I think that anytime I focus on my looks, it’s because I’m feeling insecure about another facet of my personality/abilities and I revert back to my looks to seek value there instead as it seems easier to control (even if it’s not).
I really support your message, but no, beauty is not a social construct, at least a big part of it is not. There is a human beauty concept that pretty much everyone share, and a beautiful man/woman will be recognised instantly as such by anyone from anywhere in the world. This is however not a fatality, far from it, I agree !
When you look in the mirror imagine this was the face of a friend, family member or someone your truely love. This is not you. There is no need to search for any flaws, this person is perfect how they are Nevada you love them. Then step away from the mirror. It is just a reflection of the outside, remember no matter how beautiful or not your friends outside is the inner beauty is radiant and you need to celebrate it to make it shine even more.
I love you the way you are! For thou hast possessed my reins: thou hast covered me in my mother's womb. I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvellous are thy works; and that my soul knoweth right well. My substance was not hid from thee, when I was made in secret, and curiously wrought in the lowest parts of the earth. Thine eyes did see my substance, yet being unperfect; and in thy book all my members were written, which in continuance were fashioned, when as yet there was none of them.
Working to be a good person is a good distraction from obsession over looks.
Doesn't work for me
@@Anxious_deer.777 yeah it’s not uncommon to lack depth and character in that sense
I think that anytime I focus on my looks, it’s because I’m feeling insecure about another facet of my personality/abilities and I revert back to my looks to seek value there instead as it seems easier to control (even if it’s not).
YES. I relate and I call it emotional outsourcing
This really helped thank you
i completely agree with this. there is no such things as "ugly" or "beauty"
I feel you are very brave to talk about this! 💜 #inspire #motivate
i know this is coming from a stranger on the internet but you are so pretty. and you have depth - good combo 🙂
I really support your message, but no, beauty is not a social construct, at least a big part of it is not. There is a human beauty concept that pretty much everyone share, and a beautiful man/woman will be recognised instantly as such by anyone from anywhere in the world. This is however not a fatality, far from it, I agree !
loved this
When you look in the mirror imagine this was the face of a friend, family member or someone your truely love. This is not you. There is no need to search for any flaws, this person is perfect how they are Nevada you love them. Then step away from the mirror. It is just a reflection of the outside, remember no matter how beautiful or not your friends outside is the inner beauty is radiant and you need to celebrate it to make it shine even more.
thanks 💞
Needed this today
I love you the way you are!
For thou hast possessed my reins: thou hast covered me in my mother's womb.
I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvellous are thy works; and that my soul knoweth right well.
My substance was not hid from thee, when I was made in secret, and curiously wrought in the lowest parts of the earth.
Thine eyes did see my substance, yet being unperfect; and in thy book all my members were written, which in continuance were fashioned, when as yet there was none of them.
Did you write this? If so, strong piece.
@@Mercy-n4f nah thats a psalm from the bible. conservatives also use this to ban abortions.
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