Ashima Mathur look at the actual evidence She was getting wasted on new years eve which is during her alleged pregnancy, and also a few weeks back she pranked collin saying she was pregnant, a bit insensitive for a man that just lost his baby.... and the suspicious part is when confronted about it, she proceeds to delete the drinking instagram posts and the prank vlog,
@@MaryamEemaAli-to3kc your hate doesnt belong here this is a positive comment section talking about sexuality etc, idk what this comment section has to do with gabi and her miscarriage. Please stop spreading hate for no reason.
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Niki, your content has really become to refreshingly honest and real. It never feels like you're putting on a show. I really love the direction your channel is going. I don't think I've ever commented before but I feel so compelled to with your recent uploads! Love it.
Yes! 🙌 When I tell someone I'm bi they always say "I don't understand you're married to a man" Yes, I am but that doesn't me I don't like girls. I love who I love.
@A_maya there’s nothing to “support”. As a gay person I hate when people say “i accept you for who you are” “I support you” like b$&@h I’m not on drugs I don’t need support I’m not doing anything wrong. I like guys instead of girls big deal
@@sonia-nq5pv nothing. Do you tell a straight person “I accept you” no. U never see that. Just treat me like any other person. Me liking guys instead of girls doesn’t entitle me to special treatment, I don’t want pity or acceptance or “support”. I’m not an alcoholic, I just like dick instead of vagina. Other than that I’m just like you.
I'd love to hear more about your story: What were the reactions of Nate, your parents, and Gabi? Were any of your friends not accepting of it? Did you lose friendships? Has you coming out actually helped you with gaining more friends? Thank you for sharing your story with us!!
@@itsjorgeroblox1779 No I know, I'm just saying that some people are not understanding or are very judgmental, I just wanted to know if she received any backlash from people close to her and how she overcame that!
@@itsjorgeroblox1779 coming out is scary and many people arent accepting of it. To you those questions may sound ridiculous but there really are people that react very very badly to someone not being straight. There are plenty of cases where people lost friendships/family etc etc after coming out. Its painful
Wasn't until my mid 30's I realized I was transgender, but coming out has been the best thing I've ever done. I'm so much happier being able to be my true self, and to have people accept me as my true self.
I relate so much, I’m married to a man who I love so much. We’ve been together almost 8 years, but I also know if I wasn’t with him and met him when I did, I absolutely would have been pursuing women only. The older I get, the more I am attracted to women. I’ve known I was bisexual for soooo long! How I feel about women doesn’t take away from my love for my husband in any way
@@plinkagirl I don’t think so. My husband is very accepting of my sexuality and I have been with women during our marriage. It’s just something we discuss if it’s necessary and set boundaries from the outset. I’m always upfront with any women as well if it is something to be spoken about, so everyone knows and it’s always clear. He has previously said as long as I don’t plan to leave him, he is open to me being with women should I choose
Don’t worry me too but Ik I’m not lol I just overthink it my advice is that just be yourself and don’t think it is a wrong thing to think or feel just don’t worry things will get better. :)
Yeah because she said like she stared dating her ex when she was a senior in high school and she didn’t date Nate until she was like maybe 21or 22 idk the exact age so don’t take my word for it
this is kinda cheesy but niki is coming out of the closet while she’s in her closet 😳 Edit: i thought people didnt actually liked comments on youtube... thanks for 1.6k likes
I’m a Pan*....in a relationship with a guy. I’ve been dating him for 4 years and that doesn’t make me less of a pan people need to understand that. Edit: broke up Update: he wants to get back together but I don’t because what I did wasn’t good. And I know what I did,he really does wanna get back together help. I just don’t think I deserve him,he’s to good for me Update:so we back together it’s been 5 months already 👽
i love how niki is comfortable with saying her sexuality online. edit: okay for anyone replying to this comment: i meant, if niki wasn’t comfortable with saying her sexuality online, she wouldn’t have straight up said “im bisexual” meaning i was just happy that she was open about it
you don’t know how happy i am to watch this video. being a bisexual woman myself it sometimes can be tricky while you are in a long-term relationship with a man. and that’s exactly what you said. it made me feel so connected to you and also accepted because i come from an asian background. i cannot thank you enough for this video, i hope you see this comment and stay happy just the way you are. (btw would love more videos like this, xoxo from maldives
This is really comforting to hear you talk about. As someone in a 3 year relationship with a man, I've accepted that the world sees me as straight, even though I don't feel that way. I never fully attached myself to the "bi" label because I still have these imposter feelings, but hearing stories like yours makes me feel valid.
