Benita was just trying to find her way in life. She's young, exploring options and finding what feels good to her! I totally get it. I wish I had a friend like Latasha in my 20's to show me the ropes in business and success! But Latasha also has to allow Benita to find her way through things. I know Latasha means well and wants the best for Benita, but she has to give Benita room to grow. Benita is doing her best and I'm happy for her growth thus far!
LaTasha needs to go get herself a dog or a child because she wants to mother someone. Benita is young and needs to cut loose. They don’t need to be friends. Block each other and forget the friendship.
Benita is not a fool. She'll need that communication for when she messes up again and wants out and someone to fall back on for support. Alcohol, drugs, and secret messages from God - No, she doesn't need any help at all. Doing just fine ...
@@Arcadia61 who said Benita was a fool? I said they need to cut ties and move on? And if Benita falls, the. She needs to find a way up like all adults do. Friends should not be used as crutches. Benita wants to be free, that means she wants to be on her own without any assistance.
I mean not really id you were doing good and successful wouldn't you want to look out for your friends and boost them to your level of success or as close as they can get to your level of success
Mentor is delusional. Let that girl figure out her own life. Lend advice and move forward. It’s Bonita’s life to figure out and if she makes mistakes along the way it’s her road to travel.
Wow...what are you saying! This girl had a wild youth, a drug addict, an alcoholic and you suggest that the thing to do is to let her do it alone. As if her problems were Latasha's fault? Do you think that by going to Texas she solved her addiction problems on her own?
@@alessandrolozio5373 help and CONTROL are two totally different things. Latasha was trying to “CONTROL” her. Was the intent good? Yes. Was it healthy? No. Just like with parents who try and control adult children. What happens? The kids blatantly defy them. Why? Because it’s their life and they want to make their own decisions. It’s nothing wrong with giving input and guidance but sometimes you have to let people learn the hard way even when you see what they don’t 🤷🏾♀️. The lesson will be valid more when they have to learn from experience instead of the word of someone else.
@@JustmymomandWEok i agreee.... but probably something missing in the story.... we need to know wath's happens wen the story start... the real conditions of the young girl.... why the girl approach the lady... the real intenctions of both..... we don't know all..... sorry for my bad english.... i wrote from Italy and probably i don't understand the complete story.... and i don't see the control from the lady...probably due to the different mentality and different age ( i'm 67...)
Where is Latasha. Girl mentor me. Our generation is crashed. I’d love for someone to fight for me to get out the dumps and want me to be successful. We have to stop making excuses for our generation. A lot of us are lead astray fr. Some people do not need to be out here by themselves.
I wouldn't be so hard on her. Here's a young lady who has lost her way (alcohol, drugs) and a woman who can help her out of the mess she has put herself into. Yes, there's a fine line between help and intrusion and the older woman has crossed it but not out of arrogance. The younger woman is still lost. God telling her to move to Texas, really??. To do what, exactly? Anyone would be concerned for someone taking marching orders literally out of thin air. She's almost thirty and nowhere near ready to settling down on a steady path to some goal or other. She'll keep going back whenever she's in too much muck and wants out of a situation. So, although she said she'll be her friend, she'll end up standing in for her mum, untangling her messes.
🤔 I think the wife truly didn't understand what/how it was going to be with a trans man. She already made a demand about 'down there' so why did they get married? What does love have to do with it? Where's the respect? That going to Momma's woulda been permanent!
But if he told her in the beginning of their relationship that he didn’t want the surgery. Why is it ok for him to change his mind, but not for her to stand on what they agreed on?
@@tashiaredd3421 I think he agreed to the surgery to please her but he later thought about himself. What is his wife willing to do for him? Again...the wife didn't fully understand the dynamic. If him needing to have surgery for her full acceptance than she shoulda got with a man period.
Wow... that Latasha and Benita thing was tough,,, how often do we want someone to fight for us the way she was. Someone that has their head on straight and is still fly. But Im proud of Benita for standing her ground , finding herself and speaking up for what was true to her. So happy they have one another.
Woman you are just a friend. You are too controlling. She is young. Let her find her own gig. You are just a friend so stay on your lane. Let her fly and stop clipping her wing. You are sniffling. Let the young lady live her darn life. Move on.
