Lol. I'm 35 however, I have learned some necessary truths and realized my gut feelings are correct. So currently, I'm keeping quiet about everything. I also needed to learn how to use what I know to my advantage and not listen to bad advice.
Well, he already proposed to her, so you're going to have to perform some mental gymnastics to figure out how you can still throw your shade, since black females put so much value in being able to do that.
@@bnwo Stay out of black women's business then, hun. You're looking mad effeminate rn trying to "throw shade" and defend this role reversal shit. My comment applies to the general trend of women proposing to men, and it's true. Be gone.
@@bnwo Homosexual alert. A male bringing up women's hair. I wear ABH makeup. She's a white woman. What other feminine products you're sugary self wants to discuss?
One of my sister's co workers hit 34 and she gave herself a year to find a husband. She gave each man 3 months to decide whether they want to settle down or not, no sex involved and kept her options open. They knew from the first date what her plan was. By the end of the year she was engaged then got married and pregnant the year after. If a man wants to marry you, he will do it in a heartbeat. You need to set the standards and value yourself. There are enough men out there. Never despair sisters.
Knowing what you really wants makes you easily let go of dudes that seem nice or exciting but they’re really just blowing smoke up your butt. It’s so much easier to let go of a person that’s not serious about what you want when your serious about it.
zinab2blessa this! My (75 years old) father always tells me: -Ask him on the first date straight up, What are your intentions with me? If he gets scared off, he only wanted sex!
It's also a bad idea to DRAG a man to your jeweler to pick out a ring. Let him pick out the ring. Let him do the work. Let him agonize over whether you'll like it or not.
That is beyond stupid. Let the man ask you. However, I am wearing that ring for the rest of my life or the duration of the marriage. I should choose what is going on my finger
Nicole Cowie or be grateful and understand your husbands artistic inspiration imagine being widowed one day wouldn’t you want to look at your finger and see a reflection of your husband and not yourself ?
Wow she really made a mistake. No matter what she says or does, going forward, he will always believe he is the prize. In the end he will say, "this was your choice."
Not as silly as a bunch of single, dark skinned females watching a video full of smiling, happy faces of this black man and his queen and thinking throwing shade is doing anything.
@@bnwo Since you're an expert in all things feminine; I've been looking for a really black eyeshadow. Gay males are usually great with makeup. Any recommendations?
Hey Ladies :) I am an Indian Girl here who's watching Chloe's channel. Her knowledge really resonates with me, hardcore feminism is now really being pushed in India, and women working hard long hours and at times longer than men ,is really being seen as form of empowerment. However, I realised all this was false and making everyone unhappy around me. I realised how important Femininity and Hypergamy were when I was in a relationship with a guy who simply refused to provide any support, and made me do stuff always citing support of feminism. Embracing my femininity rather than blindly following feminism always has brought me way more happiness. I am thankful to Chloe for her endeavors in making us more Self aware and love her content always ❤
He looks feminine so I’m not surprised SHE had to take the plunge and ask him to marry him. Doesn’t this make him feel emasculated?? I saw a meme saying “I rather cook rice one by one than propose to a man” and I couldn’t agree more!! What a mess and desperate move.
My dad once told me that if a guy can have acess to u without putting a ring he won’t make the effort to marry you. As you mentioned as women we need to have standards or else these men will do as they please. You are the best Chloe 😍😍
Even when you’re dating. I’m dating a guy and when we hang out, I’ll say ok, I’m gonna head out. He always says “you’re leaving me? can I see you later on?” I don’t have to call him, he calls me. He greets me romantically and is respectful. I think I’ve called him once. He’s chasing me, not me chasing him! Sometimes I do want to pick up that phone but no! He needs to be after me, not the other way around!
Yaaaaassssss.. I'm so on this. Girl. So my son was talking about wanting a job and I told him about a lead in his certification field as an intern with a stipend.. I told him to go shoot his shot with the owner of this local tech shop here in town.. My friend was like "Go with him!" I was like "Hell no. This man can take suggestions and go out and form solutions to achieve his goals on his own!" "I am raising a man, not an emasculated, coddled and entitled dusty!" His eyes lit up like an xmas tree!! Its a movement. Teach the boys and girls how to live hypergamously!!! Yaaaasss. Chloe_ yaaaaasss!!!😍😍🔥🔥♥️♥️
@@eddieornelas2568 you sound stupid asf and immature. I'm only in my 20s but look younger. I dont understand why you mad cause I wont propose to a man?? You really pathetic get a life.
Thank you for calling this out. I always get tired of seeing women proposing to their men🤦🏾♀️. It’s so not attractive to a man. As women, WE are supposed to be the prize held at high standards and the men are the natural hunters ( or chasers). I don’t want to see this in 2020😂
Wow. My son nd I, who is 16 btw, talked about this yesterday.. Told him dont ever make a woman feel so confused about what's going on that she would bend her knee to you. And also dont deal with pick me masculine woman. He already said Feminist are crazy. He has said that since he was 10 years old. My son has 2 CISCO certifications, his high school diploma and soon his DL @ 16.. 😍 He is on his way to being an excellent independent and willing provider for his wife... Ok let me listen more. Lol
Excellent job mom.. We can't teach our sons all the bells and whistles of masculinity but we definitely can teach them how to be responsible and what to look for in a good mate...
