PixlatedGamer i've been like that a looong time, but it got worst about 2 years and a half by now and it's not like you focus on bad things, sometimes it isn't that easy, for example if you don't have the therapy you need or just all the things happening are too much, so i hope you seek for help, feeling like that is horrible and nobody should feel like that for so long :c
What they mean is that at any given time you might feel good about something, or bad about something, or maybe indifferent. You don't necessarily feel exactly one emotion every second of the day. Like, maybe you had a tasty meal, or talked to a friend, or finished a project so you feel happiness, or relief, or excitement. But then, maybe someone was mean to you, or you didn't sleep, or you forgot to do something you said you would and so you feel sad, or tired, or angry, or anxious. But those feelings don't go on forever, eventually something different will happen and you'll move on to thinking about something else. BUT! You might be in a particular situation that is causing you the same trouble every single day. Every time you think about it you feel bad and you think about it a lot. Well, if it's in your power to change something about your situation, then do that thing. If it is not in your power to change anything, then you have to accept it. That is difficult. I'm not just saying this to dismiss your pain because I have to deal with something similar myself. I'm just saying that we do have to accept those negative things that we cannot change. Then we can focus on the sorts of things that might make us feel a little better.
It's been at least 15 years for me because I've had existential depression for most of my life. Nothing helps; not meds, not therapy, not even keeping myself so busy that I can't think. People who think that pain is temporary and that life is a good thing are blissfully ignorant, and I envy them.
1- pain is temporary 2- realize you can turn things around 3- allow what you can’t control to just be 4- you’re not alone 5- it’s ok to break, starting over is worth it
There is pain that never goes away, that can never heal because it was so wrong to begin you can't possibly bear to cope with because what comes after, how it changes you how, the realization that the entire world will never be the same and your entire outlook on life is shattered. Especially when you should have died before them.
Showed this to my girlfriend who has been acting suicidal recently, she started crying and hugged me... Think you helped me save her, thank you so much!
I'm learning a valuable lesson through my healing from a traumatic event: to give myself some of the compassion I kept giving to everyone else. I'm practising being kinder to myself and looking out for myself a whole lot more than I used to.
Natatattatification not sure what the specifics of what you’re going thru are, but I can relate to the actualization of caring for myself and the immediate wellbeing of myself and those close to me whom play a pivotal role in my happiness. In other words, I went thru 8 years of abusive intimate relationships of varying degrees and have since come out with more than three years past having re-energized my focus. It’s about expending the select, critical free time that you have to offer to those that genuinely make a meaningful impact on your life. Don’t waste your time on ppl whose importance fluctuates in your life, instead focus on the ride or die ppl who are with you in the long haul. They’re gna have the greatest impact and skin in the game on your happiness and genuinely care ab that happiness first and foremost. Those ppl matter. I wish you the best in life and I hope you know that I’m sending positive vibes ~*~ your way.
Sarah Hamilfan Umm... you don't have to tell if you don't feel comfortable about it, but do you have someone in your life who you feel really close to? :)
I fall apart multiple times but I always made it. I don't know how many times I have hitted rock bottom and I also don't know for how long I'll keep up. I just hope I make it today and worry about tomorrow when it comes.
"What do I do to keep holding on?" I remind myself of how amazing the world is, and the people in it. I remind myself that me keeping on, will soon contribute to their own immeasurable joy. Everything comes full circle, that is what keeps me going.
1. Staying CALM in adversity will prevent things from falling apart further 2. Persistence & composure will get u back on track out of adversity 3. Invest on people who value favor by helping them out of their adversity, u will find them as angels during your adversity
- Keep control of your own boat - Stay sober - Deal with and get rid of any baggage - Remember you came this far, things never just ended - There may be or may not be a plan, but never ever was anything bad that happened just and only bad, not even the death of a relative (they had a life before that, right, and it ended at their time) - [Religion Alert] No matter how deep you'll fall, you will fall into God's hands
Honestly, I just went to this channel to help me in college (taking BA Psychology) but then, I watched the episode about depression, and cried. I just cried. Thank you for making this channel
You’ll never be effective if you’re convinced tomorrow needs to be better than today, because this belief stems from resistance to the present-and the present is where your power lies.
I lost my apartment 2 days ago, im six months from graduating from college and its thrown all my plans into chaos. Im in a town completely by myself and im panicking because i feel like I dont know anyone and I dont have any options. I dont know how much this helped, but its nice to hear something positive while I spiral downward.
So I recently lost my home and I've been living out of my car for a while now. I've been losing my confidence, willpower, and hope slowly and steadily over the past few weeks. I'm using the wifi at my local Walmart rn and thought I'd open up yt and see what's been happening with my favorite channels over the past couple months and this was one of the first videos on my feed. Needless to say it's exactly what I've been needing, just wish I had seen it sooner, haha. Thanks for what you do guys! There's always something positive on your channel and I hope I'm able to watch more of it!
When I'm down, I think to myself that at least I'm alive. I continue to console myself by telling myself where there is life there is hope. Hope for a better tomorrow today.
when I got suicidal, many times, as a child, teenager and young adult, I just felt a terrible voice inside me telling: "Who the hell are you to know the future so well? do you really think you know everything?". Now I bless myself millions of times for not achiving suicide, but still I don't judge who decides to do it, because being tired of life is real tiredness, it's not only a "crazy thought". Sometimes we need a safe, warm and comfy "place" where to lay our head and forget even just for a bit all the worries and pain, like a child, but it doesn't really happen.
i have been dealing with depression for 2 years now... its ok... just play games or do what makes you slightly happy than just sitting there cutting yourself...
