Jazz’s Brother Sander Is Going On A Date With A Trans Woman | I Am Jazz
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- Опубликовано: 11 мар 2022
- While Jazz tries to get used to her new diet plan, Sander expresses how he feels about going on a date with a trans woman he met online.
From season 7 episode 3.
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Honestly fights like this over food and how much you did or didn't eat is probably only going to reinforce eating issues not make them better
@@yolandaduran6915 Pay attention! That's what she's been doing. She needs intervention. And take this seriously. " a BOX of donuts? " Get real.
Exactly what will happen. My mom used to make comments about my eating. Did it help me? No. Now I have an eating disorder and hide food. I wait until night when my mom is out of the room and eat in my car.
I hope she is working with an ED treatment team (RD and therapist who specialize in ED.
How would you approach the situation?
👍.
Why did Jazz have to apologize ? Why didn't Ari lmao it's not Jazz's fault Ari misread what she was doing.
Exactly!
Because Jazz is constantly lying about what she eats and Ari and the rest of the family are afraid of how big can she get.
Because jazz was being an AH she didn’t have to respond the way she did.
@@Marz859 tbf jazz said she wasn't eating and her sister "confiscated" the bowl and ignored her, saying repeatedly that "we're not eating now". if the sister had have just listened in the first place and said something like "okay, put it out of the way/put it in the fridge/put a lid on it", it would have been better. you can't help someone without communicating with them at all. jazz wasn't an arsehole at all in this situation.
@@Marz859 I don't really see how Jazz was being an ahole. She only asked where the butter was, and Ari just flew off the handle and started yelling at her about eating. It escalated pretty quickly. Then somehow, it became Jazzs fault and she was required to apologize. I wouldn't have.
The family is full of bullies. Jazz shouldn’t have to answer to everyone. I feel so bad for Jazz.
The best part (or worse part) is the family is so against trans 🏳️⚧️ bullies but they bully that poor boy over food……that’s unacceptable
@@browneyedgirl4285Exactly! I’m sorry but trans ideology is so toxic! Look at Jazz! So unhappy.
@@browneyedgirl4285 who and what are you talking about
@@jimmiekookie3857 the poor boy is was being badgered in the kitchen by his family, weight gain can be reversed, but the poor kid can’t get his ding a ling back
If jazz was able to think for himself, he would have never been transgender.
Being a recovering addict…this is really heartbreaking. She needs real help. The food itself isn’t the issue.
The issue is the obsession to be what Jazz will never be: a woman.
no shit they cut his dick off
@@champigranja1179Exactly!!
This family has SERIOUS issues...the mom is toxic, she instigates all of it!
It’s clear lol
@@thephilosopher5799 Crystal! Sometimes I think she used to be a man as well...very manly features...
Yes
Codependence
@@LoveDeluxe89 Then how she get 4 children with her features if she used to be a man?
She said she wasn’t eating it ☹️ yet they still made her apologize. She was misunderstood.
Yeah she needs to get away from her family immediately!
They are watching out for her!!! she will die if she’s keeps eating at this rate!
She shouldn't be eating butter
Omg. So tragic
@@justinduran1 fr. And she's full of crap. She eats nonstop so it was fair to assume. And she soaked the pasta with butter in the end.
This family is completely toxic. The mom destroyed their life. I would lawyer up and sue the mom for everything and cut all ties
yup Sachin had the right idea.
Lmaoooooo
Wao this family is not helping at all by just talking about her weight. Eating disorders start that way
Their dad's a lawyer😂😂
@@nicoleallen6792😂😂😂 😉
The way they sat around the table and spoke about the amount of butter she put on her pasta makes me so so angry, she’s brave enough to be so open about her struggles and they can’t take her seriously or treat her with any respect
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Jazz is suffering because of being trans. Why can’t you people just open up your eyes! It all started when she went on hormone blockers at age 12. 🤯🤯
Hey, if one of my siblings had gained over 100lbs I would be concerned too. Obesity boosts risk of death.
So refreshing to hear Grandpa say "Let's respect that," when Jazz said she was tired of talking about food and weight stuff... Not something I can remember I've heard in any of these (many) conversations on the topic, but something it would likely benefit Jazz to hear more often.
