#76 The Unfiltered Truth with Malvika Sitlani
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- Опубликовано: 2 апр 2023
- This week, I'm delighted to welcome Malvika Sitlani to this special season, Mumbai's Millennial Mind.
We discuss many topics such as her family's roller coaster struggles with money, prenatal depression, why she started her successful RUclips career and much more. She speaks so openly and honestly, with no filters... It's truly a breath of fresh air, and I'm sure you will all gain so much from it.
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"A Millennial Mind" by Shivani Pau is a leading podcast channel for interviews, self-improvement and more. There are multiple topics such as fashion, motivation, personal finance, spirituality, mental health, communication skills, entrepreneurship and much more.
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Can we just talk about Shivani i love how she didn't interrupt malvika when she's speaking like most of the interviewers nowadays won't let the person speak!! Shivani handled it so professionally 🤍🤍
Awww thank you so much ❤️❤️
You are rt❤
True
Sadness is addiction… can’t tell u how much it means coming from you. I have been feeling and realising this but always thought how can it be a sense of addiction. Such a powerful interview… thank you !!!!
Listening to this podcast, I'm crying for Mals and so proud of her as well. I've been following her since 2017. And I can definitely see growth in her and it feels like I'm growing with her and she is my big sister. She is a true gem.
This Podcast was soo wholesome and Malvika is insanely authentic. She is soo soo powerful and Amazing that I have to sit and write this comment for her. The amount of self work she has done and the way she is standing strong after each and every obstacle of her life is truely commendable. If Authenticity has a Name it is Malvika. She empowers me a lot to be a stronger girl. I just want to say Thank you soo sooo much to Malvika for so much wisdom and empowerment. Rooting for all the amazing Females out there! Thank you shivani for this wholesome Interview.
i am so in love with this interview and it feels so relatable in so many ways. i love when people have the confidence and awareness to actually talk about the bad things in life and how they managed to get out of it. i don't think they realise but there are so many of us who need this sort of content i mean what might become a ray of light, an inspiration for somebody who is struggling, you never know. i love how she expresses everything and even things that she feels are not right in herself and the acceptance and awareness to work on it and change it for nobody but herself. we need more such people, more such conversations. More Power to Her. Her baby is going to be so lucky to have such a self aware parent. Lots of Love ❤❤❤❤
The fact that she still talks about the good memories with her dad so fondly shows how balanced she is as a person. It is so easy to talk trash about someone who has wronged you, but she continues to see the good times as they were instead of painting them in bad light. So inspiring, Malvika!
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Shocking TRUTH of Malvika Sitlani's PERVERT Father
I love how I can relate to her mindset and the best advise to always put yourself first because you're child is always watching. And to put men on a pedestal hahaha yes couldn't agree more. I want to give Mals a tight hug tbh as I've seen her journey through years of how stable of a person she is ❤️
Subscribed because of malvika. I mean this girl's wisdom and courage is unreal. She's definitely breaking the old patterns and there's so much to learn from her.
🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
She resonates so much with me. I can see a lot of myself in her. I have been through Therapy most of my growing up years and totally get what she speaks about Healing. And Kudos to her she knows what she wants
She is so freakin strong! More power to her!! Also the fact that Shivani didn’t even try to mint her divorce for views which I’m sure any other interviewer would have done was so respectful god that’s so fresh!
This podcast made me just feel how strong a girl can be.... Malz you are brave and your thoughts are so good and needed for this broken generation. Lots of ❤
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Shocking TRUTH of Malvika Sitlani's PERVERT Father
why would you think a girl can't be strong? are you sexist or something?
Me too girl
Love how Malvika talks about healing, it's all about learning, unlearning and learning again, it's a constant process. I'm in awe of how she is so positive after all that she has been through. Loved this podcast so much. Lots of Love to Malvika! ❤️
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Shocking TRUTH of Malvika Sitlani's PERVERT Father
This woman never stops inspiring. Someone like me who has dealt with mental health issues, it's quite a great motivation to hear her. I totally resonate with her. I feel she is wise, smart and emotionally intelligent person ❤
My dad also left us in my 20s. I am feeling so inspired hearing Malvika's story. So nice to hear about such strong women.. keep it going ladies!