I love the commemoration that you guys put at the beginning, most notably the second paragraph, they are the kinds of things that restore my faith in humanity. And being rather blunt, but by keep on breaking, some people may commit suicide if they feel that there is no light at the end of the tunnel after experiencing it so many times.
Some people may commit suicide BECAUSE of the light at the end of the tunnel. Because some may even fear it or don't like it. There are people for whom light is hurting.
This released on my birthday, two years ago. The day I nearly took my life. This video did a part in saving my life. It wasn't all, but it was quite the part. Thank you. I just recently found this video again, and decided to post this comment. From the deepest depths of my heart. Thank you.
sahra skellington its temporary but the cycle is ongoing. I've been depressed for over a year and it comes back worse every time. Not to make you lose hope or anything but medication and therapy is the real way out. Unfortunately I'm unlikely to receive either
Thank you, I really needed this. I broke down earlier today because of a situation involving the girl I love being separated from me. It’s been a hard few months without her, but your videos help me remember that tomorrow is another day and that she will be back soon. I love what you guys do and I hope you continue to do it for many years to come, because of the lives you help change, even if it’s only through a screen.
Thank YOU! You are strong! A trick that could help is to think of things that you're thankful for, especially when you're down. Be patient and kind with yourself, good times shall come. :)
Mr MEMé She didn't leave that way. She's just somewhere that I can't go. We are still in the relationship and her parents tell me that she is wants to comeback to me soon. It's just that I can't see her for another 3 months because of the facility she's in. I thank you for worrying for me, but this isn't exactly the situation you think it is.
Hi as I saw this I am spending another Christmas alone & going through an emotional rollercoaster that is culminating being emotionally shut down & on auto pilot. Thank you. People don't understand what some others are going through. Especially at Christmas time.
Guys do you have discord? If not how about creating one so people can help each other? It does help a lot when you have someone to talk to and sometimes it's better when it's a stranger. Who would wanna join a discord channel?
Pain is temporary but it's just one thing after another. It's never ending. I live by the "you're a fighter and you've fought this hard for so long. You're not giving up now" mentality but, it never ends.
I am on the verge of giving up and can’t stop the hopelessness and crying. This video helped some. The heart is a strange place. My heart is the strangest place. It is so broken and full of pain.
If I'm feeling really down ,I always go to my letter collection from my friends and co that I received for my birthday or other events. My best friend wrote my a really nice letter for my birthday last year ,and even if she didn't wrote the right age ,it's just so sweet and warm when I read it ,that it remembers me ,that she likes me the way I am . And this helps a lot ,because I have many days where I question myself why someone would even like an then I mostly think " this doesn't make sense " and then I kinda go under with my dark thoughts. And then this letter remembers me why she likes me and that I'm important for someone,even if I don't ever notice. So my advice for you : if someone writes you honest and kind things for you ,always keep them as a motivation ^^
What do I do to keep holding on???? I’ve crawled in bed and have been here for the better part of a year... seems to be working...it really isn’t worth it to get up. The bullshit stops when I’m here.
Life fell through the roof last year in a week during December. Nothing serious, just wasn’t doing well in school, wasn’t happy, and got rejected. Saw this video, and I can realize that what I went through was nothing and life is great.
Fernie Zazueta These are facts and facts are suitable for everyone. Yes, just knowing these things are probably not going to be enough for someone with depression. But I've learned these things the hard way and they made a change in my mindset. I become depressed less often and less seriously since then.
I have clinical depression Im too poor to get my meds or access to a doctor but some of the advices of this video kinda help is not like an absolut solution but they kinda help me to cope
Mish Ochoa I don’t know where you live but some places have public assistance ( like community services) to help if you cannot afford meds and and counseling. I’ve been there. Try to reach out and ask. I hope you will be ok. Sending you good vibes. ✨
I have being going through some pretty hard times career wise. So, i tried to change this for better. But its been really hard to expect this change. New place, lack of financial help, etc. I hope this change bring some positivity in my career. Watching my friends grow & me still struggling for job is heart breaking, though i am happy for my friends. But i need that sort of happiness in my life too. God give me strength and hope. 🙏
The same can be said about everything in the world, including everyone lives. World and things in it are naturally falling apart and breaking down at all times.
I learned to be ok independently from that. Weed is good when help you recover from time to time, but I think is very dangerous when your mental stability depens only from a substance.
Seems like my storm is staying for quiet a while. I just feel so useless and powerless, made the mistake of trying to forgive the person and see her again, but it just made it worse. Sometimes shit just eats you alive, and all you can do is watch i feel like. Maybe im just too lazy and not meant to accomplish wanted things? Thoughts like these go through my head all the time. Overthinking killed me, and altho im slowly recovering, i feel embarrassed of the failure i am
3kk0, Even if you made a mistake, it wasn't a failure. As things heal, you will be able to let it go a little more and the feelings that you have will change so that it isn't as painful. I recommend talking to someone who can give you more perspective on your situation. But be patient with yourself. One step at a time.
To anyone that needs it: you are amazing and will make it through the situation you're going through. Life throws difficult situations at us to challenge us. It takes strong people to make it through... you can and will succeed.
Music. Music has really helped me to get out of my depression and my horrible thoughts that still linger around. Most people think that up-beat and happy music will solve everything, but for me that type of music makes my situation worse at times. Listening to sad music or slow instrumental or instrumental at all has really helped me. If someone were to ask me my favorite artist, I would have to say Faith Marie. When people listen to her music they usually don’t like her style and think something is wrong with me, but no. It’s just my way of coping.