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i can't imagine how difficult it would be to have millions of eyes on my family bombarding me about my diet that seems so fucking damaging i
Don't broadcast your lives then, easy. I have nobody watching my every move, it sounds like a nightmare. Also people have the right to comment whatever they believe, the internet ain't a 'safe space', it's real life on speed.
@@Channel66678 trans women are women, so he's straight, that isn't being bisexual, and although it's unusual for someone so young at 5 to have been diagnosed it's not out there for a kid to know themselves better than their parents, jazz seems to be happy as a girl and has been living as her preferred gender, the real shame of their parenting was not controling her eating habits enough and teaching her nutrition to the point that she needs all this external help to lose weight
They do this for money. They can’t complain about being judged when they put their entire life on display. It is what it is.
@@dingo1666 yep.
@@spartan1347981 While I completely respect the rights of trans people, Trans women are trans women. Lets not erase biological women here, there is room for everyone to co-exist.
The Grandma's face expression always cracks me up lol😂!
Me too 🤣😂😂😊
Jewish females are so beautiful.
Her eyes
Her eyes look like shes a baby goat😂
This is so sad to watch. You can see he feels rejected by his family and just wants acceptance. What his parents did to him is sooooo beyond evil.
@Kelli Garcia: They have been controlling her and psychologically abusing her for years. I thought it was just the mom but its her whole family. What's up that sister?
Jazz being transgender, I'm not going to hold that against him bcuz it's not his fault.....his freaking parents
So he goes off to date and have sex with another man? Yea ok. 🤣😂 I see why they rejected his qss
A tablespoon of butter is not a "small tiny serving"
@@miguelcorleone6633 you're right but honestly i see a downfall on him poor guy.
That sister is being an overbearing food police to Jazz. My family did that to me after my wls and it was SO TRIGGERING. No one seems to be Jazz's advocate. They are all just trying to control her and don't seem to care about her emotions.
And then having Jazz the one to apologize, its so triggering that she doesnt realize nor does anyone else makes her her sister realize how controlling she is and her family is encouring it. Poor Jazz
All of their lives have revolved around Jazz's emotions. All siblings are tired of it and Jazz still acts like a child who needs limits.
Who cares dum dums
Okay but her eating habits are so bad and such a huge contributor to the extreme amount of weight she’s gained in a short period. She’s still not losing weight and enough is enough. Stop coddling her. That’s the problem.
@@orders69pizzas30 no her problem is she has an eating disorder and putting the focus on the food shes consuming rather than also taking her mental health and thoughts into consideration alongside the food is only gonna put her onto another eating disorder. eating disorders are about both the thoughts AND the food just focusing on the food isnt gonna help her recover
Jazz’s eating disorder is one that no one in the family understands. This isn’t solely a weight loss journey, this isn’t solely about food. If anything, it’s barely about food. It’s about emotional compulsion and comfort. I recovered from anorexia myself, and went through a large phase of binge eating a while after being recovered. My experience with my eating disorder was never really about hating food or being really obsessed with food, it was about a toxic connection to food in my brain. I’ve been in Jazz’s spot and I feel for her.
7:54 the most exercise she’s gonna get in a while lmaoooo 😂😂😂
Jazz's binge eating could be the result of brain damage due to puberty blockers.
@calendarphotoscamera1 Canuck I think both males and females can have eating disorders
@@eneedham789 his parents really screwed him up. By putting that kid on a TV show as a transgender at a young age they pretty much locked him in to that identity. I think his parents should be convicted of child abuse.
@@user-mb4se6km5p yeah, I definitely agree.
Jazz seems like a really nice person and so accepting and accommodating of everyone around her.
This is so triggering even for me. Nobody’s there for her, nobody’s listening to her and nobody believes her. Jazz is strong to not cry after being attacked morons that her siblings are. What a truly difficult life Jazz is facing.
Jazz please run away from this family, it will help better your mental health.
That's because Jazz has been lying all this time. She lied about hiding food in her room, she lied about eating junk food every time she went out. Jazz is a food addict and she acts just like any addict. Trust is hard to get.
That's true. I don't believe her either. She was definitely putting all that butter in her bowl and eating before dinner time.
