EMIGRATION l Are we happy l A journey of emotions l South Africans in New Zealand l July 2023
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Ive seen other families talk about their experiences coming and living in NZ and everyone has unique perspective. But the main difference I notice between them and your journey/experience is attitude. Sure everythings not perfect and you have your downs here, but youre both always looking at the positives and making the best of situations. Attitude is everything, and im glad I came across your channel long ago, im grateful to have people like you both in NZ, thanks for continuing to share your lives with us. Kia Kaha 🖤
Aw, thank you so much for your kind comment 🙏
Everyone is so different! So it’s very important to get as many perspective as possible before making such a big decision
Think it takes anything between 3 - 5 years to feel properly settled in and used to a new country. There’s always some ups n downs along the journey. Best of wishes to you both, you do seem to have a positive attitude which will help immensely. Auckland isn’t normally as windy as lately, the weather patterns have been weird the last year or so. Hoping things finally settle down.
Thanks so much 😊
Yeah, the weather has been so weird 😂 Hoping for an awesome summer though!
Lekker positive guys.👍
The best advice I got when I immigrated to Australia was to,
“Find a footy team to support - Find an Australian beer to drink - Make Australian Mates…… because there is nothing nicer than drinking a few beers with your mates watching and chatting about the footy”
The lesson is to integrate, celebrate and be comfortable with your difference, DO NOT let it isolate you.
I’ll never understand why our best efforts, hopes and dreams of our beloved rainbow nation weren’t realistic and to be honest I no longer care, and in my experience neither do the people we meet in our new countries. Don’t let the “hangover” of THAT disappointment affect your experience of your new life, YOUR new beginning. Good luck❤
Great advice, alway good to connect with people over sports and drinks 🍻
Safety first was my reason to leave South Africa for Australia 41 years ago.Happy you are making the best of your new home
Wow, that’s a long time! I’m sure you’re loving Oz 🤗
Thank you for all your amazing videos. Me and my family have been watching your videos to hype up our immigration process to NZ. We are very excited for our new adventure.
Thanks so much for watching our videos! I’m sure you’re super excited for the adventure ahead 🥳
I only saw your message now, and it really resonates with me. My kids immigrated last year, and they wanted to come back. However, they decided to stay. I'm happy for them and we will be joining them soon
Thanks so much for watching :) Glad to hear that your kids decided to give it a go, will you be joining them permanently?
I think that the reason i just love your videos is because of your infectious enthusiasm and beautiful attitude to life and your adventure. My family and I had a similar experience when we immigrated from SA to Australia 26 years ago - and your stories bring back all the same memories for us, having lived a similar journey. I'm so happy for you guys - you have a wonderful attitude and I know you will be successful in everything you choose to do ! Keep the footage rolling :)
Attitude is everything,thank you for a great video.
Thanks so much for watching, appreciate it so much 💕
Thoroughly enjoyed watching this one once again you guys! I’m sure this will help so many people who are struggling or sitting on the fence … so uplifting, practical and inspiring! Well done! Love your banter and the fun you guys create for yourselves!
Thanks so much Helen 🤗 we always hope to be helpful with our videos 😊
I was so excited to see this video 😬 I resonate with the positive mindset. It's all about the attitude and approach for me 🤗 Yes everyone's experience will be different. But I think an open mind is important, your ideas can be one thing from the outside but actually landing here and being here is the next thing. Embrace it, learn along the way, and most of all be grateful 🤗 Thank you for this video ❤️ I sincerely hope to meet up with you guys one day
Julle is cute!! hehe, thanks for a nice video, so many amazing places in Auckland to explore. ❤
Thanks so much for watching :) The most exciting thing is that we haven't even scratched the surface!
Spot on! We can definitely relate!
Thanks Cal 💕
I love watching and following your journey ❤
Great tips on adjusting to the big move! I can tell that you guys are in love New Zealand. How cool that you guys are getting to meeting your viewers too. What a great way to find community!
Thank you for the amazing advice on your great adventure and experiences, yes everyone's experience is going to be different but all worth it in the end, focus on the goal ahead and the better and brighter days ahead and all would be fine. Cant wait to touch down there in few weeks and enjoy the new journey ahead .
Thanks so much for watching :) Yes, it's very different for everyone! You must be feeling ALL the emotions at the moment, with your departure around the corner!
