When WOMEN ask - "What are we?" A high value masculine man only says THIS - Q&A with CASEY ZANDER

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  • @CaseyZander
    @CaseyZander  7 месяцев назад +18

    Attract and Keep ANY women you want using 'MBT' Below!🔥
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    • @andyng5321
      @andyng5321 7 месяцев назад +1

      on which date can we start going to the other person's house? 3rd date?

    • @shawnwilson6051
      @shawnwilson6051 7 месяцев назад +1

      I enjoyed this setting! It was more intriguing.

    • @pitapita3559
      @pitapita3559 7 месяцев назад +1

      7:24 Okay, I only just saw this video after I f*ed up like this with her... Is there anything I can actually do to turn this around, she knows the I really have liked her and she both pulled back and dating someone virtually via online apps etc. So please let me know is there even a remote way to fix this? Sorry Casey, I had to at least ask.

    • @giovanniventura2732
      @giovanniventura2732 7 месяцев назад

      That's church! If you can't understand it ... well you just don't understand! That's the way it is.

    • @ironchump1501
      @ironchump1501 6 месяцев назад

      @@pitapita3559 oneitisssssssssss

  • @georgemubanga1878
    @georgemubanga1878 7 месяцев назад +249

    When she asks '' what are we ?'' you answer '' we are children of God ''😊

    • @marcusmcgraw3519
      @marcusmcgraw3519 7 месяцев назад +10

      You answer friends with benefits. That way everyone gets what they want. She gets to frame it as “friends”, you get benefits as a result of the framing

    • @nammi895
      @nammi895 7 месяцев назад +10

      We are just random atoms paired together who has a thing called consciousness

    • @douglasmurphy6214
      @douglasmurphy6214 7 месяцев назад +1

      Quote entre nous by Rush

    • @joshuabetinis
      @joshuabetinis 7 месяцев назад +4

      I like this answer, I will use the children of God response lol 🔥

    • @justinkristjanson3473
      @justinkristjanson3473 7 месяцев назад

      Love that song@@douglasmurphy6214

  • @dalethedippa5822
    @dalethedippa5822 7 месяцев назад +433

    All the subs got our Uncle C a mansion

    • @rodrigolara6733
      @rodrigolara6733 7 месяцев назад +34

      He was already rich before I believe

    • @bradmiller7741
      @bradmiller7741 7 месяцев назад +40

      Uncle C .. living BIG … L … ARGE & all he shows us, is the white board 🤣

    • @nathandehut9228
      @nathandehut9228 7 месяцев назад +16

      If you are physically healthy and are not "wealthy " you must be slacking/ etc. I got hurt at work and have been hurt 4 years now and I've realized it was sooo much easier to make money when you are able bodied/ and date- relationships as well.. casey is healthy and works smart and hard.. simple he has a nice house..

    • @johnbonham617
      @johnbonham617 7 месяцев назад +7

      @@nathandehut9228 i agree, my back is fucked.... can only do so much physical labor.

    • @TimMarttala
      @TimMarttala 7 месяцев назад +13

      He’s worked hard on a number of fronts for a long time, and so he deserves (or at least is free to have) whatever he has…Good for him! Lesson there for all of us and reason to cheer him on and follow the example, not bemoan it or even bother pointing it out, which at the very least can be misconstrued as envy on your part. He’s only offered value for years at this point to hundreds of thousands or even millions (of mostly loser dudes, btw, who don’t deserve squat bcoz they haven’t earned it like Casey has). More power to you, “Uncle C”!!! It’s a damn nice backdrop for vids if you ask me!!!

  • @independentpuppy7520
    @independentpuppy7520 7 месяцев назад +225

    Women are masculine now. Very rare to find a feminine one.

    • @keylanoslokj1806
      @keylanoslokj1806 7 месяцев назад +28

      Pick up coaches have money to make. They don't make this distinction, so they have men chasing trash women

    • @BashaerB-h2c
      @BashaerB-h2c 7 месяцев назад

      Men lead. Women are becoming masculine because men aren’t leading humanity well. Stop blaming women when in reality women are the reflection of men around them.

    • @redline350zHR
      @redline350zHR 7 месяцев назад +10

      This is true bro

    • @improvisedsurvival5967
      @improvisedsurvival5967 7 месяцев назад

      Women are the strongest men on the planet now

    • @ItsPromoReviews
      @ItsPromoReviews 7 месяцев назад +3

      Bruh seriously

  • @hansblitz7770
    @hansblitz7770 7 месяцев назад +73

    I answered this once
    "That depends on who you really are"
    I was trying to get her to go away, this backfired, her obsession became extreme.

    • @sep7e
      @sep7e 7 месяцев назад +5

      🤣🤣

    • @eckhardt76
      @eckhardt76 7 месяцев назад +4

      @@sep7e I will keep this answer in mind if I want her to stay instead lol..

    • @andy_NQ
      @andy_NQ 7 месяцев назад +9

      Actually a good answer imo. You passed the ball to her and forced her to think about this herself instead of looking for answer / solution from other. A smart woman would realize that it's both sides who need to contribute to the relationship, not one side (man).

    • @juliekeeney1538
      @juliekeeney1538 6 месяцев назад +1

      Haha. I could see how that could happen. She was probably already there before you answered the question, which is why she asked in the first place

  • @oldschoole2620
    @oldschoole2620 7 месяцев назад +109

    So stay single forever... got it 📝

    • @luisenamorado2703
      @luisenamorado2703 7 месяцев назад

      all that shit is so tyring to play. They do all that just to get female validation

    • @jim-se5xc
      @jim-se5xc 7 месяцев назад +12

      Or get married and lose everything.

