I was in a haram relationship for 1year and a half then we broke up 3 month ago, i wasnt well during all the relationship because i was sad that it was an haram relation, when we broke up i was devastated until i realised that my blindness covered that faith, this relation bring me closer to Allah and i should have seen that before maybe i needed that big impact that breaking up brought to me. Im moving closer to Allah and i pray everyday, i hope that i'll get an another chance when i will be pure enough to have a chance for a halal relationship with this girl. I thanks god everyday because he uncovered my eyes so i saw what i should have done since day one -> have faith believe in allah and going back in a halal way. What are you tought on this ?
i have a question. what if you talk to the girl but your intentions are not to date or whatsoever but to just talk to her. because im curious right now. im talking to a girl but im still young like teenage young. and ive talked to this girl a lot of times and ive always wondered if its haram to talk to a girl while not having the intention to date her. lets say like this. I like her, she likes me, and now we just say we dont say anything and keep it bestfriends is that fine ?
I was in 2 Haram relationship and I cheated to both of them. Both happened at the same time. I regret everything so much. Astagfirullah for what I did. I confessed. I got out. But they said all of this will happen to me or my family and I’m scared wallahi I will never get into any Haram relationships from now on. And only focus on myself and nikkah. No opposite gender now. But I regret deeply for what I did. I don’t know what to do. Please someone help. I asked them for forgiveness begged them but they said they wont forgive me ever please help im feeling lost and I am depressed i have panic attacks and anxiety.
don't panic dear, Allah doesn't say you have to make another person forgive you, rather the commands are to ask for forgiveness if you've wronged the other person. it's now upon Allah to see your sincerity and repentance and efforts of reconciliation to Him and Him only, He forgives past sins and mistakes. He forgives all like you're just born. Have faith. A believer is made up of 3 things, fear of Allah, love for Allah, and Hope in the mercy of Allah. IF ANY OF THE THREE EXCEEDS AND DIMINISHES THE EFFECT OF OTHERS, BE IT LOVE OR FEAR, OR HOPE, IT IS NOT RIGHT FOR *IMAN* OF BELIEVER, HENCE HOLD ON TO ALL. Don't lose hope in His mercy and don't Go so far in guilt that it becomes difficult to stay on right path. He is EVER-LOVING ❤️🩹🫂
Brother, I appreciate your honesty to confess to your cheating either Haram or Halal. Forgiveness is not forced even in Islam. It’s a discretion of who you offend. Haven said that, you should be grateful to Allah to get you out of this Haram situation. The good thing is that Allah is not Human Beings, repent sincerely and ask for his forgiveness both for hurting people and the haram relationship. Allah is merciful and loves it when his creations turns to him for repentance, forgiveness. So don’t be bothered about the threats the girls told you. They were and probably still hurt and don’t meant what they said. May Allah in his infinite mercy forgive us all and guide us to the straight path. Amen 🙏🏼
Don't Worry Ask them To Forgive You try to compensate whatever you can then Ask Allah to forgive You And Trust Allah has Forgiven You And ❤Pray tahajjud to forgive You and bless your family hope Allah forgive your sins and may Allah bless your family And closed ones😊
I’m in a haram relationship we have been together for 2 years and I love him too much to leave him I really want to find a way for Allah to forgive me but also for me not to leave him at the same time 🙁
Yeah , if you are talking from someone and trying to get those pleasure (hope so you are getting which type of Dopamine I am referring about)is considered haram!
Dopamina, Serotonina, Ossitocina vengono rilasciate durante l'orgasmo in un rapporto sessuale con una donna✔️ Dove sta questa donna che mi farà godere davvero? Non è questione di non focalizzarsi sul problema...Ma bisogna capire perché stare senza? Quando c'è tanta sorca in giro.. Perché privarsene??? Non sono sposato e non mi sono mai fatto una bella scopata da quando sono nato✔️ Devo vivere felice io...Non mi servono donne assenti che se la tirano e che non sanno neanche come iniziare a far l'amore. FINE
I am in a relationship and we want to marry each other and i told my family about it but her parents are not ready for her am i in haram relationship should i end it plz help☹️
brother ...leave it for the sake of Allah ....i have been in a haram relationship for 4 yrs ....yesterday she got a proposal from another person who her father likes she had to leave me because she wants to have the blessing from her father despite me sending my proposal too yesterday 😢 .....yhh heartbreak sucks but yhhh i believe Allah punished me because i didn't leave haram for him
@@Better_vinesI am feeling very sorry for you brother, are you okay now ? I also block my gf yesterday after being in relationship with her for 6 months we are in ldr and wanted to marry each other but I feel bad all day all night and I wanted to stop these haram things we do to each other but now I am trying to move on 😢
I was in a haram relationship for 1year and a half then we broke up 3 month ago, i wasnt well during all the relationship because i was sad that it was an haram relation, when we broke up i was devastated until i realised that my blindness covered that faith, this relation bring me closer to Allah and i should have seen that before maybe i needed that big impact that breaking up brought to me. Im moving closer to Allah and i pray everyday, i hope that i'll get an another chance when i will be pure enough to have a chance for a halal relationship with this girl. I thanks god everyday because he uncovered my eyes so i saw what i should have done since day one -> have faith believe in allah and going back in a halal way. What are you tought on this ?
alhamdulillah, yes you can search for turning haram relationship to halal - omar suleiman. he explains it well
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i have a question. what if you talk to the girl but your intentions are not to date or whatsoever but to just talk to her. because im curious right now. im talking to a girl but im still young like teenage young. and ive talked to this girl a lot of times and ive always wondered if its haram to talk to a girl while not having the intention to date her. lets say like this. I like her, she likes me, and now we just say we dont say anything and keep it bestfriends is that fine ?