Thank you ladies. Everything Chloe_ has brought to my attention in this past year has truly helped me be a better mother to al my children. I'm thankful I still look good and my children are grown. So I still have a chance to land a bag. I just have to really dig deep and finally figure out what I want in life and go after it with feminine essence and charm. So love these vids from this woman. ♥️😍
Dont teach him to be the type of man your attracted to. You will only hinder his progress as a real man. And once he sees the reality of how most of you really are, he will begin to resent you. This is exactly why moat BM have a problem with woman. Our mothers feed us some bullshit,then we get hit with reality time and time again with true female nature, and that's when the rage begins. Get that kid around some.solid men that will teach him whats really goin on and how to navigate in this world. Just my opinion. Cause you cant teach him much else but survival.
Knowing a lot of black men, he was probably dragging his feet to the altar and only got engaged as a form of placeholding. She got desperate and thought she was securing a prize. Don’t fall for it boo.
Juliet Ngweno I know. I’m just talking about those placeholding men who propose to women but make no moves to set a date or plan the wedding for years. They may put a ring on it to take you off the market or to get you to chill out but aren’t really interested in committing.
I only have a few rules to life #1: Never ask a man to marry you. It’s take away the thrill of the chase & to be chosen! #2: Never slept with your girlfriend’s man. #3: Don’t co-sign for Nobody!
Shondrea Jackson I love this because I have some personal codes I follow. 1. Never sleep with a black womans husband (or any but especially black) 2. I’m not touching any black man married to a non black woman. 3. Never listen to any relationship advice from a blackistan because they know nothing about healthy relationships. Family, friends, parenting, business, politics, marriage. Nothing!
WW are always pushing making masculinity moves and then it backfires on bw who follow it. Chloe please don’t change how you do things women need to put their high heels on and face the truth. I think this woman was doing this for show but that is just my opinion.
A popular,black,male youtuber posted a video on this,I commented how if a woman feels the need to do all this tomfoolery,that the man pretty much doesn't want her. Chile,all the bm under my post attacking me on how I'm a hater,reason why bw are the most single,I'm a "feminist"etc🤦🤯. Caping for this bs because it's a blonde haired becky
I saw your comment on his platform yesterday - I agreed with you. And they DID NOT like it. It’s crazy they feel that way ... as I said in my post they want role reversal and you to propose. Smh I CANT!!
@Love Less 35 isn't old, when my parents divorced my mom was 43, by the time she was 47 she was already engaged to my stepfather and they only dated for a year and he makes really good money.
2020 is a new year and decade to begin with. Do better ladies don't bend on the knee and don't chase after a man! There are so many japanese comics (manga) on role reversal and they never appealed to me, I am glad. More into the feminine aspect where the woman is chased. 😌👸🏾
@g7dmother •}:{• Haha, yes I read josei, as well! I love outgoing characters that put their foot down. While also being sexy as well, my favorite comic is Taiwanese called, "The One" her lover chased after her once she reeled him in. She was powerful, feminine, a model, and lovely.😉😊
@@debrabelton3161 I have attended megacon, I have yet to attend comicon. Starting to think that only happens in Cali because megacon is ALWAYS advertised in Florida. 😆
@@guitarstrings8136 😆 I unfortunately never watched GoT fully I stopped at sesson 3 at the beginning. Reading a lot of novels! The Sookie Stackhouse series.
I COULD NEVER. I love all of Chloe's commentary and this one rubbed me the wrong way. Real bad! If I'm doing the proposing, what does my man do? It's too confusing and weird.
He proposed first back in August and she accepted. I don't know why she felt like he also needed a proposal and a ring but she did and asked him on Christmas.
@Ghana Gone Gondar Who's to say she's like these other white women? Who's to say she's even silent about the situation itself? Calm down. Until you can get me clear evidence that her as an individual is doing this, then let's talk. From a female to another, she's a sister to me. Welcome, Katherine.
This comment thread didn't go the way you thought it would, huh? Normally it's instant access when you're the non black woman throwing shade at a black man's relationship smh Keep at it hun. I'm sure you'll find a man hanging around the masters of being single lol
Thank you🙏🏾 You said it all... There is a new TV show in South Africa called 'marry me now' where these poor women plan their entire weddings in 3 days if they are chosen to appear on the show. The men are literally ambushed and proposed to on the day of the wedding 😭🤦🏾♀️ And then are rushed off to the alter to get married there & then should they agree to this shenanigan. Oh it's so sad. These women's entire being just screams desperation💔
Lesley Marie I’m not sure if she proposed to him or if she simply bought him an engagement ring. (Doesn’t make since to propose if it was already done)
I really think there is more to the story and it’s being taken out of context. I don’t see anything wrong with what she did. I think she simply gifted him his ring.
I’d never ask a man to marry me. If you want to get married you tell him if you want me you need to step up and marry me or someone else will. My husband and I were talking one night about two months in to dating and I said for me two things are true. First after two years of being together you know if you want to marry that person and if not you need to move on. Second I would want to pick out my own ring. A month before our two anniversary he asked me to lunch and he pulled up to 💎 store. We were married 9 months later. I did not need to ask him I just told him what I wanted and if that worked for him great if not that’s cool don’t waste my time.
Chloe, I love your channel! As a black woman, I’ve felt so fortunate to learn all of these amazing lessons from you. Please continue on your journey to help us leave behind the false engineered smallness many black women have accepted. Much love and support for you and your true vision for YOUR channel.