@@BeingBedingfield Yes a rollercoaster of mixed emotions day and night , but i know this change is for the best. Keep up the great work And keep them great vids coming ,Enjoyyyy!🤗
Great vlog as always, and sound advice guys.
Before we left SA for NZ, my wife said, "what can I expect?"
I replied (and while it did not answer her question, in my mind, these were the two important issues)
1) SA/NZ drive on the same side of the road, and
2) Kiwis speak English, therefore the rest, not a problem (meaning - we will work thru the issues, as and when)
My reasoning: turn those around (learning to drive on the other side of the road, and learning a new language, after moving countries) - Yeah - Nah.
Anyway, hope you both have a great weekend 👌👍👌
Thanks so much for watching 🙏 and sharing some advice! Totally agree 😅
You forgot to tell your wife about cricket and rugby. Kiwis also like to braai/barbecue. Don't forget that there are thousands of Saffas living in NZ. You can still buy biltong, boerewors and SA products.
Enjoyed this vid. Enjoy guys ❤🇿🇦
Great video as always guys 👍
Thanks so much Mark 🙏
You two have really great personalities so will never have to worry about meeting people. I feel your vibe just watching your vlogd😂, love it ❤
Aw thanks! It’s all Craig…he is so good with making friends and connecting with people 🤗
Thanks so much for watching 🙏
@@BeingBedingfield your being too modest. It's both of you 🤔
@@dougruruku113🙏💕😊
@@dougruruku113 yep I TOTALLY agree with this comment, "Yin and Yan" if you like. What a team. So much content on youtube, but you guys are "nailing it"
It's definitely helpful, thanks guys
Thanks so much for watching and for the feedback, we always hope to be helpful :)
You guys are so positive,realistic and brave - it's a huge move to come over here to Aotearoa. I know I would struggle with the weather up there. Both a huge credit to your nation, remind me of my lovely London flatmates, so funny too....Craig is "Hangry" Bloopers are awesome! Chantz impulsive, Craig analyst..cool couple!
😅😅 thanks so much Greg! We always enjoy reading your comments 🙏🤗
Love all your videos,we r making the move n will be there soon around end of Oct in northshore city auckland,so your videos always gives us so mch positive energy❤
Thanks so much 🤗
Ooh, getting close now! Hope all your preparations are going well!
@@BeingBedingfield yess we are waiting fr our police clearance to come in and have booked our medicals we r a family of 4, 2kids and me and my wife.We r frm india but past year and hlf we living in uk and my wife got a job as a nurse so we tuk this move I am sure we r gonna luv it
Hey you two! Miss you! Great topic to cover! As an immigrant myself, I know that there are a lot of difficulties you face that not anyone can fully understand. I was so young when I moved to the US by myself and it changed me and made me who I am today. Luckily you moved together and have each other but it will also change you - in a positive way!
nice update you two!
Thanks so much for watching 😊
It has been so interesting and fun to follow your move! You've shared about some great topics/things to consider before making a life changing decision.
I hope you both were able to get something delicious to eat right after this 😁 I (Jamie) am usually the one to get hangry when filming 😆
Some of my favourite people I haven't met yet. You started with the best foundation; following The Way. ✝
Aww 😁 A strong foundation makes all the difference ✝️
I would have a beer 🍺 with you guys anytime....your shout of course 😁. Love ya honesty on your vids. Always great to watch!!
😂🍻First one will be our shout, as long as second's on you 😅 Thanks so much for watching :)
great advice!
Thanks guys!
I've got a friend from NZ who is visiting her children in SA right now. She married a Kiwi and left several years ago. With the worsening situation in SA, she and her husband would love for the kids to immigrate from SA to NZ, but there's something about a point system that's stopping them. My friends live in Auckland and getting the kids to immigrate there is next to impossible, but would be doable if they lived on the South Island. I know it pains them all to not be together in NZ.
Yeah, it's really sad how families are being separated through emigration :(
Yes, we are happy. 😊
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I first watched this on my tv before my phone and I look better on my TV
Hi you2, there is no end to enjoyment if a person is happy. Bear one thing in mind, never forget the future, always reserve something for then. Novilty is a thing which can wear off very quickly, take care, it comes unexpected. NZ is not SA in size, only a percentage thereof, you could be depleted of options very quickly, and then, what then. Re-visit places, they do change, it is better to strech your options. Anyway, enjoy what you have, youzzzz deserve it. Greetings, Thailand.