You have no idea how much you've helped me today and probably a lot more of people. Thank you for encouraging people to grow themselves and heal; we've many things we discovered through you and I cannot be grateful enough. Thank you.
Just wanted to say that for videos likes this I’m glad there is the internet. Just lost my long term relationship and my job in the same week.. can’t find another job and I’m struggling to understand why things happens the way they do. But hopefully with time I’ll only laugh at this whole situation
Same I've been hooking up with this girl for three years when she's on break or mad at her bf but she got engaged now :( he lives in a mansion compared to my place. We used to have two night stands and it was great I really miss her. Tons of pics and vids together they kinda make it harder to cope now. We still talk tho and she was crying when she told me she's engaged like ik she loves me but Idk what to do.
I love this! This really moved me by surprise! One day i was feeling at the top of the world and then my mom had a rare disease and passed away. 6 months after my dad who is in another country died of heart attack. It tool me 3 months to have him back in our country. Later, i had to sell our family car to my friend's rude grandparents but I had to endure coz I can't handle the monthly car payment. Then 8 months after, my grandmother who is with us most of our life went to be with the Lord also. I have a brother who needs special care and attention but luckily he has his medications. I got rid of my Job because my boss is so intoxicating. But hey, I'm still happy and keeping a positive mindset and living life every moment and enjoying my present strawberries. 😍😍😍
I keep going in life due to the random experiences that happen. Just the other day I was going home and walked by a church whose backyard is being used as a community garden. I took the chance to chat up one of the ladies working the yard and learned some things about gardening. I never expected this to happen, so I look forward to the next random encounter I experience, whether it be 2 days or 2 months from now!
"You have to be in the right mindset to start over, and if you're not there yet, it's ok. Continue breaking until there is nothing left to break, but when the breaking gets old a switch will turn on inside of you, you'll want to get off the couch and face the world again" Man, you guys know just what to say when a guy like myself can't seem to get out of his own negative thoughts. You people are absolutely amazing!!
This makes no sense at all. When there's nothing left to break, it means that you're already dead at which point you can't start over or face anything ever again. When you're so broken that there's nothing left to break, you can't do pretty much anything, let alone, face the cursed world that's doing this, because...well...you're broken, period. When there's nothing left to break, the switch won't turn on because it will be broken too, you geniuses. When people say such illogical things that condtradict each other, it really puts in question the validity and credibility of what they're saying, as it gives the impresssion that they themselves don't know what they're talking about at all. Continue breaking until you break entirely. That's an excellent advice. Yes, that is very helpful. Yes, continue, continue breaking and suffering until you finally senselessly die in suffering. That's all we can do in life, isn't it? This is so encouraging and hope-bringing.
When my pain won't end, just being hugged by a loved one, or cupping their faces in my hands while sobbing is better than being alone. I recommend being there for them.
I recommend that they make the best of their life, with what they have. Just because you're in pain doesn't mean that you're stuck there forever! You can feel better, and be better, and live better, but you have to keep on trying.
It helps me to think that there are still people that needs my help. My father for example, he lives alone and when I go to see him that makes him happy so I always end up remembering him when I'm depressed and then I keep making an effort to stay strong...
I love this channel ❤❤ it's so charming and I found it just in time 😭 thanks for making so meaningful and beautiful content 😊😄 you have another subscriber :D
Life is like a prison, how many people can truly say they enjoy their jobs... Most people only do it for the money. If you spend over 8 hours a day doing something you absolutely hate for the rest of your life, that’s just depressing. I don’t want to end up this way. Happiness is more important than money. Only I don’t know what I want to do in life...
Wednesday Was The Last Life isn't always what you make out of it. That's sounds like something that someone who had never lost control of their life would say.
THANK YOU SO MUCH! I was going through some horrible things and having an awful mindset and this came up!! I AM SO GRATEFUL and I am willing to send this video to anyone I know who is struggling. THANK YOU ONCE AGAIN!! ❤️❤️
I’m going to have to remember this for school. I work my butt off to succeed and I do really well. However, there are times when I’m just so stressed and tired that I feel like giving up and stopping when it comes to studying. I just make myself go through it😓😅
I went from 2 months ago saying " i wish even my worst enemies can find the kind of happiness i had"... it went away so quickly, pain just keeps coming my way...it sucks
What gives me cause to face each day? Curiosity? Inertia? Spite? Defiance? I don’t really know but that last one sounds as good as any. Some things in life leave a stain that nothing, not even time can wash away while others still demand such a high price that there is no prosthetic capable of replacing what is lost in the exchange. That’s life. I don’t have any more answers than anyone else; all I know that it’s useless to spend your time afraid and that each kind act is an act of defiance against an indifferent universe; each breath a prize that will not easily surrendered.
I just had one of the hardest two days for a long long time due to stopping some meds and going through withdrawal symptoms. It feels like the worst of it is over but according to my research could continue for a bit longer
What if you're leaving in a dictatorial country where there is no hope for getting a job or leaving a decent life? What if you're helpless and you have no food no money ? Those kind of videos are not useful in third world countries where pain is all we got.
I believe that you still have to turn things around, if you let the problems overtake you, then you'll be lost. I know it is easy to say it when you are not living the situation but still you gotta face the situation and look up for a solution. You can do it and if you need help, we are here to helpm
It is just as bad here in America. With everyday that passes a little chunk of our Freedom is stolen from us. There are MANY people here that are homeless and hopeless. I have been looking for Employment since January of this year. I have an education...I'm even willing to scrub Toilets!....Now, I'm homeless and have to depend on the charity of my friends. You just don't here about us.
