Rascal Flatts - What Hurts The Most

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  • @kelleybryant5947
    @kelleybryant5947 4 года назад +20271

    My wife and I got married two months ago. Covid 19 killed her last week. I wanted honor her and our love. I searched the broken road. Then I saw this song. Always brought tears to my eyes even before.

    • @DarthFurie
      @DarthFurie 4 года назад +978

      I'm so sorry. May she rest in peace. May her memory be a blessing

    • @normalaverageguy1381
      @normalaverageguy1381 4 года назад +494

      Im sorry for your loss Kelly, I hope you recover from your broken heart, f*ck COVID, it killed many people

    • @saintwayne1296
      @saintwayne1296 4 года назад +281

      Try ur best to Be and Stay STRONG BROTHER ! Im sure ur a good guy.Ive herd people say when a song, a good movie or a good deed can bring a guy to tears, he's no longer a boy, but a man. U STAND STRONG while this Storm passes. Keep good support around you, be amused those you love.

    • @preciouspayne723
      @preciouspayne723 4 года назад +122

      Im so sorry

    • @missinkevin
      @missinkevin 4 года назад +108

      I'm so sorry for ur loss

  • @lesliemartin1174
    @lesliemartin1174 5 лет назад +4880

    He was only 16. I had loved him for 5 years. He was killed in a car wreck. I saw him in ICU and didn't recognize him but he knew I was there. At 47 I still can't let his soul rest. We still belong together and I pray he is the 1st I see when my time comes. I miss you Billy. 2/12/87.

    • @taradactule6052
      @taradactule6052 5 лет назад +233

      I lost my first love in a car accident..drinking and driving..he was my neighbor and my best friend for many years until we finally admitted we were in love...he was gone 2 months later..life is a funny thing sometimes.

    • @jrb145
      @jrb145 5 лет назад +15

      💛

    • @taradactule6052
      @taradactule6052 5 лет назад +8

      @@nopenope1438 ohhh you're so edgy.

    • @jamestaylor9004
      @jamestaylor9004 5 лет назад +25

      @@taradactule6052 I'm so sorry to hear about your first love, i know it is hard

    • @joelreynolds9395
      @joelreynolds9395 5 лет назад +25

      im sure he watchin over you,u noticed things threw the years.

  • @carriesliva1719
    @carriesliva1719 11 месяцев назад +495

    I know the girl at the beginning is acting. I'm crying because I feel that pain. I'm going through it right now with the loss of my husband. I just want to scream and cry. Together on this earth 21 years. Together in Heaven forever.

    • @itz_eazy_e
      @itz_eazy_e 11 месяцев назад +14

      I am so sorry about your loss. I cannot imagine//fathom loosing somebody so important. I have loss a father, uncles, grandparents, but nothing must compare.
      I need my other half.
      God bless you and your journey. We all know, he would want, what is best for you!!🕊️

    • @addone2745
      @addone2745 11 месяцев назад +8

      Lord be with you 🙏 so sorry for your loss.

    • @mayracruz3121
      @mayracruz3121 10 месяцев назад +5

      My boyfriend die cancer one year ago only God help us go through it

    • @AaronSmith-cz6qx
      @AaronSmith-cz6qx 10 месяцев назад +4

      I am so sorry for your loss

    • @AlexisBraun-zv1pm
      @AlexisBraun-zv1pm 10 месяцев назад +3

      God bless you!!! God loves you!!✝️✝️😭🙏😭

  • @Dave_Cymru
    @Dave_Cymru 9 месяцев назад +232

    It is not depression, that is felt when listening to sad songs; it is simply the release of stifled emotions from a moment in time that was so traumatic, the pain was left until 'we' are strong enough to both remember that moment and the desire to move on!

    • @gabrielacastillo9640
      @gabrielacastillo9640 6 месяцев назад +7

      Oh wow I just started crying hard at this comment 😭 but why is this true 🥺 I can’t move on even after so many years since I was 15 now I’m 23 💔❤️‍🩹

    • @James-nl6fu
      @James-nl6fu 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@gabrielacastillo9640 ♥️love makes miracles happen/for me in when I stepped into "pepperland" Austria,... I had no idea how beautifull life could be until it happened♥️

    • @joeydubs8694
      @joeydubs8694 4 месяца назад +2

      idek why i cry to it other then the fact its a beautiful song.

    • @gabrielacastillo9640
      @gabrielacastillo9640 4 месяца назад +2

      @@Dave_Cymru I hope you achieve all your goals in life 🥰 you deserve to be happy ♥️ thank you for such sweet kind words🥹

    • @KristenTwitty
      @KristenTwitty 3 месяца назад +1

      Beautifully said

  • @YunoSage
    @YunoSage 4 года назад +861

    The most painful goodbyes are the ones that are never said and never explained..

    • @beyondbeautiful1820
      @beyondbeautiful1820 4 года назад +13

      Agreed

    • @kristinwoodward7087
      @kristinwoodward7087 4 года назад +8

      Yep 😭

    • @avajewels8212
      @avajewels8212 3 года назад +11

      Yea. Me and my ex decided to be friends after we broke up and we only stayed friends after that for like a month because he all of a sudden stopped talking to me. I didn’t get my goodbye even though he promised he would say goodbye.

    • @fezzitta
      @fezzitta 3 года назад +8

      It makes it harder to move on...

    • @beckigates1637
      @beckigates1637 3 года назад +4

      exactly

  • @wendydrake1571
    @wendydrake1571 4 года назад +3275

    God I miss you chris......our kids miss you. 3 years already. Your daughter is a senior she did it. Your son is joining the army in a year. We raised great kids. You were the best father. You were my bestfriend. I'll forever love you. I dont know how I do this everyday. Til I see you again....love your wife!

    • @joycemoss6205
      @joycemoss6205 4 года назад +91

      prayers for you and your family

    • @seansloan5
      @seansloan5 4 года назад +89

      You must have been a good wife and mother also. Peace to you.

    • @sagerodriguez9321
      @sagerodriguez9321 4 года назад +61

      I'm so sorry for your loss.. your incredibly strong and I'm sure hes looking down on you so proud. Keep your head up always love. Your an amazing woman

    • @azyienegarcia2924
      @azyienegarcia2924 4 года назад +49

      I was already crying while listening to this song and this just made me cry even more!!! condolence to you and your family, I understand what it's like to lose someone you truly loved.

    • @1prettygirl87
      @1prettygirl87 4 года назад +26

      Okay I was not ready to feel my own feelings in the comments section today

  • @shreyachatterjee5008
    @shreyachatterjee5008 2 года назад +1428

    This song hit home. Lost my dad to suicide 20+ years ago and my mom to cancer last year. I couldn't get to say goodbye to either of them and it kills me. The grief is just too much to handle. But somewhere I read - grief is only a reflection of love. I couldn't hurt this much if I didn't love them that much.
    To everyone who's lost someone, I'm thinking of you. Please tell your loved ones that you love them.

    • @asdfghjkat1
      @asdfghjkat1 2 года назад +23

      Lost my dad to covid last year…they say you never get over grief you just grow around it…and grief is all the un given love and unfullfilled dreams you couldnt with them … be gratefull on the time you had with them here

    • @williamparrish551
      @williamparrish551 2 года назад +11

      I lost mine 9 years ago he overdosed

    • @meltaylor9116
      @meltaylor9116 2 года назад +6

      🙏🙏

    • @clarrissaharrison4491
      @clarrissaharrison4491 2 года назад +10

      I loss my brother to Suicide in June 2017

    • @ms.youcanquotemeonthat1858
      @ms.youcanquotemeonthat1858 2 года назад +11

      My oldest brother committed suicide n mom died of lung cancer in didnt want her kids REGRET any final choices of her life so she left out of her end decisions to protect us.
      ....mannnnnnnnnn...I miss n hurt for them

  • @MyHandleRocks
    @MyHandleRocks 3 месяца назад +107

    Can we recognize that this young lady was a fantastic actress during that breakdown scene???!!!! I felt that scream in my soul.

    • @lyndawhite5171
      @lyndawhite5171 2 месяца назад

      Uh, no.
      And what’s up with the mother? Just hugging the bed post ?
      Nooooo, really bad actors in this one. Sorry just my opinion.

    • @marcgardner1216
      @marcgardner1216 2 месяца назад +4

      I love the portrayal of a strong father who probably set down an unpopular boundary and stayed firm in his love for his daughter, and comforted her even when she stormed at him. He was truly the man of the house, and his daughter and wife knew it and were secure under his solid love.

    • @Bfolks84
      @Bfolks84 2 месяца назад +6

      She killed it.. she breaks my heart every time I watch this video.

    • @juliejones974
      @juliejones974 2 месяца назад

      The meaning went over your head​@@lyndawhite5171

    • @juliestevens0426
      @juliestevens0426 Месяц назад +4

      @@lyndawhite5171 because she knew the daughter would have pushed her away. the daughter needed to be angry at somebody and the parents were the bad guys and they let her rage when she needed to. the mother sits with her in the bathroom when she's having morning sickness because she's pregnant and i think suspected at the beginning but hadn't gotten the courage to tell him

  • @ashleymcneil916
    @ashleymcneil916 5 лет назад +857

    Whoever the girl is, she needs recognition! I cried before the song even started . That pain & hurt I know all to well !