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Shocking TRUTH of Malvika Sitlani's PERVERT Father
God knows I needed to listen to all of this so bad. Thanks you Shivani and Mals! Two amazing, confident women showing us what being a woman should be like. For reminding us to believe in ourselves and figure ourselves out.
Awww thank you so much Varsha ❤️
During my pregnancy i felt same throughout-Alone, traumatic and depressed. I can totally relate and kudos to her the way she is dealing with it. 👏👏👏
Loved how the host was so supportive and non intrusive at the same time love the vulnerability of both the beautiful women. More power and love to us women and everyone reading this comment.❤
Thank you sooo much
Listening malzz is so therapeutic and grateful I grow up watching her she is so strong women ❤️🌼
So Inspiring ❤️. She is so mature and wise for her age. You will be a best parent for your kid.
What a beautiful soul Malvika is!! She has an angel baby in her tummy who is so damn lucky to have a mother like this amazing woman!! Sending strength your way Malz ❤️❤️
This woman is brilliant . How is she soo calm ! So proud of her ! I feel so much more confident to go live my life . More power to you
I have been following her for past 2years.. and oh my God... She as a woman..is so powerful so positive and clear with her thoughts.. i just love her ❤❤
I am so glad she has a supportive encouraging mother and she had beautiful coregulation , it's so important for caregivers to give healthy emotional regulation by just validating emotion of kids.
Ohh my good how much I loved this malvika was really being so genuine and truthful she is literally a queen love her so much and kudos to you shivani for bringing her and giving us this wonderful piece
Thank you so much for watching Tasleem ❤️
Amazing... I used to follow mals for such a long time and that's why I came here but fell in love with your podcast. It's amazing to see both strong women. Looking forward to see more.
Thank you so much Kiran 🙏🏽
I love you so much Mals. You inspire me everyday to be a better version of myself. This video has been so helpful for me to recognise my trauma, my triggers, my acceptance issues like of gifts, daddy issues and what not. Our story and journey may not be the same but it felt like I feel you and you just said what even my heart wanted to say. So much power to you. Your kid is going to be luckiest to you have you as monther. Whole heart to you. ♥️
The day I randomly found Malvika's separation video, only after watching the first few minutes my heart dropped. Even though i haven't been following her for a long time probably years, just knowing the fact that she is going through a pregnancy & separation, my heart was wrenching for her. I just couldn't watch that video. It took me another 2-3 days to make myself sit though that and oh boy, each couple of mins of that video was another surprise and more deeper wound. I am not married, neither do I have a baby but as a woman i know what she went through is our biggest nightmare. No one ever in their worst of dreams ever wants this to happen all at once. Mals was living the nightmare with a smile on her face. I cried for her. This woman is the epitome of courage and strength. I don't know how she's even able to speak about it without breaking down, I could never. As someone who struggled mentally and was in depression, what she said is 100% fact. Only you can pull yourself out of the mess, it takes a lot of self love to understand that you're the only one who can fight for yourself and pull u through. It takes a lot of courage to realise only you can bring the change in your life and no one else is responsible for how you're feeling. Hats off to her will power, i am so so proud of her.
these were exactly my emotions when i first saw the video. i’ve never actually prayed to god for a content creator who i merely know through the internet, but my heart aches for her and i pray for her to heal soon from all of this. I feel totally. Her better days are coming for sure
No one is stronger than a mother. Malvika has gone through a lot and still she is. But becoming a mother made her stronger than before.. and look at her, she looks stunning❤❤
Watching this the third time and I am sure I will watch this again. This is extremely therapeutic and inspiring. Malvika, thank you for sharing your journey and your learnings with the world. What a beautiful person you are? And Shivani, thank you for conducting such a good interview. ❤ oh gosh, so many pearls of wisdom to take away!
