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  • Опубликовано: 15 янв 2025

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  • @vaijoyantakundu9670
    @vaijoyantakundu9670 Год назад +102

    The content of these videos is so so unique...amazing clarity on an issue which no body will ever discuss..I really feel that these videos should be part of school and college curriculum of our country...priceless contents

  • @ritavaishnav6123
    @ritavaishnav6123 Год назад +28

    Kitna sukoon milega aajke youth ko …they are lucky to get such videos ….we had to experience life the hard way as there was no clarity giver ….could have avoided so much heartburn…anyway umr ke saath maturity aa gayi …good for youth 👍 thank you for providing clarity ….God bless 🙏🏻

  • @vaibhavgautam4600
    @vaibhavgautam4600 Год назад +40

    Just wanted to share... You can compare two salaries, two houses and perhaps two ages...
    But two lives (persons) are totally unique and incomparable. God bless all of us !!

  • @mohinderahuja8543
    @mohinderahuja8543 Год назад +5

    गुरु जी,
    जल्दी से किसी को मैं accept नहीं करता, महीनो सुन ने के बाद आज कमेंट डाल रहा हूं,.
    You are very good in Clarity for youth.
    However I am 53 and relate in almost in all, what you say.
    I haven't seen such content any where and the style and presentation.
    I am impressed and bow to you.

  • @profarvind
    @profarvind Год назад +53

    100% identifying. Thanks for making this video. This video should be played in school, college and corporate houses. It will save people from developing negative thoughts and getting depressed. In my own case, I could not make much in life for all the reasons you said in the beginning. But now, after hearing you my regrets have disappeared. Yes, but my son will definitely live better life that me.

    • @Hypocrite420
      @Hypocrite420 Год назад

      It is so funny that how we keep the baggage with us & someone says that it's a fuckin baggage you've been carrying since 10yrs & it looks so easy to drop it then n there n also looks foolish n painful to see that how we wasted so much energy for that

    • @DharmajBhardwaj
      @DharmajBhardwaj 11 месяцев назад

      ​@@Hypocrite420yes

  • @koustuvdutta
    @koustuvdutta Год назад +18

    I liked the starting line concept very much. I think "don't compare others to yourself at all' kind of advice never works. So, whenever we are about to get frustrated by this comparison, the starting line concept along with the idea to focus on our own journey of life can provide a rational way to stay calm and satisfied!
    Thanks for the content!

  • @kalpanasriwastava3702
    @kalpanasriwastava3702 Год назад +10

    Class bias is very true and real
    My in laws were from richer class
    They ill treated me always in life
    Now i am older ...
    So i am ok about it
    I am detached

  • @shrutiranjan0511
    @shrutiranjan0511 2 месяца назад +2

    Thank You sir for this clarity. Mai ek student hu air mere mata pita gareeb hai aur mere kuch friends h jinke well settled parents hai. And I was always jealous of them kyoki vo log padhai me utne achhe bhi nahi h fir bhi unke mata pita unko padhne k liye bare seher bhej rhe hai. Dusri taraf mai hu jo ki studies me bohot achhi h fir bhi parents mere liye utna nhi kr skte
    Maine ab comparison karna chhor diya h bohot pehle se hi tab se life me kafi shanti aa gyi hai.
    Lekin fir bhi thora bura to lagta hi hai but I am working towards making my future with whatever resources I have 😊

  • @jdtalks24x7
    @jdtalks24x7 Год назад +18

    Frustration comes when parents knowingly don't earn more money and relax throughout life thereby making the children poor.

    • @AnkkitKumarr
      @AnkkitKumarr Год назад +3

      +1
      Mera baap to Kamata bhi nhi hai

    • @dshbhkt6186
      @dshbhkt6186 Год назад +1

      @@AnkkitKumarr mera baap hi nhi hai

    • @sakshamprajapati1023
      @sakshamprajapati1023 10 месяцев назад +1

      Bhai sabse bhadiya agar tumhare baski kamana khana nhi hai to bacche paida mat kro bekar mai auro ki zindagi bhi kharab kerni

  • @akshatsharma2064
    @akshatsharma2064 Год назад +19

    Sir so many languages but you always speak #facts.
    Huge respect!