I have the “imposter” feeling and I know that I’m lesbian but I still feel sometimes that I’m lying to myself and I’m not a nonbinary lesbian girl. I can see how you feel sometimes it’s hard and I know what you feel and I can connect to you 💕
niki, as someone who’s really confused rn about their sexuality, this video dropping felt like a sign, and i just want to say thank you for saying these things and being so kind and honest and idk i really needed this rn. thank you so much niki ilysm ❤️❤️❤️
the part at around 8:45 where you said “to those girls in a relationship questioning your sexuality its okay” made me cry, i feel like for the past couple of years ive been questioning whether or not i was bi but always was in a relationship with a guy and never had any experience with a girl and such and have been coming more in terms with it but i still love my boyfriend so much so it feels a little difficult to know ‘for sure’ if i am bi if that makes sense. but it was comforting to hear you say its okay and to not stress and doesnt matter how old you are so thank you and this is kinda stressful typing this out publicly since i havent talked about this with anybody (if anybody ik personally sees this look away)
I feel the exact same way! I'm in a long term relationship with a guy & never experienced anything with women, but only in the last couple of years did I begin to question my sexuality & only last year I said it out loud. I'm still questioning if I'm bi or straight, but as Niki said, there is no timeline to have everything figured out. I hope you feel more comfortable with yourself & accept yourself as you are. I'm still trying to do the same. I love my boyfriend & he's supportive but I do feel like I want to experiment a little with girls, however don't want to feel like I'm cheating on my bf, even if it's with his knowledge & consent. I would feel guilty because usually I'm very monogamous but I don't want to lose my boyfriend. I also want to explore that newfound side of myself more so I can understand myself, my feelings & attractions more.
Was in the same situation. I'm 28 though, not super young but not old yet either, but still felt like I was too old to still have questions regarding my sexuality. I wanted to find out for sure, so I ended up breaking things off with my bf so I could explore that attraction I had to other women since I was a child. He took things hard, but it was for the best. Didn't want to drag on a relationship if I wasn't even sure about my sexuality. Just do what feels right to you.
thank you so much for being so open. you helped me admit something to myself I’ve been avoiding for years and made me feel valid in my bisexuality even though I’m in a long term relationship with my boyfriend. so from the bottom of my heart thank you, I’ve never felt so free❤️
It makes me so happy that she’s more open about her sexuality cause I am bi and I’ve also just become more recently open about it, even tho I’m only a teenager I feel like I can connect with niki on such a personal level and I love that. Anyways I love you niki❤️
I often forget that they’re twins and in minute 4, I remembered that they once used to really look alike 🤯 but, I love that they are two completely different people makes them unique
I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and just came out as bi. He has been so supportive and I couldn’t ask for a better partner in life. I felt invalid for coming out as bi while still being with a man, but this video has really helped me feel like I can be who am I no matter who I’m with
Girl, throughout this whole video I felt you! I think I knew I was bi in middle school but decided to just bury it because I didn't know what to do. I came out to a friend in 2015 accidentally (they were very supportive and kind) and even now, it's weird for me to say it to people who assume I'm straight. It's weird- something no one ever told me was that once you come out, you KEEP coming out. It was so refreshing to hear you talk so openly and casually about your own journey. 🖤
i came out of being bi over two years ago and i feel happy. i’m so proud of niki of coming out and i feel more inspired now. i hope you have a blessed day! :) ❤️✨ 🏳️🌈
As a bi girl who's been in long term relationships with boys, this video was so incredibly relatable and it felt good to hear you talk about these things with such simplicity and without taboo. Thank you!
I love how you used the last 6 months doing alot inner work, healing your shadow self and becoming the best version of yourself. You inspire me in so many ways. I love you❤️
I absolutely love this video. Being a bisexual woman myself I often have felt the same way, when I came out, (and many people were unsupportive) I found myself counting my blessings that I also happened to like guys. I also am in a relationship with a man who I truly love, but it took me a long time to be able to say the words out loud again. I remember when I first started questioning my sexuality- I would often wonder if I wanted to “be” a specific girl. The answer usually turned out to no. I have followed your channel for years, and you have been an inspiration for me many times before. So thank you for making me feel so normal and taking away some of the bad feelings I had towards my own coming out story.
I’m happy that you feel comfortable talking to your fans about who you are & past experiences. You may not realize it, but it helps some people going through the same things that you’re going through, such as me. I haven’t fully him out to all my friends & family yet, but watching you makes me more comfortable with who I am. Love you girl!!🥺🖤🖤
I think you've inspired something in me that I haven't even been able to admit to myself until recently. And this video helped a lot to clarify it. I think im bisexual.
