How To Approach Girls | Effective + Boldness = REJECTION PROOF!

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  • Опубликовано: 25 дек 2024

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  • @ApolloniaPonti
    @ApolloniaPonti  4 года назад +60

    Watch this free 15 minute video all about approaching women here: www.apolloniaponti.com/secret-video

    • @waynesworldcoinsaustralia2640
      @waynesworldcoinsaustralia2640 4 года назад +3

      Tactics what is this a military procedure don't make it harder for men and again I'm single I'm actually lonely but I don't know I'm not lonely enough to listen no no you are awesome this is constructive but it should not be a tactic for men it should be a natural should be a natural thing but not be yeah don't be a be a gentleman but is that even acceptable now or is that not a good enough tactic you're not seen as genuine I don't know don't make us try and overthink things where men

    • @anthonye2566
      @anthonye2566 4 года назад

      Apollonia, I am addicted to your channel. I wish I would have discovered you long ago. I love getting advice from a healthy woman.
      Question, how am I supposed to express myself in a Covid word? I am constantly wearing a mask in public. 😕

    • @derrickbailey4125
      @derrickbailey4125 4 года назад +1

      I love this video right here apollonia I'm taking my notes!!!

    • @chucknorris9511
      @chucknorris9511 4 года назад

      Asking women out in person is pretty easy... What is difficult is to ask them out when they are close to their coworkers or talking to them... Their coworker can listen in and she might feel uncomfortable. I wanted to approach someone today but she was interacting with one of her coworkers so it would have been difficult. What would you recommend?

    • @datstovey
      @datstovey 4 года назад

      @@waynesworldcoinsaustralia2640 💯

  • @bigharp0949
    @bigharp0949 3 года назад +108

    What I’ve noticed in talking to women is there is a “golden window” of about 3-5 minutes of conversation. One, if you are speaking to her for that long, chances are she feels comfortable enough with you to hold a conversation. Secondly, you can choose to either continue the conversation or ask for her number or IG if you or her are limited with time. I’ve generally gotten good responses and most women give me either or both. If she isn’t interested, I still maintain my masculine frame end things on a good note. Over time, you’ll work up your interpersonal skills and will become a well-rounded person. Just stay calm and natural fellas. Things will work out fine.

    • @deandre9176
      @deandre9176 3 года назад +5

      I'm 16 an this was mad helpful thx

    • @That-fool
      @That-fool 2 года назад +1

      I'm 15 and this helps a lot thx

    • @ethana.9812
      @ethana.9812 2 года назад +1

      @@That-fool hey man, may I ask what type of things you talk about? Leading up to the number ask? I think my conversations are a little long and drag on :( working on it lol

    • @PremiumUserUltra
      @PremiumUserUltra 2 года назад

      Even better have enough confidence to do this without thinking of it. Work on becoming interesting instead of how many minutes or cramming frames

    • @tbagindustries4331
      @tbagindustries4331 2 года назад

      I am 12

  • @ModernDatingMastery
    @ModernDatingMastery 2 месяца назад +1

    *I love how you emphasize that boldness combined with effective communication can really change the game. It’s all about confidence!*

  • @ShlomoJesmerRelationshipCoach
    @ShlomoJesmerRelationshipCoach 4 года назад +73

    1. Smile + eye contact.
    2. I just wanted to tell you that you caught my eye.
    3. Respect her space by backing up. No touching.
    4. Be aware of your tone and facial expressions.
    5. I g2g. 😉 Great video.

    • @ApolloniaPonti
      @ApolloniaPonti  4 года назад +9

      Very good!

    • @lakehawklakehawk7830
      @lakehawklakehawk7830 4 года назад +4

      That works if yiu have something to offer and your good looking, which i am neither .so that explains why they never talk to me . I am a useless human who all woman hate which i accepted many years ago . Time to check out now

    • @LuisRamirez-ln3cj
      @LuisRamirez-ln3cj 4 года назад +7

      @@lakehawklakehawk7830 You can improve your appearance by becoming fit or having a good sense of style. Trust me. I was in the same spot about 3 years ago, but I lost weight, started better fare of myself and working on my weaknesses. Now I get a lot of attraction from women. In fact, many get upset when I don't give them the attention they expect. The great thing is, I can pick and choose whom to date now...and I'm not in a rush. It took a long time, but now I know my self worth. I'm 39 and I have a beautiful 21 year old Egyptian girl that's crazy about me.