  • @Ajayvijayraniya
    @Ajayvijayraniya Год назад +6

    बेहतरीन टॉपिक , सोच को नई दिशा देते हुए ।
    धन्यवाद अमित जी

  • @ManeeshSolankiYT
    @ManeeshSolankiYT Год назад +9

    I also noticed this when I was in services. Leave the senior juniors, Group A officers compared their savings, assets with me, a Group C soldier.
    My parents were both working and have achieved a lot which gives me absolute financial freedom. My officer IC used to say in informal gathering that he has more money in PF, i felt- why is he comparing apples to oranges!
    You were about to say that 'I have seen this in services also' 😁

  • @ravipato
    @ravipato Год назад +6

    ID. True.... Most of the people in my family do lot of comparision and feel jelois of others. Baselining of their position of current and past and comparing that with ourselves will give clean comparision. Starting line is very important.

  • @apoorvchauhan4707
    @apoorvchauhan4707 Год назад +4

    1000 percent you’ve hit the bullseye

  • @Quran_Vocabulary
    @Quran_Vocabulary Год назад +2

    Aajkal aise bahot km log h jo itna clear baat krte h....Sahi me Apni apni destiny ko accept karna bahot mushqil ho gya h.... Truely all youngsters need to hear this topic🙏

  • @manjular3678
    @manjular3678 Год назад +4

    Intersting topic. It's better to maintain distance from these kind of jealous comparing people. You find them everywhere. It could be your siblings, relatives, neighbors or friends.

  • @ajaykumar-banker
    @ajaykumar-banker Год назад +9

    Excellent video. Always original, Always correct. Hard hitting and true. "Comparisons may be made only when the starting line is the same" Don’t compare yourself with people who are ahead by a generation as their parents have left them a fortune. Don't be bitter about your situation by comparing with them. Understand the difference.Dont be jealous. Accept your destiny and be at peace.

  • @ashitmukherjee5934
    @ashitmukherjee5934 Год назад +7

    Destiny sets the starting line different for different people.What an original idea of yours sir ji.🌹

  • @jirgis13
    @jirgis13 8 месяцев назад +1

    Agree with you. I stand on the shoulders of my grandparents and father, so don’t just compare with me, I have 3 generations behind me

  • @mysoredurgesha9712
    @mysoredurgesha9712 Год назад +8

    Dear Sir,
    FANTASTIC ANALYSIS. MIND BLOWING EXPLANATION.
    The statement "There is nothing great in being either poor or rich" and also adding bombastic metaphors like "Being poor I struggled a lot and made every effort to come up in life". Being poor it is quite natural for anybody to work hard in order to come up in life otherwise please accept the status quo.
    In the below mentioned book
    Sapiens: A Brief History of Humankind - June 10, 2018
    by Yuval Harari (Author)
    Author makes a statement. If you find any rich person in any part of the world one thing is clear that he or she would have been born to rich parents. Because of this reason only "RAGS TO RICHES TO STORY" becomes sensational and it is a rarest phenomena.

  • @tinathakur8698
    @tinathakur8698 Год назад +8

    ID sir !! Amazing unique content you bring...no one talk about this. The best line was Garibi is not great thing. I don't understand why in india people glorify Garibi. You are truly blessing in my life sir 🌟🙏🙏

  • @rahulk948
    @rahulk948 11 месяцев назад

    100% identify this as 45 years old. Thank you for sharing this. Hope younger people understand this & avoid unnecessary stress.

