      @abigealmayowa1001 2 года назад

      l know of a manl who helped me bring my ex back he can also help you just as he did mine, he does a perfect work l' m assuring you, you gonna testify

    • @abigealmayowa1001
      @abigealmayowa1001 2 года назад

      Wha'tsapp him for help

  • @jjc2323
    @jjc2323 2 года назад +4

    The other person must be emotionally available in the first place. Many are not.

    • @giftlarry9037
      @giftlarry9037 2 года назад

      Are you going through manifestation issue or relationship issue, why don't you send a message to this great man who helped me attract my partner back after many years of separation 🕊️🇧🇷....

  • @carolineblanchette7194
    @carolineblanchette7194 8 месяцев назад

    Talks in a long distance car ride are always amazing

  • @sofiasullivan1897
    @sofiasullivan1897 2 года назад +4

    This is such an amazing, insightful video. It’s powerful stuff. I’ve listened to it several times because I believe it is such important information. Thanks Mat for sharing this with us.

    • @tracyspencer1674
      @tracyspencer1674 2 года назад

      Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.

    • @tracyspencer1674
      @tracyspencer1674 2 года назад

      Message him on Whatsapp

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  • @caredfor391
    @caredfor391 2 года назад +7

    A great video ( series ) would be on long distance relationships.

    • @annachollom2954
      @annachollom2954 2 года назад

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    • @annachollom2954
      @annachollom2954 2 года назад

      WhatsApp 🙏🙏him he can help you

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      @annachollom2954 2 года назад

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  • @cohendean4641
    @cohendean4641 10 месяцев назад

    When I shared personal things with my partner, he went and told his family

  • @Milycabrera92
    @Milycabrera92 2 года назад +1

    For me it works giving him space and me I am opening up and sharing my thoughts with him.

    • @rogerfowler3606
      @rogerfowler3606 2 года назад

      My dear I recommend you to a powerful spell man.....

    • @rogerfowler3606
      @rogerfowler3606 2 года назад

      He helped me get back my ex after separation...

    • @rogerfowler3606
      @rogerfowler3606 2 года назад

      Message him via WhatsApp.....

  • @vivianhaywood3194
    @vivianhaywood3194 2 года назад

    Thank you for your video, it's very inspiring to listen to well I will like him to be vulnerable compassionate , confidence, humourous, playful,we can talk about anything thing,not be afraid to share your views on any topics,speak freely , and say what is on his mind, don't be scaredto show how he feels about something,show me that he will love himself on matters what happened,be very vulnerable with me when ever he feels like I will still love him laugh out when he have to ,sing , and dance also cry ,I want him to be himself loosen up and be free, there will be no judgement here,both of us are one we come together as a team, just compassion , and confidence , trust , and believe in yourself because you are great master piece.

  • @magickimanzi2036
    @magickimanzi2036 2 года назад +2

    Lesson learned I like how this man loves
    His woman 👩
    To be vulnerable early on
    Is very good mean you’re
    Free to each other can say and do
    Anything with him
    Good sign

    • @lianakelvin8452
      @lianakelvin8452 2 года назад

      Dr Fred Love Spells can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restore back my broken relationship of 5 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Frank alw ... Read more

    • @lianakelvin8452
      @lianakelvin8452 2 года назад

      WhatsApp 🙏🙏him he can help you

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  • @mcrisantasj8242
    @mcrisantasj8242 2 года назад +1

    I'm very much enjoying your videos and learning a lot from your tips. You're such a wonderful man full of wisdom... an amazing gift from above to us through you! Thank you!

  • @AnnMarks
    @AnnMarks 4 месяца назад

    Watching have been married forever to understand men better in general

  • @hannahhan03
    @hannahhan03 2 года назад +2

    Certain situations, people use your vulnerability against you but I guess that shows they are not ready to be in a relationship with you so you move on.

  • @rozannmoake8146
    @rozannmoake8146 2 года назад +1

    Not saying you’re wrong, just saying...Last time I went fishing with my husband I was talking to him and trying to connect with him and get a conversation going and he said, “you know when you talk it scares the fish away.”
    That was a punch to my heart and my gut and a miserable fishing experience.

    • @annielalrawngbawli
      @annielalrawngbawli 2 года назад

      Wrong timing..esp when they are determined to fish😅

  • @chelseadaley9770
    @chelseadaley9770 2 года назад +1

    My guy is a celebrity and lives all the way out from the east coast and he is still on tour with his brothers. And he really likes to be really quiet about talking about how we really feel about each other even though we both don't know each other yet how can I really tell him how I really about him that if he doesn't really know how I exist

  • @teresadignam2137
    @teresadignam2137 2 года назад +2

    How do you do this in a Long Distance Relationship?