I really want to see you and gabi just talk about the hardships that were made public of course. But you two are such strong women.its truely inspiring
i just wanna say, thank you for posting content like this. it’s so important to normalize sexuality. being a bisexual woman myself, my whole life i felt like it was wrong or that i didn’t actually know what i felt or wanted. i hated the fact that i was attracted to women for such a long time and i fought against it. being able to look at someone else i admire talk about it so openly and be comfortable with it helps me and i know it will help so many others. you’ve created a safe space and that is so so SO important. ❤️
You seem soooo happy and confident and I’m so happy for you Niki. I’ve been here for a long time and been watching yourself bloom over the years, and I’m so proud of you. I love you so much!
i love niki so much. i feel like i always knew that she was bi and just waited to see her be comfortable enough with herself. it’s so amazing to see as a follower.
niki, you are so beyond brave for coming out on youtube. im honestly so proud. ive been here since the early days and seen you grow and become the amazing person you are. im so glad you feel comfortable enough to tell us this.
Quarantine treated you so well! You look AMAZING niki! I started watch you and gabi 24/7 during quarantine and I have seen you HLOW up in the last few months girl! You are more sure of yourself than you’ve ever been!
Wow, shes so chill! I wish I could talk about being bi like that... but, I just can't seem do it! Of course my parents know and stuff, but she's talking about this, and not being awkward! I love her, she's just like me... Love ya, Niki! ❤
I had the stereotypes about being Bi. Like being bi doesn’t mean you like girls 50% & guys 50%. Being in a relationship with a man doesn’t mean you don’t like girls. Vise versa.
Omg everything she's talking about.. I feel like I'm going through the excat same things (except for the Bi part) and I feel so comfortable that it's okay to not date anyone after a breakup without looking bad
Amazing that even though your only just back from 10 days in LA that you have filmed for us your video content has been brilliant lately! Looking forward to seeing the footage of behind the scene of the projects that you have been working-on over the course your time away - will be worth the wait for the surprises that are set to be released! Delighted that you have decide to upload another cleaning, organising/ honest talk video they are motivating yet genuine! X
She is just so sweet. I love her 😍whenever I watch her videos I really feels safe like I don't know how but I really feels safe. Everytime. She inspires me. I feel loved and that feeling is amazing 💓 we love you niki 😊
I just want to say, Niki, that I’m so so proud of you! As a bisexual person myself, I know how hard it is the talk about and open up about your sexuality- especially when there’s so much stigma around being attracted to both genders. Love you❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
Hi Niki! Idk if you'll ever see this but I just wanna say I'm SO proud of you as a fan for coming out!! 🏳️🌈 I've been watching you and Gabi since I was in high school, and being in my 2nd year of college now I feel like I've grown up with you over the years! I've currently been struggling with my sexuality and possibly being bi for the last 5 years, and you and Jessie Paege have both been an inspiration for me in trying to be my true confident self I know I am (even if it's hard). Everytime I see one of your posts or stories, you always put a smile on my face. Your videos are the best! They've helped me through some of the darkest times of my life, and you're even more of an inspiration for ppl like me more than you'll ever know--not just with finding your sexuality but in so many other ways with awareness in mental health and body positivity. Your fashion and music are both absolutely ASTOUNDING💜I'm so proud of all your work with your music!! I just want to thank you for truly just being you and inspiring people like me 💛💛💛 You are truly one of the most badass people I know, and one of my favorite youtubers that I continually watch all the time. Ngl you're actually my girl crush lol 😅 ❤💛💚💙💜 I love you more that you'll ever know as an Iconik, Niki--thank you for being unapologetically YOU and I can't wait for all the amazing work you've done and what else you've got in store 💜 Stay amazing queen, you're the greatest!!! 💜💜💜✨
If I’m being honest and I’ve never said this on the internet but I feel like I’m Bi-Sexual but not Bi-Romantic. And I don’t say I’m Bi because I don’t want to give people the wrong idea and I feel like I’d be looked at as like a straight girl with a fetish...
YO I’m the exact same way. 🙌 I’m technically sexually attracted to girls but I don’t feel romantic towards them whatsoever, and that’s such a strange concept to me. So I just stick with boys because I feel both sexual and romantic attraction to them. But I also want to point out something based on your last statement - the negative stigma around “fetishes” is so ridiculous. Like everyone has different sexual preferences and they shouldn’t be shamed because it’s not “standard.” Tbh we probably ALL have some sort of fetish...it doesn’t make us weird or gross, it makes us human :) Thank you for posting this, it’s cool to hear that someone else feels the same way as I do!💛
Can you PLEASE turn this into a series because this needs to be noticed!! I know a ton of people who are bi and have trouble coming out but THANK YOU for making this video P.s. Where is the shirt
I think i needed to hear this. Ive been with my boyfriend for 4 years and before him i did experiment a little bit but i was never sure. Thank you for this Niki
this should LEGIT be series. 'cleaning + get to know me'
Yes, please!