  • @jayantdrummer
    @jayantdrummer Год назад +30

    100% identifying. I think the art of comparing properly and effectively requires high-order thinking which majority of people (who can be otherwise smart) dont think about.
    Whenever my wife/friend shows some other person living a lavish lifestyle, the first thing I ask is how loaded are their parents. Agar loaded hain, tab mera brain ke andar ke comparison ka switch hi off ho jaata hai.

    • @ashitmukherjee5934
      @ashitmukherjee5934 Год назад

      Right.Very wise thinking.

    • @ArvindSethi61
      @ArvindSethi61 Год назад +3

      Good morning from ottawa .you have punctured various minds .keep,these type of videos in future .

  • @auiiem
    @auiiem Год назад +2

    Maharaj jee
    Excellent sukoon giving video to avoid useless frustration faced by youth. Which
    many times leads to many serious health issues.🙏

  • @skblabla
    @skblabla Год назад +5

    Everything that you have told in your videos, at some point of time my husband has told these things to me..he is a wise man no doubt.

  • @anujbhardwaj5753
    @anujbhardwaj5753 Год назад +4

    Enlightening video

  • @sakshi23927
    @sakshi23927 Год назад +3

    Last 19yrs.se is type ki jeaoulsy tolerate kar rahi hoon. My inlaws think why my myaka is fortunate & priviliged with money & family????
    They torture me mentally & curse my siblings also. 😔😓

  • @puneetbasson5901
    @puneetbasson5901 Год назад +2

    Moment of Truth... 👌

  • @leowalia2263
    @leowalia2263 Год назад +1

    Instead of options or variety, I really like the word buffet.....because clarity comes itself when you think about buffet.

  • @manjurajput3946
    @manjurajput3946 Год назад +3

    Yes sir.. fully identifying.

  • @realtimequickie
    @realtimequickie Год назад

    Making total sense. Unfortunately people tend to compare unfairly

  • @prakharsarkar691
    @prakharsarkar691 Год назад +1

    Great clarity Sir

  • @amitsharma2686
    @amitsharma2686 Год назад +2

    ID sir, what a way to communicate such a grave topic. Hats off to you

  • @supriyabajaj9822
    @supriyabajaj9822 Год назад +1

    Yes identified. This gives lots of clarity and sukoon.

  • @sahilsrivastava17
    @sahilsrivastava17 Год назад +2

    Yes we are identifing❤

  • @jayasoni5333
    @jayasoni5333 Год назад +1

    Best content,thank you Sir
    Saaransh yahi hai,k apni life aur growth pe focus Karo
    Jo gadi mili hai wo chalao,audi, Mercedes se compare karne ki jarurat nahi.agar apki Tata Nexon hai to wo Khushi se chalo.

  • @rushikesh.chaubal
    @rushikesh.chaubal Год назад +2

    Absolutely brilliant and much needed for today's times!! ❤️👍🏻

  • @AyushSingh-me5si
    @AyushSingh-me5si Год назад +1

    Its a great video, I've spent years of my life feeling depressed because of this. Thankyou sir

  • @undiyos
    @undiyos Год назад +1

    Very right. As said by you in the nepotism video, the difference between a struggler and a protégé is one generation.
    ID

  • @arjunsworld205
    @arjunsworld205 Год назад

    ID
    Sir you are genius because you discuss things which ppl think in their hearts but are embarrassed to discuss !

  • @rohitshastri3593
    @rohitshastri3593 4 месяца назад

    Bilkul Sahi baat hai Sir👍👍

  • @pgentreprise3079
    @pgentreprise3079 Год назад +2

    I understand in summary: don't get dissatisfied with looking at others, try to get satisfied with what you have achieved .

  • @sahilgarg2487
    @sahilgarg2487 Год назад +2

    id
    Sir totally identifying with your content 🙏

  • @swethaanthony4958
    @swethaanthony4958 Год назад +3

    I think it is good point for marriage also..