    • @christytrim291
      @christytrim291 4 года назад +22

      She did an amazing job!! 👏

    • @user-ku4tf5um7t
      @user-ku4tf5um7t 4 года назад +2

      Me also

    • @user-ku4tf5um7t
      @user-ku4tf5um7t 4 года назад +12

      I love that part wen girl ask boy what do you c boy answers I see you

    • @gavinrussell9242
      @gavinrussell9242 4 года назад +3

      michele i,m a da to a 18 yrd old good looking girl and prats of of guys are sniffing aobiut ? so i,m like rambo kicking them away

    • @eternalskeptic3294
      @eternalskeptic3294 4 года назад +5

      Dad at 0:18 and 0:45😭

  • @beammichael
    @beammichael Год назад +644

    This takes me back to the one that got away. This pain has never left me. I was 21, I’m 63 still hurts. Great song

    • @Brandon_Allen00559
      @Brandon_Allen00559 Год назад +9

      Did you ever find someone else?

    • @jeroenbroeils
      @jeroenbroeils Год назад +14

      was 19 now 43 never the same feel you

    • @wallaceluna6241
      @wallaceluna6241 Год назад +6

      Feels you bro. Shit just happened to me. Aint even going to try again cuz It's pointless.

    • @MrRich-bp7id
      @MrRich-bp7id Год назад +6

      I’m watching her walk away currently I’m 28

    • @beammichael
      @beammichael Год назад +30

      Yes, and been married for 37 years. Have had 2 wonderful children, girls. They have given me 4 grandchildren. Life goes on but, she still haunts my thoughts and I still dream about her.

  • @agape5555
    @agape5555 9 месяцев назад +18

    For my first love. Everything was wrong around us…this song remaind me of last time i saw you. I had to go, you had to stay. What hurts the most is beeing so close and have so much to say… i will always love you.

    • @StephanieFleming-im5xs
      @StephanieFleming-im5xs 24 дня назад

      Ditto... I feel your pain & you are NOT alone!!! Godspeed to you!! ❤❤❤❤❤😢

  • @melbrooke
    @melbrooke 3 года назад +414

    I lost my husband February 21, 2021..... the pain is undescribable. I will never be able to love that hard again because my heart will always belong to him. I love you Brian Keith. Your my forever after all.

    • @oluwafemisotubo2610
      @oluwafemisotubo2610 3 года назад +5

      Accept my sincere condolences... I pray it gets easier with time... Stay Strong

    • @melbrooke
      @melbrooke 3 года назад +4

      @@oluwafemisotubo2610 thank you

    • @blywokeum2799
      @blywokeum2799 3 года назад +2

      😇🙏🏾😇🙏🏾😇💐

    • @ernesttaylor242
      @ernesttaylor242 3 года назад

      Sorry you lost love but I could help you find it again Thank you Jesus I

    • @timholloway8821
      @timholloway8821 3 года назад +1

      I know your pain, sorry for your loss.

  • @chadspringstead1835
    @chadspringstead1835 8 лет назад +1926

    what hurts the most is when you really live and care for someone that no matter how much you do for them they don't appreciate it

  • @onceuponatime4080
    @onceuponatime4080 4 года назад +3873

    I love how her father let her unleash her pain and anger on him and still held her close.

  • @heatherneff9111
    @heatherneff9111 9 месяцев назад +6

    I miss best friend Brandon so much he passed in 2016 and it broke me. I still think of him every day and how we would be married if he hadn't passed. It never gets easier missing him. He is the love of my life and I'm so lost without him. He's my guardian angel and I will see him on the other side.😢😢 R.I.P my sweet Brandon❤❤

  • @krissymconnorsvlog7321
    @krissymconnorsvlog7321 Год назад +1493

    The girl’s acting in this music video is a Oscar winning moment she really brought tears to my eyes

    • @akeliahkialiandaja2732
      @akeliahkialiandaja2732 Год назад +63

      I really thought I was alone, I cry every time at the beginning of this...

    • @SavageQueen.
      @SavageQueen. Год назад +23

      Yes it broke me down too :(

    • @puppergump4117
      @puppergump4117 Год назад +9

      Wonder if anyone else needed to act to end up crying there

    • @jerryc7925
      @jerryc7925 Год назад +39

      Her performance is what makes this video! Absolutely incredible!

    • @PLIvans
      @PLIvans Год назад +19

      No matter how many times I've seen this over the years, it breaks me every time!

  • @gilbertdiaz6838
    @gilbertdiaz6838 6 лет назад +392

    Being in love is the worst pain humanity faces. Its harder to realize that there is no control over it. Moving on is an illusion we put for our self to cope with the ordinary life. In the end we will always LOVE.

    • @facepalmsmom5512
      @facepalmsmom5512 5 лет назад

      Gilbert Diaz I so agree with you. ☹️

    • @AdventureLearnings
      @AdventureLearnings 5 лет назад +1

      Gilbert Diaz 😭😭 love is painful feels like your heart is being rapture apart

    • @jamesfaison9410
      @jamesfaison9410 5 лет назад +5

      Love is not worth the misery it causes. I've seen what it does to people. Life is very short.

    • @MelanieMacDonalDMELSPLAYLISTS
      @MelanieMacDonalDMELSPLAYLISTS 5 лет назад

      69TH LIKE , VERY WELL SAID ...

    • @robfromtherich1922
      @robfromtherich1922 5 лет назад +7

      I saw her for the 1st time in 25 years almost 4 years ago. We hugged and cried. Her husband and my wife were confused. We both told our spouses we were old friends that had not seen each other in a long time.
      We still love each other, that much I know. Just wasn’t to be.

  • @MNTayler
    @MNTayler 8 лет назад +361

    What hurts the most is being betrayed by the guy you thought was your best friend ever. very hurtful.

    • @kennedyellatate424
      @kennedyellatate424 8 лет назад

      +B I think I would have to the bullet wound or got shot then have the bad things happen to me all over again

    • @GabrielaCenturionNeumann
      @GabrielaCenturionNeumann 8 лет назад +5

      Been there, felt that. You are not alone and, even if it sounds cliche, time will heal it. Hugs across the distance

    • @MNTayler
      @MNTayler 8 лет назад

      i think you should stfu, grow up and some day you will know...because with our attitude you will never know love.

    • @MNTayler
      @MNTayler 8 лет назад +2

      thank you. everywhere I go was where we went. 16 years is a lot to forget.....

    • @MNTayler
      @MNTayler 8 лет назад

      I can help you with that. come on over. shit head

  • @twistedsister2372
    @twistedsister2372 10 месяцев назад +18

    I'm so sorry for your loss. It's very hard to lose someone you love. Lost my husband of 14 yrs of pancreatic cancer in Feb of 2018. I feel it never gets easier you just learn to bare w/ the pain, absence, the what I would of could of. I still haven't come to deal with the loss completely. I've been numbing myself and a never ending cycle of sabotaging myself. I will be alright I think. Just hearing this song still brings tears to my eyes.😢

  • @jaxxmariecambridge5212
    @jaxxmariecambridge5212 3 года назад +2031

    One of the hardest things in the world is grieving the loss of someone who is still alive. 💔

  • @Percy_Of_The_Sea
    @Percy_Of_The_Sea 3 года назад +1753

    My heart goes out to everyone in the comments or who's reading this who's lost someone you love. I hope and pray things get better for you.

    • @bigbossadidoss8678
      @bigbossadidoss8678 3 года назад +14

      Things will never get better for them. They’ll always hurt just as much

    • @Percy_Of_The_Sea
      @Percy_Of_The_Sea 3 года назад +10

      @@bigbossadidoss8678 Possibly but that doesn't mean life won't get easier for them. I know this because I know what its like to lose someone. The pain is still there but its not as pressent. Life goes on. Those we've lost wouldn't want us wallowing in pitty over what happened but to remember the person for who they where and still are in our hearts.

    • @moeblackwell2549
      @moeblackwell2549 3 года назад +5

      Well I'm one.od those peoples lost my love of 45 years ot not easy only been a years still love him until we meet again

    • @forgedinstoneagainokay6129
      @forgedinstoneagainokay6129 3 года назад +2

      Yyhyyyyyyyyy

    • @forgedinstoneagainokay6129
      @forgedinstoneagainokay6129 3 года назад +3

      Yyyyy

  • @marmiy
    @marmiy 5 лет назад +2836

    Give that girl an Oscar! I started crying before the music even started playing 😭

    • @BttrflyKisses925
      @BttrflyKisses925 5 лет назад +24

      Marissa Miyahira me too!

    • @musicgirl154
      @musicgirl154 5 лет назад +24

      You mean guys... give those guys an oscar

    • @marmiy
      @marmiy 5 лет назад +91

      Amanda Wight Actually, I meant what I said. Give that girl an Oscar because her acting made me tear up. Everyone knows who the guys are and they’ve won numerous awards for her songs, but I bet nobody knows who the actress is and she performed amazingly.

    • @MrYorickJenkins
      @MrYorickJenkins 5 лет назад +17

      @@marmiy I can't agree more! Who is she?

