I’m Grieving But I’m Back | Over 50 & Flourishing

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  • @wanda8269
    @wanda8269 Год назад +4

    Dominique, I’m so sorry for the lost of your beautiful amazing mom.

  • @Truthmatters6385
    @Truthmatters6385 Год назад +12

    Please know Dominique, in courageously sharing your loss and grief journey , you are touching those of us (over 50) who are facing the uncomfortable reality of losing our parents - sooner than later. God uses us in our darkest moments to encourage others when they go through the same thing. I've seen this time and again. He turns the personal storm into a rainbow that all can see . Lifting you up in prayer to The One who is the Great Comforter.

  • @Catfluff521
    @Catfluff521 Год назад +653

    I am so sorry for your profound loss. I’m 57 and lost my dad and sister within 6 months in 2022; my mom in 2017. My parents were my world. I struggle everyday wanting my old life back. I wish everyone peace in their grief.

    • @mariafitzgerald4443
      @mariafitzgerald4443 Год назад +17

      I'm so so sorry for your loss ,I know exactly what your going through ,I also have suffered great loss ❤

    • @beautifulsurprise9424
      @beautifulsurprise9424 Год назад +23

      I can somewhat relate. I'm 44 and my mother passed away in 2015, my grandfather in 2018 and my grandmother in 2020. That was three of the 4 people who truly had a hand in raising me and taking care of me in my early life and showing me what genuine love is. Wanting my old life back where I had a thriving family full of loved ones to turn to for advice, love and be loved by and get a loan in my 20s (lol) is definitely the way I still feel to this day. It took me a long time to get over my mother's passing. I would say about 5 years and in between that time my grandfather died and then as soon as I was starting to feel like myself again then my grandmother died. It was a very rough and tough five years for me. I still don't think I am over their deaths, but I do think I have gotten through them. I probably won't ever be over the majority of the people that I ever loved and who ever loved me passing away and in such quick succession of each other. Such is life I guess.

    • @shinypenny1927
      @shinypenny1927 Год назад +10

      God bless you. God is with you on this spiritual journey within yourself and your family who are sleeping, awaiting Jesus to take them home to God's glory in Heaven. You are in my prayers.

    • @ruthdaines9040
      @ruthdaines9040 Год назад +9

      So very sorry for all the losses each have shared! May you be comforted and find peace though it all.

    • @pilarkrol
      @pilarkrol Год назад +6

      ❤ sending you lots of love from the Netherlands

  • @user-iv6ty3cd5i
    @user-iv6ty3cd5i 9 месяцев назад

    I’m 54 and lost my mom in 2020 and just lost my dad this past sept. Everyone grieves differently and you never really stop grieving -You just “adjust” the best you can.

  • @ajarrett5
    @ajarrett5 Год назад +3

    Loosing a loved one is never easy whether it is unexpected or a months or years long process. Grief is also totally different for each individual. You do you!! 🙏🏻

  • @dionneaccel5099
    @dionneaccel5099 Год назад +1

    So sorry for your loss. Your mother was a formidable woman who embraced life - she reminds me so much of my mother of 81. She lives on in you, Dominique. Thank you for sharing - on this level.

  • @donnacook3107
    @donnacook3107 Год назад +1

    Thank you for sharing your mother with us thru the years. She definitely was a beautiful & lovely women. Also your willingness to allow us on your journey is very appreciated. I lost my mother in 2020 at almost 90. It came very unexpectedly and on the other side of the U.S. luckily I made it there a few days before she passed. Covid was at its peak & we were grateful she was able to come home. You are so right when you say you just get thru it. Although my mom & I had our differences thru the years, we had made our peace. Thank you for sharing your time with us, as I know how difficult and challenging it can be. Sending lots of prayers to you, her family & friends 💕😇🙏🏻

  • @acieperez2234
    @acieperez2234 Год назад

    I’m so sorry for your loss. May God give you strength during this difficult time. Sending love & prayers🙏❤️.

  • @RMB5775
    @RMB5775 Год назад

    I am so very sorry. You and your mom had such a wonderful relationship! I pray Gods peace and comfort now and in the future.

  • @nadiagraves387
    @nadiagraves387 Год назад

    I just finished watching and when you read my message, I just broke down in tears. 😢 Sending you big hugs.

  • @AE-qd2mh
    @AE-qd2mh Год назад

    My condolences to you and your family Dominique. I’m sorry to hear about the passing of your mother, I’m just heartbroken 😔

  • @juanataylor3796
    @juanataylor3796 Год назад

    I am so very sorry for your loss...and the pain you have to go thru ..I hope your son is a big help for you in this difficult time. much love and god bless

  • @sherriehetzel6679
    @sherriehetzel6679 Год назад

    I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you at this time you two were so close

  • @Jan-bv3hx
    @Jan-bv3hx Год назад

    Deepest condolences to you, Dominique. Sending thoughts and prayers.

