How an Apology Creates a Turning Point in ‘Women Talking’ | Anatomy of a Scene

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  • Опубликовано: 28 авг 2024
  • In this scene from the drama “Women Talking,” the words “I’m sorry” take on tremendous weight.
    The film, which is Oscar-nominated in the best picture and adapted screenplay categories, follows a group of women in an isolated religious community who have been the constant victims of sexual assault by men in their compound. The women are faced with a pivotal decision: do nothing, stay and fight the abusers or leave the community altogether.
    In this sequence, Mariche (Jessie Buckley) is arguing to stay and fight, but that leads to conflict with Ona (Rooney Mara).
    The tense exchange leads to an apology, first from Ona, then from Greta (Sheila McCarthy), Mariche’s mother, who expresses regret for not protecting Mariche from abuse and instead encouraging her to forgive her abuser.
    Discussing the scene in an interview, the screenwriter and director Sarah Polley said, “This apology and the receiving of it is, in fact, the climax of the film, and it’s what allows the group to move together into a different future.”
    Polley said that when shooting the scene, she spoke with a crew member who had a parallel experience to Mariche’s, growing up in a religious community and suffering abuse and feeling his parents weren’t protective of him in the way they should have been. She noticed that the crew member wasn’t responding to the apology as scripted.
    The two sat down and she asked him what Greta would need to say for the moment to have meaning.
    “We realized that what we hadn’t scripted was her saying the words, ‘I’m sorry,’” Polley said. She worked with the crew member and actors to build the most meaningful approach to this moment. “So it turned into a very collective expression of something,” she said.
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Комментарии • 51

  • @toasted_.coconut
    @toasted_.coconut Год назад +101

    This is the apology I spent the majority of my life wishing I'd hear from my own mother.

    • @zoefang4563
      @zoefang4563 Год назад +2

      This is the apology I wished I would hear from my own dad.

    • @CGMedia2023
      @CGMedia2023 27 дней назад

      right...

  • @xyrildanmanuel783
    @xyrildanmanuel783 Год назад +62

    crazy that the whole scene with autje walking towards her mom and jesse buckley breaking down was spontaneous

    • @johnnystob4037
      @johnnystob4037 Год назад +4

      fr! that was the most heartbreaking moment in the film for me

  • @Ring0fSaturn
    @Ring0fSaturn 6 месяцев назад +7

    Wow. This video really helped me to understand the film so much better and to appreciate the heartfelt collaboration of all the actors.

  • @anthonycarlos4146
    @anthonycarlos4146 Год назад +48

    What a wonderful film. Cannot believe that there was spontaneity in this scene. All three actresses moved so elegantly in response to the others performance so well that I for sure thought it was written in. Great stuff!

    • @marcusclark1339
      @marcusclark1339 7 месяцев назад

      its literally mediocre smear piece on men, just a misandrist movie
      ruclips.net/video/3IpKL8FJ5QU/видео.html

  • @lahlem6725
    @lahlem6725 Год назад +24

    Kind of hard seeing somebody get a kind of apology that I never will

    • @megandeytoth448
      @megandeytoth448 Год назад +5

      That makes sense. I am sorry you never got the apology.

    • @marcusclark1339
      @marcusclark1339 7 месяцев назад

      the movie is horrendous
      ruclips.net/video/3IpKL8FJ5QU/видео.html

  • @esinyenetabo2356
    @esinyenetabo2356 Год назад +37

    People should take appology seriously! God hates abuse. Not divorce. Get out of an abusive environment

    • @kwill84
      @kwill84 Год назад +5

      Exactly they even say forgiveness can be misinterpreted as permission

    • @lyndawilliams4570
      @lyndawilliams4570 Год назад +1

      Amen

    • @kimberlyrobinson3992
      @kimberlyrobinson3992 11 месяцев назад +3

      Don’t distort the Bible. God hates both divorce and abuse. However, that doesn’t mean a woman should stay in a house where she’s being abused. Either make the man go or go yourself.
      Any man who abuses his wife will face God and have to deal with Him.

  • @liv-bv3pl
    @liv-bv3pl 5 месяцев назад +1

    “Im sorry” 3 times was possibly the most powerful moment in the movie

  • @mkallai
    @mkallai Год назад +3

    Hi, thanks for these videos! It would be nice if we could watch the "Tár" | Anatomy of a Scene episode here. Are you planning to upload it? Thank you!

  • @Aleakwe
    @Aleakwe 10 месяцев назад +1

    brilliance and moved. i have not experienced DV but know I will never experience a "meaningful apology" from enabling relatives who do not see themselves as emotional abusers, despite everyone knowing the truth, facts and evidence

    • @marcusclark1339
      @marcusclark1339 7 месяцев назад

      ruclips.net/video/3IpKL8FJ5QU/видео.html
      its a mediocre misandrist movie

  • @carmtiff
    @carmtiff Месяц назад

    Ww-oooooow. This is on my list of movie to see but I live great character development and genuine human dynamics that occur beyond the dialogue.

