The thing that upsets me the most about it is that she reminds me of my old self. I was struggling with mental health and I was like her too. I was rude, snappy, and ungrateful, and didn’t wanna put in the work to make myself better. One day I had a wake up call and realized I had to change. So I started taking things seriously. Now I’m a way happier and more productive person. I wanna see Tammy do the same.
Yeah I get that point of view 100% but at the same time like there has to be a reason she's like that. And I feel like stuff like this can happen to anybody aswell. I'd like like hope if it happened to me and I was like her that the people around me wouldn't give up on me
To be fair, no legitimate therapy session should EVER be televised. As nice as this therapist was, she can’t make progress with Tammy as long as the cameras are there.
It is a shame because some people can’t even get therapy and here she is not taking it seriously and being ungrateful about it I feel so bad for the therapist
Tammy has no respect. This therapist is trying so hard. Tammy doesn't deserve the surgery. The therapist is still trying after the way Tammy treated her. Tammy is a narcissist, it may be her only way to protect herself, but the way she tries to hurt others in her life is a problem and even if you're not receptive to a therapist you don't need to be rude.
i don't think she was rude..i think she was "reserved" she eventually opened up towards the end..and a truck load even more of PATIENCES to talk to Tammy
It's sad too because in season one she was *really* close to hitting the surgeon's weight loss goal, but instead of trying to lose that last bit she put on a significant amount.
@@jordy_muhnordy oh yea I saw that 😢 also a huge sign that she wasn't ready at all... I used to have weight issues as well and without dedication no surgery can "fix" it. I've seen people irl who got a bypass and got even heavier since they didn't beat the addiction. It's such a serious condition at this point...
@@eatas8937 I think surgery for her would be a "quick fix." It would help her health significantly, but I agree that she'd probably manage to gain weight back. It's been a yo-yo with her weight loss; she gets really into it the first couple weeks, then gives up entirely. As soon as things get difficult that's when she leaves out
“I don’t wanna talk about it” This is literally the best place to talk about it Tammy. If she won’t talk to a therapist, who else does she think can help her?
Therapy takes time. You cant expect someone to immediately open up about everything. Yes Tammy can be a rude person, but it seems to me as if people are really just picking at everything she does.
the session is supposed to be private only you and the therapist. not ethical to film the session for views. not really the best place if there are cameras around
That's the thing, she doesn't want help, doesn't want to change. Everyone does everything for her already so why should she have to change? 🙄 She just makes me blood boil, I can't stand her.
You can tell that Tammy is so embarrassed and she hates herself . She doesn't want help because she has a lot of pride as well combined with the embarrassment. She's a lost cause really. She's spoiled and she doesn't know how to cope or want to learn how because of her pride
The fact that her doctor hasn't cancelled everything for her, is astounding! You have to want and need the surgery, I know I because I had it and I am so grateful for it! She doesn't deserve it, or the kindness from people who want to help her. If you treat people like cattle, guess how they're going to treat you?
I really feel for the therapist, but sending the most obstinate and sullen person you can imagine to the peppiest and achieving anything other than highlighting the difference between them is almost laughable. Tammy will never lose the weight because she doesn't want to. It takes a lot of effort to maintain her weight at this point (let alone constantly gain), more effort than losing it.
@@j5892000 On most reality shows it is but I truly believe that Tammy is this way always. She lashes out at everyone because she is miserable in her morbidly obese body. There is no hope for her. I don’t think she would survive surgery.
@@daisymazie9642 fr and the fact she is on this show I believe she feels she can treat anyone this way cause she is the one bringing in the bank for all of them which is just disgusting and really sad
Had a housemate that was so rude and ungrateful she was told to move elsewhere. Asked for help, agreed, then wanted it right now, now, now, now. And she still blames other people for not "helping" her.
It amazes me just how childish Tammy is when it comes to making changes, you can’t get a weight loss surgery if you aren’t going to change, it would just be pointless, why doesn’t she understand that?
The amount of embarrassment that she feels is PALPABLE. Oof man. The misery and just plain internal ugliness is unbearable. That self reflection, acceptance, and accountability is absolutely paramount to her ever getting better.