    • @jamesedwards366
      @jamesedwards366 4 месяца назад +1

      You clearly didn’t listen to the video

    • @iiieazyiii5738
      @iiieazyiii5738 19 дней назад

      don’t worry more for me thank you!!

  • @onlydivergences
    @onlydivergences 7 месяцев назад +32

    Imagine having to have to deal with these mind games while trying to run a business and start a family. The modern woman is absolutely insane.

    • @moheganson
      @moheganson 6 месяцев назад +1

      I’m glad my wife of 11 years was born in the 80s
      Luckily, I never had to play these endless white board tutorials of chess

  • @stephenmera238
    @stephenmera238 7 месяцев назад +78

    This may be a random but my perceived level of respect skyrocketed just on the aesthetic changes you made in this video and where you are. I've always loved the deep dive and information you preach and think what's most important is content but damn keep doing these.

    • @andyng5321
      @andyng5321 7 месяцев назад +1

      yes she wants to feel like she got the better end of the deal, because if she feels that she is giving you a chance she will not be keen.

  • @taggmanibanez
    @taggmanibanez 7 месяцев назад +38

    I'm so jealous of my dad and Grandpa's time period, they didn't have to deal with any of shit. The internet has multiplied the hypergamy pool by about 100 million times

    • @oladipupoodutayo7080
      @oladipupoodutayo7080 6 месяцев назад +1

      Absolutely, it makes our dad’s and grandparents advice obsolete. N/A

  • @doublevision5465
    @doublevision5465 7 месяцев назад +24

    When a girl asks, "What are we?"
    You say, "We are the Mighty Morphin Power Rangers. And together, we are Voltron."

  • @evaldowhitehorne3387
    @evaldowhitehorne3387 7 месяцев назад +25

    When I was in Junior College and was seeing a chick she was consistently asking me the same question "do you like me" “what are we?” and I didn’t answered logically so as months go by she keep asking me the same thing. I was naturally never won over so easily bruh. They delay was real. Casey you speaking facts my brother

  • @ande1156
    @ande1156 7 месяцев назад +15

    bro really yapped and said nothing for 12 minutes before getting to the point 🗣

  • @gnosis7188
    @gnosis7188 7 месяцев назад +144

    Pay attention fellas, this particular advice is absolutely pivotal. I tried locking 🔒 down a girl once before knowing any of this , and holy crap her juice box 🧃 📦 probably dried up faster than the sahara desert. Looking back, it was a blessing , I would have been miserable with that girl.

    • @joelalala2845
      @joelalala2845 7 месяцев назад +10

      Cheers to that

    • @mat7083
      @mat7083 7 месяцев назад +8

      The v must’ve been real sandy lol

    • @joecallan7029
      @joecallan7029 7 месяцев назад +3

      I’ve had the exact same scenario happen to me too!

    • @callme_adam
      @callme_adam 7 месяцев назад

      @@joecallan7029 me too!

    • @callme_adam
      @callme_adam 7 месяцев назад +2

      happened to me too

  • @Stew357
    @Stew357 7 месяцев назад +46

    Casey is absolutely right. I made this mistake two times, once with my ex-wife and again with a former gf who I loved, but eventually had to break up with her. My current gf is a decent person, but she has no idea where I stand. I've already broken up with her once, and advised her we were on a dating break until she resolved a deal and promise she made and broke (she resolved it immediately after a few months of BS.) I no longer reward bad behavior and that has been key to maintaining a good relationship. I really won't hesitate to walk away, because I expect the worst and really don't care anymore.

  • @EternalBlackFlame
    @EternalBlackFlame 7 месяцев назад +28

    Fuxk yeah . This new setup and delivery style 👌

  • @PB22559
    @PB22559 7 месяцев назад +146

    I've had plenty of experience with lots of women over my life and am twice Caseys age. There are no black and white answers to most of these topics. Some women hate having to compete for you/your attention, other women crave it and some women are indifferent. You never know how individual women will react and a lot of the time you'll be surprised.
    Never underestimate how much attention these harlots are getting on a daily basis so even if they're really into you, they still have plenty of options (or at least they think they do) so they won't spend as much time chasing you as they would've before social media existed. Most modern women live in cuckoo land and have multiple men who they 'chat' to and fantasize about in different ways. They never end up in committed relationships with these men, the fantasy is what they crave the most and social media has allowed them to live out this fantasy. It's much more 'exciting' for them to be talking to multiple men and imagining what life would be like with each of them in different ways than being in a routine relationship where they have to see their man on a daily basis. Women crave mystery, excitement, adventure and spontaneity.
    Being in long term committed relationships and having families requires a lot of effort, compromise, responsibility, respect and above all loyalty/faithfulness. Modern women just aren't geared up for any of that.

    • @jdkayak7868
      @jdkayak7868 7 месяцев назад +8

      I think there's just a lot of confusion nowadays as most western men don't live in a Christian worldview anymore, all men need to have is a life plan in masculine frame and figure out how she fits into his world as long as it's on your own terms. As someone with a traditional masculine Christian worldview I already know how to carry myself and how I'm supposed to be making decisions in a relationship.

    • @I-own-your-feelings
      @I-own-your-feelings 7 месяцев назад

      This comment should be pinned and framed. Men can try to apply black/white logic to women all they want. You can't cage their delusions and these practices aren't a one-size fits all. Dance in the grey area with these demon harpy's, just don't take them serious. Don't romanticize love the way they do. That's most men's downfall.

    • @dee3691
      @dee3691 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@jdkayak7868right but you’re not a virgin so what’s the point of trying lead as a Christian male

    • @jdkayak7868
      @jdkayak7868 7 месяцев назад

      @@dee3691 I don't think it matters if one is a virgin as long as they know what they believe since the modern worldview is devolving into living like apes without shame so naturally there's no social glue so everyone follows what's impulsive.