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if i were a youtuber this would definitely motivate me honestly!
Agreed !!!!
This should be a series called “cleaning out my closet” while talking about your past and life stories etc ❤️
Omg YESS I WOULD WATCH THAT
Yessss
Or cleaning/coming out of my closet lol
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For shure
Damn, Niki is so chill about this like she is talking about her sexuality while cleaning, respect. I love that
music showboy Proof theres sth shady about gabis supposed “miscarriage” ruclips.net/video/9AH93e0dwkk/видео.html
@@MaryamEemaAli-to3kc dude are u insane? Go be negative somewhere else. Miscarriage is not a joke
Ashima Mathur look at the actual evidence
She was getting wasted on new years eve which is during her alleged pregnancy, and also a few weeks back she pranked collin saying she was pregnant, a bit insensitive for a man that just lost his baby.... and the suspicious part is when confronted about it, she proceeds to delete the drinking instagram posts and the prank vlog,
@@MaryamEemaAli-to3kc your hate doesnt belong here this is a positive comment section talking about sexuality etc, idk what this comment section has to do with gabi and her miscarriage. Please stop spreading hate for no reason.
@@MaryamEemaAli-to3kc leave, stop, hate doesn't belong here. Positive only.
You should do a podcast, and just talk about random and serious stuff. I really like your deep talks!!
Oh I totally agree!!!
Omg please Niki! Yes!
I didn’t know this, but I was not surprised
Hehe same
Saaammmeee
Sameee lmaooo
"cleaning out my closet while coming out of the closet"
OMG SHE HEARTED IT
fyi, if u edit your comment after someone hearts it, the heart will go away !! so if you wanna freakout abt it, do so in the replies of the comment lmfao
@@minx.toesies2037 haha i realized that right after and was very sad for a good few seconds but whatever haha she still did
@@KristaFaith awe yeah lmfao well im happy for you anyway :)
@@minx.toesies2037 haha thx luv
@Tatum Gordon ahhh congrats!!
this feels like a safe space
OMG- TYSM FOR THE HEART IM LITERALLY CRYING
Because it is sis
Omg u got the like thats amazing
I’m sorry but I knew it
Amiii
"No timeline to self discovery" LOVED THIS!!!
Niki, your content has really become to refreshingly honest and real. It never feels like you're putting on a show. I really love the direction your channel is going. I don't think I've ever commented before but I feel so compelled to with your recent uploads! Love it.
As a bisexual woman in a long term relationship with a guy .... it doesn’t make you any less bi
Preach married to a man bisexual
@@tisha2323 the man is bisexual?
@@makenziej8632 ye men can be bi too
@@elizaradcx9498 ik but ppl always say that bi men are secretly gay but..if you feel like he’s the one then he’s the one sis
Yes! 🙌 When I tell someone I'm bi they always say "I don't understand you're married to a man"
Yes, I am but that doesn't me I don't like girls. I love who I love.
Kinda crying cause your strength to talk about this inspires me to talk about being bi 💕
Love your videos💜💜
It’s no big deal to be bi or gay etc, it’s nothing but a preference
@A_maya there’s nothing to “support”. As a gay person I hate when people say “i accept you for who you are” “I support you” like b$&@h I’m not on drugs I don’t need support I’m not doing anything wrong. I like guys instead of girls big deal
@@itsjorgeroblox1779 so what do you want people to say?
@@sonia-nq5pv nothing. Do you tell a straight person “I accept you” no. U never see that. Just treat me like any other person. Me liking guys instead of girls doesn’t entitle me to special treatment, I don’t want pity or acceptance or “support”. I’m not an alcoholic, I just like dick instead of vagina. Other than that I’m just like you.
I'd love to hear more about your story: What were the reactions of Nate, your parents, and Gabi? Were any of your friends not accepting of it? Did you lose friendships? Has you coming out actually helped you with gaining more friends? Thank you for sharing your story with us!!
Girl you’re asking these questions like she admitted that she was on drugs or something terrible lol. She’s bi, not an addict lmao
@@itsjorgeroblox1779 No I know, I'm just saying that some people are not understanding or are very judgmental, I just wanted to know if she received any backlash from people close to her and how she overcame that!
