The content of these videos is so so unique...amazing clarity on an issue which no body will ever discuss..I really feel that these videos should be part of school and college curriculum of our country...priceless contents
Kitna sukoon milega aajke youth ko …they are lucky to get such videos ….we had to experience life the hard way as there was no clarity giver ….could have avoided so much heartburn…anyway umr ke saath maturity aa gayi …good for youth 👍 thank you for providing clarity ….God bless 🙏🏻
Just wanted to share... You can compare two salaries, two houses and perhaps two ages... But two lives (persons) are totally unique and incomparable. God bless all of us !!
100% identifying. Thanks for making this video. This video should be played in school, college and corporate houses. It will save people from developing negative thoughts and getting depressed. In my own case, I could not make much in life for all the reasons you said in the beginning. But now, after hearing you my regrets have disappeared. Yes, but my son will definitely live better life that me.
It is so funny that how we keep the baggage with us & someone says that it's a fuckin baggage you've been carrying since 10yrs & it looks so easy to drop it then n there n also looks foolish n painful to see that how we wasted so much energy for that
ID, It took me 4 years of working to realise this fact. I was amazed how colleagues with same salary have better life than me, now I know the fact. Thanks sir, wanted to hear this from long. I feel good now.
I liked the starting line concept very much. I think "don't compare others to yourself at all' kind of advice never works. So, whenever we are about to get frustrated by this comparison, the starting line concept along with the idea to focus on our own journey of life can provide a rational way to stay calm and satisfied! Thanks for the content!
गुरु जी, जल्दी से किसी को मैं accept नहीं करता, महीनो सुन ने के बाद आज कमेंट डाल रहा हूं,. You are very good in Clarity for youth. However I am 53 and relate in almost in all, what you say. I haven't seen such content any where and the style and presentation. I am impressed and bow to you.
Class bias is very true and real My in laws were from richer class They ill treated me always in life Now i am older ... So i am ok about it I am detached
Intersting topic. It's better to maintain distance from these kind of jealous comparing people. You find them everywhere. It could be your siblings, relatives, neighbors or friends.
ID. True.... Most of the people in my family do lot of comparision and feel jelois of others. Baselining of their position of current and past and comparing that with ourselves will give clean comparision. Starting line is very important.
Aajkal aise bahot km log h jo itna clear baat krte h....Sahi me Apni apni destiny ko accept karna bahot mushqil ho gya h.... Truely all youngsters need to hear this topic🙏
Excellent video. Always original, Always correct. Hard hitting and true. "Comparisons may be made only when the starting line is the same" Don’t compare yourself with people who are ahead by a generation as their parents have left them a fortune. Don't be bitter about your situation by comparing with them. Understand the difference.Dont be jealous. Accept your destiny and be at peace.
Dear Sir, FANTASTIC ANALYSIS. MIND BLOWING EXPLANATION. The statement "There is nothing great in being either poor or rich" and also adding bombastic metaphors like "Being poor I struggled a lot and made every effort to come up in life". Being poor it is quite natural for anybody to work hard in order to come up in life otherwise please accept the status quo. In the below mentioned book Sapiens: A Brief History of Humankind - June 10, 2018 by Yuval Harari (Author) Author makes a statement. If you find any rich person in any part of the world one thing is clear that he or she would have been born to rich parents. Because of this reason only "RAGS TO RICHES TO STORY" becomes sensational and it is a rarest phenomena.
I also noticed this when I was in services. Leave the senior juniors, Group A officers compared their savings, assets with me, a Group C soldier. My parents were both working and have achieved a lot which gives me absolute financial freedom. My officer IC used to say in informal gathering that he has more money in PF, i felt- why is he comparing apples to oranges! You were about to say that 'I have seen this in services also' 😁
100% identifying. I think the art of comparing properly and effectively requires high-order thinking which majority of people (who can be otherwise smart) dont think about. Whenever my wife/friend shows some other person living a lavish lifestyle, the first thing I ask is how loaded are their parents. Agar loaded hain, tab mera brain ke andar ke comparison ka switch hi off ho jaata hai.