    • @thereisnospoon5782
      @thereisnospoon5782 4 года назад +1

      Why does everyone assume that a guy who is not good looking is overweight and doesn't dress well? You can be fit, dress well etc etc and still be unattractive to women.

    • @robogreek3157
      @robogreek3157 3 года назад

      @@LuisRamirez-ln3cj well... I look like a white Denzel so im good. 👍

  • @shivanshsharma5839
    @shivanshsharma5839 4 года назад +8

    1. Smile + eye contact.
    2. I just wanted to tell you that you caught my eye.
    3. Respect her space by backing up. No touching.
    4. Be aware of your tone and facial expressions.

    • @datstovey
      @datstovey 4 года назад

      While she's thinking about you hurting her.

    • @thesuccessfulmind7180
      @thesuccessfulmind7180 4 года назад

      Don't forget to pick up the milk and eggs too.

  • @JRWisdom
    @JRWisdom 4 года назад +34

    Just take the pressure off as she stated. Work on your social skills and state your purpose to her. Why you approached her, compliment her, and engage in small talk from the environment. Get her to talk about HERSELF! If she's not into you then it's her loss.

    • @mariusd5913
      @mariusd5913 3 года назад +6

      Im sure if your advice worked you would not have been here trying to figure out how to talk to women.

    • @Stephen-ki9yz
      @Stephen-ki9yz 2 года назад +3

      @@mariusd5913 ruthless

  • @lutherstump6315
    @lutherstump6315 2 года назад +49

    Sounds AWESOME, great video 🔥! Definitely will share this video with my friends. And by the way… did you know that something like Spanish Fly drops exists? I’ve read that it boosts your sex drive & the reviews are GREAT. I’m really considering buying it for me & my wife. Has anyone bought something like this?

  • @AdrianColley
    @AdrianColley 4 года назад +27

    I actually took notes on paper while listening to this. It's such good advice!

    • @ChrisWilliams90-09
      @ChrisWilliams90-09 6 месяцев назад +1

      Just don't bring your notebook and start reading from it when you approach her.

  • @josesantana770
    @josesantana770 4 года назад +16

    What she mentioned at 5:40 is my style. Random statement relevant to the occasion with an air of indifference looking for a reaction that determine whether or not to engage her in conversation. No response with no eye contact I won't bother. No questioning unless engaged and never at the beginning. No expectations no disillusion. Works for me

  • @guillermomathewskaungu2050
    @guillermomathewskaungu2050 2 года назад +1

    "I just wanted to come over here and tell you that you've really caught my eye".
    OMG Apollonia you're top class.

    • @GrubKiller436
      @GrubKiller436 10 месяцев назад

      Do not say that! Especially the word "just" in that sentence

  • @swhorne
    @swhorne 4 года назад +203

    i love women, i have all their albums

  • @philadams9254
    @philadams9254 4 года назад +31

    The most important thing IMO is to be playful. It ticks so many of the boxes that you mention here

  • @eugenebruno1481
    @eugenebruno1481 4 года назад +133

    Thinking back on my experiences, maintaining a woman in a relationship is the most important. Cold approaching women, talking to women, getting their number is really not that hard. Keeping and maintaining her in a relationship... Now that's work.

    • @promisentsizi1032
      @promisentsizi1032 4 года назад +4

      Ugh tell me about it

    • @WishaninjaWood
      @WishaninjaWood 4 года назад +1

      True

    • @stixstrumentals8623
      @stixstrumentals8623 4 года назад +4

      That's because you approached her she feels powerful now. NEVER APPROACH WOMEN EVER

    • @davidsalinas5530
      @davidsalinas5530 4 года назад +12

      Actually it's the opposite for me. I suck getting them but once I do it's over

    • @adriancooley1819
      @adriancooley1819 3 года назад +12

      @@stixstrumentals8623 How you ever supposed to get one then? At some point you have to.

  • @jermainejones1560
    @jermainejones1560 4 года назад +21

    I've Learned to conversate with everyone around me and it Made it easier to talk to anybody...🤔

  • @alexanderlara4183
    @alexanderlara4183 4 года назад +5

    Great video been have been implementing lately have approached beautiful girls and it’s just liberating. Rejection is nothing compared to regret something. Have a nice day!

