Effective Communication Skills
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- Опубликовано: 9 июн 2024
- This Effective Communication Skills Training, a 7-part mini-series in how to improve communication (full version). It focuses on concise, clear, and confident communication. Previous versions of this are posted in 7 separate parts.
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I put them together here for ease of use:
- Long-windedness
- Concise overall messages
- Concise statements or sentences
- Organized thoughts
- How to pause for emphasis
- Avoiding fillers
- Nonverbal communication
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0 so good.
Very helpful!!
@@cynthiawhite8868😊😊😊
Whenever I communicate it's very unorganized. I can tell by the look on their face. In my search for help, I found this video. Thank you!
Me too
Me too. Unorganized is a great way to put it.
Omg I get the same looks
I thought I was the only one
Same!
Being able to communicate effectively is one of the most essential skills to learn.
Yes, agreed. Thanks for your comment.
What if you have a learning disability? Define "a social situation."
Yes I agree
Pauses, processing topic.
Dialogue, Room for discussion about topic.
Fair. Fair, Fair enough.
Key ideas. Key ideas, key ideas.
I just realized how remarkable it is that we have to learn to speak plain English again to be an effective communicator.
My reason for my long-windedness starts from my childhood my mother and brother didn’t believe anything I had to say.
My answers included facts, other opinions, my opinions and reasonings.
At 39, now I understand this and why I was always soo tired.
did u get it fixed? am 44 and am exactly like that, very long winded coming from a history of distrust.
Your channel is probably one of the most Important channels I have come across please keep on doing what you do. Many of us don’t have great social skills and we need to grow in this area
Wow! This is great! There is an internal aspect about communicating. So many things happen internally that cause people to talk the way they do. Excellent!
0:00 - Intro
0:34 - Lesson 1: Long Windedness
5:50 - Lesson 2: Concise Overall Message
12:40 - Lesson 3: Concise Sentences
20:10 - Lesson 4: Organised Thoughts
28:04 - Lesson 5: Effective Pauses
33:10 - Lesson 6: Avoid Fillers
37:41 - Lesson 7: Confident Nonverbals
42:52 - Recap
Thanks a lot and God bless you!
Nice
Much appreciated, I feel like I have strong thoughts that need to be heard, but I don't have the practice in expressing them the right way.
i am in the same boat
Same here!!!
Alex' advice about written and oral communication is invaluable. I use his videos frequently in my speech communication and public speaking classes.
This is by far one of my favorite videos. Alex, you are so clear while using all the tips contained within. I love it. Thank you again.
Even if you won't apply all this, whatching it allready prepares you for conversations. It generaly makes me feel better and gives me a sense of freedom when going somewhere, having the idea I'm 'prepared'.
There are so many videos about communications but only you speaking in a pace that I, a non-native speaker of English, can understand clearly. You really do what you taught.
Man this is gold. You are giving out such awesome content for free. I love your presentation and the clear concise message. Preach what you practice. Thank you.
I appreciate that, Bijay. Glad it was helpful.
Love this!!! Thank you so much!
One of the most relevant communications training I have encountered online. Thank you Alex.
I'm super grateful for this lesson. Really appreciate it and wish you all the best with more great contents like this. Cheers.
Excellent advice. Communication is crucial for conversations with any audience. Practical information for all of us who struggle with proper, clear, and concise communication skills. Loved the helpful tips and strategies, too!
this lesson was actually concise and to the point. very rare for me to complete such tutorials but i just did. thanks.
Glad it was helpful!
You are an Answered Prayer, I have been praying to find a video that can help me in these specific areas, I have struggled with these areas all my life. (47 yr)
YOU'RE writing and your video was suggested on my feed. I AM BEYOND THANKFUL!!!! THANK YOU FOR TAKING PART OF YOUR TIME TO POST THESE VIDEOS...!! Thank you!!!!
Glad it was helpful, Lorie.
I love and agree totally with your instructions. Perhaps this should be recommended for all public speakers. Thank you so much.
The main reason people say Um and Ah is to stop others from interrupting them before they've finished. When I cut these words from my sentences and had my pauses at the ends of my sentences, people would butt in before I was ready. But there are people in my family whose pauses are only ever in the middle of a sentence and you can never get a word in. It's a tactic they use to dominate the conversation and turn it into a monologue.