    • @lukehawkins6038
      @lukehawkins6038 5 лет назад +15

      Did you just assume her gender

  • @bethanynorred1382
    @bethanynorred1382 7 месяцев назад +105

    It's Father's Day, and my sons father never got to meet him. He lost his battle with mental illness. I wish he could've just held him once. Our son is almost 9. I've never moved on. I miss you Jordan. You'll always be my one!

    • @anakina1
      @anakina1 7 месяцев назад +8

      I hope there is a time soon where you can move on and be happy for both you and your son. You both deserve it.

    • @KenSarge1990
      @KenSarge1990 7 месяцев назад +1

      Yess you both do all 3

    • @hayley4415
      @hayley4415 7 месяцев назад

      Oh hunny I'm so so sorry for your loss and your pain....I couldn't help but tear up reading this, and ik were strangers, but I sincerely wish the best for you and your baby's journey and always remember that your love may not be here in the physical, but I promise you he's with you and your son always, all you have to do is call on him and ask for a sign bc nothing is forever and one day, you'll all be reunited ❤
      Many blessings to you

    • @adamkail4449
      @adamkail4449 7 месяцев назад

      I'm so sorry... 🙏

    • @pamelakennedy374
      @pamelakennedy374 6 месяцев назад +1

      💔❤🙏

  • @lisaanderson6589
    @lisaanderson6589 11 месяцев назад +134

    My fiance passed away in his sleep next to me. I woke up in the morning. I tried desperately to save him but I knew in my heart he was already gone...I miss him all the time😢

    • @emilygrace9518
      @emilygrace9518 11 месяцев назад +5

      My heart aches for you

    • @LOVEHAS1JOYRAINS2
      @LOVEHAS1JOYRAINS2 10 месяцев назад +2

      Hallo thank u for sharing your story brave angel, Mother Father of all creation are here in the physical flesh!! Our creators are showing the way ! Phone home today!! SOS

    • @emilystrayed8709
      @emilystrayed8709 7 месяцев назад

      💜💜💜 loves

    • @memetaylor6493
      @memetaylor6493 4 месяца назад +1

      My mom had same her fiance face was on nightstand I did cpr and his chest caved never will forget sorry for ur loss

    • @kathywindz7925
      @kathywindz7925 3 месяца назад +1

      😢💔🙏

  • @justmeh4083
    @justmeh4083 10 лет назад +1019

    That girl deserves an Oscar. Thats the most touching acting Ive ever seen. she did more in 3 minutes than some actors do in 3 movies.

  • @davidsilva1359
    @davidsilva1359 3 года назад +353

    The chorus gets me. I lost my son 4 days before his due date. I remember us having to do a full tern delivery and just praying I'd hear crying when he came out. I know he didnt intend for this song to be about a lost child, but almost every word hits home.

    • @chiannihopkins718
      @chiannihopkins718 3 года назад +17

      Music is sometimes how we perceive it. Sorry for your loss. I pray for your strength

    • @codielswick6021
      @codielswick6021 3 года назад +8

      I was thinking the same thing I had 4 misscargue and my frist one I was wishing he would cry or move. So I know what you going thorw

    • @zeus-mt7wx
      @zeus-mt7wx 3 года назад +5

      I have no words.
      Just tears.
      Please be strong your wifey needs tons of love.
      🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @dianadirham5350
      @dianadirham5350 2 года назад +4

      such horrible grief. love and healing to you and yours

    • @Rasilon
      @Rasilon 2 года назад +4

      There is a song about miscarriage and it always hits home maybe it might for you too maybe even more so than this song

  • @BecBegonia
    @BecBegonia 3 года назад +163

    I’m in love with this comment thread, the most loving and supportive place on RUclips. Sending so much love to you all

    • @annacribbs4142
      @annacribbs4142 3 года назад +2

      ❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏💯💯🤗🤗🤗😍😍

    • @cmalcovish
      @cmalcovish 3 года назад +1

      lots of heartbreaking posts too. My eyes are weepy

    • @stevensobieralski2125
      @stevensobieralski2125 3 года назад +1

      Cayden on

  • @new_comment
    @new_comment 8 месяцев назад +44

    My wife and I have been together for 24 years. We have 2 handsome, God fearing sons. Even though I know that, with both of us being in Jesus. Physical death would only separate us for a short season. I can't imagine losing my beautiful princess. I don't think I would have the strength to push on. But, I know the Lord would go through it with me. I love my Lord and Savior, He made it possible for us to have eternal life, joy and love. Praise the Lord God.

  • @michellefurness454
    @michellefurness454 3 года назад +102

    I lost my husband to cancer when he was 25. This video guts me. A little to close to home. A piece of advice, make sure you express your love daily to those you love because you never know how long you will have them here on earth.

    • @declankent5074
      @declankent5074 3 года назад +2

      Hello Michelle. Your comments are very interesting to view. Hope you're good? I'm so sorry about your loss

    • @radmangal6837
      @radmangal6837 2 года назад +1

      I feel you. Llost y beloved 3 years ago. Still coping .... but the love never ens or stops... it goes on forerever... love u qdp... tilll we met again..can.'t wait.... even when u're here in spiriit..and give me signs 4 being ... thank u 4 that.. makes me love u even more... percey💞

    • @horethchinguyen1726
      @horethchinguyen1726 Год назад

      Hi Michelle, how are you doing?

  • @jeffdoseck503
    @jeffdoseck503 2 года назад +446

    Lost my daughter yesterday and this song brings back so much God Bless anyone/everyone who's lost a loved one ,things will get better they tell me as for me idk

    • @angelaeyth8996
      @angelaeyth8996 2 года назад +6

      God bless everyone who has lost a LOVED One . My heart goes out to you. And you all are in my prayers. Also this song is a great song and it makes me cry too.

    • @jeffdoseck503
      @jeffdoseck503 2 года назад +7

      @@angelaeyth8996 thank you very much your a wonderful homan beingu

    • @mysonsanangel
      @mysonsanangel 2 года назад +7

      I am so sorry Jeff!!! I lost my son 20 years ago and I know right now it’s hard to imagine but I PROMISE you it will get easier. It never goes away but it gets easier to handle! My heart and prayers go out to you!!!!!!!!!

    • @shreyachatterjee5008
      @shreyachatterjee5008 2 года назад +4

      I am so sorry for your loss Jeff. My heart goes out to you and your loved ones. I lost my mother very recently and am still not able to deal with the grief. I cannot even fathom how you must feel. I am keeping you in my prayers. It does get better someday 🤍

    • @vallolecadalid9096
      @vallolecadalid9096 2 года назад +2

      I’m sorry for your loss sweetheart :(

  • @animenmovies1251
    @animenmovies1251 Год назад +150

    My mother was 8 months pregnant when my father passed away. He passed away on 24th June and I was born on 24th July. I can't imagine the pain my mother must have gone through but she still always smiled at me. God knows how much pain she was hiding behind that smile. Why is life so hard.

    • @cindyfitzgerald4500
      @cindyfitzgerald4500 11 месяцев назад +5

      I can definitely understand what you said. My brother was only 3 months old when my dad died and my sisters and I weren’t much older. It’s been a hard life without our dad

    • @artofkai
      @artofkai 11 месяцев назад

      What type of question is that tf​@@DuGul-rk6yf

    • @LOVEHAS1JOYRAINS2
      @LOVEHAS1JOYRAINS2 10 месяцев назад +1

      Hallo Mother Father of all creation are here in the physical flesh! Our creators are showing the way for all for 1! Phone home today!! SOS

  • @SharynDupont-morehead
    @SharynDupont-morehead 6 месяцев назад +87

    My husband died of COVID 14 months after we got married. It kills me inside that I can't hug him and fall asleep in his arms. We both were in my 50s his 60s we knew each other for 3 years total. He taught me what love really is. Love you Mark forever. Kisses intensely until my toes curl up. Love ya oxox

    • @lyndawhite5171
      @lyndawhite5171 5 месяцев назад

      Okay,….
      This IS absolutely meant for you. I thought I walked through life alone, knowing what “curled toes “ were. 😵‍💫
      My Gal, I about spit my tea across the room. Funny as hell that was.
      BTW, I too have had curled toes. I totally get it. 👍
      Sad for those who never had.
      Take peace 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
      One day…. Again 😂

    • @synchro_warrior
      @synchro_warrior 5 месяцев назад

      🧢

  • @enfiestado
    @enfiestado 8 лет назад +4297

    Why is it that when we're depressed we listen to sad songs? 😔 It makes it worse but I can't help it. 😪

  • @marib.52380
    @marib.52380 3 года назад +2840

    Hey but can we just take a moment to appreciate this girl’s acting? Wow, so on point and relatable. Give her an Oscar!

    • @kannachan5339
      @kannachan5339 3 года назад +157

      literally made me emotional just hearing the pain in her voice at the beginning.

    • @RekhaEnt.
      @RekhaEnt. 3 года назад +25

      On god

    • @blackbaron9012
      @blackbaron9012 3 года назад +58

      If giving Oscar to every good performance was a norm, Christian bale would have 20 Oscars.

    • @hannahlane6283
      @hannahlane6283 3 года назад +5

      Hkh tjonh iphhhhihgyi j,gk

    • @Loyalty_901
      @Loyalty_901 3 года назад +8

      Definitely ♥

  • @ThBstFSxy
    @ThBstFSxy 3 года назад +908

    It’s been 17 years since I lost my first love in a car accident. This song still hits me just as hard as it did when I heard it back then. To all those dealing with loss, “what is grief if not love persevering”?

