@@AbubakarrJalloh-m3dwe need people to be proud of being a virgin, unfortunately we the being a virgin as a insult (in western societies) we need to flip that narrative
@@ArabiangigachadWell you don’t have too lol (to be technical, whenever Allah SWT wrote for us to get married either young or old).🙌🏽🕌 It’s just a “social norms” 25 isn’t to old yet in my opinion…maybe in a couple years sounds better to me like 27+ perfect age in guys nowadays this gen. (for wiseness, maturity etc)😊
Of course I want to. If Allah wills it will happen. Anyways for marriage one should be prepared mentally, physically and financially. Maybe some criterias are missing from me, maybe I'm not ready yet.
I was perhaps a very good guy 2 years back but not now anymore :). Its just a dilemma I've always fought against. I hope Allah SWT forgives me for my mistakes. Ameen
I am 19 now. Have never been in a relationship yet and don't want as well for the sake of Allah. As my prophet Muhammad SWT forbade us from that, it doesn't make any sense to go for it and to think that everything will go right. I believe in only marriage and as soon as possible I wanna marry and I'll INSHAALLAH. Pray for me guys, so that I can protect myself from this haram thing and can be 100% loyal to my wife. May Allah bless me and you all and give us tawfiq to stick with our niyah. Amin.
May allah guide the youth of today most of society marry through haram relationships and the problem is they don’t even think they are wrong they even laugh on people who are not in a haram relationships.
To make it simple, a spouse doesn't fall out of the sky you need to find someone. Here is where your brain needs to work, ask yourself am I in a position to get married etc. Meet the parents and the person give it 2 to 3 months to get to know each other after all is said and done plan a date for the wedding, STOP OVER COMPLICATING A SIMPLE MATTER.
doesn’t work in person. islam made marriage easy but the ignorant and arrogant parents who depend on culture more than religion make it harder. parents always prioritize wealth over deen and when they’re daughters are heartbroken and divorced they wonder what went wrong. people forget that the prophet ﷺ married off a man with no wealth to a woman and her mahr was the quran that the man knew by heart there’s also other ahadith where the prophet muhammad ﷺ says not to prioritize wealth but rather the character and religious commitment of a person such as bukhari 5091 Abu Hurairah narrated that: The Messenger of Allah said: "When someone whose religion and character you are pleased with proposes to (someone under the care) of one of you, then marry to him. If you do not do so, then there will be turmoil (Fitnah) in the land and abounding discord (Fasad)." (tirmidhi 1084) Class : Hassan by sheikh al albani
@@Guru-ij3ow If your clothes are on and you know who the parents are trust me it's fine. If you don't know the person who's gonna be with you for the rest of your life your going to suffer
May Allah ﷻ grant u better for what was already before brother, that’s the way of Allah ﷻ he takes something from you just to gift you more honourably with something far more better ! Have faith in it.
Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, let him not harm his neighbor. Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, let him honor his guest. Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, let him speak goodness or remain silent. Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 6136, Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi
Ok tell me then how to get married without relationship. I am also single but IDK how to get married without knowing the girl. Also Tell me about halal relationship. 💕 From Kashmir.
The funniest thing is the men my age that are married met their wives during dating and doing zinna with them. Then the women converted to Islam and now they are happily married. Yet I never even chatted with a non mehram woman in my life and I’m still single at 29. It’s like Allah rewarded my sinful friends but punished me for not going near Zinna. Lesson learned I guess
Akhi, you’re on the right path! It’s also not haram for muslim men to chat to muslim women, for as long as both do not chat innapropriately! If you really want to get married, it’s totally permissible in Islam for you to find women to marry because your intention is to get married for the sake of Allah s.w.t, and the process of getting married involves chatting with the opposite gender, discussing marriage with each other, then getting family members involved and so on. If you need more advice on how to talk to Muslim women regarding marriage and/or just how to get married in Islam, go to a mosque/masjid and ask all of your marriage queries/questions to the imams of that place, or research online “how to get married in Islam” and then you’ll know what to do (Insha’Allah).
