Weird Struggles ONLY MALES Will Understand

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  • Being a boy comes with a whole package of weird things girls will never be able to relate to. Guys, you know what we are talking about here. Check out today's new video to find out why being a male is seriously weird.
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  • @fittypea
    @fittypea 2 года назад +5809

    i like the typo where the dad says “you better be a gentlemen and THREAT my daughter with respect”

    • @fortheloveofking
      @fortheloveofking 2 года назад +442

      Gotta teach her to behave.

    • @chummysomething9828
      @chummysomething9828 2 года назад +459

      “You better behave or else I’ll respect you”

    • @Commissar_Eiven
      @Commissar_Eiven 2 года назад +151

      Gotcha disrespect her every moment I get

    • @_P0tat07_
      @_P0tat07_ 2 года назад +59

      🤣 was going to come make a comment about that

    • @DoomSlayer-gj8qb
      @DoomSlayer-gj8qb 2 года назад +107

      Listen here you piece of greatness!
      If you don’t go to the dance with me I’m gonna understand and walk away!

  • @stephenventura4075
    @stephenventura4075 2 года назад +750

    My parents never ever gave me “the talk”. I just discovered it through my friends and the internet

    • @james__anna_burns4885
      @james__anna_burns4885 2 года назад +55

      same, my parents never gave me "the talk" cause they never lied to me. i always knew where babies came from. dont get why parents think its so bad to tell people. fr, some kids are legit scared theyre gonna get pregnant if they like someone cause parents dont wanna talk about it.

    • @JakobIsOkay
      @JakobIsOkay 2 года назад +11

      Same, I think they tried one time but I was just like yeah I already get the memo.

    • @RB01.10
      @RB01.10 2 года назад +9

      Oh jeez I hope it wasn’t adult videos because that can mentally scar a kid
      It’s only supposed to be for 18+ anyway

    • @constanceleah118
      @constanceleah118 2 года назад +8

      I went with the honesty approach with my 4 kids. My youngest is 20 now and a few of mine are trying to start families, but there haven't been any unexpected surprises ❣️ And, my favorite part is, awkward moments or not, we can all talk about anything to one or another of us. If it is too much for them to tell me, they talk to each other openly. So I know they'll figure (almost) everything out that I did miss 😆

    • @mikeandong4589
      @mikeandong4589 2 года назад +1

      me too

  • @funwithmagnus8570
    @funwithmagnus8570 2 года назад +47

    Great work. My son is three, about to turn four and he said a few weeks ago "daddy I want a beard like you so I can shave." (Exact words, he's very well spoken). It made me tear up a bit. I used to be rather emotionless and a borderline sociopath until I had kids. Now I'm so emotional over them and kids in general. I'll get them learning from this show when they're eight.

  • @tuckering7777
    @tuckering7777 2 года назад +93

    This feels a lot different to a British school, boys in the changing rooms spray tons of Lynx Africa deodorant everyway instead of showering and we wip each other with our belts instead

    • @LunazWish_
      @LunazWish_ 2 года назад +4

      Lol exactly

    • @tommugullian4674
      @tommugullian4674 2 года назад +3

      In my school, first one to leave got to pick the next P.E session, so you know that someone is gonna start using deoderant as soap and water

    • @p-999lazer2
      @p-999lazer2 2 года назад

      In my school we don’t even use changing rooms anymore because because of covid so I can basically bring my own clothes two times per week, I only have to wear a school T-shirt.

    • @LunazWish_
      @LunazWish_ 2 года назад

      @_Oceans_Edits_ lucky

    • @LunazWish_
      @LunazWish_ 2 года назад +1

      @_Oceans_Edits_ yeah exactly, been there for a year and never wanna go back lol

  • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
    @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj 2 года назад +1334

    I had 7 brothers so I understand men pretty well and their struggles. There are pros and cons to being a man or a woman. You cannot get it all.

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj 2 года назад +38

      @zerse What do you mean?

    • @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
      @TrinhNguyen-sh4fj 2 года назад +76

      @zerse not really! Maybe not understand all men but you generally get an idea of how they are as there is a pattern of behavior. But of course each individual is different.

    • @yamumsucks4864
      @yamumsucks4864 2 года назад +17

      don’t matter how many siblings u got u won’t know till you go through it

    • @greathoonta3461
      @greathoonta3461 2 года назад +41

      @Zuzu maybe her family is a very open family? Maybe she just means she has seen most social struggles? You never know.

    • @bluetreats1321
      @bluetreats1321 2 года назад +4

      Facts

  • @equinoxx1813
    @equinoxx1813 2 года назад +1854

    Man. I'm a female but I love learning about this stuff. It really helps give you a new perspective on things and how others go through life

    • @afsmeg
      @afsmeg 2 года назад +92

      Right? It's really interesting to see this side!

    • @Awizard_on_the_internet
      @Awizard_on_the_internet 2 года назад +217

      Oh so you like watching us suffer nice

    • @equinoxx1813
      @equinoxx1813 2 года назад +151

      @@Awizard_on_the_internet puberty is hard for both sides, that's why I like watching stuff like this so I'm not one sided

    • @Awizard_on_the_internet
      @Awizard_on_the_internet 2 года назад +51

      @@equinoxx1813 ok that fair

    • @goatsanimations4480
      @goatsanimations4480 2 года назад +42

      Ah yes, females watching us suffer

  • @ParisFletcher
    @ParisFletcher 2 года назад +239

    Yes, I can confirm that us males are under this kinda constant pressure to act tough, male-like, it's just how it's intergrated into society that makes us behave in a specific way, but maybe it's sorta instinctual.

    • @greathoonta3461
      @greathoonta3461 2 года назад +18

      I think you are 100% correct, but I’m gonna be honest the advantages of being a guy somewhat makes it worth it. If you show the confidence it’s really easy to lead a room. It’s very easy to get respect. Sadly people don’t think the same of women, but nevertheless it is an advantage of being a guy.