Noelle Davenport I don’t think Chrissy doesn’t get a lot of options. I think she’s one of those women who only dates black men who are from the streets. I’m sure she has been courted by high quality men before.
My mom and male and female coworkers tell me to build with a man but I'm thinking about how their lives end up broken and used up. I love my mother to death but I honestly dont want to struggle like she did raising me and my brother.
I've seen mothers give their daughters some bad advice ... it's possible and frustrating for me to have someone counter sound advice with bad advice. Be wise and seek counsel with women who are winning.
Elizabeth Noir girl I’m shocked as well .Like I’ve said before he is the SWEETEST man ever and every time I would see him his woman were always black . So I’m shocked but not surprised.
I've ALWAYS felt this way....never ask a man to marry you! When a man asks a woman it's because that's what HE wants to do. If a woman asks he may just go along with it.
I’m 17, and ever since I was in elementary I’ve never been afraid to approach guys but that changed when I got to middle school and constantly got rejected and realized it’s better to be pursued then chase🤦🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️. I’m learning from your videos now, not to be afraid of losing them and to play the game to win not to lose
Meanwhile i need a midst to which I can like Queen Chloe's content over and over the way i watch these adds and comment over and over as well. this woman is over deserving . helping young women all round the globe regain their sense of worth and standards . i have most of my friends and cousins sub to this channel and it's some sort of wake up call to the low mindset we all had unconsciously develope from dusties. no amout of pay to you Queen Chloe is enough for this good work you do. i love you Queen Chloe. My respect to you ma'am. sending you so much love and blessings from Africa . ❤❤🤗
The first time I saw a woman propose was on Jerry Springer as a child. My spirit vehemently rejected the idea then and it still disturbs me now. Like......sis there is NO POWER is proposing to a male.
i use to say I would propose to a man if he meets up my standards and sweep me off my feets enough, i thought it wws brave of me to do so because "what a man can do, a women can too". what a misconception of that phrase ? now I look back and wonder what the hell I was eating to be that brainwashed. this channel and the ladies in the comment section have been opening my eyes daily. i have become so self aware it's incredible. am the damn price , treat me as such or boy bye . PERIODT
aint gonna propose or remind him to. if he ain't smart enough to recognise what a great price I am & how dangerous it is to delay the proposal, am levelling up right in his face with someone else who is. Can't tell me nothing! can't play no damn games with me anymore. why? cause for a moment I legit forgot who i was and settled for his games. till I came across this channel and got reminded by Queen Chloe that am the PRICE . that sinked deep in me and that has changed everything. AM THE PRICE. TREAT ME AS SUCH OR BOY BYE.
I seen a pic going viral where a female got on her knees asking a man to marry her . She was to pretty for that and the men in them comments, it was a whole bunch of them agreeing with the pic and having a debate about a woman should ask a man to marry them now days smdh
Wow Wow Wow!!! Been watching your videos like crazy. My whole life, I knew something was way off. Me now a middle aged woman always had Pretty girl privilege"' but it never gotten me anywhere but heartache, came across your RUclips and been sharing it with my daughter, hopefully she don't go through the unnecessary BS I've went through. ❤❤❤
Great job once again ❤ and I am glad you are showing different women. I think its crazy how the roles have shift. some women really believe the men r the prize hell most men think they are the prize too smh its crazy to me
remember P!nk and Carey Hart?? She proposed to him by holding a sign up in the middle of his MOTOCROSS RACE and he nearly killed somebody from the distraction. I heard an interview once where she admitted he was embarrassed by it and wanted to marry her but not by being proposed to. they had a do over I believe but I have never been able to get over her masculine energy and wondering what is the allure. I used to think he was fine af too, but it got me wondering if he wasn't the woman in their marriage. a big turn off. they just strike me as a lesbian couple raising kids tbh.
Under normal heterosexual circumstances: men chase - women choose. It’s biology, it’s psychology, it’s evolutionary, it’s wiring. It cannot be undone by wishing, hoping, auditioning, performing, being constantly available and over giving, sexing, cleaning, cooking or giving in to erroneous societal messaging. We have been miseducated and many of us have paid a high price. Time for change...
Its funny cause there's an article about how she tried to give her ex boyfriend Kenan smith a kiss and he did'nt seem interested. Unfortunately there seems to be a history of her loving men more than they love her 🙄
I am a woman of mixed ethnicity, and when I listen to you Chloe I identify with everything you say. I do not feel left out when you say "particularly black women", because when I listen to you and read the womens comments here I feel like I finally belong somewhere, I feel like you all are my sisters, and I dont want you to change because you are on fire and please dont judge me but I just consider myself one of your girl tribe and feel in my heart my life of rejection and betryal and being different or not good enough becuase of mixed ethnicity qualifies me to stand here and receive the message when you say particularly black women.
Thank you Chloe 😊 your videos have changed my life so much I started watching you during the pandemic in 2020 and I've learnt a lot I've gotten comfortable with receiving, I'm more focused on my hypergamous journey at 23 now I'm happy i got to learn this early
You made a good point about how men are not wired to be home all day. I spoke to several men a while back who said they happily paid child support to the mother of their child because they could not phathom how to nurture their children. While they loved and still love their children, trying to feed a baby and nurture them was out of place and almost led them to depression.
Ladies this is one of many things we’re not going to do in 2020. Leave this desperation behind in 2019. @Chloe_ Please make a video about 20 things we’re going to stop doing in 2020.
