Emotional Intelligence: Using the Laws of Attraction | D. Ivan Young | TEDxLSCTomball
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- The "Laws of Attraction" are real; inasmuch, there is a Divine Component. Connecting Personality Type to The Laws of Attraction positions you for immediate manifestation of your desires while unleashing your preordained purpose. Your Creator gave you a unique Personality Type for a reason.
There are many words that describe Dr. D Ivan Young, but here are the few that I chose - discerning, enlightened, a spiritual teacher and sagacious philosopher. Seldom does someone possess the ability to connect, at a core level, to impact so many different and varying people. His witty insight into how, and moreover why, people do the things they do is astonishing. Having known Dr. Young for a few years, never have I seen him at a loss for words or searching for an answer. His compassion, his love, and his authentic way of communicating to us exactly what we need to hear and when we need to hear it has profoundly changed my life, and the lives of everyone I’ve witnessed him come in contact with.
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx
Whom ever is reading this, may you attract what you truly desire!
Lamborghini Gallardo 2004
Lord of the Jungle thanks for that I needed it.
@@vikramlall6182 😄
Same to you!
Lord of the Jungle thank you!
Been living like this for 5 years. It was tough at first. Now my mind is quiet. I am busier than i ever thought. Opportunity is everywhere. Its beautiful and a little crazy.
How'd you go about it?
I feel you
@@geff7207 that’s what I want to know too
How did you go about it please share
@@jolieandrus9936 I feel like a good start is finding what your passionate about and really want out of life. Focusing on one thing at a time until you achieve it rather then trying to achieve multiple things at once. Just take some time to think about what you really want and what it means to you. Why do you want what you want? The key is truly wanting it. If you desire it and seek it, it has no choice but to come at some point. That sang "if you go looking for trouble your going to find it" is no different. Go find what you want.
Summary -
- Spend more time thinking about things you want
- Stop being anxious about past and future and operate in right now.
- You will train your subconscious mind to manifest your desires
- Everything happens for a reason
- Examine every moment for its meaning - what is this supposed to teach me right now?
- Stop being reactive become proactive
- Don’t listen to respond, listen to understand
- Always ask why? Why am I doing what I am doing?
- Passion, purpose, presence
- Feel, Believe, Receive
- That what you seek, that what you desire, is equally seeking you.
Ayush Khandelwal nice
Thank you! 🙏🏻
You've paid attention. Thank you!
I appreciate you, and everyone else who does this; time is valuable.
Thank youuu
If you're reading this, I hope something that is fill with joy and love happens to you today !
Norraine you too honey!
where ever you are stay healthy stay happy .
Norraine received!
Aww that's so sweet to say. I'm having a hard second half of 2019 and just wanted to say thanks for writing that
Thank you friend. Blessings right back to you today for joy and love as well 😊
May who is reading this be blessed!
Gina Dimauro May you be blessed as well!!
I pray the same for you. Have a day that matters. Have a day that means something 🤘🏾😎🤘🏾
Gina Dimauro I hope you’re blessed as well!
Thank you!
Have a blessed day!
I wrote an entire how to book in under a month because I kept telling myself I am an expert in it and believe deeply that I am and began to realize that I really am. My editor said my book is good 😊
Poet Victoria Hunter that is amazing!!! Congratulations. When it drops, please tag me so that I can support you!!!
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Poet Victoria Hunter congratulations
Poet Victoria Hunter WOW!!! I needed to hear this!
Congratulations, what is the name of your book and where can i find it
I love the end. “What you seek... is equally seeking you!” Preach!
Great
It'll find you but it'll be upto you to recognize it and embrace it.
Perhaps he should be doing a talk over this aspect too!
I've heard that before sounds great. I believe the universe always works for us. Trust and believe !
@James Ramirez if you are referring to me, being Dave I don't get mixed up with people online involving money. I deal with verifiable companies or people I know personally who have a proven track record. No disrespect but I'm never interested.
