Comprehensive Listening Skills
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- Опубликовано: 4 авг 2024
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"Comprehensive listening" is listening to learn, to absorb information, to comprehend. It's one of the four main types of listening.
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My two big takeaways from this video:
1. Listening to learn requires focus, organized note-taking, and proactive follow-up (asking questions and taking action)
2. Showing others you're listening is just as important as absorbing information effectively.
The skill I need to work on most is asking clarifying questions. I've always been the quiet type in any sort of discussion--often I get caught up in trying to absorb what's going on that I forget to engage in the conversation. I think my next step is to prioritize asking clarifying questions in my next interaction with others. Like your 1st tip "flipping the switch" but instead focusing on voicing my thoughts, opinions, and questions. That way I can get better at drawing more useful information & showing others I'm taking things seriously.
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Great post, kevo. It sounds like you are ready to run with these tips. Good for you.
When I started out with a company and asked to attend a meeting and write a recap for those not there is a great opportunity to separate yourself. A trick I used was I had a micro recorder disguised as a pen so after the meeting I could listen to everything again on my own and you can imagine the compliments I got on my details haha
Whoa! That's next level dedicated. Nice approach. Your little secret.
I came as a english learner and I'll stay as communication appreciator.
Thanks for your content!
The skill I need the most work on is 1, flip the listening switch. I tend to think of what I want to say, or get distracted with my own thoughts etc. So I need to really practice making everything else disappear and just focusing on the speaker from the start of the conversation.
Thank you for this video! It’s extremely helpful.
Glad it was helpful, Laura. Thank you for sharing your experience.
I really love these short videos. They're clear, and concise. You're a fabulous teacher, and I appreciate you so much. Thank you.
Glad you like them!
This is helpful in the realm of customer service particularly for ESL people.
Follow-ups are something I learned new. I do active listening since my student life and am good at making notes.
I need to improve in listening more I’m glad I clicked this video because boy I needed it
Thank you. I can improve on asking clarifying questions .
Thank you for posting
The taking notes part is one of the most critical comprehensive listening tips that I need to improve on.
When you said even though We have understood well, we should ask one or two questions.
Everything! Infact I need more lesson
Thanks, Alex for the great video. I really like the idea of dividing your note into an outline-like format, key ideas, details, and action steps.
Glad it was helpful!
It is very interesting. Most of us need listen better to others. As you say practice is needed and then it will become easier. Society tends to make us very self-centered so we need to adjust. Thank you for the guidance
Well said!
Follow through and note taking
I need to know the most appropriate reaction AFTER I listened. Thank you for this information.
Take action on what has been said.
I need to work on Flipping the Switch and being fully present and Follow Up. I’m so busy I don’t always follow up and then .... I’m disappointed - but I do recognize it was MY lack of follow up.
THANK YOU!!!!
Thank you for sharing, Camella.
Using my hearing aid would help a lot.
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That's a great start! Wow! It took me 5 months to get my first 100 subscribers when I started. You're doing great!
Taking good notes and follow through are some things I need to work on
You can do it, Naomi! You'll be a better listener automatically.
Very outstanding points
Oh, thank you. I'm glad the were helpful.
I need help in all of the areas. Taking notes can be very hard if you have not been trained to do so. Such as shorthand.
I am very ADHD. I have great intentions to listen. However even sitting down to listen to your videos to try and learn and within seconds I find myself doing something else. At the same time as I'm trying to listen to you. I truly wish I could overcome this. I need all the help I can get. It frustrates so many people in my life which leaves me very frustrated. As I wish I could always be there for them.
I feel the same way! My attention got much worse after the pandemic and it seems like many people I’ve talked to feel the same. Just do your best everyday! If you want something enough and actively try to improve it, you’ll almost certainly see an improvement. Keep building momentum! Good luck! 🙌🏽
I need to work on all of them
All four points were great, but my most immediate need is to put away distractions (I often check emails during a phone conversation, which automatically diminishes what I remember from the conversation), and to take notes. I had an embarrassing moment yesterday when I forgot that my boss' daughter was getting married in May--which wouldn't have happened if I had taken notes.