  • @lesliekirby-miles4340
    @lesliekirby-miles4340 Год назад

    Just reaching out to send my condolences to you and your family. I listened to Anderson Cooper’s podcast on grief (highly recommend it) and one statement really struck me- grief and grieving means that we had/have the fortune to have love. One does not grieve unless one has loved. Grief seems so singular at times but we all (if we are lucky) have or will go thru it. I am pleased you are sharing your grief and hope we learn from it. Sending love and prayers to you.

  • @misterjanglesthecanecorsol3221

    So sorry for your loss. It does get easier. I lost my mum my beat friend 9 years ago. It took me 6 years to be able to speak about her without welling up. She will always be with you ❤

  • @glory5260
    @glory5260 Год назад

    I understand totally what you are going through. Everything you mentioned that you did with your mom as she was transitioning reminded me of what I did with my mom. I was 23 and my mom was 51 when I lost her. It has been a difficult journey even now at 56 yrs old. My prayers are with you.

  • @melissaorgeron9161
    @melissaorgeron9161 Год назад

    I am so so very sorry. Sending prayers....

  • @imjustanasshlesometimes3488
    @imjustanasshlesometimes3488 Год назад

    My mom passed away not even a week ago. I just turned 37.... I just had my boys (1 and 3 yrs old).... I thought she'd be here to help me navigate motherhood. I'm in her place, going through her belongings and just feel so lost. I just miss my mom.
    I'm sorry for your loss.

  • @auroragloqueen4979
    @auroragloqueen4979 Год назад

    Your a great daughter. You have honoured her memory.

  • @rebeccazahn5299
    @rebeccazahn5299 Год назад

    I’m glad you are sharing this. Thank you ❤

  • @sallyschroeder6883
    @sallyschroeder6883 Год назад +1

    I'm praying for you..xo

  • @jilliancolemanwheeler8940
    @jilliancolemanwheeler8940 Год назад

    Oh, Dominique, I am so sorry to hear about your mom.

  • @suerufener8453
    @suerufener8453 Год назад

    Sending you much love and blessings.

  • @LiseLenaAndersen
    @LiseLenaAndersen Год назад

    😭So sorry for your loss🥺I have understand that your mother ment a lot to you😢🙏🏽❤️

  • @trishamorgan4
    @trishamorgan4 Год назад

    I am so so sorry!!!!

  • @bgrateful453
    @bgrateful453 Год назад

    'Like A River' book with Granger Smith, just released on 8/1/2023. I highly recommend it for you.

  • @annemeridien3384
    @annemeridien3384 Год назад

    You are amazing!

  • @2024Hope
    @2024Hope Год назад

  • @MarTina-on1ti
    @MarTina-on1ti Год назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @dusty1754
    @dusty1754 Год назад +104

    You're a wonderful daughter. She must have been so proud.

  • @T2ahern
    @T2ahern Год назад +277

    I know the pain of losing a Mother, and it is indescribable. God bless you! ❤

    • @sunshinehaydeeify
      @sunshinehaydeeify Год назад +9

      Totally agree i lost both of my parents to brain tumor! and i lost my dad first, not expected is was super hard

    • @Nan-ly8zb
      @Nan-ly8zb Год назад +3

      It is the most heartbreaking thing that has ever happened to me.
      💔

    • @sylviaanton8306
      @sylviaanton8306 Год назад +5

      So indescribable...life changing. She was my rock then I became her rock.

    • @jeanneritchie7863
      @jeanneritchie7863 Год назад +2

      @@sylviaanton8306Yes, it’s true that our roles reverse in these situations. It’s unsettling, and yet it’s such an honor at the same time to be able to pay them back in some small way for all the care and love they gave us over the years.

    • @sylviaanton8306
      @sylviaanton8306 Год назад

      Such a privilege@@jeanneritchie7863

  • @diogenes7047
    @diogenes7047 Год назад +51

    I am now 69 years old, and having gone through the loss of both my parents, your words of the grief process was exceptional. Each loss is an individual experience, sometimes you are given the time to prepare for the inevitable, and sometimes, as in the case of Audrey, it is sudden and unexpected. I admire your gift of sharing, transparency, etc. Yes, we are a community, understand what you are going through, and know that you are not alone. Time does allow us to heal, but I can say from expereince, that even years later, you will hear a song or something that will remind you of your mother or father. Tears may come, and that's ok, it just shows how much love you have for them. All will be good....

  • @linneasimchah1621
    @linneasimchah1621 Год назад +157

    Psalm 34:18 God is near to the brokenhearted and saves those with a bruised heart.
    Your session today was really encouraging to me because I'm presently going through a strenuous grieving process. You're right: it helps me not feel so alone. Thank you very much 🤍

  • @lynnrose7562
    @lynnrose7562 Год назад +93

    I understand the loss of a mother. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

    • @MTknitter22
      @MTknitter22 Год назад

      It’s harder for me to understand the loss of my mother because we were not that close (her choice) so it isn’t that I don’t grieve her passing. It’s that I had to grieve that relationship loss for a very long time. So I sure understand the mourning many of you are experiencing. Praying for you all.