    • @nikkiandrade6173
      @nikkiandrade6173 3 года назад +6

      I'm so sorry. Are you okay?

    • @angelitosumod-ong3624
      @angelitosumod-ong3624 3 года назад +4

      im feeling your pain, lost my husband in a vehicular accident also im 9 weeks pregnant that time.

    • @michaeltsang548
      @michaeltsang548 3 года назад

      @@angelitosumod-ong3624 lol

    • @walkerbait1230
      @walkerbait1230 3 года назад +5

      @@michaeltsang548 your messed up

    • @marcwheeler4406
      @marcwheeler4406 3 года назад +2

      @@angelitosumod-ong3624 so very sorry many peace and safety for you thru your days journesy... blessing to you today....

  • @JR-nn4sk
    @JR-nn4sk 4 месяца назад +4

    My cousin (who was more like a brother) took his life on New Years Day this year...he would have been 50 today...just feeling so empty right now. We as a family are struggling because none of us saw any signs. If you're hurting or are in pain...PLEASE reach out! You are not alone!

  • @kerianwhite9532
    @kerianwhite9532 5 лет назад +91

    The one part of this video that always touches me is that fact that she faught and yelled at her dad and then found comfort right there in his embrace as well.

    • @lancekilkenny721
      @lancekilkenny721 5 лет назад +5

      As a dad with a daughter I can tell you that we love you girls through it

    • @FishRooster31193
      @FishRooster31193 7 месяцев назад +1

      I mean props to him, even if we can't tell if he acknowledges being at fault for indirectly causing her daughter's boyfriend's death, he took the beating. I know way too many parents woulda been like "oh you brought this on yourself" or "I did nothing wrong" but the fact that the dad in the video didn't say or do anything like that, at least he respected that she was grieving and needed to let it out. idk if you could hear but when she was demanding he say he hate him and he hugs her, you can kind of hear the dad say something tearfully (maybe 'sorry'?)
      And it's hinted in the music video that she and her dad aren't close, when the boyfriend asks "what's wrong? is it your dad?" meaning they have a rocky relationship for the boyfriend to guess that. imagine having a not-so-close relationship with your kid then you go and [accidentally] kill their lover, I mean the guilt, and the dread at the possibility that the relationship will never be mended? He better help her take care of that child now... (I mean yes it's not ideal for her to have a child while still in school but had the dad not killed the boyfriend, he would be taking care of the baby)

    • @aregolas
      @aregolas 4 месяца назад

      @@FishRooster31193 I rewatched a few times, the father didn't kill the boyfriend in any sense of the word. Boyfriend got in a wreck. Daughter's taking out her grief on her dad who was not happy that she was pregnant which is likely what she was fighting with him over. He looks sad/remorseful because he knows she is going to have a hard life. You just acted like the father was at fault cause of the intro which throughout the video isn't shown to be the case. Facts shown, she fights with him verbally(Most likely a sign she and him have different views on a subject), her boyfriend died by car wreck, father is remorseful (Either he said something in anger when he found out a boy got his little girl pregnant or feels remorse that something he said both ruined her last moments with her boyfriend and his relationship with her because she blames him for an accident he wasn't involved in.). Nothing in the video shows him having been involved in the death, everything shows recklessness on someone else's part(another driver or the boyfriend).

  • @linzieganey26
    @linzieganey26 5 лет назад +490

    my daddy died october 1st, 2019 and he used to play rascal flatts all the time. :( i miss him so much :(

    • @margolin89
      @margolin89 5 лет назад +7

      so sorry for your loss prayers are with you and your family

    • @shaundriaewell3893
      @shaundriaewell3893 5 лет назад +3

      I'm so sorry for your loss. ♡

    • @trisarahtops3129
      @trisarahtops3129 5 лет назад +2

      I am so so sorry for your loss 💕

    • @walidali2351
      @walidali2351 5 лет назад +2

      I love you...God love you..We love you.... Everything will be okay

    • @juniormint1369
      @juniormint1369 5 лет назад +2

      Prayers to you and your family 💗 I’m sure your dad is watching you all from above doing his best to keep you all safe. Keep your head up 💗

  • @wmgardner87
    @wmgardner87 Год назад +243

    This happened to me. My HS sweetheart died in a car crash a week after he turned 21. We went to a playground, laid next to each other- literally repeat of this video. I’m 36 now, and I still mourn him.

    • @stivsham
      @stivsham Год назад +3

      that wasn't an accident, it was intentional, and you possibly knew about it before it happened, am not saying were the one that killed him, but at least you knew about it,

    • @LindaCarlssonornas
      @LindaCarlssonornas Год назад +3

      Im so so sorry...❤
      I didn't lose mine to the heaven but to another woman. Not at all the same, i know... but the pain of losing the ONE for me still hurts now 20 years later. 🥀💔

    • @kelleerobinson3909
      @kelleerobinson3909 Год назад +2

      On September 27th of last year my fiancé was hit by a car and didn't make it. This video always made me cry, but now it hits differently. I am very sorry for your loss. I know the pain you feel.

    • @kelleerobinson3909
      @kelleerobinson3909 Год назад +11

      ​@@stivshamwho says this to a person who lost someone I'm sure she thought she would be spending her life with? This is absolutely ridiculous and just uncalled for. My fiance died in September. He was hit by a car and I can tell you with absolute certainty that I never thought that anything like that was going to happen. This sounds like that manifestation crap and it's complete bs

    • @stivsham
      @stivsham Год назад

      kellee robinson, 1 of my points was that, the more major the accident, the more the intentions, you don't die in a car accident, someone actually wanted to kill your fiance, and it happened,
      you said that he was your fiance and not your ex, meaning you were with him when this happened, so like, didn't you kind of feel it before it happened? did he have enemies before that? did he speak bad against someone or anything, basically anything, person, politician, government, basically anyone or anything? see, that's my point, didn't you kind of feel it before it happened? there's a good chance that you even knew about it, am just saying, am not saying you were 100% responsible, but i don't believe anything in life is an accident, especially major, the more major the accident, the more the intentions, by anyone, was my point, am not being disrespectful, am just saying, sorry for your loss by the way,

  • @Shethiccc38
    @Shethiccc38 Месяц назад +11

    What hurts the most is having to let people you thought loved and cared for you go. Self growth is very important though, pain just hurts the most🙏🏿

  • @Zexion579
    @Zexion579 3 года назад +375

    How did that girl outperform every actor in this video? She was so good!

    • @42022coop
      @42022coop 3 года назад +29

      She may have acted from experience. Losing someone physically and emotionally is the same as death. We reach points in our lives that requires no acting.

    • @stevensobieralski2125
      @stevensobieralski2125 3 года назад +5

      Cayden is

    • @ahsalumni2004
      @ahsalumni2004 3 месяца назад +1

      Song hits home....20 yrs ago lost someone and even today I still carry it.

  • @ghostslayer2.048
    @ghostslayer2.048 5 лет назад +1969

    Underrated....
    9 years and still listening...
    Who else?

  • @ronnievolovnik3340
    @ronnievolovnik3340 4 года назад +72

    Lost my wife to cancer 9 years ago.Still hurts as if it happened yesterday.These songs heal.It allows us to remember that special person even though it hurts.Its almost like them visiting.Miss you Teresa.

    • @mckaylakline1915
      @mckaylakline1915 4 года назад

      God bless you 🙏

    • @karaavery1599
      @karaavery1599 4 года назад +2

      My name is brandyn and i almost died from bactieriel meningitis earlier on this year and my mom kara said she would not of been able to live without me but she knew i was a fighter and even though she was crying almost the entire time that she didnt know if i was going to make it or not she was sure and so was i we were sure that i could beat it and i did barely i was one of the very few that beat it whithout almost no side problems and she was so happy when they said that i would make it that she said she still couldnt stop crying and i dont blame her if it was the other way around i probably would not have been able to stop crying

    • @horethchinguyen1726
      @horethchinguyen1726 Год назад

      Hi Ronnie, how are you doing today

  • @sashamonique3922
    @sashamonique3922 8 месяцев назад +12

    3:01 “It’s hard to deal with the pain of losing you ever where I go… but I’m doing it. It’s hard to force that smile when I see our old friends and I’m ALONE…” That line gives me chills so bad. My heart drops EVERYTIME I hear it! Everytime 💔

  • @austinreynolds4820
    @austinreynolds4820 5 лет назад +376

    What hurts the most is putting yourself out there and constantly being rejected and thinking back onto what did I do wrong? Where did I screw up? And having no one to talk to but you walls.

    • @kiamarvin82
      @kiamarvin82 5 лет назад +8

      I can relate so much at this time

    • @seleneturner4502
      @seleneturner4502 5 лет назад

      What up with you gril

    • @debralowery1966
      @debralowery1966 5 лет назад +4

      i can relate as well because i am going through alot right now

    • @saferehman8234
      @saferehman8234 5 лет назад +4

      I know , you feel like you tried your hardest but it’s not always gonna turn out right, and every time it happens again it doesn’t get any better

    • @nicholecarbonell9724
      @nicholecarbonell9724 5 лет назад +3

      I seen your post and I felt the pain. It gets easier with time

  • @ivonajankovic5928
    @ivonajankovic5928 3 года назад +3518

    Isn't it incredible that after all of these years, this song still hits the same? ♥️

    • @grenadierful
      @grenadierful 3 года назад +29

      some songs hits after all years...