I really like Mr Lyon's video. I saw it on AARP SCSEP Senior remote training while waiting for a PT assisgment with a non-profit. I have known for years I have some issues with this and know God has been helping me. Good thing about God He brings them back to me in another way when one way doesn't work. I know it's NOT about me and this hasn't been the problem. I am relizing I do not have to always be talking. I need to fill that nervousness or slientness with listening or thinking before I speak which God says in His word in Proverbs everywhere. He has been giving me His word and people like Mr Lyon to be open and Honest with me so I can communicate better with others, especially people in my church and around me from day to day. I know this is going to come in handy of how I repsent the Gospel as well. I really wish I could copy and paste these lessons as I can't write fast enough to get all he is saying so I will have to watch this over and over again. I thank God and I thank God for Mr Lyon and others who have been patient with me over the years and ask those who know me and may read this to forgive me as I never meant any harm. Blessings. Trust God No Matter What as He know what you need before you ask🥰
I truly appreciate your work. Thank you for your time and space.
Long winded girl here! Ugh, totally because I think it’s adding value, I need to reign it in! Embarrassed about literally every encounter I’ve ever had now.
This is very helpful since I'm still working on my Communication Skills.
Thanks Alex. Really informative and much needed for my career switch. Have a great day!
Thanks, Klye.
Love this video. So direct and it self a practical example of all the key ideas mentioned! Super ❤
Thank you Alex ❤️ you are a blessing to us all❤️🙏
This is an incredible video for people looking to improve their communication skills. Thank you, Alex.
Dang, the first point is long-windedness
That's me 🤣 definitely taking notes
I love your videos. Definitely helps me a lot!Thanks ❤
Thank you. I always find your videos not only rich content wise but also well explained!
Alex, this is one of the most informative and hopefully emulated videos I've ever seen. Thank you.
Glad it was helpful, Willie.
Thank you for opening my eyes and ears more and more on what i see hear and feel,............God Bless you and your work too !!
OMG!!! Thank you! Right out of the gate! I am so long winded. I go around the world to explain things. My problem is I give too much detail.
Glad it helped!
Am also the same .. Too much detail.
Appreciate the value provided. Thanks, Alex
Thank you so very much for this!❤️ Please don't stop the videos. Keep them coming. I am definitely subscribed.
Thanks for subbing! I post new videos almost every week. :-)
Awesome job Mr. Lyon, thank you so much.
Will definitely continue to use this to improve my communication. Thank you for having this up for free!
You're so welcome, Hisoka.
Alex that’s lovely stuff. Wonderful. You are an amazing speaker putting into your empirical knowledge
Thanks for listening. I appreciate your encouragement.
@@alexanderlyon California politicians and lobbyists really need you. In Calif, people think they have to repeat every statement three times, exactly the same way. They think listeners are ignorant. There is little depth, often, a lot of deception and manipulation and distortion in their messages.
Awesome little course! Thank you so much!
Thank you very much Alex! this is amazing that you are offering us this content for free!! thank you! thank you!
My pleasure! I appreciate that you find it valuable.
Thanks Mr Lyon you're definitely amazing ❤
Thank you for these lessons; I need them.
This is such a great course. Thank you for making it free to watch. I'll update on how it worked for me.
I'm glad you're getting some benefit out of it, Purna. Thank you for commenting.
Nicely done, thanks for the lessons.
Thank you, Lyon for all your wonderful content!
This channel is so helpful. Thank you.
Thank you for this Alex. I can absolutely use this at my work. Please make a video about giving constructive feedback and how to effectively talk with managers If you haven't done yet.
When you love what you are doing then 100% you will exceed in it.
Alex, everytime I watch your videos I always learn something. This is an exceptional topic.. Thank you and I really appreciate your sharing.
I appreciate that, Sun.
Really helpful thanks so much
Thank you, Alex. After watching this in one go (hooked), I realize why I suck at communication. I am guilty of most of the mistakes mentioned here. I am not a native speaker yet I possess extremely good vocabulary however I stumble when I do presentations, I'm long winded and I do fillers like mad. I think insecurity is one root cause for long windedness no doubt, also relevant is the fear of sounding impolite. It is a delicate balance being concise but not being disrespectful especially when presenting to senior management. In any case your point is very valid but needs lots and lots of practice. Also it would be nice if we had the takeaways listed somewhere too for easy reference. Also don't worry about some of the negative feedback out here, you're doing a great job. Cheers.