If you are called to be someone's mentor, that does not mean you get a say so in making decisions for that person. Being a mentor does not mean you are involved in every aspect of that person's life. This is silly and very foul
I wish I had a friend like Natasha growing up ,maybe I wouldn't have made some bad decisions. Bonita needs to be grateful and thankful to Natasha for trying to guide her towards the right paths .Natasha clearly likes her alot and want to see her grow. She's a special person. Some friends will wanna drag u to the mud or extort you to their advantage. Natasha is clearly the opposite. Good friends are like diamond, hard to find these days. If you have one cherish the person please.
That lady is psycho and overbearing. She doesn’t have to be grateful for anything. She clearly is trying to control every aspect of this young woman’s life.
Does anyone else find it funny how the guest comes in and talks all professional as possible and as soon as the other person walks in they switch up immediately lmaoooo
@@JustmymomandWEyou wouldn't be confused if you saw him as a man. If he were to go in a women's bathroom, I guarantee you every woman in there would be like what the hell is a man doing in here?
Yess I’m confused as well bc normally men that’s transitioning they’re removing their penis(bottom surgery) I’ve never heard of a woman having bottom surgery to get a penis. I believe it’s much easier to get rid of the penis & make a vagina 🤷🏽♀️ unless he is getting his breast remove. Idk I’m still confused
As soon as he mentioned "trans" for their relationship, she was doomed from the start what she was dealing with. I feel sorry for her. He's making excuses not to wear his wedding ring. 😈. He's left and cut bills off😳. What! He wouldn't have to never come back. 🤦♀️
I don’t feel sorry for her at all. She allowed all of that to happen. Especially from the very beginning knowing that Nicola is a woman. If “down there” is what she really wanted she should have got with a real man and not a woman transitioning to a man who then decides she didn’t want to do the “down there” surgery.
In today's society, exchanging wedding rings is very popular amongst Christian weddings, weddings of a variety of different religions and indeed also non-religious services. However, did you know that there is no biblical scripture that instructs people to wear wedding rings?
I think Nic is still searching for himself and wasn’t ready. Rosetta wanted to be loved so bad she got married and the two don’t correlate. Mom’s house is the safe space and not that deep for someone needing clarity. Nic needs to be separated to find out the right thing. And Rosetta should respect that because transitioning is not simple…..
Rosetta is not perfect by any means but Nicola is mean-spirited, controlling, manipulative and selfish. I really hope they split and Latasha is weird AF! It's giving obsessive, overbearing, almost guerilla pimp vibes... she needs to back off! Benita needs to block her FOR GOOD!
@@d3mizedinto a man not into a woman. The ones transitioning to a woman, take hormones for boobs and wear wigs, etc to appear like a woman. Also that person uses the he and him pronouns.
It sounds like Bipolar, extreme highs with reckless behaviors and extreme lows with no motivation to keep moving on. Maybe she needs to see a therapist or a psychiatrist.
This mentor is way too much. Benita is an adult not a child. Somehow the mentor does not know how to let go and allow the young lady to live her life. She probably does not even want to do what you want her to. Calling her girl, girl , girl like shes some child and not an adult.. Allow the young lady some room and space to breathe and grow.
I would just advise Sister Rosetta, take space and time before you get into another relationship because you got to believe what people tell you from the beginning another observation is if you are blessed to be married again and your earn more than your husband, and it's your house, you agree, in a marriage, it is OUR house, so then you cannot keep telling the man to GET OUT or he will STAY OUT and I mean all the way OUT! That's a form of control too Sis!
Shes young and trying to figure out what success means to her. Not everyone wants to only focus on a successful business. Some people value of success is a healthy mind, emotional life, peace and environment while able to stay afloat. You got to acknowledge both professional and SPIRITUAL Emotional growth. Because they are all equally important. If shes able to hold her own maybe not a 6figure business but able to be independent and have peace in her life. Then you gave her enough skill to be SUCCESSFUL
She does seem more than a mentor, more like a mother, or even someone who wants control... Benita is right; she has the right to make decisions about her life journey. A journey should change and not stay the same all the time-it's called growth and growing.
Latasha comes off as one of those people who will volunteer their help only to brag and throw it in your face later. She seems like one of them “ You're only successful because of me” type of person.