  • @sandrawongseprasert9294
    @sandrawongseprasert9294 Год назад +60

    I lost my Mom 9/1/21 and I am still struggling! She was my biggest cheerleader all my life and I really miss her! Prayers for healing. I am now 55.

    • @noble604
      @noble604 8 месяцев назад

      Isn't that the truth? Moms have that special and unique way of being our best cheerleader in ways that no one else can. I’ll never forget, I was on the NYC subway and I overheard this boy of about 12, 13 years of age talking to someone and he said “I get bullied for my nose. The other kids say I have a big nose but my mom said my nose isn’t big at all.” (This boy’s nose was HUGE. But because his mom said it wasn’t, it wasn’t.) Take that.
      That, to me, was the sweetest and most tender memory of THE POWER OF MOM. ☄️💥
      Blessings to you.

  • @marevagodfrey7529
    @marevagodfrey7529 Год назад +36

    I commend you for always tackling the tough topics for the benefit of us all. Your selflessness is inspiring.

  • @AsianPoshDorene
    @AsianPoshDorene Год назад +68

    I lost my mom April 6,2023. Your relationship with your mom was so loving. We all want our mom to be an Audrey. My mom was not loving but I forgave her long ago. Prayers for your healing. 🙏❤️

    • @LAGASGAL
      @LAGASGAL Год назад +4

      I resonate with you so much. Currently working on forgiveness for myself about my mother. It hard 😢! I pray when I become a mom I an break that curse.

    • @SWIdaho2
      @SWIdaho2 Год назад +4

      Blessings on you for being able to forgive your mother for her lack of love. May other family members & friends pour love upon you.

    • @SWIdaho2
      @SWIdaho2 Год назад +3

      ​@@LAGASGAL You are to be commended for acknowledging this wounding relationship & working toward acceptance of what is rather than becoming bitter. You *can* be a good mother! 🙂

    • @AsianPoshDorene
      @AsianPoshDorene Год назад +2

      @@LAGASGAL it is hard. You will break the curse. I have two grown daughters & am the mom I wanted for them. I will pray for you. 🙏

    • @AsianPoshDorene
      @AsianPoshDorene Год назад +1

      @@SWIdaho2 thank you!

  • @paulahatcher150
    @paulahatcher150 Год назад +81

    I’m 56 and just lost my mama a week after you did. Boy I can relate to every thing you said. So ironic that this happened to us both. Praying for you and me. My heart hurts

    • @paulahatcher150
      @paulahatcher150 Год назад +1

      @@Happy2bme2dae That’s so kind of you. 🙏🙏🙏

    • @gz2024-zaz
      @gz2024-zaz Год назад

      My deepest condolences to you during this very difficult time. Prayers, peace and comfort to you. You and your platform are sincerely appreciated. Loss is life’s most difficult realities. I lost my mom at the age of 13. She battled cancer and it overcame her at the young age of 38. If that wasn’t enough, I suddenly lost my only child, and beautiful 17 year old daughter, the summer just before her senior year in high school. I feel, understand and empathize with your pain and the grieving process. Sending you love. God Bless You. 🙏

    • @kathydilorenzo9744
      @kathydilorenzo9744 Год назад

      Bless you both!

    • @mnichols180
      @mnichols180 Год назад

      I am so sorry for what you are going through, it is so difficult. The only thing to know is it gets less raw, the emotions come but it is more manageable. Give yourself no timeline on grieving. It truly is a process. Grieving is the price of love. May God comfort your hurting heart. xoxo

    • @paulahatcher150
      @paulahatcher150 Год назад

      @@gz2024-zaz so very sorry for your losses. May God comfort you. Prayers🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @zebralove2840
    @zebralove2840 Год назад +45

    When your last parent goes, there is unmooring, no matter how old you are. I lost my last one at age 63 and still feel a bit orphaned, years later.

    • @lindas.1751
      @lindas.1751 Год назад +3

      @zebralove2840 same. Or, ok, I'm a few years older, but yes, there's that feeling of being unmoored. Sending you love and care.

    • @lmccauley7319
      @lmccauley7319 Год назад +1

      So true, it's different after we lose both parents because for one thing that means we are next in line. 🤔 It puts your timeline of your life in perspective.