Usually the saying "This will past" has never helped me but for the first time, I felt it. I remembered every bad situation I went through and made it out. It's not that bad afterall.
Freud talked about the different paths to happiness and the one that seems to endure and also the one I like to hold on (as suffering from dysthimia) is to look for beauty. Beauty, can be found anywhere and it has saved people all over history. Just wanted to share. Psych2Go thank you so much
Thank you so much my grandfather literally walked in on me crying and I had to fake it but right now this is just getting better and better I just have to listen to you though, again thank you so much💖
Thanks, I needed this. I'm planning on a career change, because I'm not happy with my current job now. It makes me depressed, I often get sick because of stress. I'm just having difficulties to start again, because I know that if I leave this job I'll go back being zero. Nothing, no money, and in debt. But I'll make it through. I'll manage.
I have been depressed my whole life and NEVER got support from my own family. My sisters are oblivious to anything that doesn’t belong in the bubbles they live in, my mother and father are all stuck in their own problems and never stopped to see or to care about how I feel. My husband is the only person who listens and care. I am still going because of my son who still needs me..
I just tell myself that I deserve better and I can better myself so I won't deal with this kind negativity in the future. I start by eating, sleeping, and exercising well. They do wonders!!
Deep down I like to suffer. I do not invite suffering or pain into my life but when it sticks I have this deep seeded feeling of pride and strength that holds me up just enough to not end it all. There is beauty and strength in being able to take the most brutal parts of our anguish.
It's tiring to always feel afraid of things you shouldn't be afraid of, to be on the verge of tears but never ever letting it out for some reason. I feel scared and sad and exhausted.
dude if pain is temp why has it been following for me for 8 years
PixlatedGamer i've been like that a looong time, but it got worst about 2 years and a half by now and it's not like you focus on bad things, sometimes it isn't that easy, for example if you don't have the therapy you need or just all the things happening are too much, so i hope you seek for help, feeling like that is horrible and nobody should feel like that for so long :c
What they mean is that at any given time you might feel good about something, or bad about something, or maybe indifferent. You don't necessarily feel exactly one emotion every second of the day. Like, maybe you had a tasty meal, or talked to a friend, or finished a project so you feel happiness, or relief, or excitement. But then, maybe someone was mean to you, or you didn't sleep, or you forgot to do something you said you would and so you feel sad, or tired, or angry, or anxious. But those feelings don't go on forever, eventually something different will happen and you'll move on to thinking about something else. BUT! You might be in a particular situation that is causing you the same trouble every single day. Every time you think about it you feel bad and you think about it a lot. Well, if it's in your power to change something about your situation, then do that thing. If it is not in your power to change anything, then you have to accept it. That is difficult. I'm not just saying this to dismiss your pain because I have to deal with something similar myself. I'm just saying that we do have to accept those negative things that we cannot change. Then we can focus on the sorts of things that might make us feel a little better.
We don't know maybe tomorrow or next year your life will have a twist just believe in yourself.
It's been at least 15 years for me because I've had existential depression for most of my life. Nothing helps; not meds, not therapy, not even keeping myself so busy that I can't think. People who think that pain is temporary and that life is a good thing are blissfully ignorant, and I envy them.
Maybe it'll take 9 years.
1- pain is temporary
2- realize you can turn things around
3- allow what you can’t control to just be
4- you’re not alone
5- it’s ok to break, starting over is worth it
There is pain that never goes away, that can never heal because it was so wrong to begin you can't possibly bear to cope with because what comes after, how it changes you how, the realization that the entire world will never be the same and your entire outlook on life is shattered. Especially when you should have died before them.
J K might as well just give up
@@water0627 ur just weak af.
J K nah you are your the one who said that btw u would be making it worse for someone you fuckkinh idiot
J K if u call me weak then it’s obvious You ain’t been thru shit
Just in time, because I really feel like shit right now...
Hang in there. I know what you mean, though.
*hugs*
Same
Stella GS omg same :(
Stella GS I hope you feel better now!! Stay strong ❤️
Showed this to my girlfriend who has been acting suicidal recently, she started crying and hugged me...
Think you helped me save her, thank you so much!
How is your girlfriend doing ?
@@dio-nq8su we aren’t together anymore, believe she is doing well still… haven’t talked in a long time
@@double2254 i am so sorry.
I'm about to start school again and all I can think about is a group of teenagers finding my rotting corpse in a ditch
I’m falling apart and this pops out. Wow thank you
@Joshua Andrei Gumila I know this is late, but I want you to know I care about you.
@@roseg.9078 Nice to meet you. How's everything going?
How are you doing 3 years later?
@@roseg.9078 you know saying that doesn't mean shit
@@dehvun7 he/she just trying to be nice
I'm learning a valuable lesson through my healing from a traumatic event: to give myself some of the compassion I kept giving to everyone else. I'm practising being kinder to myself and looking out for myself a whole lot more than I used to.
Natatattatification not sure what the specifics of what you’re going thru are, but I can relate to the actualization of caring for myself and the immediate wellbeing of myself and those close to me whom play a pivotal role in my happiness. In other words, I went thru 8 years of abusive intimate relationships of varying degrees and have since come out with more than three years past having re-energized my focus. It’s about expending the select, critical free time that you have to offer to those that genuinely make a meaningful impact on your life. Don’t waste your time on ppl whose importance fluctuates in your life, instead focus on the ride or die ppl who are with you in the long haul. They’re gna have the greatest impact and skin in the game on your happiness and genuinely care ab that happiness first and foremost. Those ppl matter. I wish you the best in life and I hope you know that I’m sending positive vibes ~*~ your way.
