Salute to those who faced these people with courage and confidence being against of all. Sad part is that everyone join their company nobody wants to invite, hangout and join bullied person. People say college years are for enjoyment but for bullied person these are hell. He keeps wishing to get it over. Nobody likes to join him, he wanted to hangout make friends but always alone at corner. When that time ends. He feels deeply hurt and curse those people that ruin his golden time. And he keeps living with that sadness entire life... it hurts really.
I was bullied due to jealousy, hatred spread to the point that they wrote my name cursing me in walls of schools and roads of city. They were my own friends once. They couldn't see me growing. They fought with me. I was alone fighting with them. It's still a trauma to me.
Hate usi se krte hain log jo hate krne layak hota hai.. feel proud like our PM..😂😂 Kuchh shaastro mei toh yeh bhi kehte hain jab tk aap ek janam mein 1 crore dushman km se kam nahi bana lete, apko mukti nahi milegi..😎😎
My respect increased for you manifold. I myself went through a similar situation when guys from my "boys gang" twice my size ganged up against me and said things which they knew i was extremely sensitive about. I objected the moment they uttered those words. Two of them stoped but two continued but i could sense the power game had shifted a bit to my side..when their voice started to crack as if they weren't prepared for that situation. I left the conversation. I have met them a couple of times after this incident and we both know we aren't friends anymore.
Me too but now I dont have any friends...all the students in my class actively participate with that group ..but I can't. I feel lonely ..there r only few 2 -3 students who I talk with ..the ones who sit near me ..and also r not part of the group
I've never told anybody that i used to get bullied. I'm sure even those bullys don't realize how much they damaged my self esteem and confidence. It's so bad for me that i can't even face my classmates now. There are barely any friends that keep in touch. Most of them perceive me as a loser. Not that i didn't try to change that but being cornered since childhood has made me the way i am. Seclusion in school harmed my life so much that it's beyond repair. I don't think there perception will ever change about me . Being bullied makes you think you're inferior and normal people would think you're a loser. People stop approaching you once that happens. You get left out of friend circles, plans , hangouts. People say school life was a blessing where they enjoyed the most but for me it was like a disaster where i felt like i was just a living corpse . People say . Sure i made a few friends along the way who know me for what i truly am but still school was never a happy memory for me. To this day i wish my school life wasn't as bad as it was and wonder where would i be if i had a normal life but it's like that for some people ig. I used ti think that their bad karma will bite them someday and I'll live the gandhian way but it didn't turn out like that . Those people turned out to be just fine with normal lives while I'm the one who is suffering up to this day one way or the other. My life isn't half as joyful as their's and i don't think they'll ever reap for what they did. I wish i was normal and had more friends like they have. It's been two yrs since i paased out. My grades are far from a loser but my life is. It always seems as I'm missing out. I'min my 1st yr of college and things have gotten better s I'm not around those jerks anymore and i hope life pays me for all those years of fun and social life I missed out in my childhood.
@@yashstick2213 hustling my way through! Them knowing I'm ahead of them in my life alone humbles them down! I'm fine now! I'm not the dumb guy like I used to be 7 or 8 yrs ago but the problem is that they still thought I was! Most things get better once you harden yourself up . I don't take shit from anyone anymore ! Sure it hurts when no one wishes you on your bday at the strike of 12 but I'm positive that things will change when I go to college this month. Things changed as soon as I got away from my schoolmates. They were like a shadow of my difficult past that continued to hinder me
Hey man you sound like a fun guy. Let’s connect i would love to be friends with you. Hell my friends would love to he friends with you man. You sound honest and kind and people appreciate that
@@shinchannohara4574 things about u that u can't change like ur height, looks, caste . Ofcourse there is a difference between when they just joke occasionally and when they bully u. So the best thing would be to just communicate ur discomfort, if they understand u and back off fine but if they still continue to joke about them u need to reconsider ur circle
I agree to the advice that it is better to distance yourself from bullies. Moreover, bullies are not really friends. Past is gone. Yes and we need to say No. I have found few good friends after decades and that's great. And we also need to understand that some people can live without friends. Tesla had no friends and Issac Newton, too. The good result of a solitude life is that you can develop your skills and get a good job and build a home and family. But thanks for reminding guys to tell a No.