Hiii 👋 Yes, definitely have to keep the future in mind, that’s a very good point!
Don’t you worry…we’ll always find something to do 😅
immigrating is a mindset dont look to the past dont look too far in the future be positve and be PRESENT enjoy the PRESENT
I really love you guys
Thanks so much ❤️
My daughters are thinking of immigration. Both are studying degrees at the moment. For me it's hard to think I'll stay behind but I'll never hold them back😢
South Africans is becoming a nation with whole in its heart .....it was once filled with family and friends fur babies now.....just a huge gabing whole.... however, if history is anything to go by, We resliant positive, never say die people, fiercely independent highly adaptable people that alone will ensure that our culture and spirit will endure the test of time we can take comfort in that.
It's such a sad reality :( Literally all of my parent's friends have children overseas...but at least they all get to travel now😅
I have been unemployed now for 5years, 5234 CVs sent in 5 years, 2300 decline job interviews because of BEE, 10 hours of no electricity, been to 5 Funerals because of people I know got shot, been robbed twice, Its imposable to survive in South Africa in my option. If anyone wants to return to SA they MAD.
They are mad in YOUR OPINION, don't leave that part out.New Zealand is not heaven I can guarantee you that and many people have a lot to not leav in SA.
If you think racial politics doesn't occur in New Zealand or any overseas western countries nowerdays you are in for a rude awakening.
@mabhodlelajj1195 did you even read his comment.
I think moving to a new country will be much easier before you start with a family. Children make your life so much busier and they need to get to a school etc etc. Also you have no family support to help with the kids.
So starting a family after you arrive and first get settled in and know your way around would be so much easier. The children will then also be born in your new country.
Yeah, it was definitely much easier for us compared to families with children…we’re in awe of everyone coming over with their kids 😅
Ve watching you 2 and your experience there but you have made the best decision in your life and for your future and when x if you have kids.
The 2 of you are happy couple and makes a big difference of staying positive.
Keep video's coming gives me that moment of escaping SA 😂😂
Thanks so much, appreciate your comment :)
NZ lucky to have OZ alongside...
Gud couple yus are doing for yourself and whanau. Nice podcast.I am from nz Maori boy.gud to see yus are doing well kia kaha
Hi Ronnie, thanks for your comment 😁 We’re loving your beautiful country and grateful to feel so welcomed 🙏
For anyone considering moving, for a lot of people it will take 18 months to 2 years to feel settled,
The reality of being an adult is a lot of people have established lives & frien groups. How many new friends did you make in the last year before leaving?
To make friends in Nz you have to put yourself out there. Join the various sports groups/teams or organizations. Squash, tennis, golf, hiking, etc there are 100s. On average people are said to like about 5% so as long as there are 20 people in a group you should be able to find 1.
What you cant do is hope the neighbors will be your friends & just go from home to work. The neighbors might be, but realistically theyre as random as anyone walking down the street.
Get out there & join the groups
So true...you really have to put yourself out there. As you said, joining teams/clubs/church/etc is a great way of connecting :)
immigrating from SA to NZ is hard but now there are so many SOuthern African folk here from SA Zimbabwe Botswana Zambia etc, NZ has a big SA population with some South africans having moved to NZ in the 90s
I'm conflicted evryone is different it depends on your circumstances...
Yes, exactly 😊 get as many different perspectives as possible, there are loads of resources and people sharing their experiences 💕
I can't imagine leaving South Africa😪, I love it here.
Have you a country/s to compare it to?
Yeah you numb to the how bad it is..
Craig is lucky man....she is so pretty
Simp much?
Mental health very important. If you don’t have a support structure and need others to keep you positive, NZ is far from family&friends, make sure you get involved with community,sport or socially. Remember even Auckland is small in comparison to most of the South African cities, there are much less people around, only really busy areas are Auckland cbd and Albany. Do your homework well. On the various social media groups there are groups for and against everything, read all the info you can get, but keep in mind you are not them, don’t allow others to influence your decision, make your own. Read the comments on the groups on why the people returned or are planning to return, there are groups just for this. Most other groups people are promoting only the good. Important to get a balanced perspective so you can make an informed decision, as said in vlog it can be a very expensive mistake. But for some it also a great decision. There are around 72000 South Africans in NZ, with 36000 in Auckland and 6000 in Waikato,wellington & Canterbury.