I think it's from one of Rumi's poem
“Don’t listen to respond,listen to understand”
200 iq play
listen understand respond and meditate on jesus the son of god and repent
@@spikenardmz3355 No.
@@O0001yes
Great ted talk. If you get annoyed by someone maybe that's a sign that that's a trait that you need to work on. True
sohaib ahmed yeah this stood out to me as well
I swear I thought he was talking right at me
sohaib ahmed sure
sohaib ahmed I've heard this over the years and see thats not always true. But I do know that when a person is ready or need to learn a thing that all relevant info will "pop up"
Please someone explain that to me?
THIS IS THE TYPE OF EDUCATION THAT WILL BE TAUGHT IN OUR SCHOOL SYSTEMS 👏🏽👏🏽 he did absolutely amazing !!
Our future teachers will know the mistakes of today and take great heed to steer from them with grace
great same suggestion gievn by one the eminent writer , psychologist Daniel Goleman in his write emotional intelligence .
This guys feels like a father I wish I had.
Touch my heart with your words... 😒
Deep
Whom ever is reading this, may you attract what you truly desire!. Educated man indeed, great speech. ''What you seek, is seeking you''..
This guy managed to explain Happiness rationally :
"As you learn *to master being sensitive* to the little things,
you will *train your subconscious mind* to manifest the things you truly desire"
I like how this comment had no replies until I replied - just shows how powerful of a quote it is. No replies needed...
Wolf yes
Be Mindful of...🤔
Why are so many people offended by what he said being "too preachy"?
Take the parts that work for you and leave the rest.
He was just speaking about how thinking negatively brings negativity to your life. Lol
Search for the positive. There was a whole lot of good in what he said.
Exactly. All religions have some form of belief in this. I feel foolish saying this but...I fought against this belief for years. I didnt start believing in the possibility of it until about 2 years ago. I thought I was losing my mind bc things I thought about and told no one started playing out in my life. I thought a huge prank was being played on me tbh..
Thing is, sometimes God will draw ppl to u and vice versa. If you're on the same vibration then I believe clarity and understanding is just sharper.
Some people aren't ready to hear the truth!.
People consider it too preachy because they’re not ready to listen to what hes saying. Theyre unconsciously resisting to change but to each his own pace. People often reject someone that can teach them better because their ego cant take it
Educated man indeed, great speech. ''What you seek, is seeking you''.
Djalâl ad-Dîn Rûmî 's quote
What you seek is seeking you this quote is by Rumi who lived in 12 century....
Like Earl Nightingale stated, "you become what you think about."
Evelyn C i listen to my boy Earl daily. And it shapes your mind just like this man has.
The bible said that
@@jamesbates5552 lol ikr
Streetzlegend has
Alana C 💯💯💯💯
Constantly thinking positively and about what you want to achieve will make you more likely to achieve it but it doesn't mean it'll just automatically come to you. Thinking positively means you won't give up and you'll be less afraid to try. Always thinking about what you want to achieve helps you come up with new ideas, but ultimately it's still down to you to do everything. I can't believe how many people buy into the idea that they can change the universe buy doing nothing other than thinking about it.
Tom Lennon I totally agree with you. So so true
Tom Lennon Everything is energy FIRST - but not "only". So for example - first you'd need to allow and trust abundance (wealth, money and/or luck) in order to win the lottery, but you still have to go out and buy the actual ticket. Take "inspired actions" that are in alignment with your "positive thoughts".
Tom Lennon well I see you clearly haven't done this yourself before
Tom Lennon In order to achieve something, you have to become the person that would expect it, because the person that would have what you desire already has it/expects it. (hope you can follow) so when you have the mental shift yourself in the way you think, and you become that person, it very much seems like it's come to you.
Tom Lennon also to clarify, I'm not saying they're doing nothing.
However try it out for yourself.