Why place so much emphasis on a ring? This person left you, shouldn't that concern you more than a piece of jewelry? And I say this as a married person.
me Bonita story is somewhat similar when it comes to the shrooms & trying to get her life together & it’s crazy because my name is Denitia❤ (pronounced the same way). she talks about how her generation is together while ours is lost when she fails to realize that YALL GENERATION RAISED US! now we grown up trying to figure out EVERYTHING on our own. we all fighting our own problems & most has nothing to do with another person .
I think one girl in red just knows how the world is coming down so she wants to pick younger one up so she isn’t as down bad as everyone else. If she can help one person that’s who she wants to help. Just like she said she does see her as a daughter she never had. I understand the both of them. She cares and loves a lot for that girl just like the other girl said she sees her as her big sister.
You know what I wanted to say this but wasn't sure I'd be called a transphobe lol. This is a supposed "man" yet behaves like a woman that she really is. Packing your bags at any issue and running to mummy is a feminine thing to do because we get overwhelmed and want to run away lol. I know I do but ain't got anywhere to go so have to keep my sorry behind where it is 😂😂😂
Latasha was my Lyft driver before I knew she looked super familiar . She does have a business she was a very nice lady but she seems a bit overly involved in whatever Bonita has going on.
This country is in crisis, hurting, aching, lost, bound, confused at levels & dimension that supersede the government & modern day "Church" capacity! There's a desperate cry for help that reality tv shows are not. Designed to remedy but indeed are designed to fail. When its at your fronts door maybe then the sense of urgency will be clearly understood.
Nah I was in a relationship and my girl told me to leave her house one time and I NEVER felt comfortable at her house from that point on...u can't do something to someone then dictate how they react
Latasha needs to back up lol she has turned into a MEANtor. Talk with Benita. The back and forth is unnecessary. This young lady is figuring things out for herself and she’s on the right track for herself. *EDIT* ok I finished and I LOOOVEE how that ended!!! I hope they and their newly laid friendship boundaries are thriving ❤❤❤❤❤❤
She needs to stop trying to be her mother. To me…she seems old enough to actually be her mom….so why is she seeking friendship with this young girl at her age??? Does she have any friends in her own age group???
My husband and I don't wear rings. I lost one. My husband lost his. So no we don't wear rings. Quiet as its kept. The rings attract people to you. When I don't wear my ring it don't. 🤔
😂 I insisted on a cheap ring 40 years ago so we wouldnt have debt and the stone fell out of that cheap thing but hubby got me a lovely anniversary ring at 21 years. 40 years and still going strong. Congrats to you.
Tbh as soon as the wife said she didn’t accept him even thinking about surgery “down there” I knew this was going downhill. I’m not saying it’s because of that I’m just saying that shows the respect she has for him & his response in front of her shows he’s not as comfortable as he claims to be with her. It just got worse from there he said himself they aren’t on the same page
I can see she just wanted what she felt was best for Bonita BUT she also did want her kind of like a daughter as well. She had all good intentions I do think but was forgetting that Bonita being so young still she’s going to to do things that makes no sense to us with a bit more age on us( or a lot like me I’m 60). My son is 38 and level headed. He’s in the Air Force but has always been a good decision maker BUT my daughter who is 26 sometimes does things that makes me start pulling my hair out😮. It can get so frustrating at times especially with mine being all over the place all in the same day at times, lol. Mom I’m going to be this and that and then it continues throughout the day at times seriously. So I can relate to I think her name is Latasha, I for sure understand but yes we have to give them grace, patience, and Love. Let them fall and just be there to help them up which is so scary at times especially the times we’re living in now
Marriage is between one man and one woman so y’all aren’t really married so there’s really not a problem .. I’m praying for y’all salvation ❤️🙏🏽Jesus loves all of us and His grace is sufficient
AMEN. That's a demonic relationship that has nothing to do with GOD .They are married to Satan,and what does Satan come to do? Kill,steal ,and destroy. Anything done out of GODs will is a curse
Gigi should mind her business and walk away… well at least I would simply because once the beef over, pillow talk begin and y’all not going gang up on me🤷🏾♀️ lastly, If he’s transitioning, those hormones side effects are something else…. It’s a drug that doesn’t belong inside the human body
Benita has a longggg way to go , a TikTok video with a nice voiceover , Doesn’t mean you’ve changed , or are doing well . People like this hardly learn , I’ve had friends exactly like this , latasha needs to be more humble and also let her go , people will do what they want to do at the end of the day .