The thumbnail really had me thinking the brother was dating the grandma 💀 (I don’t know the show too well so I didn’t know she was the grandma b4 I watched it)
🤣😂
7:54 the most exercise she’s gonna get in a while lmaoooo 😂😂😂
same 😭
Her sister was out of line. Hurtful and allowed that argument to continue to chastise her. Jazz is grown. She can eat when she wants without embarrassing her in front of everyone
She has certainly grown... sideways
@@esval3054 🤣
Grown is moved out and then she can worry about what she eats there. Jazz was hovering too much around the damn food. Try cooking with someone always scarfing food off.
She needs to lose weight for her health smh … you can’t enable someone when they need help. The next time you will see her is on 600 pound life if they don’t help her.
True, but remember that Jazz ASKED for his family’s support, so if they see that he’s about to consume unhealthy food, they’re gonna love him enough to tell him not to eat it.
Not only the mother messed jazz up she messed all her children up.
I'm really wondering if that's not the truth. She's just too controlling of the show, of her family and specifically Jazz. Off topic, I just read that Jennings isn't even their real last name. They are hiding that. And I read their last name is really long and Jewish. Also, they all have gotten educated at Ivy League schools...that's interesting....
@@trishannbell5508 we may really never know the truth. But if jazz is really not wanting to be transgender anymore, what I don't get he protests alot for transgenders and he's always having his pics all over the media flaunting himself. As far as I can tell he doesn't really regret being transgender.
Narcissist
Those parents should be arrested for child abuse
If I were Jazz, I’d be crying after that. I know the family wants to help, but they are being so controlling, and downright mean sometimes. Why did Jazz need to apologize? She does, asks Ari for a hug and Ari said “like that will change anything.” I wish I could give Jazz a hug - I feel so bad for her. I’ve always fought my weight, and it’s embarrassing and very personal - I can’t imagine everyone around me policing me all the time! She’s obviously a strong woman, though, and she’s handling it all very well.
I agree. Ari had to apologize to Jazz for misunderstanding why she put the pasta aside. Idk I don’t really see a supportive sister, rather a controlling one. I feel bad for Jazz. Eating disorders are horrible and take such a toll on your mental health
My ex boyfriend (at the age of 68 (me) and 70 (him) measured my food with his eyes as I’d take my plate…then said “you gonna EAT all that?!” It made me get up after he’d fall asleep and go try to find something sweet. I’d call him the “food police” and he just didn’t get it even after I told him many times how it made me feel. We weren’t even living together, and there’s no way I ever would’ve married him, in fact it was huge reason among many that I broke up with him after two yrs of him not stopping his annoying habits of irritating me. I’d rather be lonely than irritated! By the way, after we broke up I lost 55 pounds all by myself. 45 more to go, and no one here to stress me out over something as simple as the size of the items on my plate!
@@retalbtaylor370 congratulations on that for both leaving the toxic relationship and also eating better and losing weight great job!!
@@retalbtaylor370 nice!! Take care of you for YOU! I bet he’s eating his words now!
Strong woman? She comes across as childish. Immature.
If my family acted like this around food I'd have an eating disorder too. Maybe the elder sister should see a therapist for her control issues.
Yeah she really does. She was dramatically nuts.
Micromanagement always backfires. They need to just be supportive and have patience. Let her come around and take baby steps. Just support her. She's an adult and she'll figure it out. ❣️
She needs a therapist to help deal with the eating disorder, forcing herself to diet and eat extra healthy won't help her addiction so even if she does lose weight shell relapse for not getting professional help for her ED
NO!! Jazz is suffering because of being trans. Why can’t you people just open up your eyes! It all started when she went on hormone blockers at age 12. 🤯🤯Even Jazz admitted to all this. Jazz is unhappy!
@@spartan1347981 NO!! Can’t you see? Eating disorders are a coping mechanism for underlying mental health issues and things not going right in your life! Jazz is suffering because of being trans. Why can’t you people just open up your eyes! It all started when she went on hormone blockers at age 12. 🤯🤯Even Jazz admitted to all this. Jazz is unhappy!
Unbelievable abuse of this poor girl by her entire family, heart breaking.
Why cause they want her to be healthy?
