RELAXING MY 4C NATURAL HAIR| NATURAL TO RELAXED AFTER 3 YEARS

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  • Опубликовано: 15 окт 2024
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Комментарии • 102

  • @DESTINYAMAYA711
    @DESTINYAMAYA711 Год назад +38

    Even though I’m never relaxing my natural hair I still love watching these videos because the transformations are amazing and I enjoy them!❤

    • @selmaslifestyle
      @selmaslifestyle  Год назад +1

      Aww thank you so for watching

    • @anna.simon3
      @anna.simon3 Год назад +1

      i swear on my soul. my boyfriend ask me why i like watching the videos if im going to stay natural.

  • @chanelporter8227
    @chanelporter8227 Год назад +67

    It looks so much more thicker, longer, and healthier in it's natural state.

    • @MindHeartBodySoul
      @MindHeartBodySoul Год назад +35

      I have this type natural hair. It looks thicker than what it actually is. But when straightened…it’s such a disappointment. Lol! It’s called the ‘puff effect’.😂

    • @selmaslifestyle
      @selmaslifestyle  Год назад +36

      It was healthy and thick but it was just too much and I didn’t have time to take care of it

    • @smileypc44
      @smileypc44 Год назад +14

      It’s called fine natural hair, it sucks. I have it too. I sometimes have to ask for only one pass with the flat iron when I straighten my hair at the salon to get some volume 😢

    • @chanelporter8227
      @chanelporter8227 Год назад +7

      @@smileypc44 I have the same hair texture, very very fine. I only flat iron on special occasion because Even with one pass and heat protectant I still get some heat damage. I won't dare relax it because it's so fragile and I'm afraid it will straight up fall out during the relaxing process. lol

    • @jollyrancherchick
      @jollyrancherchick Год назад +30

      It’s processed hair, of course it’s thinner than natural but it’s still healthy looking and long. Why the need to insult?

  • @kelishawilliams1233
    @kelishawilliams1233 18 дней назад +1

    I think it your choice I have natural hair and it’s a lot of work my scalp is always hurting when combing I get headaches styling it ….yes it’s beautiful naturally but your the one to maintain it so if the perm is easier I totally understand ❤

  • @0tismadaline
    @0tismadaline Год назад +24

    Gorgeous hair, welcome to the relaxed hair journey 😊

  • @raunaiyambo8340
    @raunaiyambo8340 Год назад +9

    Beautiful ❤️ keep us posted along with the new journey. xx

  • @neeshakaln
    @neeshakaln Год назад +6

    Absolutely gorgeous. I’m definitely coming over to be relaxed.❤❤❤

  • @evidenthustle
    @evidenthustle Год назад +18

    So many people are transitioning from natural to relaxed, am not complaining 😍

    • @tias.6675
      @tias.6675 9 месяцев назад +4

      People are TIRED lol.

    • @snoodysnoody8118
      @snoodysnoody8118 2 месяца назад

      ​@@tias.6675what makes natural hair so hard?

  • @pluffshangazi8487
    @pluffshangazi8487 Год назад +10

    I tink its a lot more hard work taking care of relaxed hair

    • @selmaslifestyle
      @selmaslifestyle  Год назад +4

      It probably is but definitely doesn’t take as much time

    • @jbb8261
      @jbb8261 11 месяцев назад +3

      100% plus you have to avoid the rain, humidity, probably never swim or want to work out, you’ll constantly be processing new growth and exposing yourself to a literal carcinogen
      That’s why I just flat iron my natural hair when I need a break

    • @VeronicaVero-p2m
      @VeronicaVero-p2m Месяц назад

      And what works for OTHER ppl DOESNT HAVE to work for others. Why yall care so much?!

    • @msmj5695
      @msmj5695 2 часа назад

      for real. It’s Sickening

  • @Doll676
    @Doll676 Год назад +2

    Ur hair already looks good naturally to me

  • @lesleyolo
    @lesleyolo Год назад +3

    Wow,it looks really really amazing and even better in person😍😍😍😍😍😍❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @shaneytjay
    @shaneytjay Год назад +2

    Yes… the whole process 💯 especially the Vaseline 🫡❤️

  • @Ms_Brendi_B
    @Ms_Brendi_B Год назад +1

    My hair looks like yours in its natural state....I'm in love with my fluffy hair....just wish it was longer...but its getting there❤🎉🎉

    • @selmaslifestyle
      @selmaslifestyle  Год назад +1

      It will grow just keep doing what you are doing and make sure it’s healthy xx

  • @thelmaprice7509
    @thelmaprice7509 6 месяцев назад +2

    Do you.think you should wait a day just taking it out of braid do you think it would burn

    • @selmaslifestyle
      @selmaslifestyle  6 месяцев назад

      I didn’t wait and I didn’t burn but waiting could be a good idea.