    • @ApolloniaPonti
      @ApolloniaPonti  4 года назад

      Well said!

    • @Mr.Mustgohard
      @Mr.Mustgohard 3 года назад +2

      Facts I love getting rejected! Like they say if you talk to 100 girls in a day and one of them like you, did you really lose?

  • @konvicti94
    @konvicti94 4 года назад +640

    "You don't ask fish how to catch fish . You ask a fisherman."

    • @speedbird1598
      @speedbird1598 4 года назад +231

      As a fisherman I think a fish would have better advice

    • @dorianwelch3869
      @dorianwelch3869 4 года назад +12

      Lmfao sometimes the truth is funny

    • @marlonserrano9013
      @marlonserrano9013 4 года назад +10

      Patrice..real advice for men.

    • @storyvi9530
      @storyvi9530 4 года назад +31

      I'm not a fish. I'm the same species as you.

    • @Nowellintv
      @Nowellintv 3 года назад +1

      😭😭

  • @G0Girt
    @G0Girt 4 года назад +15

    Man it’s been awhile since I seen your content. I see that the membership group is growing and I can’t wait to tune back into your Live chat. Keep doing great things. We appreciate you

    • @ApolloniaPonti
      @ApolloniaPonti  4 года назад +9

      Thank you!!!! Appreciate you stopping by again xo

  • @jasoncoe4706
    @jasoncoe4706 4 года назад +7

    Some very good tips. I like flipping the negative comment. Keep up the great work.

  • @_Kavika
    @_Kavika 4 года назад +85

    Grow some balls and approach a woman. The more you do it, the more confident you'll be. Learn to talk less about yourself.... and listen more. The better you are at listening, the easier it is to carry-on a conversation with a woman. Practice. Practice. Practice.

    • @AyoShy
      @AyoShy 3 года назад +1

      🗣💯

    • @Jedilord882
      @Jedilord882 2 года назад +2

      I would if I looked like Henry Cavil.

    • @Ariovistus50
      @Ariovistus50 2 года назад

      And why is it always men that have to step up? It's 2022, not 1950. Time for the ladies to do some work and not giving vague 'signals'.

    • @tnq3882
      @tnq3882 2 года назад +2

      @@Ariovistus50 they have too many options to do that

    • @wtfcomments2585
      @wtfcomments2585 8 месяцев назад

      ​@@Ariovistus50women like men who take charge.

  • @tjcarter1718
    @tjcarter1718 4 года назад +98

    Why do men need to go through all of this to get a woman or their attention. We are getting tired of that.. Guys your number priority should be you. Work smart, make money and you wouldn't waste time saying all of this. Being successful boost your confidence and women loves that, so what are you guys waiting for.

    • @Slashco
      @Slashco 4 года назад +7

      Don't blame women, blame the hordes of thirsty men who will hit on any attractive woman in sight / bombard her with message online etc. Of course women are going to be picky.

    • @favoritebro59
      @favoritebro59 4 года назад +1

      Savage truth bro!🥳

    • @godwinnartey8544
      @godwinnartey8544 4 года назад +1

      for real

    • @jordancech9918
      @jordancech9918 4 года назад +3

      But what if you’ve already reached financial goals and next goal of finding a nice wife and starting a family.

    • @christianpino4526
      @christianpino4526 4 года назад +1

      It’s so true man that’s why I go to the gym so much yet I still think to myself I’m not being aggressive enough.... why does it have to be like this such a good question... unbelievable.

  • @pierreexalus7858
    @pierreexalus7858 4 года назад +21

    Yo, i appreciate the video, the facial expression and tonality is my biggest obstacle when im not buzzed daygaming.

  • @dragonfeet5435
    @dragonfeet5435 4 года назад +3

    Thank you for your efforts to educate men on how to interact with women constructively

  • @williamlarson2759
    @williamlarson2759 3 года назад +1

    Knowing how to read women is a positive. Knowing they have an appeal about them before you speak makes all the difference and it happens in a moment.

  • @abhishekvichare6791
    @abhishekvichare6791 2 года назад

    Ohh yeahh !! Initiation, gauging and progression.

