Plus, he probably really didn't need to see that much of her family. They were settled in a totally different part of England. Elizabeth was Mrs. Bennet's least favorite daughter. Her most-embarassing sister married a man who was keen to avoid Darcy.
@@harringt100 Plus his wife's favourite sister married his best friend. They'd probably never have to see the family without them there too, and he could just throw Bingley at them to run interference.
@@xyrnys1454 Agreed! I always had difficulty as a kid watching Lucille Ball in “I Love Lucy” because I was so embarrassed for her that I couldn’t view it as humor.
If we modern folk find Lizzy’s family embarrassing, then in the Regency era among the upper class this behavior was social suicide only salvaged by the fact that Jane is a great beauty and a polite lady while Lizzy is witty, pretty, and also mostly proper.
This is actually why rural living suited Mrs. Bennet. In London society she would have been the subject of open scorn even worse than Caroline could dish out.
@@JayAr709 Gross. They are both wonderful women, just both have different strenghts and weaknesses. Jane is intelligent, but keeps more of her thoughts to herself, and is much more kind and gentle, optimistic which may be a bit naive. The beauty of her character is quieter, often less appreciated, but she has an extremely strong moral spine, and an insight that Lizzie overlooks. Lizzie on the other side is more sharp in her intelligence, witty, and almost more cynical. These are certainly traits more appreciated in these days, but saying that they are not in the same league, despite both of them admiring themselves and deeply loving each other is bizzare.
The secondhand embarrassment I get from her family is on another level. Darcy had a point - although he shouldn't have made it during the proposal lol.
It was a cute touch that Mary brought her music with her, and the way she marches to the pianoforte before Bingley could finish his sentence. Also Mr. Bennet's line, "Thank you Mary, you have delighted us long enough" is one of my favorites.
@@A_keoDarcy be like: I can't even right now. My social anxiety is rendering me unable to speak. Bingley: You have to deal with it, Darcy. Ask one of them to dance already. *Mrs. Bennet in the background complaining that Darcy is a proud jerk* Darcy: This is just making it worse. No. *walks off*
Yep, but perhaps he should not have rubbed it into a woman he loves after she turned down his proposal hahaha. Though if he didn't then Lizzie would not delivered that great speach about his flaws and set him on a journey of self-improvement.
That's true, but it's hardly her fault, can't choose family. Not to mention his bombastic aunt with god complex is also quite embarrassing. Only difference is she has enough status to act that ridiculously.
@@InternetNonsense Darcy would partially agree I feel like, otherwise he never would've become smitten. Another part of him *did* extend the judgment to Elizabeth (Thinking of the "congratulate myself on the hope of relations so decidedly below my own" thing here.....she IS part of that family you've just insulted my guy), but that's not what I meant when I called him not partially wrong. He may have misread Jane egregiously but I think most people would see her the same way with a family like theirs. Elizabeth could've done more to distance the two of them from her mother and other sisters. But....I also get it. My sister is a total Lydia and I'd smack someone who insulted her. It's so hard to be the most reasonable one in your family and still love them.
@@pativi6643 Both of them fumbled it really. Elizabeth being a Wickham apologist aged like milk. But I mean, ditto girl. I thought he was all right at first too. 🤦♀
Poor Lizzie and Jane. As much as they love their family and are fiercely loyal to them, they can be quite an embarrassment, especially Mrs. Bennet whom you would think would be more mature. I also agree with some in the comments about Darcy having a point regarding the Bennet family behavior. As harsh as he was in saying this during the proposal, Darcy was giving a very blunt assessment of how awful the family's social behavior was. Even Lizzie, upon self-reflection, had to admit how embarrassing their behavior was. I do feel for Mary though. I think she has the most potential to become a more mature person if given the right guidance.
I could feel the tension of embarrassment from this whole scene. Even as a teenager I cringed the whole time I still cringe and hide behind my pillow 😂😅
@@solarqueen2555 Agreed! He makes one’s skin crawl and to start looking for the exits. Terrific acting! It makes you understand the pitiful position of women like Charlotte, who has such a bright mind and wit, would agree to marry him knowing she would suffer that daily! Interesting characters.