    • @Beavisation
      @Beavisation 3 года назад +23

      its forever

    • @mistydawnmclendon6590
      @mistydawnmclendon6590 3 года назад +15

      I know right I bought this CD when it first come out and still listen to em

    • @edgarramirez9113
      @edgarramirez9113 3 года назад +17

      It still hurts like it did 11 years ago. Listening to it now and I'm still in tears.

    • @mistydawnmclendon6590
      @mistydawnmclendon6590 3 года назад +5

      @@edgarramirez9113 yes I totally agree with you 🙏😭

  • @brandonfaison909
    @brandonfaison909 4 года назад +321

    The mom deserves an oscar too. She was in pain because her daughter was. the body language the emotion. It seems SOOO REAL

    • @meagen1342
      @meagen1342 4 года назад +16

      I agree. It looked/felt so real

    • @Inkaa1tarot
      @Inkaa1tarot 4 года назад +4

      YESSS🥺🥺🥺🥺

    • @MOOMOO2728
      @MOOMOO2728 4 года назад +1

      That desperate sadness does happen, yes she does

    • @jonkatiehancock6052
      @jonkatiehancock6052 4 года назад +3

      i pick the right mothers for my kidos and thank yall

    • @texanleons
      @texanleons 3 года назад +1

      This has got to be the worst acting I've seen in awhile.

  • @missjessicajune
    @missjessicajune 4 месяца назад +4

    To my fiance Jason, our kiddo has did it - you'd be so proud he graduated a year early than his class - and is in college at 17 ! We love you JayDaddy ❤😢😢 RIP I'll always love you!

    • @conniehardel117
      @conniehardel117 28 дней назад

      My fince Kylie drove and the fell out of her car

  • @toyotalady8134
    @toyotalady8134 Год назад +75

    It’s been 51 days since I lost the love of my life unexpectedly. This song and video absolutely kills me. As much as it hurts, I can’t stop crying and listening. I love you always Trevor 💔😭

    • @joeperez4145
      @joeperez4145 Год назад +2

      So sorry for your loss 😕 Keep your head up and stay STRONG 💪

    • @toyotalady8134
      @toyotalady8134 Год назад +1

      @@joeperez4145 Thank you!!

    • @hayatsheikh6775
      @hayatsheikh6775 Год назад +2

      stay strong gal......... cuz he also wants you to be strong! 🫂

    • @toyotalady8134
      @toyotalady8134 Год назад +1

      @@hayatsheikh6775 Thank you for your kind words.

    • @carolesherwood4746
      @carolesherwood4746 Год назад +1

      I'm so very sorry for your loss

  • @akio_kuro
    @akio_kuro 3 года назад +188

    I lost my father February 18 2021 from covid-19. March 7 was supposed to be his 49th birthday. I still come downstairs expecting him to be watching tv on the couch and automatically wait at the window for his car to park. I miss you Daddy. I wasn't the best daughter to you and I'm sorry. Te extraño y te quiero tanto. Descansa en paz Papí.

    • @greatexpectations6577
      @greatexpectations6577 3 года назад +6

      Sorry to hear your loss. I pray that you learn to forgive your self in time. Hold on the happy memories.

    • @akio_kuro
      @akio_kuro 3 года назад +4

      @@greatexpectations6577 thank you for your kind words

    • @hannahlane6283
      @hannahlane6283 3 года назад +1

      L.p. p
      K9m k

    • @hannahlane6283
      @hannahlane6283 3 года назад

      @@akio_kuro hey

    • @SenorbryanA
      @SenorbryanA 3 года назад +1

      Sorry love.

  • @hashley32721
    @hashley32721 Год назад +576

    The older I get, the more I understand this song... and the more it makes me cry.

    • @horethchinguyen1726
      @horethchinguyen1726 Год назад

      Hi Ashley, how are you doing?

    • @bruce0767
      @bruce0767 Год назад +1

      I understand that

    • @Jason_nolan223
      @Jason_nolan223 Год назад +1

      @Miss Ashley. That’s the power of a good song what’s your favorite song

    • @J.C...
      @J.C... Год назад +2

      Ive cried like a baby every time I've heard it since the death of my daughter & only child. That whole time period was the best period of my life. Followed by the worst 10,yrs of my life.

    • @jimmythompson9394
      @jimmythompson9394 Год назад

      Why was she pissed off at her dad? He didn't do anything. Weird

  • @davis3430able
    @davis3430able 8 месяцев назад +8

    All I ever wanted in life is to find someone who will love me for me. Someone I can be me around and who is comfortable being themselves around me. I will never understand how something that seems like it should be easy to find is a near impossible dream. Its true when they say some of us are just meant to be alone.

  • @annamcgee3313
    @annamcgee3313 8 лет назад +232

    My friend of 13 years committed suicide yesterday. I miss him so much. School has been so rough without him. I love you Jer ❤️

    • @BrockDavisson
      @BrockDavisson 8 лет назад +2

      sorry to hear

    • @desirelane3310
      @desirelane3310 8 лет назад +3

      Anna McGee i am so sorry. That is never something someone so young should go through. i went through that in february. and it still hurts. its gunna be hard. im so sorry for your lose. may your friend rest in piece

    • @shamekarowland7039
      @shamekarowland7039 8 лет назад +5

      I couldn't even imagine, I'm so sorry for your loss sweetie.

    • @destanyswitzer2412
      @destanyswitzer2412 8 лет назад +4

      Anna McGee it's ok😳

    • @unknownlmao2320
      @unknownlmao2320 8 лет назад +11

      Anna McGee a really close friend of mine committed suicide. Yesterday marked two years since he's been gone... it still makes me so sad

  • @bobbijohnston8718
    @bobbijohnston8718 10 лет назад +101

    I hear this song and I cry after 25 yrs with my husband. He passed away 3 mths ago. I miss him horribly.

    • @tarrect5983
      @tarrect5983 10 лет назад +8

      Im sorry for your Loss. We all lost Love ones. Just know they are always with us, In our hearts!

    • @bobbijohnston8718
      @bobbijohnston8718 10 лет назад +3

      Yes they are. It will take time but after suffering for 20 plus years he's finally at peace. And that gives me comfort.

    • @tarrect5983
      @tarrect5983 10 лет назад

      We all suffer at first. but as u said having comfort knowing they are in peace always helps. Stay Strong!

    • @bobbijohnston8718
      @bobbijohnston8718 10 лет назад

      I'm trying .... I have my moments though but I get through he would want me to be strong

    • @bobbijohnston8718
      @bobbijohnston8718 10 лет назад

      Lol I have his cat to keep me company ut oh

  • @lexione14
    @lexione14 Год назад +144

    All these comments let's me know there's alot of people, including me suffering or have suffered a great deal. Life is love. Love is purpose.

    • @ColbyFortuin
      @ColbyFortuin 11 месяцев назад +2

      Purpose is the Life Line

    • @AmandaKasmira
      @AmandaKasmira 11 месяцев назад +2

      🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️

    • @LOVEHAS1JOYRAINS2
      @LOVEHAS1JOYRAINS2 10 месяцев назад

      Hallo Mother Father of all creation are here in the physical flesh! Our creators are showing the way for all for 1! Phone home today!! SOS

    • @denonhall8723
      @denonhall8723 10 месяцев назад +1

      Sending prayers and hugs to you and everyone going through a hard time right now.🙏🏻

    • @michaelpack3341
      @michaelpack3341 9 месяцев назад +1

      Well put

  • @Uilani-b4w
    @Uilani-b4w 8 месяцев назад +7

    What Hurts The Most Is Watching The One Person That You Loved For 33 Years & To See Him In Someone Else Arms Just Loving Her & Act Like Our family Marriage & Our 3 Boys We Have Together Doesn't Exist In His Life Anymore. It Feels Like He Had Just Grabbed A Sharp Knife & Just Pierce My Heart To Pieces. Cause The Way I'm Feeling, He Might As Well Do It, Cause I Don't Know How Much More I Can Take. I Just Wish God Would Just Take Me Away From All This Pain I'm Feeling Cause I Can't Take It Anymore.

    • @traciehale262
      @traciehale262 8 месяцев назад

      Honey pray about it ask God to take away the pain . let him help you though it. Im so very sorry ,he did that to you

    • @sammim79
      @sammim79 7 месяцев назад

      Dear Jesus please give this lady strength to face every day. Comfort her and heal her broken heart. Amen🙏🏾

  • @katcrafter7
    @katcrafter7 4 года назад +106

    Lost my husband in nov. 2019. Matthew our kids and I miss you so bad it hurts. We need you still. The pain will never go away or get better. It’s hurts more seeing our kids miss you and having to be without a dad that was sooo amazing and loving! I we love you daddy.

  • @djcalhoun1027
    @djcalhoun1027 2 года назад +288

    This song brings me to tears....rip my son and everyone that has lost someone so close

    • @DanielTorres-zt8gn
      @DanielTorres-zt8gn 2 года назад +3

      Sorry for ur loss 🙏

    • @marvawynn4252
      @marvawynn4252 Год назад +2

      Same here... I lost two loved ones within a few months of each other last year. The anguish is stifling.