  • @desaraebarry8990
    @desaraebarry8990 Год назад +39

    Please know how much my heart breaks for you. I have only my mom in my life. No husband no kids. And I don't know what I'm going to do when God calls her home.
    I really appreciate your love for people to share with us.
    Love from AZ 🌵

    • @rivkaalony4126
      @rivkaalony4126 Год назад +1

      So sorry for your big lose. Every time you would talk to your mother I was fascinated by the closeness between you two.
      Big hug and consolations.
      Riki
      Israel

  • @sherylvalentiner6115
    @sherylvalentiner6115 Год назад +48

    Your relationship with your mom was enviable. I lost my mom when I was just 22 and it was brutal for my five siblings, my father and myself. I’ve missed her every day for the past 44 years. Miss my dad now, too. Grieving is so incredibly personal. May your path be fruitful, and may you be comforted. It’s very generous of you to share your journey. Be well. 🤍

    • @queenofdahouse1591
      @queenofdahouse1591 Год назад +2

      Me too. But I’m two years younger so it’s been 42 years. Loss of my life… Dad when I was 29. Our birthdays within days this week. I’ve now outlived her six years… my Grammy years to our two joys!

  • @vivianfolsom9341
    @vivianfolsom9341 Год назад +60

    I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my mother May 1, 2023. I had a very similar relationship with my mother and the loss of her has been devastating. At the same time I’m moving forward, I’m processing the grief and everything that goes with it. I also lost my dad 16 months before her. So it’s been hitting me pretty hard, but I keep my head up and move forward and try to choose a better thought when the grief feels overwhelming. Sending love and peace to you! ❤

  • @sandacobzas7240
    @sandacobzas7240 Год назад +36

    Dear Dominique, I'm very sorry for the loss of your mother, Audrey, a wonderful , loving and charismatic woman with a young soul. May God rest her in peace! Thank you for sharing your deep feelings with us.

  • @emilymcclellan8988
    @emilymcclellan8988 Год назад +25

    Dominique, I'm praying for you. I lost my mom in May so your words really resonated with me. God is close to the brokenhearted. Psalm 34:18

  • @jenjoy2846
    @jenjoy2846 Год назад +22

    The Queen Once Said "Grief Is the Price We Pay for Love”. Such wisdom and has helped me get through difficult times and I hope for you and others too. x

  • @bellasophia06
    @bellasophia06 Год назад +100

    Losing my mother in 2000 at 41 was by far the hardest pain I’ve ever experienced in my life. I couldn’t breath without her… she was my best friend as well! I completely get you 😕

  • @Mrrngglory3043
    @Mrrngglory3043 Год назад +30

    So sorry for your loss. She seemed like such an amazing woman, and she raised an amazing woman. We appreciate you! 🙏

  • @sonia-mariaraposo6139
    @sonia-mariaraposo6139 Год назад +29

    Dearest Dominique, I am sorry for your loss. It must be so difficult, yet, you said it so beautifully: we don't get over loss, we get through it. Sending you many prayers for comfort and peace. Know we all send you our love!

  • @amethystfeathers7324
    @amethystfeathers7324 Год назад +31

    I lost my Dad, my Brother, my Mum within 2 years. My twin Sister was diagnosed with late stage 3 cancer a few days after my Mum's funeral. Flourishing to me is when you've been through the process and you get to a point where you can focus on the good times not the dying. Acceptance and gratitude is the key IMHO, and allowing the grieving process to be completed 🥰

    • @TheSweetnsalty1
      @TheSweetnsalty1 Год назад +3

      So sorry for all your loss , just know they will be there waiting on you when your time comes and it will be a huge party.

    • @amethystfeathers7324
      @amethystfeathers7324 Год назад

      @@TheSweetnsalty1 I so hope that's true. Thank you 🥰

    • @lovespurpleflowers
      @lovespurpleflowers Год назад +1

      You have been through so much loss, I do pray that you have people in your life that will be “family” for you!❤

    • @deborahbauernfeind5402
      @deborahbauernfeind5402 Год назад

      Oh, get you. My husband died 10 years ago at Christmas, Dad died 6 weeks before him, and Mom died a few months before Dad, then the new year, my only sibling died. I think we must tell our story over and over again until we don't need to tell it any more. Miraculously, that does happen.

  • @RaeDigitalMedia
    @RaeDigitalMedia Год назад +20

    NEVER CLICKED SO FAST! Dominique, I"m so, so very sorry for your loss - we all adored your mother, she lit up the screen every time she was here...

  • @lezliecarson2436
    @lezliecarson2436 Год назад +53

    I’m still in shock that Audrey passed so suddenly and without any warning. She reminded me of my Mom, who passed in 2017. They were so similar. They never really leave us, our memories and stories never die and as we continue to share our stories and memories, we keep them alive and in our hearts. ❤

    • @susanblanche9684
      @susanblanche9684 Год назад +3

      Ohhh darling it's good to cry and grieve. Nothing to be ashamed of. It's so normal

  • @jdoe981
    @jdoe981 Год назад +66

    I lost my beloved husband to covid in 2021 unexpectedly. It was traumatic. I also hear him, feel him , and for about a week after he passed I heard his footsteps in the garage that he adored. I don't hear them anymore as I know they move higher into eternity...blessings Dominique 🙏

    • @reneebk1999
      @reneebk1999 Год назад +7

      I lost my husband in 2020…I know your heartbreak and I’m so so sorry.