I'll be honest with you the way she always arguing and fussing everything most men I have known they leave because they don't have time for all that argument they not about arguing and fussing if you can't communicate and talk to each other and listen to each other out and stop putting him out of the house and tell him to get out and take his clothes and stuff he goes to his mother's house you keep fussing everything from what I'm looking for him that he's not about all that arguing and fussing every time you turn you are always fussing about something so he goes to his mother's house or are you going to drive him to another woman cuz you fuss so much about every little things he does I wouldn't want to be around you
Benita was just trying to find her way in life. She's young, exploring options and finding what feels good to her! I totally get it. I wish I had a friend like Latasha in my 20's to show me the ropes in business and success! But Latasha also has to allow Benita to find her way through things. I know Latasha means well and wants the best for Benita, but she has to give Benita room to grow. Benita is doing her best and I'm happy for her growth thus far!
i agree and i think Latasha should just let Benita go. She shouldnt let her come back into her business. They can remain friends.
LaTasha needs to go get herself a dog or a child because she wants to mother someone. Benita is young and needs to cut loose. They don’t need to be friends. Block each other and forget the friendship.
Benita is not a fool. She'll need that communication for when she messes up again and wants out and someone to fall back on for support. Alcohol, drugs, and secret messages from God - No, she doesn't need any help at all. Doing just fine ...
@@Arcadia61 who said Benita was a fool? I said they need to cut ties and move on? And if Benita falls, the. She needs to find a way up like all adults do. Friends should not be used as crutches. Benita wants to be free, that means she wants to be on her own without any assistance.
@@Arcadia61😮
LMAOOO A DOG
“groom you into being successful” is such a weird way to word your “friendship”
I mean not really id you were doing good and successful wouldn't you want to look out for your friends and boost them to your level of success or as close as they can get to your level of success
@@errxrerrxr8983 groom isn’t the word to use. Mold…push…direct…mentor
Mentor is delusional. Let that girl figure out her own life. Lend advice and move forward. It’s Bonita’s life to figure out and if she makes mistakes along the way it’s her road to travel.
Wow...what are you saying! This girl had a wild youth, a drug addict, an alcoholic and you suggest that the thing to do is to let her do it alone. As if her problems were Latasha's fault? Do you think that by going to Texas she solved her addiction problems on her own?
@@alessandrolozio5373 I said it’s her LIFE to live HER WAY
@@JustmymomandWE Without any support....?
@@alessandrolozio5373 help and CONTROL are two totally different things. Latasha was trying to “CONTROL” her. Was the intent good? Yes. Was it healthy? No. Just like with parents who try and control adult children. What happens? The kids blatantly defy them. Why? Because it’s their life and they want to make their own decisions. It’s nothing wrong with giving input and guidance but sometimes you have to let people learn the hard way even when you see what they don’t 🤷🏾♀️. The lesson will be valid more when they have to learn from experience instead of the word of someone else.
@@JustmymomandWEok i agreee.... but probably something missing in the story.... we need to know wath's happens wen the story start... the real conditions of the young girl.... why the girl approach the lady... the real intenctions of both..... we don't know all..... sorry for my bad english.... i wrote from Italy and probably i don't understand the complete story....
and i don't see the control from the lady...probably due to the different mentality and different age ( i'm 67...)
Bonita’s TikTok was BEAUTIFUL ❤❤❤❤. People need to understand that everyone’s path is theirs to follow.
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Rap ? Music money is over now she need to have a backup plan
🙌🏾AMAZING🙏🏾
@@Jsarmy87124 Your life must be perfect. Her life is not your business Ms. Perfect
I’m so sick and tired of adult well in their 50’s still playing games, uneducated and BROKE!!
Damn!
Where is Latasha. Girl mentor me. Our generation is crashed. I’d love for someone to fight for me to get out the dumps and want me to be successful. We have to stop making excuses for our generation. A lot of us are lead astray fr. Some people do not need to be out here by themselves.
Girl I said the same thing! I'd love for her to be my mentor.
The older friend is controlling and arrogant
She wanted a child not a friend
I wouldn't be so hard on her. Here's a young lady who has lost her way (alcohol, drugs) and a woman who can help her out of the mess she has put herself into. Yes, there's a fine line between help and intrusion and the older woman has crossed it but not out of arrogance. The younger woman is still lost. God telling her to move to Texas, really??. To do what, exactly? Anyone would be concerned for someone taking marching orders literally out of thin air. She's almost thirty and nowhere near ready to settling down on a steady path to some goal or other. She'll keep going back whenever she's in too much muck and wants out of a situation. So, although she said she'll be her friend, she'll end up standing in for her mum, untangling her messes.
