A MUST-SEE: The Faces of Domestic Violence (Abuse Documentary)
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Produced by Janice Selinger and hosted by Diane Sawyer, this documentary film is a timely and comprehensive exploration of physical and emotional abuse in our society.
It examines the cross-cultural phenomenon of domestic violence and looks at how the medical community, law enforcement agencies, and corporate America are helping to end the silence.
Topics discussed include different definitions of domestic violence, dynamics of abuse, the impact of violence, appropriate professional responses, intervention, and prevention. The quality of the information imparted is excellent and may be helpful for many.
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.. and some do , sadly we loose our sisters
thank you REAL 💌
I had my own son arrested, and I was in shock due to his wealth; they did nothing, and I will never speak to him again. he beats his own wife daily due to refusing to take his medicine. Awful . Ugh, what of Mom? Would I allow him to do that, yet people believe his lies? It's awfully sad, but it is so sad, no matter who he is; I watched my mom go through it at a very young age and swore I would never allow anyone man to do it to me not even my own child! J needs to fire judges and police that get paid off and allow these things to happen. Ugh, awful. I fear my own son still, nine years later. God help him and any girl he gets involved with. Yes, he has married children but even gets away with cheating all due to his wealth. It isn't very good. However, it does also happen to men, which is awful as well.
Sad its 2024 and not much has changed.
Getting worse
Because people are dysfunctional and victims do not speak up, and often protect their perpetrator. And most people think only because a man is charming, he us a good guy and can do no wrong. I have had such situations where somebody was in an abusive situation and I told her she can come live with me and stay there for free as long as she needs. Two times they both never took the offer and stayed for a long time afterwards and the other time she took the offer, but then a year or so later went back to him and then left him again. There is only so much friends and family and even police can do to help. If the victim keeps refusing help from friends, family and organisations, does not want to leave, does not want to press charges and lies about what is going on, what are we all supposed to do?
My mom always said “love doesn’t hurt” That’s all you need to know
Facts. My mom said the same thing but she excepted domestic violence her entire life. I think she was to afraid to leave and she felt like she deserved it because the only partners she ever had were abusive, her dad abused her mom and he was high ranking in the air force, I think she wanted to leave but she was afraid af the stigma of being a divorced single mom and that his status would leave her with nothing. Alcoholism also runs deep with the men in my family and I am the first person to break both of those cycles. I'm not saying that I have a perfect history with dating or life in general but there is a certain freedom that I feel knowing that I don't have to live as a prisoner, a slave or a punching bag.
It shouldn’t
@@jessbryan1361 absolutely. Although I did mean physical pain, I also meant emotional. I understand why a lot of women don’t leave. It’s scary and dangerous. I hope you find safe, deep, unconditional love.
@@samanthajackson8510 if it does, it isn’t love
I disagree. Love does hurt when the person you love disappoints you, lies to you (who does never ever lie?), gets ill and dies. But this does not mean to love somebody you have to let them abuse and torture you. You can leave and still love them from a distance without getting physically or psychologically harmed.
But these men will jump online and tell women you’re gonna be single and lonely forever now out of all these men that say that which one of these men are abusive, they won’t tell you that I’m not the good guy, but they will tell you to choose better ladies, stay single be by yourself
After a lifetime of extreme abuse (trafficking, violent r*pe, false allegations against me and subsequent arrests of ME the VICTIM etc) and just having been told again that I'm "not good enough and not pretty enough because I'm too slim" - by a seventy year old unstable weirdo that I believe buries his victims around the mountains where he lives alone in a cabin... I fully agree! Stay single, it's safer! Oh and beware of the loners!!!! There's a reason they are loners...
Previous upbringing, drugs and alcohol play a major role in domestic violence cases.....
Yep
Not all. My violent ex was only ever sober when he bashed me. He wasn't a drunk and he didn't do drugs, He was always employed and popular with his work mates.....and other women. He was charming and the life of the party.. Outgoing and very good looking. People thought we were very much in love and had no idea what went on behind closed doors. But he didn't mind beating me in front of his friends and when we had flat mates who never intervened. They were scared of him and the flat mates moved out after the first time they saw him beat me when I was 5 months pregnant - that was the first time. He vowed and declared it would never happen again and he was very remorseful. I had no idea it would happen again and it got worse and more frequent during our 7 years together. I was trapped and had nowhere to go. I needed specialist help to get out as he would have killed me and our children. I had to go into hiding with different people until they could get me out of his third world country where there were no women's shelters and domestic violence was part of the culture. However he had 2 brothers who cherished their wives and never beat them. Then another 2 brothers who were wife beaters. I doubt that his father ever was, he was deeply respectful of his wife who had had 10 children and was in poor health.
That's true, some may never drink or do drugs but may have seen their father beat their mothers or vs versa and thought this behavior is normal.
Remember society needs to change, music industry, Hollywood, Disney and video games
This is from time ago, but brilliant!
This was me. My family said it was my fault and I'm always making myself the victim. Scientology is saying I'm a bad mom. I'm so traumatized, that years later, I cannot get out of bed. I hope I never see any of my family again. My own children blamed me, the victim. Oh oops, there I go again. Making myself the victim. I wish they were made to watch this. Made to go to counseling to see how wrong and horrible they've been. Please God, put this documentary in front of them to watch. Make them see. Otherwise, I'm afraid for their souls.