I’m becoming emotionally intelligent! One way I keep my mind on track is playing these TED talks. I started a new job and I’ve been doing all these steps unknowingly in my day to day life. I sometimes feel silly, being so foreign to the social world at my age (24), but I stay motivated and keep pushing because I want to! Not because I have to. Life is awesome, we are lucky to get to work on these things!
It’s totally fine to feel like this . You got this 💕
"... there's some part of your character that's being reflected on you, through them." Come on now 🙌🏾
Lo Love That's deep.
Ladies Im trying to capture this and just can't seem to grasp... I'm came in the "comments" section seeking answers instead I found people to ask...can either of you give me an example of this statement ?
Meaning pls¡
@@deniemmonroe6234 often what we don't like in other people, we tend to do display those same traits. Example: I don't like people that complain, yet you may find yourself complaining all the time about traffic or your neighbors. Example: you don't like nosey people or a person, yet you read tabloids or gossip sites. There's a part of you being reflected in people that gravitate towards you. Example: narcissistic lovers, you may have had a narcissistic parent & those narcissistic traits in your lover may be hidden but what is it about what your use too that gravitated you to keep going back? It's deep but I didn't want this to be long.
@@deniemmonroe6234 using a personal example, I hate people that don't use their money sparingly, not because I care about their finances, but probably because I wish I have the courage to not think too much about the future and stop saving my money religiously. or maybe I wish I'm in their circumstance where money isn't too much of a problem for them
From this video, I've learned about the concept of connecting personality type to the laws of attraction and how it can lead to the manifestation of desires and the fulfillment of one's purpose. Dr. D Ivan Young's perspective on the divine component of the laws of attraction resonates with me, as it emphasizes the importance of understanding oneself and aligning with one's unique personality type to attract what is desired in life. His ability to connect with people on a deep level and offer insightful wisdom is truly remarkable. I appreciate his compassionate and authentic communication style, which has the power to positively impact lives.
"It takes effort to be succesful, but the greatest effort is mastering how do you use your mind"
Everything happens for a reason ……the betrayal of the person who I thought was the love of my life teach me to stop looking for validation in them n start loving every inch of myself, remember everything starts with us n the way we feel about ourselves!! I really hope you start you self healing journal today because you’re worth it.
I truly hope I feel this one day
We are all linked to the universe what we think and desire the Universe will provide so positive thoughts and positive desires is the key for a happy prosperous life.
Thoughts + Feelings = Manifestations
Interesting
Correct! Greetings from the Philippines
Creative Imagination and Creative Intelligence !
Getting in touch with your feelings (Subconscious mind).
Agree...so we can go & give as a try.. to be happy
My takeaway: You think of negativity, you will get it. You think of positivity you will get it. Thanks D. Ivan!
Take Away Points -
-Like attracts like expectations
-What you you feel/consistently think about, you will get
-Monitor what you think about (Thoughts + Feelings = Manifestations)
-Learn to master your subconscious mind, be sensitive to your surroundings & circumstances
-Operate right now, do not stress over the past or future and your subconscious mind will manifest the things you desire
-Everything in your life happens for a reason, ask yourself why.
-Why am I doing this? What motivates me to do this?
-Don't wait for an answer - meditate. The better you feel about something, the more you do it
-Be willing to examine every moment for it's meaning. What is this moment trying to teach you right now?
-Stop being reactive, become more proactive
-Seek Truth
-Confront yourself and others
-Passion, Purpose, Presence
-Feel, Believe Receive
-Run on faith - without seeing outcomes but knowing you will get the results you desire
-That which you seek, that which you desire, that which you long for, is equally seeking you.
• You have to run on Faith, you have to run not seeing the outcome but just Knowing that there will be the result that you desire
• And aaaas you Feeeeeel, aaas you Belieeeve...you will Recieeeeeeeeeeeeieve.
• That what you desire, that what you long for. That what you seek.....is equally seeking you.