ID sir !! Amazing unique content you bring...no one talk about this. The best line was Garibi is not great thing. I don't understand why in india people glorify Garibi. You are truly blessing in my life sir 🌟🙏🙏
Sir, this is actually one of your deepest and most meaningful videos if people do self analysis. I realised these aspects when I looked back in life that my classmates or colleagues who had even some backing from parents in the form of property or land were more confident and stress free. They were bolder and able to take risk because they always had a fall back option. With that they leaped ahead. Even my Gp A batchmates, those whose parents were also Gp A, they were already confident in career and environment. They also had the right guidance from their parents and the network. First timers like me took few years just to understand the operating environment.
Last 19yrs.se is type ki jeaoulsy tolerate kar rahi hoon. My inlaws think why my myaka is fortunate & priviliged with money & family???? They torture me mentally & curse my siblings also. 😔😓
Best content,thank you Sir Saaransh yahi hai,k apni life aur growth pe focus Karo Jo gadi mili hai wo chalao,audi, Mercedes se compare karne ki jarurat nahi.agar apki Tata Nexon hai to wo Khushi se chalo.
What a great view point you have presented here, I would request you to make video for people who don't have guidance and end up doing something that was really meant for them. How can they get back om track and leave their past behind?
My senior used to compare with me and used to make my life miserable. I have generational wealth and house near workplace. He used to say this guy has a palace even if it is a 30x40 site private home and I was planning to buy bmw in corporate senior can see what you browse and always used to mentally torture me by saying he will buy a bmw by making me feel even tough I am working hard he wants to put his insecurities onto me.
100 percent identified I am working as a junior Engineer in IR but one JE can have less liabilities and better life than SSE or Grade A officer who is staying in Government accomodation if JE's wife is working and have ancestrial property and support from family and if he has good finance acumen and critical decision making skills he will always be ahead
ID. Everyone has their own unique starting line. Its not just the financial status but even health, good looks, fitness, and most importantly Intelligent Quotient which can give a huge head-start to anyone launching their adulthood.
Sir I was facing the issues with you told in this video. Thanks for wonderful guidance. Seriously this kind of content is not there on net. You use to observe real problem or society and give us proper solution.
Thank you sir for making such video... Making us realise these things... The rush to earn more and show off is increasing.. There is large difference between the previous generation and current generation... In thinking... We are heading to more of materialistic and superficial world...
One more thing in India parents only compare their kid with others kids but forget to compare themselves with others parents and always expect ki humara bacha miracle kar de Hume gareebi se nikal de bla bla but wo khud ye baat accept nii karenge ki ha hum gareeb h and iska impact rahega in next generation and they never say the reality also
ID I knew these facts but somewhere was not able to understand or realise the implication. And specially never thought of explaining them to kids, but now I do. Thank you for this video
This video reminds me of a quote that i noted down in my journal a while ago. “Everyone looks at the finish line to see who finished first. But no one realises this, that not everyone starts from the same starting line.” This is highly relatable! Thanks for sharing these thoughts!
Mujhe lagta hai ki rich family wale se bhi compare karna chahiye but sirf paise me nhi. Physical health, mental health, strength of relationships among family members, time freedom, energy freedom, location freedom sabhi cheejo me. You will find that there is no more difference between happiness of you and him.
The content of these videos is so so unique...amazing clarity on an issue which no body will ever discuss..I really feel that these videos should be part of school and college curriculum of our country...priceless contents
Yes, indeed. Very true.
Kitna sukoon milega aajke youth ko …they are lucky to get such videos ….we had to experience life the hard way as there was no clarity giver ….could have avoided so much heartburn…anyway umr ke saath maturity aa gayi …good for youth 👍 thank you for providing clarity ….God bless 🙏🏻
Just wanted to share... You can compare two salaries, two houses and perhaps two ages...