  • @mekosmotivationalmessages
    @mekosmotivationalmessages Год назад +2

    You have such a beautiful smile and a welcoming presence

  • @natrlchallenge
    @natrlchallenge Год назад +2

    It looks so good!❤

  • @bossladi727
    @bossladi727 Год назад +2

    Beautiful results

  • @vairirirakatuuo139
    @vairirirakatuuo139 Год назад +3

    Looks very beautiful 😍👌❤

  • @TLCMEDIA1
    @TLCMEDIA1 Год назад +2

    Here to drop love 🔥🔥🔥

  • @M_family18
    @M_family18 Год назад +3

    I am done with natural, definitely will try the same relaxer ❤

    • @selmaslifestyle
      @selmaslifestyle  Год назад

      I was just as tired honestly, didn’t have time to take care of my natural hair and relaxing it has definitely helped. Keep me updated on how you get on x

  • @Merline_Holland
    @Merline_Holland Год назад +4

    I got emotional when you were saying you were going to relax your hair… you have beautiful long hair ❤
    The bathroom part was ok lighting is good, not bad echo 😊

    • @selmaslifestyle
      @selmaslifestyle  Год назад

      Awww even I did for a minute but it had to be done and thank you so much xx

  • @MariaNdjodhi-ku9oj
    @MariaNdjodhi-ku9oj Год назад +2

    Looking beautiful ☺️

  • @nalya225
    @nalya225 8 месяцев назад +1

    Le problème n’est pas tant de vouloir avoir les cheveux lisses, le problème est le produit utilisé pour le faire. Vous protégez vos mains avec des gants 🧤 car le défrisant peut être nocif pour elles, mais vous l’appliquez directement sur le cure chevelu ce qui est pire 😢 j’avoue que j’ai du mal à comprendre le concept. M’enfin chacun fait ce qu’il veut tant que ça vous rend heureux.

  • @nikkieanderson2750
    @nikkieanderson2750 Год назад +3

    This is nikki anderson I wear my hair naturally

  • @Somethingaboutmary1
    @Somethingaboutmary1 Год назад +5

    Im bout to relax mine to.... im nervous to mess it up. Been natural since 2012.

    • @masksenpai5889
      @masksenpai5889 Год назад

      Just be careful and watch how to do it right.

    • @selmaslifestyle
      @selmaslifestyle  Год назад

      I would say do your own research and find a way that works with your hair to keep it healthy. Good luck

  • @KaylanJohannes
    @KaylanJohannes 2 месяца назад +1

    Slayyy

  • @lisa-pz2px
    @lisa-pz2px Год назад +2

    Yall im so tempted

  • @juniorarik001
    @juniorarik001 Год назад +1

    Great 👍

  • @uuhokololowoshindonga5072
    @uuhokololowoshindonga5072 Год назад +1

    Watching from 🇳🇦🇳🇦🇳🇦

  • @Crissy991
    @Crissy991 Год назад +2

    I just relaxed my hair you first time

  • @mayafisher12
    @mayafisher12 Год назад +4

    They have lawsuits out now about us relaxing our hair now 👀 but people still relax their hair ??? I’m confused as a black woman. But great video though. I like the quality of it🎉🤞🏿💕

    • @CP-gq7en
      @CP-gq7en Год назад +2

      Lawsuits about what

    • @selmaslifestyle
      @selmaslifestyle  Год назад +3

      Lawsuit?

    • @TheStacksFamily
      @TheStacksFamily Год назад +7

      So what it’s a lawsuit for almost everything. No one cares.

    • @crapbag426
      @crapbag426 Год назад +4

      @@TheStacksFamilyignorance is bliss 😂

    • @jollyrancherchick
      @jollyrancherchick Год назад +3

      People aren’t informed on what suit actually entails (as in what sicknesses or side effects are being experienced) so you can’t be confused about women trying to make life easier for themselves when you can’t even tell them what problems it causes.

  • @nicolenickibarnes9958
    @nicolenickibarnes9958 Год назад +1

    Hi I’m new to the channel

  • @Bridgetbreee
    @Bridgetbreee Год назад +2

    Will be joining you soon❤

  • @debrasloan5541
    @debrasloan5541 Год назад +2

    Why don’t you wet set your hair and sit under a dryer , your permed hair will look and feel better

  • @staciep2638
    @staciep2638 Год назад +4

    You made it too bone straight!,it will be proned to breakage

    • @selmaslifestyle
      @selmaslifestyle  Год назад

      I did 😩but so far it’s going well, it has more volume not as flat hopefully it stays that way

    • @staciep2638
      @staciep2638 Год назад +1

      @@selmaslifestyle yes it will,after each relaxer it will be flat for a few days

  • @jounithakapciak123
    @jounithakapciak123 Год назад +2

    Beautiful xx ,
    Come do my hair too 😊

  • @ii_amjae8471
    @ii_amjae8471 Год назад

    Love it ❤. You need to trim your hair tho

  • @MilkaMedina-je2bt
    @MilkaMedina-je2bt 2 месяца назад +1

    Me suscribo al canal

  • @Neilabakin
    @Neilabakin Год назад +1

    I’m about to do mine

  • @Jojodancer20100
    @Jojodancer20100 Год назад +7

    Flat

  • @nikkieanderson2750
    @nikkieanderson2750 Год назад +2

    This is nikki anderson I been married for nineteen years I do my own hair your hair is to short

    • @jbb8261
      @jbb8261 11 месяцев назад +4

      What a weird comment to make

  • @dezzydivine25
    @dezzydivine25 11 месяцев назад +1

    I was natural for 4 years transitioned for 1 year
    I thought I would take better care of it this time around relaxing it but I ended up with breakage and now I’m going back natural 🙄 I hate I permed it but ❤️🫶🏽
    Good luck on your journey it’s nice either way