Glad you enjoyed it!
Hi Shivani! I follow Mals from a long time, but this video connected me to at a different level. I want to thank you for bringing this unfiltered version of a woman's journey. It's so difficult to say it out loud that I am not okay and then also buck up to do the self work and make a change. Take charge of our own lives. Takes courage, takes resilience and takes patience. Cheers to all those lovely ladies who choose themselves and be unapologetically kind first to themselves and then exude that to people around them. As @Malvika said - Fill your own cup first and then pour out for others.
Aww Thank you so much for watching Tasneem ❤️
20 minutes into the video and I had t pause to comment. Being a content creator it takes so much guts to share the not so glamorous part of your life and look at her. Heavily pregnant, in the middle of moving houses, dealing with her own separation and her mom's but here she is looking like a million bucks and letting her thoughts flow so freely. The inner work she's done already is so inspiring. Her life seems like a movie from where I stand- somewhat like pursuit of happyness. I can't wait to see her happy ending where she and her baby have made it!
Thank you so much for bringing us this. :)
So well put. Wish you well too.
@Alena you are so sweet and empathetic like me so well explained
God bless you you are pure soul ❤❤
So true!! Thank you so much for watching ❤️
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When she told she comes first … I felt so connected … ❤️ … mom’s often forget to take care of themselves once the baby is born
Authenticity, acknowledgement of feelings, seeking help, motivation, inspiration, self love, healing, self work, shadow work, courage, breaking cycles, unlearning and showing up. So many takeaways from this so very raw podcast. Much love to both Malvika and Shivani. Thank you for being here and doing what you do.
This is so much of a seamless conversation.. And authenticity at both ends.. Lovely podcast! Love Malvika she is so good with makeup just not covering just luxury makeup stuff.. She went through every price category... Love that..
Love how true she is and this is the first time I'm seeing what healing looks like. Proud of you malz and may God help you at every step of life.
This interview is itself so therapeutic. I feel so calm at this point now. Like its ok to feel broken.. N not rushing for healing, but instead giving time. Solved many of confusion. Thanks to both of you.
wow, this is raw and authentic true to life’s actual struggles. people will resonate to these kind of true conversations way better than the glitz and glamours fake conversations in Bollywood and other entertainment media. You are epitome of strength Malvika 🙌🏻 so proud of you girl
And Shivani, heads up to you , you given her your platform to speak out her heart and you being listening so calmly like a therapist 🫶🏻
Amazing content and beautiful soul both of you ❤
Thanks so much for watching 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I am so happy that you interviewed Malvika. She's such an amazing human being. I love her so much❤
Aw thank you so much! I loved recording the podcast too!
I usually never comment
However this video with you and Malvika is truly authentic and as real as life gets. Props to Shivani - your interview style and just your voice is so unique and lovely, you radiate an aura of calmness which is very rare to see. Saw you for the first time. Can't wait to see you more!
Thank you so much for watching ❤️❤️❤️
Girl you've gone through a lot and it so amazing to see you so happy now at this stage, so happy to see you that you're getting more stronger, you know I was zero in makeup, like i didn't know how to do makeup, watching your videos i learned the make-up, so you have gone through a lot of pain so i just pray for your happiness, and good health
Such an empowering & enlightening episode 🙌🏻 Mals thanks for sharing ♥️
I'm left speechless after watching this. I've been following Malvika for a long time now, and I had no idea she went through so much. She's so brave and such an inspiration for so so many people out there. I've also been through my fair share of trauma in life, and I completely agree with Malvika when she says that confidence comes with being true to yourself. It's what has worked for me, someone who had zero confidence growing up.
Thank you, Shivani, for featuring Malvika on your podcast. You're awesome!
The host Shivani is so well mannered and did not interrupt her guest Malvika even once… she was listening very patiently and the conversation was so smooth… A lot ot journalists need to learn this from you Shivani !