But two lives (persons) are totally unique and incomparable. God bless all of us !!
100% identifying. Thanks for making this video. This video should be played in school, college and corporate houses. It will save people from developing negative thoughts and getting depressed. In my own case, I could not make much in life for all the reasons you said in the beginning. But now, after hearing you my regrets have disappeared. Yes, but my son will definitely live better life that me.
It is so funny that how we keep the baggage with us & someone says that it's a fuckin baggage you've been carrying since 10yrs & it looks so easy to drop it then n there n also looks foolish n painful to see that how we wasted so much energy for that
@@Hypocrite420yes
ID, It took me 4 years of working to realise this fact. I was amazed how colleagues with same salary have better life than me, now I know the fact. Thanks sir, wanted to hear this from long. I feel good now.
Frustration comes when parents knowingly don't earn more money and relax throughout life thereby making the children poor.
+1
Mera baap to Kamata bhi nhi hai
@@AnkitKumar-kk3iw mera baap hi nhi hai
Bhai sabse bhadiya agar tumhare baski kamana khana nhi hai to bacche paida mat kro bekar mai auro ki zindagi bhi kharab kerni
I liked the starting line concept very much. I think "don't compare others to yourself at all' kind of advice never works. So, whenever we are about to get frustrated by this comparison, the starting line concept along with the idea to focus on our own journey of life can provide a rational way to stay calm and satisfied!
Thanks for the content!
गुरु जी,
जल्दी से किसी को मैं accept नहीं करता, महीनो सुन ने के बाद आज कमेंट डाल रहा हूं,.
You are very good in Clarity for youth.
However I am 53 and relate in almost in all, what you say.
I haven't seen such content any where and the style and presentation.
I am impressed and bow to you.
Class bias is very true and real
My in laws were from richer class
They ill treated me always in life
Now i am older ...
So i am ok about it
I am detached
Sir so many languages but you always speak #facts.
Huge respect!
Intersting topic. It's better to maintain distance from these kind of jealous comparing people. You find them everywhere. It could be your siblings, relatives, neighbors or friends.
बेहतरीन टॉपिक , सोच को नई दिशा देते हुए ।
धन्यवाद अमित जी
ID. True.... Most of the people in my family do lot of comparision and feel jelois of others. Baselining of their position of current and past and comparing that with ourselves will give clean comparision. Starting line is very important.
Destiny sets the starting line different for different people.What an original idea of yours sir ji.🌹
Aajkal aise bahot km log h jo itna clear baat krte h....Sahi me Apni apni destiny ko accept karna bahot mushqil ho gya h.... Truely all youngsters need to hear this topic🙏
Excellent video. Always original, Always correct. Hard hitting and true. "Comparisons may be made only when the starting line is the same" Don’t compare yourself with people who are ahead by a generation as their parents have left them a fortune. Don't be bitter about your situation by comparing with them. Understand the difference.Dont be jealous. Accept your destiny and be at peace.
😮😢
Dear Sir,
FANTASTIC ANALYSIS. MIND BLOWING EXPLANATION.
The statement "There is nothing great in being either poor or rich" and also adding bombastic metaphors like "Being poor I struggled a lot and made every effort to come up in life". Being poor it is quite natural for anybody to work hard in order to come up in life otherwise please accept the status quo.
In the below mentioned book
Sapiens: A Brief History of Humankind - June 10, 2018
by Yuval Harari (Author)
Author makes a statement. If you find any rich person in any part of the world one thing is clear that he or she would have been born to rich parents. Because of this reason only "RAGS TO RICHES TO STORY" becomes sensational and it is a rarest phenomena.
I also noticed this when I was in services. Leave the senior juniors, Group A officers compared their savings, assets with me, a Group C soldier.
My parents were both working and have achieved a lot which gives me absolute financial freedom. My officer IC used to say in informal gathering that he has more money in PF, i felt- why is he comparing apples to oranges!