Forget the haters who need excuses to not level up and lean on the race card. Remain teaching black women hypergamy in 2020 b/c the truth is our demographic is behind on this and WE need to be taught. Other races see kept women on the regular so it’s their norm, we still think it’s fantasy. Cheers to you and what you do!🥂
Who is, Ding Ding Ding - 35
😂😂😂😂
nonkosi ding dind din is de sound of bells ntwana wa se khaya! Lolly(south africa)
@@lollylolly7828 Sisonke in the level up! ❤️❤️❤️
Lol. I'm 35 however, I have learned some necessary truths and realized my gut feelings are correct. So currently, I'm keeping quiet about everything. I also needed to learn how to use what I know to my advantage and not listen to bad advice.
@@bnwo true tea.
N.W.A. Why do you have to put emphasis on dark skin, “dark skin asses” like really? How untactful and low class.
imagine asking a MAN to marry you 💀 i’d rather eat a jean jacket
Not a jean jacket! Lmao 😂
😂😂😂😂😭😭
A shit sandwich😋
So true. Could not have said it better myself!! Vonn seems very desperate!!!
😂💀 I’m done
If you have to propose to a man, then he dont wanna marry you sis 😭😭
Yaaaas well said 👍
Amen!!💯
Well, he already proposed to her, so you're going to have to perform some mental gymnastics to figure out how you can still throw your shade, since black females put so much value in being able to do that.
@@bnwo Stay out of black women's business then, hun. You're looking mad effeminate rn trying to "throw shade" and defend this role reversal shit. My comment applies to the general trend of women proposing to men, and it's true. Be gone.
@@bnwo Homosexual alert. A male bringing up women's hair. I wear ABH makeup. She's a white woman. What other feminine products you're sugary self wants to discuss?
One of my sister's co workers hit 34 and she gave herself a year to find a husband. She gave each man 3 months to decide whether they want to settle down or not, no sex involved and kept her options open. They knew from the first date what her plan was. By the end of the year she was engaged then got married and pregnant the year after. If a man wants to marry you, he will do it in a heartbeat. You need to set the standards and value yourself. There are enough men out there. Never despair sisters.
zinab2blessa Yesssssss!!!! 💯
Woww. I need to implement that
Knowing what you really wants makes you easily let go of dudes that seem nice or exciting but they’re really just blowing smoke up your butt. It’s so much easier to let go of a person that’s not serious about what you want when your serious about it.
Yaaaassssss! She set the intent and that was it!
zinab2blessa this! My (75 years old) father always tells me:
-Ask him on the first date straight up, What are your intentions with me?
If he gets scared off, he only wanted sex!
The only time I get on my knees is to have prayer!!!Period!!!
@BeautybyDesign I hear that sis!
Or to give head 🤣
I only do it when I drop an earring lol
Amen! 👏👏👏
Yes Lord 🙏🏻🙏🏻😂
I hope this is not a movement. Men are already very lazy in their approach to relationships and marriage 😟☹️
IKR!!
This *IS* a movement. Haha, where have you been? She didn't come up with this herself.
bs0u31c3 True 💯
Lazy bastards!
bs0u31c3 right??
It's also a bad idea to DRAG a man to your jeweler to pick out a ring.
Let him pick out the ring. Let him do the work. Let him agonize over whether you'll like it or not.
That is beyond stupid. Let the man ask you. However, I am wearing that ring for the rest of my life or the duration of the marriage. I should choose what is going on my finger
TheMandatoryRepor
Thank you for that perspective. I like the way you think.
Nicole Cowie or be grateful and understand your husbands artistic inspiration imagine being widowed one day wouldn’t you want to look at your finger and see a reflection of your husband and not yourself ?
@@womang3821 that's an interesting way to think about it!
Did all of this. I’m cringing so hard right now. What was I thinking telling him which one I liked?! Ughhhhh I want to hide in my room for days!
I’d rather mop the ocean
😂😂😂🙌
Portrait of Asha sis I could never
Nimco Q lol 😂
@@nq2178 yo, abeg, don't kill me o! 😭😂
Nimco Q I’m hollering 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Wow she really made a mistake. No matter what she says or does, going forward, he will always believe he is the prize. In the end he will say, "this was your choice."
So true!!
Right. Her feelings doesn't matter anymore
Speak it sis💥
Exactly. "I didn't want this...you did"
Chinwude Tv I hate rooting for a failure but that’s where that relationship is headed! It’s inevitable
When you said angry women and a picture of Arthur’s fist appeared 😂🤣🤣🤣
😂😭
Right 😭
that was funny lol
Haha!
Right !!! 🤣🤣🤣
Ur self esteem has to be non existent to ask a man to marry you. Truly lost in the matrix.
Stay woke sis!
Mekah L 💕💕
Brown Beauty85 💕
The greatest Ever 💕
April Joi ain’t that the truth!
A woman on her knees begging a man for marriage just looks silly af 😂😭
Yes! Some women are making this idea in to a trend like its the thing to do. It honestly doesnt make sense
Gemz Forever 😂😂
Not as silly as a bunch of single, dark skinned females watching a video full of smiling, happy faces of this black man and his queen and thinking throwing shade is doing anything.
Gemz Forever Yes looking crazy!!
@@bnwo Since you're an expert in all things feminine; I've been looking for a really black eyeshadow. Gay males are usually great with makeup. Any recommendations?