    • @sxrthxk3938
      @sxrthxk3938 2 года назад +3

      biological too

    • @Name-me5su
      @Name-me5su 2 года назад +2

      Well it has its ups and downs

    • @c.a.fontaine1074
      @c.a.fontaine1074 2 года назад +3

      @@greathoonta3461 I'm not a man but I was socialized to never cry and always keep it together especially in public. Being told that you shouldn't cry is damaging and the few times I have cried in public made me feel so ashamed.

    • @Thatguywhomakesranzomeditz
      @Thatguywhomakesranzomeditz Год назад +3

      @@greathoonta3461 honestly does not u woudnt understand the pains im not sayign u girls dont have pains but trust me beign a guy si bery bad

  • @DJFNaFMan
    @DJFNaFMan Год назад +15

    I’m glad I don’t live in America

  • @SubvertTheState
    @SubvertTheState 2 года назад +866

    One thing is kind of messed up about growing up as a boy. You are marked for life. Unless you can shake the past, move somewhere new and have good luck. Getting suspended, detention, failing a class, word gets around. Teachers will reinforce your perceived social cast, I was shy so I became a bit of a class clown. I wasnt rude or disruptive, just did really good impressions and witty sarcastic comments. But teachers would subtly ruin your life. "That's not the topic I gave you"
    but this is 4 weeks of work.
    "Either fail or do it again?"
    But hey you definately learn resilience strategies early as a male.

    • @jefferyepstein9210
      @jefferyepstein9210 2 года назад +87

      Teachers love to crush the soul of any student who is not a conforming robot.

    • @mudbucket1354
      @mudbucket1354 2 года назад +43

      this applies to everyone but yes it is worse with men

    • @missouribackwoodsadventures
      @missouribackwoodsadventures 2 года назад

      You were a God in my HS if you got OSS lol

    • @sirskorge
      @sirskorge 2 года назад +1

      Seems like a problem for weak betabois. Guessing you've already been told this: Man up.

    • @shaunnh2a585
      @shaunnh2a585 2 года назад

      Very well put 👍🏻

  • @thehangmansdaughter1120
    @thehangmansdaughter1120 2 года назад +268

    My Dad had the "talk" with the first boy who took me to a dance. Corey just looked at him and said "I don't really understand what you're saying, because we're 12." I could hear Dad roaring with laughter from the other end of the house.

    • @colalegends0.065
      @colalegends0.065 11 месяцев назад +4

      He was probably like he is pure enough you passed the test my boii

    • @thiagogregory1
      @thiagogregory1 Месяц назад +1

      Who is Corey?

    • @thehangmansdaughter1120
      @thehangmansdaughter1120 Месяц назад +1

      @@thiagogregory1 The boy who came to collect me for the dance.

    • @user-uo7fw5bo1o
      @user-uo7fw5bo1o Месяц назад

      I guess your dad went through puberty when he was 12!

    • @thehangmansdaughter1120
      @thehangmansdaughter1120 Месяц назад +1

      @@user-uo7fw5bo1o I'd say that's about right. I was well into puberty at 12, but Corey wasn't.

  • @digitaldestruct241
    @digitaldestruct241 2 года назад +112

    Girls: “why won’t the boys talk to us?”
    Look, we go through a whole mental plan just to speak to you. First we have to come up w/ something to say, then we have to think if the sentence conveys the right message, we then choose the best tone to suit our intentions, after that we second guess ourselves and wonder how you’ll react, so we then reword our sentence about 13 times like it’s college thesis, then comes the moment of truth on wether or not we let the phrase exit our mouths. 80% of the time we don’t. Keep in mind, this is just the formula for how we say “what’s up?” Or tell a joke to you.

    • @Losjo4093
      @Losjo4093 2 года назад +15

      And then The girl says"no i dont want to hear ur terrible jokes...

    • @qaz2240
      @qaz2240 Год назад +10

      Can’t we just say both sides are equal gawdamn 💀

    • @liamblack2574
      @liamblack2574 Год назад +5

      Not always….Outta the blue got into a random silly Barney with some woman over a petrol pump. I felt bad and offered to buy her a coffee, we been married 9 years and have two great kids… and another kid too lol

    • @aidandiederich8718
      @aidandiederich8718 Год назад +6

      @@qaz2240 there not the equal tbh

    • @qaz2240
      @qaz2240 Год назад +2

      @@aidandiederich8718 they are equal tbh

  • @themetalone7739
    @themetalone7739 2 года назад +125

    When it comes to the "emotionless male" thing, people tend to focus on the "don't cry" aspect of it (which I've literally never heard anyone seriously say, in my life), but the primary emotion that gets covered up is nervousness...not sadness. Hiding sadness is in there too, but it's not nearly as common.
    Learning to hide a lack of confidence is something most guys have to learn at some point, because you're gonna have a really hard time finding someone to be with romantically if you can't ask them out without being a nervous mess. Women will reject you and not even be nice about it.
    Can't look like a wuss in front of your friends, as a kid, so you better act tough even if you don't feel it.
    I could go on, but I think you get the picture.

    • @p-999lazer2
      @p-999lazer2 2 года назад

      Ye confidence is important

    • @maz1071
      @maz1071 2 года назад +7

      You’ve never heard anyone say “boys don’t cry”? If you cried then everyone would just laugh at you and mock you forever. I want to know about where you grew up

    • @themetalone7739
      @themetalone7739 2 года назад +4

      @@maz1071 I've heard the expression, but never seen it used in a real-life situation. Crying got mocked, boy or girl, because children are terrible without having to discriminate.

    • @maz1071
      @maz1071 2 года назад +6

      @@themetalone7739 for me whenever any boy cried everyone would say that boys don't cry and to man up, I've even seen teachers say that to little kids.

    • @themetalone7739
      @themetalone7739 2 года назад +3

      @@maz1071 Might be a difference in time/place. I grew up in the 90s and early 2000s, in Maine and New Hampshire.

  • @EkardRimidalv
    @EkardRimidalv 2 года назад +1864

    Boys' parents when we mention a girl: So have you thought about names for the kids?
    Girls' parents when they mention a boy: Stay away from him! He's the Devil himself!