All would be avoided if that kid wasn't brainwashed since youth
What a dumb comment. So you want her to keep getting obese to a point where she ends up regretting?
@@federalinvestigation9962 amen
Boy
I can’t imagine being overweight in a family of thin people. Being overweight is difficult enough w/o living in a home full of people who don’t understand obesity.
…she doesn’t HAVE to live with her family. She could act like the adult she is and manage her own way but chooses not to.
She could just move out
Lol I have been their , boy have iv ever and it's not fun..... A week after delivering my baby my family started hounding me because it was the first time that I was ever overweight. Well one day Durning a family dinner I stood up and screamed " what am I a monster ,thats how y'all make me feel". No one said a thing so I picked up my baby and went home. Nothing more was said about my weight ever again and I loss the weight on my terms, when I was ready ....
@@R.M.3.14 she actually does for the show, or there's no family dynamic. She is acting her age, she's just going through a rough patch rn, maybe show compassion.
Being in a home with obese people isn't any better when you'll enable each other.
I find this all very performative
Very much so
How is this different than 98% of other tv shows
@@ragebait988 like most reality tv shows?
You are correct. It really is.
So true the agenda pushing is over the top
Poor Jazz. This isn’t the first snippet that I’ve seen where her family is being completely overbearing and just flat out mean about what she eats. It was so upsetting to see her whole family gang up on her and then make HER apologize after Ari treated her the way that she did. I understood what Jazz was doing, I would have done the same thing as well if I wanted butter on my portion. Ari was being the jerk and should have absolutely apologized. Nobody was listening to Jazz and instead just ganging up on her and making her apologize for something she didn’t even do (and even if she had, who cares?!). I hope she realizes that she did nothing wrong, but the hug tells me she blames herself :(
In the kitchen Sander stood there, giving Jazz orders and monitoring them to make sure they hug, then laughing when Ari said "like that will change anything" making the camera look away. In the kitchen and during dinner the mom first steadied herself, just trying to process the fight, then during dinner looked a little shocked after her brother, sitting next to her, started playing with her food and making comments about it. Despicable. All of them. It's one thing trying to change and failing, because you will get there with trial and error, and it's another watching that person, not helping but instead just wanting the right to complain, adding fuel to the dumpster fire.
Jazz was totally in the right. I haven’t seen much of this show but her siblings seem so rude in every clip I’ve seen. I really wish she had a kinder support system.
Probably because they r already tired of dealing with her everyday.
If u watch the series, her whole family actually are wonderful and supportive people, this scene doesn't portray the usual dynamics..
They are the most supportive family of her ..
Her poor siblings have been pushed to the back their whole lives bc their parents put jazz first. Get real.
@@ifcarvalho168 Amen. I think they are at their wits end with Jazz. Ever since the botched surgery it has been a struggle
Ari could’ve minded her damn business. If she wants to eat let her snack. The manipulative controlling and then gaslighting is upsetting
Totally. Ari seems controlling saying she doesn't like when people eat while cooking. Most people snack while cooking. I know I do.
Watching your sister gain 100 pounds in a year. And be at high risk for heart disease , high cholesterol high blood pressure. And could have many serious completations. And maybe Ari was asked to help her lose weight. Maybe she wants her sister to live a long happy life. And the way Jazz is heading that not going happen. And jazz is acting like a spoil child...
Making her feel guilty about wanting food won't change the behaviour, it will just stigmatise it further and make her feel worse. If they weren't constantly policing what she ate and reminding her that she needs to lose weight, she could focus on something else and not have food on her mind all the time. The worst thing you can do to someone with an ED is constantly reminding them about food, it just triggers them to binge. I hope Jazz can work through whatever she is going through, she needs to find something that makes her happy and stop trying to please everyone else.
She’s too fat to be using butter on her own plate specifically anyways
I'm sorry, but the grand mothers facial expressions are hilarious
The grandparents in this show are hysterical lol
This is just so sad, he is just such a sad unhappy guy. The parents are abusive and should be jailed for ruining their kids. Truly can not stand the mother, What a moron.
When she says she is sick of talking about her weight and the camera goes to her sister and she has this twisted smile on. Way to get pleasure out of someone’s pain.