    • @NZAce13
      @NZAce13 7 месяцев назад +3

      Couldn't have said it any better man 💯% correct

  • @spoudaois4535
    @spoudaois4535 7 месяцев назад +4

    I disagree with this one. If you are sure she is ready , the man needs to lead the relationship to become exclusive (if thats what you want). If you wait too long she will think you don't care and may move on to someone else. I have made this mistake.

  • @danijcruz
    @danijcruz 7 месяцев назад +15

    No white board is crazy

  • @SteinerFab1357
    @SteinerFab1357 7 месяцев назад +2

    WOW, how much the world has changed. I'm 58 and today's dating world is total bull shit. Woman only want what they want until they can have it ? No wonder family is dying. No wonder most of us men have said fuck it, it's become a game anymore. Do what you wanna do and either let woman chase you if you can find anyone who actually show interest, or do your own thing and learn to live with lonely. I think on-line dating and feminism have completely fucked relationships.

  • @Justify66
    @Justify66 7 месяцев назад +9

    It is when you slept with her a few times you become comfortable, that's when you get off your game and screw up by saying or doing the wrong things that turns women off.

  • @diesel4ever273
    @diesel4ever273 7 месяцев назад +91

    If I can't be honest and open with a girl, I don't want her. I don't want to be playing games my whole life, I want someone who's honest to me and I can be honest as well

    • @kevinstaedler
      @kevinstaedler 7 месяцев назад +41

      you will literally die alone

    • @diesel4ever273
      @diesel4ever273 7 месяцев назад +3

      @@Robinson8491?

    • @diesel4ever273
      @diesel4ever273 7 месяцев назад +35

      @@kevinstaedler I know they're out there, just very rare. But even if I don't find them, I'd rather die single with good friends and family than faking myself my whole life just so that my wife doesn't change me for someone "better"

    • @chimichurri2612
      @chimichurri2612 7 месяцев назад +17

      well said brother. 20 minutes to tell you to lie to the girl. Better spend that time working on yourself and let the girl follow, or not, always your win

    • @alexstone9099
      @alexstone9099 7 месяцев назад +9

      ​@@diesel4ever273 for real. The main thing imo is if you own your actions and are strong and she feels this. Some women are like this of course where they lose attraction when you show signs of commitment but these are not the women that you are likely to build a mutually loving and trusting relationship with as they are likely unready for a committed relationship. So you're not alone with this, lying and playing stupid games is not the way towards a solid relationship or the way to conduct yourself with integrity.

  • @305Nick
    @305Nick 7 месяцев назад +11

    This video is so fuckiiing spot on, Many years ago i answered wrong and 2 weeks later she broke up with me. Casey is always so spot on.

  • @LRS11B
    @LRS11B 7 месяцев назад +23

    Coach CZ is correct. 36 years ago I met my wife. I was a paratrooper at Ft. Bragg. Drove home to see her on the weekends and holidays- if I could. Played my role perfectly with Frame. She even came down to see me jump one time. Scarcity definitely brings value. I'm still married to her. My interactions with her are still Alpha. I listen to her, I don't smile and respond slowly, and only half the time do I agree, and I don't allow her to disagree with me. I do it with a little comedy, though.
    Coach CZ us spot on guys. Be a MAN! It's what she desires. A MAN

  • @jakobbaker2034
    @jakobbaker2034 7 месяцев назад +9

    I disagree with this tbf. My last gf I told her on first date that I knew she would be my gf. She saw me as the absolute g Cus I didn’t give a fuck. These games are for beta males.

    • @jean-baptistesimofoko5692
      @jean-baptistesimofoko5692 7 месяцев назад

      Depends on the girl, but I relate with a lot of his content

    • @yolo7349
      @yolo7349 7 месяцев назад +2

      Its common sense that in life nothing is black and white, but in the western world his advice works for most women.

  • @libzkj146
    @libzkj146 7 месяцев назад +29

    The new set up is on point🔥🔥🔥

  • @marcusmcgraw3519
    @marcusmcgraw3519 7 месяцев назад +20

    Answer: friends with benefits

    • @moheganson
      @moheganson 6 месяцев назад

      What if she wants more than that?

    • @marcusmcgraw3519
      @marcusmcgraw3519 6 месяцев назад

      @@moheganson don’t give it to her because she doesn’t deserve it

  • @anthonyaguiare4469
    @anthonyaguiare4469 7 месяцев назад +4

    Man, women aren’t worth the stress. Bachelor for life my boys, you’ll always win, because you’ll always leave

  • @Infrared-nyne
    @Infrared-nyne 7 месяцев назад +31

    Imma 30 year old virgin and purely based off watching your videos overtime I have managed to get a girl that I see as a 10 pining for my attention and light up when I interact with her. I don't have her out on dates yet but she clearly shows signs of interest and is feminine and submissive toward me. It's unreal I feel like I'm living in a dream. My goal is to get one or 2 other girls to go out and hang with me from time to time so she can see me as someone who actually has options so I don't have to pretend to. Your advice is insanely life transforming and I feel like I'm on my way to being in my prime. Also this girl is like 19, blonde blue eyes, tight body, about 120 pounds super hot

    • @alexisperrottey1640
      @alexisperrottey1640 7 месяцев назад +1

      Say no more ! Nunch nunch

    • @AfriqueNY
      @AfriqueNY 7 месяцев назад +1

      You must be making serious bank

    • @moheganson
      @moheganson 6 месяцев назад

      How’d you maintain your V card until 30?