  • @imeldagalant4300
    @imeldagalant4300 2 года назад +2

    Please do talk on age - gap relationships. Man much older or woman much older.

    • @lianakelvin8452
      @lianakelvin8452 2 года назад

      Dr Fred Love Spells can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restore back my broken relationship of 5 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Frank alw ... Read more

    • @lianakelvin8452
      @lianakelvin8452 2 года назад

      WhatsApp 🙏🙏him he can help you

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  • @lschlosberg
    @lschlosberg 2 года назад +1

    Matt, I love this. Curious, in step 4: shoulder up, how do you do this in a long distance relationship? You can’t always wait to have important conversations when your together, so how do you create that on FaceTime, where you are literally facing each other and don’t have the benefit of touch, or being side by side?

  • @Chat8080
    @Chat8080 2 года назад +3

    This IS a gift from you to me. THANK YOU! This might be the most important video you have posted for me to see!

    • @tracyspencer1674
      @tracyspencer1674 2 года назад

      Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.

    • @tracyspencer1674
      @tracyspencer1674 2 года назад

      Message him on Whatsapp

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  • @olgagertje927
    @olgagertje927 2 года назад +1

    Thank you so much for your videos and gifts :) The Self-Love Meditaion is incredible, wonderful ! Great job!

    • @lianakelvin8452
      @lianakelvin8452 2 года назад

      Dr Fred Love Spells can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restore back my broken relationship of 5 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Frank alw ... Read more

    • @lianakelvin8452
      @lianakelvin8452 2 года назад

      WhatsApp 🙏🙏him he can help you

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  • @sanskritikurre182
    @sanskritikurre182 2 года назад

    Mat, for me to open up i really want him to hold my hands and look into my eyes directly and ask with authority... Tell me what is bothering you.....😊😊

  • @ozzyoz5210
    @ozzyoz5210 2 года назад

    LOL! I love the part of being gassy!! We all have that problem!

  • @deliapasqualini970
    @deliapasqualini970 2 года назад +1

    Great video, subject and advise. Thank you.

  • @buffycleaveland8116
    @buffycleaveland8116 2 года назад

    This really is good!! I never saw it like that but I'm trying all of it!

  • @michellemoffett9458
    @michellemoffett9458 2 года назад +1

    The gassy comment was so funny! Lol the Pico de gayo comment made me laugh also.

    • @okafornkiru9100
      @okafornkiru9100 2 года назад

      Dr Fred Love Spells can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restore back my broken relationship of 5 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Frank alw ... Read more

    • @okafornkiru9100
      @okafornkiru9100 2 года назад

      WhatsApp 🙏🙏him he can help you

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  • @TheMomo1109
    @TheMomo1109 2 года назад

    Bro! Priceless advice! Am glad doing the right things. Waiting for the sesame to open up! 😅

  • @jesusliebtdich1112
    @jesusliebtdich1112 2 года назад

    I really appreciate, that your advices are based on human mental Nature. No manipulation tips like some other coaches give. I am a Christian woman and I can only agree with honest stuff. 👍 I don’t watch these type of Videos, but somehow your videos popped up at my timeline. I feel God put them there for a purpose. God bless you, your beautiful wife and your cute kids! They are adorable 🥰 I think your family makes you also a better person = better coach.
    Bye 😊

  • @aaronanddianeschlies1031
    @aaronanddianeschlies1031 2 года назад +2

    Thanks 😊 very helpful.

  • @lisamteti8649
    @lisamteti8649 2 года назад +1

    Hey there Matt can you do something about long distance relationships.... please

  • @aparnapandit_1963
    @aparnapandit_1963 2 года назад

    Thankyou for great advice to work on our relationship

  • @wanjirukarago9308
    @wanjirukarago9308 2 года назад +1

    Why should i even struggle or bother to make him open up? I don't get it it should be automatic

  • @21972012145525
    @21972012145525 2 года назад

    Omg. Talk over an activity 🤦‍♀️😬🤭 I cannot believe I didn’t realize this. I was always the one announcing “we need to talk” which would lead to a fight and instead of talking. We’d be fighting. I miss him so much

  • @user-cp5yi8cr5w
    @user-cp5yi8cr5w 2 года назад

    He said I had gas, snoring, and drooling😅😅😅 … of course I was sleeping. I said oh what a terror … I’m glad he laughed cause I was surely embarrassed.

  • @lwontherez7927
    @lwontherez7927 2 года назад +2

    What do you do when HIS vulnerability feels like an attack on YOU? -like a betrayal (-such as a pornography addiction)? How is he to share this vulnerability with you when it feels like a punch to the gut every time he shares his “mistakes”?