Idk if she even read my comment on her separation post but that’s exactly what I said it’s better to have one Happy parent than two unhappy ones. I have just discovered this rebellious part of you and it’s so inspiring I need to learn how to keep my cup full , how to love myself , how to enjoy my own company (coz I hate being alone ).. I probably should start therapy !! U gonna do great Malz … very proud !
Malz we love you! Rooting for you always🩷 Thanks Shivani for interviewing her and being such a great interviewer ❤
So much power, calm, courage and lots of love to you Mals! May the healing be easy for you. ❤
I am so glad she has spoken about her struggles.. Her self work.. Talking abt therapy and things about valuing oneself... This is truly good for ppl watching.. It's positive!
One of the best conversations I have heard. I loved how you asked questions and how Malvika answered all of them. Such a positive person. More power to her. She's gonna be the best mother to her child.
This gave me a lot of clarity by the way she shared about her personal issues and how she is dealing and healing.
Thankyou for this. Loads of love to you as well Shivani.❤️
Vulnerable, powerful, inner strength, rising like a phoenix! This was so authentic ❤️❤️❤️
She is an inspiration to a lot of people who are indeed in search of peace and self love. She is so pure in and out. ♥️
I don't know from where in the world this girl got this wisdom and courage!! I'm absolutely in love with you mals❤❤ you're everything we women needs to be in the coming generation! You literally spoke rock solid facts
Inspired by her strength which I really needed at this point in my life. Thank you Shivani for this. Extremely grateful ❤
One of the best interviews I have watched ....spoken so sensibly and honestly
Girl!!!! It's so relatable 😢. Specifically when somebody does something for me I feel the same way..😢😢😢
just wanted to say that Malvika youre a fighter and such a calm one, that youre wining in life with such grace. More power and support to you.
This is exactly the kind of host we need. No interruptions and bringing out the best in the interviewee. 🧡
Thank you so so much!!
You are so strong Malvika!! Keep changing the world by educating & setting examples ❤
cried listening about u malz .... never thought u went thru so much...love you always
Iam so emotional the entire video💕its so candid and i could feel her! Strength to her
I dont understand the concept of renting a 4bhk, having lavish vacations in first class air tickets, buying luxury cars but never investing in buying a house because "Mumbai is expensive" - the first thing anyone should do if they are living in Mumbai and want to continue living here is to invest in your own home - people don't invest in assets but liabilities this is what happens...I know people would say oh but she can move apartments and live in a dream house of her own.. its not convenient to keep moving places every 2-3 years unless you have a transferable job or something..the lesson one needs to learn here is also that they never invested in assets which is why the riches to rags story - I think this is also what she meant when she said her father had bad habits due to which they suddenly shot up to wealth. Crony means of survival don't always work if you do not have reliable assets and liquidity of the same to fall back upon. Seeing that she has a baby on the way it will be better for her to finally buy an apartment.. doesn't matter if it's a 1bhk or mansion - during tough times your assets help you and how..you can't even mortgage your house against a loan cos you don't own a house..I hope Malvika if you're reading this you don't do the same mistake that your dad did and actually invest smartly in the future.
They had to sell the house. They rented 3bhk after their dad passed, but couldn't make it so went to 1bhk.
@deeptigarg5939 are you new to her channel? See any of her videos or her earlier ones..she has said it a multiple times that they never owned any houses in Mumbai.. still don't own one...the 4bhk was also a rented one..here she clearly says they couldn't make the rent so had to rent a 3bhk and then eventually a 1bhk
@@deeptigarg5939 her dad did not pass..he left them ..their parents got separated
A really sensible comment , don't mistake it for hate or troll .You are actually making a lot of sense , kudos to your maturity.
