ENDURISM (The Flip Side of Escapism) Teal Swan
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- Опубликовано: 22 апр 2016
- We know the danger of escapism. We know the pain of being around a fair weather friend. We feel the frustration of spiritual bypassing. Many of us have a fairly good grasp at this point about the fact that running away from pain and from things that scare us is not the way to create a fulfilling life. But we need to be aware that there is danger at the other side of the scale as well. There is danger in becoming attached to pain, unwilling to leave it. Teal has named this danger “Endurism”. Endurism is equally as unhealthy as escapism. It is a coping strategy.
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I've NEVER believed in Endurism and have always been accused of "running from my problems". Yeah, I grew and left my abusers behind. Sometimes leaving or "running away", really is the answer.
Hi
Thats different. Not what the video is about. But happy you're safe and better and away from your abusers.
A lot of people say escapism is BS but endurism is just as much BS
Exactly
I wish I could run away from my problem. Love looking at birds because they have a sense of freedom I'll never have.
I grew up partly in Japan, and there's a term called "toukou-kyohi" which describes kids who refuse to go to school because of bullying, mental health issues, etc (formal education is compulsory until 9th grade/year 9). I used to blame them for "escaping" from their own problems. After watching this video, I am applauding these brave kids who commit toukou-kyohi. I've realized that they are simply not willing to endure the pain and suffering just to fulfill societal obligations. I know someone who committed toukou-kyohi, and he ended up receiving some alternate form of education (e.g. home schooling is unheard of in Japan). Thanks, Teal.
Hi. Just wanted to say that I also committed toukou-kyohi, and your comment was incredibly healing for me. Everyone in my life has shamed me for my inability to face school and I've been seen as weak, over-sensitive, crazy, etc. I know myself that the school system is not supportive of the mental health and happiness of children, and I think I may spend some of my lifetime trying to change that. Your comment means a lot to me :)
A. Pershon Thank you for sharing, and I am so glad to hear that :-)
+A. Pershon To give a different perspective. It isn't your "inability to face school" it was your unwillingness to tolerate a bad situation that made you drop school. Puts a little different spin on it, huh?
+dvspec1 Ha, I like that way of looking at it :D
BrightBlue1111 thank you for sharing this story!
"follow your joy seems like such a precious little spiritual nugget... Well it's serious !" 😂 that was awesome
Reminds me of those men that say I'm trying to find my "ride or die girl". These men always seem to be the type that require a a lot of endurance and don't take action on their problems.
"Just hanging in there" is another one of those endurism justification
Oh, the great truths inside this nugget of a video are so powerful! How many times have I said, "it is what it is!" to rationalize the enduring pain of my almost 3 decades of a marriage that I have literally chosen to be stuck in for the sake of the children. It is actually quite disgusting what message I have been sending to our 5 kids. We have finally put the breaks on and we are in the process of getting that divorce that should have happens years and years ago!Thank you, Teal, and thank you Universe for getting this message sent to my inbox this morning! So powerful! I watched it with my 17-year-old daughter that has watched me try to be this spiritual martyr for all of her life. Finally, finally, I have put the brakes on this unhealthy union and said: "Enough is enough!!"
Forgive yourself ... some peopke run too fast and don't try at all and that's not ideal either...nothing we do is that ideal ..but you can only do what you can do.
this is literally life changing
I love how your personality comes out in this video!
Yesssss
The universe "forcing you to expand through terminal illness" is a lovely way to show you how it respects your free will.
This is probably one of my FAVORITE Teal Swan videos. It's SO TRUE! And I love the passion she shows us here. I feel the exact same way. You GOTTA find a way out of those bad situations. I know it can be scary at first but just DO it! It gets easier. That's one of the best lessons my mother taught me. The saying "you made your bed now you gotta lie in it" was NOT perpetuated in our household for an instant.
I love how animated and passionate she is here. :-D
It is quite entertaining, yet full of devastatingly clear and powerful insights as usual. These videos are really a great service to humanity!
This has to be the MOST humorous side of Teal that I have EVER witnessed! LOVE IT TEAL, keep the jokes and humor coming!
Four years later and this pops up just when I need it most. People have been telling me to suck it up, accept, and endure. Always endure. But I know something is off with it.
4:43 *Action is a step that actually creates the Vibrational shift.* preach🙌🏻
One of the most important videos of her. Recently I have realized that I endure things in my life, I even build dreams for my future that contain enduring. It is hard to change the belief systems we have but I believe we have the power to change them, step by step, by doing the things that feels right.
Agree!
This. Is. So. Important.❤️ choose freedom!!
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Teal Swan made me use the word endurism when I was living with a mentally abusive parent! I was so used to taking discomfort and pain that I just one day left! Just two weeks ago I used the word ENDURISM to explain my addiction to pain, abuse, and a$$holes! Now, I realized that I was just used to being in emotional pain.