Anks Lee you’re picture is from spotify right? 😂
If you’re reading this, you are deserving of peace, success and hardship. You have the power and the strength to become your individual self. Believe in your journey
The best way to monitor your thoughts is to do meditation and train your mind to be present so from then you start to be more aware of your thoughts because now your training your mind and body to be present. Make prayer, meditation and gratitude a daily routine.
Beautifully said. I'm going to start asking myself "why are you there" whenever I get into a situation I don't like.
Staying positive and understanding the situations your in is important. That’s why my motto is; Never Personal Always Purpose. It doesn’t matter what we encounter we don’t have to take it personal, everything has purpose behind it
Hello The how are you doing today i hope everything is fine with you?
my favorite added affirmation from this talk: what i seek, is equally seeking me.
That what you seek
That what you desire
That what you long for
.... is equally seeking you 💖
One of the best messages on Law of Attraction I've heard. I shared it all over the place. lol
Great Video clip! Sorry for chiming in, I am interested in your initial thoughts. Have you heard about - Lammywalness his happiness Guide (do a google search)? It is a good one of a kind product for understanding what men really want minus the hard work. Ive heard some extraordinary things about it and my old buddy Taylor after a lifetime of fighting got cool results with it.
Real truth. Thank you.
Judi Grace Storycorps.
Lacresha Hayes-Raino My favorite is 'work until you no longer have to introduce yourself'.
Im glad someone got it cause im sitting here thinking the opposite
Lacresha Hayes-Raino girl I hear ya!!!
Year 2020 and I just found this video! Awesome message! The laws of attraction will always work in my favor!! I truly believe this!
2020#💯
I just found this video too 🙌🏽
Me 2♡
The speaker sounds like a buddhist. Whatever he is, his words were beautiful because they serve nothing other then truth and the desire for others to succeed. Wonderful person, blessings to you.
I have often worried that most men simply lacked the capacity to be emotionally intelligent, to quiet the mind and be proactive instead of reactive as Dr. Young mentioned. But you are correct Dr. Young. I have merely been here like a sitting duck allowing myself to feel almost victimized and unwilling to attract men who have embraced the capacity you have studied and practiced. But with your reminder, I am now ready to begin seeking out the men that I know exist who can open themselves up and discuss emotions the way that we believe is healthy. Thanks Doc!
thanks :) it is kind of funny, I actually met someone, a date, who is just this way, and I am so grateful! You are absolutely right, we have to stick with our intentions!
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T Rosa good luck w that
It's just means that men are more emotional thAn women..
T Rosa amen girl!!
I like how he said, “You don’t need to know the ball is coming. You just gotta keep running.” Not needing confirmation is HUGE to the ability of endurance. Keep doing it, believing with all your heart you’ll find it, and you will succeed. That’s faith
"After all, that which you seek,
that which you desire,
that which you long for,
is equally seeking you.”
This came at the right time, I’m trying to process some bad news and this is helping so much. Thank you 😊
Claudia Okyere-Fosu awwwww sweetie I
Hope you get an understanding of what is occurring right now
I hope you get through it
I pray strength for you keep focus nhave a open mind 😁😁😁😁😁
Adding onto his mention of meditation, I do think being silent is the best way to sort out our desires and thoughts, but you don't have to sit down and not move for half an hour to get the benefits. I find showering to be really meditative, because I'm blocked from all distractions and the loud background noise of the shower blocks out my loudest thoughts and allows me to think about things that have been in the back of my mind all day. Just doing any physical task where it doesn't require you to think to do it is a good way to get that meditation in, like working out alone in a room or taking walks outside alone. By allowing yourself to be alone and silent you make yourself one step closer to figuring you and your desires out, which will help you on your path to success.
i think that emotional intelligence is increased one you are relentlessly yourself and you have a good sense of self-worth.
Jolly Jokress that’s true 😁
Jolly Jokress “Relentlessly yourself.” Beautifully phrased.