  • @mayberryT
    @mayberryT 4 года назад +4

    @Apollonia Ponti I'm allowing myself to absorb the 10 steps you provided and want to again appreciate you for such a straight forward video. Excited to continue to support and learn from you and your material and my own relationship journey.

  • @adrianfrazier3583
    @adrianfrazier3583 10 месяцев назад

    You a real one Apollonia! I appreciate you! I just wanted you to know!

  • @skyboidrako4625
    @skyboidrako4625 2 года назад +3

    I don’t even approach no women but that “I love health food” part made me laugh TF out,
    Piece of advice for the mans out there looking forward to approaching girls! You need to go approach your purpose and better your self, everything else comes easy

  • @ethanmartinez3425
    @ethanmartinez3425 3 года назад +13

    DON'T GIVE HER A COMPLIMENT when you first meet her. observe what she's doing or something happing in the moment, share how you relate or don't relate to it , and ask her for her opinion or perspective (best to avoid asking her yes or no questions). then in the middle of her answering question(s), interrupt or change the topic immediately to her with a compliment you did or didn't notice before you approached her. it can be you noticing her unique voice, how much brighter her eyes look up close or how healthy her hair or skin is ("wow your hair is so brilliant, I need to know your secret. what product do you use?" ,"Do I notice an ascent here? it is rather attractive. where are you from?" O.S.A.) Now she opens up a little more and this is your opportunity to relate with her about what she's saying and asking her questions based on key words she uses while describing herself or something she does or interests. Best way to not have dead silence between the two of you, if any, is reintroducing the observe, share and ask (O.S.A) although you can sometimes drop the observe or share a couple times so that you don't should too repetitive. its okay to show that you don't agree with her on a topic/subject as long as you own it and don't apologize for it but tell her you appreciate different perspectives (stay away from topics like religion, politics or even your job). if you cold approached her (you didn't ever know her prior to meeting her) end it there and tell her (not ask) that you want pick up this conversation with her at a later time and ask for her number or social media, and or invite her to an another social gathering, event, public place ("Hey lets talk more about this over a cup of coffee. heres my number..., send me a text right now (or) I have an instagram lets follow each other") this is great because you show her that you respect not only her time, since you just meet her, but your time as well and you don't want to tell her everything about you but leave her wanting to know more. women find it sexy once they know you are willing to walk away from a good interact before she ejects. of course don't be rude about leaving but don't be sorry either. make great eye contact, smile and you'll be getting back to her because if you want it to happen, it is 100% your responsibility to make it happen and that is what a man does. hope this helps, cheers!

  • @wownice393
    @wownice393 4 года назад +3

    Apollonia Ponti love your content nice advice

  • @Tony_CPA
    @Tony_CPA 4 года назад +66

    Yeah unless your a 10, girls don’t really care about any compliment. It’s usually “oh thank u” then they pull out their 🤳 and pretend ur not there..

    • @datstovey
      @datstovey 4 года назад +6

      Lol that's true

    • @ethanmartinez3425
      @ethanmartinez3425 3 года назад +11

      don't give her a compliment when you first meet her. observe what she's doing or something happing in the moment, share how you relate or don't relate to it , and ask her for her opinion or perspective (best to avoid asking her yes or no questions). then in the middle of her answering question(s), interrupt or change the topic immediately to her with a compliment you did or didn't notice before you approached her. it can be you noticing her unique voice, how much brighter her eyes look up close or how healthy her hair or skin is ("wow your hair is so brilliant, I need to know your secret. what product do you use?" "Do I notice an ascent here? it is rather attractive. where are you from?" O.S.A.) Now she opens up a little more and this is your opportunity to relate with her about what she's saying and asking her questions based on key words she uses while describing herself or something she does or interests. Best way to not have dead silence between the two of you, if any, is reintroducing the observe, share and ask (O.S.A) although you can sometimes drop the observe or share a couple times so that you don't should too repetitive. its okay to show that you don't agree with her on a topic/subject as long as you own it and don't apologize for it but tell her you appreciate different perspectives (stay away from topics like religion, politics or even your job). if you cold approached her (you didn't ever know her prior to meeting her) end it there and tell her (not ask) that you want pick up this conversation with her at a later time and ask for her number or social media, and or invite her to an another social gathering, event, public place. this is great because you show her that you respect not only her time, since you just meet her, but your time as well and you don't want to tell her everything about you but leave her wanting to know more. women find it sexy once they know you are willing to walk away from a good interact before she ejects. of course don't be rude about leaving but don't be sorry either. make great eye contact, smile and you'll be getting back to her because if you want it to happen, it is 100% your responsibility to make it happen and that is what a man does. hope this helps cheers!