No she's not embarrassed! She is a spoilt narcissist , who makes money by letting the social media into her life. She DOESN'T WANT to help herself. Why should she? Everyone runs after her, feed her what she wants (even when she was in hospital on a strict diet, her family brought her favourite foods in!) Probably the first person to GAIN weight on a restricted diet!
But the RUclips channel they started, I didn't see the videos, only excerpts, but they would have embarrassed me. She put herself out there to be ridiculed. I feel sorry for her.
You can't help someone who doesn't want to help themselves or be helped by doing the necessary work. Addiction is addiction. There are no quick fixes for anything worth while in life for most of us.
I really wonder what kind of trauma Tammy is dealing with to cause her to shut down, lash out, and self soothe with food it makes me sad to think of a younger Tammy not knowing where to turn so she just learned to keep it all inside. It’s so frustrating to see her not comply with any help or support but I can empathize with her anger and lack of motivation
I honestly think she wants to express more about how she feels, but doesn’t have the vocabulary or the education to communicate how she feels and what she really needs to meet her goals. Who knows what happened in her childhood, but all these “feeders” she keeps going after, every time one of them inevitably lets her down or it comes to light they’re only doing it for the limelight, that’s traumatic right there. And she doesn’t process any of it, so it builds in top of whatever trauma is already there. I just think she lacks the vocabulary to communicate properly.
@@mycatsnameisdylan thank you to both of you for having empathy and at least trying to see it from Tammy's perspective. You are right that things like that is just re traumatizing yourself. Also I think Tammy probably deals with a lot of shame from trauma and having thousands of people comment how horrible they think she is and how there's no hope for her does not help... Yes there's positive comments but let's think about what comments would stand out to a mentally unwell person.
Notice how Tammy only starts to open up when people talk to her like she’s a victim? She lovesssss to be the victim because she can get away with and justify her awful actions.
She’s been so deeply damaged programmed to be negative and to feel all is hopeless she truly believes she can’t do it. She wants it but she honestly believes all is too hard to achieve. Sadly I don’t see Tammy surviving this.
She thinks she in control that's the problem they need to show her that they're in control and then she'll start doing some of the stuff they want her to do
She (dammy) IS in control, but, of herself, only, and when ''They 👩⚕️'' (while trying to gain, maintain, and show that it's they who are in control, not she) show her this then she'll succeed, personally, and be able to accomplish whatever it is.
at first i thought she was too stern to tammy but as they talked it was really sweet and tammy opened up a bit. you can totally see on tammys face wheb a question is triggering because she puts the walls back up
I agree. Two years under constant care, where neither she nor anyone else can sneak her food. Exercise, therapy sessions. Maybe after that she will have lost enough weight and gained enough confidence to have the surgery. But, that being said, she should spend another year in assisted living to keep her on track. The diet after the surgery is very strict; she will need to be supervised.
Tammy hits me as a person who's lost all emotion and affect. (Outside of annoyance or anger) Zero motivation, doesn't care about anyone or anything...not even herself. It's honestly sad and very worrying.
Swearing at the therapist it not a classy lady move. I have compassion but everyone has limits if she was my sister I just couldn't Amy has the patience of a Saint
😢She began by expressing disinterest as a protective mechanism I feel. Tammy really needs this woman’s help. She needs someone as professional as this therapist to cut right to the chase in a way that doesn’t challenge or hurt Tammy but gets to the heart of the problem fast. I hope Tammy allows herself to be treated and helped. My love and all my best to her.
Although Tammy has a very negative attitude, maybe the session would have been more helpful if it wasn't televised. What is said in the office, stays in the office. I was reserved about starting therapy a couple years back, but it was super helpful in the end. I discovered a lot of things about myself and developed better coping mechanisms. For people who are reserved and hesitant to start therapy, do it if you can. Therapy is freaking awesome.
@@ellecharlton3432 I understand that,but no one deserves to be disrespected the way tammy disrespects people. Just because something is your job, doesn't mean you should get treated poorly.