More of you personality is came out in this video. I love it. I was more glued to your interviews, because I could see more of you there, but this one was wonderful! THANK YOU!
i agree :)
Yes!
so true
+Danielle Sierra I agree too :) More of such videos please :)
+Danielle Sierra Yes, she did good one here too, and "give her a break" she is, young, new and growing herself, even though she is smart & more; great young instructor.....
Yep, as someone who is experiencing chronic illness at 24 I’ve realized it is from endurism. Time to choose a new boat!
I’ve watched dozens and dozens of your other wonderful videos. By far, this video on endurism FUNDAMENTALLY changed my life. I’ve watched it at least 20 times and each time is like a brand new video - I realize something new each time. My all time fav part, the universe saying “let’s sink it!” Succinct yet so powerful! Gives me shivers every time :-)
Thank you 🙏
Your acting is so fun and to the point! It helps me to see how ridiculous pretending to be happy is.
Honestly, this is so true. I hated myself when I was a child, and i cut and self-harmed constantly. When I was diagnosed with diabetes at 16, I turned into an amazingly strong, confident, and brave individual who refused to cause themselves any more pain than they deserved. It was the only push I needed, and it's real proof that the chronic illness clause is valid. ~blessed be
" no one is trying to talk you out of the validity of your reasons " . wow .
thank you, Swan
FANTASTIC!! I have pondered this issue so many times and it is great to hear you so eloquently validate this concept for me. We also get addicted to sadness peptides that keep us stuck in nowhereville. Your boat analogy is so incredible. I recently let go of something I was hanging on to for far too long. The minute I really took action to get rid of this thing, and let it go, I noticed so many great new things started to happen. Thank you!
What an unbelievable human being Teal Swan is....For her to have this much depth, this much insight, is absolutely a gift to this world...recently I was noticing the same mixed messages in society about enduring pain and suffering, that will eventually lead to 'success' and then the opposite message, be happy, take this 'pill' and stop suffering....if you watch the current commercials, this mixed message is going on all the time...something I've been noticing and laughing at, regarding the ridiculous of that mixed message...and here Teal reveals this mixed message, exactly how I was noticing it....the synchronicity is absolutely amazing.....I must be aligning with the harmony and the peace within more and more, in noticing the things going on around me that don't resonate with me anymore...I no longer believe that 'temporary suffering' will pay off somehow, for that temporary suffering usually leads to the enduring Teal mentions....I now have recognized that shift within, that knowing in regards to temporary suffering, knowing that it is really code for Teals word....endure-ism. I'm no longer willing to endure, my heart, mind, body, are all in sync, in alignment, in agreement with that, and now there is nothing but allowing the heart lead to the joy that is, to the joy the heart really desires...
Lmao " wow we really gotta help them, haha...lets sink it hahahaha her face was hilarious
I whole heartedly understand this through a personal experience. I distinctly remember seeing a kipup in a video game. I asked my mother if that was possible in real life. She has been morbidly obese my entire life, causing my childhood self to believe it was normal to be so. She told me that's only possible in video games and don't get so hopeful.
Now, my kipup is almost perfect as I teach parkour professionally to children. I'm watching her speak this Limitation on my younger brother, while preaching that my weight loss journey isn't possible for him. My heart breaks for him, but I try to help any way I can.
This is EXACTLY what I needed to hear, thank you Teal.
"Follow your joy"... so easy to forget. A simple, much needed and great advice. Thanks Teal☺
This is your best video you ever made, Teal Swam. What I most like on it, beyond the message that is AMAZING you're wonderful, is your authenticity. I never saw you express yourself so freely like on this video, congratulations. You're wonderful
(srry about my english, brasilian
I feel an urge to put thanks Teal under every Teal Swan video. Would be a bit crazy, so I express it here. Thank you so so much Teal (and the filmer) for everything
I think you are one of the most wholesome teachers I know.
You go deep and you see the spectrum.
The boat analogy, EPIC... Great video Teal, really resonated with it.
I feel like she takes all the spiritual teachings, and makes them so relevant and straightforward. So much so straightforward that it's impossible to misunderstand them. Or ..... maybe I'm just finally ready to understand these things.
Thank you Teal! What a perfect message for this moment in time. I really needed to hear this. 💙.
This is one of my new favorite videos! Thank you, Miss Teal! ❤️
Teal, I am so glad to have found you. Your insight is amazing. Some of the things I knew; I had some opposing view points with some other things, but you made me rethink those issues; the rest I hadn't even thought of. Totally appreciate the way you break things down and explain them bit by bit. So logical and clear it is difficult not to get it. Thank you so much for sharing.