    • @Keegan.999
      @Keegan.999 2 года назад +55

      Foosball is the devil Bobby

    • @AASSXIF-sy4ie
      @AASSXIF-sy4ie 2 года назад +18

      Lol bruhhh 🤣🤣🤣

    • @biscuitbear5613
      @biscuitbear5613 2 года назад +20

      Opposite for me lol

    • @johnascialpi5247
      @johnascialpi5247 2 года назад +16

      my parents didnt ask me that, I don't know what my girlfriends parents thought though!

    • @kyliemeic
      @kyliemeic 2 года назад +6

      Already got names…

  • @sakamotoverge3194
    @sakamotoverge3194 2 года назад +234

    I changed school every year and rolled with every school's rules so I somewhat amazed to learn about what most boys go through.

    • @Syndra_maximoff1
      @Syndra_maximoff1 2 года назад +5

      Why change school every year?

    • @Robot404_
      @Robot404_ 2 года назад +5

      The locker room is not really true anymore (in the U.S.). It was true when older people, like The Infographic's shows writers, were kids. But I'm 20 years old, and have been in and out of locker rooms my entire life and have never seen a dick.

    • @Syndra_maximoff1
      @Syndra_maximoff1 2 года назад +1

      @@Robot404_ will they it to you when asked?

    • @greathoonta3461
      @greathoonta3461 2 года назад +3

      @@Syndra_maximoff1 they could have a parent in the military, or they just live in an area full of different types or schools they switched ro

  • @basketballfan5762
    @basketballfan5762 Год назад +28

    My teachers used to try to embarrass me in front of people, or that’s what I felt like, except for my science teacher, I often got distracted because I have ADHD so I would struggle to get things done but my science teacher made it easier for me to get my work done and didn’t try to embarrass me in front of people and was pretty chill ngl

  • @siyazisambo1555
    @siyazisambo1555 Год назад +16

    Bro i felt that,as boys at school there were huge brawls between classes and most of us were never part of them,then they punished the whole grade of boys because "we were all trouble makers",it was horrible to experience, my voice also became deeper at 13 which was nice as it was earlier than my friends

  • @paullangland6877
    @paullangland6877 2 года назад +842

    In high school I avoided showers like the plague and actually talked to a school counselor about it, sort of. I just dropped in a conversation, but they were very understanding about it and it turns out at my school, it wasn't really a requirement since a lot of students also refused to use the showers too, so they didn't enforce it and felt no need too. However, my senior year, I couldn't avoid it. My wrestling team just had a practice during the Christmas break and we were actually going on a trip to statewide wrestling tournament. We were all sweaty and the team in general decided everyone needed a shower since the bus wasn't scheduled to arrive for another 30 minutes. I tried to avoid it but the team insisted and oddly enough it was fine. I used every excuse I could but there was a rebuttal for each one. But in the end I was forced into the shower.

    • @paullangland6877
      @paullangland6877 2 года назад +23

      @phil robichaud Cheers from the United State known as Wisconsin.

    • @joshua25k64
      @joshua25k64 2 года назад +4

      Wow 1 day ago.

    • @samanthaivyleigh
      @samanthaivyleigh 2 года назад +21

      As a woman, never once saw any female using the shower in high school locker room! Between hair, make up, and the effort that would take to redo never saw anyone in that area, except female janitor..and me and my bff smoking devil's lettuce

    • @grantwalter2243
      @grantwalter2243 2 года назад +1

      Did you use someone elses shower stuff?

    • @paullangland6877
      @paullangland6877 2 года назад +4

      @@grantwalter2243 Just some shampoo and body wash(the kind in the bottle). I think we had the air dryers to stand under which wasn't too bad.

  • @brandondavis7777
    @brandondavis7777 2 года назад +622

    Never got how "Man up" turned into "Be emotionless". It means take care of your responsibilities, solve problems, take action. My dads "the talk" was handing me some condoms and a bag of weed, asking me what they were and saying "good man" when I answered correctly.

    • @Keegan.999
      @Keegan.999 2 года назад +136

      Yo dad had just had a whole stash of weed on him ready 😂

    • @legofan-ic4df
      @legofan-ic4df 2 года назад +9

      @@Keegan.999 lol

    • @ImmortalChanger
      @ImmortalChanger 2 года назад +33

      okay, but that dismisses the entire reason why men talk about their problem in the first place. if I, one man, can't solve my problems because they are too big, how am I supposed to solve them if society tells me to "man up" without actually giving me advice?

    • @ghoshtanisha8343
      @ghoshtanisha8343 2 года назад +31

      I'm a girl and my dad tells me to man up and i say no imma woman up💀🤚

    • @diegohernandez8996
      @diegohernandez8996 2 года назад +10

      @@ghoshtanisha8343 that's not funny

  • @infinityz7134
    @infinityz7134 2 года назад +66

    Where I live, being emotional really isn’t a massive problem for me and other boys, the teachers and principals are fair and never ignorant to a situation, and I haven’t been physically attacked since 5th grade (stabbed by a pencil). But this video really makes me fortunate about being in this school, since the guy who wants you to fight him after school would probably immediately get suspended and would be immediately held accountable.

    • @queenleo3238
      @queenleo3238 2 года назад

      That's amazing. Now that's a good school I'm glad.

    • @deemogame3719
      @deemogame3719 2 года назад

      Bro your so gonna be bullied by society if you don't control your emotions

    • @dereksmith6693
      @dereksmith6693 2 года назад +4

      @@deemogame3719 im so sorry that you live in a miserable society thats different than his. But you shouldn't try to limit someone's emotion just because you live in a bad environment. Just let him express whatever he wants to. Either he's gonna get judged or not its none of our concerns

    • @cohenmore9525
      @cohenmore9525 Год назад +1

      I mean I literally got my head split open by some other kid throwing a bottle at me so I had no other choice but to cry and judging by the expression of everyone else they didn't blame me. And btw when you said you got stabbed by a pencil in 5th grade the exact same thing happened to another kid in my class.