I'm so sorry... I was a victim too and I have a depression I spend a lot of time in bed too... In bed I feel comfortable and relaxed when I do something else I feel very sad 😢 please stay safe and don't blame yourself.... Hugs
Scientology is a big fake and you need to geta way from their and their negative influence. They encourage and condone abuse.
I got blamed too, by the police. It wasn't a partner but my rapist - he raped me (repeatedly) and beat me to a pulp and then called the police, claiming I had raped him. I'm a GIRL... For political reasons police sided with him and arrested ME, the victim! I was the first ever woman in the UK to get charged with rape. I had horrific injuries but police claimed I had "self harmed" - didn't know women can now rape themselves...
Ten years later I'm still struggling with the fact that, while I'm the victim, it's me that's officially a "dangerous s*x offender", with all the consequences to my life (unemployability, banned from rape crisis centers, banned from all local churches etc) while my rapist got a British passport out of this (on the grounds that he is a "vulnerable rape victim") and support from... rape crisis centers while he and the rape gang he is part of, continue to violate mainly underage girls!
How American that they speak of the workplace productivity ramifications of domestic abuse.
I hope that's to give corporations and government some sort of incentive to do something about it
Exactly what I thought
Wow I would like to share my story someday 😢hopefully it’ll help someone before it’s too late
You should I understand share. It would help some of us if you feel up to it .
I grew up in a family affected by DV. My grandpa was a violent alcoholic and my grandma sh*t him in self defense. They ended up staying together, even though she divorced him.
Who the hell do they think they are... And do they think about their mam while abusing the mother of their children.
They hate their mom
Forever 32
I love you always my baby sis.
RIP Lacey Nix 11/13/2023
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Because they can… And that’s all you need to know about men… leave them TF alone… let them be angry ALONE
Women can be ab us ive too. Anyone that uses manipulation or fear to get their way is a terrible person & we should all avoid them.
When are men named in domestic violence victims. I am getting tired of naming only women as victims. I am a surviver of mental and emotional abuse and a women. But i still have the strong opinion that men are left out. I can name at least 5 cases of victim blaming from women who killed there partner
This is so sad that women have to be scared like this. I had a boyfriend that was verbally and somewhat physically abusive. Didn't hit me but shoved me up against a door and threw a phone at me. Is was escalating and I'm sure would have gotten worse if I hadn't kicked him to the curb.
Omg this is old. Nothing has changed. My city doesn't even have a protection program for women, and you get more jail time for stealing money than harming a human life. It's disgusting. We women need to be the change. Stand up and fight for human rights.
Truth my ex husband didn't even spend a month in jail for abusing our children..for six years after the judge granted him to take them away from me in our divorce,,and I told the judge that he would hurt them ..thank God for their babysitter to report him ..❤to this day my children wont talk to me said I didn't try hard enough to get them from him ..😢 that's been since 2006 ,i haven't seen my children since 2011 wish my children could see this and understand the dynamics of DV 😮😢
Men* need to change.
It's such a new and tender topic for me I feel for all the women that had to endure such evil cruel actions by the person they thought would protect them
I was pregnant we my partner began to physically abuse me. It started as verbal and then it escalated. I am so glad i never expirienced another abusive relationship after. This was 35 yrs ago.
I'm new to this channel and I find it very interesting but, I know what it's like to be abused....
5:15,smartest thing said on this whole documentary 😮
All these little kids are adults I wonder if they became parents and how their experiences affect their ability to parent
I can answer that. I spent my childhood watching my narcissistic father kick the crap out of my bipolar mom, then one day he bailed. He broke her down so much mentally, and she turned her trauma onto us. I became a mother at 21, thinking I knew everything. At 45, with my oldest being an adult, I did my best, I did much better than my parents did, but I genuinely fucked up a lot. I had several partners, was abused myself, and my children needed therapy too. I'm definitely not proud, but I've been honest about my childhood with my sons and family therapy and honesty has helped us all heal. It's been tough, but I love them so much, and I've done everything to be a better mom. We are all really close, and we talk a lot. That is something I never had with my parents.
I can pretty much tell you that anyone who grew up in a home where there is physical abuse, emotional abuse, alcoholism and infidelity and other toxic types of behaviors. The child will absolutely grow up 100% to repeat those same behaviors. There’s no benchmark when you’re a little four-year-old or three-year-old or a six-year-old that tells you, daddy hitting mommy or yelling at mommy or mommy hitting the children or beating the children or grabbing them by the arm and pinching them with her fingernails or pulling them by their hair or throwing them in the garage and locking the door and leaving them there is wrong. There’s no benchmark that says that’s wrong. There’s no one to tell the child that’s wrong. In fact, quite the opposite the parent tells the child they are so bad and so awful and that they deserve it and the siblings turn on the scapegoat who is being abused because they are none the wiser and believe the child must in fact be awful. The children then turn on the abused child and they tell their classmates how awful the abused sibling child is so then that child goes to school and they get abused by their classmates. All because of the bad behavior of the parents. The child internalizes everything and will grow up to be an adult who does the same thing unless they learn about the cycle of abuse and break it. This type of behavior should be a criminal offense always because it will always damage the child who grows up to be a damaged adult.