I love how you integrated so many personal reactions to this video
I love you Teal. Thank you for your fire and courage and clarity 🌟
Yes! So on point, yet again. Thank you!
thank you thank you thank you Teal! Coming across this video is a gift.
I feel like you were speaking directly to me in this video. Thanks, Teal.
Love how worked up she is about this! You can tell she has people in mind for it. Loving these videos. Always opening my mind!
Great Video Teal! ...One Of My Favorites!
I've been listening to you for years. I really appreciate your videos 💕
Wow. Thank you, Teal. Thank you.
thank you so much Teal!!
Another "old" gem that just now really shines for me. Thanks, Teal!
different vibe in this one. thank you again!
Beautifully put. thank you
This video recently showed up on my suggested. I think because of Teals recently released year ahead video… this resonates so hard. I recently did a tarot reading for myself about my relationship and one of the cards was 8 of swords which essentially is this exact energy. Pisces is also my dominant energy which also has a tendency victimization/martyrdom 🥲
Thank you for bringing this concept to my awareness so that I may heal through it!
Thank you Teal. I send you Love
Woke up at 3:08am for this message from the universe.
Thank you for every video 🌺
LOVE THIS!! You are brilliant, Teal. I love your personality shining through here.
teal, you never cease to amaze me. thank you so much.
Another classic video.
Forever grateful 💯❤️Teal 🥰
you've reached a new level with this video. Best spiritual-mundane life connection point and life lesson yet.
Once again the master has spoken, God bless u for being on this earth teal. Lots of love to u
When she said "let's sink it.😐" I laughed so hard because I swear life will do it in so many ways man!
Love this sooo much!
I love, love, love Teal Swan and her videos.
Teal you always have a new reasoning to my mind. Thank you for sharing with us.
Loved this Teal- As always, you tell it like it is!
Wow, thank you! I'll have to watch this once again or maybe more, to absorb the amazing insights you have.
Teal you are basically saving my life with these videos. Thank you for all the work you have done to understand how to help all of us.
This is probably one of your best videos ever. And it hit me right on the spot... I love you!!❤
You know what Teal, I’ve been following my joy, which is the tremendous amount of joy I feel learning from each and every one of your videos. Thank our lucky stars for alignment !!!!!
Seems like this message was met for me. Thank You!!
Thank you so much! I love your new way of making videos. It is much more light and human :)
Thanks Teal. I needed to hear this message today.
Excellent talk Teal. Thank u x
Amazing as always! I love how happy and goofy you look over here 😊😊
Teal, I just wanted to say, on top of your videos being immensely helpful, and relatable, you shine with inner and outer beauty.
This is the perfect video for what I'm going through in life right now. Thank you so much Teal, you help me get through a lot in life.
I needed to hear this today!!!
this video is incredible. very eye opening for me, and helped me have some realizations ive been meaning to have. I feel like I've been enduring my life for the past 8 years or so, and only recently felt a natural desire to follow my joy. and then I found this video and it's basically reinforcing what I've been realizing since my grief that came about from last year.
Great video! I needed to hear this right now!
Great message that I desperately needed to hear. Bless you.
This is terrific thank you!
Awesome topic, thanks!
I loved this video soooo much. Please keep bringing your personality into the videos
thank you...so much...from the bottom of my heart. I did like this video more than usual, it seemed that more of your own personality came out in this particular video. Love it. ❤❤
This one was great. Helped me out immensely! 👍🏼❤️
thank you for this video
i love this so much teal the analogy of the boat is so good! aha thank u
WOW!!!! I've watched hours of you, i have you in instagram and love every second... and everything you post.
Pretty much everything you say resonates with me and is in line with my other spiritual mentor/life coach.
But this is one of my favorite pieces of truth so far.
You're awesome!!! Thank you!!!
This is gold!!!
Love seeing your personality come through! So refreshing! Love the information also. Had some reaffirming moments of insights I've had recently.
This is soooo true. Thank you! 💕
OMG, this video actually made me FEEL! It made me feel the STATE under the words, not just understanding on the thought level... Your freely streaming, uninhibited conversational tone has more conviction than the words themselves! I love your freedom, Teal!
This is SO important!!!
Amazing, I needed this so much! This is just the thing I needed to hear to move out of the vibration I was perpetuating, but I couldn't see how to change. Once again Teal you have made a profound impact on my life, an be sure when I say that this will have a ripple effect. I will change others for having been changed by you, and through my own expansion I will effect the lives of my community
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Teal Swan for the Independent Nominee for President of the U.S. please!! 💕
This!!! Thank you so much, I've realized some things while listening. Thank you, Teal, for all your work!💗
Teal, you are just getting better and better!!
Thank you for this video Teal. It was very helpful for me.
This video is BADASS! Thanks!! 😃
Thank you for your work. It is a gift and I am so appreciative for it!
Teal swan you are amazing, I am so thankful.