The Danger of Using Weak Words
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Which words do you need to stop using?
Later - right f***** now or ASAP! Actions, only actions!
I am stressing & I want to quit!!
'Maybe.'
"I don't know"...it should be "I will find out" or "I will learn"
“Let me....”
As if I have to get permission from someone other than myself....
“Watch your thoughts, they become words. Watch your words, they become actions. Watch your actions, they become habits. Watch your habits, they become character. Watch your character, it becomes your destiny.” - Lao Tzu
Too true
Oh, this is really deep!
Your thoughts become your destiny.
@piztah I too took ss but when using this quote I'll erase word watch, it looks more impactful without it
I tell you, on the day of judgment people will give account for every careless word they speak, for by your words you will be justified, and by your words you will be condemned.”
Matthew 12:36,37
My grandfather always said “Tiredness doesn’t exist - laziness does”. I kept it with me all my life.
True... I'm very lazy and no one can tell me to leave my bed... __(:τ」∠)__
😂😂😂 what a moron, yeah the body doesn't give you a feeling of tiredness when you used up all the energy without recharging, yeah 😂😂😂
@@YuriLifeLove i can tell by the pfp
I'm 49 years old and I wish my father was half as caring as you. Your chat with your son was so deep and meaningful. He is blessed to have you as his father.
Yea but you are a grown man, you can blame him for everything in your life.
@@Soul-co7kino he still his father anyway
@Soul-co7ki keep the word blame for yourself
you're not too late to change
@@Soul-co7ki
Why should he blame his dad for everything in his life as 49 year old?
God this made me cry. His kids are so blessed. This man is such an amazing dad. Happy Fathers day Pat!
It must be that time of the month.
@@Brightenigh wtf is that supposed to mean??
@@alekhinesgun9997 I think that he’s implying she cried because she’s on her period
@@shakesy1075 yea I get that but its so cringe when people say shit like that. He took the one line of the comment that mentioned anything to do with emotions and immediately made a cliche remark, it just screams insecurity
@@alekhinesgun9997 if you got what he meant then why did you ask?
Pat, I've had 4 cancers stroke and other illnesses. It's all about perseverance and perspective! Love your stuff! Silver lining in everything if you look hard enough. Keep up the great work!
@Regina Pontes- and I love your attitude! You get it girl! That’s the reason you HAD the cancers and illnesses and do not HAVE them anymore. Our minds are very powerful- stay positive you’re an inspiration! God bless.😘🙏
You got this regina!
You are basically the Rocky Balboa of cancer. Thankyou for showing those who will follow in your path what they can accomplish
@@montana7490 Thanks Mon! God blees! 😃🙏
@@everythingautomotiveeta5839 Thanks! Like I say in my book, Perseverance Is Key! 😃🙏
My wife and I have literally manifested every major goal we come up with each year without even thinking about it. We put it on our dream board in dry erase marker and hang it on the wall. In 4 years we have literally moved mountains. All we do is set out focus, pray every single night before dinner, and no matter what all of our goals magically happen before our eyes. Attitude, intention, and stubbornness are all virtues.
Yes, it's important to guard our spirit. We must be careful what we see, hear and the thoughts we entertain. Thanks, Patrick!
Now what if you had your spirit going in the wrong direction, but you didn't realize it because you only had tunnel vision for you want to see, hear, and give thought to? What then? Is what Im typing right now currently something you don't want to entertain? I am currently being phased out from your "sprit radar", ignored? Or am I making sense? Maybe we should analyze all points of view and then make conclusions from a stance of understanding/reason, instead of having tunnel vision for what is let in.
Patrick , this really got me. Growing up my mom has a negative impression of the male species. She would say unkind words about my father which I tended to block out. Because exactly as you said about your father I didn’t want to hear it and wanted to treat people as individuals. That thought process still serves me until today. I think I speak for everyone here when I say ,thank you for an insightful reminder that we are stronger than we think.🥰.
Great mindset 👍🏿
@@punani_slayer4209 ur name is the reason people have this impression on the "male species" (idk why she worded it like that lol)
@@aidinlayne this is the name my mother gave me when i was born don't be a bigot🤨
punani slayer real for that 💯💥
You talking to your son is the conversation I didn’t realize I needed as a kid 😅
Two words I used to describe myself as a kid annoying burden.
Now a 31 year old veteran here in those words for the first time out through your video
I felt like Patrick was talking to me as a Son. Thank you Patrick.
SON. BROTHER. FATHER..
me too... i was so hooked up
Right
patrick is the older brother i never had , and i wish i could be like him for my little brother , ill keep trying till the day i die , noting will stop me .
Hahaha same
Wise words Patrick.
Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof.
Proverbs 18:21
Amen
Great Proverb
Yes sir!
Oops I wrote something similar then saw yours lol Yes praise the THE HOLY SPIRIT that inspired the HOLY scriptures
So true !
"No, Daddy's in trouble." - Love it. Way to set a Godly example for your family.
My son was born Jan 17 2012. 6 week premature, and 2 weeks in NICU. Your relationship with your son and me and my son are very close. I admit my mistakes to him. I hate when I let my tongue slip. However I can’t let my pride get in the way of my relationship with him. I strive to be a great example. So admitting I let anger in my speech I want him to see that I am not perfect and am responsible for my words. I also tell him that I love him every chance I get. Thank you for telling that story, makes us all feel human. As far as the rest of the video, priceless.
Unbelievable self awareness, your son is lucky to have you as a father.
ISN'T HE
Pat since my dad passed 7 years ago, I’ve missed talks like this. Your words on words meant a lot to me. Needed to hear it.
“Watch your thoughts, for they will become actions. Watch your actions, for they'll become... habits. Watch your habits for they will forge your character. Watch your character, for it will make your destiny.”
― Margaret Thatcher
Very strong message. America needs more people like you.
One of the most powerful videos I’ve seen for the fact that words have so much power and what you did with your son was absolutely brilliant. As I watched that I was thinking how powerful it would be for my dad to say that to me. Thanks for sharing this :)
The guy I was dating kept saying how tired he was because of his hard job outside - I told I’m im tired of hearing him say he is tired as an excuse for everything and I left him! It was very depressing to hear he was too tired all the time!
You're a special woman, I have a feeling you'll find exactly the kind of man you want! God bless
Misery likes company
This is powerful. Thank you Pat. I'm going to start protecting my spirit and my family's spirit - now. I'm ditching some words!
I love this, Never allow anyone to steal your positive energy with their negativity. walk away or tell them to shut up about it. AND it is okay to tell them they are wrong about whatever they are saying.
“In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.”
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Tell us... What word?
And The Word Was Oom
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This is literally the best video i have seen, so much Value in less than 12 min.
Thanks Pat
Our words shape are reality.
Words cast spells
That's why it's called spelling.
Words are energy.
Use them wisely.
Bruce Lee
One of my childhood friends told me his Parents always told him there's no such word as 'can't ' and if you know him you can tell it worked.
Great video and great message.
Sir, you've become an inspiration for me today. I've been complacent of letting my mouth run wild for far too long. Self-depricating and being ungreatful to myself for the level of success that I've achieved. I've driven myself on a mindset of "impostor syndrome" as an excuse that something's just wrong with me, as if that is normal. Thank you for reminding me, that even God in the bible warns us of what words we speak with our tongues towards ourselves and to others. I feel like I can move on and start maturing this part of me. Thank you for this video!
The portion of you having a heart to heart with your son really touched me as a Man, inspiring better communication with my family. Great video. Thanks for the transparency Pat
Man, one of the best things that happened to me this year was to find this channel. I truly wish to have found it sooner.
This is why a boy needs a good father!!!
Excellent Patrick. I'm on the last few weeks of a 3 yr negativity onslaught. I'm ready to get away from it and rid myself of this nasty energy, and create a wonderful life.
Speak in the direction, that YOU choose to make happen. So many people do not understand that words are thoughts, thoughts are reality.
Maan, this video really changed the way I look at words. He was talking about people Influencing other people's thoughts and lifestyle using certain words. I don't know about others, but you sure Influenced me with your words kind sir. Lot of respect. I'm happy I came across this video and I watched it!
@Valuetainment. Sir how can I DM you? Can you tell me which Social platform you're on. I don't wanna miss this opportunity
@Valuetainment. Yeah sure, so...do I give you my number or will you give me yours?
“Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruit.” (Proverbs 18:21)
Patrick Please put this video out again, people Need to hear this AGAIN, Thanks
Saying "I don't want to do this" are weak words, powerful words are "I'm not doing this".
Even stronger is when you say "I am" instead of "I'm" because it puts even more emphasis on it. And the reason what you said works is because now it's about our identitiy, what and who we are.
I wish I had a father like you Pat. You're a good father to your kids.
this is how a strong mindset think i must take notes
Pat,
This is a great splash of cold water to the face. Thank you so much for these wise words and your willingness to admit faults. I’m working hard to control my environment, especially the people around me. I agree with you 100% that the people around you and your thoughts are important. Your story about your son brought tears to my eyes, thank you for setting a great example for us future fathers.
That last part is key, the words that don't "serve you" are very important to identify.