Don’t let anyone distract you. This channel is for the culture ✊🏾
Yea, what's so wrong if she focuses on black women. If it's true then let it be said.
Black females are obsessed with white women. Always have been. Always will be.
@@bnwo not at all...if anything, it is the other way round. You dont see black women snooping around on white RUclips channels making comments.
Queen Z right! Hahaha
@@bnwo absolutely no one is obsessed with white women but thanks for playing.
Hey Ladies :) I am an Indian Girl here who's watching Chloe's channel. Her knowledge really resonates with me, hardcore feminism is now really being pushed in India, and women working hard long hours and at times longer than men ,is really being seen as form of empowerment. However, I realised all this was false and making everyone unhappy around me. I realised how important Femininity and Hypergamy were when I was in a relationship with a guy who simply refused to provide any support, and made me do stuff always citing support of feminism. Embracing my femininity rather than blindly following feminism always has brought me way more happiness. I am thankful to Chloe for her endeavors in making us more Self aware and love her content always ❤
“When she proposed to her 30 year old boyfriend-“
Me: AH HELLL NAH
She looked like she was giving her son a kiss on the cheek.
She looks like she's kissing her son by that tree😩😩😩😂😂😂
Yes
Vitamin QUI I’m deleting RUclips 😂😂😂 your comment is so true
Eww
Vitamin QUI OMG!! She does!!🤢
My thoughts exactly
My mom asked me, “u sure that isn’t your ex?” Being that they look alike. I responded, “nope that man has $35 million. My ex is broke” 😂 she laughed
He looks feminine so I’m not surprised SHE had to take the plunge and ask him to marry him. Doesn’t this make him feel emasculated??
I saw a meme saying “I rather cook rice one by one than propose to a man” and I couldn’t agree more!! What a mess and desperate move.
Yall and these analogies 😂😂😂😂😂😂 "cook rice one by one" 💀💀💀
I saw that on Instagram yesterday
He already feminine. Theirs two photo of him wearing his finance bikini’s.
My dad once told me that if a guy can have acess to u without putting a ring he won’t make the effort to marry you. As you mentioned as women we need to have standards or else these men will do as they please. You are the best Chloe 😍😍
I'm a white woman and I love this channel. Keep up the good work Chloe!
Oh no baby, what is you doing😢😢😢
😂😂😂
Even when you’re dating. I’m dating a guy and when we hang out, I’ll say ok, I’m gonna head out. He always says “you’re leaving me? can I see you later on?” I don’t have to call him, he calls me. He greets me romantically and is respectful. I think I’ve called him once. He’s chasing me, not me chasing him! Sometimes I do want to pick up that phone but no! He needs to be after me, not the other way around!
Yaaaaassssss.. I'm so on this. Girl. So my son was talking about wanting a job and I told him about a lead in his certification field as an intern with a stipend.. I told him to go shoot his shot with the owner of this local tech shop here in town.. My friend was like "Go with him!" I was like "Hell no. This man can take suggestions and go out and form solutions to achieve his goals on his own!" "I am raising a man, not an emasculated, coddled and entitled dusty!" His eyes lit up like an xmas tree!! Its a movement. Teach the boys and girls how to live hypergamously!!! Yaaaasss. Chloe_ yaaaaasss!!!😍😍🔥🔥♥️♥️
And that’s how you empower sons. Way to go sis!
Love and Peace fam. Chloe_ showed me the way.
@@tawanawilliams9618 Indeed sis, indeed. We know for sure there are good men in the world. 😁😍♥️
GOOD MOVE, MAMA!
Yes ma’am!!!
You will never catch me proposing to a man. I rather stay single for the rest of my life😂
You look like your 55 years old, so you only have about 30 years of being single.
@@eddieornelas2568 you sound stupid asf and immature. I'm only in my 20s but look younger. I dont understand why you mad cause I wont propose to a man?? You really pathetic get a life.
Thank you for calling this out. I always get tired of seeing women proposing to their men🤦🏾♀️. It’s so not attractive to a man. As women, WE are supposed to be the prize held at high standards and the men are the natural hunters ( or chasers). I don’t want to see this in 2020😂
In these pics she fawning all on him. Where’s his affection shown on her? He’s like “duh, i guess I’m happy?” SMH 🤦♀️
Wow. My son nd I, who is 16 btw, talked about this yesterday.. Told him dont ever make a woman feel so confused about what's going on that she would bend her knee to you. And also dont deal with pick me masculine woman. He already said Feminist are crazy. He has said that since he was 10 years old. My son has 2 CISCO certifications, his high school diploma and soon his DL @ 16.. 😍 He is on his way to being an excellent independent and willing provider for his wife... Ok let me listen more. Lol
Great job, Mom! 😊
You're a GREAT mother 😘
Excellent job mom.. We can't teach our sons all the bells and whistles of masculinity but we definitely can teach them how to be responsible and what to look for in a good mate...
Thank you ladies. Everything Chloe_ has brought to my attention in this past year has truly helped me be a better mother to al my children. I'm thankful I still look good and my children are grown. So I still have a chance to land a bag. I just have to really dig deep and finally figure out what I want in life and go after it with feminine essence and charm. So love these vids from this woman. ♥️😍
Dont teach him to be the type of man your attracted to. You will only hinder his progress as a real man. And once he sees the reality of how most of you really are, he will begin to resent you. This is exactly why moat BM have a problem with woman. Our mothers feed us some bullshit,then we get hit with reality time and time again with true female nature, and that's when the rage begins. Get that kid around some.solid men that will teach him whats really goin on and how to navigate in this world. Just my opinion. Cause you cant teach him much else but survival.