@@K1RB33 there is a story brother, once there was a man who worshipped Allah ﷻ for years no stop one day whilst sleeping he said with arrogance and pride I’m guaranteed paradise. In that night he had an headache so bad and made dua persistently to be relieved from this headache. after a while the pain stopped and he said “ya Allah ﷻ I worshiped u day and night and all I had was headache” then a voice came to his heart inspiring “all of his worship was the reason Allah ﷻ relieved him from his headache” he got wise and learnt not be ever arrogant and prideful in doing the right thing for we are doing it for sake of Allah ﷻ 1 lesson. Never belittle anyone just because you know you are doing the right thing and other isn’t indeed Allah ﷻ is all merciful and all appreciative toward his slaves if ever confronted in this situation guide them to right path don’t belittle them or take them as example 2 lesson. There is a time for everything brother and no human stories n life are the same therefore live your story and try to be more active in your life and make dua with faith knowing Allah ﷻ accepts it, for he is the one who put it there in ur heart in the first place 3 lesson.
I have a question If you love a girl and she loves you but you're not in a Haram relationship and you try your best to stay away from the Haram but you guys still talk, you do nothing Haram by staying within the boundaries Allah made. Will you have these problems?
Don’t talk unnecessarily..if you guys love each other then wait for eachother while praying and asking Allah to do what’s best for both of you..trust in Allah’s planning..don’t worry if the intention is good on both sides surely Allah will help you with that so leave it in the hands of Almighty and wait
relationship is haram right then making dua to get married to a specific person without entering to relationship , we both like each other but no relationship etc then whether its haram?????
Assalamu alaikum I have a question about menstruation. I have a confusing cycle of menstruation. When I have my menstruation it stays about 6 to 7 days. After staying for 6 to 7 days, it happens again after three or four days and stays for 3 or 4 days. This time the bleeding is very light so what should I do in this time should I pray or should I wait for the bleeding to stop? I am having this issue for about 4 months.
@@Arisha-ch1nu maybe you have mental issues take care of your sleep, keep good diet, stop overthinking, don't get stressed, and stay positive. Lastly never share these kinds of personal things online share with your mother sister or anyone you know.
@@AyraMariyam-y5c I have consulted a gynecologist she said I'm having this issue for weight so I'm trying to lose weight it will take some time in the meantime should I pray?
Read KALIMAH messenger pbuh not final, i am and always since born was a prophet, i am the FINAL PROPHET, FINAL MESSANGER. Remember status in jannat, u cant get more in jannat you will really be like what did he do to get more then me, e.g some murderers at the bottom. China car running into oeople because of divorce Allah made him do it quick JANNAT u dont see it they will its so quick its next level beautiful.
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im 16 and i never been in a relationship, i wont be in any haram relationship inshaAllah
I'm 19 and alhamdulillah Allah saved me from these things
@hy good for you boy keep it up
@@AbubakarrJalloh-m3d
No one asked for your opinion too
@@AbubakarrJalloh-m3dwe need people to be proud of being a virgin, unfortunately we the being a virgin as a insult (in western societies) we need to flip that narrative
@@AbubakarrJalloh-m3d man you know how hard it is? i just want to share with my brothers what is the problem
25 year's old and without any relationship. Alhamdulliha that never happened with me.
Didn't u want to get married 😂
Gotta get married bro
mash’Allah and same here 23 year’s old😂 Muslimah❤🤲🏽
@@ArabiangigachadWell you don’t have too lol (to be technical, whenever Allah SWT wrote for us to get married either young or old).🙌🏽🕌
It’s just a “social norms” 25 isn’t to old yet in my opinion…maybe in a couple years sounds better to me like 27+ perfect age in guys nowadays this gen. (for wiseness, maturity etc)😊
Of course I want to. If Allah wills it will happen. Anyways for marriage one should be prepared mentally, physically and financially. Maybe some criterias are missing from me, maybe I'm not ready yet.