Unfortunately very rare these days 🎉
@@Prachi608 whe u say we wer very rich n the way she says it ,probably means that had a lot of money n enough money to own a flat but did not
What a heartwarming authentic conversation I have ever heard of after a long time. Kudos to you Mals for putting up the show every single time despite what you are going through. You are truly Wonder Woman.
I respect a lot to Malvika, to be honest she's my role model and hearing her story inspires me a lot. Her self love journey inspires me to go with my self love journey, I know she has went through a lot but I'm so happy that she is getting through it and she is the strongest person I know. Thank you for showing this, it really made my day😭💗
Both of you are so empowering
Really enjoyed this video
I literally learn so much ❤️
I just love her….I have seen her journey she came long way…I still remember she use to sit in that one room but still greatful for what she had when brand use to approach her…and last time she close her house now shifted to new house….I literally had tears and it’s so true woman go through a lot and still standing strong smiling i so relate to her much love to you guys and really loved the episode ❤❤
this was so moving, Malvika - you're a true powerhouse!
Everytime I see her, I fall more for Mals. She teaches us so much about what it takes to build back better with life❤
This is so empowering. Love you Mals! Thank you for this wonderful interaction.
It is so therapeutic to listen to her talks ❤️ I'm not a big fan of vlogger or something, but I see her vlogs just to hear her talk. That is amazingly good ❤. Love her so much. More power to you Mals ❤
Self work is so important and that only happens if you are aware of the smallest things you are experiencing. Every time you said it might be controversial.....its NOT. I really felt so happy that there's someone like you who's heard my inner voice. So, Thank you so much for inspiring and sharing your journey. Lots of love and courage to you Malvika ❤
31.42 I say it very proudly as a flight attendant myself we never say mask on the child first , we always say in the Public Announcement be it in Hindi or English “doosro ki sayahta karne se pehle apna mask pehenle “ which means “wear ur mask first before assisting others” and that applies even for infants & children.
I was waiting for this podcast for so long just to see how’s she doing. I’m in the middle of moving out of my home city and moved to a different one now,so I missed this podcast when it got released. Today my 7am alarm went off and first thing I did was to listen to this podcast… I’m so happy I did!! Because now it’s me first ❤🫂 I wish I could give her a hug 🤗
i have always looked upto mals!!!!! whatever I know about makeup is because of malss, not just makeup watching her videos have always been so therapeutic. such an inspiration and this video has just made me respect her more and more. The self work, talking about the trauma, mals you are here doing god's work, you are inspiring so many of us since always!!!! more power to you. may you feel yourself soon... and your baby is going to be the luckiest child to have such a strong and beautiful mother..
i have so many takes from this video, so much to reflect on.... THANK YOU!!!!
Absolutely real podcast... After a longgg time loved an interview. Mala is lovely & authentic as always, Shivani you too are superb. Classy, candid, real & elegant talk. Kudos you girls!!!💙
Aw thank you SO MUCH ❤️❤️
Malvika is a such a positive person it takes a lot for a person to be so vocal so strong and soo good. She has her priorities sorted that's something I ve learn from her . Even the host is such a sweet one . She is so positive too .
Thank you 🥰🥰🥰
This is The Mals we love her .. Her loyalty and Pure heart talk ..lifting up herself and encourage us to do the same .... We can keep hearing her more then 2hours also.. Love listening her.. Loveyu mals you are the Strong women ..love❤
Mals! You got this. We are here for you. Loads of love 💕
So inspiring and so authentic ♥️ Love you Malvika and wishing all the happiness 🫶🏻🤗
Was really excited for this episode!