If we can be sad for little to no reason...
...then we should also be happy for no reason. ❤ :3
HumansAreDumb r/wowthanksimcured
HumansAreDumb so true.
Sarah Hamilfan Umm... you don't have to tell if you don't feel comfortable about it, but do you have someone in your life who you feel really close to? :)
I love this comment ❤
Sarah Hamilfan OMG how considerate of them! =o
Needless to say, wish it wasn't so hard as a shy guy to find such good friends haha X3 ❤
I fall apart multiple times but I always made it. I don't know how many times I have hitted rock bottom and I also don't know for how long I'll keep up. I just hope I make it today and worry about tomorrow when it comes.
You have no Idea how well in timing I found this video.. Thanks.. : )
♡
Can't agree more.
happy new some/time of a year. B)
how is it going???
"What do I do to keep holding on?"
I remind myself of how amazing the world is, and the people in it.
I remind myself that me keeping on, will soon contribute to their own immeasurable joy.
Everything comes full circle, that is what keeps me going.
Nils Åke Joakimsen Thank you for this.
Nils Åke Joakimsen 😊
Thank you once again.
Crybaby Fan Ol I love this channel
Mary Dominguez same literally one of my favorite channel
1. Staying CALM in adversity will prevent things from falling apart further
2. Persistence & composure will get u back on track out of adversity
3. Invest on people who value favor by helping them out of their adversity, u will find them as angels during your adversity
- Keep control of your own boat - Stay sober - Deal with and get rid of any baggage - Remember you came this far, things never just ended - There may be or may not be a plan, but never ever was anything bad that happened just and only bad, not even the death of a relative (they had a life before that, right, and it ended at their time) - [Religion Alert] No matter how deep you'll fall, you will fall into God's hands
Honestly, I just went to this channel to help me in college (taking BA Psychology) but then, I watched the episode about depression, and cried. I just cried. Thank you for making this channel
One day at a time
College is just the worst
@@fdsdafdsda7427 why is that ?
@@fdsdafdsda7427 it also brings me so much pain, I hope we'll graduate one day and then forget about this experience forever
I just came home from school, and I must say that I really needed this. This video truly helped me a lot today. Thank you.
You’ll never be effective if you’re convinced tomorrow needs to be better than today, because this belief stems from resistance to the present-and the present is where your power lies.
Thank you, this is very truthful
Awww! :D
Naaah, thank YOU for being such a humble being
Uh... I think "tomorrow will" makes more sense.
Present time orientation is possibly the biggest factor holding many people back in life at least sociologically
Wrong. I have no power.
I lost my apartment 2 days ago, im six months from graduating from college and its thrown all my plans into chaos. Im in a town completely by myself and im panicking because i feel like I dont know anyone and I dont have any options.
I dont know how much this helped, but its nice to hear something positive while I spiral downward.
I had one of those awful nights that go on forever last night and was scared of facing one again now but this video might help me power through.
When times are tough, remind yourself of things you are thankful for. Be kind and patient with yourself, stay strong
Listen to Alan watts on letting go & trusting the universe
So I recently lost my home and I've been living out of my car for a while now. I've been losing my confidence, willpower, and hope slowly and steadily over the past few weeks. I'm using the wifi at my local Walmart rn and thought I'd open up yt and see what's been happening with my favorite channels over the past couple months and this was one of the first videos on my feed. Needless to say it's exactly what I've been needing, just wish I had seen it sooner, haha. Thanks for what you do guys! There's always something positive on your channel and I hope I'm able to watch more of it!
I love this channel so much. It's my go-to when I don't know what to do. Thank you.
I agree with you. This video is exactly what I needed after a really bad day.
Started following this amazing channel. Its a much needed support system.
When I'm down, I think to myself that at least I'm alive. I continue to console myself by telling myself where there is life there is hope. Hope for a better tomorrow today.
Thank you for letting me look up at life while it's burning in flames. You might of even put it out! Helped me like always
Worse will also pass. Take care!
when I got suicidal, many times, as a child, teenager and young adult, I just felt a terrible voice inside me telling: "Who the hell are you to know the future so well? do you really think you know everything?". Now I bless myself millions of times for not achiving suicide, but still I don't judge who decides to do it, because being tired of life is real tiredness, it's not only a "crazy thought". Sometimes we need a safe, warm and comfy "place" where to lay our head and forget even just for a bit all the worries and pain, like a child, but it doesn't really happen.
Thank you for this psych2go... I've been feeling depressed for a few months and it feels like it's never going to end
i have been dealing with depression for 2 years now... its ok... just play games or do what makes you slightly happy than just sitting there cutting yourself...
Thank you for forming this channel. This is what the world needs right now ❤️
Needed this big time
Hope your day is going well ^-^
Hope you feel better.
"It's okay to break, starting over is WORTH IT." - Best advice for someone like me who just overcome depression. Thank you psych2go for saving lives!
I love the commemoration that you guys put at the beginning, most notably the second paragraph, they are the kinds of things that restore my faith in humanity.
And being rather blunt, but by keep on breaking, some people may commit suicide if they feel that there is no light at the end of the tunnel after experiencing it so many times.
Some people may commit suicide BECAUSE of the light at the end of the tunnel. Because some may even fear it or don't like it. There are people for whom light is hurting.
This released on my birthday, two years ago. The day I nearly took my life. This video did a part in saving my life. It wasn't all, but it was quite the part. Thank you. I just recently found this video again, and decided to post this comment. From the deepest depths of my heart. Thank you.
You guys helped me so much when I had depression. I really owe you.