I was perhaps a very good guy 2 years back but not now anymore :). Its just a dilemma I've always fought against. I hope Allah SWT forgives me for my mistakes. Ameen
Same here I use to pray every day but idk what happened to me and I’ve be come lazier 🤦🏾♂️
May Allah Bless Us All
Ameen
Allahuma Ameen 🤲🏽
Allahuma ameen!🤲🏽🫶🏽
I am 19 now. Have never been in a relationship yet and don't want as well for the sake of Allah. As my prophet Muhammad SWT forbade us from that, it doesn't make any sense to go for it and to think that everything will go right. I believe in only marriage and as soon as possible I wanna marry and I'll INSHAALLAH. Pray for me guys, so that I can protect myself from this haram thing and can be 100% loyal to my wife. May Allah bless me and you all and give us tawfiq to stick with our niyah. Amin.
I needed to hear this inshallah I shall let go of this relationship as it was built off distrust and is only ruining me and her
May Allah guide us to the right path
Ameen
Aamin!
Ameen❤🤲🏽
May allah guide the youth of today most of society marry through haram relationships and the problem is they don’t even think they are wrong they even laugh on people who are not in a haram relationships.
May Allah SWT guide all of us 🤲🏼❤️
Allahuma ameen❤🤲🏽
May Allah SWT guide and protect from satanic deceit.
I'm 25 years old and have never been in such a relationship. Alhamdulillah (All praise be to Allah)
To make it simple, a spouse doesn't fall out of the sky you need to find someone. Here is where your brain needs to work, ask yourself am I in a position to get married etc. Meet the parents and the person give it 2 to 3 months to get to know each other after all is said and done plan a date for the wedding, STOP OVER COMPLICATING A SIMPLE MATTER.
I liked your explanation.
doesn’t work in person. islam made marriage easy but the ignorant and arrogant parents who depend on culture more than religion make it harder. parents always prioritize wealth over deen and when they’re daughters are heartbroken and divorced they wonder what went wrong. people forget that the prophet ﷺ married off a man with no wealth to a woman and her mahr was the quran that the man knew by heart
there’s also other ahadith where the prophet muhammad ﷺ says not to prioritize wealth but rather the character and religious commitment of a person such as bukhari 5091
Abu Hurairah narrated that:
The Messenger of Allah said: "When someone whose religion and character you are pleased with proposes to (someone under the care) of one of you, then marry to him. If you do not do so, then there will be turmoil (Fitnah) in the land and abounding discord (Fasad)."
(tirmidhi 1084)
Class : Hassan by sheikh al albani
Is it right to talk & know each other for 2-3 months, I mean won't it be haram?
@@Guru-ij3ow If your clothes are on and you know who the parents are trust me it's fine. If you don't know the person who's gonna be with you for the rest of your life your going to suffer
@@Suppppp6pppppp got it, Jazak Allah
Ya Allah forgive us and grant us immeasurable wealth. Ameen
my wife left me for someone she had a relationship in her past.
May Allah ﷻ grant u better for what was already before brother, that’s the way of Allah ﷻ he takes something from you just to gift you more honourably with something far more better !
Have faith in it.
That's rough but Allah (swt) will give you someone better inshallah
Just stay patience ask Allah for forgiveness of your sins and ask him for a better woman for you
@@BoomeansBoo i didn't do any sin
@Zohaib6M still we should always do istagfar
Subhan Allah
Alhamdulliah,As a medical student, i am 26! Never any relationship!
Allahuma Aameen
♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
I am 26, alhamdulillah, and have never been in a haram relationship
Allah may Allah forgive US
Leaving in a society full of non Muslims is really a dilemma.may Allah guide us through the right path.
Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, let him not harm his neighbor. Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, let him honor his guest. Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day, let him speak goodness or remain silent.
Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 6136, Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi
Thanks
❤❤SUBHAANALLAH🍎🍎
Ok tell me then how to get married without relationship.
I am also single but IDK how to get married without knowing the girl.
Also Tell me about halal relationship.
💕 From Kashmir.
You can just talk to each other for a while before marriage, not relationship
@Guru-ij3ow But how to get a girl?
Can you help me with an explanation?🙂
@@AAMlR-Ah wdym? Are you shy?
@@Guru-ij3ow yes 😢
@AAMlR-Ah then leave it to your mom bro😂
Im 30 and unmarried 😞
The funniest thing is the men my age that are married met their wives during dating and doing zinna with them. Then the women converted to Islam and now they are happily married. Yet I never even chatted with a non mehram woman in my life and I’m still single at 29. It’s like Allah rewarded my sinful friends but punished me for not going near Zinna.