🤔 I think the wife truly didn't understand what/how it was going to be with a trans man. She already made a demand about 'down there' so why did they get married? What does love have to do with it? Where's the respect? That going to Momma's woulda been permanent!
If transgender knew what being a men or women was we would not have this pb
It's not permanent....
I literally said this 💯 me being a transman myself , her logic irritated me , people need to honestly do their research on trans community 🏳️⚧️💪🏽
But if he told her in the beginning of their relationship that he didn’t want the surgery. Why is it ok for him to change his mind, but not for her to stand on what they agreed on?
@@FtmMajor RESPECT. I'd rather learn & understand than to judge or make assumptions. Take care and I hope the new year brings you joy & peace.
@@tashiaredd3421 I think he agreed to the surgery to please her but he later thought about himself. What is his wife willing to do for him?
Again...the wife didn't fully understand the dynamic. If him needing to have surgery for her full acceptance than she shoulda got with a man period.
Karomo ……just would like to tell you….PLEASE do not CHANGE how your show started. We (and you know what I’m saying ) love you ❤
How did it start
This Hug At The End Is Exactly Everything ‼️‼️‼️❣️❣️ GOD BLESS THIS FRIENDSHIP/ SISTER'S 💗
I love them cause they both were very genuine and she just wants the best for her But Karamo broke it down so good ❤
Wow... that Latasha and Benita thing was tough,,, how often do we want someone to fight for us the way she was. Someone that has their head on straight and is still fly. But Im proud of Benita for standing her ground , finding herself and speaking up for what was true to her. So happy they have one another.
His eyes look like they belong on two different faces
STAWP 💀
😂😂
Cocked like a pistol 🤦🤷😁 that's was wrong of me to say🖕 lol
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂I'm crying
I’m sick of Black women signing up for bullish and get mad when it doesn’t work out.
Ownership is key
How do you allow someone to mistreat you when they "pay on" & "help" with bills? She's literally taking care of him.
Karamo is good about telling people move on and I agree.
Woman you are just a friend. You are too controlling. She is young. Let her find her own gig. You are just a friend so stay on your lane. Let her fly and stop clipping her wing. You are sniffling. Let the young lady live her darn life. Move on.
The mentor is a bit controlling. She giving narcissistic tendencies
It's weird, I think she's a "self-appointed" mentor and IS very controlling! Why is she so invested in this young girl?
@@7RB373 I agree
@@7RB373that’s what I wanna know. It’s giving obsessed
If you are called to be someone's mentor, that does not mean you get a say so in making decisions for that person. Being a mentor does not mean you are involved in every aspect of that person's life. This is silly and very foul
Rosetta is a good ole church going lady how the heck did she get here.? She says he won’t let her talk but she has spoken over him a lot
Came to the comments for this cause she keep cutting him off
I wish I had a friend like Natasha growing up ,maybe I wouldn't have made some bad decisions. Bonita needs to be grateful and thankful to Natasha for trying to guide her towards the right paths .Natasha clearly likes her alot and want to see her grow. She's a special person. Some friends will wanna drag u to the mud or extort you to their advantage. Natasha is clearly the opposite. Good friends are like diamond, hard to find these days. If you have one cherish the person please.
Latasha is her name
That lady is psycho and overbearing. She doesn’t have to be grateful for anything. She clearly is trying to control every aspect of this young woman’s life.
Does anyone else find it funny how the guest comes in and talks all professional as possible and as soon as the other person walks in they switch up immediately lmaoooo
Exactly I'm confused too, is he a man that wants to be a woman? Or a woman wants to become a man?
A woman trying to be a man. And they had me CONFUSED too. Shoot I said I can’t be confused cause they confused about who they are 🤦🏾♀️
He's a man. He was just born female at birth.
@@JustmymomandWEyou wouldn't be confused if you saw him as a man. If he were to go in a women's bathroom, I guarantee you every woman in there would be like what the hell is a man doing in here?