You were about to say that 'I have seen this in services also' 😁
Agree with you. I stand on the shoulders of my grandparents and father, so don’t just compare with me, I have 3 generations behind me
1000 percent you’ve hit the bullseye
100% identifying. I think the art of comparing properly and effectively requires high-order thinking which majority of people (who can be otherwise smart) dont think about.
Whenever my wife/friend shows some other person living a lavish lifestyle, the first thing I ask is how loaded are their parents. Agar loaded hain, tab mera brain ke andar ke comparison ka switch hi off ho jaata hai.
Right.Very wise thinking.
Good morning from ottawa .you have punctured various minds .keep,these type of videos in future .
ID sir !! Amazing unique content you bring...no one talk about this. The best line was Garibi is not great thing. I don't understand why in india people glorify Garibi. You are truly blessing in my life sir 🌟🙏🙏
Maharaj jee
Excellent sukoon giving video to avoid useless frustration faced by youth. Which
many times leads to many serious health issues.🙏
Everything that you have told in your videos, at some point of time my husband has told these things to me..he is a wise man no doubt.
100% identify this as 45 years old. Thank you for sharing this. Hope younger people understand this & avoid unnecessary stress.
I understand in summary: don't get dissatisfied with looking at others, try to get satisfied with what you have achieved .
Making total sense. Unfortunately people tend to compare unfairly
Sir, this is actually one of your deepest and most meaningful videos if people do self analysis. I realised these aspects when I looked back in life that my classmates or colleagues who had even some backing from parents in the form of property or land were more confident and stress free. They were bolder and able to take risk because they always had a fall back option. With that they leaped ahead. Even my Gp A batchmates, those whose parents were also Gp A, they were already confident in career and environment. They also had the right guidance from their parents and the network. First timers like me took few years just to understand the operating environment.
Its a great video, I've spent years of my life feeling depressed because of this. Thankyou sir
ID sir, what a way to communicate such a grave topic. Hats off to you
Last 19yrs.se is type ki jeaoulsy tolerate kar rahi hoon. My inlaws think why my myaka is fortunate & priviliged with money & family????
They torture me mentally & curse my siblings also. 😔😓
I think it is good point for marriage also..
Best content,thank you Sir
Saaransh yahi hai,k apni life aur growth pe focus Karo
Jo gadi mili hai wo chalao,audi, Mercedes se compare karne ki jarurat nahi.agar apki Tata Nexon hai to wo Khushi se chalo.
Enlightening video
Absolutely brilliant and much needed for today's times!! ❤️👍🏻
What a great view point you have presented here, I would request you to make video for people who don't have guidance and end up doing something that was really meant for them. How can they get back om track and leave their past behind?
My senior used to compare with me and used to make my life miserable. I have generational wealth and house near workplace. He used to say this guy has a palace even if it is a 30x40 site private home and I was planning to buy bmw in corporate senior can see what you browse and always used to mentally torture me by saying he will buy a bmw by making me feel even tough I am working hard he wants to put his insecurities onto me.
I so wish your videos were there when i was 21-22. I could have been in much better place than today. Maybe its just my destiny.
Yes identified. This gives lots of clarity and sukoon.
ID
Sir you are genius because you discuss things which ppl think in their hearts but are embarrassed to discuss !
Very right. As said by you in the nepotism video, the difference between a struggler and a protégé is one generation.
ID
Instead of options or variety, I really like the word buffet.....because clarity comes itself when you think about buffet.
Yes sir.. fully identifying.
Moment of Truth... 👌
100 percent identified
I am working as a junior Engineer in IR but one JE can have less liabilities and better life than SSE or Grade A officer who is staying in Government accomodation if JE's wife is working and have ancestrial property and support from family and if he has good finance acumen and critical decision making skills he will always be ahead
Yes we are identifing❤
an eye opener for all who r in Rat race 👍🙏
id
Sir totally identifying with your content 🙏
Very much appreciate your directness Phaji 🙏
Guru Tatva,
Very true, well connected and very well explained.