If you react emotionally if you say NO, then you'll be presented as a weak person and will be bullied even more So make sure you are ordering someone to STOP and not crying or begging to STOP
@Study Support Ghosting is never good The other person is also a human and are not aware of their actions, they completely deserve to know what's wrong. Instead you should confront
@Study Support what you said in your latest comment isn't ghosting. Ghosting=Bina bataaye gayab ho jana You should always confront before cutting people of, there's no guarantee that they know the reason why they are being ghosted
Bhai to karee kya no bolege and batayege bura lagta hai mat kro to aur maje lege wo log insult krege , aur unke group me khade hokar apna majak udawana aur smile karna kuch na keh pana aur pure din depressed aur gusse me rahna kya kree bhai batao
I think you didn't cover the topic of bullying because bullying is something that is not people do to a friend ... but they act like a friend and tell you that they are your friend but this isn't true ... They just bully you because that's what gives them pleasure (a type of sadism imo) ...but irony is that when you say a single thing about them they're not gonna accept the same thing from you because it hurts them and if you do it then they'll bully you more and if you insist on stopping them then will either fight or leave you ... Imo , the person who bully you is not a real Friend whether he claims it or not ...they will never ready to accept the fact that their bullism is actually hurting you ... Leave this type of people ASAP for your own peace !
Wowww.....an amazing session .....i have also being bullied in my early but now i know how to deal with that ignorance is not always the bliss u have always have to set the limit
You know this is right there is a man he confront his bullying 35 years later in the same school in which he was bullied and the man who bullied him become the principal ,the things is all these years he carried this trauma of being bullied with him and neither he got his revenge nor he moved on from that past,it's like he just got stuck in there and principal was laughing when he was telling this. Do the things at the right time it's your life don't carry trauma
Learn how to fight and start picking these "bullies" off one by one. All the bullies I have met were completely docile physically. They had NO IDEA about physical violence. When somebody talk shit to you, you better knock his teeth off.
Bhai was following you for more than 6 months But today, the kind of relate I got from this video is 1000%.I have been bullied from my childhood, till my graduation. Due to this continuous scenario I stopped making friend, stopped indulging to new groups, just because wo purane wale grp ki yade humiliation fir se wapas aajata tha. And you pointed out very accurately, absolutely spot on that i never said NO, I never said no ki I had fear that log mughe judge krenge, mai dost kho dunga and what not. And is chakkar mai my self esteem was fucked up, I was not able to discuss this issue with others just because I thought they will see me as a loser. Thank you so much prakhar bhai, somewhere I knew this thing in my mind, but it was scattered with no meaning. Thank uh for compiling it for me, and giving and assurance that saying NO is not wrong. Thank you bhai thank you so much🙏🙏
Bhai without being boastful, mai already street fighting sikh chuka hu n have gained preety much strength and muscle as well Physical strength is not the issue, issue is the social tension
Man, this was a gem 💎 advice I was one who used to be on the victim end (for around a month, when i was introduced to a new friend circle). And man that phase was a battle in my head, "how to get out & retaliate" was a continuous thought. But fortunately i made my way out, because 1 that person was a real friend 2 i figured out 'kaise reponse me wit/humour k saath lete hai' 3 i reduced the amount of offence that i use to take. Now my personality has changed, atleast i feel, to a great degree. Prakhar ❤️
Bully ka ek hi maksat hota hai . Baki doston me cool banana . Aur Jo bachha kuchh funny reaction de bully karane ke baad usse hi class ke Sare bachhe bully karate . Aur 2-3 bachhe bully karate hai. issiliye Baki bachhon ko lagata hai ki isska majak karake ham cool ban sakte hai. Kapil Sharma banana chahte hai Sab .
@@mahimmurulya5802 bro I suffered from bully in 6th class because I stammer while talking with new people And I was too fat in 6th and one more reason that was topper of my class . Then I joined Jim and things like these as prakhar said . And in 7th I changed my class . My 6th standard was harder than hell .
I was the person who was usually bullied in every group before my 6th class I was like why should I have a conflict with someone so I would just go by ignoring the thing but I slowly found that my ignorance gave birth to more such people and I thought that why is it just me so what I did was I put myself in the shoes of a person who was the bully and I thought when would this person stop shitting and I exactly came to the same conclusion as Prakhar from then on I started fighting with some people and would usually take up conflict but then I noticed that this behaviour was going out of my hand I was becoming the bully I realised this in 8th class and so from 9th class, I really started taking control of my behaviour and I achieved the personality which was the solution to this problem as said by prakhar
Bhaiya... Aap ke bajah se mujhme vo ulta Jawab dene ki aadat chale gayi...Mai to bas ab un logo(chole ne vale) ko "no" bolke aur jyada hua to 2 khich ke jhapad mar ke samjha deta hu..... Thanks a lot brother....