It's really only the last scene that salvages Mrs. Bennett. She knew to give Mr. Bingley and Jane enough time to connect. Considering what children needed to endure back then, we're lucky that our reputations aren't dependent on our families.
3:10 Darcy was an arse too. Even if Mr. Colins broke the rules by talking to Mr. Darcy without having been introduced, Darcy could have dealt with it with more grace. Leaving someone while he it talking to you is extremely rude.
Did he actually walk away in the book? In the Kiera Knightly adaptation I remember he just kind of stood there, Elizabeth left and so it was impossible to see what happened after that
С точки зрения сегодняшнего дня Дарси поступил очень заносчиво. Что в этом такого, что Коллинз, даже будучи отвратным, подошёл к Дарси и по-доброму поговорил с ним? Унижающие человеческое достоинство традиции.
I have often thought that these actors and actresses who have real prowess in music must be supreme in their acting abilities to be able to butcher the music in their roles so believably.
The song Mary sings in this scene is "Ombra mai fu" from Handel's opera "Serse" (Xerxes). In the original, Serse sings to a tree, praising its vast beauties. Here are the original words with English translation: Ombra mai fu di vegetabile, cara ed amabile, soave più. Never was a shade of any plant dearer and more lovely, or more sweet.
From the book, I never thought Mary was _bad_ at singing and playing, just continually trying to show off above her skill level so sounding affected. So maybe faltering, but not off-key.
Актриса, играющая Мери прекрасно справилась со своей ролью. Очень натурально и комично. Роли второго плана - блестящи. Это понимаешь после нескольких просмотров. Всё Сошлось!
They picked the absolute wrong actress for Caroline Bingely. This woman is downright hideous, so every interaction with Darcey seemed ridiculous and like she literally had no chance. In the book Caroline was a snobbish girl, but she was also described as very handsome/pretty. The 2006 adaption with Kiera had better casting from a looks perspective.
I must disagree with this thought, she looks so fine and based on what I have read in some comments she is the great great great (idk how many great) niece of Jane Austen! Well The google confirmed this too.. she's really splendid for me..
I can’t believe Darcy actually went through with the marriage with this level of embarrassment 😂. He must have truly loved her.
His Aunt, Lady Catherine, contributed a lot of cringe to the story. It was his turn to be embarrassed when he and Lizzy were in her company.
Plus, he probably really didn't need to see that much of her family. They were settled in a totally different part of England. Elizabeth was Mrs. Bennet's least favorite daughter. Her most-embarassing sister married a man who was keen to avoid Darcy.
@@harringt100 Plus his wife's favourite sister married his best friend. They'd probably never have to see the family without them there too, and he could just throw Bingley at them to run interference.
I'm dying by 2nd embarrassment. Poor Lizzie and Jane
@@xyrnys1454 Agreed! I always had difficulty as a kid watching Lucille Ball in “I Love Lucy” because I was so embarrassed for her that I couldn’t view it as humor.
If we modern folk find Lizzy’s family embarrassing, then in the Regency era among the upper class this behavior was social suicide only salvaged by the fact that Jane is a great beauty and a polite lady while Lizzy is witty, pretty, and also mostly proper.
I didn't see any "great beauty" and "prettiness", I saw two very ugly women playing Elizabeth and Jane. However I agree about the social suicide.
Jane is not in the same league as Elizabeth Bennet.
@@JayAr709 Hey, let’s not disparage Jane. She’s intelligent too just not a wit.
This is actually why rural living suited Mrs. Bennet. In London society she would have been the subject of open scorn even worse than Caroline could dish out.