  • @karentranter7806
    @karentranter7806 2 года назад +2

    Hi Mat,
    I love that what your future wife did. Great advice Mat as always thank you xxx 💝

  • @kadijatukeita1050
    @kadijatukeita1050 2 года назад +2

    Thank you 😊🙏🏻

  • @maepascual6918
    @maepascual6918 2 года назад

    Thanks for the advice Mat!

  • @jeraldinesayon5400
    @jeraldinesayon5400 2 года назад

    Thanks very much, I will try all.

  • @violetacamps8573
    @violetacamps8573 Год назад

    Thank a lot for the valuable advice

  • @CV-sv5si
    @CV-sv5si 2 года назад

    This is soo good. This insight is for any relationship.

    • @giftlarry9037
      @giftlarry9037 2 года назад

      Are you going through manifestation issue or relationship issue, why don't you send a message to this great man who helped me attract my partner back after many years of separation 🕊️🇧🇷..

  • @oluwadamilolaoriade5426
    @oluwadamilolaoriade5426 Год назад

    I'm going to try this to see if there's any changes hopefully

  • @matboggs
    @matboggs  2 года назад +1

    Want to attract an emotionally available man? Check out this program: www.bravethinkinginstitute.com/love-relationships/resources/mym/offer/strategy-session

  • @edithmasitsa5529
    @edithmasitsa5529 2 года назад

    Thanks ,much blessed

  • @RedHybiscus
    @RedHybiscus 5 месяцев назад

    Help your man open up? Lol. He will do that when he feels real love and support; as well as loves in return. Reflecting back on a relationship I had that ended after 6months, I never got to a place where I really felt any level of safety to be vulnerable and really talk about the more real aspects of myself.

  • @debrasmothers
    @debrasmothers 2 года назад +2

    I have been divorced for 5 years I have been stood up Twice and I just can’t find anyone to go out with I even told Guy who is about to get married that a part of me died inside when I found out that He was getting married and I am stupid that I told him that I wanted to go out with him

    • @tracyspencer1674
      @tracyspencer1674 2 года назад

      Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.

    • @tracyspencer1674
      @tracyspencer1674 2 года назад

      Message him on Whatsapp

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      @tracyspencer1674 2 года назад

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    • @giftlarry9037
      @giftlarry9037 2 года назад

      Are you going through manifestation issue or relationship issue, why don't you send a message to this great man who helped me attract my partner back after many years of separation 🕊️🇧🇷.. Me

  • @AnnieKopf
    @AnnieKopf 4 месяца назад

    “Hey would you like some more pico de gallo?” That is so funny, I laughed so hard! Awesome video, Mat!

  • @somachowdhury9672
    @somachowdhury9672 2 года назад

    you are amazing ..like the way you speak...its so motivating ....

    • @somachowdhury9672
      @somachowdhury9672 2 года назад

      plz give your phone no.to reach out personally ...like to get some additional suggestions

  • @armidacatampatan9129
    @armidacatampatan9129 2 года назад

    Awesome thoughts Mat thanks, me as a single wishing myself, and I will re-watch this video

  • @gandajenn82
    @gandajenn82 2 года назад +3

    Now I know how to handle my relationship with my fiance thnks

    • @annachollom2954
      @annachollom2954 2 года назад

      Dr Frank Love Spells can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restore back my broken relationship of 5 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Frank alw ... Read more

    • @annachollom2954
      @annachollom2954 2 года назад

      WhatsApp 🙏🙏him he can help you

  • @shabnumkhan8936
    @shabnumkhan8936 2 года назад +5

    How do you do all of this with a narcissist?
    A narcissist when u are vulnerable and talk about your past they judge you

    • @KyuMandaCho
      @KyuMandaCho 2 года назад +2

      The answer is…don’t. Just don’t be with a narcissist. At the end of the day, you’ll be the one left drained and it’s honestly just not worth losing your mental well-being and peace over.

    • @isabellalau3687
      @isabellalau3687 2 года назад +1

      The answer is - you don’t have a relationship with a narcissist. The only thing you do with narcissists is to leave them.

    • @shabnumkhan8936
      @shabnumkhan8936 2 года назад

      @@KyuMandaCho the narcissist pretended to be someone he was not anf now I'm married to him its been 8months and my life is so miserable financially he provides everything but emotionally 💔😔 I'm broken

    • @shabnumkhan8936
      @shabnumkhan8936 2 года назад

      @@isabellalau3687 it's hard Isabella as I have rushed into a marriage with him his all about himself in every aspect of the marriage I even signed a prenuptial and left my job and moved to his place which is 3hrs from home

    • @marrencebaraquiel
      @marrencebaraquiel 2 года назад

      Run!

  • @kimasp7482
    @kimasp7482 2 года назад

    "I had a case of gassy ass last night and I wanted to do my part to save the world and you! You're welcome *smooch!"...LMAO