I was bullied by a group of my friends who were used to be my closed friends and it's hard to stand against a group. I don't know why they started doing this but I just said them no! and left them. Now I'm happier❤️
Bro mne abhi tak jitne bhi videos dekha bullying p khas kr k india m bnne hue usme ye bolte h ignore kro bully ko jo ki sabse stupid advice h...I was bullied when I was in primary school this guy used to insult me a lot & if I said anything he used to hit me...I tried everything I told him to stop, I told my teachers, I told principal even but no use.. finally I told my father my father said tu kyu wapas nhi bolta agar teri insult krta h vo...to mne bola ki vo marta h muje ...so my father told me to hit him back ...I said that I would be punished by teachers if I start a fight..my father said just hit him & if u get suspension or anything he will see himself. Next time when he hit me I fuckin stabed that mf with my pencil that day he came to knew what pain is... Than he hit me again I hit him back & back & principal called our parents ..my father said that where were u when he was just getting bullied..& my son will hit that boy again if he do any shit. Sometimes u just have to hit back & learning to hit back hard is the key
@@sir_abhishek Sahi Kiya brother. Mera bhi same case tha lekin Sara class mere khilaf tha pure ek Saal tak . Ek bande ke vajah se Jo pahale Mera best friend tha aur class me sab uski bahot sunte the .
Till 7th i was being submissive wich kinda took toll on my self esteem. When time came to change my school i thankfully realised this that u should show anyone by mistake also that u can be soft target. 7th was the last time i got bullied
I dont know why i am feeling ashamed after watching this video 😭 i am that guy who roasts people left and right in my friend’s group just to get a funny punchline out of it. My intent is not to hurt any one but at the same time maybe i dont empathise enough. Everyone used to bully me in my childhood thats why maybe i have created this defence mechanism i dont know man but next time i will not be so rude with my friends for sure !
Sherya, he is a male. He understands us better. You should take your query to some female youtubers like him they may understand you better and give you better solution. Pls don't force this gender neutral bs here and let him be.
@SUAR RUclipsr bro mera first of all koi dost hain bhi nhi... Bcoz the main thing is your work and your goals ... Sab dost chale jayenge but app ka kaam kabhi app ko choor k nhi jayega
Bro, you don't have to make it more complicated than it is. It's all about dominance both mentally and physically, tu kamzor hn tho tera hi katega, either leave or deal with it, until you form a resolution with each other. And this is coming from a person who was actually bullied a lot in school days.
Bro i think u explained a different thing here cause bullying is serious thing! Nd a lot us are suffering from bullying is when a guy just beat u up daily to look cool among everyone nd treat you like shit not this frndly insults! I would love if u make a video on actually bullying
I don't talk a lot when dealing with other people even with my friends like how group of friends generally pull each others legs for fun but i can't do that, i dont know why i cant do it, sometime i feel guilty even before saying something to a friend. And this attitude leads to represent me as someone who can be easily oppressed and when i back fire i just go off with cutting out the friendship and all or some thinks that i am not interested in their talks so they distend me, its not like i dont wanna indulge in the conversation but i like to stay quiet even if i had to say something. Can anybody from prakhar's team reach out my problem to him or any stranger can give me some advice about how to correct that because now i feel like kinda alone though i have friends.
It's just your good nature that holds you back from saying anything bad to them. It means you are innocent and react hastily. All you need is calmness in your mind. Even if they disrespect you, just counter with the same intensity of disrespect and emotional change. Don't go to those people who don't want to be because they never realize your worth. Being quiet is the most powerful thing only a few have. There is nothing wrong with being a quiet person. Just cut those people from your life and live alone. Do your stuff, master it and become much great to those nonsense people. Stay away from them as far as you could. When you learn to live alone, you will be the most powerful person. You discern great. and when people realize your worth, they will come up to you and respect you and it ok if you can't find genuine people. Be with yourself and your family, that matters only.
Prakhar Sir, Kuch friends pehle se planning karke rakhte hai, ki fala aadmi ke maze lenge + Mere kahi senior hai 2-3 saal badey Jo baat baat mein argument karke thapad mar dete hai, Baad mein yaar / dost kehte hai mujhe, So mene baas apne upar kaam karna start Kiya, tagdi body banyi, library jata hu, kama bhi raha hu... Aab kisi ki ek nahi sunta..
The other thing is guys shittest over each other and evaluate the level of confidence the other person looses or not.. If they are confident with their actions even after that, they will be tested more until and unless the other person stands for himself and replies back with the same intensity of disrespect and emotional change. More intensity means he is irritated feminine which means he looses, and less intensity means less confidence so he looses. Aage wale ki itni tabbiyat se lelia karo haste haste khaskar jab woh leader/alpha ho.. ki uske baad koi faltu bolne ka soche nahi.. and then water it from time to time.. And rest of the time be super busy in demonstrating your leadership skills and group provider. Male life is full of struggles, conflicts and competition. We do not talk about many of these things directly but if somebody who is not habitual to all these things, will feel it like a war and then he should better behave like a warrior King.
@@ngl1658 There is shok about preserving oneself against harm in the shastras but you just have to realise that according to Dharma if you even kill someone in a war or a fair fight i.e not using a weapon if the other guy is unarmed or unless the other guys accepts defeat and begs for mercy than it's not a sin. This is made clear in the Mahabharata and why do you think every Hindu God has weapons?