    • @mitchh9111
      @mitchh9111 Год назад +5

      Losing a spouse is far more devastating than the loss of a parent. Sorry for your loss it’s a tough journey.

    • @meganh7742
      @meganh7742 Год назад

      Ohh I’m so, so sorry❤

  • @annbressie8615
    @annbressie8615 Год назад +27

    Dominique - thank you for this. I too lost my mother and had my 35 year marriage come to an end in the last 2 years. It's a lot and you are being so vulnerable. Just know that this is so appreciated and sending you lots of love and blessings.

  • @julidoz
    @julidoz Год назад +17

    I sat and cried as I watched this. Dominique, I speak for many of us when I say, I’ve taken the loss of our magnificent miss Audrey pretty hard, as well. She was quirky, whimsical, and gorgeous and I just know, brought a crackle and pop into any room! She is loved by so many of us, as are YOU! Please take your time and know that prayers of peace of comfort and peace are being sent your way big time! You are so loved! Thank you for sharing this with us. We love you so! ❤

  • @andreabontempo643
    @andreabontempo643 Год назад +14

    Dominique you are such an amazing woman and I just want you to know that you and your mom were so special and I loved your relationship you had with her. Thank you for being so real and raw with us. I am so sorry for your loss.

  • @suecastillo4056
    @suecastillo4056 Год назад +20

    I’m so sorry! Lost my husband may 22… joined a bereavment group, and my desire to heal? Is greater than the pain … and yes acceptance and surrrender… it’s the hardest thing I’ve ever been through. I know I’m going to be ok, and am ok. One door opens and another one closes, it’s those long hallways that get ya… Blessings to you, sending you strength, peace, and healing in you and Gods time♥️🥰‼️☮️

    • @c.s.s.8117
      @c.s.s.8117 Год назад +3

      I think your post is very profound. I am sorry for your loss.

  • @kimnick9456
    @kimnick9456 Год назад +24

    Thank you SO much for highlighting the “grieving process”! None of us can escape loss so I really appreciate you sharing your candid experience over losing your precious mother while honoring her & your relationship. Continued prayers as you experience this rollercoaster of emotions and heal.

  • @michelekernan4189
    @michelekernan4189 Год назад +6

    You are OUR therapist. Thank you for sharing your feelings. I am so sorry for what you are going through. Hugs to you. I know you will thrive yet never forget. You are so loved and an inspiration to ALL! Your wisdom is remarkable!

  • @kimfromarkansas2084
    @kimfromarkansas2084 Год назад +40

    I am so very sorry for the loss of your mom🙏

  • @ThelmaThrift
    @ThelmaThrift Год назад +4

    I'm so sorry to hear of your profound loss; the love between the two of you was incredibly palpable.

  • @kristensmith92
    @kristensmith92 Год назад +19

    This was so lovely. Thank you for sharing your mother and your grief with us. I'm a pastor's wife, and I see so many people grieving that have no one to support them. They lose someone and they don't even have the means for a funeral let alone the emotional support. They often find themselves on our doorstep because we run a pantry. As for my own life, I have virtually no relationship with my parents. My dad has cancer for the 4th time and time is running out. I've done what I know to do and I struggle to make peace that I most likely will never have the love and bond I wish I did. I find those things in the relationships with those who do treasure me. You will be in my prayers.

    • @MTknitter22
      @MTknitter22 Год назад +1

      Yes ma’am, God gave me special people people ever so wonderful to fill the holes left by family relationship losses. He is so GOOD.

  • @marlanedows7049
    @marlanedows7049 Год назад +14

    Dear Dominic Thank you for sharing your mom with us. Your community just loves her. The comments you read were so much better than what I can express, but yes I too am grieving from the sudden passing of my son just 3 years ago. I don’t have friends but I had a mentor from the Stephen ministry who helped me so so much. It is a non denomination volunteer group through churches who help people with loss. Prayers and hugs.

  • @juliabinford6500
    @juliabinford6500 Год назад +31

    Thank you for being vulnerable. My parents are in their nineties, and you remind me to make every minute count.

    • @sylviegiroux9210
      @sylviegiroux9210 Год назад

      Sending you Loving Light and Healing Energy ✨️

  • @paritroiana1386
    @paritroiana1386 Год назад +14

    Lost both parents 3 months apart last year. Hearing about your mom brought all the pain back. I couldn't stop crying and praying for you. You guys had a special bond indeed. How I get through my loss is by knowing this life is just a passageway until we get home. Prayers for you.

    • @noble604
      @noble604 8 месяцев назад

      Understand, understand. In six months, I lost both. Understand. Blessings to you.

  • @gwenewing6837
    @gwenewing6837 Год назад +20

    Glad to see you, Dominique ❤ Your mother was a gem and I'm so honored to have met her on your channel!