“What brings you to therapy..?” Why Tammy look at her that way🤭🤦🏽♀️like you don’t know why I’m here, com’on tam tam push through!!!💯💯💯 Don’t let this overtake you and miss the opportunity for these people to help you, hope she get through I understand the mood swings and having low patience etc. by gaining weight… so she’s fighting herself and I hope she becomes what she wants to in life✨🌻
"I just want to leave it alone" so how has that working? Facing your stuff is effing hard. Therapy is hard and the therapist is doing a great job holding her accountable. Clearly some people aren't willing/able to face themselves and their role in things.
@@nancyjones9925 she signed a contract with tlc and now she has to play ball or possibly face legal consequences if she doesn't cooperate. It's really messed up
Literally people would GIVE ANYTHING for a resource like this… it took me years to get a therapist because I grew up poor and struggle heavily with ptsd and I finally have a therapist and I never miss a session. Some people are actually lost causes
Tammy is getting provided all the resources to lose her weight, but she is not deciding to use them. She needs to start cooperating now or she will experience the consequences of her own actions. At this point, it is her choices that will benefit anything. Also, the way she treats the therapist and other people in general is straight up rude and disgusting, always pulling the victim card.
It's odd to me how Tammy says she's quick and easy to trust others and how that's her downfall. Yet here it is with the therapist she's the opposite. Like how can you be open with guys who want to ruin all your progress and not with the people who are trying to help you
She’s so rude. I hate how she treats other people especially her sisters and the therapist. Most people would pay $1000s or wish they could pay anything to be able to get the help she she’s received. And she’s thrown it all away And not grateful what so ever. She’s given up and you can’t help someone that doesn’t want help. I wish she would change.
Therapist have to deal with this all the time or even worse scenarios. They know what they’re doing and they know that mental illness is a lock that they need to find the key for. In this case Tammy is hard to get through but it’s only because of everything she’s ever been through which I’m sure is a lot. Most of us want to assume that talking to a therapist is easy but when you’ve been so closed off to everyone you’re whole life it’s not easy especially if you have a camera in your face all the time maybe if she was alone with the therapist there would be more open communication but we’ll never know that and we shouldn’t. I’m sure she’s not being forced to be in there with the camera but you never know the full story of things. I’m not saying I see it but I do see an amazing therapist that knows what she’s doing and a very hurt human with severe mental illness that she can’t control
@@glenysmorehu2765 part of me thinks she agrees to the cameras so she doesn't have to actually be alone in there bc that means she'll actually have to open up
Remember when Tammy said she wanted doctors to treat her like she’s human?
maybe she should behave as one?@?
I do..lol. she can't take being treated like that. Coz it is contradictory to how she feels. I can't pity someone like that. Just can't do it😔
Yup
Sadly as immature some humans are, we never take full responsibility for our action and tend to think harm is done unto us then we do unto people.
She is in a lot of pain every waking hour
Tammy makes my blood boil. She is so rude and ungrateful. Some people just don’t deserve help
Agreed
Maybe she don't want it.
The thing that upsets me the most about it is that she reminds me of my old self. I was struggling with mental health and I was like her too. I was rude, snappy, and ungrateful, and didn’t wanna put in the work to make myself better. One day I had a wake up call and realized I had to change. So I started taking things seriously. Now I’m a way happier and more productive person. I wanna see Tammy do the same.
Tammy is always Rude and ungreatful. She won't admit it but she does use food to cope with whatever.
Never say that
She truly is the most miserable person out there. Like I don’t get why people do so much for someone that clearly doesn’t appreciate anything.
She is so insufferable. SHE is the reason she is morbidly obese but she takes it out on others. She will never change.
Exactly!
Words right out of my mouth…
Yeah I get that point of view 100% but at the same time like there has to be a reason she's like that. And I feel like stuff like this can happen to anybody aswell. I'd like like hope if it happened to me and I was like her that the people around me wouldn't give up on me
So true if she wants help than she has to open up otherwise she won't be able to get anywhere.
To be fair, no legitimate therapy session should EVER be televised. As nice as this therapist was, she can’t make progress with Tammy as long as the cameras are there.