I would swallow a ring before I put it on a mans hand.
Knowing a lot of black men, he was probably dragging his feet to the altar and only got engaged as a form of placeholding. She got desperate and thought she was securing a prize. Don’t fall for it boo.
Is this when he proposed first?
Juliet Ngweno I know. I’m just talking about those placeholding men who propose to women but make no moves to set a date or plan the wedding for years. They may put a ring on it to take you off the market or to get you to chill out but aren’t really interested in committing.
I only have a few rules to life
#1: Never ask a man to marry you. It’s take away the thrill of the chase & to be chosen!
#2: Never slept with your girlfriend’s man.
#3: Don’t co-sign for Nobody!
Shondrea Jackson
I love this because I have some personal codes I follow.
1. Never sleep with a black womans husband (or any but especially black)
2. I’m not touching any black man married to a non black woman.
3. Never listen to any relationship advice from a blackistan because they know nothing about healthy relationships. Family, friends, parenting, business, politics, marriage. Nothing!
😂😂 best quote ever
WW are always pushing making masculinity moves and then it backfires on bw who follow it. Chloe please don’t change how you do things women need to put their high heels on and face the truth. I think this woman was doing this for show but that is just my opinion.
Keep preaching truth Chloe_! As a father I try to teach these same principles to my two daughters. So, again, I got to forward this episode to them.
There ARE men who say they want this THEN CHEAT on these women with the completely opposite woman. Don't TRUST WHAT A MAN SAYS TRUST HIS ACTIONS.
She definitely sees him as the prize.
ccn042000 yeah... I noticed all the pictures she’s the one looking at him with admiration. Which is fine but is it reciprocated?🤷🏾♀️
She's married. Y'all single. Stfu
@@alanpapashow1926 shes engaged. Not married. Stfu
If a man WANTS to marry you, he will ask
A popular,black,male youtuber posted a video on this,I commented how if a woman feels the need to do all this tomfoolery,that the man pretty much doesn't want her. Chile,all the bm under my post attacking me on how I'm a hater,reason why bw are the most single,I'm a "feminist"etc🤦🤯. Caping for this bs because it's a blonde haired becky
They’re mad cause they can relate to her lol
Wow! Soon as you stop stroking their egos you become a bedwench.
I saw your comment on his platform yesterday - I agreed with you. And they DID NOT like it. It’s crazy they feel that way ... as I said in my post they want role reversal and you to propose. Smh I CANT!!
You could have been on their side and they would have still attacked you. I see it all the time.
@@tiffanyi.6459 only when it applies to blonde haired becky tho. Had it been a bw doing that tomfoolery,she would've been roasted & clowned to filth
I told my father and brother I’d rather die childless and alone than propose to a man. Nope never 🧘🏾♀️💖
"angry women"....picture of Arthur's fist 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Desperate Debbies need to stop 😩
She’s so beautiful this is so pathetic
@Love Less 35 isn't old, when my parents divorced my mom was 43, by the time she was 47 she was already engaged to my stepfather and they only dated for a year and he makes really good money.
2020 is a new year and decade to begin with. Do better ladies don't bend on the knee and don't chase after a man! There are so many japanese comics (manga) on role reversal and they never appealed to me, I am glad. More into the feminine aspect where the woman is chased. 😌👸🏾
Don't "bend the knee" ahhh - I wish Game of Thrones was still on. But, yes - I agree!
@g7dmother •}:{• Haha, yes I read josei, as well! I love outgoing characters that put their foot down. While also being sexy as well, my favorite comic is Taiwanese called, "The One" her lover chased after her once she reeled him in. She was powerful, feminine, a model, and lovely.😉😊
@@debrabelton3161 I have attended megacon, I have yet to attend comicon. Starting to think that only happens in Cali because megacon is ALWAYS advertised in Florida. 😆
@@guitarstrings8136 😆 I unfortunately never watched GoT fully I stopped at sesson 3 at the beginning. Reading a lot of novels! The Sookie Stackhouse series.
I COULD NEVER. I love all of Chloe's commentary and this one rubbed me the wrong way. Real bad! If I'm doing the proposing, what does my man do? It's too confusing and weird.
He proposed first back in August and she accepted. I don't know why she felt like he also needed a proposal and a ring but she did and asked him on Christmas.
im white, blonde, thin, in my 20s and I still listen to Chloe religiously
I like that you included thin, since you know this is something that also distinguishes you from the average dark skinned female lol
Good, I'm white and 30 and also love this channel! A lot of women any race have to level up.
Welcome, sis
@Ghana Gone Gondar Who's to say she's like these other white women? Who's to say she's even silent about the situation itself? Calm down. Until you can get me clear evidence that her as an individual is doing this, then let's talk. From a female to another, she's a sister to me. Welcome, Katherine.
I know one lady who bought her own ring 😂 and paid 50/50 in the marriage . The husband left and gave all his extra money to his mistress.
Any man that is dragging his feet...does NOT want to marry you. Point blank period. Move on 👋
He's like some kind of pet to her, it's weird....