    • @Infrared-nyne
      @Infrared-nyne 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@moheganson because I refuse to fuck anything that is below me in looks lol therefore I've always shot for girls way outta my league growing up. I don't settle for average but I also never had great game growing up and I'm average looking at best

    • @Infrared-nyne
      @Infrared-nyne 5 месяцев назад

      @@AfriqueNY I really don't. I work a 9 to 5 and make minimum wage

  • @pinglankek
    @pinglankek 7 месяцев назад +8

    ur right what u say, but theres a flip side. alot of women will give up on you, they might see u for a while but then they give up. Had this happen with 1 girl, but it took her 1 year to leave

  • @jeetgorasia6634
    @jeetgorasia6634 7 месяцев назад +54

    This guy is the real deal, he's helping a lot of men level up. This information is gold, years of experience condensed into just minutes.

    • @andyng5321
      @andyng5321 7 месяцев назад +5

      yes she wants to feel like she got the better end of the deal, because if she feels that she is giving you a chance she will not be keen.

  • @CrunchyNorbert
    @CrunchyNorbert 7 месяцев назад +6

    the fact it has come to this, shows how out of hand its all gotten, its borderline psychotic.

  • @DigitalNomadOnFIRE
    @DigitalNomadOnFIRE 7 месяцев назад +2

    Women ask questions like cops. None of these questions are to help you, your answers can only harm you. So don’t answer them.

  • @gingerbreadzak
    @gingerbreadzak 7 месяцев назад +4

    00:00 🔥 When a woman asks "What are we?", your response significantly affects her attraction and interest.
    01:39 🚨 Answering the "What are we?" question wrongly can lead to a sudden drop in her interest level and potential loss of connection.
    04:11 🤔 Men often answer such questions truthfully when they feel a mutual connection, which can backfire.
    07:13 💔 Revealing too much interest or commitment too soon can lower your perceived value and diminish her attraction.
    08:35 💡 Understanding hypergamy is crucial; women seek men with perceived higher value, and commitment should be earned, not given hastily.
    11:21 🕵‍♂ Respond to the "What are we?" question indirectly, maintaining mystery and avoiding premature commitment.

  • @Robinson8491
    @Robinson8491 7 месяцев назад +14

    This is absolutely true. She asked me this if i had any intentions, but I was still in my frame at the time so I said I wanted to see time would tell, just hang out and see where it goes. The attraction and (supposed) loyalty and interest has never been higher, even after almost a year of casual dating

    • @marko9695
      @marko9695 7 месяцев назад

      Just got asked this yesterday then this pops up on my feed. Wondered if I said the right thing or something stupid, I just told her that I like her a lot but I don't want to rush into anything. I guess i said the right thing? 😂

    • @DrJohnsun
      @DrJohnsun 7 месяцев назад

      And how many dudes she slept with in that time ?

    • @Robinson8491
      @Robinson8491 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@DrJohnsun good question! It's definiteley risky! But for me the best thing to do in this time. Once I tell her we are a thing, she can start demanding things from me. And I feel it's too early for that, for her to have rights to demand things from me

    • @Robinson8491
      @Robinson8491 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@marko9695 Only you can tell! Depends on the woman I guess. Wish you all the luck. If you know for sure you really like her and want to be with her, and she asks you this because it is obvious she likes you a lot too, I wouldn't play games: instead be happy she is affirming your feelings. If not, follow your heart and instinct and be yourself and stand behind your feelings and behaviour. Don't pretend to be able to give her more than she is getting from you at this moment, she will only respect that, because women are different but they all like a strong confident man that does what he wants, and does what he says. But I'm no Casey, just a guy with some experience here and there

    • @Robinson8491
      @Robinson8491 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@DrJohnsun Also for me it's not a game, I'm really trying to figure out what I want. Instead of rushing in and losing attraction for her which happened to me in the past, I prefer to slowly build it and keep it. I want to see if I will keep liking this one in the long run as well. I used to say fuck yes let's do this and then after a year be looking for something else. I want to do it different this time.

  • @Scorned405
    @Scorned405 7 месяцев назад +3

    If u tell a girl u are seeing other women she will usually exit

  • @josesantana770
    @josesantana770 7 месяцев назад +6

    9:00 That's basically the most relevant concept for viewers to follow.
    There is nothing any man can do to change FEMALE NATURE. what You as a man is To do is UNDERSTAND IT and Accept it, Not fight it.
    When yesterday noon I went to my job lunch room, I felt someone walking behind me, this young attractive young lady I constantly greet and talk for a while. Because I've known her to have a boyfriend I usually play push pull with her. She treats me well though, but I can tell doesn't know where she stands.
    I decided to ignore her plainly this time, just to see her reaction.
    I didn't turn around at any point, minutes passed, TOTAL INDIFFERENCE..She finished at the microwave and also basically running out, ignored my "have a good day"
    Of course after being ignored it's expected from her to be pissed up RIGHT?.....WRONG.
    Three hours ago during coffee break, again I was sited. She entered and proceeded to talk to me, I started a nice conversation, with her letting me know she is no longer with her boyfriend of seven years. She seemed not wanting to leave the room, to my surprise. Pure Female Nature.
    Guess who's gonna be invited to a drink tomorrow??

    • @brock5946
      @brock5946 7 месяцев назад +1

      Let us know how the date went tomorrow lol

  • @alexmitro4317
    @alexmitro4317 7 месяцев назад +17

    A high value woman of selfrespect will NEVER ask that question repeditly. She knows her worth and will walk away if you play games.

    • @Nicole-uh3df
      @Nicole-uh3df 7 месяцев назад +1

      You know what’s up

    • @ZerefCifer707
      @ZerefCifer707 4 месяца назад

      Yea that's why I play the game of slowly pulling in then pulling back with them

    • @alexmitro4317
      @alexmitro4317 4 месяца назад +1

      @@ZerefCifer707 thats why you single right?