If it really is temporary and I‘ll feel better in the future then someone give me a time machine please cause this is unbearable
sahra skellington its temporary but the cycle is ongoing. I've been depressed for over a year and it comes back worse every time. Not to make you lose hope or anything but medication and therapy is the real way out. Unfortunately I'm unlikely to receive either
How you feeling now bro ?
Thank you, I really needed this. I broke down earlier today because of a situation involving the girl I love being separated from me. It’s been a hard few months without her, but your videos help me remember that tomorrow is another day and that she will be back soon. I love what you guys do and I hope you continue to do it for many years to come, because of the lives you help change, even if it’s only through a screen.
Sukimoto S.D. Things will get better. Stay strong 🍀
Thank YOU! You are strong! A trick that could help is to think of things that you're thankful for, especially when you're down. Be patient and kind with yourself, good times shall come. :)
Mr MEMé She didn't leave that way. She's just somewhere that I can't go. We are still in the relationship and her parents tell me that she is wants to comeback to me soon. It's just that I can't see her for another 3 months because of the facility she's in. I thank you for worrying for me, but this isn't exactly the situation you think it is.
I’ve been going through something very similar. Everyday is a day closer to seeing her though. Let’s stay strong, man. (:
5 years later I'm going through something similar. I feel hopeless.
Hi as I saw this I am spending another Christmas alone & going through an emotional rollercoaster that is culminating being emotionally shut down & on auto pilot. Thank you. People don't understand what some others are going through. Especially at Christmas time.
Guys do you have discord? If not how about creating one so people can help each other? It does help a lot when you have someone to talk to and sometimes it's better when it's a stranger. Who would wanna join a discord channel?
kaze1507 I would like to :)
This is a great idea!
I would love it
Some one on patreon should reccomend this so its easier to see
This is a great idea :)
Pain is temporary but it's just one thing after another. It's never ending. I live by the "you're a fighter and you've fought this hard for so long. You're not giving up now" mentality but, it never ends.
2:10 It's a dog!! ...........errrr..... It's........a...... slouching man that gets tired of his job............ →_→
LūÇāR¡ūs Σ lol I was ganna comment that same thing XD
Haha!
Thought the same when i saw the thumbnail 😁
I am on the verge of giving up and can’t stop the hopelessness and crying. This video helped some. The heart is a strange place. My heart is the strangest place. It is so broken and full of pain.
If I'm feeling really down ,I always go to my letter collection from my friends and co that I received for my birthday or other events. My best friend wrote my a really nice letter for my birthday last year ,and even if she didn't wrote the right age ,it's just so sweet and warm when I read it ,that it remembers me ,that she likes me the way I am . And this helps a lot ,because I have many days where I question myself why someone would even like an then I mostly think " this doesn't make sense " and then I kinda go under with my dark thoughts. And then this letter remembers me why she likes me and that I'm important for someone,even if I don't ever notice. So my advice for you : if someone writes you honest and kind things for you ,always keep them as a motivation ^^
What do I do to keep holding on???? I’ve crawled in bed and have been here for the better part of a year... seems to be working...it really isn’t worth it to get up. The bullshit stops when I’m here.
I needed this a lot, especially today, thank you and I hope that Kate and Anthony have found peace at last 💛
Sophie OP yes I hope they did too. 😢
Life fell through the roof last year in a week during December. Nothing serious, just wasn’t doing well in school, wasn’t happy, and got rejected. Saw this video, and I can realize that what I went through was nothing and life is great.
NOT SUITABLE FOR PEOPLE STRUGGLING WITH CLINICAL DEPRESSION!!! ⚠️⚠️⚠️
Fernie Zazueta These are facts and facts are suitable for everyone. Yes, just knowing these things are probably not going to be enough for someone with depression. But I've learned these things the hard way and they made a change in my mindset. I become depressed less often and less seriously since then.
OH HELL yes I was thinking the same thing!
I have clinical depression Im too poor to get my meds or access to a doctor but some of the advices of this video kinda help is not like an absolut solution but they kinda help me to cope
Mish Ochoa I don’t know where you live but some places have public assistance ( like community services) to help if you cannot afford meds and and counseling. I’ve been there. Try to reach out and ask. I hope you will be ok. Sending you good vibes. ✨
I have being going through some pretty hard times career wise. So, i tried to change this for better. But its been really hard to expect this change. New place, lack of financial help, etc. I hope this change bring some positivity in my career. Watching my friends grow & me still struggling for job is heart breaking, though i am happy for my friends. But i need that sort of happiness in my life too. God give me strength and hope. 🙏
My life has been falling apart since day one.
Same.
The same can be said about everything in the world, including everyone lives. World and things in it are naturally falling apart and breaking down at all times.
Yep...me too
Weed is the only thing that makes my depression go away
I learned to be ok independently from that. Weed is good when help you recover from time to time, but I think is very dangerous when your mental stability depens only from a substance.
don't overdose because overdosing can make it worse but taking safe amounts is fine
Big pump that’s small brain logic, people who don’t smoke weed feel the same. If not better
@@abrahamdoucette lmao you cant overdose on weed
@@creepypasta_weird0195 you can but it won't kill you
I'm not alone but I'm lonely 😫
I hope you feel better soon.
I know it can be hard sometimes...you truly arent alone Roze
Roze That's the worst
Felt that and thus engaged myself in endeavour , that's the only way forward friend. Loneliness is a vicious cycle. Tc
Id hug you but im too far.