    • @vocalising4218
      @vocalising4218 Год назад

      Where do you live if you don't mind me asking?

  • @LilWillieBeatz
    @LilWillieBeatz 2 года назад +16

    "threat my daughter with respect" Yes sir of course all the threats going to your daughter will be nothing but the utmost respectful 🙏

  • @adamslaroth6284
    @adamslaroth6284 2 года назад +266

    I have never understood the "you must fight after school if challenged" no you don't, I actually believe it's a mockery towards the bully if you don't show, it's like saying "You are not worth my time"

    • @Zaron_Gaming
      @Zaron_Gaming 2 года назад +24

      It's more the rep and ripples through the school. If you don't show up the whole school will find out and you could lose all sort of respect and be targeted by others. You may get bullied because they know they you won't stand up for yourself and if you stay in the same school district it'll follow you everywhere and you'll have to deal with it. These schools have their own internal systems that are cruel. Yes you may be able to play it off by doing what you say but also maybe not.

    • @mastermindinclude7198
      @mastermindinclude7198 2 года назад +7

      kinda yeah... ive skipped school fights... and escaped fighting a few.... but its like even the bully forgets about it sometimes...

    • @Schoflixx
      @Schoflixx 2 года назад +2

      thought processes like this have to come from places that don't really have smoke fr.

    • @toastboii
      @toastboii 2 года назад +4

      I'd just downright say no right then and there lol

    • @jeorgeramirezgonzolezsanti3178
      @jeorgeramirezgonzolezsanti3178 2 года назад +11

      @@Zaron_Gaming never wait till after school. If we're fighting we're doing it now!

  • @linksstruepower7443
    @linksstruepower7443 2 года назад +426

    Jokes on you. First time I hung out with a female friend, we went and saw that movie about the reincarnating dog. And yes I cried. And I am not ashamed.

    • @uncrustable9923
      @uncrustable9923 2 года назад +15

      ohh I seen that one

    • @lead_head
      @lead_head 2 года назад +45

      A Dogs Purpose? That movie was horrendously saddening. I have no shame crying to that, after all everyone in the theater was with me.

    • @queenleo3238
      @queenleo3238 2 года назад +19

      @@lead_head @Link's True Power honestly ☹ if a male cried to that with me they'd have my heart idk why 💀

    • @joechilds3256
      @joechilds3256 2 года назад +5

      That and Marley and me

    • @pajkelley4789
      @pajkelley4789 2 года назад +10

      Good for you! I'm glad you chose to be a REAL guy and show your emotions. It's only human...

  • @uday2101
    @uday2101 Год назад +29

    It feels like you are telling your personal experiences 😂😂

    • @Ratmasa
      @Ratmasa Год назад

      might have not happened to you but all of this for sure did to me

    • @pranavingale6850
      @pranavingale6850 Год назад

      @@Ratmasa such things happen in American schools, that guy doesn't look American atleast by name!

  • @AVSCOUNTRY2024
    @AVSCOUNTRY2024 2 года назад +11

    As a Sophomore in High school, experiencing his first year in high school. My dad never had the “talk”. I can’t pull the girls but this year has been a monumental step in the right direction, just gotta keep on rolling baby, we got 2 years left and man am I ready to go off

    • @RB01.10
      @RB01.10 2 года назад +1

      Speaking from experience, enjoy it while you can because it’ll all be over before you know it

    • @AVSCOUNTRY2024
      @AVSCOUNTRY2024 2 года назад +4

      @@RB01.10 I’m enjoying every minute of it, except the drama. Legit I get a birthday kiss from this Girl and she could’ve said no, but she somehow did it, and I kid u not she starts spreading these rumors about me, Girls are just different

  • @erik8727
    @erik8727 2 года назад +240

    Haha hearing all this stuff makes me a decorated boy veteran.

    • @chipping9255
      @chipping9255 2 года назад +2

      Do you even know what a veteran means

    • @chipping9255
      @chipping9255 2 года назад +1

      @Aayush Alt just making sure

    • @erik8727
      @erik8727 2 года назад +9

      @@chipping9255 you know about jokes?

    • @chipping9255
      @chipping9255 2 года назад

      @@erik8727 it’s not that it’s just people are always using that word and making that word to seem as it’s a joke

    • @user-jt5vi8cm1m
      @user-jt5vi8cm1m 2 года назад

      @@chipping9255 i guess so

  • @ithegreat5609
    @ithegreat5609 2 года назад +247

    Whoever thought to go out on a date is the one who's paying. If a girl asked you, she's paying and if a guy did he's paying. Simple enough.

    • @funky_tree
      @funky_tree 2 года назад +6

      Yeah

    • @BloodAsp
      @BloodAsp 2 года назад +42

      The thing is, the stigma, and often the expectation is that the boy will ask the girl out. Yeah, that is lame, and not always true for awesome people, but it still exists for many.

    • @LordGarlicBread
      @LordGarlicBread 2 года назад +5

      I like that

    • @aiyana_yk1557
      @aiyana_yk1557 2 года назад +30

      Yeah as I girl I think this is a great idea, not all men are always financially able to pay the bill even if they wanted to and I also think it should be more socially acceptable for girls to ask guys out.

    • @majajedrzejczyk7992
      @majajedrzejczyk7992 2 года назад +24

      Well, when I and my boyfriend go on a date, we pay for ourselves separately. We've been together for 3,5 years, engaged now, and it's always been like that. It's fair, I think.

  • @italicmuscle4786
    @italicmuscle4786 Год назад +5

    One way to not get in trouble at school is to get an early reputation for trying to avoid and never causing trouble. That way unless it was seen by multiple people you can be a bit crazy but if it was only you and someone else than you are not very likely to be blamed

  • @soupermanprofilepic4623
    @soupermanprofilepic4623 2 года назад +16

    I had a high pitched voice back at 2019. My last achievement before having a deep voice is my friends and I winning a choir group. This was a School Vs. School thing. There were a lot of schools and we won choir.