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Precisely my thoughts
She had to agree to it
Lol yeah and she's so worried about the door
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It's a shame. Some people would give their left arm for a therapy session. And she's treating it like a joke
Wouldn't want her left arm
@@glenysmorehu2765 LOL
It IS a joke!
This comment !!!
It is a shame because some people can’t even get therapy and here she is not taking it seriously and being ungrateful about it I feel so bad for the therapist
Tammy has no respect. This therapist is trying so hard. Tammy doesn't deserve the surgery. The therapist is still trying after the way Tammy treated her. Tammy is a narcissist, it may be her only way to protect herself, but the way she tries to hurt others in her life is a problem and even if you're not receptive to a therapist you don't need to be rude.
She was so rude I can't believe someone could be so rude to a person who wants to help
She's self centred and childish. Even though her family tries their best to help her while they have their own lives to live.
The therapist isn't that nice would you like to see her? Put yourself in her shoes. Smile and talk to someone you don't even want to open up to
And I think Tammy forgets that she's also on a program called 1000 lb sisters... That's the only thing she's known for...
i don't think she was rude..i think she was "reserved" she eventually opened up towards the end..and a truck load even more of PATIENCES to talk to Tammy
the patience of the psychologist is commendable, how she resisted the urge to roll tammy out the door the second she started scowling is beyond me
She would have to use a bulldozer to get her out.
her drooping forehead makes her have a permanent scowl
Tammy would've loved that
that is what she needs someone to stand up to her not pamper her! Tippy toe around Tammy to TRY to help her!
Imo she needs an award for putting up with her attitude
Tammy seems like the kind of person who gave up and accepted their fate. A lot of people don't want to change until it's much too late. 😔
It's sad too because in season one she was *really* close to hitting the surgeon's weight loss goal, but instead of trying to lose that last bit she put on a significant amount.
@@jordy_muhnordy oh yea I saw that 😢 also a huge sign that she wasn't ready at all... I used to have weight issues as well and without dedication no surgery can "fix" it. I've seen people irl who got a bypass and got even heavier since they didn't beat the addiction. It's such a serious condition at this point...
@@eatas8937 I think surgery for her would be a "quick fix." It would help her health significantly, but I agree that she'd probably manage to gain weight back. It's been a yo-yo with her weight loss; she gets really into it the first couple weeks, then gives up entirely. As soon as things get difficult that's when she leaves out
The power of food is incredible
@@transittimes2008 No.The effects of food are horrible. Food basically ruined Tammy’s life. She can’t stop eating, because it’s addicting.
They shut the door for privacy then put the session on national television 😂
With ta ys permission
Oh yeah lollll
fr
“I don’t wanna talk about it” This is literally the best place to talk about it Tammy. If she won’t talk to a therapist, who else does she think can help her?
It's pretty normal for people not want to open up... especially to strangers.
Therapy takes time. You cant expect someone to immediately open up about everything. Yes Tammy can be a rude person, but it seems to me as if people are really just picking at everything she does.
@@morganmiller8010 then why tf did she go? Cus she was forced?
the session is supposed to be private only you and the therapist. not ethical to film the session for views. not really the best place if there are cameras around
That's the thing, she doesn't want help, doesn't want to change. Everyone does everything for her already so why should she have to change? 🙄 She just makes me blood boil, I can't stand her.
You can tell that Tammy is so embarrassed and she hates herself . She doesn't want help because she has a lot of pride as well combined with the embarrassment. She's a lost cause really. She's spoiled and she doesn't know how to cope or want to learn how because of her pride
Fr I agree with u and a lot of people are looking at it as she’s being rude but she’s really embarrassed about it I can tell
@@theamazingworldofjassy8122 she's outright rude
💯💯💯
@@ap8441 lol 😂
Pride for what though? What does she even have to be proud of? There’s nothing left
I commend the therapist on her upbeat attitude and professionalism, she did a great job!
Who is she kidding? She is never going to be compliant enough to have surgery.
preacchhh! so sad actually :(
I don’t think she would survive surgery.
@@HeavnzMiHome she'll never lose enough to even have the surgery; surprised she is still alive..