  • @sharonbeers4621
    @sharonbeers4621 Год назад +12

    Hello Dominique, my heart goes out to you at this most vulnerable time of grieving. You are so brave an inspirational to share this very incredible painful time in your life. I am the youngest from a family of 10 and recently lost a sister your moms age. I am grateful they did not have a lengthy illness. Listening to you this evening was very therapeutic and healing, thanks🙏🏻 You are such a wonderful woman as was your mom, her positive outlook and young at heart huge smile was beautiful. I think of you both daily since her passing with loving warmth and kindness. It gives me great joy knowing you were with her during her last days. You deserve the best life has to offer Dominique, take care of yourself❤

  • @SarahsUKGraveyard
    @SarahsUKGraveyard Год назад +9

    Dominique I will miss your mother on your videos she was just fabulous. Good to see your back xx

  • @jackietempleton4171
    @jackietempleton4171 Год назад +10

    Thank You so much for this share. My husband died 23 years ago and 6 mos after he passed, my Dad passed. I thought I was through the valley of grieving but you brought up a lot of emotions. That was a good thing. I have learned at lot today. Condolences to you and your family and friends. Your mom was lovely. I learned a lot from her as well. Get up, get dressed and get moving . I am 71. Blessings to you.

  • @janetaro
    @janetaro Год назад +18

    So sorry for your loss. Glad you included her in past episodes, we were privileged to get to know your Mom through those episodes.

  • @jowiens32
    @jowiens32 Год назад +19

    I am completely petrified to lose my mother. She’s turning 89 in a few months and doing fantastic, but I don’t live in denial of her age. Every day I think about it, and every day I’m petrified to lose her. I know that I will go on, and I can go on, I just don’t know how. Thank you for sharing your story and your journey. It does help those of us still on the side of it with so much fear.

    • @1105pitbull
      @1105pitbull Год назад +2

      Don't let the fear of losing her overshadow the time you have left with her. Remember to ask all the questions you have that won't be able to be answered after she's gone. Lastly, always let her know how much she means to you even though I'm certain she already knows. ❤

  • @heathercosh5582
    @heathercosh5582 Год назад +7

    I'm so sorry for the loss of your precious Mom. I lost my Dad last year and can fully appreciate everything you are going through now. Be strong and stay focused on the future while appreciating and holding dearly onto the past...they continue to guide us as we do our best to navigate the world without them.

  • @debbiekennedy9478
    @debbiekennedy9478 Год назад +11

    It took tremendous courage and grace to do this video and I send you love, hugs, prayers and positive vibes as you continue thru this process of grieving. I know Audrey is there every step of the way providing you comfort along the way and in some unexpected ways the sudden appearance of her favorite flower or a song. I believe that those that love us most do find ways to let us know they are ok so we can be as we move through life. Take care of yourself!

  • @courtneysheayantis5141
    @courtneysheayantis5141 Год назад +17

    I’m an only child working with elderly parents! I can’t express how much this has helped me understand things that I think about often! Though my parents are here I know it’s not forever! You have given me something I can keep with as I prepare for the same time! Thank you and bless your mom and her sweet soul! Many prayers for you!

    • @noble604
      @noble604 8 месяцев назад

      I, too, am an only child and was the caretaker of my dad after he was hit by a DUI driver. He then lived with me and passed two years later. Six months after that (four months ago) my mom had a stroke and passed. March and September 2023. Blessings to you. I wish you strength, comfort and peace

  • @KHC2023
    @KHC2023 Год назад +12

    Dominique, what a beautiful soul you have my sweet friend. This was an incredible tribute to your mom. She was very blessed to have you as her daughter. She will always be remembered as one of the best on line moms to me! She was a light that will keep shining ❤❤❤. Love you from Georgia ❤

  • @jeanettachowns228
    @jeanettachowns228 Год назад +14

    I lost my mom when I was 32. I’m grateful that you brought back memories of my mom. She was everyone’s favorite. Favorite sister. Favorite aunt. Full of life and laughter. Thanks for the memories.

    • @jlynnc9559
      @jlynnc9559 Год назад

      Lost my mom at 32 and I am 62. I still mourn her loss. I feel cheated not having her in my life as I aged.

  • @deenaphillips3757
    @deenaphillips3757 Год назад +8

    Dominique, I have watched you for years now (ever since wanting my hair like yours on a Pinterest scroll one day which led me to finding out who you were and then finding your your tube channel) and admire you so much for staying true to who you are. I wanted to tell you my appreciation for the memorial service you shared for your mother. I lost my son in a car wreck when he was 19 years old. One of the hardest things to do was put together a tribute for his life that kept it focused completely on what he would want and not on our grief. I pray you will always continue to be led by the Holy Spirit & stepping by faith out on that water, where he leads you. Praying for the comfort only God can bring. Also… I get random Pennie’s from heaven and know without a shadow of a doubt they are from him❤ so continue to watch for your Heaven winks!

  • @terrihernandez4391
    @terrihernandez4391 Год назад +6

    Hello Dominique. My thoughts and prayers have been with you and your son. I lost a brother and my mom 4 months apart in 2021. It’s been difficult but i remind myself of how blessed i have been to have them. What I have always loved about you is your transparency. Thank you for helping so many of us. Prayers and hugs.