    • @RafaelLopez-gu1gh
      @RafaelLopez-gu1gh Год назад

      I'm sorry for

    • @bamgboseshukurat8087
      @bamgboseshukurat8087 Год назад

      Rest in Peace,Mum and my only sibling (brother),I missed both of you.

    • @ellad9513
      @ellad9513 Год назад

      I'm sorry for ur loss.. Sending u a big hug !!

  • @ThatsWhatSethSaid
    @ThatsWhatSethSaid 8 лет назад +98

    I think of my grandpa. Passed away last week from lung cancer. I feel so bad because I didn't go see him like I should have because I was scared of losing him. Now that he's gone I wish I went to see him.

    • @dabmaster7523
      @dabmaster7523 8 лет назад +3

      Watch out Oskar Haggstrom that sing this song to his mother that got cancer😢❤️

    • @mjtriola5638
      @mjtriola5638 8 лет назад +4

      "If Heaven Wasn't So Far Away" - Justin Moore

    • @destinybarnes4189
      @destinybarnes4189 8 лет назад +2

      i feel sorry

    • @Manda8789
      @Manda8789 8 лет назад +3

      ThatsWhatSethSaid I know how you feel I didn't get to say bye to my grandfather and when he died this was the first song that I listened to

    • @christianwheelis1982
      @christianwheelis1982 8 лет назад +7

      my papa past away 2 days ago I wish I could of told him how much I loved him

  • @VeronicaDiosdado-r6w
    @VeronicaDiosdado-r6w Месяц назад +4

    This was my wife's song and I lost her last year. Nothing the same without her. So lost without her

    • @catt3911
      @catt3911 Месяц назад

      I’m so sorry❤

  • @jameswalker335
    @jameswalker335 9 лет назад +583

    This song makes me think of my first wife. we got married two days after i turned 18. Six weeks later we rolled our truck on some black ice and she didn't make it. I got out of it with only a scratch on my ankle. Not a day goes by that i don't think of her.

    • @mattadey6728
      @mattadey6728 9 лет назад +12

      Mr.Walker sorry for your loss

    • @Andaxon
      @Andaxon 9 лет назад +1

      very sorry to hear about that man trust me she will be proud of everything you do have a good day my friend :)

    • @A1bert2013
      @A1bert2013 9 лет назад +4

      So sorry, may God bless you :(

    • @kimduch4474
      @kimduch4474 9 лет назад +1

      +James Walker I pray for you to find Peace...

    • @robertbarricklow6347
      @robertbarricklow6347 9 лет назад

      sorry to hear that

  • @teesin2647
    @teesin2647 3 года назад +586

    That girl acting was on point!!! Her breaking down seem so real

    • @CourtneyLachiver
      @CourtneyLachiver 3 года назад +17

      I was so much like her when I lost my cousin to an accidental overdose last year. When it first happened, I was just stunned. Then when a few days passed, I became so angry and would scream my head off. I finally broke down in my boyfriend's arms at his place and then seeing her laid out at her wake. The last thing my cousin and I spoke about was seeing each other once the stay at home order dropped. The day of her wake was when it got dropped and then I just broke down, telling her I was sorry I didn't see her sooner. I almost collapsed. A couple of weeks later, I just couldn't stop crying all night for her and my mom had to calm me down. My cousin's death was the worst thing to ever happen to my family. She was only 36 and she was my first best friend, my hero, my role model. March 30th is going to be very hard for me because that's her birthday and June 3rd was her last day on earth. I miss and love you so much, Erin McMahon. Until we meet again... 💔💔😢😢

    • @ArcticWolf0000
      @ArcticWolf0000 3 года назад +4

      @@CourtneyLachiver dang.
      Extremely sorry for your loss.
      It's ok to grieve but I don't think she'd want you to be like this........ I know I didn't know her but I think she'd want you to try to remember all the good times you guys had together and those memories that you have are apart of you so she's still with you in your memories and your heart.
      So to recap it's completely ok to grieve but while doing so don't forget all good times you guys had because between all the good times you had and the lessons she taught you they will always be with you through thick and thin just like she was.
      Hang in there my friend you'll get through it.

    • @Taco_da_reaper
      @Taco_da_reaper 3 года назад

      @@CourtneyLachiver I feel that, back in 2015 my cousin and I were finally talking cause she was holding my new born at the time and she was so happy to be holding him. Me and her never gotten alone once we were teens, always ignored each other. A week after seeing her she died in an accident and it broke my heart so much. The last time seeing her was the final time we got along and I wish that we could of talked like we use to as family. To this day it hurts.

    • @mrvlogs8648
      @mrvlogs8648 3 года назад

      @@CourtneyLachiver that deep I lost my uncle from suicide and my dad was his best friend he would be 47 today shooting himself in head I’m still mad why he had to go and advice for everyone don’t do drugs because they make you think wrong and don’t drink alcohol that how a lot of people died from just some advice people say weed good it really not no drug is good my opinion sorry for your loss

    • @mrvlogs8648
      @mrvlogs8648 3 года назад

      My uncle died from suicidal 7 years ago 2013 September 25th on his birthday day and shot himself and yes he did some drugs but advice don’t do drugs because they make you think wrong and my aunt died from cancer throat don’t do it please I don’t want anyone family members dying from drugs like my uncle did it’s sad because his daughter never got to meet him

  • @oliviamiller5673
    @oliviamiller5673 6 лет назад +364

    Explains everything when your losing your best friend, the love of your life, your everything.

  • @Unicorn_Life22
    @Unicorn_Life22 2 месяца назад +3

    This song shows how losing loved ones and how it affects you. I lost my grandma 11 years ago. I was only 3, and I'm 14 now, but it still pains me while knowing that i won't ever see her again it took me 6 years to move past that but anyways i found people who helped me through it and i know that some people will try to help if they can

  • @amewugahmillsbillions5737
    @amewugahmillsbillions5737 4 года назад +1385

    what hurts the most is how pictures never change but the people in them do...

    • @tattleoflegouk3101
      @tattleoflegouk3101 4 года назад +5

      Amewugah Mills Billions motivation

    • @PsychoBich-fq6rv
      @PsychoBich-fq6rv 4 года назад +5

      Yes picture's can speck a thousand words to everyone but when the guy your head over heels for changes. Ya I know the feeling this song I have played a thousand times over my whole life

    • @tattleoflegouk3101
      @tattleoflegouk3101 4 года назад +1

      Heather Kear killed it bro

    • @jaidahweaver3439
      @jaidahweaver3439 4 года назад +1

      That's dEep

    • @emrld_wz
      @emrld_wz 4 года назад +3

      Change isn't always bad.

  • @devynbaumbrough5471
    @devynbaumbrough5471 2 года назад +382

    My grandfather just passed a few hours ago in front of me , he was my world , mentor, role model, everything even when I didn't have a father in my life he was it. This is the song that tells everything of how I feel. Love Rascal Flatts. Great song even years later

    • @angelclare8791
      @angelclare8791 2 года назад +5

      I send you hugs dearest. My grandfather was the same for me. He passed on 29th May,2022. I haven't got the energy to cry or atleast express how I feel. I'm sending you all the love and strength you need. May God manifest comfort and strength for you and your family

    • @lisamalone7839
      @lisamalone7839 2 года назад +4

      Devin...I just saw this comment and wondered how you are now. I lost my mother, sister and father in a 3 year period. I was contacted by someone I had only been an acquaintance with in high school...he told me to grieve in whatever way helped the most and not to worry about how other's felt I was doing with the process. I wanted to pass that along to you in the hopes that it will help you. You have my thoughts and prayers. And yes, this is a beautiful song.

    • @reneejones7900
      @reneejones7900 2 года назад +2

      To everyone who lost a loved one 7im7 so sorry 😔

    • @rachll8724
      @rachll8724 2 года назад +2

      My grandad died 21st March 2022 we was really close did everything together etc
      I watched him die it was so heartbreaking can’t get the image out my head it kills me inside love you grandad so much and miss you you was my rock 😢😢💔💔💔💔

    • @robine.mcwilliamssaylor7805
      @robine.mcwilliamssaylor7805 2 года назад +2

      So sorry for your loss... nothing can touch this pain... but it does get easier...🙏🙏🙏

  • @timgamin8846
    @timgamin8846 6 лет назад +353

    This song was one of many played at my fiancees funeral. God knows how much i miss and still love you. 9 months still feels like a few hours, Wish i could have taken your place Babe. You still are my hero and my strength. Thank you for all the love and memory's. You are always in my heart and thoughts. 8-10-1987 1-6-2018 (F*** Cancer)

    • @sandracrane8042
      @sandracrane8042 6 лет назад

      My condolences sweet young lady!😢

    • @belindabutcher4565
      @belindabutcher4565 6 лет назад +1

      i am soooo so sorry for your loss...May you find peace and love in your memories....bless you...