The fact that her doctor hasn't cancelled everything for her, is astounding! You have to want and need the surgery, I know I because I had it and I am so grateful for it! She doesn't deserve it, or the kindness from people who want to help her. If you treat people like cattle, guess how they're going to treat you?
She does not need surgery. she needs to change her habits.
“Clearly all the time” I died laughing I swear…
😂😂😂😂
Me too.
I did 2😂😂😂
The amount of attitude given just for closing a door. 🙄
“You look like your scowling at me” I think that’s Tammy’s permanent face
😅
I had to search the word "scowling" because English is not my first language and now I can't stop laughing.
It’s either a scowl or a cartoonish grin. Her face doesn’t allow any nuance the same way her mind doesn’t - either vaguely annoyed or silly
@@jackzimmy8461 🤣
The WAY I JUST CHOKED ON MY LUCKY CHARMS 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Tammy gonna make that therapist need therapy 😂😂😂
Most therapists need therapy themselves
☠️☠️☠️ outta pocket
I'm gonna ask my therapist who their therapist is, go to them for therapy, repeat, until I reach the ultimate therapist
@@faye626 lol
@@faye626 the final boss therapist lol
Her problem isn't just her playing the victim it's her being unable and unwilling.
when it comes to therapy i honestly don't think it should be televised as it's a personal matter.
Tlc doesn’t care it’s all for the views
You could say the same about most forms of self improvement
That’s where she is getting her goals from … money to be honest we should not be promoting it
I think Tammy loves it n probably makes pretty decent money from it.
I really feel for the therapist, but sending the most obstinate and sullen person you can imagine to the peppiest and achieving anything other than highlighting the difference between them is almost laughable. Tammy will never lose the weight because she doesn't want to. It takes a lot of effort to maintain her weight at this point (let alone constantly gain), more effort than losing it.
the therapist will be used to it. i’m sure she won’t take it personally. it’s very clearly a problem with tammy and not the therapist
This is all over dramatised for views
@@j5892000 On most reality shows it is but I truly believe that Tammy is this way always. She lashes out at everyone because she is miserable in her morbidly obese body. There is no hope for her. I don’t think she would survive surgery.
@@daisymazie9642 fr and the fact she is on this show I believe she feels she can treat anyone this way cause she is the one bringing in the bank for all of them which is just disgusting and really sad
@@maskedcreations7040 the point is that it takes 7000 calories a day to maintain being as huge as Tam is. Way more food than 3 greasy meals a day.
is she giving up completely? this is getting old. it's the same run around every time
I think she gave up before she started. Too hard.
I’m waiting for an update
She's just flat out rude and rude to EVERYONE
@gta service shhhhhh
I haven't watched since they started together and you're absolutely right
She is the rudest and ungrateful person I've ever seen. She has a sense of entitlement.
Had a housemate that was so rude and ungrateful she was told to move elsewhere. Asked for help, agreed, then wanted it right now, now, now, now. And she still blames other people for not "helping" her.
It amazes me just how childish Tammy is when it comes to making changes, you can’t get a weight loss surgery if you aren’t going to change, it would just be pointless, why doesn’t she understand that?
The amount of embarrassment that she feels is PALPABLE. Oof man. The misery and just plain internal ugliness is unbearable. That self reflection, acceptance, and accountability is absolutely paramount to her ever getting better.
No she's not embarrassed! She is a spoilt narcissist , who makes money by letting the social media into her life. She DOESN'T WANT to help herself. Why should she? Everyone runs after her, feed her what she wants (even when she was in hospital on a strict diet, her family brought her favourite foods in!) Probably the first person to GAIN weight on a restricted diet!
@@lynnelevett4524 🤭🤭
But the RUclips channel they started, I didn't see the videos, only excerpts, but they would have embarrassed me. She put herself out there to be ridiculed. I feel sorry for her.
“Clearly all the time “ got me in tears
Poor therapist she did a fabulous job being kind and patient!
That therapist is sweet
Hopefully all therapists are sweet otherwise our bar is very low.