I have a high level of EI.
I wish I could speak with such power and have such presence on stage. I literally stopped typing my work to pay close attention to this talk. Absolutely great ❤️
I needed this ✝️🙏🏾💪🏾
Yes!!! A doctor who is so pleasant to listen to. So nice to hear a caring educated man speak of the universe and people’s relationships to it.
this might truly be THE best ted ex talk out there! everything he said just resonated with me in a deeper level and i'm so grateful to have stumbled upon this videos
This is so great. I am going to consciously allow this message to penetrate the way I live and respond to life's circumstances. Thank you so much for this mind altering message.
“Dont wait to talk, truly listen.”
I dont know why but this hit deep
Love it! Best LOA lecture ever. It runs perfectly together. I like his examples , he explains everything in lamens terms . EXCELLENT!
This speaker resonates so well with higher principles. I'm extremely impressed.
The way he broke down the law, was easy to receive and understand!
Love it!
this is one of the best presentations i’ve seen. simply calling this a lecture understates the value of not only what’s being said, but how it’s said as well. I’m going to watch this video at the beginnings and ends of my days at least three times a week.
Oh my. The way he ended it gave me chills. I believe in the Law of Attraction and the universe has been proving to me that it works. I needed to hear this message. Thanks so much!
This Ted talk changed my life. I never understood emotional intelligence till this video.
in 12 minutes one of the best talks I've ever heard in my life. I thank you for your time.
My favorite part is the last sentence. The whole talk was simple to understand. Just perfect. Thank you.
Amazing speech. Been thinking about this for a while now. He put it into words..
seek the greater truth...: "you said i can't, the system says i can't, but something inside me tells me *_i can_* "
you have to run on faith ☺
Something Within me ! love that song
This guy is incredibly insightful! "How do you use your mind?" Love it!
"That what you seek, that what you desire, that what you long for, is equally seeking YOU! " Loved that!
Took me all over the world with that one, I going to watch this many times and study it until I overstand it.
I agree...
You know this is one of the most beneficial TED videos I've ever seen or it at the least came to me at the right time in my life. I've been surrounded by people who say i can't when i feel the burning "yes i can". It also had me reflect on my negative experiences with people and really back up to think about why i feel this and what bothers me about it so much. Being able to find the similarities between you and the person you can't stand is one of the hardest things to reflect on if you aren't prepared for it and now i do feel prepared! Thank you!
I like this guy from the start, taking a moment to appreciate his fellow speakers.
I told myself, the first video i will see in youtube tonight will provide me comfort at this very trying time. Had a hard day today. This video came up. His words hit the spot! Thank you!
This is one of the best TED videos I’ve ever watched!
thank you so much for sharing these wise words
I haven’t been living my life the way I should. Nor have I have emotionally aware of any of my own self destructive habits. I’m blessed to have been able to come across this video. Thank you so much!
His words spoke exactly what I feel in my soul. I know I'm in the right place when I start hearing my heart speak to me again and my soul feeling so fullfilled it could explode. It's the best feeling. The Alchemist really made me understand better what that voice inside me was.. it's deff full of the Law of Attraction.
This speaker was wonderful.
It wasn't a sermon but he went to church with this🔥
Thank you for a great talk
Beautifully said! This speech offers a lot to reflect on. The ending in particular really gives me hope. Thank you for your words! 🙏
This talk got me in the most helpful rabbithole in my life. I truly think I understood a lot about my mind and what brought me in my current situation. I’m ready for change now. Thanks a lot Dr.
So much praise. Everyone here must be better listeners because I had trouble following and connecting the dots. If it was one, streamlined topic to a majority of you, I am aware of my deficiency and desire these skills. By rule, now it should manifest. 🔥🔥
Starting off the New Year the right way.. very thankful for this message
It’s amazing that his gift has been manifested. I have learned a lot from this Talk and I will love to watch it again and more. Please pray and ask God for wisdom as to how to go about this. It is truly blessing
Hi from future..i discover this just today but his talk is timeless...