"There is a great deal of difference between an eager man who wants to read a book and the tired man who wants a book to read." - GK Chesterton
It's ok to have vulnerable moments. We're human
Thanks, 5 weeks sobriety. Watching this video while I'm in treatment.
I used to think, "I can't get anything done without opiates"
Now I'm thinking, "I'll fix it"
I already notice small changes. What words/thoughts we have are decisive if we want to take action, shape our self-image and reach our goal.
I agree with you . Especially in the working environment . I saw the importance of team meetings and how communication is so vital , especially the type of communication specific to the environment in which the team needs to be working productivity and also keeping up the morale , being supportive even. Having opportunities to use resources privately without affecting the atmosphere with others . I agree , making a list of words and finding what works for you, is important. Spread the ❤️ love
This is a decent point - fatigue is contagious. Being around people who are constantly talking about how tired they are is tiring and tiresome. Negativity is similar, keep that in the right place. If something is bad, be honest, but seeing the negative in every situation, in every person, it’s a downer. One can be forever Pollyanna, but rather that than Eeyore.
Thank you this video means a lot I'm a divorced father-of-three sons and this reminds me how EVERY word is important.
100%. Keep your head. Future looks bright
Out of the mouth comes the content of the heart
This is very True 100%
This has greatly open my eyes so wide... Considering that everyweekend i felt tired, burn out, depressed and so on, adding to that a lack of social contact and i use that as justification to not do my task and because of that i procrastinate a lot and ended up wasting my day but after scrolling and come upon this video it made me awake... Thank you!
Absolutely love and appreciate this to my core
Great talk!... reminded me of Dr Jordan Peterson.
Subscribed.
@Christian Ketterl That life is suffering and the way to to make it all worthwhile and alleviate the suffering is to take on maximum responsibility and strive upwards....
'the change from good to bad and the change from bad to good, is both caused by words'
Wow!
There is a war on euphemism, they’re trying to redefine every word
They are taking down everything that relates to American history including the National flags and statues of Christoforo Colombo insulting both American and Italian history! The radicals who don't understand how media works are being brainwashed and this escalates to lack of common sense attacks and violence.
You both make me happy knowing you know👍🏻
They’re taking down anything that reminds them of slavery and when all that. Why would there be statues dedicated to that?
It's so weird how this video was reccomended and was exactly what i needed today.
This is a really good day to be hearing this message.
A lot of pride is not good.
Its leads to the fall...
dude hurt his son's feelings and made an entire apology video on his platform with millions of viewers, what a legend, what a father
Thanks Patrick. I say this stuff all the time and never thought about it. You're right! Thank you.
If you do your best, then you can never get better. Always work your hardest instead.
This is one of the most eye opening videos i've seen in my life holy cow
I got the real message Pat was sending today with this Vid,got it loud and clear.
Yep. He slid it in without having to make it the primary subject.
I had a break up long ago. Bad to worst to good and great like he said, I used to say I was bad with words. I did some studying got myself toghether and became more eloquent and fluent with the language. And like he said it adds value to what you say, and people will ask you 'what happened' like some sort of revelation hits you. Then I became addicted into learning more, and just like he said. I had no job then, I was struggling, really skinny and unhealthy now I got a job, toned, smarter and wiser. Wish I knew this then 👌👌👌👌
My father keeps telling me this about myself. Being on the streets & all that comes with being on the streets. To being a college graduate with a beautiful finance & a home & a car & healthy friends who love me & I love. What’s most important about it all is my desire to keep growing. Moreso with my mind then my life. Why? Because I’ve noticed my life gets better from the inside out when my mind gets sharper & more filled with knowledge. So I make it a point to learn something USEFUL everyday. But the little Snapple facts don’t hurt either LOL.
ayoooooo i remember being in the 10th grade and i was speaking w some of my mates. he was talking about being depressed, and he said “everyone is or has been depressed”. he then turned to me and asked if i’ve ever been depressed, i said no. couldn’t believe me when i told him so, and after which i think i’d taken on the depressed persona, i’d realized this a few months ago but never thought about the power of words and how you can take on the “effects” of the words being spoken rather than reading a mean comment online per se
Very powerful and touching video, here Patrick. I agree that certain words need to be used carefully while talking to others. You also need to keep a distance from certain conversations because it can affect you. People who talk like that think others also think in the same way.
The one thing I never like to say to people I know is "I don't have time." or "I am busy." It just sort of gives the impression that I don't want to spend time with them.... even if that may or may not be the case, I just don't like to say it like that.
Words carry weight so true. When ppl around you use words repeatedly to put you down. You start believing it giving them power so it happens. We have to believe in ourselves when no one else will and raise ourselves high. I think its good to have abit of an ego.