    • @michaelreichold5782
      @michaelreichold5782 6 лет назад +1

      Never give up, love for him

    • @michaelreichold5782
      @michaelreichold5782 6 лет назад +2

      Honor him by living

    • @michaelreichold5782
      @michaelreichold5782 6 лет назад +3

      Listen to a song by Josh groban called to where you are, played it at my daughters funeral

  • @thinkaboutit27
    @thinkaboutit27 6 месяцев назад +9

    A lot of comments about the girl's acting, but I think the acting from the mom, the dad, the girl sitting behind the main actress, were all great. You can sense the mom's pain that she could not help her daughter, the dad who was stunned, but couldn't help his little girl because she blames him for dying, and the classmate sitting behind the girl who looks over to the empty seat as well. Then trying to comfort her before she leaves class. All great and should be recognized.

    • @msslimkongg3110
      @msslimkongg3110 4 месяца назад

      ​@28nandawho is she ? I saw 3 different names on Google

  • @pennylawyer26
    @pennylawyer26 9 лет назад +48

    My son walked away from me now that I am older lost my job and have alzheimers and epilipsy, it's not the song it's loving some one so much and having them see you gave everything for them and it was never enough. My folks are dead this song has made me cry for years, he has a wife who never accepted me most likely because I was an overachiever and kind of famous in my life, I've lost my grand kids too, no family no bros or sisters,my career is over, man don't loose you family over anthing in the end thats all you really have. I just wanted to love my son and grandchildren, have a nice holiday I will be alone as usual. love Penny.

    • @likme84x
      @likme84x 9 лет назад +2

      +Penny Lawyer dido to your words and im very sorry too

    • @COAST21BECKY
      @COAST21BECKY 9 лет назад +5

      +Penny Lawyer be strong and stand tall, even if things never get better between you and your son YOU know you did the best you could. Don't have hate or resentment it's a waste of time and amounts to nothing but more heartbreak. Find things to do to help others it will heal your heart and ask God for peace of mind when you hit a rough spot or feel alone, he is always with you. One day your son might realize how being a parent is not easy, we all make mistakes, until then you smile and carry on.

    • @likme84x
      @likme84x 9 лет назад

      the things is , No one or myself can figure out what i did wrong, ive had people even offer me their kids to raise cause im a great mother to my daughter . im not sure what hurts worse now , my twins being dead or being abandoned and rejected by my daughter. i thank you for your kind words and i will try to keep going,today and yesterday was a very hard time but im here and will strive on thank you darling . hugs from me to you , friend me on here or f book would love to talk more. thanks rebecca . (im Tis Clontz on face book )

    • @COAST21BECKY
      @COAST21BECKY 9 лет назад +1

      +Tis Krizzno Did it ever occur to you that you did nothing wrong? And that sometimes shitty things happen to good people? Stop trying to figure things out it's not your job to try to "FIX" everything. You have a choice you can allow others to effect your mood and how you feel controlling your happiness or you choose to be happy while they choose to be unhappy. By the way it's hard for people to stay mad (unhappy) if you are genuinely a happy spirit usually they fold. Takes two to fight.

    • @lauraarmstrong1344
      @lauraarmstrong1344 9 лет назад

      i know how you feel my grandpa died on Christmas morning 2013

  • @amalmousa8716
    @amalmousa8716 2 года назад +977

    One of the most heartbreaking songs ever written. This song has been hauting me since my teenage years. Still hits the same.

  • @bentaxledad6778
    @bentaxledad6778 10 месяцев назад +30

    Almost ten years ago my oldest daughter's boyfriend was riding his motorcycle to go see her across town and told my daughter he had something important to ask her. A young driver at a tricky intersection pulled out in front of him and he flipped over the guy's car, landed on his head, broke his neck, and died. They found the engagement ring in his leather jacket pocket he was going to propose to my daughter. She still has one of the cross necklaces he normally always wore, cries on his birthday, and is engaged to another man and have two children together. Loss is hard to deal with.

  • @hollybath1405
    @hollybath1405 7 лет назад +1407

    This is my first time watching the video even though I've been listening to this song ever since it came out. Is it just me or do you kinda want this to be turned into a movie?

  • @alexsteinberg8341
    @alexsteinberg8341 7 лет назад +82

    This is by far one of the best music videos made in a long time, doesn't matter who you, you get attached to this song.

  • @Jeffrey99188
    @Jeffrey99188 5 лет назад +1744

    It’s almost 2020 and this song is still making people cry

  • @MrAnderson4569
    @MrAnderson4569 3 месяца назад +2

    This one cuts deep in quite a few stories for me. Being a wise guy, and being rejected only to be reminded you were right hurts so much when you see they suffer for their ignorance as you suffer for their ignorance too. Their pride became their downfall, and they maintain their unity to spite me, though I am their best friend in the best way I chose.

  • @moniquetorres6841
    @moniquetorres6841 5 лет назад +678

    Swear this has to be the saddest video😥. I just love this song. Who else is playing this song in 2019💙.

    • @danielmcgraw3201
      @danielmcgraw3201 5 лет назад +4

      Monique Torres me it had a lot of meaning to me

    • @dakotachaney5093
      @dakotachaney5093 5 лет назад +4

      Me I am

    • @simonolesen6915
      @simonolesen6915 5 лет назад +4

      Think whiskey lullaby* is but sure close

    • @tilly510
      @tilly510 5 лет назад +4

      this song will last forever ,my gosh...it's just wawwww

    • @deeznizzles6457
      @deeznizzles6457 5 лет назад +2

      I personally think Fire Away by Chris Stapleton is. Who's cutting onions?

  • @mae388
    @mae388 4 года назад +212

    This girls acting is on another level - watching this when I was a kid, who's never experienced this type of loss, it sure felt like I did after hearing her in the beginning

    • @MOOMOO2728
      @MOOMOO2728 4 года назад +4

      That’s exactly like it was

    • @texanleons
      @texanleons 3 года назад +1

      This has got to be the worst acting I've seen in awhile.

    • @tehreemraza123
      @tehreemraza123 3 года назад +5

      @@texanleons I- you sure? I thought it was pretty good. 10 years ago and still now.

    • @autumnmciver8050
      @autumnmciver8050 3 года назад +2

      This is the first time I ever understood pain

  • @rcglegend3361
    @rcglegend3361 3 года назад +213

    Man I miss my mom so much everyday. She passed away when I was 14 and she would always listen to this song it was one of her favorite songs to listen to. This brings me so many memories and always brings tears to my eyes.

  • @destineyward72
    @destineyward72 8 месяцев назад +2

    This song reminds me of my first ever heartbreak. I was 17 and my best friend was killed 28 days after his 16th birthday. It kills me knowing how bad he wanted to get his license and drive, to grow up and reach his goals but his life was cut way too short.

  • @trevwright93
    @trevwright93 9 лет назад +436

    a few days ago was the anniversary of my best friends death. he committed suicide 2 years ago. maybe I was torturing myself watching this video but I needed to remember what it was like to cry. I haven't cried since the night I found out he died. this video had me crying 2 years worth of tears. he may have hated country music, but this song is the perfect song for how badly I miss him. as much as crying sucks, I'm glad this video exists.

    • @TXNICK96
      @TXNICK96 9 лет назад +3

      My condolences for your loss

    • @breenewberry1958
      @breenewberry1958 9 лет назад +4

      so sorry for loss people hear about this everywhere but when a friend really dies it's so hard so I'm really sorry for your loss and everyone else's mine got hit in the head with a baseball

    • @bethy4206
      @bethy4206 9 лет назад +11

      +Trevor Wright
      I feel your pain. My dad died almost 7 months ago now from suicide. I know how painful it is and how hard it is to be able to feel something. This song has me in tears every time I listen too it. I'm sorry for your loss.

    • @akiawilliams4878
      @akiawilliams4878 9 лет назад +2

      Yea sometimes it's okae to just let it all out

    • @pattiestraw6284
      @pattiestraw6284 9 лет назад +2

      I'm sorry my friend died yesterday on my birthday

  • @Mike619impossible
    @Mike619impossible 6 лет назад +262

    What's hurts the most is that you said you'd never leave...

  • @Mvskoke_NDN
    @Mvskoke_NDN 4 года назад +332

    R.I.P. Troy❤️ 20 years of marriage wasn’t enough.💔 I love and miss you so very much. 🙏🏽🕊

    • @TharakaC
      @TharakaC 4 года назад +7

      So true love still exists,God bless you and the soul of ur loved one maam 🙏😊

    • @jessycajohnson9924
      @jessycajohnson9924 4 года назад +1

      🙏🙏🙏🙏💖

    • @msskiss4267
      @msskiss4267 4 года назад +1

      I'm So Sorry Sending Big Hugs 🤗

    • @bluhunnid6388
      @bluhunnid6388 4 года назад +1

      🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @teefoo007
      @teefoo007 4 года назад +4

      I'm sure he is waiting for you in heaven to love you eternally. One day you will be united when it's time for you to meet him.

  • @patriciabarrett8907
    @patriciabarrett8907 8 месяцев назад +2

    My husband passed away 12/23/23 and I have been through so many 1sts. This is the Most Horrific Thing I've ever been through. 37 years marriage coming up on 6/20. I never thought anything could hurt so much.

  • @sherrybutler4844
    @sherrybutler4844 3 года назад +49

    I lost my 29 year old daughter on 2005. She be was married and had a 9 year old daughter and a 4 year old son. It was very sudden when I hear this song I think of her and everything I won't get to talk to her about.