🐢
I am alone and I’m lonely 🙃
my lifes been falling apart the moment I was born
Seems like my storm is staying for quiet a while. I just feel so useless and powerless, made the mistake of trying to forgive the person and see her again, but it just made it worse. Sometimes shit just eats you alive, and all you can do is watch i feel like. Maybe im just too lazy and not meant to accomplish wanted things? Thoughts like these go through my head all the time. Overthinking killed me, and altho im slowly recovering, i feel embarrassed of the failure i am
3kk0, Even if you made a mistake, it wasn't a failure. As things heal, you will be able to let it go a little more and the feelings that you have will change so that it isn't as painful. I recommend talking to someone who can give you more perspective on your situation. But be patient with yourself. One step at a time.
I could have wrote this exact comment
I relate. I too am embarrassed. And lost myself in a awful relationship
To anyone that needs it: you are amazing and will make it through the situation you're going through. Life throws difficult situations at us to challenge us. It takes strong people to make it through... you can and will succeed.
Yeah, if you wan't to succeed.
Omg perfect timing i was just having a mental break down and this vid came 6 minutes ago
It's been hard on me for these last three years, I hope I'll get a break soon. Life is hard but I'll keep going even when it's tough.
Music. Music has really helped me to get out of my depression and my horrible thoughts that still linger around. Most people think that up-beat and happy music will solve everything, but for me that type of music makes my situation worse at times. Listening to sad music or slow instrumental or instrumental at all has really helped me. If someone were to ask me my favorite artist, I would have to say Faith Marie. When people listen to her music they usually don’t like her style and think something is wrong with me, but no. It’s just my way of coping.
I'm in very tough situation right now.
Thanks for putting my pieces together.
Thank you seriously, for sure.
You have no idea how much you've helped me today and probably a lot more of people. Thank you for encouraging people to grow themselves and heal; we've many things we discovered through you and I cannot be grateful enough.
Thank you.
Just wanted to say that for videos likes this I’m glad there is the internet.
Just lost my long term relationship and my job in the same week.. can’t find another job and I’m struggling to understand why things happens the way they do. But hopefully with time I’ll only laugh at this whole situation
Same I've been hooking up with this girl for three years when she's on break or mad at her bf but she got engaged now :( he lives in a mansion compared to my place. We used to have two night stands and it was great I really miss her. Tons of pics and vids together they kinda make it harder to cope now. We still talk tho and she was crying when she told me she's engaged like ik she loves me but Idk what to do.
I love this! This really moved me by surprise! One day i was feeling at the top of the world and then my mom had a rare disease and passed away. 6 months after my dad who is in another country died of heart attack. It tool me 3 months to have him back in our country. Later, i had to sell our family car to my friend's rude grandparents but I had to endure coz I can't handle the monthly car payment. Then 8 months after, my grandmother who is with us most of our life went to be with the Lord also. I have a brother who needs special care and attention but luckily he has his medications. I got rid of my Job because my boss is so intoxicating. But hey, I'm still happy and keeping a positive mindset and living life every moment and enjoying my present strawberries. 😍😍😍
Thank you psych2go tbis is a really sweet and thoughtful video.
I keep going in life due to the random experiences that happen. Just the other day I was going home and walked by a church whose backyard is being used as a community garden. I took the chance to chat up one of the ladies working the yard and learned some things about gardening.
I never expected this to happen, so I look forward to the next random encounter I experience, whether it be 2 days or 2 months from now!
I needed this tonight. Thank you so much
thank you. people love telling you things you should remember....it rarely helps - but these were the things i needed to hear.
This is so helpful already
"You have to be in the right mindset to start over, and if you're not there yet, it's ok. Continue breaking until there is nothing left to break, but when the breaking gets old a switch will turn on inside of you, you'll want to get off the couch and face the world again"
Man, you guys know just what to say when a guy like myself can't seem to get out of his own negative thoughts.
You people are absolutely amazing!!
This makes no sense at all. When there's nothing left to break, it means that you're already dead at which point you can't start over or face anything ever again. When you're so broken that there's nothing left to break, you can't do pretty much anything, let alone, face the cursed world that's doing this, because...well...you're broken, period. When there's nothing left to break, the switch won't turn on because it will be broken too, you geniuses. When people say such illogical things that condtradict each other, it really puts in question the validity and credibility of what they're saying, as it gives the impresssion that they themselves don't know what they're talking about at all. Continue breaking until you break entirely. That's an excellent advice. Yes, that is very helpful. Yes, continue, continue breaking and suffering until you finally senselessly die in suffering. That's all we can do in life, isn't it? This is so encouraging and hope-bringing.
For some people pain never ends though. What do you recommend for them?
When my pain won't end, just being hugged by a loved one, or cupping their faces in my hands while sobbing is better than being alone. I recommend being there for them.
@@falseprophet2472 They will have to try different things to heal. Do you have any suggestions?
@@falseprophet2472 I see why they might fear to accept help, especially when what people usually perceive as help is usually more harm.
.357 Magnum with hollow points.
I recommend that they make the best of their life, with what they have. Just because you're in pain doesn't mean that you're stuck there forever! You can feel better, and be better, and live better, but you have to keep on trying.
It helps me to think that there are still people that needs my help. My father for example, he lives alone and when I go to see him that makes him happy so I always end up remembering him when I'm depressed and then I keep making an effort to stay strong...
Thank you :')
I love this channel ❤❤ it's so charming and I found it just in time 😭 thanks for making so meaningful and beautiful content 😊😄 you have another subscriber :D
Thank you SO much for this video. It means so much to all of us who have seen it. Thank you thank you thank you
Oh good timing
Every time I could focus in anything new, the thoughts come back to my problems and then I fall apart. I think I couldn't support it for so long.