    • @Scott-got-caught
      @Scott-got-caught 3 года назад +15

      @David Michaels bro you've got that self affirmations thing down! 😂

    • @markmurillo4330
      @markmurillo4330 3 года назад

      Trust me though they’ll think about it later 💯

    • @BIGSuperstar-or4vx
      @BIGSuperstar-or4vx 3 года назад +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 this a red pill truth💯

  • @montyraj07
    @montyraj07 2 года назад

    These are the best tips anybody could give about pickup and that too for free. Good job 🤙🏻

  • @GodBless1978
    @GodBless1978 Год назад

    Wow🎉that was great stuff !!!!

  • @datstovey
    @datstovey 4 года назад +3

    What I got is don't approach a woman because she thinks that I'm crazy or going to hurt her, and you wonder why men don't approach thanks for the great advice, I'll stick with being single.

    • @LUKASENKYT
      @LUKASENKYT 4 месяца назад

      Wh o care what she thinks , she doesn't even know you yet.

  • @surreal_seb
    @surreal_seb Год назад

    Viewed this quite a while back, but came back it's clutch 👌🏼🧡

  • @Chrisyzt
    @Chrisyzt 3 года назад +1

    Amazing video

  • @ECO473
    @ECO473 4 года назад +85

    What women say: We want to be approached.
    What women mean: BUT NOT BY YOU!

    • @monarch2500
      @monarch2500 4 года назад +8

      Facts haha

    • @thereisnospoon5782
      @thereisnospoon5782 4 года назад +23

      Yep, as long as you are good looking she will be receptive to your approach.
      If you are not good looking, you can approach in exactly the same way and she will think you are a creep.

    • @ECO473
      @ECO473 4 года назад +4

      @@thereisnospoon5782 You are so right.

    • @TomFox1
      @TomFox1 4 года назад +3

      F u u right. 😂😂😂

    • @adamnelson4859
      @adamnelson4859 4 года назад +7

      Nobody said it was easy lol.
      If u ain't got the face, work on the charm and the body.

  • @mustaphajanneh5464
    @mustaphajanneh5464 3 года назад +1

    Thanks and much love for the guidance its like all what you saying its connected me back and give me more courage .

  • @mrprosperity4897
    @mrprosperity4897 4 года назад +86

    Imagine how many views you would have if you would take the opposite approach and tell women how to approach men

    • @user-hh9ni8su3p
      @user-hh9ni8su3p 3 года назад +13

      It's just not that common for women to approach men first. Has it ever happened to you? It was weird when it happened to me, and it really sucked to reject her. Honestly I would rather be rejected than have to reject. I'm fine with the social norm of men approaching women predominately. Just takes confidence.

    • @2012MyVideos2012
      @2012MyVideos2012 3 года назад +1

      @@user-hh9ni8su3p thats a masculine energy 💪

    • @SelfMadeRoc
      @SelfMadeRoc 2 года назад

      @@user-hh9ni8su3p 😂😂⛏

  • @Gordys_Garden
    @Gordys_Garden 3 года назад +1

    I just want to let you know I like the way you deliver your message very easy to follow thank you

  • @brooklynworld3105
    @brooklynworld3105 3 года назад +1

    You are really good... you helped me out alot.. keep up the great work! Thank you so much...

  • @jesuspena8076
    @jesuspena8076 3 года назад

    “There is what women say they want,
    What they think they want,
    And what they respond to.”
    -Ross Jeffries (Master PUA)

  • @stixstrumentals8623
    @stixstrumentals8623 4 года назад +13

    Dont ever approach at all guys. Get your body together and you won't ever have to approach again.

    • @ZAZUtakiyaho
      @ZAZUtakiyaho 3 года назад

      Wdym

    • @Masked_madness09
      @Masked_madness09 2 года назад

      What? Are you mad or something? Imma approach I don't give a fuck, just I need bit courage

    • @CONFlDENTlALS
      @CONFlDENTlALS 2 года назад

      @@Masked_madness09 This is the guy who waits for choosing signals.