@@itsjorgeroblox1779 coming out is scary and many people arent accepting of it. To you those questions may sound ridiculous but there really are people that react very very badly to someone not being straight. There are plenty of cases where people lost friendships/family etc etc after coming out.
Its painful
My friend was thrown out of the house for being gay so the question is not that stupid
Talk about nosey 😂
is it just me, or are the foil transitions REALLY satisfying
“If you’re watching this ... I feel like you knew” LMAOOO
can you do a “explaining my tattoos” video?? love you and im SO proud of you!!! this is goals, to talk about your sexuality so freely
Ugh yas
Wasn't until my mid 30's I realized I was transgender, but coming out has been the best thing I've ever done. I'm so much happier being able to be my true self, and to have people accept me as my true self.
I’m proud of you 👏🏾
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I relate so much, I’m married to a man who I love so much. We’ve been together almost 8 years, but I also know if I wasn’t with him and met him when I did, I absolutely would have been pursuing women only. The older I get, the more I am attracted to women. I’ve known I was bisexual for soooo long! How I feel about women doesn’t take away from my love for my husband in any way
Do you think it would one day interfere with your marriage??
@@plinkagirl I don’t think so. My husband is very accepting of my sexuality and I have been with women during our marriage. It’s just something we discuss if it’s necessary and set boundaries from the outset. I’m always upfront with any women as well if it is something to be spoken about, so everyone knows and it’s always clear. He has previously said as long as I don’t plan to leave him, he is open to me being with women should I choose
@@sarashapcott9063 so you just be with other women while still being with him?
@@plinkagirl It has happened before yeah, but everyone was on the same page so it wasn’t a big deal for us
I feel like ...same
crying, when she said “here’s to my girls in a relationship who are questioning their sexuality or who know they are bisexual” :( me, thank u niki
the way she explains her love with Nate is me with my bf so unexpected but so perfect 🥺
this literally made me cry because i’m so confused on my sexuality i don’t know if i’m bi or straight and seeing this video is so refreshing
You got this:) you are accepted and loved either way
it gets easier, i promise. you will be ok :)
Don’t worry me too but Ik I’m not lol I just overthink it my advice is that just be yourself and don’t think it is a wrong thing to think or feel just don’t worry things will get better. :)
She’s still with Nate, guys. The ex she mentions is prob Jerry.
It is
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Yeah because she said like she stared dating her ex when she was a senior in high school and she didn’t date Nate until she was like maybe 21or 22 idk the exact age so don’t take my word for it
Ye
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this is kinda cheesy but niki is coming out of the closet while she’s in her closet 😳
Edit: i thought people didnt actually liked comments on youtube... thanks for 1.6k likes
😂
😂
iconic ✨
Lmao
Your funny😂😂
Being closeted in a unwelcoming environment has been extra heavy on me lately and seeing content like this feels like a safe space so thank you💕💕💕
stay strong ❤️
God loves you
this video was amazing! thank u so much for sharing :)
I’m a Pan*....in a relationship with a guy. I’ve been dating him for 4 years and that doesn’t make me less of a pan people need to understand that.
Edit: broke up
Update: he wants to get back together but I don’t because what I did wasn’t good. And I know what I did,he really does wanna get back together help. I just don’t think I deserve him,he’s to good for me
Update:so we back together it’s been 5 months already 👽
Hell yes
STRAY KIDS WHOOOO
Amen, sis!
Also pan is where you really don’t care about gender
So sorry to hear abt the break up
i love how niki is comfortable with saying her sexuality online.
edit: okay for anyone replying to this comment: i meant, if niki wasn’t comfortable with saying her sexuality online, she wouldn’t have straight up said “im bisexual” meaning i was just happy that she was open about it
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@@user-7jlrc like she is fine with ppl knowing that she’s bi :)
@Joanna Lee if she wasn’t comfortable she probably wouldn’t have posted this video.
@Joanna Lee if you weren’t comfortable with exposing your self you wouldn’t want the whole world knowing would you
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You’re channel is like hanging out at a friend’s house❤️❤️
yeeesss
Can we just take a moment to appreciate how Niki’s style is the most gorgeous thing ever! It really suits her and radiates positive vibes
you don’t know how happy i am to watch this video. being a bisexual woman myself it sometimes can be tricky while you are in a long-term relationship with a man. and that’s exactly what you said. it made me feel so connected to you and also accepted because i come from an asian background. i cannot thank you enough for this video, i hope you see this comment and stay happy just the way you are. (btw would love more videos like this, xoxo from maldives
This is really comforting to hear you talk about. As someone in a 3 year relationship with a man, I've accepted that the world sees me as straight, even though I don't feel that way. I never fully attached myself to the "bi" label because I still have these imposter feelings, but hearing stories like yours makes me feel valid.