    • @hollyfisher8811
      @hollyfisher8811 3 года назад +1

      So truly sorry for the loss of your Precious Daughter, Sherry💖🙏🌠...

    • @thequeenofthedreamx
      @thequeenofthedreamx 3 года назад +1

      I’m so sorry 🌸

  • @t.j.r161
    @t.j.r161 8 лет назад +173

    still makes me think of my wife and makes me cry everytime! cass; you happen to see this i love you and our kids more than life itself! im sorry id do or give anything!!! to have you back in my world!!! :'(:'(

    • @Andaxon
      @Andaxon 8 лет назад +3

      Sorry for your loss. Keep your chin up! i promise it will get better :) God bless you.

    • @t.j.r161
      @t.j.r161 8 лет назад

      Thank you for the encouragement my friend ya hardest part is keeping busy in this small ass town i live in and then my idealology of what i thought my family would be watchin my kids have to go thru the same pain i did as a youngin havin mom n dad be apart n such...i hate it i never in a 10000 yrs wanted them to go thru this

    • @Andaxon
      @Andaxon 8 лет назад

      Anytime mate! Just know she is looking down at you and is smiling. Knowing your taking care of her kids! :) Have a good one friend :)

    • @t.j.r161
      @t.j.r161 8 лет назад +5

      she didnt pass my friend she left me like isnt in a relationship with me anymore....sorry for the confusion....

    • @petemartinez2340
      @petemartinez2340 8 лет назад +3

      it will get better i promise. my wife left after 10 years. 3 kids we were young had to grow up fast. im 30 now.i tried everything as well diddent leave no stone unturned. i realized i need to move on and be happy. got a great women now. i get my kiddies every weekends. . i pick them up saterday 10am mom picks them back up sunday 7pm.

  • @maudealpha8529
    @maudealpha8529 Год назад +1975

    Anyone listening in 2024? Old but gold 🥹✨

  • @LanxstonArmendariz
    @LanxstonArmendariz 23 дня назад

    my dad just passed away from liver failure. i’m 15 years old and this song will forever bring me pain and remind me of him. knowing he won’t be at my birthday party’s, my graduation, or my wedding. it really does sting. he was so close to getting a transplant until the hospital denied him. i miss him.

    • @carriepelton4435
      @carriepelton4435 21 день назад

      Hello honey. I am devastated for you. I lost the love of my life to liver failure and my Dad is also an alcoholic. I can't imagine the pain you are going through at only 15 years old. I just wanted to tell you that I am so sorry for you. I hope you have support. If you don't already, please find it. Talk to somebody. Let people be there for you. I'm sure your father loved you very much.

  • @impizza86
    @impizza86 7 лет назад +139

    My dad nearly died couple a months ago and the doctors sed he will not live but he's still here today and from reading these comments I've realised how precious life is and how much you have to love everyone cause you don't know what's round the corner sorry for all your losses live life to the fullest xx

    • @charliemeshaw1281
      @charliemeshaw1281 7 лет назад +4

      I'm Pizza I'm glad that he is still here today

    • @nathanbayous4085
      @nathanbayous4085 7 лет назад +3

      I’m Very Sorry but it’s good he is still here today god bless you and your family

    • @chillvibez5302
      @chillvibez5302 7 лет назад +2

      I'm Pizza God is here for us, don't forget that

  • @billscott85
    @billscott85 8 лет назад +248

    this song reminds me of my middle school girlfriend who was killed in a plane crash back in 2009. I still think about her to this day.

  • @MistressThaIcon
    @MistressThaIcon Год назад +132

    SOMEONE GIVE THAT GIRL AN OSCAR!!!!!👏👏👏👏🙌🙌 I WAS CRYIN IN THE FIRST 25 SECONDS

    • @brandigervais3075
      @brandigervais3075 11 месяцев назад +2

      I cry my eyes out everything before the singing even starts 😢😢

    • @LOVEHAS1JOYRAINS2
      @LOVEHAS1JOYRAINS2 10 месяцев назад +1

      Hallo Mother Father of all creation are here in the physical flesh!! Yes its true! Our creators are showing the way for all for 1! Phone home today!! SOS

  • @LakeshaAnderson
    @LakeshaAnderson Месяц назад

    Every time I listen to this song I think about my brother Dustin 😭 and my dad who I lost and think about all the arguments we went through and just cry 😭

  • @jaquise1390
    @jaquise1390 3 года назад +56

    My auntie suffered from depression, she died when she was 14, I was always told she died from a sickness until I found out what actually happened... this was one of her favorite songs, it played at her funeral and me and my cousins sang it there, I miss her so much, it's been exactly 5 years since her passing and I still come back to this song every now and then. And I know she still lives on, my heart knows. I just want teenagers going through depression from a boy, doing something terrible like my auntie did hurts others, it's not worth it..

    • @amberw3599
      @amberw3599 2 года назад

      No my son Brian died June 7 2021. You can't imagine it.

  • @AlWheelin
    @AlWheelin 3 года назад +51

    Losing the love of your life is difficult in any circumstance, losing loved ones too early is devastating. The words of this song covers these loses with truth and honor.

  • @bethmckeehan383
    @bethmckeehan383 6 лет назад +76

    This song always make me cry lost my boyfriend of cancer rip my love

  • @tarareinhardt8062
    @tarareinhardt8062 8 месяцев назад +3

    My first love died of an apparent suicide and the words are so fitting. Rip Tim love you always and miss you so so much

  • @AvieAzie00
    @AvieAzie00 8 лет назад +3864

    no matter what kind of music genre you like, everyone still listens to this song when theyre sad lmao

    • @hoodedsmoke
      @hoodedsmoke 8 лет назад +27

      Yup and that's exactly why I'm here XD lol

    • @milnoire
      @milnoire 8 лет назад +6

      +Dark Infinity same

    • @jojomartinez7392
      @jojomartinez7392 8 лет назад +8

      exactley

    • @OmniMitch
      @OmniMitch 8 лет назад +36

      Yep I'm a metalhead who felt particularly emo today so

    • @girl.dude.1
      @girl.dude.1 8 лет назад +4

      Lol

  • @missgmoma
    @missgmoma 4 года назад +72

    I know this is a love song but it reminds me of my baby sister ( only sibling 18 yrs younger) I watched her leave my house & has a strange feeling, I watched her leave till she was out of sight. She was murdered that night. So many things left unsaid, so much I want to tell her. I love & miss you baby girl 😢💔

    • @aiyshaupal6326
      @aiyshaupal6326 4 года назад +1

      Sorry to hear.

    • @missgmoma
      @missgmoma 4 года назад +2

      @ash ley , thank you so much, I truly appreciate it ❣️

    • @joeychristmann7267
      @joeychristmann7267 4 года назад +2

      Sorry for her and your family

    • @missgmoma
      @missgmoma 4 года назад +1

      @Boss Lady thank you so much, you’re very kind 🌹

    • @missgmoma
      @missgmoma 4 года назад

      @@joeychristmann7267 thank you so much, I really appreciate it ❤️

  • @cultatz
    @cultatz 3 года назад +491

    This song hits different when you miss someone you'll never get to hear their voice again💔💯🙌

    • @anastasiareborns
      @anastasiareborns 2 года назад +3

      Rest in peace to my brother Jesse Mickelson.

    • @sheltonmason3173
      @sheltonmason3173 2 года назад +3

      RIP to my mom

    • @juliemac4800
      @juliemac4800 2 года назад +1

      Rip Florence... I miss you. I'm sorry for that night.

    • @missinkevin
      @missinkevin 2 года назад +1

      RIP to my dad

    • @milo-ve8ln
      @milo-ve8ln 2 года назад +1

      R.i.p. Eric I love you 💕

  • @jessehelwig3977
    @jessehelwig3977 10 месяцев назад +36

    To anyone that's hurting, just keep holding on. They may be gone, but the love you shared is still there, and it always will be. You were their world until the end. It's okay to love them for the rest of yours, even if you meet someone else. You're not alone. Remember that.

  • @getgoodbruh3764
    @getgoodbruh3764 4 года назад +620

    Hey you who is reading this comment, I want you to know how important you are to this world, you are a beautiful person, don't let this world bring you down, know you can get through this hard time in your life, tell yourself things will get better, stay positive and happy and always know you can do it, always try and never give up.
    Just trying to make people feel better and happy who are going through a tough time in their life, just always tell yourself things will get better and know you can get through this difficult time in your life. I hope my message made a positive impact in your life. 😊 Be who you are and live life to the fullest. You are on this world for a reason.
    Let go of the past because the past is the past, whatever you did or what happened to you is forgiven and forgotten so move on and live in the future.
    I know some of y'all may not understand what I am trying to do but just to let y'all know that I am just trying to help people.

    • @robertnas8855
      @robertnas8855 4 года назад +15

      I cried the whole time I read this

    • @lesliebrooke1005
      @lesliebrooke1005 4 года назад +21

      Not even gonna lie... I NEEDED to read that today.. Im struggling.

    • @dianestevens4496
      @dianestevens4496 4 года назад +9

      Thank you

    • @christophermclain9026
      @christophermclain9026 4 года назад +4

      I am the song " unforgiven" by Metallica , it aint always gonna get better ! 😖

    • @courtneytillia6264
      @courtneytillia6264 4 года назад +7

      Thank you i needed this. Much love