Great advice! Super important to research all the different perspectives :)
Keep living in the honeymoon period , always ....
Yes 🤗🤗🤗
Until then, we thought that South Africa was a first world country, we had never realized that it was a third world country. And now we can't adapt, we move in large numbers to New Zealand, Australia or even Portugal in the hope of recreating the 70's and 80's. There's nothing wrong with immigrating, but our reasons are basically these.
What I find sad is that there is no climate and air like South Africa, my children probably won't have that feeling of "Africanness", we are on our way to becoming the same thing as whenwes in Zimbabwe.
For sure...the weather is very different 😅
Is there no "Daylight Savings Time" in South Africa. ???
Nope, daylight savings is very new to us 😅
What is it like living outside the city? I have a job offer but 2 hours outside Auckland.
Hi Ashina, when we first came to NZ, we lived in a place called Whangarei which is also about 2 hours from Auckland city (you can have a look at our older videos). While it was really beautiful and we loved exploring there, it was a bit quiet for us. So it just depends on what type of lifestyle you want :)
Two things I love about home. A Maori culture forged upon absolutes on meaning and value. And, 'God defend New Zealand ' sung in two tongues by many ethnic backgrounds. If we can just understand the obvious symbols in a historic flow, New Zealand can be a beautiful place. The haka for example, which is not really a haka but rather it is a Ngere, like a chant is about a chief who saves the life of his enemy only to lose his life for doing it. I don't think that it's a coincidence that Ka Mate is our greatest export. I think, that taken the current condition in the earth today, the only place we can look to for understanding, is historical precedent. If the world ever needed Jesus, today is that day. Read the second verse of our anthem. It's mad. Cool video 😎.
Thanks so much 😊
I've just learnt something new and meaningful about our national Haka! See what u guys are doing? Thankyou for sharing Honahwikeepa!
You guys are def. experiencing "typical Auckland weather" Sunshine,rain,sunshine,wind,hail,sunshine....hahaha
Hopefully you guys will finally get a traditional Auckland summer after all this horrible weather....when I grew up it was warm and DRY especially from Feb to May
@@gregbooth1551we’re really really really hoping for an amazing summer!
@@BeingBedingfield LONG overdue for most of Australasia from what I'm gathering. Met a few Ozzy tourists struggling after flooding worse than us...last year at least.
Cape Town weather.
@@Inceba Auckland weather is worse than Cape Towns lol
I see you've found Blunts...
New Zealand is not like South Africa was. Nor is the present South Africa. I think that those that could emigrate and fit in must be grateful. Less crime, load shedding, better job security etc. I have friends living in New Zealand for 30 years now. An adjustment but they very happy.
Love to hear that first fact . Doing it for yourself.
My fiance and myself hope to move over soon with our little boy. She's a teacher and I'm hoping to get into a landscaping company.
She is always saying we doing it for the little one. So he can have security and a better future and while that is really a no brianer I keep reminding her that we aren't old and gone and doing it for ourselves is just as important. We still have a future and possibilities and new opportunities that may present themselves. So doing it for yourself is something that is super important to me.
Pretty much all your points are in line with ours. From experiencing new things, (some as simple as just trying new products is extremely exciting for me)
If all goes well with us it would be so great to meet up if we end up in aukland area to grab a coffee( or beer craig)😂. Will be great to get an insiders perspective
Yeah, would be great to meet up when you guys are here 🤗🍻
Super important to make the move for yourself and nothing wrong with that 😁
Wish you guys had stayed in SA. Would you consider going back one day?
Aww! We don’t know what the future holds, but for now, we’re really loving New Zealand 🤗
Once you see what life is suppose to be like why would anyone want to go back to SA..?? I like having electricity, having a clean city, clean drinking water, not living like a prisoner in my own home… no thanks.. New Zealand is awesome!
What do you guys do for work?
Craig's an engineer and I'm in social media :)
My husband and I are looking at immigrating. He's quite set on NZ.. I'm just so concerned about the weather 😐😐 is it really colder than SA? I'm not a fan of cold weather...
So many South Africans adapt to the colder winters here in Invercargill.