    • @ZerefCifer707
      @ZerefCifer707 4 месяца назад

      @@alexmitro4317 no that's why I have multiple options of traditional women to choose from who all want to marry me

    • @alexmitro4317
      @alexmitro4317 4 месяца назад +1

      @@ZerefCifer707 then why you need datingtips from this man? Stop the 🧢

  • @montereyspike
    @montereyspike 7 месяцев назад +13

    Hate the message, not the messenger. This man is wise beyond his dang years!!!

  • @juliomastronardi2676
    @juliomastronardi2676 7 месяцев назад +9

    Honestly, you’re the best bro! Been watching your stuff for 2-3 weeks now and every time it’s an eye opening experience

  • @alexhaggar2657
    @alexhaggar2657 7 месяцев назад +13

    the main girl i’ve been seeing found another girls perfume in my car last week… brought out another side in her and she got jealous even though she wouldn’t admit it. she ended up taking the perfume home with her even. i’m confused now though as last time we talked on the phone, she says that she only sees us as friends with benefits and didn’t get jealous about the perfume. and then two seconds later she goes “but, i don’t wanna hear about other girls in your life moving forward.”

    • @jungshin87
      @jungshin87 7 месяцев назад +3

      I like when they hold a strand of hair up and go WHOSE HAIR IS THIS lmao

    • @agentnukaz1715
      @agentnukaz1715 7 месяцев назад

      She might be indirectly saying I hope for something more serious donw the road. But it's best not to even care what she's thinking rn cus u won't easily commit anyway.

    • @dearrevenant1270
      @dearrevenant1270 7 месяцев назад

      Pre-selection

    • @alexhaggar2657
      @alexhaggar2657 7 месяцев назад

      @@dearrevenant1270 she’s going crazy for me now… telling me how the other guys she talks to have “nothing on me” and that they “can’t compete”

    • @alexhaggar2657
      @alexhaggar2657 7 месяцев назад

      @@agentnukaz1715 yeah i’m gonna take it slow but she’s all over me now.

  • @Dylonysus
    @Dylonysus 7 месяцев назад +13

    Bro these videos are getting more informative and more funny by the day

  • @callme_adam
    @callme_adam 7 месяцев назад +9

    This is gold. all men need to hear this! I feel like i'm waking up to a new reality. Taking the red pill ...

  • @jibrilbuilder2668
    @jibrilbuilder2668 7 месяцев назад +7

    These are not only Money saving videos but TIME and Emotional Energy saving videos!

  • @faroukmohammed2478
    @faroukmohammed2478 7 месяцев назад +4

    are you saying we cant be married or in a commited relationship

    • @danmurray1143
      @danmurray1143 7 месяцев назад +3

      He keeps getting asked that question. And he keeps avoiding answering it. Every video someone asks this. The answer is in his silence. I don't think Casey believes a long-term relationship is possible these days.

  • @CraigD.Macias-yg7qh
    @CraigD.Macias-yg7qh 7 месяцев назад +92

    A very fascinating video, this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

    • @CraigD.Macias-yg7qh
      @CraigD.Macias-yg7qh 7 месяцев назад +1

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counsellor, and how do I reach her?

    • @CraigD.Macias-yg7qh
      @CraigD.Macias-yg7qh 7 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.

    • @smashing-3291
      @smashing-3291 7 месяцев назад

      What the fuck is this copy pasta, i see this under every god damn video.

    • @timmaddox6240
      @timmaddox6240 7 месяцев назад

      Get more bitches gang

    • @kobalov1
      @kobalov1 7 месяцев назад +25

      Lmao what is this bot shit

  • @thedisgruntledgrunt2239
    @thedisgruntledgrunt2239 7 месяцев назад +1

    Women today are way too complicated. Every single scenario with them is some kind of psychological chess match and some kind of back and forth sarcastic bantering verbal match. They say "be honest" but then run as soon as you are. In my opinion they're all ruined by their promiscuous past and too much to deal with.

  • @DonRamiro1
    @DonRamiro1 7 месяцев назад +7

    You can also say "look, I take getting into a relationship VERY seriously" and then go into one of Casey's lines.

  • @Rapbando
    @Rapbando 6 месяцев назад +2

    Spitting the truth unfortunately for us

  • @isaacwinters6954
    @isaacwinters6954 7 месяцев назад +6

    This describes a wordless impression with some of the best relationships I’ve ever had
    Several relationships that went for longer than a few months started with low expectations and non-neediness
    My first girlfriend kept dropping hints that went over my head
    During this time we got to know one another until I expressed how I felt
    By that time there’s was enough investment from her that didn’t detract after being honest
    Another relationship post college was with the girl who worked the front desk of a gym I did personal training at
    We kept playing this game for a month or two on who would ask who to be their boyfriend/girlfriend
    She eventually caved and asked me to be her boyfriend
    Again with the last relationship
    She kept asking what we were and I kept dodging
    Because I didn’t want one at the time
    But eventually I warmed up to her and we became a couple
    So many of these things were done by accident
    But when you have discussions like these you’re able to piece it together

  • @lawless2321
    @lawless2321 4 месяца назад +2

    I screwed up...i told her i dont know

  • @tonymoses3810
    @tonymoses3810 7 месяцев назад +3

    This is right, I've seen it myself. He's also right about what attracts women, incels think it's money, looks, or height (most people, men and women, don't even know how tall 6' really is). If you're not abnormally unattractive, abnormally broke, way shorter than average, none of that shit will ever be an issue. That's not what your problem ever was.

  • @SquallSZ
    @SquallSZ 7 месяцев назад +1

    HIGH value LOW value HIGH value LOW value HIGH value LOW value HIGH value LOW value HIGH value LOW value HIGH value LOW value .
    This world got crazier...