This is the best 12 minute lecture I’ve heard on this topic!
Speechless... What I can I say? All I studied, learned, believed on the subject, he got it! Well said, well explained. Just feels good to have of some kind of confirmation!
Brilliantly said.I took notes. I am so grateful for the insightfulness that it gave me. Thank you so very much!
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Best TED talk ever!!! Love love love it! Bless you, Dr. D Ivan Young! ❤ This video found me when I needed it most! Thank you!
Mind blown! So calm yet so powerful.
I loved this. I’ve needed to rewrite my anxious mind for sometime but I would consistently go back to the same kind of thinking. This makes so much sense
Things will come to you when your feelings and thoughts are ready to receive it. Harmony and Alignment. 2020! We got this! You are not alone.
well presented and SO INTERESTING .....THANK YOU
I re watch this everyday and I went from an addict with no ambitious to a family man and now I have started a yt something I've wanted to do with years, words aren't as powerful as actions, you gotta love to learn, and learn to love💜
When you seek your greater truth, you’ll find the path to your purpose... what I gathered from the video.. very inspiring
beautiful talk! thank you so much.
1.Emotional intelligence is the clarity about the situation that has occurred.
2.We put our emotion into things that we are thinking.
3. Monitore what you think about 🤔
4. Don't focus on negative things get rid of it
5. Understand that the conscious thinking is not the solution.
6. There are no accidents Master Oogway.
7. If you struggle with something ask why this is happening to me ? Why now? Why me? What should I learn from it?
8. Meditate Find time to stay quiet to stay with your own thoughts.
9. Seek the truth. You have a tunneled narrow vision so don't think that you know s lot.
I'm enhancing my active listening so thats why I noted ✅️
One of the best Law of Attraction videos out there which addresses the key ingredient i.e. investment of emotion on the thing that you want to attract!
Best TED talk I have watched. What an Angel this man is... wow.
Thank you thank you thank you 🙏🏼 This is a truly inspiration talk!
I believe I can manifest the thing I desire! (Healthier mind) and so can you! Blessings to everyone!
He Snapped!! This is the best Ted talk I have ever listened to. He speak clearly about everything we ever need to become higher in life.
Best Ted talk I ever heard! Thank you
“The better you feel about it, the more you should do it. And if it doesn’t make sense to anyone but you... all the better.” ✨👌🏼
One of these talks you Start watching while you do something, but then being so amazed, that you stop everything and just watch
AMEN "run on faith" my mom preached this to me and my siblings all the time
Absolutely love this talk! Speaking my Language and what I strive to teach my clients too! Thank-you for your work and talk D. Ivan Young!
I'm constantly bombarded by negative thoughts surrounding my relationship with my parents & own self esteem that I believe they rubbed off on me. I constantly focus on the person I want to be and the relationships that I want to archive, because I know that it lies somewhere within me to live up to my full potential and intelligence. I wouldn't want something this badly if it wasn't within my abilities to manifest.
I've been practicing positive thinking and visualizing what it is exactly I want but so far I've seen minimal change...I have to keep trying though because it's all I have left. I'm really hoping with perseverance & intent, this will pay off.
Great attitude. Regardless of what anyone has seemingly done, take ownership of how you feel. You shall continue to get better.
It will. Just keep going and don't give up. I'm on a similar path as you. We'll get there. ☺
bro same i like your train of thought.
Leo Hagan very similar x
Very relatable.
Tears are streaming down my face. You’ve explained a topic that I’ve heard and read about again and again. I almost “subconsciously” watched this video bc of how many I’ve seen. I really understand now. Thank you as this was a game changer for me. Much love.
Hi
One of the bests ted speeches I’ve seen
This was better than church! I can truly say I’m asking myself why to so many things but resting in the assurance that everything is how it should be right now. Not living in the past