    • @tonk_guy839
      @tonk_guy839 2 года назад

      My friends say that i can make my voice wave bass if I want to

    • @62rubenmathew7
      @62rubenmathew7 Год назад +1

      My voice still hasn't changed that much but i ound too bad my voice is like distorted a little

  • @juliusevola2801
    @juliusevola2801 2 года назад +379

    The worst one is being a victim of misandry but not getting any attention because men are always guilty.

  • @williammuirhead6927
    @williammuirhead6927 2 года назад +34

    “Threat” my daughter with respect at 3:45. Your spellchecker needs a pay cut 😂

    • @opcr4366
      @opcr4366 Год назад +2

      No, you must threaten her with respect make her truly fear you through pure unadulterated respect.

  • @gerhardvanzyl239
    @gerhardvanzyl239 2 года назад +7

    4:45 wait...what..I never..WHAT

  • @ZelenskyPlane
    @ZelenskyPlane Год назад +3

    Man these struggles are specially American school struggles. Where I live, we don’t shower at school, and it’s rare to change in the changing room as we just wear our sports uniform to school.

  • @BMoney8600
    @BMoney8600 2 года назад +211

    I haven’t cried in years. Being a guy is great.

    • @doublethomas8415
      @doublethomas8415 2 года назад +58

      We're allowed at funerals and ball games

    • @noclue9222
      @noclue9222 2 года назад +12

      @@doublethomas8415 And everywhere else? Lol

    • @M_Sakura
      @M_Sakura 2 года назад +3

      its not lol

    • @BMoney8600
      @BMoney8600 2 года назад +17

      @@doublethomas8415 I didn’t even cry at my grandpa’s funeral and he was my best friend.

    • @alfonso5575
      @alfonso5575 2 года назад +15

      @@BMoney8600 wow you’re so cool..

  • @jonathanclark1156
    @jonathanclark1156 2 года назад +34

    Boys bathroom gives me flashbacks to Normandy

  • @Fantasy_Engineer
    @Fantasy_Engineer 2 года назад +4

    3:45 : "You better be a gentlemen and threat my daughter with respect."
    Me: Excuse me, what, typo?

  • @bradymaher9657
    @bradymaher9657 2 года назад +6

    As a Cross Country runner who had 4 days a week of morning practice, the locker rooms were interesting to say the least. We didn’t have time to go home to shower so everyone just did it at school. There were usually about 7-10 of us who would all go into this room with showers on the wall (usually enough for all of us) this was obviously pretty awkward especially if you weren’t an upperclassmen who had done it before. I fortunately didn’t do morning runs until my sophomore year, so I didn’t get hazed. too bad. But the towel whipping would get a little hectic post shower. There were some stories of kids getting peed on in the shower by upperclassmen, or getting their towels taken and not given to them until pretty much once class started. Just stuff like that. But I assume this doesn’t happen in the girls locker rooms😂

  • @austrakaiser4793
    @austrakaiser4793 2 года назад +26

    "You better be a gentlemen and threat my daughter with respect" That typo made me grin

  • @plusultra779
    @plusultra779 2 года назад +269

    “If one is born as a male, at least once in his life he will think of becoming the strongest”
    Many of them give up, due to old age or health issues, some just can’t get over their short comings, but there are some who never give up, and are called GRAPPLER

  • @hardpack187
    @hardpack187 2 года назад +58

    I snuck into my school's girl's locker room before. I was shocked and amazed at how luxurious it was. It was **exactly** the same size as the boy's locker room, but they each had separate shower stalls and separate changing rooms.
    I guess this was another example of "male privilege", right?

    • @cohenmore9525
      @cohenmore9525 Год назад

      Pervy much?

    • @Alan-yr6hj
      @Alan-yr6hj Год назад +16

      why would you snuck into a girl's locker room in the first place...?
      something wrong w you bro

    • @razacawe
      @razacawe Год назад +6

      Why do girls get more respect?

    • @samanthas6073
      @samanthas6073 Год назад

      Funny because I’ve been on military bases that only had male designated change rooms. I guess that’s female privilege, right?
      Get over yourself.

    • @anonisnoone6125
      @anonisnoone6125 Год назад

      Of course girls always get treated better. I guess teenage boys r just savages that don't deserve that luxury.

  • @kostascholas8751
    @kostascholas8751 9 месяцев назад +1

    3:42 “there’s no other moment more nerve racking … than meeting the parents”.

  • @Polarxey
    @Polarxey 2 года назад +62

    Bro, infographic show seems more 'intense' lately 🧐

  • @thepikachugamer6775
    @thepikachugamer6775 2 года назад +154

    infographics: boys don't cry
    me after watching Avengers endgame in 2019: its enough to make a grown man cry and that's ok

    • @DarkS707YT
      @DarkS707YT 2 года назад +5

      Everyone gonna be crying and screaming When we see toby in the new Spiderman movie too lol.

    • @immortalbun4342
      @immortalbun4342 2 года назад +5

      endgame was funny wym

    • @Syndra_maximoff1
      @Syndra_maximoff1 2 года назад

      They cry when i shame their small pp

    • @tacmonkey115
      @tacmonkey115 2 года назад

      @@Syndra_maximoff1 bruh

    • @Herowebcomics
      @Herowebcomics 2 года назад +1

      Yeah!
      Everyone cried after that!
      There is no shame in it!

  • @justyourfriendlyneighborho903
    @justyourfriendlyneighborho903 2 года назад +1

    0:38 gym class is actually great in the morning as someone who has it at 7: 45, in the summer it's warm enough near the end but nearer to noon it's already sweltering, especially if you're running

  • @aswantha3472
    @aswantha3472 Год назад +2

    3:43 THREAT MY daughter with respect, yep got it🤣💀

  • @AuRoaraAnimations
    @AuRoaraAnimations 2 года назад +51

    nothing is worse than puberty kicking in
    in the middle of class

    • @kilotiger7780
      @kilotiger7780 2 года назад

      puberty kicked in yo!

    • @LordGarlicBread
      @LordGarlicBread 2 года назад

      Yeah for either gender

    • @ondiiii536
      @ondiiii536 2 года назад

      Must be really traumatize

    • @TripMX
      @TripMX 2 года назад +3

      @@LordGarlicBread Yeah, but girls don’t have to worry about an obvious visible protrusion.