Love this episode ❤
Lots of love Mals 😊
A podcast where you’ll be able pick up a lot of learnings and life lessons. Loved every second of it from the beginning til the very end. Props to these two smart, beautiful women 👏🏻
Thank you so much Pardeep 🥰🥰
This was the most refreshing podcast and interview I have ever watched!!! Malvika, I loved your views on so much that was spoken about in this and how unafraid you were to say things as they were. Your baby is going to have the best mom, because she has unlocked something that not many dare to do... and you both are going to be showered with all that you've been stripped off of, and so so much more. 🥰💖
Sending you so much love for the rest of your pregnancy, healing journey, motherhood... and I hope that, first and foremost, YOU never stop loving yourself!!! 🥰💫
P.S. Shivani, thank you so much for bringing this to us, and for creating a safe space for Malvika to share what she did so openly. 🥰🤗
This podcast is so much inspirational 🥺❤️
Agree with you....I feel we saw Malvika up close and personal in this
Thank you ❤️❤️
Malvika love how honest you were in the show❤ more power to you! You go girl!
It’s nice to see you doing so well. I hate that fact when people say what other people are going to say about your situation, it’s your journey and they’re not part of it once you realize it’s only your path and you don’t think about other people that’s it, that’s when you start to live your life. I agree with you on that no matter how much support you get from your loved ones but you still feel alone because nobody can take away your pain, it’s your own journey to heal. You will come out of this difficult situation because you’re a strong woman 👩 ❤
This was truly a geniune conversation. Looking at her I now feel even I can get over my breakup. I will be okay too. The world has not ended.
Mal's is always an amazing therapist...like she just puts up all the things she's going through into words in a raw and real way,without hiding anything like literally anything...that sorts of helps all of us when we go through a situation like that...that is when we understand the situation and try to go through and deal with it...forever greatful and love you Mal's🤍Thank you so much Shivani for making this happen and we get to hear and take so much from this almost 1 hour solid podcast✨
I have never seen such an honest influncer before. You are so so brave malz. And you have learnt all the right lessons from your circumstances. Your baby will have such a strong mother. S/he will be sooo proud of you❤❤
I have not watched it yet, just started the video and only clicked because its Malvika Sitlani! I saw her RUclips journey from start and will support her always! She is one of few Indian RUclipsrs i adore the most
Wow, Mals. Kudos to you! What a journey and what a strong woman you are. Thank you for being so "real"; it's very inspiring. Wish you all the best in the days to come. Keep smiling and keep being You. 👍😍😊
Thankyou so much for interviewing our favourite girl! She is such an inspiration and so much to learn from!❤ love her to bits 😘
More power to you Mals. The honesty, the thing you said about being okay Disappointing your parents is something people needed to hear ❤
Lovely podcast. Really intelligent questions too. Some real talk, finally !
Thank you for this interview, just feel like most of the things said here were important to be heard
I have so much respect for you. Wishing you all happiness in your life. You spread so much positivity even though you are going through so much. You are an inspiration to all. Lots of love to you❤
Malvika should be on Ted Talk. So much she said that many should hear, specially the loving yourself and pregnancy things.
love your honesty and how genuine you are 😊 i’m pregnant and can relate with you on so many level! thank you for being so strong and being a role model for so many people!! 🙌
Best best podcast ever she is an inspiration she really taught us about selflove which is most important
I'm in the similar phase of my life and thank god, youtube recommended this video to me.. this is so therapeutic and inspirational, learned a lot and definitely will help me to come out of this phase. Thanks both ❤
Thank YOU 🙏🏽🙏🏽
More power to you girl. You'll come out of it ❤
@@Sammy-sm4yg thanks 🙏. I hope so too.
I don't have words for how brilliant this episode was... Love love love 🥰💗
I have so so much love for this woman right here…shes in so many ways like me and the fact that she normalized so many taboo topics is just so amazingly empowering to every woman out there. She is the epitome of a empowered self made woman that i have come to greatly respect and love. More power to you mals for everything you have been through and still learning to heal yourself as well as others on this journey of love, loss, sadness and healing. I hope there are better days coming for you and i hope you know how loved and admired you are. A QUEEN THAT DOESNT LET HER CROWN SLIP.
I love this so much! I never really watch podcasts. The reel got me here and Malvika it’s been a pleasure to just listen to you and watch you stand so strong you are such a inspiration. Thank you for inspiring me❤