@@muhammadkhayr3602 would say yes but im not a wise men when it comes to islam i think you should ask islam scholars or imam
You can't be talking to the girl because she's a non mahram. Talking to non mahram having opposite gender friends is a sin. @@muhammadkhayr3602
Best way to get rid of haram relationship just read astagfirullah
I was in 2 Haram relationship and I cheated to both of them. Both happened at the same time. I regret everything so much. Astagfirullah for what I did. I confessed. I got out. But they said all of this will happen to me or my family and I’m scared wallahi I will never get into any Haram relationships from now on. And only focus on myself and nikkah. No opposite gender now. But I regret deeply for what I did. I don’t know what to do. Please someone help. I asked them for forgiveness begged them but they said they wont forgive me ever please help im feeling lost and I am depressed i have panic attacks and anxiety.
It is unbefitting to Allah to punish another for the sins of another, he is not a revengeful Zeus. Allah is the most merciful.
don't panic dear, Allah doesn't say you have to make another person forgive you, rather the commands are to ask for forgiveness if you've wronged the other person. it's now upon Allah to see your sincerity and repentance and efforts of reconciliation to Him and Him only, He forgives past sins and mistakes. He forgives all like you're just born. Have faith. A believer is made up of 3 things, fear of Allah, love for Allah, and Hope in the mercy of Allah. IF ANY OF THE THREE EXCEEDS AND DIMINISHES THE EFFECT OF OTHERS, BE IT LOVE OR FEAR, OR HOPE, IT IS NOT RIGHT FOR *IMAN* OF BELIEVER, HENCE HOLD ON TO ALL. Don't lose hope in His mercy and don't Go so far in guilt that it becomes difficult to stay on right path. He is EVER-LOVING ❤️🩹🫂
Brother, I appreciate your honesty to confess to your cheating either Haram or Halal. Forgiveness is not forced even in Islam. It’s a discretion of who you offend.
Haven said that, you should be grateful to Allah to get you out of this Haram situation. The good thing is that Allah is not Human Beings, repent sincerely and ask for his forgiveness both for hurting people and the haram relationship. Allah is merciful and loves it when his creations turns to him for repentance, forgiveness.
So don’t be bothered about the threats the girls told you. They were and probably still hurt and don’t meant what they said.
May Allah in his infinite mercy forgive us all and guide us to the straight path. Amen 🙏🏼
@@Faithful_soulfulit is anonymous and asking for advice so I don't think it falls under the category of spreading sin or displaying it.
Don't Worry Ask them To Forgive You try to compensate whatever you can then Ask Allah to forgive You And Trust Allah has Forgiven You And ❤Pray tahajjud to forgive You and bless your family hope Allah forgive your sins and may Allah bless your family And closed ones😊
Will my hasanats (good deeds) count if i am in a haram relationship??
Except the few
I’m in a haram relationship we have been together for 2 years and I love him too much to leave him I really want to find a way for Allah to forgive me but also for me not to leave him at the same time 🙁
Seperate for a while, make sincere tawba, talk to your parents for marriage
Ohh… wb now??
Talking sometimes is also haram?
Yeah , if you are talking from someone and trying to get those pleasure (hope so you are getting which type of Dopamine I am referring about)is considered haram!
Dopamina, Serotonina, Ossitocina vengono rilasciate durante l'orgasmo in un rapporto sessuale con una donna✔️ Dove sta questa donna che mi farà godere davvero? Non è questione di non focalizzarsi sul problema...Ma bisogna capire perché stare senza? Quando c'è tanta sorca in giro.. Perché privarsene??? Non sono sposato e non mi sono mai fatto una bella scopata da quando sono nato✔️ Devo vivere felice io...Non mi servono donne assenti che se la tirano e che non sanno neanche come iniziare a far l'amore. FINE
Is talking to each other haraam?
I am in a relationship and we want to marry each other and i told my family about it but her parents are not ready for her am i in haram relationship should i end it plz help☹️
brother ...leave it for the sake of Allah ....i have been in a haram relationship for 4 yrs ....yesterday she got a proposal from another person who her father likes she had to leave me because she wants to have the blessing from her father despite me sending my proposal too yesterday 😢 .....yhh heartbreak sucks but yhhh i believe Allah punished me because i didn't leave haram for him
@@Better_vinesI am feeling very sorry for you brother, are you okay now ? I also block my gf yesterday after being in relationship with her for 6 months we are in ldr and wanted to marry each other but I feel bad all day all night and I wanted to stop these haram things we do to each other but now I am trying to move on 😢
@@rainofilm-xw3yxhope you’re doing well.. idk what I’m going through
@@Better_vinestelll bro how’re you..😠
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