It's good that people do videos like this
I am watching this because I feel like my social, school, and regular life is falling apart. This has really helped thanks.
Life is about pain and suffering
Life is what you make out of it
Life is like a prison, how many people can truly say they enjoy their jobs... Most people only do it for the money. If you spend over 8 hours a day doing something you absolutely hate for the rest of your life, that’s just depressing. I don’t want to end up this way. Happiness is more important than money. Only I don’t know what I want to do in life...
Wednesday Was The Last
Life isn't always what you make out of it. That's sounds like something that someone who had never lost control of their life would say.
Arthur Van Rodds
That's about as edgy as a butterknife
And love, laughter and joy. Don't forget those.
THANK YOU SO MUCH! I was going through some horrible things and having an awful mindset and this came up!! I AM SO GRATEFUL and I am willing to send this video to anyone I know who is struggling. THANK YOU ONCE AGAIN!! ❤️❤️
I’m going to have to remember this for school. I work my butt off to succeed and I do really well. However, there are times when I’m just so stressed and tired that I feel like giving up and stopping when it comes to studying. I just make myself go through it😓😅
Riley Young petty problems
Learning to cope with the work load and keep yourself healthy snd happy is what college is about. Keep it up
I went from 2 months ago saying " i wish even my worst enemies can find the kind of happiness i had"... it went away so quickly, pain just keeps coming my way...it sucks
"pain is temporary" only the during of my life
That's human existence. That's why people believe in heaven
What gives me cause to face each day? Curiosity? Inertia? Spite? Defiance? I don’t really know but that last one sounds as good as any. Some things in life leave a stain that nothing, not even time can wash away while others still demand such a high price that there is no prosthetic capable of replacing what is lost in the exchange. That’s life. I don’t have any more answers than anyone else; all I know that it’s useless to spend your time afraid and that each kind act is an act of defiance against an indifferent universe; each breath a prize that will not easily surrendered.
thanks so much
Why won't they?
thanks so much
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I just had one of the hardest two days for a long long time due to stopping some meds and going through withdrawal symptoms.
It feels like the worst of it is over but according to my research could continue for a bit longer
What if you're leaving in a dictatorial country where there is no hope for getting a job or leaving a decent life? What if you're helpless and you have no food no money ? Those kind of videos are not useful in third world countries where pain is all we got.
Cristiano Ronaldo7 wow...um...i didnt know thats how bad it was in those places....
No dictoral country lasts forever
I believe that you still have to turn things around, if you let the problems overtake you, then you'll be lost. I know it is easy to say it when you are not living the situation but still you gotta face the situation and look up for a solution. You can do it and if you need help, we are here to helpm
Jorge Pérez I agree with you
It is just as bad here in America. With everyday that passes a little chunk of our Freedom is stolen from us. There are MANY people here that are homeless and hopeless. I have been looking for Employment since January of this year. I have an education...I'm even willing to scrub Toilets!....Now, I'm homeless and have to depend on the charity of my friends. You just don't here about us.
Usually the saying "This will past" has never helped me but for the first time, I felt it. I remembered every bad situation I went through and made it out. It's not that bad afterall.
It's crazy how the universe sends this video to my home page at 3:33am when i've been looking for signs everywhere that living will be worth it :)
pka Boo same!
I'm a year late, but I am here to tell you it isn't. Now you have a new and different sign. What are you going to do?
2:40 about being driven by results instead of giving ourselves credit for the risks we take
Really hit me! (in a good way!)
pain is temporary... unless you have chronic depression
Fact is life is depressing. You're not special or different. You need to work at making yourself happy.
Freud talked about the different paths to happiness and the one that seems to endure and also the one I like to hold on (as suffering from dysthimia) is to look for beauty. Beauty, can be found anywhere and it has saved people all over history.
Just wanted to share. Psych2Go thank you so much
Thank you so much
Thank you so much my grandfather literally walked in on me crying and I had to fake it but right now this is just getting better and better I just have to listen to you though, again thank you so much💖
your timing couldn't be better :)
Sayori Is #1 Waifu I think I know why your life is falling apart x) . Cauz ur wifu ... OMG I'm sorry 😢
;_; its ok
Thanks, I needed this. I'm planning on a career change, because I'm not happy with my current job now. It makes me depressed, I often get sick because of stress. I'm just having difficulties to start again, because I know that if I leave this job I'll go back being zero. Nothing, no money, and in debt. But I'll make it through. I'll manage.
I’m so tired of living everything I do hurts people.
I have been depressed my whole life and NEVER got support from my own family. My sisters are oblivious to anything that doesn’t belong in the bubbles they live in, my mother and father are all stuck in their own problems and never stopped to see or to care about how I feel. My husband is the only person who listens and care. I am still going because of my son who still needs me..
Right on time 😭😭😭
I was crying just a minute ago to fam good luck and you matter
I just tell myself that I deserve better and I can better myself so I won't deal with this kind negativity in the future. I start by eating, sleeping, and exercising well. They do wonders!!
thank you for being there and doing this hard work
Deep down I like to suffer. I do not invite suffering or pain into my life but when it sticks I have this deep seeded feeling of pride and strength that holds me up just enough to not end it all. There is beauty and strength in being able to take the most brutal parts of our anguish.
Thanks, I really needed this right now
Be Grateful, gratitude even to slightest details like the pillow is the best towel for tears and i love it
thank you
Thanks for giving me hope.. when my whole world is falling apart...
thank you.
It's tiring to always feel afraid of things you shouldn't be afraid of, to be on the verge of tears but never ever letting it out for some reason. I feel scared and sad and exhausted.