The Procrastination Puzzle: Unmasking Hidden Emotions for Productivity with Dani Donovan

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  • Опубликовано: 1 ноя 2022
  • Join us for an eye-opening discussion with Dani Donovan as she delves into the hidden emotions that often drive chronic procrastination.
    In this fresh and engaging talk, Dani provides a unique perspective on the root causes of procrastination and sheds light on why conventional productivity advice falls short for many of us. With her characteristic authenticity, vulnerability, and humor, she dissects the common negative emotions that hinder our productivity and offers practical solutions to overcome them. Don't miss this opportunity to gain valuable insights into the psychology of procrastination!
    To find more resources and information about ADHD, visit adhdonline.com

Комментарии • 74

  • @ra7e
    @ra7e 9 месяцев назад +5

    I bought the anti-planner about 2 months ago. I was stuck in so many ways, but Anti-planner has been like a gentle friend, telling me it's okay to feel everything that I feel. There are so many emotions when you are stuck, the problems are magnified and you feel stagnated with negative feelings. But this book right here, guided me in writing my feelings down, dissecting them and understand what they actually represent. Or if you feel negative about something, you learn to reframe them in this book.
    Dani Donovan, I know you also struggled to finish the book and get it published. But you getting over your wall, helped 1000s of people like me daily to get over ours.
    Thank you, from the bottom of my heart! ❤

  • @PeterReid-uz1mu
    @PeterReid-uz1mu Год назад +103

    I just watched the video and I spent the whole time crying from fear of false hope, I'm a 53 year old man who's failed for more years then you've been alive. Even among those that have ADHD I'm broken by comparison. I've just ordered your book, even if it helps me to accomplish just one thing it will be a miracle. I think I'll watch the video again. ;)

    • @sammakesitsimple6827
      @sammakesitsimple6827 Год назад +3

      Some Spirit led inspiration and just one focused intention at a time... Learning your design with helpers like this channel and ADHD Jessie will help :) Also one main issue (of course you prob know this) for us is lack of dopamine. Be sure to research food & daily habits which affect your microbiome in regard to dopmanine or hinder production.

    • @sammakesitsimple6827
      @sammakesitsimple6827 Год назад +4

      I have had your experience over and over. No judgment. Sharing hope, that is all

    • @lauraholzler1417
      @lauraholzler1417 Год назад +2

      No judgment here, only encouragement.

    • @sedaada
      @sedaada Год назад +2

      Aww this is heartbreaking but sweet. I’m so sorry

    • @sedaada
      @sedaada Год назад

      @@sammakesitsimple6827this is very helpful

  • @Waaagghhh
    @Waaagghhh Месяц назад

    I had no idea about who you was, and how useful this would be - and in the opening moments I turned the video off and went to do other things - but then I came back and got past the first few minutes of the session essentially just 'loading' - but once you began I COULD NOT TURN AWAY! I was HOOKED and hanging on every word - never seen myself take so many notes, pausing the video, and then thinking how it applied OR when it DID NOT to me - and what could I use - and overall by the end I ended up feeling so enthused and excited - and that's not happened in a LONG TIME - so thank you for this incredible gift

  • @sedaada
    @sedaada Год назад +20

    I’ve never felt so understood (outside of when I met my psychologist). “Feeling worthless if you can’t be of service” was literally 90% of my self hate before. Thankfully I’m better to myself now but I still feel disappointed in myself when I am unproductive for a prolonged period of time. Trying to work on reminding myself that I’m like this for a reason & it’s not my fault ❤

  • @carriemou3678
    @carriemou3678 Год назад +4

    Ha! Love this! Never got my rear bumper repaired after a truck backed into it (not my fault) because it was too much to deal with.
    And, ok, one more dog video and then I'll go clean the kitchen....hours later, now it's time for bed.... And, yikes! it's the end of the month and I have over 300 charts to close! Supervisor to me later: you must not be motivated by money.... And, makes me wonder how much $ I've lost over my lifetime from financial penalties, late fees, reinstatement fees, yada yada yada!

  • @trishaann3489
    @trishaann3489 Год назад +2

    Just watching this now. Feb 6 2023. I’m truly grateful for this webinar.

  • @fanweibhatter487
    @fanweibhatter487 Год назад +7

    found a review of this book while procrastinating, I must have this!

  • @Steffi.EchoGraphix
    @Steffi.EchoGraphix Год назад +15

    14:11 this is me with EVERYTHING I find as a personal interest. I have researched and purchased materials for at least 10 different hobbies and am currently able to get started in NOTHING. I was also only diagnosed with ADD without hyperactivity on 12/07/22 at 57 years old, the day before I had Gastric Bypass surgery.