  • @parthamp4751
    @parthamp4751 Год назад +9

    Sir, this is actually one of your deepest and most meaningful videos if people do self analysis. I realised these aspects when I looked back in life that my classmates or colleagues who had even some backing from parents in the form of property or land were more confident and stress free. They were bolder and able to take risk because they always had a fall back option. With that they leaped ahead. Even my Gp A batchmates, those whose parents were also Gp A, they were already confident in career and environment. They also had the right guidance from their parents and the network. First timers like me took few years just to understand the operating environment.

  • @thekrantimanch7880
    @thekrantimanch7880 Год назад

    Gazab ki teaching h. Very nice

  • @lovenishberiwal7622
    @lovenishberiwal7622 Год назад +2

    What a great view point you have presented here, I would request you to make video for people who don't have guidance and end up doing something that was really meant for them. How can they get back om track and leave their past behind?

  • @rajje1827
    @rajje1827 Год назад

    Ekdam original content hai siir apka, original content 👌

  • @surindercheema5663
    @surindercheema5663 7 месяцев назад

    Very much appreciate your directness Phaji 🙏

  • @BlenderXpert
    @BlenderXpert Год назад

    Everyone is traveling in their own timespan , you are great sir

  • @daymah.l1840
    @daymah.l1840 Год назад

    Thanks sir 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
    Id❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @You_Only_LiveOnce
    @You_Only_LiveOnce Год назад +1

    100 percent identified
    I am working as a junior Engineer in IR but one JE can have less liabilities and better life than SSE or Grade A officer who is staying in Government accomodation if JE's wife is working and have ancestrial property and support from family and if he has good finance acumen and critical decision making skills he will always be ahead

  • @Sketchmaker101
    @Sketchmaker101 Год назад

    Sir I was facing the issues with you told in this video. Thanks for wonderful guidance. Seriously this kind of content is not there on net. You use to observe real problem or society and give us proper solution.

  • @priyanshtalan4343
    @priyanshtalan4343 Год назад

    Good msg for youth
    Absolutely ✅️

  • @amansinghrajawat8258
    @amansinghrajawat8258 3 месяца назад

    Aapki khoob videos dekhi hain... Bahut acchi video hai ye sir

  • @akhild69
    @akhild69 Год назад

    Guru Tatva,
    Very true, well connected and very well explained.
    There is no point in being envious, accept and move forward

  • @PremiumOOO7
    @PremiumOOO7 Год назад

    Great sirji

  • @shrutisingh5339
    @shrutisingh5339 Год назад +1

    I so wish your videos were there when i was 21-22. I could have been in much better place than today. Maybe its just my destiny.

  • @meenalpande2868
    @meenalpande2868 Год назад +1

    This is 💯 % true sir.

  • @parthodave123
    @parthodave123 Год назад +1

    Pure content. No bakwas

  • @ganesh_gp3177
    @ganesh_gp3177 Год назад +1

    Sukoon mila sunane ke bad

  • @shahnawazpatramor6981
    @shahnawazpatramor6981 Год назад

    Excellent sir, it's wisdom what you preach, hats off

  • @ashalatadhone
    @ashalatadhone Год назад

    Most fantastic....sir ji, behatareen content....

  • @anuanu2337
    @anuanu2337 Год назад

    100% identify sir. Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge and guidance.

  • @lifediscussionwitharfinakt942
    @lifediscussionwitharfinakt942 Год назад

    Excellent

  • @Trisamika
    @Trisamika 11 месяцев назад

    Thank you sir for making such video... Making us realise these things... The rush to earn more and show off is increasing.. There is large difference between the previous generation and current generation... In thinking... We are heading to more of materialistic and superficial world...

  • @saikumarravula
    @saikumarravula Год назад +1

    Yes sir, your videos are very much relatable and thank you for speaking hard facts without any filters.