@@JayAr709 Gross. They are both wonderful women, just both have different strenghts and weaknesses. Jane is intelligent, but keeps more of her thoughts to herself, and is much more kind and gentle, optimistic which may be a bit naive. The beauty of her character is quieter, often less appreciated, but she has an extremely strong moral spine, and an insight that Lizzie overlooks. Lizzie on the other side is more sharp in her intelligence, witty, and almost more cynical. These are certainly traits more appreciated in these days, but saying that they are not in the same league, despite both of them admiring themselves and deeply loving each other is bizzare.
The secondhand embarrassment I get from her family is on another level. Darcy had a point - although he shouldn't have made it during the proposal lol.
It was a cute touch that Mary brought her music with her, and the way she marches to the pianoforte before Bingley could finish his sentence. Also Mr. Bennet's line, "Thank you Mary, you have delighted us long enough" is one of my favorites.
3:28 the dog barking while Mary sings 🤣
Thank god I wasn’t born in this time period. I’m far too socially awkward and blunt to be in these situations. 😂😫
Same
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Tbf so was Mr Darcy
@@A_keoDarcy be like: I can't even right now. My social anxiety is rendering me unable to speak. Bingley: You have to deal with it, Darcy. Ask one of them to dance already. *Mrs. Bennet in the background complaining that Darcy is a proud jerk* Darcy: This is just making it worse. No. *walks off*
Let's be real, we'd die young in a chimney sweeping accident.
Bless Lizzie's patience, I can't believe she didn't walk out on her family even once.
Exactly why you *can't* say Darcy was wholly in the wrong. Her family is enough to make anyone sink down off their seat under the table.
Yep, but perhaps he should not have rubbed it into a woman he loves after she turned down his proposal hahaha. Though if he didn't then Lizzie would not delivered that great speach about his flaws and set him on a journey of self-improvement.
That's true, but it's hardly her fault, can't choose family. Not to mention his bombastic aunt with god complex is also quite embarrassing. Only difference is she has enough status to act that ridiculously.
@@InternetNonsense Darcy would partially agree I feel like, otherwise he never would've become smitten. Another part of him *did* extend the judgment to Elizabeth (Thinking of the "congratulate myself on the hope of relations so decidedly below my own" thing here.....she IS part of that family you've just insulted my guy), but that's not what I meant when I called him not partially wrong.
He may have misread Jane egregiously but I think most people would see her the same way with a family like theirs. Elizabeth could've done more to distance the two of them from her mother and other sisters. But....I also get it. My sister is a total Lydia and I'd smack someone who insulted her. It's so hard to be the most reasonable one in your family and still love them.
@@pativi6643 Both of them fumbled it really. Elizabeth being a Wickham apologist aged like milk. But I mean, ditto girl. I thought he was all right at first too. 🤦♀
Poor Lizzie and Jane. As much as they love their family and are fiercely loyal to them, they can be quite an embarrassment, especially Mrs. Bennet whom you would think would be more mature. I also agree with some in the comments about Darcy having a point regarding the Bennet family behavior. As harsh as he was in saying this during the proposal, Darcy was giving a very blunt assessment of how awful the family's social behavior was. Even Lizzie, upon self-reflection, had to admit how embarrassing their behavior was.
I do feel for Mary though. I think she has the most potential to become a more mature person if given the right guidance.
Poor Mary is going through her cringe teen years. It gets better, Mary. It gets better!!!
LOL!
The funny thing about Mary's preformance is the song is not even party music.
It’s a funeral song.... when it’s properly sung.
I didn't know that!!! Oh dear. Poor Mary. @@Nikita-qb7xd
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The words Mary sings in this scene are not the original ones. This is "Ombra mai fu" from Handel's opera "Serse" (Xerxes).
I could feel the tension of embarrassment from this whole scene. Even as a teenager I cringed the whole time I still cringe and hide behind my pillow 😂😅
Oh my. The actor for mr collins - where did they find this man! He is terrific 😄
The "odious" Mr Collins (not Dr)
@@solarqueen2555 Agreed! He makes one’s skin crawl and to start looking for the exits. Terrific acting! It makes you understand the pitiful position of women like Charlotte, who has such a bright mind and wit, would agree to marry him knowing she would suffer that daily! Interesting characters.