    • @LordGarlicBread
      @LordGarlicBread 2 года назад

      @TripMX Yeah that’s really bad. Starting to bleed during class is also bad. I don’t mean to say girls have it worse and guys have it easy of whatever, and I’m sorry if you that’s what you thought I meant.

  • @Faust_ZA
    @Faust_ZA 2 года назад +97

    the part where someone had a stify in class is real haha i never got called but some other guy got caught by our technology/gym teacher in front of the whole class

    • @TimmyTheTuna
      @TimmyTheTuna 2 года назад +5

      What do you mean caught it’s not like he can control other then mentally trying to think thoughts to stop it

    • @Faust_ZA
      @Faust_ZA 2 года назад +11

      @@TimmyTheTuna its cause he was busy misbehaving while he has a stiff one the he was asked to leave the class 😂

    • @TimmyTheTuna
      @TimmyTheTuna 2 года назад

      @@Faust_ZA uh ok…

    • @ilsgrade8357
      @ilsgrade8357 2 года назад +12

      .... good job. Embarrassing a child in front of a class for something he can't control. People like that don't deserve to be a teacher

  • @oliversherman2414
    @oliversherman2414 Год назад +1

    I love your channel keep up the great stuff!

  • @wavingwaters6107
    @wavingwaters6107 Год назад +9

    3:30
    Me a gay man: I don’t have such weaknesses

    • @brentanmiller5948
      @brentanmiller5948 Год назад +1

      no fr😭

    • @zowsi
      @zowsi Год назад +1

      For REAL i have like so many girl best friends to choose from 😭

  • @BaldOmniMan
    @BaldOmniMan 2 года назад +77

    If one is born male, every one will dream of one day Wanting to be the strongest in the world

  • @MissyFoxx
    @MissyFoxx 2 года назад +76

    I love how the bubble said, "you better threat my daughter with respect..." instead of "treat..." if y'all need an editor, I'd be happy to extend my services.

    • @DanklingBS
      @DanklingBS 2 года назад +7

      its just a typo though. these guys pump out tons of vids, i dont mind

    • @Yato_011
      @Yato_011 2 года назад +1

      Woah calm down all you’ve done was a PowerPoint presentation it’s just a typo these guys make so much vids their editor has to work every day

    • @polyrhythmia
      @polyrhythmia Год назад

      Freudian slip?

  • @joblin8225
    @joblin8225 Год назад +5

    When I was at school, I stopped showering after the pe lesson because on the rare occasion somebody did take a shower, the other boys would literally try to kick the door down!

  • @superluckyakipictures
    @superluckyakipictures 2 года назад +7

    0:54 Why is there a female teacher in the boys changing rooms ☠

    • @jaymessmoyer340
      @jaymessmoyer340 Год назад

      Call the cops... CALL THE COPS THEY CAN'T KNOW THE SECRETS OF THE BOYS LOCKER ROOM!

  • @prabhkiratsinghmarwah
    @prabhkiratsinghmarwah 2 года назад +44

    Girls in washroom : Taking photos and making videos.
    Boys in washroom: Yo bro ! You have a big one.

  • @scruip
    @scruip 2 года назад +60

    Honestly, the infographics show did an amazing job on this video, I could relate to just about everything.

  • @ISA333.
    @ISA333. Год назад +2

    *Middle school,is the place where i wana just end my life because of being unrespected by everyone,be called in names by everyone,and being rejected just because of one small internal hobby.*
    -me, aviation expert.

  • @bananenmusli2769
    @bananenmusli2769 Год назад +4

    From a German perspective, this school cafeteria stuff was really unfamiliar. In Germany (at least in Bavaria, It could be different in other states) the school day lasts from 8am until 1pm, so you don't really eat at school. And everyone showering after PE isn't really a thing at my school, since you aren't at school for hours, and you can use deodorant to not smell, and just shower when you come home.

    • @coopercameron
      @coopercameron Год назад

      A similar thing but usually 8pm-3pm, and we don't have the Cafeteria thing. At least I haven't experienced anything like it. I am from Australia.

  • @jmanj3917
    @jmanj3917 2 года назад +32

    "If the father is cleaning his shotgun when you show up for your date..."
    *Ms. Infographics: Shows a repeating rifle, not a shotgun*

    • @jeeperscreepers9114
      @jeeperscreepers9114 2 года назад +1

      It could be a lever action shotgun. They make shotguns like that too, especially .410

  • @abductedprince
    @abductedprince 2 года назад +99

    Please make a video on the struggles of Introverts and Ambiverts! I'd love that! Btw, this one was great! 🔥

    • @leafy126.5
      @leafy126.5 2 года назад +14

      I don't think that's a good idea. It'll just appease the crowd of people falsely claiming to be introverts just to seem quirky and get attention

    • @onichan6897
      @onichan6897 2 года назад +6

      @@leafy126.5 They probably are introverts. We are loud on the internet but in real life, we don't talk that much lol

    • @onichan6897
      @onichan6897 2 года назад +1

      @CARNAGE lol

    • @LebronShaqthe2nd
      @LebronShaqthe2nd 2 года назад

      @@onichan6897 nah people just lie about mental health problems they feel slightly more upset than usual for a week and diagnose themselves with depression

    • @onichan6897
      @onichan6897 2 года назад +1

      @@LebronShaqthe2nd introversion is not a mental problem and you can determine if you're an introvert or an extrovert depending on how you socialize.

  • @MiilkyWayys
    @MiilkyWayys 2 года назад +2

    Such entertaining videos never gonna unsubscribe keep up the great content

  • @dariusholcomb567
    @dariusholcomb567 Год назад +5

    Most intense typo I've ever read... "Threat my daughter with respect" 🥶

  • @ofskittlez
    @ofskittlez 2 года назад +58

    Me in high school: Ok the liking girls thing will kick in any minute ... aaaaany minute ...
    Me now: Oooohhhhh ... I'm gay!