  • @trrealestatenycrealestate200
    @trrealestatenycrealestate200 7 месяцев назад +9

    Thanks for the reminder , we have to keep on our game. Great timing Casey.

    • @digiwork7161
      @digiwork7161 7 месяцев назад

      Never get caught lacking bros 🥷 😅

  • @craig8304
    @craig8304 2 месяца назад +2

    When a woman asks, "What are we?" Or "where is this headed?" It means her interest in you is really high. All you need to do is ask what she means, and get her to open up and explain. If she is a healthy minded woman looking for a serious relationship, just playing it off will cause her to back away as she will feel like you don't care and all you want is to continue having fun. In the same token, though, you can't go and throw up all of your feelings either. The best thing to do is get to the root of what she means. And if she wants to be exclusive, then you can agree to it if you want. That isn't going to cause her to lose interest.

    • @yuyink9432
      @yuyink9432 Месяц назад

      The first part sounds right. Depending on the woman she'll expect you to drive the relationship forward and claim her (obviously only if she really likes you)

    • @aeroman568
      @aeroman568 15 дней назад

      This answer is probably the best of both worlds. Coach Corey Wayne stuff

  • @GokuSilver337
    @GokuSilver337 7 месяцев назад +26

    You look closer to 30 rather than closer to 20 now and your presentation is a lot more mellow which indicates self realization. Grats in the level up

    • @mountain.spider
      @mountain.spider 7 месяцев назад +3

      its the beard, ages some guys a bit/more manly. If he cuts it all off it would revert him back to Babyface.

  • @darknessrob
    @darknessrob 7 месяцев назад +7

    sometimes I wish Casey would keep this knowledge to himself. Bro's spitting gems all over the place

    • @moheganson
      @moheganson 6 месяцев назад

      The woman are eventually get these cheat codes 🫣

  • @MarcRebilletClips
    @MarcRebilletClips 7 месяцев назад +3

    Love your content, however, I must admit, the fake “live stream” course with fake comments is a bit off putting. And then to get an email asking why I didn’t finish the “live course” - this type of trickery gives all your information a car salesman-esque feel to it. Although I literally agree with everything you say in your videos, and they have helped me a lot, your message long term would do better with a more authentic approach to the ‘second step’ in consuming your content. For example, Corey Wayne’s is buying his book after watching his videos. Your ‘second step’ is a fake livestream that has automated fake comments designed to trick you into thinking it’s actually live etc… Gives everything you teach a bad feel after discovering that. Just my two cents

    • @ianmciver7719
      @ianmciver7719 7 месяцев назад

      @TheRealBobMarley - just do a little "searching" and you might find a copy of it online to dload ;-)

  • @yashshah8188
    @yashshah8188 7 месяцев назад +5

    Bro have been following you and watched your videos in last 1 month!! And now I really want you to make a whole series of how to build a long term relationship with a girl and also have an upper hand as a man so that marriage !!!!

  • @Tyler-wl8kq
    @Tyler-wl8kq 7 месяцев назад +9

    I’m no Casey but I’ve had experiences in this area, and a great guide line is never ever fully commit to her before two full years, just say I like to take my time, anytime before two years is low smv to her, guaranteed she won you over way to fast if it’s before that, I’ve also seen this with my male friends

    • @marcusmcgraw3519
      @marcusmcgraw3519 7 месяцев назад

      @@jeansollot6419yeah I’m sorry but a good amount of these men have no idea what they’re talking about, yet love to frame themselves as experts. And you thought women were liars

    • @lebtfurimmer107
      @lebtfurimmer107 7 месяцев назад

      I’ve been commited for 3 years and now i’m don’t give a fuck.It’s pleasure that women never,ever want to confess that and still she likes that.

    • @brock5946
      @brock5946 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@jeansollot6419I think he means fully commit in giving her your all. Which you should never do to a woman. She always needs to think she needs to work for you to stay around

    • @PB22559
      @PB22559 7 месяцев назад

      @@brock5946 In the meantime, your future woman is getting her back blown out by other men during those 2 years.

    • @BashaerB-h2c
      @BashaerB-h2c 7 месяцев назад

      @@jeansollot6419As a virgin women who is waiting for marriage, I would NEVER EVER wait two years. A real women has her own social circle, work, education, hobbies and no room to wait that long for a man to “make up his mind” especially if said woman wants to start a family younger. Currently I’m in month three with this man and If he doesn’t commit by month 6 I’m leaving. I want a family and I’m not willing to waste my golden years waiting around.

  • @ThomasMcDowell-hl1ud
    @ThomasMcDowell-hl1ud 7 месяцев назад +3

    We are just friends is what I tell them. Commitment kills desire ultimately. Women come and go physically but are gone forever in all aspects if they do not respect you. Women only respect men who successfully sleep with them and successfully exit with no emotional attachment.

  • @AndyHoward
    @AndyHoward 7 месяцев назад +1

    Another thing to men: NEVER NEVER NEVER initiate the "where do we stand" talk. Major loss of respect. Makes you look needy

  • @the-anti-theist
    @the-anti-theist 7 месяцев назад +3

    The only relationships that has lasted the longest, is when I didn't care about the woman I was seeing. Go figure that shit!

  • @ChristopherClyde12
    @ChristopherClyde12 7 месяцев назад +72

    A very fascinating video, this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

    • @MalcolmM.Stanton-hy4jb
      @MalcolmM.Stanton-hy4jb 7 месяцев назад

      its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldn't just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counsellor who helped me bring her back

    • @ChristopherClyde12
      @ChristopherClyde12 7 месяцев назад

      Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counsellor, and how do I reach her?

    • @MalcolmM.Stanton-hy4jb
      @MalcolmM.Stanton-hy4jb 7 месяцев назад

      Her name is Shelly renee white, and she is a great spiritual counsellor who can bring back your ex.