My friends when they are together, make fun of me relentlessly. But when i am alone with my one friend, he acts friendly. Now i think, they remove frustration and then act friendly. When they act freindly, they say, maza hi kr rehe teh, bura mat le.
This was needed, a lot guys go through this and don't know how to deal with it. Thanks Prakhar for putting it out so well
True
Indeed self respect matters the most
Yes
Salute to those who faced these people with courage and confidence being against of all. Sad part is that everyone join their company nobody wants to invite, hangout and join bullied person. People say college years are for enjoyment but for bullied person these are hell. He keeps wishing to get it over. Nobody likes to join him, he wanted to hangout make friends but always alone at corner. When that time ends. He feels deeply hurt and curse those people that ruin his golden time. And he keeps living with that sadness entire life... it hurts really.
Bhai tumne bilkul shi kaha log khte hai friends bnao college mai hangout kro skills pe work kro lekin Kuch logo ke liye school aur college curse hai.
Ye Sach bat h me clg ke 1st year me hu aur abhi bhi face kar rha hu
@@gauravkapse2661college may kaam hota hy Maharashtra may
Sach mai bhai mere liye bolne ke liye
Kya karna chaiye
I am the same person like you
And everything is happening with me too.
I was bullied due to jealousy, hatred spread to the point that they wrote my name cursing me in walls of schools and roads of city. They were my own friends once. They couldn't see me growing. They fought with me. I was alone fighting with them. It's still a trauma to me.
You are truly strong that went through all this and are still on your foot
@@sahibdeepsaini1124 🙂thankyou
Hate usi se krte hain log jo hate krne layak hota hai.. feel proud like our PM..😂😂
Kuchh shaastro mei toh yeh bhi kehte hain jab tk aap ek janam mein 1 crore dushman km se kam nahi bana lete, apko mukti nahi milegi..😎😎
I also kind of went through the same, when I was in 12th there was one piece of s#!t in my class who used to bully me by just calling me just the letter C (for chutiya), I was afraid to talk in front of girls at that time and he knew that, so he and his friends used to call me that a lot in front of girls and public to that point that I was afraid to go to school.
It's been 7 years but I still get angry about it for no reason.
Seriously man, trauma really is a bad fu©king thing. Your mental health really affects your physical being. Only solution to that is get strong as Prakhar said.
@@RitikRai-kc4oc oh damn😂 1 crore dushman chahye ab mukti ke liye.
My respect increased for you manifold. I myself went through a similar situation when guys from my "boys gang" twice my size ganged up against me and said things which they knew i was extremely sensitive about. I objected the moment they uttered those words. Two of them stoped but two continued but i could sense the power game had shifted a bit to my side..when their voice started to crack as if they weren't prepared for that situation. I left the conversation. I have met them a couple of times after this incident and we both know we aren't friends anymore.
I've ghosted my toxic friends and I feel much better.
Cool bro. Same with me.
Me too but now I dont have any friends...all the students in my class actively participate with that group ..but I can't. I feel lonely
..there r only few 2 -3 students who I talk with ..the ones who sit near me
..and also r not part of the group
@@shinchannohara4574 we can talk bro about this i have experience
only gays leave their friends
@@YashSharma-hi5wh ??
I've never told anybody that i used to get bullied. I'm sure even those bullys don't realize how much they damaged my self esteem and confidence. It's so bad for me that i can't even face my classmates now. There are barely any friends that keep in touch. Most of them perceive me as a loser. Not that i didn't try to change that but being cornered since childhood has made me the way i am. Seclusion in school harmed my life so much that it's beyond repair. I don't think there perception will ever change about me . Being bullied makes you think you're inferior and normal people would think you're a loser. People stop approaching you once that happens. You get left out of friend circles, plans , hangouts. People say school life was a blessing where they enjoyed the most but for me it was like a disaster where i felt like i was just a living corpse . People say . Sure i made a few friends along the way who know me for what i truly am but still school was never a happy memory for me. To this day i wish my school life wasn't as bad as it was and wonder where would i be if i had a normal life but it's like that for some people ig. I used ti think that their bad karma will bite them someday and I'll live the gandhian way but it didn't turn out like that . Those people turned out to be just fine with normal lives while I'm the one who is suffering up to this day one way or the other. My life isn't half as joyful as their's and i don't think they'll ever reap for what they did. I wish i was normal and had more friends like they have. It's been two yrs since i paased out. My grades are far from a loser but my life is. It always seems as I'm missing out. I'min my 1st yr of college and things have gotten better s I'm not around those jerks anymore and i hope life pays me for all those years of fun and social life I missed out in my childhood.
hows your condition now?