Lesson learned I guess
Akhi, you’re on the right path! It’s also not haram for muslim men to chat to muslim women, for as long as both do not chat innapropriately!
If you really want to get married, it’s totally permissible in Islam for you to find women to marry because your intention is to get married for the sake of Allah s.w.t, and the process of getting married involves chatting with the opposite gender, discussing marriage with each other, then getting family members involved and so on.
If you need more advice on how to talk to Muslim women regarding marriage and/or just how to get married in Islam, go to a mosque/masjid and ask all of your marriage queries/questions to the imams of that place, or research online “how to get married in Islam” and then you’ll know what to do (Insha’Allah).
@@K1RB33 there is a story brother, once there was a man who worshipped Allah ﷻ for years no stop one day whilst sleeping he said with arrogance and pride I’m guaranteed paradise. In that night he had an headache so bad and made dua persistently to be relieved from this headache. after a while the pain stopped and he said “ya Allah ﷻ I worshiped u day and night and all I had was headache” then a voice came to his heart inspiring “all of his worship was the reason Allah ﷻ relieved him from his headache” he got wise and learnt not be ever arrogant and prideful in doing the right thing for we are doing it for sake of Allah ﷻ 1 lesson.
Never belittle anyone just because you know you are doing the right thing and other isn’t indeed Allah ﷻ is all merciful and all appreciative toward his slaves if ever confronted in this situation guide them to right path don’t belittle them or take them as example 2 lesson.
There is a time for everything brother and no human stories n life are the same therefore live your story and try to be more active in your life and make dua with faith knowing Allah ﷻ accepts it, for he is the one who put it there in ur heart in the first place 3 lesson.
@@Haider484 Private + unnecessary conversation with non mahram women is not halal though
They may be rewarded in this life but who knows what lies in wait for them in the hereafter.
@ nah brother we get everything in this dunya be it punishment or reward and more of it in hereafter
I have a question
If you love a girl and she loves you but you're not in a Haram relationship and you try your best to stay away from the Haram but you guys still talk, you do nothing Haram by staying within the boundaries Allah made. Will you have these problems?
Don’t talk unnecessarily..if you guys love each other then wait for eachother while praying and asking Allah to do what’s best for both of you..trust in Allah’s planning..don’t worry if the intention is good on both sides surely Allah will help you with that so leave it in the hands of Almighty and wait
Where can I find the full lecture?
relationship is haram right then making dua to get married to a specific person without entering to relationship , we both like each other but no relationship etc then whether its haram?????
nop not haram
Aslaamualaykhum
Please change the thumbnail to something else more appropriate.
Don't get married , no if you really wanna live in the western countries
Hb reverts who turned the haram to halal by getting married after finding out its haram?
Assalamu alaikum
I have a question about menstruation.
I have a confusing cycle of menstruation.
When I have my menstruation it stays about 6 to 7 days.
After staying for 6 to 7 days, it happens again after three or four days and stays for 3 or 4 days. This time the bleeding is very light so what should I do in this time should I pray or should I wait for the bleeding to stop?
I am having this issue for about 4 months.
Please consult a gynecologist...it may effect your health..
@@Arisha-ch1nu maybe you have mental issues take care of your sleep, keep good diet, stop overthinking, don't get stressed, and stay positive.
Lastly never share these kinds of personal things online share with your mother sister or anyone you know.
@@BoomeansBoo Thank you
I have consulted doctor
And I have also told my mom but didn't get any solid answers.
@@AyraMariyam-y5c I have consulted a gynecologist she
said I'm having this issue for weight so I'm trying to lose weight it will take some time in the meantime should I pray?
@@laibahmuntaha Thank you
Your app is not free i m underage big brother
🤍
Read KALIMAH messenger pbuh not final, i am and always since born was a prophet, i am the FINAL PROPHET, FINAL MESSANGER. Remember status in jannat, u cant get more in jannat you will really be like what did he do to get more then me, e.g some murderers at the bottom. China car running into oeople because of divorce Allah made him do it quick JANNAT u dont see it they will its so quick its next level beautiful.
I'm 15 and i have never been in any haram relationship
cuz no one wants me🗣💁♂️