Relaxed my hair last year it was the best decision! Girl it takes me less than 5 minutes to do my hair when it's not in a protective style. My 'washday' is 20 minutes (shampoo, deep conditioner everything!!) And I retain length like crazy because my hair doesn't tangle anymore I can go a week with a bun or ponytail only brushing the top to smooth flyaways and by weekend for washday no tangles. I don't get the people who say relaxed hair is just as much maintenance as natural hair but I get that everyone is different, personally though it's been smooth sailing.
You’re the most chaotic person on the internet😂🤌🏾…First you try relaxing your hair by yourself,then went to get more relaxer with half relaxed hair😂,finally ended up using two different brands of relaxer on your hair at the same time😂🤌🏾. Ima what is it? Haven’t you done enough?🎶😂
The timing of this video is crazy. I’ve also been natural for just over ten years after transitioning for a year but I’ve had enough. Been battling for months on what to do- straight natural, keratine treatment or relaxer. Literally was looking up relaxers to get on Amazon yesterday. It’s nice to see I’m not alone and we’re all going through similar experiences. The guilt has been eating me up.
Ohh baby, I threw in the towel in April 2024, one of the best decisions ! I texturized my hair, thugged out the natural hair for 9 years, that's enough, I would be near to tears whenever I combed my hair, my scalp would always be hot and feel like I'm on fire.
Giirlllllll it’s your hair! You do whatever you want to it… and ur hair looks good. However, here are some solutions to the problems she mentioned… if you have cornrows for a month, moisturize at least once or twice a week and be gentle when taking down… use a satin bonnet also your hair won’t break… if your hair gets rough easily in hairstyles, straighten it before you make your hair, it has the exact effect as a relaxer, your hair will literally be straight… I know it’s not easy and takes dedication but so does diet, skincare, exercise 😂 it’s literally part of life…
Handling wool the same way you handle polyester makes no sense so why would you handle coils the same way you handle Caucasian straight hair. It make no sense to pull at your hair and expect a comb to go through it easily. It’s so unfortunate that we struggle so much to simply accept our hair for what it is.
@@MissimaaaPlease sister, I wasn’t trying to come at you. I know you can’t hear my tone so my words might come off that way. I really do feel like the problem is that most of us don’t understand our natural hair and not that the hair is itself inherently difficult.
Relaxed my hair last year it was the best decision! Girl it takes me less than 5 minutes to do my hair when it's not in a protective style. My 'washday' is 20 minutes (shampoo, deep conditioner everything!!) And I retain length like crazy because my hair doesn't tangle anymore I can go a week with a bun or ponytail only brushing the top to smooth flyaways and by weekend for washday no tangles. I don't get the people who say relaxed hair is just as much maintenance as natural hair but I get that everyone is different, personally though it's been smooth sailing.
I agree with you, my washdays with natural hair used to take the wholeeee dayyy omg !
The day you die make sure ,you give back God his hair he gave you. U must justify why U Change his from hard to soft😢😢.
@@comfortbutthebiblesaysheth9821 lol my 4c hair is soft just tangles like mad so idk what you're talking about
You’re the most chaotic person on the internet😂🤌🏾…First you try relaxing your hair by yourself,then went to get more relaxer with half relaxed hair😂,finally ended up using two different brands of relaxer on your hair at the same time😂🤌🏾. Ima what is it? Haven’t you done enough?🎶😂
I’m surprised her hair didn’t fall out 😭
lmaooooo
@@Missimaaa your so pretty
You spoke my mind, some of barely have time to care for our hair. This is a sign for me to cut it all off.
I came here from Tiktok 😂 and I'm not even black 😭 I just had to watch
😂you and I both
hhahaha bestie thank you 1
Reason why I don't think I'll be going natural anytime soon😄 with all the chaos the hair didn't fall that's amazing 😁
Girlllll !!!!
Natural hair is not easy at alll. Your hair is long and full too. Welldone👌👌👌.
thank youuuu
I can relate!!!