  • @cmdc7116
    @cmdc7116 Год назад +13

    I hear you, Dominique. I lost my mom Jan 2022. Like you, she was my world. My heart still hurts. I really appreciate you sharing your thoughts on the subject. I thank you for this raw podcast. We are not alone and how that helps us all. xo

  • @sarahkooyman9306
    @sarahkooyman9306 Год назад +6

    I treasure this from you. How amazing to have someone we admire speak about this so eloquently. Thank you x

  • @amylebaron6544
    @amylebaron6544 Год назад +16

    You’ve been in my prayers. I’m grateful for you sharing this because I lost my Dad who was one of the closest people to me last February. He was 89 years old. I know we will see them again-until then, may the Savior’s arms wrap around us and comfort us in our time of need. Love to you and your great Mom.

  • @PeachesSkinCare
    @PeachesSkinCare Год назад +1

    Dominique🧡
    I am so sorry for your loss. You have has such profound loss and changes these past years. You are such a blessing to so many. You show that you can move forward and you can grow. So many curl up in a ball and stop living and moving. You are such a blessing to so many. 🍑🙌🏼🧡Lisa

  • @rosannemcguire2514
    @rosannemcguire2514 Год назад +11

    Hello Dominique…. Bless your heart for continuing to help us and think of us when you’re in such a raw stage of grief. I, too, am an only child and was close to both my parents. I am an orphan now as I lost my Dad in 2005 and my Mom in 2015. I am fiercely independent as you are and would like to pass on a helpful tip. Let people help you in any way that you think they can during these early stages of grief. So many people don’t know how to help but so desperately want to as they love and care for you. Lean on your friends until you feel your strength returning. Grief can be exhausting and there is no avoiding it. Everyone has to go through it but the timeline is so unique to everyone. Take the time you need. You are most definitely loved. ❤😮

  • @Andie410
    @Andie410 Год назад +12

    Dominique, my mom passed in March of this year from ALS, and I was her caregiver. Like you, I was able to be with her until and at the very end, and I am so thankful. Thank you for sharing yourself, your thoughts, and your emotions with us. I find it helpful in knowing we are not alone. You are like an adopted sister to all of us out here, and I am crying with you while watching this. I am so terribly sorry for the loss of your beautiful mother. You are in my prayers. 🙏🏻❤️‍🩹

    • @amyt2400
      @amyt2400 Год назад +1

      @Andie410
      Your mother was so blessed to have such a dedicated daughter. May you continue to be blessed for all you did to be a comfort to her. Well done. 🤗

    • @Andie410
      @Andie410 Год назад

      @@amyt2400 Thank you so much. God bless you. ❤️

  • @ED-ze6yi
    @ED-ze6yi Год назад +18

    I'm so sorry to hear that your mother passed. Sending you love and prayers. 🙏🏼💜

  • @peggypowell678
    @peggypowell678 Год назад +6

    You have my deepest sympathy. I lost my mom in 1992 at the young age of 56. Lost my husband and dad in 2010. I fully understand the pain and grief you are feeling. Trust God to get you thru this and thank God for the great support system you have. Your mom was a beautiful classy woman and so are you. God bless you and your son. ❤❤

  • @shixa101
    @shixa101 Год назад +11

    This is a beautiful and also heartbreaking tribute to your mom. Thank you for being so vulnerable and real. I also appreciated your reflection in regards to your father as I’ve had a conflicted relationship with mine. Now both parents are gone and life continues. I wish you peace ❤

  • @melissajones4041
    @melissajones4041 Год назад +6

    I am so sorry for the loss of your sweet mom. I just turned 60 this past June and in the last 2 years I lost both my parents and my husband. To say I was overwhelmed is an understatement. Grief is a very personal journey and each of us will find how we deal with our grief. The best thing that helped me was to take each day at a time. It's ok to have bad days and ok to have good days. As you say , surrounding yourself with a loving, compassionate support system is just so comforting and truly needed . Take care and be gentle to yourself ❤️ Sending love and hugs🙏🙏

  • @lorimiller7261
    @lorimiller7261 Год назад +12

    The only thing that separates us from them, is time 🙏🏻 It’s such a gift that you were with Audrey in the last hours. I lost my Dad during Covid and he died alone in the hospital, we weren’t able to say goodbye. That happened to thousands of people during that time. Cherish the blessing of saying goodbye and yes she did hear you. I wish you Peace as you heal and navigate through this. You will live for Audrey ❤

  • @connierexroat9502
    @connierexroat9502 Год назад +5

    You are so eloquent and well spoken. Take your time, we’ll be here. Aubrey would be so proud of you.🙏🙏

  • @59marguerite
    @59marguerite Год назад +29

    I'm 71 , my mom is almost 98 and still enjoying life and living at home with my brother. I dread the day she leaves us. Sending you heartfelt condolences on such a profound loss.