Thank you for sharing, Paul. Sounds like you know exactly what you need to work on moving forward.
It would be awesome if you made a version of listening skills for kids. I have two tweens with autism that struggle with these types of skills.
Tip number 3 and the bonus tip that is actioning and follow though
Good ones. I used to need work on that, too.
Hi Alex! Thanks for sharing this video. The tips that you gave will be very useful:)
The problem that I usually face is in making notes in a precise manner and simultaneously listening to what the other person is speaking. So, what happens most of the times is I end up with incomplete information which is more dangerous than not having any information. I feel the reason for this is the speed in which the other person speaks differs. Some people speak very fast in which case neither am I able to make notes nor am I able to absorb all information at one go.
It would be very helpful if you give some tips to resolve this issue of mine.
Thank you
Keep your notes brief. Just write down key words, which only takes a second. Then immediately return to your eye contact. In other words, make listening the priority and use note taking to support it. If note taking gets in the way, then reduce it.
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I definitely need to start working on taking notes. I don't take notes when in conversations and sometimes things slip me.
It's a great habit to take notes.
Asking questions for clarification
Listening completely to others, tip 1.
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i am really good at listening in class, work and other related conversations. I commit to listening, i take notes and do follow up with action. My biggest challenge is with family and other social conversations. I tend to be absent minded and usually dont remember the details. How best can i improve on this without looking too formal and overzelous?
I do have another video on Empathetic Listening and also one on Active Listening. Both of those skills come in handy for social/family conversations.
""What I, you do after the conversion."
Did I really understand?
How to flip the switch
I need to work on asking clarifying questions. Because it is weird in my country some people thing that if you ask a lot of questions people get mad and they think you are not listening.
I think asking follow up question based upon what the other person has been talking about is the key. If they are talking about sailing (e.g., "I was out on my sailboat this weekend.") then ask a follow up about that (e.g., "Where did you go sailing?" or "What kind of sailboat do you have?"). That shows you are listening because if verifies what they just talked about.
@@alexanderlyon ok thank you ❤️👌🏼
do you have the link to appreciative listening & critical listening?
Hi, Angelina. I don't have RUclips videos on those. I have videos on those in a class I offer on listening but not on RUclips. I do, however, have a video on the *_Types of Listening Skills_* and it includes those extra two. But, it's a short video.
@@alexanderlyon hi, yes i've listened to that alr.
Flip the switch, take good notes, seperate ley ideqs details and action steps, ask clarifying questions. All ofthe above
Follow through . Bonus tip: what do you do with this information
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taking notes is what I find difficult for me at times it just causes me to get distracted especially when the presenter if fast in speaking.
If it is distracting you, then when note taking (if I were you), I'd focus on just the main ideas and not worry too much about the small details. That'll help you stay focused on what the person is saying if they are speaking quickly.
i need help with no. 3, how to prioritize.
Yes, this is a common issue. It takes practice.
@@alexanderlyon Any tips on what to look for, where to start?
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Your talks were very effective for leaders but is more difficult to do when the speaker being listened to is talking about you. You have to be a third party until you have been given a chance to speak. The other difficulty comes when the speaker never pauses between topics to allow you to respond empathetically or actively on any one topic, but gets upset if you interrupt so you can show you are active listening.
Why do you think is it so hard to follow through?
I think it depends upon the person. I suspect there are a variety of reasons we don't follow though and/or follow up. If this is something you struggle with, then the key is to figure out why you personally do not follow through.
I just failed my mind drifted for a while while watching this video, lool
Ha!
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lmao
Thanks John Cena
Taking notes while speaking with ones lover seems awfully awkward and off-putting to the relationship.
Usually, comprehensive listening skills are used at work, in school, and in information-driven interactions. For personal relationships, you'd typically be using empathetic listening skills. I have another video on empathetic listening skills that may be worth watching.