@@yashstick2213 hustling my way through! Them knowing I'm ahead of them in my life alone humbles them down! I'm fine now! I'm not the dumb guy like I used to be 7 or 8 yrs ago but the problem is that they still thought I was! Most things get better once you harden yourself up . I don't take shit from anyone anymore ! Sure it hurts when no one wishes you on your bday at the strike of 12 but I'm positive that things will change when I go to college this month. Things changed as soon as I got away from my schoolmates. They were like a shadow of my difficult past that continued to hinder me
@@crimsonknight5200 happy to hear that!
We can totally relate bro
Hey man you sound like a fun guy. Let’s connect i would love to be friends with you. Hell my friends would love to he friends with you man. You sound honest and kind and people appreciate that
Joking around between friends is all fine , but you should draw a line that you don't want them to cross. If it's in a limit then it's good .
exactly dude and we often tend to increase our limits even after they crossed the line just to be good with friends
@@yourcaptain2709 tabhi toh "no" bolna seekhna zaruri hai
But how to find out the limit
@@shinchannohara4574 things about u that u can't change like ur height, looks, caste . Ofcourse there is a difference between when they just joke occasionally and when they bully u. So the best thing would be to just communicate ur discomfort, if they understand u and back off fine but if they still continue to joke about them u need to reconsider ur circle
This video was successfully used by prakhar.....and he used it well .....kudos bhai...we all r with you
Perspective from a bully. Good to know how a bully thinks.
I agree to the advice that it is better to distance yourself from bullies. Moreover, bullies are not really friends. Past is gone. Yes and we need to say No. I have found few good friends after decades and that's great. And we also need to understand that some people can live without friends. Tesla had no friends and Issac Newton, too. The good result of a solitude life is that you can develop your skills and get a good job and build a home and family. But thanks for reminding guys to tell a No.
Yes bro 😊
Came back to this video and damn, at the shwetabh example moment, it really took me back to the raw and real days
If you react emotionally if you say NO, then you'll be presented as a weak person and will be bullied even more
So make sure you are ordering someone to STOP and not crying or begging to STOP
Better yet, ghost them.
@@demoncyborg98 Ghosting is very detrimental to a person's self worth, so we should never ghost anyone.
Instead, confront people and leave
@Study Support Ghosting is never good
The other person is also a human and are not aware of their actions, they completely deserve to know what's wrong. Instead you should confront
@Study Support what you said in your latest comment isn't ghosting. Ghosting=Bina bataaye gayab ho jana
You should always confront before cutting people of, there's no guarantee that they know the reason why they are being ghosted
Bhai to karee kya no bolege and batayege bura lagta hai mat kro to aur maje lege wo log insult krege , aur unke group me khade hokar apna majak udawana aur smile karna kuch na keh pana aur pure din depressed aur gusse me rahna kya kree bhai batao
I think you didn't cover the topic of bullying because bullying is something that is not people do to a friend ... but they act like a friend and tell you that they are your friend but this isn't true ...
They just bully you because that's what gives them pleasure (a type of sadism imo) ...but irony is that when you say a single thing about them they're not gonna accept the same thing from you because it hurts them and if you do it then they'll bully you more and if you insist on stopping them then will either fight or leave you ...
Imo , the person who bully you is not a real Friend whether he claims it or not ...they will never ready to accept the fact that their bullism is actually hurting you ...
Leave this type of people ASAP for your own peace !
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@@Anushkaeee I'll take it as a compliment !
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He took a fight he is weaker than me but he says bande aa rahe hain abhi ruk
@@leoyn7156same 😢
Wowww.....an amazing session .....i have also being bullied in my early but now i know how to deal with that ignorance is not always the bliss u have always have to set the limit
Bhai aab agar koi disrespect feel krayee to kya krte ho ap
You know this is right there is a man he confront his bullying 35 years later in the same school in which he was bullied and the man who bullied him become the principal ,the things is all these years he carried this trauma of being bullied with him and neither he got his revenge nor he moved on from that past,it's like he just got stuck in there and principal was laughing when he was telling this. Do the things at the right time it's your life don't carry trauma
This is one of the best video you have ever made hands down 🙌🏻💯
Dosti ek cheez h aur badtameezi alag cheez.. reality is better than fake friendship ! 😢
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Thanks for making this. You are a gem of a person. ❤
Prakhar,my G...!!!!!
Happy that you said and put it out...Totally accept with the thought process.....!!! Much Love Buddy...Great Video♥🤎👍
Prakhar is the big brother we all need❤
Thank you very much bro. This video was very much needed.
Learn how to fight and start picking these "bullies" off one by one. All the bullies I have met were completely docile physically. They had NO IDEA about physical violence. When somebody talk shit to you, you better knock his teeth off.