    • @Jacob-sj5nn
      @Jacob-sj5nn 2 года назад

      Sure... let me know how that works out.

  • @lambert2291
    @lambert2291 3 года назад +1

    Great work Apollonia Ponti. Much appreciation from Kenya. You're really doing an amazing job for us men. God bless you

    • @marcusknoll9500
      @marcusknoll9500 6 месяцев назад

      So you mean to tell me...that even in Kenya....men are having problems with women?

  • @johnstein230
    @johnstein230 Год назад

    Wow I haven't seen any of your videos in a looooong time!¡!

  • @joshhibbs_nola
    @joshhibbs_nola 4 года назад +5

    Great tips! I will get to try them one day.

  • @benjigarcia819
    @benjigarcia819 4 года назад +85

    I always think it’s good to know more about the female species and the way they think thank you stay positive and blessed 👍🏽🙏🏽👍🏽🙏🏽

    • @okonkwo.ify18
      @okonkwo.ify18 4 года назад +6

      Female species? Weak

    • @stixstrumentals8623
      @stixstrumentals8623 4 года назад

      A bunch of betas on this channel

    • @datstovey
      @datstovey 4 года назад +2

      @@stixstrumentals8623 and a bunch of men taking her "advice"

    • @londong1420
      @londong1420 4 года назад

      Beta much!???!? Chill bro

    • @datstovey
      @datstovey 3 года назад +1

      You sound like you are doing an experiment with the female species. The female species don't know what they want, but yet CONvince men otherwise.

  • @fhitahtechshorts3144
    @fhitahtechshorts3144 4 года назад +1

    I can't get enough of your content, you're amazing

  • @kumbia3004
    @kumbia3004 2 года назад

    One of the best videos of yours I seen this is 😉

  • @Onleesuksess
    @Onleesuksess 2 года назад +1

    Subscribed girl ! Engaging

  • @demetriuseanderson
    @demetriuseanderson 3 года назад +2

    Some good details; thank you for sharing your point of view. However, it doesn't take all this. No man of Purpose has time to do all of these things and perform all these mechanical functions. If she doesn't like it.. too easy.. simply walk. God has given you Purpose.

  • @stayhappylittlemermaid
    @stayhappylittlemermaid 4 года назад +11

    I'm guilty of giving people more chances than they deserve but when I'm done, I'm done.

    • @datstovey
      @datstovey 4 года назад +1

      What are your thoughts about her advice?

  • @chishimbabc4004
    @chishimbabc4004 3 года назад

    I have been watching your videos for some time but this one is fire, I love it.

  • @justinkirton7571
    @justinkirton7571 4 года назад +1

    What a wonderful video keep up the good work

  • @manirk9467
    @manirk9467 3 года назад

    Really helpful! Thank you very much. Im a really shy guy ! Never had enough courage to approach women! Now it's finally the time!!

  • @Jae-bi5ik
    @Jae-bi5ik 2 года назад

    Just what i needed. Thank you ! ❤️

  • @ghostlegacy4427
    @ghostlegacy4427 3 года назад +1

    Thank you so much now I got the idea to approach a woman.

  • @Chillax11
    @Chillax11 4 года назад +4

    I love this! Thank you 🙏🏾

  • @tuanf01
    @tuanf01 3 года назад +6

    Focus your energy on being successful in your health and career. Women will be attracted to you when you're a successful and happy person.

  • @adapterconverter5380
    @adapterconverter5380 3 года назад

    i like how shes so secure in herself that she stutterers when she talks to herself

  • @martrellwilkins4786
    @martrellwilkins4786 3 года назад +2

    Absolutely love this advice

  • @yudahisthelionswhelp1037
    @yudahisthelionswhelp1037 4 года назад

    WAW! Beautiful to watch this video FEW MINUTES IN. ❤️❤️❤️FROM NAMIBIA 🇳🇦

  • @starktoney6499
    @starktoney6499 3 года назад +1

    Love her! Doesn't hurt too that she's easy on the eyes.. The ultimate wingman!