She looked almost mad that the grandfather said they would respect Jazz not wanting to discuss her weight anymore. Like she was expecting them keep going in on her.
@@robinbrown2256 They really hate her, I believe the mom’s exploitation of Jazz made them develop resentment towards her.
@@robinbrown2256 that’s 100% how I read her face 😳 she wanted the dogpiling to continue!
@@Keralasha444 agreed - she looked like she was seething under the surface 😳
That doesn't make any sense, though. Why would she resent Jazz for something that was done to her ?? Jazz is a victim.
Ari is a jerk. She said, I don't like when people *eat* while we're making food. SHE WASN'T EATING, control freak 🤦🏽♀️ she started a *whole* argument over something that hasn't happened 😂.
Guilty before innocent right? 😂
Because I bet EVERY time someone is cooking in that house, Jazz comes around to steal whatever ingredients she can. 🐷
@@esval3054 🤣🤣
And why was Jazz made to apologize?
@@robinbrown2256- Jazz appears to be the soft spoken, kind hearted one. Sometimes, people feel the need to draw the 'power play' card, to feel a sense of control, and the easiest way to do that, is to pick on the least confrontational person involved.
that’s her sister. i always have to remind my sister to stop eating so many carbs. she thanks me later. i’m not even as nice as ari. 😂
What a screwed up family! All confused by the narcissistic adults!! 😢
Why are her family so comfortable humiliating her? It’s bad enough she’s doing this journey on camera but her family bombarding her with comments and conversations about her weight is only doing more harm than good. I don’t understand how that don’t see it as overwhelming and unhelpful
Edit: Y’all are heartless. I get it, it’s annoying seeing people with weight issues struggle with being consistent but it’s hard for them too. It’s an addiction. They are trying everyday even with the constant shame and unwanted attention. And it’s “SHE”, not “him”
7:54 the most exercise she’s gonna get in a while lmaoooo 😂😂😂
His family insulting based on his weight is awful, no one should be shamed for how much they weight. Especially not this nice looking gentleman.
@@BreakingBadBeauty *her
He needs a reality check. If he doesn't change his lifestyle his going to die
@@katieh890 that is a man.
Love how the grandma is the skinniest of them all 😂
Well that’s kinda what happens to your body as you get older
@@silenceisbetterthannonsense It depends on the person, it's normal to gain weight with menopause and not lose it. I know old people as skinny as her, but also old people who are fat now but used to be thin.
With crossed eyes
@@silenceisbetterthannonsense actually its the opposite
The gran has had almost the same amount of work done on her face as jazz on her body
Love the grandparents, so genuine and honest
His family loves having control over him and bossing him around!
It UPSETS me to see how everyone is dismissing why Jazz is mad and not realizing whats going on. She had a bit right to be upset. Also for her brother to say that her sister is "in charge" of her meals is absolutely unhealthy. He said the word "in charge" meaning she has control. This makes Jazz feels like she has no say in what she can eat. Also her sister for not even letting her take a bite and making her wait. This is mentally unhealthy and triggering to see that they dont realize(more for someone who struggles mentally with food). You have to let Jazz have some control or have a say. Instead of controlling her, they should be guiding her and not push it
You're right but I also understand the family. They are tired of Jazz's promises to be healthy, they're tired of her asking for help and then sneaking junk food into her room. But most of all, they are worried about how big can she get. She has enough health issues already.
She's huge now. She needs help
@@esval3054
You seem to forget that it’s her parents fault all this is happening, They have abused her since she was a small child by forcing her to take hormones and testosterone blockers. Is it really any surprise that she has health problems.
she didnt even bother listening to jazz and just immeadiatley assumed what she was doing and got upset jazz wasnt even gonna eat it she was preparing it for when they sat down and ate wouldve taken her 2 seconds to actually ask rather than assume and get mad
Well she is 21, an adult. She could move out and do what she wants there. So immature.
I truly feel for Jazz. She’s lectured by all of her family. If you watch you can see it. They push blame on her for her unhappiness when they have a huge hand in it all! She needs to get away from them for a bit and get her breath. It’s so difficult to live under their thumbs.
She has really ballooned. She could come down with diabetes, neuropathy and numerous other illnesses. So yes her family has right to be concerned.