Bhai was following you for more than 6 months
But today, the kind of relate I got from this video is 1000%.I have been bullied from my childhood, till my graduation. Due to this continuous scenario I stopped making friend, stopped indulging to new groups, just because wo purane wale grp ki yade humiliation fir se wapas aajata tha. And you pointed out very accurately, absolutely spot on that i never said NO, I never said no ki I had fear that log mughe judge krenge, mai dost kho dunga and what not. And is chakkar mai my self esteem was fucked up, I was not able to discuss this issue with others just because I thought they will see me as a loser.
Thank you so much prakhar bhai, somewhere I knew this thing in my mind, but it was scattered with no meaning. Thank uh for compiling it for me, and giving and assurance that saying NO is not wrong.
Thank you bhai thank you so much🙏🙏
Bhaii martial arts seekh, physically aur mentally strong banega 💪🏻
Bhai without being boastful, mai already street fighting sikh chuka hu n have gained preety much strength and muscle as well
Physical strength is not the issue, issue is the social tension
@@papasimp5990 best because usme fight le le k confidence bhot high rehta.
Prakhar is solving Vedants problem
@Raj Kalita bhai pta h, yh joke tha bro... Kewal words se actual intent smjh nhi ata shayad isiliye aapko shayad kuch or laga
Lmao
that was really out of the box and quite realistic, thanks a lot for this video. a lot of ppl deal with this
Man, this was a gem 💎 advice
I was one who used to be on the victim end (for around a month, when i was introduced to a new friend circle). And man that phase was a battle in my head, "how to get out & retaliate" was a continuous thought.
But fortunately i made my way out, because 1 that person was a real friend 2 i figured out 'kaise reponse me wit/humour k saath lete hai' 3 i reduced the amount of offence that i use to take.
Now my personality has changed, atleast i feel, to a great degree.
Prakhar ❤️
Bhai kisi ki kaise lete hai
Bully ka ek hi maksat hota hai . Baki doston me cool banana . Aur Jo bachha kuchh funny reaction de bully karane ke baad usse hi class ke Sare bachhe bully karate . Aur 2-3 bachhe bully karate hai. issiliye Baki bachhon ko lagata hai ki isska majak karake ham cool ban sakte hai. Kapil Sharma banana chahte hai Sab .
And bullies have lot of issues at home. Controlling parents, being neglected and not loved etc. That's why they take it out on other kids in school
@@mahimmurulya5802 bro I suffered from bully in 6th class because I stammer while talking with new people And I was too fat in 6th and one more reason that was topper of my class . Then I joined Jim and things like these as prakhar said . And in 7th I changed my class . My 6th standard was harder than hell .
Yes
You're absolutely right bro
@@mahimmurulya5802 maybe no ... Cause the only reason is they are evil.
I was the person who was usually bullied in every group before my 6th class I was like why should I have a conflict with someone so I would just go by ignoring the thing but I slowly found that my ignorance gave birth to more such people and I thought that why is it just me so what I did was I put myself in the shoes of a person who was the bully and I thought when would this person stop shitting and I exactly came to the same conclusion as Prakhar from then on I started fighting with some people and would usually take up conflict but then I noticed that this behaviour was going out of my hand I was becoming the bully I realised this in 8th class and so from 9th class, I really started taking control of my behaviour and I achieved the personality which was the solution to this problem as said by prakhar
@SUAR RUclipsr There is always a bigger fish. Wait karo jab tak tumhe koi thikane laga sake. Then you would be able to relate.
@SUAR RUclipsr Kya age hai bhai?
Thank you for making this video prakhar. I really needed this.
Damn... that "no" really hit me for some reason...
Bhaiya... Aap ke bajah se mujhme vo ulta Jawab dene ki aadat chale gayi...Mai to bas ab un logo(chole ne vale) ko "no" bolke aur jyada hua to 2 khich ke jhapad mar ke samjha deta hu.....
Thanks a lot brother....
I was bullied by a group of my friends who were used to be my closed friends and it's hard to stand against a group.
I don't know why they started doing this but I just said them no! and left them.
Now I'm happier❤️
Same happened with me... Feeling much happier now ❤️❤️
@@JackSparrow-yw3kw akele ho ky aab Bhai
Best part of the video / answer of the video , very much important 08:35
One of the best videos i ever watched
Thank you 😊
@4:00 breaks my heart today
Bhai Kasam se itna bura lagta hai
This is the most practical advice i got on this topic 🤯
Kis problem ka solution kis video mei mil jaaye 🤨 islie saari video dekho doston .. Thumbs up bro 🤜
Prakhar ne Kabhi asali bully ko Dekha hi Nahi .
@SUAR RUclipsrbro mai frame of reference ke hisab se kah Raha tha . Issane bully Kiya Hoga Saha Nahi Hoga.