I had two children with a man who attacked me multiple times, then one day almost hurt out four month old daughter.. from that day I left with two babies and was a single mother for 14 years.. about a year ago we were evicted from our apartment because I couldn’t keep up with the $1400 rent, plus all the bills and food! So by then a 2 bedroom was up to $1800 and up! (I’m in Ontario Canada) I was cooked , knew I couldn’t afford to be on my own with the kids anymore. Plus I’ve had a few of my sons girlfriends live with us after being kicked out.. so the shelters are full and we were gunna end up in a tent.. I couldn’t even rent a bachelor with four of us, no one would rent to us, plus a bachelor is $1500 , more than I was paying for the two bedroom.. so their father offered to split a place with us, and it was our only option.. it took a long time to be accepted for a place but we found a three bedroom, everyone gets a room and I’m in the living room .. so the very month we moved in, I had been collecting social assistance to help with our rent, they cut me off! Said I was back living with my “ spouse “ they call him! We’re not together! We moved in as an emergency measure and they knew that! So now I’m living with my former abuser unable to pay my half of the rent! It’s been a nightmare..it’s been a year and I’m still fighting for my benefits back because we have been living rough .. he takes care of the rent and himself but leaves the kids to me and I have no money coming in.. he a miserable person and is always swearing to himself and slamming \ smashing things..I keep getting flashbacks he’ll come at me! I hate being here but the kids would be on their own if I left
I understand. What a terrible situation. The best thing you can do is what women in NZ do.....they move in with other single mothers and share a rented house. I escaped my violent marriage and moved in with a single mother. She worked nights as a bear maid and I worked days in a chocolate factory. She cared for my kids during the day and I got home in time for her to leave for work. I had weekends off but she didn't, but we had weekend day times to take the kids out places and meet up with friends. I honestly think this is your best option. You can advertise or meet women at shelters or online. In NZ there are various charities that will help with a move and will even donate beds and furniture and necessities. We also have elderly pensioners who move in together - up to 6 in a house and they share the costs and look after each other. They are never lonely and always have someone to socialize with. I do hope you find a solution as soon as possible.
I’m in the exact situation right now 😢 it’s live with the devil or on the streets. my kids deserve better 😞
Sorry at this time Real, can't watch 😪
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@@marionbowler5440 🫂z Marion
be well
I'm so sorry. I truly understand. I'm working up the courage to right now.
If the saints were involved in this documentary, the women would thank their abuser for the abuse!
Nothing u did is ur fault ladies n gentlemen. I’m a Survivor of DV. I know my ex did this to me because he was cheating all along n now he’s with her. I could write a book about it. Thank God, He left us.
My ex is now married to the woman he cheated on me with. I hope shes ok. Because i cant imagine he has changed his ways...
15:55,that is SAD how detailed he described EVEYRTHING...this makes me so mad...as mothers we cannot be weak when we have kids to protect
In the end, it's always a choice to stay in any DV rapport. To know whatever future circumstances are always better than being abused constantly behind closed doors.
Are you a male or something?
Damnnnn this is some old school stuff right here 😅
Men are also victims. Its sad that males are not treated as victims. Male or female deserve equal treatment
D V is as old as the hills it's both sides men and women ...a horrible way to live.
Your life is always on the line it's terrible how frightening it is for the victim. More laws must be implemented more laws.
8:14 omg I have lived her words, I know he's gone but..
Shocking disgusting this was years ago imagine now so sad
WOW
This sad
Do States receive Federal money for domestic violence orders? If so would it be in the States interest and the people employed by such money wish to end domestic violence or receive more money next year?
Yes they have DV shelters!! !!!
Good question!? 🙋♀️ 😊
Parents talk to your child I had no one to explain boys don't hit so I thought after the first hit it would be OK but I was so stupid I married him at 18 hadn't been married 3 months got jersey by my hair throwed to floor yes I left more then,once but he always cried the physical and mental abuse after 25 years I couldn't take it i,finally divorced I talk to my,grandkids both boys and girls because a boy can be abused
28:44 Ladies end your DV relationship NOW, the cycle never ends!
Look at this poor lady! You don’t want to deal with that at her age or any age!
4:46,maybe because you LIED...they arent mind readers....
36:10,SMDH...why would you KEEP spitting out kids like a gumball machine KNOWING he isnt right🥴🥴🥴🙄🙄🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️,no accountability
I'm a man and even I know this is a real dumb and idiotic comment that don't even deserve an answer, but let's see if I can help you figure it out for yourself. Do you think a female who's being beat up has control over when or how she has sex with the abuser? And birth control takes money or access to benefits. But you knew all this. You just want to have any reason to blame the female. You're a sad excuse
Rape inside of a marriage maybe the abuser messing with your birth control maybe the abuser taking the condom off and not telling you and then laughing at you while you’re crying maybe you being the devil if you wanna get a abortion maybe
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