Seriously?? Considering all the crap in SA you worried about the weather??? 🤣🤣🤣
I am a computer Engineer how likely would I get a job that side?
Computer engineering is a combination of IT and Electrical engineering
Good day guys, how are you, I'm from South Africa Eastern Cape and I'm looking to migrate to New Zealand for work purposes, can you guys please assist on where or how to start cz I've been trying to look for work online ok LinkedIn and seek but with no luck, I'm in the IT industry. Thank you in advance ❤️
Hi, unfortunately we don't have any advice other than what you've already done. LinkedIn and Seek are the go-to places...just keep looking :)
I'm an SA expat who is based in Rwanda for a year now, possibly the safest and cleanest place ever, but the South African in me kinda misses the adrenalin of SA that everyday 'fight or flight', how this place has changed is i went from a SA alpha male to more of a Beta male, dont know if im making sense but something similar to how we play our rugby high adrenalin, fight, aggresion, killer mentality
Do you guys get the same sensations in NZ? Just to safe and too comfortable?
This sounds like a personal preference question that you already know the answer to :)
At the end of the day… NOTHING beats living in South Africa.
Not for people born in other countries NZ is the best for me SA for you As an alpine climber and skier, SA would never work - personal passions
I haven't lived in SA for 23 years. I have fantastic memories of the place and for weather, culture, people etc it's hard to beat. But for me, the constant niggle would be crime. I have two young kids and am so grateful to be raising them in a place where we feel safe.
Don't forget LOAD SHEDDING.@@tonyclifton1278
This must have been typed on a day that load shedding was suspended 😂
Not necessarily
Kiwis like helping one another. You scratch my back, l scratch yours🤔
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'n Bietjie te entoesiasties om my te oortuig.
Not trying to convince anyone of anything, just sharing our experience 🤷🏻♀️
No LOAD SHEDDING.😂
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South Africa banana 🍌 Republic unemployment 36 percent. People standing at traffic lights in South Africa with university degrees. Vat going up soon 21 percent in South Africa.
Reality check about NZ, my wife, my son and I moved here December 2023:
1. Bloody hard to find a job here, both my wife and I have degrees and loads of experience. In SA you will get discriminated against for being white. Here you will be discriminated against for being foreign. You will hear nonsense like "you don't have enough kiwi experience". You will pay no less than $500 to have your degree checked by some professor who works for NZQA, you will pay or you will stay.
2. NZ VISA laws change all the time. Even if you have a job here, don't think you will just move between jobs, the new VISA laws make it bloody hard for employers to employ foreigners, they have to jump through loads of hoops to get you employed, quite frankly, NZ employers don't want to go through all that trouble, so they pick people who already have residence or permanent residence.
3. NZ government loves money more than the ANC. The difference between a 1st world and 3rd world country is that in a 1st world country they use technology to better govern you, to keep your ass nailed to the wall all the time. You WILL pay for parking, if you are lucky it will be $18 for a day, most of the time it is closer to $40 a day. NZ government employs people to drive around in little AT (Auckland Transport) cars with 4 cameras on the roof to scan plates - Trust me, you will pay for parking, you will not escape it.
4. NZ government likes to screw migrants over. For example, I am a software engineer but I was qualified as an electrician when I was younger. I wanted to register my qualification here also (I was an electrician for nearly a decade). NZ allows this, you will pay $1500 (nearly R20 000.00) just to be told that you are a sucker and they want you to work for them for no less than 2000 hours, supervised by a qualified electrician and then you can apply to be registered as an electrician, they will decide. Think it's easy? Go check point 1, think I am lying? Come here and try for yourself.
5. NZ is crazy expensive, if you think you will survive here on the "hubby's" salary, guess again. There is a reason why thousands of Kiwi's are leaving for Aus.
6. If you are true Saffa, you will miss home a lot more than you realize. You will miss seeing animals when walking through the bush, you will miss sunshine, you will miss your family, you will miss many..many things.
7. I know a few Saffas here who are very happy in NZ, but I can tell you now that most of them love it here so much because they've got to a point where they hate South-Africa, they don't even want to be called Saffas anymore, they want to be known as Kiwi's. It's easy to walk away from something when you hate it.
8. If you like sunshine and hot weather, NZ is not for you, don't believe the nonsense on google that says it doesn't rain so much. Most people get jobs in Auckland, and it doesn't rain in Auckland, it pours.