@@morganmiller8010 I have multiple bad (a lot of people would consider rude) therapists so yeah my bar is low
The therapist looked utterly baffled at how rude she was literally just coming in
No matter how bad she’s feeling about herself that does NOT give her the right to be rude.
You can't help someone who doesn't want to help themselves or be helped by doing the necessary work. Addiction is addiction. There are no quick fixes for anything worth while in life for most of us.
What a rude person Tammy is. She had so much help and is just ungrateful, give the help to someone who would truly appreciate it
Honestly watching the way Tammy treats this therapist is awful. If she doesn’t want help, don’t give her help.
Maybe if she was given alone time with therapist without her sister and all the cameras, she would be able to open up more
Therapist: what brings you here today ?
Tammy:🤨
Therapist: 🫠
Tammy:🤨
Therapist:😗
Tammy: ……….food addiction 🤨
I was dying 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Tammy mind: *dial up internet connection tone……* * processing… processing… cheeseburger… processing…* Food addiction
The therapist is really sweet and understanding
To my eyes, she was completely unconnected with her client. Big mistake.
@tangogent how are you supposed to connect if they won't talk
Tammy is so rude she blames everybody else but herself for the way she is.
I feel so bad for people that have to deal with patients like Tammy…
Heck who cares you are still getting paid and recommend more sessions to the doctor and insurance for lack of progress lol
@@Unknown_Ooh honestly I feel bad for the people who need the insurance help more than people like Tammy who take advantage of the system.
I feel so bad for Tammy's family. They're doing EVERYTHING they can to help her and she just acts like a spoiled baby.
If only I had her family.
I really hate Tammy, Amy doesn't deserve such a selfish and ungrateful sister
NPOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. Tammy IS SO CUTE AND NIC ETHE THERAPIST IS NARCISSITIC. LOVE TAMMY STAY STRONG BBG.
@@2LGANG freak
@@dansanders2002 yessssss
@@dansanders2002 please say your joking
I can’t stand Tammy. It’s one thing to not want help, but its another to treat everyone you with blatant disrespect and disregard their feelings.
She got stressed out during the session and the only food available to cope with it was the therapist.
Yeah,
it was in the news Tammy had over 20 victims she’s in jail now
I really wonder what kind of trauma Tammy is dealing with to cause her to shut down, lash out, and self soothe with food it makes me sad to think of a younger Tammy not knowing where to turn so she just learned to keep it all inside. It’s so frustrating to see her not comply with any help or support but I can empathize with her anger and lack of motivation
I honestly think she wants to express more about how she feels, but doesn’t have the vocabulary or the education to communicate how she feels and what she really needs to meet her goals. Who knows what happened in her childhood, but all these “feeders” she keeps going after, every time one of them inevitably lets her down or it comes to light they’re only doing it for the limelight, that’s traumatic right there. And she doesn’t process any of it, so it builds in top of whatever trauma is already there. I just think she lacks the vocabulary to communicate properly.
@@mycatsnameisdylan thank you to both of you for having empathy and at least trying to see it from Tammy's perspective. You are right that things like that is just re traumatizing yourself. Also I think Tammy probably deals with a lot of shame from trauma and having thousands of people comment how horrible they think she is and how there's no hope for her does not help... Yes there's positive comments but let's think about what comments would stand out to a mentally unwell person.
She has had lots of offers but refuses it.... because she knows best
It's still not an excuse. Some people can't and don't want help.
Notice how Tammy only starts to open up when people talk to her like she’s a victim? She lovesssss to be the victim because she can get away with and justify her awful actions.
Tammy will NEVER weight loss. Because she was jealous and not happy over Amy had new family.
I’ve never wanted to beat someone up so much in my entire life
lllllooooooooolllll
Therapist or tammy?
@@funnyk2755 who do u think 🤣 trust ur intuition and ur probably right! Lol
just go punch ur mattress probably feels the same
@@funnyk2755 Tammy
She’s been so deeply damaged programmed to be negative and to feel all is hopeless she truly believes she can’t do it. She wants it but she honestly believes all is too hard to achieve. Sadly I don’t see Tammy surviving this.
I’m hoping her demise is quick.