  • @grant9047
    @grant9047 3 года назад +8

    it's scary asf to approach women, i always feel like such a creepy stalker guy and they always look so scared like im some troll thats trying to rape or kill them. i kind of avoid women sometimes. Like i was walking to my car out of the store and i walked past this lady looking for my car and she freaked out and spun around and i told her i was sorry im just looking for my car. all i was trying to do was get to my car and now im some threat to women, like damn man smh

  • @kianooshsaranjam4791
    @kianooshsaranjam4791 3 года назад

    Super useful 👌🏻👌🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @Kops_45
    @Kops_45 3 года назад +1

    Interesting tips I like that🔥😉

  • @darnellmiller1215
    @darnellmiller1215 3 года назад +23

    Great video and appreciate your feminine perspective but honestly, I'm to the point where I don't even try to approach women anymore.
    I'm good looking, in shape, a non smoker - drinker got decent money, clean, sharp, well raised and groomed. Women, nowadays, to me are so stuck up and difficult and I'm just as content as can be...don't need any validation.
    If the ideal woman for me fell in my lap, cool...but in the meantime I'm just a spectator refusing to play the game!

    • @princewilludochukwu537
      @princewilludochukwu537 3 года назад

      You’re just like me !! You poured my heart I’m this comment ❤️🦅🩸

    • @cry0xxx
      @cry0xxx 2 года назад

      Absolute cope

    • @leolego2
      @leolego2 2 года назад

      You seem to be the one that is actually stuck up though.

    • @MiguelHernandez-xj1rt
      @MiguelHernandez-xj1rt 2 года назад +1

      Dude I feel your frustration. Here's one thing though they could think youre attractive and are waiting for you because of some stupid hegemonic masculinity unwritten rule, but then you find yourself greeted with rejection so its like why bother... but girls will reject advances just to see your reaction... its all a stupid fucking game but you dont play you dont score.

    • @akhtarshahbaz6951
      @akhtarshahbaz6951 Год назад

      Exacly i am like you good looking paki
      Lots paki chicks like me Pakistan in Restrants india desi also but most are desprate and lonly and enjoys the moments and feeing but most time i aproach she gets v scared tho they give me v romatic looks likebollywood movies iam stay composed and wait for agresive paki to come to me most time i am lucky bkz of they come to usa aranged marriages with uglyugly guys .

  • @manuelmedina8880
    @manuelmedina8880 4 года назад +20

    I laughed so hard because she went in on a convo with her self love it!!!

  • @rendellbaldwin8946
    @rendellbaldwin8946 3 года назад

    Great tips 👍

  • @wise1xo
    @wise1xo 4 года назад +2

    ur awesome this is helpful!

  • @martinworkens6130
    @martinworkens6130 4 года назад +8

    All of this takes confidence in yourself first. No confidence or real inner quality it will fail quickly.

    • @marcusknoll9500
      @marcusknoll9500 6 месяцев назад

      Wtf is inner confidence my man??????

  • @lovetohate1901
    @lovetohate1901 2 года назад

    I get shy and stuck or not say the right words but stuck on what to say! Sometime she leaves and I just blow my change 👍🏽👍🏽😛you also me thank !

  • @ianbazzano9281
    @ianbazzano9281 3 года назад

    I really like your video you broke it down well

  • @ronaldflagge2282
    @ronaldflagge2282 4 года назад +2

    Love your wisdom.

  • @phillybred8580
    @phillybred8580 3 года назад

    Thanks for your advice 👍

  • @johngleeson3738
    @johngleeson3738 4 года назад

    This kind of stuff is such a godsend for me. This is seduction for men who have integrity and self-respect enough not to be willing to be a cretinous, fake, manipulative, sleazy, arrogant fool to get women like most pua artists cannot help but teach, even though most decent ones. Getting the knowledge from a woman and her perspective like this lady, who great at teaching is soo superior. Everything is useable and it's such a relief to know they aren't looking for the smooth talking, wise-cracking, fake alpha peacock, but just normal, decent, genuine and respectful. It's mostly just stop doing the lame bs most of us get taught by others or do by default.