Yess I’m confused as well bc normally men that’s transitioning they’re removing their penis(bottom surgery) I’ve never heard of a woman having bottom surgery to get a penis. I believe it’s much easier to get rid of the penis & make a vagina 🤷🏽♀️ unless he is getting his breast remove. Idk I’m still confused
@@kdg9765So therefore that is a woman!!!!
The second story for her to call herself a mentors she’s very harsh to her
That first couple is headed for divorce because the man clearly checked out
The grooming and the daughter I never had part for me 😂
The relationship Bonita wants is not healthy
Latasha is NOT a mentor she is a control freak
she’s a groomer in her own words
Imagine having a husband with that mindset smh
As soon as he mentioned "trans" for their relationship, she was doomed from the start what she was dealing with. I feel sorry for her. He's making excuses not to wear his wedding ring. 😈. He's left and cut bills off😳. What! He wouldn't have to never come back. 🤦♀️
I don’t feel sorry for her at all. She allowed all of that to happen. Especially from the very beginning knowing that Nicola is a woman. If “down there” is what she really wanted she should have got with a real man and not a woman transitioning to a man who then decides she didn’t want to do the “down there” surgery.
@@msreeree65 AND IN THAT ORDER 😅😅😅
In today's society, exchanging wedding rings is very popular amongst Christian weddings, weddings of a variety of different religions and indeed also non-religious services. However, did you know that there is no biblical scripture that instructs people to wear wedding rings?
I think Nic is still searching for himself and wasn’t ready. Rosetta wanted to be loved so bad she got married and the two don’t correlate.
Mom’s house is the safe space and not that deep for someone needing clarity. Nic needs to be separated to find out the right thing. And Rosetta should respect that because transitioning is not simple…..
Like here if your mind is confused😂
ASF 😅🤣
Literally
Rosetta is not perfect by any means but Nicola is mean-spirited, controlling, manipulative and selfish. I really hope they split and
Latasha is weird AF! It's giving obsessive, overbearing, almost guerilla pimp vibes... she needs to back off!
Benita needs to block her FOR GOOD!
Rosetta is the problem and Nicola don’t know how to handle it
Umm. Is Nicola transitioning to be a man. I’m confused. They argue like sisters and he does not act like a husband, he acts like a wife. So petty.
into a women
@@d3mized Thank you! I was lost 😂
@@d3mizedinto a man not into a woman. The ones transitioning to a woman, take hormones for boobs and wear wigs, etc to appear like a woman. Also that person uses the he and him pronouns.
Nic hates being married to a woman. Let him go deal with them real trans and not have that straight comfort refuge. Go on dude
@@sherei9530 it’s a trans woman
He wore that ring for the cameras smmfh
How're you a old buster like come da fuck on?
It sounds like Bipolar, extreme highs with reckless behaviors and extreme lows with no motivation to keep moving on. Maybe she needs to see a therapist or a psychiatrist.
First episode he went from i was at my mommas house to i was at my aunties house he's lying
This mentor is way too much. Benita is an adult not a child. Somehow the mentor does not know how to let go and allow the young lady to live her life. She probably does not even want to do what you want her to. Calling her girl, girl , girl like shes some child and not an adult.. Allow the young lady some room and space to breathe and grow.
She said when she was getting hi, that's how she felt, now being sober, she understands that was her problem, a d she realizes she was wrong.
I would just advise Sister Rosetta, take space and time before you get into another relationship because you got to believe what people tell you from the beginning another observation is if you are blessed to be married again and your earn more than your husband, and it's your house, you agree, in a marriage, it is OUR house, so then you cannot keep telling the man to GET OUT or he will STAY OUT and I mean all the way OUT! That's a form of control too Sis!
The relationship between latasha and Bonita was WEIRD. Like borderline creepy.
Latasha too busy trying to be her mother.
Shes young and trying to figure out what success means to her. Not everyone wants to only focus on a successful business. Some people value of success is a healthy mind, emotional life, peace and environment while able to stay afloat. You got to acknowledge both professional and SPIRITUAL Emotional growth. Because they are all equally important. If shes able to hold her own maybe not a 6figure business but able to be independent and have peace in her life. Then you gave her enough skill to be SUCCESSFUL
I think those 'shrooms are speaking truth
She does seem more than a mentor, more like a mother, or even someone who wants control... Benita is right; she has the right to make decisions about her life journey. A journey should change and not stay the same all the time-it's called growth and growing.