Tell me why I make a hair and in one week I can’t find them Stitches or weaves anymore
lmaoooo sorry bestie
The timing of this video is crazy. I’ve also been natural for just over ten years after transitioning for a year but I’ve had enough. Been battling for months on what to do- straight natural, keratine treatment or relaxer. Literally was looking up relaxers to get on Amazon yesterday. It’s nice to see I’m not alone and we’re all going through similar experiences. The guilt has been eating me up.
Girl don't feel guilty, you don't owe anyone natural hair or taking the stress
Just use a blow dryer and stretch your hair. It will be easier. Don’t relax your hair 😢
I love the fact that there is still some texture 😅nice sharing ❤
yes me too ! thank you
Came from tiktok just to see the end result 😂😂 I didn’t know Ima can talk calmly 🤣
Lmaooooo
Awww I loved your natural hair. You look good either way. ❤
Thank you so much!!
The most Chaotic,last minute and adventurous bestie I know 😂😂😂😂🙇🏾♀️
hahaha bestie
Welcome to the club babes 🎉
very happy to be on this side !
Ohh baby, I threw in the towel in April 2024, one of the best decisions ! I texturized my hair, thugged out the natural hair for 9 years, that's enough, I would be near to tears whenever I combed my hair, my scalp would always be hot and feel like I'm on fire.
Girllllll ! Happy for you
Fav part of this video is the disclaimer
lmao
Giirlllllll it’s your hair! You do whatever you want to it… and ur hair looks good. However, here are some solutions to the problems she mentioned… if you have cornrows for a month, moisturize at least once or twice a week and be gentle when taking down… use a satin bonnet also your hair won’t break… if your hair gets rough easily in hairstyles, straighten it before you make your hair, it has the exact effect as a relaxer, your hair will literally be straight… I know it’s not easy and takes dedication but so does diet, skincare, exercise 😂 it’s literally part of life…
Is that all, you didn't have to end😢😢❤❤
Omg !!! I posted another video ❤️
Not you playing with the finger gloves like a child 😂, you’re so cute ❤!
This was your decision to make, and I’m sure you did it for the very best ☺️❤
ahhaha, and yes i did it to cut stresss
I came from TikTok because I really wanted to see how you would use 1 relaxer with that much hair😂😂😂😂😂 Thank God your hair is strong because ahhh 😢😢
I’m up next my girl
twinnnnn
Coming from another girl with natural hair, l quite. I’m relaxing my hair this coming week . I just can’t deal with natural hair anymore
Handling wool the same way you handle polyester makes no sense so why would you handle coils the same way you handle Caucasian straight hair. It make no sense to pull at your hair and expect a comb to go through it easily. It’s so unfortunate that we struggle so much to simply accept our hair for what it is.
Speak for yourself
@@MissimaaaPlease sister, I wasn’t trying to come at you. I know you can’t hear my tone so my words might come off that way. I really do feel like the problem is that most of us don’t understand our natural hair and not that the hair is itself inherently difficult.
Thats 10 years of growth?
😂
Everyone hair growth is different 💀 so rest
She has't relaxed her hair in 10 years... Not that she has kept her hair for 10 years 🤗
Not the vogue break😂😂😂
😂😂😂
Watch Cyn doll for maintaining healthy and long relaxed hair
Me soon 😢
My braids don’t last more than 2 weeks 😭😭
Asinn
I'm tired 😢
I swear I don’t even like to make braids again
I now do more of cornrows so I wear wig
girlllll we are tired
Me soon!!!
“Strike a pose”😭
hahahah
Girl, you sound like one of us
Are you Nigerian?😂
Your hair looks very dry and damaged, you would really benefit from a big chop
How did your hair not cook😂😂
Girl it lowkey did 😭
😂😂😂😂
lmaoo bestieee you're here toooo !
@@Missimaaaanywhere you go bestie ❤😌
Why don't you treat it for a few months and see? Your hair needs treatment and moisture 😂
Me soon!!!
twiinnnnn