Bro mne abhi tak jitne bhi videos dekha bullying p khas kr k india m bnne hue usme ye bolte h ignore kro bully ko jo ki sabse stupid advice h...I was bullied when I was in primary school this guy used to insult me a lot & if I said anything he used to hit me...I tried everything I told him to stop, I told my teachers, I told principal even but no use.. finally I told my father my father said tu kyu wapas nhi bolta agar teri insult krta h vo...to mne bola ki vo marta h muje ...so my father told me to hit him back ...I said that I would be punished by teachers if I start a fight..my father said just hit him & if u get suspension or anything he will see himself. Next time when he hit me I fuckin stabed that mf with my pencil that day he came to knew what pain is... Than he hit me again I hit him back & back & principal called our parents ..my father said that where were u when he was just getting bullied..& my son will hit that boy again if he do any shit. Sometimes u just have to hit back & learning to hit back hard is the key
@@sir_abhishek Sahi Kiya brother. Mera bhi same case tha lekin Sara class mere khilaf tha pure ek Saal tak . Ek bande ke vajah se Jo pahale Mera best friend tha aur class me sab uski bahot sunte the .
@@sir_abhishek mere Saath bhi same hua issiliye Maine class change Kar di
@@sir_abhishek I'm gonna be like your father the day I have kids. "Tu Bhid Ja, Main Hoon Tere Saath" 👍🏼
One of the Best Video🔥🔥🔥
video literally made me cry. true words throughout fr
thanku prakhar soo ooooo much, you taught me to say no . love you broooo
Pure Gold!
Till 7th i was being submissive wich kinda took toll on my self esteem. When time came to change my school i thankfully realised this that u should show anyone by mistake also that u can be soft target. 7th was the last time i got bullied
Staraptor: physical sweeper with over 100 base attack & speed stat.
Ability:- intimidate
Hidden ability:- reckless
@@Spaceoddity-v9b wah
@@caonima3372 mann hogaya isliye bol dia vai
Straight up truth being spoken! I respect you for that. You earned a subscriber.
thank u so much it was needed
VERY GOOD POSSIBLE EXPLANATIONS
My fav video of prakhar!
11:15 ke baad ki lines is gold 🪙🥇
Much needed video thanks bro🙏
Thanks. I will start saying no. I will tell them my limit.
Thank u so much for the video!
This is an amazing video is simply awesome, it has bought so much of value to me, thanks Prakhar!!!
I dont know why i am feeling ashamed after watching this video 😭 i am that guy who roasts people left and right in my friend’s group just to get a funny punchline out of it. My intent is not to hurt any one but at the same time maybe i dont empathise enough. Everyone used to bully me in my childhood thats why maybe i have created this defence mechanism i dont know man but next time i will not be so rude with my friends for sure !
This video can heal traumas.
Golden words brother🙏
Super video. Thanks.
brooooooo kyaa bolun main every video of yours is damn good
Are bhaiya apke jaise hi kisi ko dundh raha tha ❤️❤️❤️
The way you talking by taking pause is insaane ❤️
thanks a lot prakhar
Brother , friendly way me bolna or serious way me bolna dono me difference hai boht
This was very helpful...🔥
Bro today i watched ur video
And i have done the job
Now i am feeling satisfied 😌
What happened
Stand up straight with your shoulders back
Talk about girls perspective as well.we don't shit on each other and friendship never feels real as well.
Idk why but i can't imagine any girl taking stand or holding back for her friends, idk why is that
Sherya, he is a male. He understands us better. You should take your query to some female youtubers like him they may understand you better and give you better solution. Pls don't force this gender neutral bs here and let him be.
@@akhilsingh9884 I m not putting up any bs here, my point was I want to have the same dynamics with girls that boys have with boys.
@@shreyasahani385 I am here for you 😀 ...
@Shreya Sahani the reason why women don't have such dynamics is that women are more insecure and they are trained to be number one all the time
Swetabh and prakhar ❤🤝🔥
0:09 what if your male friends insults you only when others are around?
@Suraj Gupta then they are not your true friends
Tu bhi kr
Exactly
I don't think Dosti mein insult karnaa zaruri hi hai
Ha bhai thora bohot thick hain... But limit is limit...
@@XD.Xd6 thicc 😂😂
@SUAR RUclipsr bro mera first of all koi dost hain bhi nhi... Bcoz the main thing is your work and your goals ... Sab dost chale jayenge but app ka kaam kabhi app ko choor k nhi jayega
@SUAR RUclipsr haaa... In which class u r in ?
@@XD.Xd6 well, nothing is permanent,not even the work...
Prakhar very nice video bhai.
thankyou bhaiya for this 🙏.
That hypermuscular thing happened with me lol😂
Though I'm not that muscular xD
Man! Seems u are talking about me!Thanks!
7:40 to 8:15 best part
Bro, you don't have to make it more complicated than it is. It's all about dominance both mentally and physically, tu kamzor hn tho tera hi katega, either leave or deal with it, until you form a resolution with each other. And this is coming from a person who was actually bullied a lot in school days.