    • @charitygoldart
      @charitygoldart Год назад +1

      I hear you & I can relate! I hope you get to have some fun actually doing things with your hobbies soon. x

  • @trishaofstad5924
    @trishaofstad5924 5 месяцев назад

    This is the most relatable and clearest description of procrastination I’ve ever come across! Thank you, Dani. The $$$ I’ve wasted on books, tools, and classes trying to “fix” myself over the years is ridiculous.

  • @cathywestholt5324
    @cathywestholt5324 Год назад +5

    I really needed this! I am trying to get a quilt done for a Christmas gift. I am off work until Friday, so I have two more days 🙄 I made the mistake of telling someone at work that I am doing this. She checks on my progress, which is slow. I start sewing walk away and then who knows how long before I go back.

  • @jennw6809
    @jennw6809 Год назад +8

    Body doubling may not be "fun" in and of itself but it sure makes things a lot more fun! And I find it buffers emotional dysregulation. It's at least as helpful as my meds, maybe more!

  • @JimmieHammel
    @JimmieHammel Год назад +6

    If you like getting streaks, but want to avoid the negative mindset of "oh I've screwed it up, so now I'll just quit," give yourself PTO. Even jobs get weekends. So I have a set number of days per year I can miss without losing the streak, that way if I'm sick or I just forget, I use a day of PTO.

  • @kianabrown6631
    @kianabrown6631 Год назад +8

    My God Dani, you explain me better than I can explain myself... I know because I've tried!
    I bought your Anti-Planner and am super eccited for it!!

  • @tammyvalin4906
    @tammyvalin4906 Год назад +3

    Your book will make a fortune

  • @Mz.Stephanie
    @Mz.Stephanie Год назад +2

    Wow! I have a tribe out there!!!

  • @vallr-humans9121
    @vallr-humans9121 Год назад +2

    I have already ordered one. I am waiting anxiously 😭😭😭😭

  • @manifestalight5295
    @manifestalight5295 Год назад +3

    Dani, what an amazing woman you are! Thank you so much for all of your hard work and dedication. I have never been diagnosed with ADHD, even though I resonate with each bullet point you have discussed. Just like I was never diagnosed with depression until I actually started planning .... and then the doctors listened to me. I was "too functional" to be depressed, just like I am too functional to have ADHD. Anyhow, since I work in the medical field, cannibus is not accepted, and that was my ADHD medication. Living on cortisol is way too damaging and am working on aleviating my adrenal fatigue. I am SO EXCITED to receive your Anti-planner. I feel like this is really going to help me out and elevate me to the next level of my life! Thank you, Thank you, Thank you!

  • @3jhe
    @3jhe Год назад +2

    I can sooooooooo relate to this!!!!! Subscribing ! And blessings to you, Dani! 🙏

  • @paisleypeacock1001
    @paisleypeacock1001 Год назад

    I have to get this book!!

  • @alex3dmc
    @alex3dmc Год назад

    thank you Dani x

  • @relocationbroker
    @relocationbroker 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you

  • @ashleygraham1697
    @ashleygraham1697 Год назад +1

    You have excellent taste in music and hobbies

  • @hemlybarsch8607
    @hemlybarsch8607 11 месяцев назад

    very creative amazing

  • @neon_Nomad
    @neon_Nomad Год назад

    WOO!

  • @charmedpipper1
    @charmedpipper1 Год назад +1

    Vey late, surprised to find this exists but: WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!

  • @Mz.Stephanie
    @Mz.Stephanie Год назад

    WOOHOO!!!

  • @JimmieHammel
    @JimmieHammel Год назад

    I clicked on this 100% because of the little dude drawn down in the corner. He's so cute.

  • @PaintedPonyFurniture
    @PaintedPonyFurniture Год назад +2

    This video just showed up in my feed and I’m so glad that it did! It’s like you are describing me EXACTLY! I would love to buy your book but I don’t know where to find it.

    • @JRskatrPvP
      @JRskatrPvP Год назад

      Have you tried googling it? I googled it tonight and pre-ordered my copy :)

  • @debbiedebbie9473
    @debbiedebbie9473 Год назад +1

    Please put like nos to your books and planner, etc underneath the video. ♥️

  • @stashaholic
    @stashaholic Год назад +5

    Will you be releasing a digital version? Looks amazing but exchange and shipping would put it close to $100

    • @charitygoldart
      @charitygoldart Год назад

      I would also really like a digital version so I can open it in an app like Goodnotes & write on the pages on my iPad.

  • @Dontwantahandle111
    @Dontwantahandle111 Год назад +4

    The fact that this is geared toward ADHD people, and is an hour long, made me laugh 😂

    • @bucpeti
      @bucpeti Год назад +7

      Well, if you can awaken the interest of ADHD people for some topic, I think you can not imagine, how long we can be motivated to soak up information...