I have the “imposter” feeling and I know that I’m lesbian but I still feel sometimes that I’m lying to myself and I’m not a nonbinary lesbian girl. I can see how you feel sometimes it’s hard and I know what you feel and I can connect to you 💕
Sorry of this is nosey, but how did she come out to Nate? Or has she not talked about that in a video yet?
She hasn't talked about that. BTW, that's not nosey. :)
😍😍🤗yes i wanna no
I’m guessing since there grown ups they probably talked about it from the beginning
niki, as someone who’s really confused rn about their sexuality, this video dropping felt like a sign, and i just want to say thank you for saying these things and being so kind and honest and idk i really needed this rn. thank you so much niki ilysm ❤️❤️❤️
I love how she’s so open and this touches me so much and she’s not afraid to say how she is she’s not shady and she’s so open about everything
niki: "ok, we're going to move into my closet."
me: girl no, we want out of there
the part at around 8:45 where you said “to those girls in a relationship questioning your sexuality its okay” made me cry, i feel like for the past couple of years ive been questioning whether or not i was bi but always was in a relationship with a guy and never had any experience with a girl and such and have been coming more in terms with it but i still love my boyfriend so much so it feels a little difficult to know ‘for sure’ if i am bi if that makes sense. but it was comforting to hear you say its okay and to not stress and doesnt matter how old you are so thank you and this is kinda stressful typing this out publicly since i havent talked about this with anybody (if anybody ik personally sees this look away)
I feel the exact same way! I'm in a long term relationship with a guy & never experienced anything with women, but only in the last couple of years did I begin to question my sexuality & only last year I said it out loud. I'm still questioning if I'm bi or straight, but as Niki said, there is no timeline to have everything figured out. I hope you feel more comfortable with yourself & accept yourself as you are. I'm still trying to do the same. I love my boyfriend & he's supportive but I do feel like I want to experiment a little with girls, however don't want to feel like I'm cheating on my bf, even if it's with his knowledge & consent. I would feel guilty because usually I'm very monogamous but I don't want to lose my boyfriend. I also want to explore that newfound side of myself more so I can understand myself, my feelings & attractions more.
Was in the same situation. I'm 28 though, not super young but not old yet either, but still felt like I was too old to still have questions regarding my sexuality.
I wanted to find out for sure, so I ended up breaking things off with my bf so I could explore that attraction I had to other women since I was a child.
He took things hard, but it was for the best. Didn't want to drag on a relationship if I wasn't even sure about my sexuality.
Just do what feels right to you.
I like the way that she's talking to us like her best friend ❤
you can she how happy & comfortable she is talking about her sexuality I’m so proud of u niki
thank you so much for being so open. you helped me admit something to myself I’ve been avoiding for years and made me feel valid in my bisexuality even though I’m in a long term relationship with my boyfriend. so from the bottom of my heart thank you, I’ve never felt so free❤️
I love this human. One of my favorite channels ever
I am straight but I SO HAPPILY SUPPORT YOU ! I am so happy for you being yourself and not being scared to show who u truly are! 💕
i’m so glad you’re comfortable enough to talk about your sexuality now on the channel, love you niki❤️❤️
It makes me so happy that she’s more open about her sexuality cause I am bi and I’ve also just become more recently open about it, even tho I’m only a teenager I feel like I can connect with niki on such a personal level and I love that. Anyways I love you niki❤️
@**MIKAYLA** yesssss!
That's amazing I'm so glad 😁
@@Abby-on1zn awww ty!
same. im a bi teenager and its really great seeing people be confident with their self. also im so happy for you
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I often forget that they’re twins and in minute 4, I remembered that they once used to really look alike 🤯 but, I love that they are two completely different people makes them unique
I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and just came out as bi. He has been so supportive and I couldn’t ask for a better partner in life. I felt invalid for coming out as bi while still being with a man, but this video has really helped me feel like I can be who am I no matter who I’m with
I'm so happy that niki is not scared to admit that shes bi bc I am an bi to really proud by niki.
Same
Girl, throughout this whole video I felt you! I think I knew I was bi in middle school but decided to just bury it because I didn't know what to do. I came out to a friend in 2015 accidentally (they were very supportive and kind) and even now, it's weird for me to say it to people who assume I'm straight. It's weird- something no one ever told me was that once you come out, you KEEP coming out. It was so refreshing to hear you talk so openly and casually about your own journey. 🖤
I love how open-minded u are !!!! U have such a positive energy!! Always giving ur best no matter what!! Keep being u 🤩
Such a safe place and makes me feel very comfortable.