9. Don't believe a word the NZ immigration consultants tell you from SA, they are all a bunch of liars that want your money. They will tell you nonsense like you will come to NZ and within a week you fill find a job. There are plenty of Saffas here that are suffering because of stupidity on their part and because they listened to those blood sucking liars who call themselves immigration consultants. If you don't believe me, go join the facebook group for Saffas in NZ, read and see the complaints and pleas for yourself.
10. If you are a christian it will be even harder for you here - these people love to be "inclusive" and all kinds of other nonsense. They blaspheme Christ everywhere. They don't dare blaspheme any other god or thing, but when it comes to Christ you can know for a fact they will blaspheme Him. There are christians in NZ, but they are few and far between.
11. Think the police is better here? Not a chance, they have their fare share of taking 40 minutes plus to respond to violent house breakings. Think the medical situation is better here, not a chance, if you don't have private medical aid you will wait months before you can see a specialist. Just last week a lady I know off, her father was in a dire situation, they called for an ambulance, an hour later they were still waiting? Sure I guess you can argue they are stupid, why not just jump in the car and drive to the hospital? This is not an isolated story, another woman who's son got beaten up in Auckland took her son to the hospital, they waited 8 hours before a doctor came to see them because the son's face was smashed in but he "seemed" ok, no one bothered to check internal bleeding or anything like that. If you think the medical situation in NZ is good, you are under some serious disillusionment.
12. Did the bastards in SA tell you that you will only pay $50 or so to see a dentist? Ha, you will pay at least $70 only for the consultation, then the money hemorrhadge starts. You will pay no less than $1600 for a root canal (nearly R20 000.00).
13. NZ life is for the rich. If you come here with your family and earn $120 000.00 a year then you will only just survive. If you can get a lot more than this you will be happy, because in NZ you can have it all as long as you pay it all.
14. Think NZ is prettier than SA, well that depends on what you think is beautiful. If you like the desert then NZ is ugly, if you like tropical then NZ is spectacularly beautiful. But still, no animals, some birds here and there maybe, but nothing even close to what we have in SA.
15. If you think you are going to come to NZ for a better life, you are in for a surprise. It will most probably be a lot crappier life for a long time before it will become a "better" life. To be honest, the only thing that is better here is that there is less violent crime and no JuJu's or Andile's running around calling for the mass murder of white folks, or even the cats and dogs of white folks. Even so, if you have family in SA you will be worried about them, so your soul never really finds rest for itself.
16. Do you like driving slow, NZ is for you, you can keep to a pace of 50km/h at your hearts desire. I will say, there are places on the highways where even the kiwi's don't care and they push their cars to 140km/h, but you do this at great risk. Remember what I said about technology usage in NZ.
If you have questions for me you are welcome to respond to this post, I will get it and we can have a talk. Not saying don't come to NZ, just saying have your eyes wide open and understand, there is no bloody paradise anywhere on earth. Some saffas get lucky and they are living the dream in NZ, most of us don't get lucky, "jy sal klippe kou en jy sal gou uitvind...".
Sounds like you’re having a tough time here 😢 Our videos is just one perspective and hopefully people will consult various different sources and do a lot of research before they make such a huge move.
We love it here, but that doesn’t mean we hate South Africa.
Hope things change for you soon 🫶
@chrispaul2609 Thanks for the message friend, by God's grace we are doing ok I think. Apparently stats NZ announced in May 2024 that thus far 134 000 kiwis have already lost their jobs, mostly in the public sector, with yet another 26 000 to come. Again, not saying to anyone don't come to NZ, just saying that life here is bloody tough, maybe even tougher than SA in certain respects. All the best to you and your family also, sorry you had to go. My best friend here in NZ, he and his family also had to leave in June 2024 because of the VISA law changes.
We're a rip off country racist towards Maori and isolated at the end of the world
We love your country and all the people are amazing and so welcoming :)
@@BeingBedingfieldI love how excited you both are about our country. ❤
If you lie to yourself long enough...you start to believe that lie !!!
Not sure what you mean 🤷🏻♀️
Such a super video mental health aspect so important when a family member passes away in SA and during covid there are no goodbyes talking to a therapist really helps one through. Keep happy 😊
That must be one of the toughest things to go through 😪