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I don't think she does want it. What she wants is a magic wand that will take any effort out of changing.
She thinks she in control that's the problem they need to show her that they're in control and then she'll start doing some of the stuff they want her to do
Exactly that’s why she lost weight in rehab because she wasn’t in control the moment she took herself out and got control back she gained weight again
Bingo!
Yeah but other way around
She (dammy) IS in control, but, of herself, only, and when ''They 👩⚕️'' (while trying to gain, maintain, and show that it's they who are in control, not she) show her this then she'll succeed, personally, and be able to accomplish whatever it is.
She is so rude
"What brings you to Therapy?"
Troll level 100.
Tammy’s face too 😂 I thought she was going to yell at her.
at first i thought she was too stern to tammy but as they talked it was really sweet and tammy opened up a bit. you can totally see on tammys face wheb a question is triggering because she puts the walls back up
That therapist is so patient...I would have cussed her tf out...and then her family needs to let her be
Facts
Tammy needs assistant living, her family has done enough her negativity will always bring them down.
I agree. Two years under constant care, where neither she nor anyone else can sneak her food. Exercise, therapy sessions. Maybe after that she will have lost enough weight and gained enough confidence to have the surgery. But, that being said, she should spend another year in assisted living to keep her on track. The diet after the surgery is very strict; she will need to be supervised.
Tammy hits me as a person who's lost all emotion and affect. (Outside of annoyance or anger) Zero motivation, doesn't care about anyone or anything...not even herself. It's honestly sad and very worrying.
"Tammy; how's your mood?" All of us "RBF is her normal"
"The office is small, I am uncomfortable...".
Nah, you are just huge.
Swearing at the therapist it not a classy lady move. I have compassion but everyone has limits if she was my sister I just couldn't Amy has the patience of a Saint
😢She began by expressing disinterest as a protective mechanism I feel. Tammy really needs this woman’s help. She needs someone as professional as this therapist to cut right to the chase in a way that doesn’t challenge or hurt Tammy but gets to the heart of the problem fast. I hope Tammy allows herself to be treated and helped. My love and all my best to her.
She gain more and more everytime I watched her....she must control her food portion...all just depend on her habbits.
Although Tammy has a very negative attitude, maybe the session would have been more helpful if it wasn't televised. What is said in the office, stays in the office.
I was reserved about starting therapy a couple years back, but it was super helpful in the end. I discovered a lot of things about myself and developed better coping mechanisms.
For people who are reserved and hesitant to start therapy, do it if you can. Therapy is freaking awesome.
This woman's patience with tammy is honestly crazy
Lol it’s her job
@@ellecharlton3432 I understand that,but no one deserves to be disrespected the way tammy disrespects people. Just because something is your job, doesn't mean you should get treated poorly.
No shes a terrible therapist, its almost comedy at this point
@@smducky980 No she isn't.
My sister acts just like this when someone asks her a question or plain just talks to her
“What brings you to therapy..?”
Why Tammy look at her that way🤭🤦🏽♀️like you don’t know why I’m here, com’on tam tam push through!!!💯💯💯
Don’t let this overtake you and miss the opportunity for these people to help you, hope she get through
I understand the mood swings and having low patience etc. by gaining weight… so she’s fighting herself and I hope she becomes what she wants to in life✨🌻
The therapist is so cute and patient.
The fact she said clearly all the time 😂
"I just want to leave it alone" so how has that working? Facing your stuff is effing hard. Therapy is hard and the therapist is doing a great job holding her accountable. Clearly some people aren't willing/able to face themselves and their role in things.
There's definitely something she's not telling anyone.. she's definitely hurting but I think she's never told anyone whats happened 😔
How she is so comfortable being so rude to a complete stranger is crazy
Keep in mind, when most people talk to a therapist, it's confidential. Tammy's got cameras on her. During a therapy session.
She has to give permission for the cameras.$$$
@@nancyjones9925 she signed a contract with tlc and now she has to play ball or possibly face legal consequences if she doesn't cooperate. It's really messed up
She’s come such a long way 🥲! Watching this and seeing her now is amazing.