Omg I can't believe she ❤ my comment
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When she said “the things I watched online did not reflect that” I felt that💀
SAME 😭
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i came out of being bi over two years ago and i feel happy. i’m so proud of niki of coming out and i feel more inspired now. i hope you have a blessed day! :) ❤️✨ 🏳️🌈
As a bi girl who's been in long term relationships with boys, this video was so incredibly relatable and it felt good to hear you talk about these things with such simplicity and without taboo. Thank you!
I love how you used the last 6 months doing alot inner work, healing your shadow self and becoming the best version of yourself.
You inspire me in so many ways. I love you❤️
title should have been “cleaning out the closet while coming out the closet”
she already came out
this is the reason i love Niki, she’s so transparent to topics like this. I LOVE HER 💜💜
I love that’s she’s telling her coming out story in a closet. The irony😂
I just want to thank you Niki. This literally made me cry
This is the most natural video you’ve ever made , I’ve never felt so comfortable watching!!
I absolutely love this video. Being a bisexual woman myself I often have felt the same way, when I came out, (and many people were unsupportive) I found myself counting my blessings that I also happened to like guys. I also am in a relationship with a man who I truly love, but it took me a long time to be able to say the words out loud again. I remember when I first started questioning my sexuality- I would often wonder if I wanted to “be” a specific girl. The answer usually turned out to no. I have followed your channel for years, and you have been an inspiration for me many times before. So thank you for making me feel so normal and taking away some of the bad feelings I had towards my own coming out story.
i’m so proud that you felt comfortable and safe enough to talk abt this with us! we all support you so much! also i luv the new editing style!
“There’s no timeline to self discovery” I love that ✨💛
I’m happy that you feel comfortable talking to your fans about who you are & past experiences. You may not realize it, but it helps some people going through the same things that you’re going through, such as me. I haven’t fully him out to all my friends & family yet, but watching you makes me more comfortable with who I am. Love you girl!!🥺🖤🖤
I had to watch this because my daughter has just come out as bi and she just moved in with her girlfriend.
Ewwww!
That’s amazing!
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@@ayeshajahir9809 wtf
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I came out last month at 24 years old. I have a boyfriend of 10 years 🤍 you are one of the reason I came out ✨thank u Niki!
I think you've inspired something in me that I haven't even been able to admit to myself until recently. And this video helped a lot to clarify it. I think im bisexual.
literally feels like we’re there while she’s chatting with us! i love the honesty and realness ✨💕 so chill
I really want to see you and gabi just talk about the hardships that were made public of course. But you two are such strong women.its truely inspiring
This is just what I needed after a stressful day of online school, thank you Niki 🤍😍
this is so comforting. also so proud of how far she’s come!!
This seems like this is a safe spot to talk about mostly anything
i just wanna say, thank you for posting content like this. it’s so important to normalize sexuality. being a bisexual woman myself, my whole life i felt like it was wrong or that i didn’t actually know what i felt or wanted. i hated the fact that i was attracted to women for such a long time and i fought against it. being able to look at someone else i admire talk about it so openly and be comfortable with it helps me and i know it will help so many others. you’ve created a safe space and that is so so SO important. ❤️
You seem soooo happy and confident and I’m so happy for you Niki. I’ve been here for a long time and been watching yourself bloom over the years, and I’m so proud of you. I love you so much!
i feel like sitting down, talking to the cam while multi-tasking is the most therapeutic
I respect you so much I can’t believe how hard this time was ily so much hope you have a great day Xx
Stan our fashionable alternative queen representing
i love niki so much. i feel like i always knew that she was bi and just waited to see her be comfortable enough with herself. it’s so amazing to see as a follower.
I think it's amazing how vulnerable you choose to be with us, it's really amazing and helps us to understand, we love you Niki!
*i so happy you’re confortable to talk about your sexuality! love is love babies 🏳️🌈✨🌙💫*
Bisexual niki is the highlight of 2020
This is so important for bi girls trying to find themselves! I wish i had seen this when i was younger. Thank you for being so open! ❤🌈❤
niki, you are so beyond brave for coming out on youtube. im honestly so proud. ive been here since the early days and seen you grow and become the amazing person you are. im so glad you feel comfortable enough to tell us this.
Quarantine treated you so well! You look AMAZING niki!
I started watch you and gabi 24/7 during quarantine and I have seen you HLOW up in the last few months girl! You are more sure of yourself than you’ve ever been!
Wow, shes so chill! I wish I could talk about being bi like that... but, I just can't seem do it! Of course my parents know and stuff, but she's talking about this, and not being awkward! I love her, she's just like me... Love ya, Niki! ❤
I had the stereotypes about being Bi. Like being bi doesn’t mean you like girls 50% & guys 50%. Being in a relationship with a man doesn’t mean you don’t like girls. Vise versa.