There is no point in being envious, accept and move forward
Yes sir, your videos are very much relatable and thank you for speaking hard facts without any filters.
Everyone is traveling in their own timespan , you are great sir
Great clarity Sir
ID. Everyone has their own unique starting line. Its not just the financial status but even health, good looks, fitness, and most importantly Intelligent Quotient which can give a huge head-start to anyone launching their adulthood.
Sir I was facing the issues with you told in this video. Thanks for wonderful guidance. Seriously this kind of content is not there on net. You use to observe real problem or society and give us proper solution.
Pure content. No bakwas
Thank you sir for making such video... Making us realise these things... The rush to earn more and show off is increasing.. There is large difference between the previous generation and current generation... In thinking... We are heading to more of materialistic and superficial world...
100% identify sir. Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge and guidance.
One more thing in India parents only compare their kid with others kids but forget to compare themselves with others parents and always expect ki humara bacha miracle kar de Hume gareebi se nikal de bla bla but wo khud ye baat accept nii karenge ki ha hum gareeb h and iska impact rahega in next generation and they never say the reality also
ID I knew these facts but somewhere was not able to understand or realise the implication. And specially never thought of explaining them to kids, but now I do. Thank you for this video
Excellent concept and content, makes life easier
Ill be definitely applying them...aur.. comments me meko uncle aunty sb apne kahani likte dikh rhe... Acche gajah pe aa gya mai thanks!
Very unique perspective sir.. i m very happy listening to you
ID,
Everyone can relate to it.great topics.
No one discusses this
Good one , nice topic need of the hour 😃👍❤️😇🙏
Guruji,
One of the best content ever which i heard on RUclips till yet..
Absolute gold.. ur doing a gr8 justice to this society more than what parents are doing !!
Sir,
Very good discussion.
This education will help to focus on own bussiness in full capacity.
Ekdam original content hai siir apka, original content 👌
Excellent sir, it's wisdom what you preach, hats off
In my opinion, the comparison should be with peers of your father's/mother's professional friend circle. Not even relatives.
You are real guru so thanks for velueable knowledge
Yes, I identify with the issues & advice you bring
This is 💯 % true sir.
Comparison har jagah hai eg same height people become friends, toppers have different groups, same class people become friends.
Great analysis and teaching sir💐💐
ID sir..ek ek chiz ID sir..👌😎 Aap vo CONTENT laa rahe ho Jo AAMAR ho gaya ab..🙏😊
Very true 🙏
This video reminds me of a quote that i noted down in my journal a while ago.
“Everyone looks at the finish line to see who
finished first.
But no one realises this,
that not everyone starts from the same starting line.”
This is highly relatable! Thanks for sharing these thoughts!
Thanku sir for making these kind of videos....Haan aapke is video se maine sikha aur haan sir thoda dard, frustration Kam hua
Good msg for youth
Absolutely ✅️
Wow wonderul explanation about this topic which is never discussed👍
Very aptly said, can co-relate this in today's time
Your analysis and thought process is remarkable
Apki videos dekhane k baad life main bohat sakoon h.
Thanks sir 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Id❤❤❤❤❤❤
You are changing my thinking and perspective!
Yes, what you are saying is true.
Mujhe lagta hai ki rich family wale se bhi compare karna chahiye but sirf paise me nhi. Physical health, mental health, strength of relationships among family members, time freedom, energy freedom, location freedom sabhi cheejo me. You will find that there is no more difference between happiness of you and him.
Very well identifying, as always a unique topic 👏 covered nicely thanks sir ji
Sir you are doing a great job🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Abs correct and well put
Very valuable ideas
Pure gold.
Needed to hear this. Thank you very much sir.
Dhanyawad Guruji!🙏
Very nice content.. Great work!!
Sir,you are showing us path of our life ahead!
Sir, you are changing people's life.
Gazab ki teaching h. Very nice
Brilliant content
Will be sharing in my channels