  • @greedskith3020
    @greedskith3020 Год назад

    Ill be definitely applying them...aur.. comments me meko uncle aunty sb apne kahani likte dikh rhe... Acche gajah pe aa gya mai thanks!

  • @mshoaib9531
    @mshoaib9531 3 месяца назад

    MAG , mind-blowing 🎉🎉🎉

  • @ranibandhu
    @ranibandhu 6 месяцев назад

    Very true 🙏

  • @jasmitsingh3197
    @jasmitsingh3197 Год назад

    Brilliant content
    Will be sharing in my channels

  • @ganapatihegde1024
    @ganapatihegde1024 Год назад

    Yes, what you are saying is true.

  • @PremiumOOO7
    @PremiumOOO7 Год назад

    Awesome

  • @juniorpratap
    @juniorpratap Год назад +1

    Abs correct and well put

  • @rishabhchaudhary5126
    @rishabhchaudhary5126 Год назад

    Kya bat kehte ho sirji.. Gazab

  • @Swan-rb4jq
    @Swan-rb4jq Год назад

    Wow wonderul explanation about this topic which is never discussed👍

  • @prajaktakumbhar5194
    @prajaktakumbhar5194 Год назад

    ID I knew these facts but somewhere was not able to understand or realise the implication. And specially never thought of explaining them to kids, but now I do. Thank you for this video

  • @6870FTW
    @6870FTW Год назад

    Thank you Sir ji😊

  • @shuklavismay6292
    @shuklavismay6292 Год назад

    Wonderful video sir ji

  • @avikroy4783
    @avikroy4783 Год назад

    Thank You

  • @monalinmishra7514
    @monalinmishra7514 Год назад

    Amazing and outstanding 👍

  • @princijain9609
    @princijain9609 Год назад

    Very unique perspective sir.. i m very happy listening to you

  • @tastyfastnutritiouskitchen843
    @tastyfastnutritiouskitchen843 Год назад

    Very True.

  • @amaantalha1036
    @amaantalha1036 Год назад +1

    Great analysis and teaching sir💐💐

  • @bitupansarmah1860
    @bitupansarmah1860 Год назад +1

    I can identify it exactly 👌👌👌

  • @rahulsinghjosan10
    @rahulsinghjosan10 Год назад +2

    Excellent concept and content, makes life easier

  • @manishkumar-yq7yr
    @manishkumar-yq7yr Год назад

    Identify undoubtedly.✌️

  • @kattarshwetabhbhakt6785
    @kattarshwetabhbhakt6785 Год назад

    In my opinion, the comparison should be with peers of your father's/mother's professional friend circle. Not even relatives.

  • @jaisriram2530
    @jaisriram2530 Год назад

    Very nice video sir 👌👌keep making these kind of video 👍👍

  • @saumyapunekar8625
    @saumyapunekar8625 Год назад +1

    Good one , nice topic need of the hour 😃👍❤️😇🙏

  • @travelwithmanish7847
    @travelwithmanish7847 Год назад

    Your analysis and thought process is remarkable

  • @dhirajzope4433
    @dhirajzope4433 2 месяца назад

    true 👏👏

  • @sugandhalal302
    @sugandhalal302 Год назад

    ID, Thanks for this insight sir

  • @aashayjoglekar591
    @aashayjoglekar591 Год назад +5

    an eye opener for all who r in Rat race 👍🙏

  • @akankiagrawal3313
    @akankiagrawal3313 Год назад

    Yes, I identify with the issues & advice you bring

  • @elvinsworld11
    @elvinsworld11 Год назад

    Nice

  • @healthshield499
    @healthshield499 Год назад

    Very valuable ideas
    Pure gold.

  • @drpabbi8295
    @drpabbi8295 Год назад +1

    Excellent 💐

  • @Adesh0108
    @Adesh0108 Год назад

    Thanks you ❤

  • @AartiYadav-nl8vt
    @AartiYadav-nl8vt Год назад

    You are real guru so thanks for velueable knowledge