I hate she keeps using the term GROOMING.
EXACTLY WHY IS NO ONE ELSE COMMENTING THIS! she’s twenty years older and calls herself a groomer IN HER OWN WORDS
Latasha comes off as one of those people who will volunteer their help only to brag and throw it in your face later. She seems like one of them “ You're only successful because of me” type of person.
We don't need rapper anymore
Any man I am along with and him call me a bitch the first thing I would say hi him is like you muma trust me out of order.
Same suh mi g
Bright him bright
Why place so much emphasis on a ring? This person left you, shouldn't that concern you more than a piece of jewelry? And I say this as a married person.
We All need a Latasha in our lives❤❤❤
That lady is odd & giving weird she’s acting like her mother instead of a friend
me Bonita story is somewhat similar when it comes to the shrooms & trying to get her life together & it’s crazy because my name is Denitia❤ (pronounced the same way). she talks about how her generation is together while ours is lost when she fails to realize that YALL GENERATION RAISED US! now we grown up trying to figure out EVERYTHING on our own. we all fighting our own problems & most has nothing to do with another person .
Who gives a damn? Street troll
He already had someone ready that's why he was agreeing to separate, good for her if someone doesnt want to be with you go without it.
Eyes dancing all over the place just like his thoughts a damn cheater and a liar
I think one girl in red just knows how the world is coming down so she wants to pick younger one up so she isn’t as down bad as everyone else. If she can help one person that’s who she wants to help. Just like she said she does see her as a daughter she never had. I understand the both of them. She cares and loves a lot for that girl just like the other girl said she sees her as her big sister.
The mentor think shes her mother. She think she can control her. Let her make her own life
I love Karamo but in this episode, he looks exhausted take a break sir we aren't going anywhere to much dysfunction in this world.
This is an older episode. It isn’t new.
😂 he going to see a man he stepping out 😊red flags baby
Two beautiful princess queen s. Take care of your self one and all have a great night rest
He’s messed up lmao how is he laughing
I like the last one! 👏🏾
This whole “grooming” thing is sending me 😵💫
Poster child Narc 🙄 Once you know their MO you realize they are all the same person lol
She wanted to control that young lady
I was with a man like this, so feminine, petty, immature and a man child.
Come to find out it's a woman still in there, that's what's where the feminine came in plus the pettiness🤷😁
Which man
@@sherei9530 I know he’s trans
You know what I wanted to say this but wasn't sure I'd be called a transphobe lol.
This is a supposed "man" yet behaves like a woman that she really is. Packing your bags at any issue and running to mummy is a feminine thing to do because we get overwhelmed and want to run away lol. I know I do but ain't got anywhere to go so have to keep my sorry behind where it is 😂😂😂
Latasha was my Lyft driver before I knew she looked super familiar . She does have a business she was a very nice lady but she seems a bit overly involved in whatever Bonita has going on.
She’s controlling and act like she’s her woman. She’s not a mentor
Baby them are red flags he going to see a man😊
This country is in crisis, hurting, aching, lost, bound, confused at levels & dimension that supersede the government & modern day "Church" capacity! There's a desperate cry for help that reality tv shows are not. Designed to remedy but indeed are designed to fail. When its at your fronts door maybe then the sense of urgency will be clearly understood.
Gigi really wanted her moment huh?
😂😂😂😂Exactly! Just making her outburst before being asked to speak.
Nah I was in a relationship and my girl told me to leave her house one time and I NEVER felt comfortable at her house from that point on...u can't do something to someone then dictate how they react
I think Latasha needs to adopt a child
16:14 Unlock the Phone results
Latasha needs to back up lol she has turned into a MEANtor. Talk with Benita. The back and forth is unnecessary. This young lady is figuring things out for herself and she’s on the right track for herself. *EDIT* ok I finished and I LOOOVEE how that ended!!! I hope they and their newly laid friendship boundaries are thriving ❤❤❤❤❤❤
She needs to stop trying to be her mother. To me…she seems old enough to actually be her mom….so why is she seeking friendship with this young girl at her age??? Does she have any friends in her own age group???
Get over it..the first case. He doesnt want you. You're paying his bill. Any real man would leave you.
Im confused so is he a man or woman
Ikr
He was born a female and transitioned to a male. He just didn't get the bottom surgery
He's a man. It really ain't confusing at all
@@kdg9765That’s a woman not a man!!! Every natural born man has a penis!!!