  • @hyunvinh
    @hyunvinh Год назад +8

    The meaning full and amazing scene. i love it

  • @cathykemp9146
    @cathykemp9146 Год назад +5

    Absolutely beautiful. Sarah is a goddess!

  • @HayshishTV
    @HayshishTV 9 месяцев назад +8

    now that film looks like one huge piece of dung

  • @CGMedia2023
    @CGMedia2023 27 дней назад +1

    levels of misandry that I never thought existed.

  • @kurbads74
    @kurbads74 Год назад +2

    Is Lubyanka in charge? Clearly!

  • @kingclover1395
    @kingclover1395 7 месяцев назад +8

    This is the most despicable movie I have ever seen. Even my girlfriend thought it was horrible. It should have won 50 Razzie Awards instead of Oscars.

  • @Christianna73
    @Christianna73 11 месяцев назад

    Such a good movie ❤

    • @marcusclark1339
      @marcusclark1339 7 месяцев назад

      its not and has no real point
      ruclips.net/video/3IpKL8FJ5QU/видео.html

  • @iknowthisone6844
    @iknowthisone6844 7 месяцев назад +2

    i dont understand this video at all, bye

  • @Coco61525
    @Coco61525 Год назад +4

    Hey New York Times, how come you don’t talk about the cop that you quietly retracted the story over January 6.🤭💯

  • @13cornstar
    @13cornstar Год назад +3

    I’m just here to make fun of the NYT for Raccoon dog! 😂

  • @MikhailAbbot
    @MikhailAbbot Год назад +2

    Всем Добрый День. Нашему Поколению 50-60 лет, Полезно Было бы Обратиться К Жизненному Опыту... Наших Предшественников из минувших эпох: Чтоб Научиться... Быть Снисходительными... К Людям, Но Требовательны... К Себе. Лишь Только Поступки... Нравственности Созидают... Социум Людей и Мотивируют... Оных Жить По Кодексу... Совести и Чести. Конечно же, Никто Из Нас Не Совершенен. Но Мы Должны Стараться... Достойно Жизни Путь... Пройти. Чтобы Благоразумными Людьми Остаться.

  • @tyrranicalt-rad6164
    @tyrranicalt-rad6164 Год назад +6

    I'd like to hear the male Mennonite opinion of this movie 🤔

    • @elizabethhenning778
      @elizabethhenning778 Год назад +41

      Look everyone, the NotAllMen guy is here 😂

    • @5Xum
      @5Xum Год назад +7

      You can go and ask them in their cell in Bolivia, they aren't going anywhere for a while...

    • @lyndawilliams4570
      @lyndawilliams4570 Год назад +1

      Tryrrant is it?…..that says so much already

    • @jenniek8391
      @jenniek8391 Год назад +2

      Yes, let's hear what the rapists and abusers have to say 🙄

    • @cheesecakeisgross4645
      @cheesecakeisgross4645 6 месяцев назад

      @@elizabethhenning778 Not even that. it's BarelyAnyMen.

  • @jbagger331
    @jbagger331 Год назад +4

    Fiction, just like everything else NYT produces.

  • @atlanta2076
    @atlanta2076 Год назад +4

    When I heard about the title of this movie, I knew I'd rather watch the spiteful Velma-series forwards and backwards. And this scene confirms what I thought. It's so shallow and vapid. Surely it's unacceptable to hit anyone. But no one ever dares posing the question: «What's the last thing she said?». I can't wait for the sequel «Men Not Listening».

    • @kwill84
      @kwill84 Год назад +24

      You clearly didn’t pay attention if you called this film shallow and vapid. This film is one of the best I’ve seen in a long time.

    • @lordofthefemoids9234
      @lordofthefemoids9234 Год назад +34

      Hmmm... the simple title "women talking" invoked such a negative reaction in you. I wonder what kind of person both finds the concept of women talking so angering, and implies that domestic violence can be justified if the woman is being disagreeable 🤔🤔🧐
      By the way, did you know that this movie is based on a real instance of men in a Mennonite community drugging/raping local women and girls in their sleep, that the victim's ages ranged from 3 years old to 65, and that the male dominated church authority did in fact tell the women that it was Satan or ghosts that committed the rapes? I wish that angered you half as much as the title "Women Talking" does.

    • @talb.1805
      @talb.1805 Год назад +6

      Let's consult Wikipedia: en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Manitoba_Colony,_Bolivia

    • @talb.1805
      @talb.1805 Год назад

      You're so spiteful and full of hatred that you'd rather stay ignorant rather than learning something. Watch the film. It's not Velma, it's oscar-nominated

    • @falgalhutkinsmarzcal3962
      @falgalhutkinsmarzcal3962 7 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@talb.18058 were guilty, but this movie frames everyone in the community as guilty or involved in a coverup, which is completely contrary to the wiki you linked.

  • @paullowman9131
    @paullowman9131 Год назад +3

    FREE ASSANGE