    • @TheAlchemist1089
      @TheAlchemist1089 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@bucpetithe stuff she said was very relatable, that's what caught my interest, and i can't believe i watched the whole thing lol (1 hour went by so quick)

  • @lynntheuns7823
    @lynntheuns7823 9 месяцев назад

    Hi, is there anyway I can buy the book in Belgium. I looked and doesn't seem to be available in Belgium?

  • @mielimedina3146
    @mielimedina3146 8 месяцев назад

    WOOOO

  • @ketnetty
    @ketnetty Год назад +1

    Did you by any chance make a notebook called "anti planner" about the subject? I can recognize the illustrations. I'm planning on buying it, really need help on this matter

  • @vallr-humans9121
    @vallr-humans9121 Год назад +3

    Hi Dani . Thanks for the wonderful book. I am from India. I did not find your book on Flipkart or Amazon. On your website it does not take my complete address. I want to purchase it and I am excited too 🙂

    • @TheAlchemist1089
      @TheAlchemist1089 5 месяцев назад

      It might not ship to India.
      You might have to email her for a digital copy or check her website 😊

  • @fornieve9471
    @fornieve9471 8 месяцев назад

    Im gonna save this video... To watch later

  • @clairesimon9265
    @clairesimon9265 Год назад

    Whoooooooo!!! 😁💚

  • @julianne8645
    @julianne8645 Год назад +5

    Everything you describe is me 😂 when is the anti planner available in the UK?

    • @MoonShadeStuff
      @MoonShadeStuff Год назад

      You can buy it worldwide (I’m living in Germany and it’s arriving tomorrow), but you missed the first wave, more books are coming in spring I believe.

    • @bunnipop1867
      @bunnipop1867 Год назад

      @@MoonShadeStuff How are you getting updates about tracking? My mom recently emailed Danis team about updates and was told that because it hadn't been fulfilled (but is at the fulfillment center??) they couldn't provide me any tracking number. Apparently the company they're working with right now has a glitch where tracking numbers aren't tied to email addresses so they'd have to manually give one to me. They didn't say whether or not they'd email me back with an update later.

  • @anniekissbel
    @anniekissbel Год назад

    woooooo!!!

  • @vallr-humans9121
    @vallr-humans9121 Год назад +1

    Hey why is the release date postponed from April 2023 to 31 May 2023. ?????😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @vallr-humans9121
    @vallr-humans9121 Год назад +1

    Hey why is the release date postponed from April 2023 to 31 May 2023??????😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @RichardDuinmayer
    @RichardDuinmayer Год назад

    Whooooooh

  • @tammymckinley7564
    @tammymckinley7564 Год назад +2

    Whoo

  • @hemlybarsch8607
    @hemlybarsch8607 11 месяцев назад

    I'm brazilian so I apologize my english. I have a problem I if anybody have an idea please tell me. I go through weeks when i just do absolutely nothing, I dont have clear in mind all my "to dos" i just do nothing and dont have will power to even check my lists or start anything. When i see how much thinking people put in order to motivate themselves with techniques like those, it seems to me like i dont have the vision of the importance of the things i should do as other people have or seems like the time has no deadline ever and i will never have enough discipline to keep motivating myself, i feel i will love the techniques and than forget about them. What am I doing wrong?

    • @TheAlchemist1089
      @TheAlchemist1089 5 месяцев назад

      You're not doing anything wrong.
      You're just different, that's ok, that's good.
      Find what works for you

  • @morpheus-sonofsleep7670
    @morpheus-sonofsleep7670 Год назад

    Is this the book just in slides?

    • @frank.conway
      @frank.conway Год назад +1

      No, plenty more tools per section

  • @aloralove7546
    @aloralove7546 Год назад

    WHHHOOOIOOOOOOOOO!!!!

  • @ancapopa9038
    @ancapopa9038 Год назад +6

    Anti planner ordered… adhd or not, we all live through these issues Dani :)

  • @clnclaudiero
    @clnclaudiero Год назад

    W.O.O.O.O

  • @hectorarredondo4426
    @hectorarredondo4426 Год назад

    okay, I will watch this video, but later

  • @candicerivere8015
    @candicerivere8015 Год назад

    WWWHHHHOOOOOOOOOOOOWWWWWWWWWWW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @bltlove2005
    @bltlove2005 11 месяцев назад

    I love this I just wish you didn’t use foul language in the anti-planner.

  • @vallr-humans9121
    @vallr-humans9121 Год назад +1

    Hey why is the release date postponed from April 2023 to 31 May 2023??????😭😭😭😭😭😭😭