  • @vladimirvilliani6732
    @vladimirvilliani6732 2 года назад +23

    im 4 minutes in the video and I, a male, have never experienced the majority of these things...
    also, are locker rooms and food fights gender specific??

    • @fmentertainment928
      @fmentertainment928 2 года назад +3

      For real

    • @aiyana_yk1557
      @aiyana_yk1557 2 года назад +4

      As a female I would say that the women's locker room wasn't chaotic at all nobody really did anything crazy but I dont think food fights are gender specific at all I've seen some girls start some pretty crazy food fights🤣🤣🤣.

  • @Frostborne2778
    @Frostborne2778 Год назад +1

    Bullies have never affected me. I’m one of the strongest people in my school but I like to isolate myself. When someone ever tells me “fight after school”, it’s a bad day for them and a broken nose or jaw.

    • @godrilla5549
      @godrilla5549 Год назад

      Same, The thing with bullies is they will leave you alone if you fight back, even if you get beat up.

  • @noxk1992
    @noxk1992 2 года назад +1

    I think I'm the only one in our school who was happy that the prom was cancelled due to covid. Though I can just hangout with my friends but the feeling of no one to dance with just feels awkward. I was happy since I got the optimal experience of not going through it.

  • @kabeerjaswal3571
    @kabeerjaswal3571 2 года назад +6

    Congratulations on hitting 11M guys!! Keep up the work👊🏻

  • @devenderkumar6115
    @devenderkumar6115 2 года назад +57

    This video is relatable af . 😵😵😂😂

  • @fionnhogan5328
    @fionnhogan5328 2 года назад

    After years of pressure I am almost completely emotionally numb and find it hard to show empathy and sympathy

  • @theelmogame
    @theelmogame Год назад +1

    The most dangerous part of my school in England are most teachers don’t go with a B at the back of School when nobody goes with a shady people
    Look, there are people at the back where nobody teacher looks, is where the shady people work their deeds of trading things that are banned such as prime and expensive items

  • @nightmxreeeeee3907
    @nightmxreeeeee3907 2 года назад +25

    we are proud to gift the 2021 award to the Infographics show for the 'most relatable channel ever'!

  • @rogersnick17
    @rogersnick17 2 года назад +60

    You detailed the boyhood experience down to a science.
    Remind me why I really loved my childhood.

    • @noahoakley339
      @noahoakley339 2 года назад +8

      No taxes, no responsibilities, free food, water, and shelter.

    • @zyrexnotpyrex3205
      @zyrexnotpyrex3205 2 года назад +2

      So true i hate my life in Germany this is NK

  • @nyanSynxPHOENIX
    @nyanSynxPHOENIX 2 года назад +9

    Working as a teacher, many of these aren't gendered, especially bullying and misbehavior. I would rather someone frame this as a personal story though than drawing a picture framed as absolute.

    • @frederiquelavigne5649
      @frederiquelavigne5649 2 года назад +4

      You're totally missing the point of what was said in the video. Bullying part was showing that the bulied has to act manly and be able to take a fight. We girls, react to bullying in totally different ways and don't have the same pressure.

    • @cameron9322
      @cameron9322 Год назад +1

      men and women are treated differently it’s. a fact either way you look at it.

  • @jacksonnash8126
    @jacksonnash8126 Год назад +4

    I know how they feel I feel the exact same way when I’m around girls it’s aqward and when a girl says she likes me I feel so uncomfortable

  • @britneybij3997
    @britneybij3997 2 года назад +7

    That would explain all the screams of horrors I heard from the boy's locker rooms
    And then they would just come to gym class like nothing happened???

  • @tigerdanny7296
    @tigerdanny7296 2 года назад +5

    The pig in the zip part brought back my childhood truma. Even listeining to that part sent shivers down my spine.

  • @fletzyproductions1190
    @fletzyproductions1190 2 года назад +6

    2:26 so true dude

  • @maxlavie6735
    @maxlavie6735 2 года назад +2

    bro so i asked out my crush and ahe said yes and so i went by here house and she was getting ready and i was talking to her dad and she said tonight it is prom, and be a gentleman and have fun. This has been in my head since ive started dating her 2 years ago

  • @theimperfectgod7140
    @theimperfectgod7140 2 года назад +18

    I have hair everywhere, why should i be shaving so much when i can't just shower properly.
    But if i could get 100% rid of armpit hair i certainly would.

    • @squirrelcovers6340
      @squirrelcovers6340 2 года назад +4

      Shave it off, I do.

    • @EyeonthePrize247
      @EyeonthePrize247 2 года назад +5

      @@squirrelcovers6340
      I trim mine 💀💀💀
      Shaving gets them wicked itchy at the slightest hint of sweat. 🤣

    • @luke5749
      @luke5749 2 года назад +5

      Hair removal cream bro you'll be hair free for a couple weeks

    • @luke5749
      @luke5749 2 года назад +4

      Just be careful looking down and getting it on your beard if you have one

    • @archermon373
      @archermon373 2 года назад +5

      Pit hair was a biological mistake. But yeah, I suggest trimming real short, bald turns scratchy like beard stubble real fast and its far more active

  • @wellidk556
    @wellidk556 2 года назад +41

    This sounds more like a personal problem not the entirety of boys problems

    • @TheRustedShackleford
      @TheRustedShackleford 2 года назад +23

      Willing to confirm, these are pretty typical US male experiences. Can't think of a single one that didnt affect me at one point or another.

    • @zero1188
      @zero1188 2 года назад +1

      exactly

    • @squirrelcovers6340
      @squirrelcovers6340 2 года назад +16

      Girls, in general, are afforded more privacy.

    • @romella_karmey
      @romella_karmey 2 года назад

      @@TheRustedShackleford how bout gay kids in the US how are they generally treated by straight boy classmates?