    • @ChristopherClyde12
      @ChristopherClyde12 7 месяцев назад

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.

    • @MB-ss1nq
      @MB-ss1nq 7 месяцев назад +3

      My man... 'love of my life' SO FAR.
      Don't allow your sense of self... your happiness... your purpose, depends on others.
      Chalk up this relationship as a valuable lesson in life.
      And don't forget, your remaining thirsty towards this woman makes her sick. Such behaviour is repulsive to women.

  • @rakhmire2
    @rakhmire2 7 месяцев назад +3

    You say: “I think we enjoy spending time together. However, I don’t think we need to define what this is just yet”.

  • @thomashilmersen711
    @thomashilmersen711 7 месяцев назад +7

    Cool video. That setting is much better than the "sci fi dracula" one you have had in some vids.

    • @mat7083
      @mat7083 7 месяцев назад

      The purple lighting actually reminds me of Val Venis

  • @ehlohimwhil5762
    @ehlohimwhil5762 7 месяцев назад +3

    You made this long winded bro , ngl

  • @D-A-N-
    @D-A-N- 3 месяца назад +1

    IF she really loses interest after asking that question she wasnt serious 🤣

  • @PitbullofWallStreet
    @PitbullofWallStreet 7 месяцев назад +2

    *What are we ?*
    Answer: We are children of the lambs
    👙👙👙Line straight from Jesus💕🙌💕
    Amen !

  • @B.Swan4
    @B.Swan4 7 месяцев назад +4

    I needed this video! I was faced with this 2 weeks ago over the text. I literally said to talk when we meet up. And what you said was true. It worked for me. I magaged to but myself a bit more time untill she applies the pressure again

  • @shawnmetzger4518
    @shawnmetzger4518 7 месяцев назад +6

    Great video man, I definitely fucked up my last interaction because i asked the question myself.
    These videos make me feel like shit because I've committed so much of these transgressions.
    Welp, just gotta do better next time.

    • @danmurray1143
      @danmurray1143 7 месяцев назад +5

      Same here. I asked her to be my girlfriend. A few weeks later she dumped me. We aren't born knowing these things. You live & you learn.

    • @shawnmetzger4518
      @shawnmetzger4518 7 месяцев назад +2

      Yes my friend, I'm glad I'm learning this before I get married though.
      What's funny though I'm naturally a down to earth person, I say what I want, when I want and do what I want when I want. I'm fairly successful as an engineer and started my own construction company.
      I just felt like when it came to women I needed to tone it down and be more tender. What's good is that these videos are basically telling me to be myself all along and don't give pretty women any special treatment.

    • @danmurray1143
      @danmurray1143 7 месяцев назад

      @shawnmetzger4518 Shawn, marriage is dead. Don't think for a minute that prenuptial will save you. In a few short years women will push for laws to retroactively void them. Even now, the longer it's been since she signed it, the more ways her attorney can convince a judge it's nolonger valid.
      She will get bored. She will find a replacement. And she will become a co-owner of YOUR construction company. Don't do it; date till you die. Never let a woman move in either to keep her from claiming a common law marriage.

  • @r4ng3rownz8
    @r4ng3rownz8 7 месяцев назад +29

    "Women talk in code" as a woman I can agree with that.

    • @keylanoslokj1806
      @keylanoslokj1806 7 месяцев назад +27

      Code is logical. You are irrational. Don't dare compare the two

    • @kevinkurgansky4479
      @kevinkurgansky4479 7 месяцев назад

      @@keylanoslokj1806😂

    • @godspowerfezy4815
      @godspowerfezy4815 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@keylanoslokj1806😂😂😂

    • @Bhuvanfire
      @Bhuvanfire 7 месяцев назад

      ​@@keylanoslokj1806😂😂😂😂

    • @glockcarrier
      @glockcarrier 6 месяцев назад

      @@keylanoslokj1806😂😂😂😂😂

  • @NG-qo7nu
    @NG-qo7nu 6 дней назад +1

    Healthy Gooners for Casey Zander

  • @Niketic88
    @Niketic88 6 месяцев назад +1

    He telling you that if you say “I see us in a relationship” and then she loses interest aint true guys.
    You can say that, more important is how you act after that, if you keep your cool and don’t act like a woosie, chasing only your goals, she won’t lose any interest in you.
    With women its more about how you act not what you say.

  • @johnmorgan1376
    @johnmorgan1376 7 месяцев назад +4

    Great content as usual. I really appreciate your insights and understanding of the nature of the female mind and heart.

  • @305Nick
    @305Nick 7 месяцев назад +8

    yo this format is awesome. Keep doing these

  • @PaulPickle
    @PaulPickle 7 месяцев назад +1

    Damn this sucks for me because when I like a girl, its obvious and becomes a turn off. When I "act" like Im not interested, I truly am not interested.
    So I got all these women I dont like, flirting with me, viewing me as super masculine. And the one I actually do like veiws me as feminine and weak, destroying our dynamic. I REALLY dont want to date a girl I dont like, but it seems I might have to
    Thanks for the info

  • @Aliens-Are-Our-Friends2027
    @Aliens-Are-Our-Friends2027 5 месяцев назад +1

    1:30 damn, you are really scared to lose her here, huh

  • @coryleblanc
    @coryleblanc 7 месяцев назад +1

    i was asked this, but in a chat room, but i dont believe in e-dating so i said "how can we be anything unless we've met irl?"

  • @alexinlala
    @alexinlala 7 месяцев назад +1

    Seriously, don’t do this. If a woman is asking you to be exclusive she’s probably pretty much in love with you, so if you like her back, do not fumble it by playing games and saying anything other than “yes, I’d like to see where this goes with you.” And if you add that you’re seeing other women…lol, game over. She will pull away and the dynamic will be tainted. Be real, be normal, and don’t play games. Real chemistry is so rare so why would anyone want to play games when they find it?