    • @NM-gy6tx
      @NM-gy6tx Год назад +1

      Why would a woman who is in the grieving process be consoled by your worrying of your still alive and kicking it 98 year old dearie?
      What's there to be sad or worry about when she's still alive.. I mean, she could even outlive you both. You and your brother!
      It's a selfish way of thinking. Some people have never known their mother. What about thar baby that was pulled out of the Turkish earthquake earlier this year? My neighbour died a few months ago at 67!! Leaving behind three daughters and 5 grandchildren and a grieving husband that I know has even considered suicide because he just cant cope. She will never see them grow up. She was a fit woman too. It took only 3 months for the cancer to spread all throughout her body..
      And you're worried about your nearly 100 year old mother who has lived a full and long happy life. She still even has her son at home.
      And you're worried.

    • @dayapo5132
      @dayapo5132 Год назад +6

      ​@@NM-gy6txStop. This not the time have some respect.

  • @suemassey6099
    @suemassey6099 Год назад +3

    I'm very sorry for your loss. I want to say also that you are an inspiration and I'm so very grateful that you are still showing up with us during your grief. It's easy to just go into a grief hole and disappear, so I'm so happy you are still with us here.

  • @angiepeters9376
    @angiepeters9376 Год назад +32

    My mother adored you and was always talking about you! "Dominique cut her hair. ..... Dominique likes to eat so and so... " She passed April 25. I would have loved to tell her about this podcast. Sorry for your loss.

    • @ashleys4652
      @ashleys4652 Год назад +4

      I am sorry for the loss of your mother. ❤

    • @vickiefinney6073
      @vickiefinney6073 Год назад +3

      I got saved on April 25,2004. Best day of my life 🙏

  • @robinswaytoday
    @robinswaytoday Год назад +5

    Oh Dominque, I’m so sorry and sad to hear of your mother passing. She was a shining light in life and now a shining light in heaven. In honor of Audrey, I will go back to past videos to watch her delightful personality and sense of humor she gave to us on your channel. ❤

  • @derendhamor5385
    @derendhamor5385 Год назад +9

    My beloved mother is currently on hospice and not expected live much longer. I will be leaving my home in Texas on Thursday to go to Florida and be at her bedside until the end. I appreciate so much your words of wisdom and encouragement, particularly in this season of life. I've followed you for so long and look to you as a big sister. There are so many things we share in common and I'm grateful to be able to add this time of grieving to that list in true sisterhood. Thank you for your love and the open, honest, and considerate way that you share the things that are truly important. I appreciate you more than you know, Dominque. God bless you.

    • @harmony3395
      @harmony3395 Год назад +1

      Blessings 🕊💫

    • @mariemulrooney9116
      @mariemulrooney9116 Год назад

      Thanks you for the video know what your going through was everything to my Mother everything changed when she passes but I know she is with me always❤️☘️

  • @shelbymckenzie1415
    @shelbymckenzie1415 Год назад +5

    Hi Dominique, I just watched your video. I've had you in my prayers and my heart goes out to you. It was good to see you and hear what you've shared. I was thinking you are so blessed to have all the videos of your mom...you can hear her voice and laughter, wisdom and sweet things she would tell you. You are correct about grief...its very strange. Comes and goes. I wanted to come over and make you a cup of tea and give you a hug. God is there for you and He is our strong tower...Hold on to our Heavenly Father...He is close to the broken-hearted. We've all been blessed to see your mom with you. Thank you for sharing yourself and your relationship with all of us. Take one day at a time and may God surround you with His comfort and peace. God bless you Dominique.

  • @dianedesjardins1578
    @dianedesjardins1578 Год назад +10

    Oh so wonderful to see you Dominique. There you are in your time of grief, sharing your feelings with us and imparting your wisdom as you navigate the passing of our dear Audrey, who was a shining light and inspiration to all of us. So glad you feel supported.

  • @lesd1051
    @lesd1051 Год назад +5

    Wow! How I came to click on this channel at this moment is scary good. My 101 year old Dad passed away a few months ago and much of what you said really struck a cord with me. I'm sorry for us both to have lost/said goodbye to special people in our lives and we will never be the same. What they have taught us, protected us from and goodness they shared shaped who we are and for that I will be forever grateful. Just today I was standing looking out the window at a strong rain storm that blew over and burst into tears because he AND my Mom always made weather fun. Rain storms, power out, picnics around the fireplace, playing card games, laughing, candles all around and waiting until we could resume our daily chores after the electricity came back on. Yes, where I grew up, power went out frequently. Anyway, thank you for your words of encouragement and we will be fine.

  • @kathywilson1001
    @kathywilson1001 Год назад +12

    Feel our love Dominique, we’ve got you girl ❤ xxx

  • @c.thomas5928
    @c.thomas5928 Год назад +2

    We hope your son also has the strength to deal with his grandmother's passing. We're thinking of him too.