Thanks for the reminder. Refocus to some ideals I once had in a good place as I transition back from a dark place to a great place hopefully.
Exhaustion is real though, so is tendinitis and a half dislocated elbow from hard work to survive.
Not trying to deny or be dishonest.
Let's refocus however, I see it
The attention grabber for me was his voice, sounds so assertive and confident
Only two videos in, this is already the best channel I've subscribed to this year.
I'm glad that this was recommended.
This video is so important, watch it again
Words that don't serve you well... I love this!
Pat, teared up talking about your boy. Was thinking about my boy. Thank you for your sacrifice, hard work, and value.
Powerful... You want to invest the time to watch this.
"But I tell you, on the day of judgment people will have to give an accounting for every careless or useless word they speak." (Matthew 12:36)
I agree with him 💯 %. I don't like hanging with whiners and complainers. It's understandable people have a hard time but to complain for the sake of complaining drives me nuts.
man I came to this video thinking it was some bs, this is really thought provocative and relatable, very good content rlly thanks
Words to stop using (or at least be aware of the context):
1. Never
2. Can’t
3. Tired
4. I don’t think….
5. If I only had (fill in the blank)….
Instead of using I'm tired, use the words, I'm physically and mentally exhausted, overworked and struggling. I think discouraging people from discussing their challenges encourages a culture of silence where people are dying from being overstressed and feel they have no one to help them and either sickness or suicide are prevalent. Humanity is about humility and it's important to have that if we want our world to be less individualistic. We can always do better. Collectivism and socially democratic societies have less burnout and tiredness, we all should aim to find the kind of happiness you see in parts of the world where community and the social good are important.
Gee, Patrick looks tired.He might not say it, but his eyes look tired.
He will skip your comment bro...
Patrick, I am from ethiopia, africa, 16 years old and our team is building a manufacturing business.
We chose bootstrapping and exponentially build the machines required for mass production.
Do you have any suggestions since we are trying to avoid funding.
Patrick, I love you and respect you ,and think the world of you. you are such an inspiration. God bless you my brother.
Damn I almost forgot this advice. This advice changed my life in the college days. After hearing this it reminded me.
This is just all facts . It’s not only his opinion this is the law of attraction. Words are very powerful ! And his words in this video are very powerful ! I love this video . I always try to replace a negative word with a positive word if it makes sense .
You are so right about controlling both the words we say, and the words we allow ourselves to hear. Being mindful of the words we use is beneficial for two reasons. first being mindful of the words, we speak, and all ourselves to hear, helps us filter out what is not beneficial to us. The second reason controlling the words we speak, and allow ourselves to hear, helps us keep our minds, free of clutter and useless thoughts.
This is legit my life. Surrounded by fuc+++ complainers. All they do is huff and puff ! They are healthy, belly full and shelter over their heads and still negative. It’s a shame. Very bad way to go through life..
Words that comes out of your mouth, your ears listen to it best than any other creature that will ever exist. And verbal communication and articulate phases have more psychological effect on your opinion and view than anyone else has on you. It's manipulation if someone tells you how you feel about yourself, it's control of ones self to tell yourself how you feel about yourself. And it's the essence of honesty and realism to your consciousness which affects your mental state (psychological)
this man has so much presence
I hate it when I hear "how many times must I tell you....". In my thought, "seriously? You are counting?". When I counter back, "how many times is that?" They jst shut up or trying to cover with an arguement or getting louder.
I'm a human too, i tend to forget. There are so many things happening around us, there are so much we can remember. The things that were told may just be the first time I am hearing it.
Thanks. No longer saying, "I'm tired," and now only saying, "I'm untired."
There's no glory in climbing a mountain if all you want to do is to get to the top. It's experiencing the climb itself - in all its moments of revelation, heartbreak, fatigue, regret and sorrow - that has to be expected.
A word has the capacity to transform thoughts, fortify connections, and shape realities.
God bless
PBD is the truth I love his content.
I was hoping the story when you tell your kid 'get in the car, were going for a ride... ' that you put a gun to his face and said, ' don't ever disrepect me like that again'. I would of respected you for that.
Man I am tired watching this
I love this video and I love the way you spoke to your kid that right there is so important and so powerful because it’s true. Words absolutely do linger and you have to be bold enough have those conversations and eliminate those words that linger & stain the spirit.
I heard research somewhere. When workers were told that they were good at the job, amazing at it, they will work harder and better
I’m a professor and psychotherapist and I love this video ❤
"Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never hurt me"...is the most untrue and unwise saying I know of.
Break all spells cast upon thyself & others👑
Bruh I hate people who say they’re always tired too
I wish I had a dad like you... or a friend at least