@@paulamischanko2376 it doesn’t matter. This will not work. They are cruel. She’ll soon pull away more and never return. She’ll end up truly hurting herself even more.
@@paulamischanko2376 her family can be concerned but that’s as far as their right goes.
She needs to go no contact they are emotionally abusive
I agree
It's honestly crazy to me that this has been filmed for this long and publicised for the world to see. Jazz is going to have some real realization of a huge amount of trauma if the film crews can ever stop following this family.. Never liked family channels or publicly documenting kids to start, but this is next level. Her parents are so abusive. Jazz seems like a very strong and amazing woman though. I hope she can get away from the cameras, and get the help and support she needs. ❤️
And he has been shielded from the real world and only around people that affirm his beliefs. In the real world, Jazz would struggle to cope with the intense pressure.
To look on the Grandma's face when he says he's going to date a transgender priceless!!!!!
😂😂😂
She was like: dear lord, not again.
I love Jazz's grandparents. They're adorable
They are the only normal folks in that family
What’s up with her grandmas eyes?
@@silvergirl7810 (•)(.)
They went cross eyed when Jazz claimed she’s a woman
@@stinkyfingers1617 💀😭
Despite all the negativity from the family, I have to give kudos to the grandparents. I know it must be tough to try and understand some thing that you don’t necessarily agree with, but they are doing a wonderful job at being accepting.
They should've rescued Jazz from her narcissist mother at a young age.
What were the grandparents supposed to say when the cameras are rolling?
One of the most dysfunctional familys. So much repressed anger .
Well, imagine how the siblings feel. Jazz has gotten all the parents'attention since she was born. It's obvious that they feel jealous and angry.
This family is determined to end its own blood line.
it's crazy that ari started this and it's jazz that begs for hugs and apologizes
It’s that whole scenario with family of why some people end up hiding when they eat and binge eat. because they have to hurry and eat before someone sees them so they don’t get comments like that she literally put pasta in a little bitty bowl and they flipped their sh!t.
You do realize a little can turn into more ik because I binge eat because I'm depressed over my dad passing away.
@@ZionDoesMakeup I understand where you are coming from. Though I also agree with Tiffany. They were controlling her every move. They are making her take a big leap. Handling anyone that has an unhealthy relationship with food isnt just about the person to eliminate everything or add everything to their meals(losing or gaining healthy weight). Minor TRIGGER WARNING****Its like someone who is really underweight, you cant just give them everything to eat at once. It takes baby steps and not have everyone on to.you for every little thing you do and it seems like her family wasnt understanding where she was coming from.
Also, my condolences. Your father will always be your guardian angel 🤍
The only one who is responsible for Jazz's actions is Jazz. But it's easier to blame her family.
Idk. Maybe don't over eat then. Find something else to do. Munch on low cal food. Or drink water.
@@legendaryfails7529 Thats like saying to a person with depression "maybe don't be sad". She most likely has an unhealthy relationship with food. Atleast what they have showed us about her binge eating, it has to do with her mental health. They don't seem to give her a say in her eating. Im not saying she should eat the same but she also needs a say in her food. Give her options instead of just having them take full control. Reduce, not just take away everything she is used to eat.
I love these grandparents. Though they themselves have “traditional” beliefs, they ALWAYS express LOVE. ❤
They’re horrible parents and grand parents to create such sick environment. Better they didn’t procreate
Traditional beliefs can come from a place of love
Poor Jazz has been exploited and used by her fame hungry mother and idiot father. The child made a decision that she was unable to make, while in front of the world. She became the poster child for transgender children and was held up as a role model. That kind of pressure and responsibility is too much for most adults. Imagine a child/ teen. They are lucky she is only exhibiting her discomfort with an eating disorder and not sleeping pills or a gun. She is building a protective layer around herself since her body and sexuality has become a money making spectacle. Is anything in this world private and not for sale.
Well he's getting into Harvard thanks to all this. He didn't have to put in the work others do to get into Harvard
@@Afmedic85
Sadly you are right. Hopefully the pressure is not too much for
Jazz to deal with
@@Afmedic85 stop misgendering her on purpose, seriously what the fuck
@@Afmedic85 SHE got into Harvard for her grades and hard work, SHE deserves it.