She definitely won't survive long enough to have the surgery lol.
Is this new content/episode? Sounds like it's from the previous seasons.
She hasn't decreased her weight at all tbh.
the therapist has a really relaxing voice
This lady has way more patience then me
The therapist was really nice and patient:)
I feel so bad for the therapist she was trying so hard and Tammy was still so rude to her.
My first impression is Tammy is furious at everything and everyone.
She just hates herself. But that’s no reason too be rude to everyone!
That therapist deserves a raise
Edit: does she have venmo or something lol
She got cash app
@@Donaelley what is it then lol
@@Valdemar-Perez-III $FatBandss
@@Donaelley are you sure it’s her and not yours 🙄
its only like 20 steps less to meet the therapist and she’s already wheezing out of breath
I love the doctors hand gestures, it’s like she’s riding a stubborn mule
I'm soooooo sick of the Tammy BS. Everyone gives in to her. Send her to a rehab and don't look back.
Couch gave a sigh of relief when tammy brought her chair in.
I can tell the therapist was uncomfortable. Tammy was aggressive.
I find it funny when the therapist says “I don’t know what that means”.
That therapist made it a comfortable space for Tammy and she could have said thank you
That therpist seems so sweet how can she be so rude to her. She's just trying to help
Literally people would GIVE ANYTHING for a resource like this… it took me years to get a therapist because I grew up poor and struggle heavily with ptsd and I finally have a therapist and I never miss a session. Some people are actually lost causes
I wish she was my therapist… such a nice lady
the woman was so nice, she’s the type of person i would open up to immediately and feel at comfort with.
I applaud this therapist, I could never!
She was awful
@@smducky980 no, she was patient
Tammy is getting provided all the resources to lose her weight, but she is not deciding to use them. She needs to start cooperating now or she will experience the consequences of her own actions. At this point, it is her choices that will benefit anything. Also, the way she treats the therapist and other people in general is straight up rude and disgusting, always pulling the victim card.
Lol I almost fought the urge to square up with her with all that attitude she had towards everyone around her 😂
It's odd to me how Tammy says she's quick and easy to trust others and how that's her downfall. Yet here it is with the therapist she's the opposite.
Like how can you be open with guys who want to ruin all your progress and not with the people who are trying to help you
She’s so rude. I hate how she treats other people especially her sisters and the therapist. Most people would pay $1000s or wish they could pay anything to be able to get the help she she’s received. And she’s thrown it all away And not grateful what so ever. She’s given up and you can’t help someone that doesn’t want help.
I wish she would change.
I also don't get why they need the door closed for privacy if it's broadcast on national television...
Tammy's attitude is disgusting. She wants everyone to do all the work for her and when they do she is still so ungrateful.
Therapist have to deal with this all the time or even worse scenarios. They know what they’re doing and they know that mental illness is a lock that they need to find the key for. In this case Tammy is hard to get through but it’s only because of everything she’s ever been through which I’m sure is a lot. Most of us want to assume that talking to a therapist is easy but when you’ve been so closed off to everyone you’re whole life it’s not easy especially if you have a camera in your face all the time maybe if she was alone with the therapist there would be more open communication but we’ll never know that and we shouldn’t. I’m sure she’s not being forced to be in there with the camera but you never know the full story of things. I’m not saying I see it but I do see an amazing therapist that knows what she’s doing and a very hurt human with severe mental illness that she can’t control
Tam y agreed to cameras
@@glenysmorehu2765 part of me thinks she agrees to the cameras so she doesn't have to actually be alone in there bc that means she'll actually have to open up
@@poetryclub1117She signed a contract with tlc, she has to comply
The room is not small, you're just huge! That's the problem. "I want to go home" all the time will never get her anywhere!
“I just got to the doctors office, it’s small” cause everything’s gotta be jumbo sized for her
I don't understand why Tammy hasn't volunteered to be under strict supervision. She obviously has the resources
therapist deserves a pay rise for this
I wish she would have continued therapy. She's got a lot of deep rooted issues that need to come out.
"Tammy, you look like you're scowling at me" 🤣🤣🤣