To strong kaise bane
Ha
Bro i think u explained a different thing here cause bullying is serious thing! Nd a lot us are suffering from bullying is when a guy just beat u up daily to look cool among everyone nd treat you like shit not this frndly insults! I would love if u make a video on actually bullying
@SUAR RUclipsr I'm agree with you even when I was in school lot's of boys do make a fun of me they really insult me a lot
@Neel Ashara bro completely agree with u but its also a type that crosses line and become that bullying about which u r talking
There's the bullying you are talking about and then there's real bullying
I don't talk a lot when dealing with other people even with my friends like how group of friends generally pull each others legs for fun but i can't do that, i dont know why i cant do it, sometime i feel guilty even before saying something to a friend. And this attitude leads to represent me as someone who can be easily oppressed and when i back fire i just go off with cutting out the friendship and all or some thinks that i am not interested in their talks so they distend me, its not like i dont wanna indulge in the conversation but i like to stay quiet even if i had to say something.
Can anybody from prakhar's team reach out my problem to him or any stranger can give me some advice about how to correct that because now i feel like kinda alone though i have friends.
DM prakhar on instagram n share your problem
Same problem it's my nature being quiet but it often interpret by few that I'm weak but if I backfire I become rude
It's just your good nature that holds you back from saying anything bad to them. It means you are innocent and react hastily. All you need is calmness in your mind. Even if they disrespect you, just counter with the same intensity of disrespect and emotional change. Don't go to those people who don't want to be because they never realize your worth. Being quiet is the most powerful thing only a few have. There is nothing wrong with being a quiet person. Just cut those people from your life and live alone. Do your stuff, master it and become much great to those nonsense people. Stay away from them as far as you could. When you learn to live alone, you will be the most powerful person. You discern great. and when people realize your worth, they will come up to you and respect you and it ok if you can't find genuine people. Be with yourself and your family, that matters only.
1.To test friendship (koi bada nhi hai dosto me)
2.To test personality
I am introvert but I don't let my friends shit on me, because I have a dominant personality.
How??
Prakhar Sir,
Kuch friends pehle se planning karke rakhte hai, ki fala aadmi ke maze lenge +
Mere kahi senior hai 2-3 saal badey Jo baat baat mein argument karke thapad mar dete hai,
Baad mein yaar / dost kehte hai mujhe,
So mene baas apne upar kaam karna start Kiya, tagdi body banyi, library jata hu, kama bhi raha hu...
Aab kisi ki ek nahi sunta..
Great video ❣️❣️
Tum Bohot Sahi Kam karta hai Prakhar bhai...sher op
I am agree with 2nd reason is more easy.. instead of saying show them what you got..
Right time I got this video
One must learn to growl.
The other thing is guys shittest over each other and evaluate the level of confidence the other person looses or not.. If they are confident with their actions even after that, they will be tested more until and unless the other person stands for himself and replies back with the same intensity of disrespect and emotional change. More intensity means he is irritated feminine which means he looses, and less intensity means less confidence so he looses.
Aage wale ki itni tabbiyat se lelia karo haste haste khaskar jab woh leader/alpha ho.. ki uske baad koi faltu bolne ka soche nahi.. and then water it from time to time.. And rest of the time be super busy in demonstrating your leadership skills and group provider.
Male life is full of struggles, conflicts and competition. We do not talk about many of these things directly but if somebody who is not habitual to all these things, will feel it like a war and then he should better behave like a warrior King.
Salute sir 👍❤️
You post meaningful content bro.
Thank u
love this advice
amazing channel
Some ppl don't insult just becoz it starts accumulating karma. What is ur opinion on this ??
Defending yourself is not a sin in Hinduism
@@sir_abhishek hmm...ok from where u have to come to know this * source ??
@@ngl1658 There is shok about preserving oneself against harm in the shastras but you just have to realise that according to Dharma if you even kill someone in a war or a fair fight i.e not using a weapon if the other guy is unarmed or unless the other guys accepts defeat and begs for mercy than it's not a sin. This is made clear in the Mahabharata and why do you think every Hindu God has weapons?
@@sir_abhishekhelo bhai
After recent Sandeep Maheshwari controversy much relevant now 😅😅
Noice..needed it
Nice topic
My friends when they are together, make fun of me relentlessly. But when i am alone with my one friend, he acts friendly. Now i think, they remove frustration and then act friendly. When they act freindly, they say, maza hi kr rehe teh, bura mat le.
Bhai aak dam same to same howa hai mere sath
What if a girl face this problem this is only for boys or male
In short , just fight them with all you have got
6:20 i can relate sooo f much
Best hai bro... Bahut baar asisa hota h mere sare friend circle me main he puppet bna hu 🙂🙂🙂