  • @endlessunivese9350
    @endlessunivese9350 2 года назад

    too many girls approach me but the gates inside my heart are too strong to break do to only if a girl really loves me it breaks through eye contact there is where i know if she really loves me and i am still single i don't play hard to get i was treaded wrong from childhood by girls before i grew up now i am 32 old man i know what true love is 100%

  • @watchme7076
    @watchme7076 3 года назад +1

    I need help for years girls are walking away upset because I’m not approaching them and I can’t think what to say. Can you do video on what to talk about with questions. Please thanks 🙏
    I just want to come over here and tell you. That you really caught my eye my name is ……..
    Environment, engaged then push forward
    I little nervous right now with you now approaching you but I’m trying to get better to itv approaching woman and people because I’m really really

  • @nelsanitytv2109
    @nelsanitytv2109 3 года назад

    Pick up on what the girl is saying is so true. That's I think keep the conversation going

  • @cameronsebabstion6708
    @cameronsebabstion6708 4 года назад +5

    @apollonia ponti you looked so pretty in this video you kept playing with your hair 😀like attraction hair movement and i caught that

  • @gevorgsaghatelyan6793
    @gevorgsaghatelyan6793 3 года назад

    You're the most amazing woman in the world. Your hair look awesome 👸

  • @Jose-wy8nj
    @Jose-wy8nj 3 года назад

    Thanks for the típ

  • @lsvllv
    @lsvllv 4 года назад

    Hello Appollonia Ponti, Your videos are a message from God... I recently filed for Divorce after 17 years of marriage. I am a hopeless romantic...I appreciate your contribution for Gentleman who are thrusted in to this new "swipe left" generation..I am now convinced Everthing Will Be Alright...Again, Thank You.👑

  • @justint7190
    @justint7190 3 года назад

    Like the value here. What do you think of Corey Wayne. I’ve read his book 35 times. I’m still struggling with approach because I’m battling neediness and insecurity.

  • @robertmathurin739
    @robertmathurin739 4 года назад +1

    Very Vital information,,🇱🇨💐💝

  • @fco.ricardoconchas3043
    @fco.ricardoconchas3043 3 года назад

    I like your content ❤

  • @pspcolorado
    @pspcolorado 2 года назад

    Thanks for this video and advise. I did see a girl at the gym I did want to approach but didn't want to interrupt her workout. What would you suggest for approaching women in the gym? Thanks.

  • @MFKST
    @MFKST 3 года назад

    Why question is that why do women imply that approching them is creepy? Please answer 🙏🏾

  • @watchme7076
    @watchme7076 3 года назад

    Hi I just really wanted to come over here that you really cought my eye my name is….
    If rejected it was nice meeting you
    It was nice talking to you i had a great conversation you have an amazing amazing charisma about your self you care yourself really well as a woman have a wonderful day.

  • @2explore1
    @2explore1 2 года назад

    May I practice with you, becuase you seem well educated and you catch my eye.

  • @justwasuploaded
    @justwasuploaded 3 года назад

    You are amazing. God bless you!

  • @umzingisi
    @umzingisi 4 года назад

    Thanks for all your wisdom Ms Ponti 💯❤️.... But what happened to the previous format when giving tips which showed 'tip number / name of the subject etc'... Rather than this format??? Mhmm 🤔...

  • @jermainemarshall6819
    @jermainemarshall6819 4 года назад +1

    This is some really valuable content 👏

  • @travisgoonan7667
    @travisgoonan7667 4 года назад +2

    How do you try to find an attractive woman during this pandemic. I’ve been trying dating websites, but even they are too afraid to reach out because of it.

  • @ricardoharry2437
    @ricardoharry2437 4 года назад +3

    My morning class ☺️

  • @alvinjobam
    @alvinjobam 3 года назад

    that was helpful thanks

  • @nathanielallen1625
    @nathanielallen1625 4 года назад

    Wha up Apollonia! Ima fan. I be watchin all yo videos i gotta bad mexican girl off yo videos lol. Keep trainin us. U da sensei, we da student lol

  • @Abdo.A
    @Abdo.A 4 года назад +1

    One of the best coaches out there really!

  • @jayduby3969
    @jayduby3969 3 года назад

    You are kinda the best so how long have you been the best? if you don't mind me asking

  • @richardking4206
    @richardking4206 8 месяцев назад

    Nice 👍🏽

  • @dragonfeet5435
    @dragonfeet5435 4 года назад +11

    Question: What motivates you to create the content that you do?