Sky Love absolutely
@Elizabeth Noir 🤣🤣🤣 right
This comment thread didn't go the way you thought it would, huh? Normally it's instant access when you're the non black woman throwing shade at a black man's relationship smh Keep at it hun. I'm sure you'll find a man hanging around the masters of being single lol
@@bnwo This whole video was throwing shade at women proposing to men, it's weird.
Thank you🙏🏾
You said it all...
There is a new TV show in South Africa called 'marry me now' where these poor women plan their entire weddings in 3 days if they are chosen to appear on the show. The men are literally ambushed and proposed to on the day of the wedding 😭🤦🏾♀️ And then are rushed off to the alter to get married there & then should they agree to this shenanigan. Oh it's so sad.
These women's entire being just screams desperation💔
Ive seen the show, eish its embarrassing to watch... I feel for the women....lm like sis know your worth and don't be so desperate 😔
I hope it's just a show 😰
Yoh... #Andizi
Wait??? What?? He already proposed to her?? And she in turned proposed to him?? I’m confused my head hurts. 🤦🏾♀️
Lesley Marie I’m not sure if she proposed to him or if she simply bought him an engagement ring. (Doesn’t make since to propose if it was already done)
I really think there is more to the story and it’s being taken out of context. I don’t see anything wrong with what she did. I think she simply gifted him his ring.
I’d never ask a man to marry me. If you want to get married you tell him if you want me you need to step up and marry me or someone else will. My husband and I were talking one night about two months in to dating and I said for me two things are true. First after two years of being together you know if you want to marry that person and if not you need to move on. Second I would want to pick out my own ring. A month before our two anniversary he asked me to lunch and he pulled up to 💎 store. We were married 9 months later. I did not need to ask him I just told him what I wanted and if that worked for him great if not that’s cool don’t waste my time.
Being a tomboy I used to think this was cute and women can do it if they want, but I realized that was the masculine side of me thinking that way.
Chloe, I love your channel! As a black woman, I’ve felt so fortunate to learn all of these amazing lessons from you. Please continue on your journey to help us leave behind the false engineered smallness many black women have accepted. Much love and support for you and your true vision for YOUR channel.
Thank you love.
I've only seen Chrissy from Love and Hip Hop do that shit..
Noelle Davenport I don’t think Chrissy doesn’t get a lot of options. I think she’s one of those women who only dates black men who are from the streets. I’m sure she has been courted by high quality men before.
I’m 42 years old and I will never propose to a man, he who finds a wife, y’all know the ending! Proposing to a man looks BEYOND BASIC!!!!!
My mom and male and female coworkers tell me to build with a man but I'm thinking about how their lives end up broken and used up. I love my mother to death but I honestly dont want to struggle like she did raising me and my brother.
I've seen mothers give their daughters some bad advice ... it's possible and frustrating for me to have someone counter sound advice with bad advice. Be wise and seek counsel with women who are winning.
I know his father and he was raised well. I don’t think they will make it down the isle. 🤷🏽♀️
Elizabeth Noir girl I’m shocked as well .Like I’ve said before he is the SWEETEST man ever and every time I would see him his woman were always black . So I’m shocked but not surprised.
She's with the typical white women thot, who got with black men for money. Yes that's the type he's with. A G
GOOD men
He was dragging his feet lol
Because he didn't want to
I've ALWAYS felt this way....never ask a man to marry you! When a man asks a woman it's because that's what HE wants to do. If a woman asks he may just go along with it.
I’m 17, and ever since I was in elementary I’ve never been afraid to approach guys but that changed when I got to middle school and constantly got rejected and realized it’s better to be pursued then chase🤦🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️. I’m learning from your videos now, not to be afraid of losing them and to play the game to win not to lose
Proposing marriage to a man is whack.
Let me see your situation in 5 years....
@@easy8325 My situation? You are a weirdo and congrats on the attention I just gave you because you needed it obviously.
@@MichyGW don't bother responding to incel trash.
@@easy8325 she'll have 5 cats.
Meanwhile i need a midst to which I can like Queen Chloe's content over and over the way i watch these adds and comment over and over as well. this woman is over deserving . helping young women all round the globe regain their sense of worth and standards . i have most of my friends and cousins sub to this channel and it's some sort of wake up call to the low mindset we all had unconsciously develope from dusties. no amout of pay to you Queen Chloe is enough for this good work you do. i love you Queen Chloe. My respect to you ma'am. sending you so much love and blessings from Africa . ❤❤🤗
That PickMe Spirit is *strong* out in these streets!🤣🤣🤣
The first time I saw a woman propose was on Jerry Springer as a child. My spirit vehemently rejected the idea then and it still disturbs me now. Like......sis there is NO POWER is proposing to a male.
i use to say I would propose to a man if he meets up my standards and sweep me off my feets enough, i thought it wws brave of me to do so because "what a man can do, a women can too". what a misconception of that phrase ? now I look back and wonder what the hell I was eating to be that brainwashed. this channel and the ladies in the comment section have been opening my eyes daily. i have become so self aware it's incredible. am the damn price , treat me as such or boy bye . PERIODT
@Diamon. you can say that again
aint gonna propose or remind him to. if he ain't smart enough to recognise what a great price I am & how dangerous it is to delay the proposal, am levelling up right in his face with someone else who is. Can't tell me nothing! can't play no damn games with me anymore. why? cause for a moment I legit forgot who i was and settled for his games. till I came across this channel and got reminded by Queen Chloe that am the PRICE . that sinked deep in me and that has changed everything. AM THE PRICE. TREAT ME AS SUCH OR BOY BYE.
