That's abuse. If you say no and he forces himself on you in a way that makes you uncomfortable, that's literally the definition of sexual assault. You don't love him -- you just don't know any better. You are being abused and controlled. Break it off immediately before he starts to isolate you from your friends and family.
I know the easy answer here is to say break it off with him. But it's not so simple as just saying it, huh? You clearly care about him a lot. Don't let anyone invalidate your feelings because of your age or your experience. But sometimes... our own feelings just aren't enough. I think you need to gather your thoughts and your nerves, and even if this man is the dismissive type, for your own sake you need to do your best to sit him down and let him know how this made you feel. Make sure he takes you seriously; it can't just be a passing conversation. It'll be scary, and he'll probably do everything he can to avoid taking accountability-- especially if he feels you're trying to pin blame on him (we all can't help but get defensive when we're told we hurt another person, so expect this). But if you're able to communicate how much you care for him and that's WHY you're trying to communicate-- because you trust him-- then if he truly loves you, he'll not want to hurt you anymore. Unfortunately, we're all susceptible to mistaking lust and infatuation with love. If he tells you he loves you but still refuses to accommodate your feelings after you've communicated your pain with him, I hope your heart will let you understand just where in the line between lust and love his feelings for you lie. The one silver lining of this situation is how clearly it will display for you whether he's the one for you or not. Even if you still love him, do not let yourself stay with a man who doesn't care if he's causing you pain if it means he can get off. Do not let him invalidate your feelings or make you feel like you're exaggerating. It's not worth the heartache and the trauma in the long haul to accommodate someone who doesn't care enough about you to not hurt you.
Who’s she going to tell on him the cops? She clearly gave in on pressure so it’s legal. And who else she gonna tell on him with his mom? saying tell on him sounds childish as shit they aren’t in elementary
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Break up with him, pretty sure that could be considered sexual assault if you repeatedly said no, tell your mum and get out of that relationship FAST
Get out and get out fast.
Tell him no or it's over
That's abuse. If you say no and he forces himself on you in a way that makes you uncomfortable, that's literally the definition of sexual assault. You don't love him -- you just don't know any better. You are being abused and controlled. Break it off immediately before he starts to isolate you from your friends and family.
I know the easy answer here is to say break it off with him. But it's not so simple as just saying it, huh? You clearly care about him a lot. Don't let anyone invalidate your feelings because of your age or your experience. But sometimes... our own feelings just aren't enough. I think you need to gather your thoughts and your nerves, and even if this man is the dismissive type, for your own sake you need to do your best to sit him down and let him know how this made you feel. Make sure he takes you seriously; it can't just be a passing conversation. It'll be scary, and he'll probably do everything he can to avoid taking accountability-- especially if he feels you're trying to pin blame on him (we all can't help but get defensive when we're told we hurt another person, so expect this). But if you're able to communicate how much you care for him and that's WHY you're trying to communicate-- because you trust him-- then if he truly loves you, he'll not want to hurt you anymore.
Unfortunately, we're all susceptible to mistaking lust and infatuation with love. If he tells you he loves you but still refuses to accommodate your feelings after you've communicated your pain with him, I hope your heart will let you understand just where in the line between lust and love his feelings for you lie.
The one silver lining of this situation is how clearly it will display for you whether he's the one for you or not. Even if you still love him, do not let yourself stay with a man who doesn't care if he's causing you pain if it means he can get off. Do not let him invalidate your feelings or make you feel like you're exaggerating. It's not worth the heartache and the trauma in the long haul to accommodate someone who doesn't care enough about you to not hurt you.
He's obviously doing something wrong if regular sex is hurting you... hun get rid of him
Tell on him
Who’s she going to tell on him the cops? She clearly gave in on pressure so it’s legal. And who else she gonna tell on him with his mom? saying tell on him sounds childish as shit they aren’t in elementary
@@braydensweeney9188she withdrew consent with the nos
@@braydensweeney9188they said tell on him bc that’s how it’s worded in the story??
it was considered sexual assault as soon as she withdrew consent
@braydensweeney9188 ...he literally assaulted her. She said no multiple times
That's not a healthy sexual relationship.