Hi, Zero Zuba. Thanks for offering details on your habits. I'm glad the videos are helpful. You're on the road now and you'll get better as you practice.
I think higher education might also be partially to blame. Having to write long winded dissertations with a minimum number of words conditioned me to fill up my talks with unnecessary words so I would meet the minimum word count requirement.
@@alexanderlyon Toastmasters is often used by non-native speakers who strive for excellence. Many Californians automatically repeat the same statement three times. They think they are adding depth but they are putting people to sleep.
Thank you for this video. Just listening has helped to think more before I speak.
Great video and tips! I’m glad you discussed the irritating habit of ‘uptalk’. All the US movies have it and people think that is the way to speak!
Alex, thank you for your videos; they are very helpful.
Absolutely true, coaches should be watching this
Thank you for posting this video. I will have to watch it a few times and practice to embed these good habits.
Thank you so much for these helpful videos.
You ROCK Alex! Thank you.
Thank you so much 😊 Alex.
You deserve million subscribers on this channel. ❤️
Really helpful course 👍
Thanks. I hope we get reach that milestone!
Thank you so much for the video- these really helped!
Thanks a lot, Alex. I'll need to rewatch a number of times to drive home the point.
The first video on communications that jumps straight to the point. Thank you.
Ha. Thank you. That's my whole deal. Feel free to visit the channel. This video here is one of my oldest ones.
@@alexanderlyon Thank you prof. Do you offer practical exercises in these courses?
Excellent Alex. Thank you.
Thanks Alex , it is very helpful for us.
Thank you, Alex! Such incredible lessons.
Glad you like them, gelila.
Thank you so much! Lots of value here!
Glad it was helpful, Carlos.
Gee its 2020 and I'm just now learning this??? Ty so much for this video
This is excellent, Alex! Long-winded and disorganized thought tendencies are my weaker points. Keep up the good tip videos
Really an excellent session.
Very very useful.
Thank you so much
Narrator has nailed the content with this presentation - its very useful and inspiring. Thanks for this wonderful video
Thank you very much for this informative video.
Thank you the lassons are really helpful ❤️❤️keep going ✨
Good work! Practice of lessons can sharpen all communication. Success hastens and continues through effective communication.
Glad it was helpful.
I enjoy watching your video. Thank You So Much
This is something very valuable information i found on RUclips. Thanks for giving your efforts!
Excelente amigo! Saludos. Me servirán tus consejos para mis entrevistas y juntas de trabajo. Thank your for sharing it to all of us. Regards.
I use, "um, uh, I just wanted to, like, soooo..." Thanks for this course. I'm a new subscriber.
Welcome aboard!
thank you alex..it is a great course..i look forward to your other classes
Thank you so much 💎
Great Doctor!!! Thank you!
Thanks for great lesson.
This is really helpful, thanks!
I thought this was very concise and informative. Thanks.
This is Awesome thank you Alex 😊
Thanks for your great explanation of CCM.
PURE GOLD!!!!
Just came across your channel. Lots of great information shared. Thank you very much
for some reason when im talking in my mind im concise clear and confident, however, when the words flow from my mouth im long winded
Sometimes, I think it's about deciding beforehand to say it concisely and stop talking. Just put a period at the end and pause really clearly and just commit to ending our talking turn.
This is great! This will help me in my professional development. I remember taking Public Speaking in college, if we did fillers, points were taken off!
Thank you! Great content.
I like this course very much! Thank you for presenting it. I've noticed that people use the word "utilize" when they're trying to sound like an intellectual. Utilize means to use something in a way that it wasn't intended for.
Really helpful course
Thank you!
Hey way to go! I see you're really growing. I knew you would. Keep up the good work! I think you're fantastic!
Thank you, Dan. It means a lot coming from you. I have no idea how I missed this comment 3 months ago. I usually reply each day. Congratulations on approaching 100k. That is truly amazing.. You're one of my inspirations for doing my channel. You were WAY out front on this RUclips thing. Keep up the awesome work.
Thanks, Alex.
Is he the husband of Alexa?
After few minutes, I am very much impressed and watched all seven videos in first session.
Keep it up!
Thank you, and very much appreciated