  • @blazeboyblazeboy4470
    @blazeboyblazeboy4470 7 месяцев назад +2

    Ive tried most things here and everything works!!! THANK YOU!!!

  • @jlove1331
    @jlove1331 7 месяцев назад +1

    Didn’t the last vid say we were thinking to much and have fun. Holy shit I’m getting autism

  • @jim-se5xc
    @jim-se5xc 7 месяцев назад +2

    That was a good one. Very good. I will remember it. I like the couch.

  • @hornetscarab
    @hornetscarab 7 месяцев назад +5

    This is a really nice new set… congrats!

  • @John-cq3hk
    @John-cq3hk 7 месяцев назад +1

    So if i'm actively dating other women or she thinks I am or am open to , she takes that as her cue to go talk to other men because i'm not serious.
    But if I pay attention to her and her and her only she's start to devalue me. I really just want to be with one woman..

  • @kianarosablau
    @kianarosablau 7 месяцев назад +2

    I meant its about attitude (for example not caring if a girl sleeps with somebody else could be confidence because he thinks he is the best OR simping when he does it because he dont want to loose sex and hasnt other options).
    Many times woman thinks something whats not true because of lack communication/misunderstanding. Orian Terraban (other channel) said that explain themselves puts you in lower position, but people who dont understand a lot and need explanation are probably more stupid so the one who explains is good and generous (above). If someone has some spite and explains like "oh, you are so stupid but im so good that I explain.." he will invoke bad feelings. But with good intentions you can do everything out of goodness and be always above (if you dont let yourself to be used = have spine and inner guiding).

  • @frankdavf4599
    @frankdavf4599 7 месяцев назад +1

    build her hypergamy bond around you

  • @bsaintnyc
    @bsaintnyc 7 месяцев назад +6

    This man is a genius

  • @Clemmieee
    @Clemmieee 7 месяцев назад +6

    The man I'm with, during the beginning of our relationship told me. "I cannot promise you commitment " even when I "tested" him and told him I think we need to stop because I don't want to suffer. He exposed me all the points to why it could be a mistake for me to leave while still saying that he could not promise a commitment. I accepted, eventually 2 months after, I asked if we were in a relationship, we were behaving like one. He said "ok I guess we are". Take your time.

    • @brock5946
      @brock5946 7 месяцев назад +1

      What did it do to you that he said that he wasn't sure if he could commit to you? Did you feel like you had to step up in anyway to make him commit? Or did you reconsider your options and looked for potential other guys as well?

    • @Clemmieee
      @Clemmieee 7 месяцев назад +1

      It didn't affect me, he told me that he didn't want me to get hurt.
      I told myself that I would wait, I didn't feel insecure but the uncertainty was there. Step up no, but being patient.
      I didn't reconsider my options or looked for other guys.

    • @JJ-vp3bd
      @JJ-vp3bd 7 месяцев назад

      Are you single now

    • @Clemmieee
      @Clemmieee 7 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@JJ-vp3bdI'm with him now

    • @JJ-vp3bd
      @JJ-vp3bd 7 месяцев назад

      how long has it been@@Clemmieee

  • @kianarosablau
    @kianarosablau 7 месяцев назад +1

    Like I appreciate only things which I got for free without any effort BUT ONLY from man I see above me AND Im in love with. Because he is up, he can afford generousity. If a man above me isnt generous and wants me to work for to him give me something, I think he is insecure and below what I thought about him before - or I think he is evil because he wants to hurt me without any reason with unnecesary showing power like he is probably sadist=evil (abuse of power).
    But when Im NOT in love (or only little), he should do exactly yours advice. Let me work for everything. And reward my afford sometimes (otherwise I could think he isnt interrested at all and move on).
    But followers of this channel are dealing with women who sleep with a man without attachment or when she isnt sure yet if she want him (relationship), she have sex with him to figure it out = so this is golden advise for that situation.
    When I first saw advices like this, I thought you are evil because woman is in love and you want to torture her with polygamy and no relationship (never). Now I trust you have good intention.

  • @TheInvisibleMan420
    @TheInvisibleMan420 7 месяцев назад +1

    Get a collar mic, my dude.

  • @Eros13adios
    @Eros13adios Месяц назад

    Screw all this.
    I'm enjoying fishing on my own,play my video games,go on long trips with my buddies 🎣
    MGTOW all the way..

  • @osamahxlion9167
    @osamahxlion9167 6 месяцев назад +1

    How to recover from this?

  • @A.nasierkhan
    @A.nasierkhan 7 месяцев назад +4

    Casey your the best on yt. Straight facts!

  • @cloudcastellio9617
    @cloudcastellio9617 6 месяцев назад +1

    11:25 the actual answers.

  • @willyhwang1059
    @willyhwang1059 7 месяцев назад +4

    homo sapiens

  • @songaesthetics8543
    @songaesthetics8543 26 дней назад

    Without watching the video I'm gonna comment the answer
    "BARBARE!!".

  • @notyourgrandmasgolf8950
    @notyourgrandmasgolf8950 7 месяцев назад +5

    man I needed this video last week lmao

  • @DesignedtoServe
    @DesignedtoServe 7 месяцев назад +7

    Loving this new aesthetic!!

  • @Ray-we7eg
    @Ray-we7eg 7 месяцев назад +4

    Collab with Darius m !

    • @x_MrYAYA_x
      @x_MrYAYA_x 7 месяцев назад +1

      Id like to see that

  • @onjada
    @onjada 7 месяцев назад +1

    Once again not sure if this channel makes me better with women or want to avoid them altogether. How do families even exist?