    • @meme-ih1wb
      @meme-ih1wb 2 года назад

      @@romella_karmey not very good depends on where you are in the US, ik my school the boys use gay as an insult

  • @reillysilver8015
    @reillysilver8015 2 года назад +3

    it amazes me how different American schools are from Aussies like we dont have lockers or changing rooms or prom. we dont have locker to shove all our books in we just carry every thing in our bags, if ur like me and just have one book a pen and money to buy lunch then yeah its easy. i literally have the smallest bag for school. and grading is different too primary is 1-6 and high school is 7-12. and ya done

  • @MCSkyscraper-MCExoticEurasian
    @MCSkyscraper-MCExoticEurasian Год назад +1

    I don’t know my sexuality so always lock myself in stall , better than dealing with low frequency moments.

  • @21menos1
    @21menos1 2 года назад +62

    As someone from middle east, only the first two to three minutes apply for me, lol. When you get to the dating part everything is different 😂

    • @lindsey7951
      @lindsey7951 2 года назад +9

      Yall have showers? this seems kind of dated because most american schools dont let students shower like that together

    • @slickflippies6498
      @slickflippies6498 2 года назад

      how is it different

    • @darkheliboi
      @darkheliboi 2 года назад +3

      @@lindsey7951 we don't

  • @DESIREDTRUTH
    @DESIREDTRUTH 2 года назад +4

    *Infographics show.. awesome video yet again*

  • @xcr8ivex708
    @xcr8ivex708 2 года назад +3

    "Middle school dance"
    I am in high school and I have still not had any physical interaction with any girl
    Pog

    • @zanehayes4380
      @zanehayes4380 Год назад

      I’m graduated and am in the same boat

  • @aidanchaidez7822
    @aidanchaidez7822 2 года назад +9

    2:36 my school has cameras everywhere yet they still punish everyone around the troublemaker cause it’s easier for them

    • @tayronrenkanyanunggun2961
      @tayronrenkanyanunggun2961 Год назад

      School has reached the new low

    • @jaymessmoyer340
      @jaymessmoyer340 Год назад

      Ima attach a god dang camera to my head as proof then if they try to suspend me and the boys the school is getting covered in tp.

  • @antonisparisis7026
    @antonisparisis7026 2 года назад +10

    Through the years I've been watching you guys I've learned so much. Now i see why school is pretty much useless 😂😂

  • @glockenspiel3806
    @glockenspiel3806 2 года назад +1

    1:53 for us its "after school is after school" once u hear that its wraps

  • @redsmokeunavailable8354
    @redsmokeunavailable8354 Год назад +1

    5:18 “hey nice cocktail” 😂😂

  • @nobodynoonenowhere5609
    @nobodynoonenowhere5609 2 года назад +4

    Very very true and straight to the point! 🤣

  • @PabloHernandez-gl5ij
    @PabloHernandez-gl5ij 2 года назад +3

    Yeah I remember when I was like that during my early teenage years nowadays kids have to worry about more than just that they have to worry about saying alive at school sometimes metaphorically sometimes quite literally.

  • @javo_the_goat
    @javo_the_goat Год назад +1

    I got in 2 fights in elementary but as soon as I got in high school and started weightlifting and playing football I never got in a fight again. Nearly everyone was my friend and those who weren't just stayed away from me. No one wanted to pick a fight with "big body/dump truck"

  • @bumbleandsimba
    @bumbleandsimba Год назад +2

    I dont get the body changes in public and I'm glad that's the case 😌 🙂

  • @SquatPenguin2
    @SquatPenguin2 2 года назад +13

    First time I ever shaved was in Basic Training, I didn't get everything and the Drill Sargent made me dry shave in front of everyone. Not very fun.

  • @braxtonjackson_
    @braxtonjackson_ 2 года назад +3

    When your teacher wants you to go to the board to solve a problem but you can’t…i felt that one😭😭

  • @crazycooper1024
    @crazycooper1024 2 года назад +1

    Ahhhh I remember the “good ole” Jr. high/Middle School gym day. I really dunno if my middle school or high school ever had a good fight though, not when I was in school at least.

  • @capzthequailguy4489
    @capzthequailguy4489 2 года назад +1

    Somewhat near correct, however at school for me the only thing taught socially & educationally was "that in life there is a social & economic ladder, I am not on it! And more than likely never will!"
    15 years later & every memory or person from back then makes me cringe, thank god for the Internet, isolation & a touch of infographics

  • @jaimerosas4874
    @jaimerosas4874 2 года назад +24

    Mhm I understand the pain for sure I feel all the pain being a teenager boy and if I can go to all the pain and get though it then I bet everyone can, just don't think about it to hard or overdo it everything will go your way but it will take time so I will come sooner then you think :)

    • @TheRealDemocat
      @TheRealDemocat 2 года назад +3

      yep, you're definitely a teenager alright.
      you're in for a rude awakening when you get older. As an adult you find out the hard way that happy endings are exclusive to Disney movies

    • @PerfectStorm1986
      @PerfectStorm1986 2 года назад +1

      @@TheRealDemocat yep ! RUDE AWAKENING !!!

  • @cherrymoonproductionscmp3378
    @cherrymoonproductionscmp3378 2 года назад +4

    My son is turning 10 years old end of the year and he's already asking questions. He's an A student and reads a lot so he's now asking questions so I'm in full dad mode

    • @luperdrgz
      @luperdrgz 2 года назад +1

      Sexplanations is a good channel to watch on RUclips that could help you with that, she has some good videos on the anatomy

  • @alessandraguerra5138
    @alessandraguerra5138 Год назад +2

    Its incredible how italian school is 100+ time harder.
    We dont even have events at school.
    When i was in middle school i knew only one thing: study for a whole week.
    We knew no girls or fun. Only study.

  • @christophermetcalfe4592
    @christophermetcalfe4592 Год назад

    Don't ever be afraid to stand up for yourself especially against a bully. Even when you fight him and loose but you hit him a few times. Next time he will leave you alone because he knows now you are gonna fight back and bullies don't like that

  • @ron8732
    @ron8732 2 года назад +15

    Men just flaunt their bodies when they're alone with someone or just when they feel muscular and good looking. They feel shy flaunting when it's in front of many and if they are not so muscular.. Usually