My husband and I don't wear rings. I lost one. My husband lost his. So no we don't wear rings. Quiet as its kept. The rings attract people to you. When I don't wear my ring it don't. 🤔
😂 I insisted on a cheap ring 40 years ago so we wouldnt have debt and the stone fell out of that cheap thing but hubby got me a lovely anniversary ring at 21 years. 40 years and still going strong. Congrats to you.
My mentor and I have Drinks together all the time. Our relationship is nothing like that. I don’t Agree either karamo
Tbh as soon as the wife said she didn’t accept him even thinking about surgery “down there” I knew this was going downhill. I’m not saying it’s because of that I’m just saying that shows the respect she has for him & his response in front of her shows he’s not as comfortable as he claims to be with her. It just got worse from there he said himself they aren’t on the same page
Is that a woman? Transitioning to be a man? Bcuz I’m confused
The way the friend is acting is uh….how do you say…..odd in sugarcoat?
What's the operation down below
I can see she just wanted what she felt was best for Bonita BUT she also did want her kind of like a daughter as well. She had all good intentions I do think but was forgetting that Bonita being so young still she’s going to to do things that makes no sense to us with a bit more age on us( or a lot like me I’m 60). My son is 38 and level headed. He’s in the Air Force but has always been a good decision maker BUT my daughter who is 26 sometimes does things that makes me start pulling my hair out😮. It can get so frustrating at times especially with mine being all over the place all in the same day at times, lol. Mom I’m going to be this and that and then it continues throughout the day at times seriously. So I can relate to I think her name is Latasha, I for sure understand but yes we have to give them grace, patience, and Love. Let them fall and just be there to help them up which is so scary at times especially the times we’re living in now
The 2nd girl is in love with Benetta. Aint no eay you r that interested in someone else's life like that.
Marriage is between one man and one woman so y’all aren’t really married so there’s really not a problem .. I’m praying for y’all salvation ❤️🙏🏽Jesus loves all of us and His grace is sufficient
Yeah. They really need to find another name for those unions but they are not married.
In reality, you can marry whoever you want to marry. This is just an unhealthy marriage between a man and a woman
@@kdg9765between a woman and a woman
AMEN. That's a demonic relationship that has nothing to do with GOD .They are married to Satan,and what does Satan come to do? Kill,steal ,and destroy. Anything done out of GODs will is a curse
Gigi should mind her business and walk away… well at least I would simply because once the beef over, pillow talk begin and y’all not going gang up on me🤷🏾♀️
lastly, If he’s transitioning, those hormones side effects are
something else…. It’s a drug that doesn’t belong inside the human body
Agreed. Seems like they both pull Gigi in. She's inhaling second hand poison.
Where R U Tasha? Great friends are hard to find!!!!!!
That guy is so annoying!
Today on Karamo
Benita is a TikToker I believe
Is Benita a Sagittarius by chance?
Latasha is horrible and very disrespectful. She's arrogant
She’s motherly that’s all.
Benita has a longggg way to go , a TikTok video with a nice voiceover , Doesn’t mean you’ve changed , or are doing well . People like this hardly learn , I’ve had friends exactly like this , latasha needs to be more humble and also let her go , people will do what they want to do at the end of the day .
2nd Segment…. Friend, Mentor or Mother??? She seems rather motherly towards Benita.
Is he transitioning or is she?
He was AFAB
@@janedoee4830 I'm so sorry what is a AFAB?
@@keyanasteen3409oh sorry! A female at birth
@@janedoee4830 thanks that's what I was thinking
@@janedoee4830😮
Don't get me wrong way she fussing and talking and everything I'll go to my mama house too so I won't have to listen to her mouth
I'll be honest with you the way she always arguing and fussing everything most men I have known they leave because they don't have time for all that argument they not about arguing and fussing if you can't communicate and talk to each other and listen to each other out and stop putting him out of the house and tell him to get out and take his clothes and stuff he goes to his mother's house you keep fussing everything from what I'm looking for him that he's not about all that arguing and fussing every time you turn you are always fussing about something so he goes to his mother's house or are you going to drive him to another woman cuz you fuss so much about every little things he does I wouldn't want to be around you
I love gay men ❤ understanding boundaries.
Can I have a hug