I hate to say that I understand this type of embarrassment first hand and that is why I love this soo much .So unfortunate grrr
It's really only the last scene that salvages Mrs. Bennett. She knew to give Mr. Bingley and Jane enough time to connect. Considering what children needed to endure back then, we're lucky that our reputations aren't dependent on our families.
3:10 Darcy was an arse too. Even if Mr. Colins broke the rules by talking to Mr. Darcy without having been introduced, Darcy could have dealt with it with more grace. Leaving someone while he it talking to you is extremely rude.
Did he actually walk away in the book? In the Kiera Knightly adaptation I remember he just kind of stood there, Elizabeth left and so it was impossible to see what happened after that
In the book he listens, nods and then leaves. Nothing quite so rude.
Exactly. There might have been social rules and there is courtesy.
С точки зрения сегодняшнего дня Дарси поступил очень заносчиво. Что в этом такого, что Коллинз, даже будучи отвратным, подошёл к Дарси и по-доброму поговорил с ним? Унижающие человеческое достоинство традиции.
NOT if you hadn’t been introduced. It is abominable rudeness to converse without an introduction. All Darcy could do was walk away.
Thanks for uploading these scenes from the best adaptation of P&P.
Goodness gracious, the cringe is real hahaha
I have often thought that these actors and actresses who have real prowess in music must be supreme in their acting abilities to be able to butcher the music in their roles so believably.
Omg. I'm feeling for her
The song Mary sings in this scene is "Ombra mai fu" from Handel's opera "Serse" (Xerxes). In the original, Serse sings to a tree, praising its vast beauties. Here are the original words with English translation:
Ombra mai fu
di vegetabile,
cara ed amabile,
soave più.
Never was a shade
of any plant
dearer and more lovely,
or more sweet.
From the book, I never thought Mary was _bad_ at singing and playing, just continually trying to show off above her skill level so sounding affected. So maybe faltering, but not off-key.
I am dying for Lizzy
Lydias mannerisms
Worst..
How she Embarasses...😱
Mr. Collins should have been with Mary.
Ha ha Jane Austin’s humour is funny
If Charles Bingley was born in the 21th century, he would be a mesiah, given his extreme goodness towards this family lol
Oh my gosh that singing was atrocious🙄🙄🙄🙄🤣🤣🤣
Актриса, играющая Мери прекрасно справилась со своей ролью. Очень натурально и комично. Роли второго плана - блестящи. Это понимаешь после нескольких просмотров. Всё Сошлось!
I thought winking is a bit too much! Very embarrassing mother!
Миссис Беннет очень хорошо подсобила Бингли сделать предложение Джейн. Он был даже рад, что все ушли, и с пониманием отнесся к попыткам миссис Беннет.
Fortunately, Bingley will someday be able to stick Mrs. Bennet in some dowager home - likely surrounded by a high stone wall funded by Mr. Darcy.
Jane and Lizzie single handedly keeping their cool and keeping the family from obliterating
I miss reading and watching this!!!
Teaching Mama feminism. You do not thank him for asking you to dance.
What was the name of the piano piece played by bingley's sister ?
Mary is rather pretty in this version, but how she can't sing and be so unaware of it.😂
Oh my god 😮
They picked the absolute wrong actress for Caroline Bingely. This woman is downright hideous, so every interaction with Darcey seemed ridiculous and like she literally had no chance. In the book Caroline was a snobbish girl, but she was also described as very handsome/pretty. The 2006 adaption with Kiera had better casting from a looks perspective.
Hideous? That seems like a bit of an intense description for a woman who looks plain at worst lol. She looks fine to me.
I must disagree with this thought, she looks so fine and based on what I have read in some comments she is the great great great (idk how many great) niece of Jane Austen! Well The google confirmed this too.. she's really splendid for me..
Anna Chancellor is stunning! and smashes the role.
She's beautiful. And a good actress. And Austen's great great...... niece
Not hideous, but I never found the actress attractive either, she has sharp features. She usually plays antagonists in movies.