This is very degrading . A high value woman would never do such a thing.
This situation is super weird and they make an odd looking couple anyway. Just peculiar all the way around.
I saw her on running wild with Bear Gryll's ....she's very masculine .
Thanks! A lottttttt!!!❤❤
Your doing the LORD'S work sis
🌹🌹🌹🌹
I seen a pic going viral where a female got on her knees asking a man to marry her . She was to pretty for that and the men in them comments, it was a whole bunch of them agreeing with the pic and having a debate about a woman should ask a man to marry them now days smdh
Elizabeth Noir it was mostly black men smdh
I could never. Omg 🤦🏽♀️
Wow Wow Wow!!! Been watching your videos like crazy. My whole life, I knew something was way off. Me now a middle aged woman always had Pretty girl privilege"' but it never gotten me anywhere but heartache, came across your RUclips and been sharing it with my daughter, hopefully she don't go through the unnecessary BS I've went through. ❤❤❤
THE COMMENT SECTION IS HILARIOUSSS
She's 35?! She looks like she's 45 😬 lol
Once he becomes the receiver, he will never be a giver.
Great job once again ❤ and I am glad you are showing different women. I think its crazy how the roles have shift. some women really believe the men r the prize hell most men think they are the prize too smh its crazy to me
Only because women have made these dusties feel like it and act like they can’t half ass live without them
It’s men who can’t live without women
It seems as though she is willing to compete with him which is a disaster for a long term relationship. She will learn the hard way.
Yes been waiting. Happy holidays!
Happy holidays 💐❣️😍
remember P!nk and Carey Hart?? She proposed to him by holding a sign up in the middle of his MOTOCROSS RACE and he nearly killed somebody from the distraction. I heard an interview once where she admitted he was embarrassed by it and wanted to marry her but not by being proposed to. they had a do over I believe but I have never been able to get over her masculine energy and wondering what is the allure. I used to think he was fine af too, but it got me wondering if he wasn't the woman in their marriage. a big turn off. they just strike me as a lesbian couple raising kids tbh.
Well said Chloe' ! Even though he said yes , and probably was very flattered, he will always think less of her!
“What goofy point are you trying to prove?” 💀your liners kill me
Under normal heterosexual circumstances: men chase - women choose. It’s biology, it’s psychology, it’s evolutionary, it’s wiring. It cannot be undone by wishing, hoping, auditioning, performing, being constantly available and over giving, sexing, cleaning, cooking or giving in to erroneous societal messaging. We have been miseducated and many of us have paid a high price. Time for change...
Great video Chole_ please ignore haters. This is your channel. Do what you wish.
Its funny cause there's an article about how she tried to give her ex boyfriend Kenan smith a kiss and he did'nt seem interested. Unfortunately there seems to be a history of her loving men more than they love her 🙄
Keep doing what your doing Chloe! You are trying to help your ppl and we need you.
I randomly came across 'their story' and I knew you'd be weighing on this Chloe! I'm listening 👀👂🏾 *taking notes will be unnecessary for me* ✌🏾
Subban actually did propose to Vonn over the summer, I think this new proposal was just for attention
It's called 35 million secure the bag at any cost. But I think she has some surprises for him down the ROAD.
I am a woman of mixed ethnicity, and when I listen to you Chloe I identify with everything you say. I do not feel left out when you say "particularly black women", because when I listen to you and read the womens comments here I feel like I finally belong somewhere, I feel like you all are my sisters, and I dont want you to change because you are on fire and please dont judge me but I just consider myself one of your girl tribe and feel in my heart my life of rejection and betryal and being different or not good enough becuase of mixed ethnicity qualifies me to stand here and receive the message when you say particularly black women.
Whew chile, I would never!!!
Thank you Chloe 😊 your videos have changed my life so much I started watching you during the pandemic in 2020 and I've learnt a lot I've gotten comfortable with receiving, I'm more focused on my hypergamous journey at 23 now I'm happy i got to learn this early
You made a good point about how men are not wired to be home all day. I spoke to several men a while back who said they happily paid child support to the mother of their child because they could not phathom how to nurture their children. While they loved and still love their children, trying to feed a baby and nurture them was out of place and almost led them to depression.
Yaaaaas Chloe_ come thru.. been waiting on ya.
Ladies this is one of many things we’re not going to do in 2020. Leave this desperation behind in 2019.
@Chloe_ Please make a video about 20 things we’re going to stop doing in 2020.
AnonVocals I would love that!!!!! Like a code of conduct to stay on!
Forget the haters who need excuses to not level up and lean on the race card. Remain teaching black women hypergamy in 2020 b/c the truth is our demographic is behind on this and WE need to be taught. Other races see kept women on the regular so it’s their norm, we still think it’s fantasy. Cheers to you and what you do!🥂
And they broke up! Not surprised
It is soooo sad you have to explain this😒I’m the prize I’m not even rushing to be in a relationship nor marriage
That's a no from me...👎🏾
You’re good, Chloe! You know what you’re talking about. Thank you for your guidance
I saw this on the news. I was WAITING for you to cover it!! Lol I ain't even watch yet and I'm excited.
She should have just been like Hun pick a date for us 💍 since they were already engaged, makes no sense