Omg everything she's talking about.. I feel like I'm going through the excat same things (except for the Bi part) and I feel so comfortable that it's okay to not date anyone after a breakup without looking bad
Love you niki you be you and don’t let anyone tell you anything else.
Amazing that even though your only just back from 10 days in LA that you have filmed for us your video content has been brilliant lately! Looking forward to seeing the footage of behind the scene of the projects that you have been working-on over the course your time away - will be worth the wait for the surprises that are set to be released! Delighted that you have decide to upload another cleaning, organising/ honest talk video they are motivating yet genuine! X
Honestly didn’t even realize you were cleaning till half way through like how did I miss that
She is just so sweet. I love her 😍whenever I watch her videos I really feels safe like I don't know how but I really feels safe. Everytime. She inspires me. I feel loved and that feeling is amazing 💓 we love you niki 😊
it's so sweet of you to adress the girl who still feels like she outed you! hope that will take her guilt away.
props to niki! what other youtube is so real that they post this stuff on line. she’s so chill about it to. i loveeeee! niki keeps it realllll.
I just want to say, Niki, that I’m so so proud of you! As a bisexual person myself, I know how hard it is the talk about and open up about your sexuality- especially when there’s so much stigma around being attracted to both genders. Love you❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
I'm very ✨comfortable✨ with the energy we created in the studio today
✨me aswell✨
Hi Niki! Idk if you'll ever see this but I just wanna say I'm SO proud of you as a fan for coming out!! 🏳️🌈 I've been watching you and Gabi since I was in high school, and being in my 2nd year of college now I feel like I've grown up with you over the years! I've currently been struggling with my sexuality and possibly being bi for the last 5 years, and you and Jessie Paege have both been an inspiration for me in trying to be my true confident self I know I am (even if it's hard). Everytime I see one of your posts or stories, you always put a smile on my face. Your videos are the best! They've helped me through some of the darkest times of my life, and you're even more of an inspiration for ppl like me more than you'll ever know--not just with finding your sexuality but in so many other ways with awareness in mental health and body positivity. Your fashion and music are both absolutely ASTOUNDING💜I'm so proud of all your work with your music!! I just want to thank you for truly just being you and inspiring people like me 💛💛💛 You are truly one of the most badass people I know, and one of my favorite youtubers that I continually watch all the time. Ngl you're actually my girl crush lol 😅 ❤💛💚💙💜 I love you more that you'll ever know as an Iconik, Niki--thank you for being unapologetically YOU and I can't wait for all the amazing work you've done and what else you've got in store 💜 Stay amazing queen, you're the greatest!!! 💜💜💜✨
If I’m being honest and I’ve never said this on the internet but I feel like I’m Bi-Sexual but not Bi-Romantic. And I don’t say I’m Bi because I don’t want to give people the wrong idea and I feel like I’d be looked at as like a straight girl with a fetish...
Jasmine Prime Thank You
Good for you! Nothing wrong with that Asha! I’m Pan sexual and we should all own our sexuality or preferences. 🥰
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You explained that perfectly! I feel the same way. I have never said that I am bisexual because I don’t want to give the wrong idea either
YO I’m the exact same way. 🙌 I’m technically sexually attracted to girls but I don’t feel romantic towards them whatsoever, and that’s such a strange concept to me. So I just stick with boys because I feel both sexual and romantic attraction to them. But I also want to point out something based on your last statement - the negative stigma around “fetishes” is so ridiculous. Like everyone has different sexual preferences and they shouldn’t be shamed because it’s not “standard.” Tbh we probably ALL have some sort of fetish...it doesn’t make us weird or gross, it makes us human :) Thank you for posting this, it’s cool to hear that someone else feels the same way as I do!💛
I feel so freakin grateful that niki makes this such a safe and open space. I appreciate you being this open. I love you niki 💖💖
This video touched my heart . Niki you are very brave to come out in the Internet. There are people who will throw hate on you but I am always here.
I love how a few years ago niki said she would never get a tattoo and now she has them lol
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Can you PLEASE turn this into a series because this needs to be noticed!! I know a ton of people who are bi and have trouble coming out but THANK YOU for making this video
P.s. Where is the shirt
This felt like a ted talk and I loved every second of it
Congrats niki!!!!!! Happy for u to feel free!!! Love ya
I think i needed to hear this. Ive been with my boyfriend for 4 years and before him i did experiment a little bit but i was never sure. Thank you for this Niki