@@SofiaSB-eb5jh No, she/he got in because of her 'tran' issues
they love humiliating jazz.. like the way janet laughs and ari is smiling @ 5:52 is telling.
Thank you
These People and Family are Completely Koo Koo! Wooow! God Have Mercy on their Souls Amen
The constant scrutiny in front of the whole world. Honestly i don't know how she gets through the day. She has no one to turn to.
He may be castrated, but he is still a male
JESUS CHRIST IS ALL HE NEEDS
BOO HOO WOE IS ME
Bro goes on a date with a man with a wig and still claims to be straight smh 🙄
yup, he's gay.
I know right, come on dude just come out of the closet already
the whole family is delusional
Sander likes the peepee
Exactly. He’s gay n needs to admit it 😂
Her sister is so mean, when you are rude in helping someone with anything it prevents them from understanding and loving themselves. She might have nutrition down but Jazz is way more beautiful and sweet, which will always win.
We honestly don’t know what really happens behind closed doors. Jazz could be really annoying and hard headed hell who knows but I get where you’re coming from
I’m pretty sure jazz has been asking her siblings to help with her diet. I wouldn’t make her a villain for a short clip.
😂🤣
*Is HIS brother TRANSGENDER, too 🤔?*
Mean how? Just because she's telling Jazz not to have butter? She's just realistic. Jazz is losing it and is literally destroying her health.
Bizarre how no-one is linking hormone medications to Jazz' weight gain and health problems.
She’s been on hormones since 11
@@Meccaone17 right? Like, if they were gonna affect her weight they would've done so sooner since she was on estrogen since 14.
This show is disgusting and the parents should be in jail especially the mom
All the comments about weight. It’s not that easy to reverse eating habits. I struggled for years. Be easy. She’ll do it.
It's honestly so hard, my habits aren't that bad either but i always go back to them.
Thank u people do this to me all the time
@@mim4371 you’ll do it doll. In your own time ☺️
I Agree
*HE’LL do it.*
The amount of drama they're making over her adding butter is blantantly intentional by the producers which is hilarious imho. This woman does need to lose fat though, she's too big for her health.
@@Emzzz78 please, for the love of god, shut up.
@@Emzzz78 the crime here is still thinking jazz isn't a woman, her body isn't confused, it's not a crime to give trans affirming healthcare, and they would've been letting her down had they forced her to live as a boy all throughout puberty especially after she was formally diagnosed at 5. She probably just overeats, nothing more to it
@C. Ray Yes, yes he is C. Ray
@@ecksdee6463 em is speaking facts tho, replacing your body's natural hormones and throwing off the balance is 100% linked to health issues including dangerous obesity. it's important to be aware of so people like jazz can know from the start how to better offset that and protect their physical health. you only get one body
@@taylorfrink1182 source?
I think Jazz's eating disorder stemmed from transitioning to early, causing her to stress eat.
We can't say for sure why her eating disorder developed, the fact that it did after her srs could be indication that maybe that's not what she truly wanted, maybe it was the trauma from the complications and needing a revisionist surgery and 2 further aesthetic surgeries afterwards. Many people get post surgery depression when having major procedures, it's probably not something that's talked about enough
I lost a ton of weight because I did the real work cut mayo butter anything with alot of preservatives cus they have choke sugar. But holy moly jazz does not look like the same person.
Tbf yeah a better diet is helpful, but jazz has an eating disorder, she needs a therapist to return to at least regular eating patterns, that will help lose weight in of itself
I believe jazz tbh, they were all up in her business
Because they care get over it
I feel they always attack her
@@silverfox5030 Sometimes being attacked can help people ik it has worked for me
@@ZionDoesMakeup yeah but you aren’t on National tv though, like imagine how embarrassed she probably feels?? 😕
Especially being it’s already a controversial show and she gets hate for being trans…. 😞
I feel like her family really does be coming at her too much about her weight cause i know i wasn’t the only one who seen them eating pieces of the pasta too yet there’s complaining that she put a lil to the side.Plus, her weight shouldn’t be a topic at the dinner table. Clearly she is trying to eat more healthily but with all them ganging up on her like they do I wouldn’t see how she could even do anything to help herself.
I mean it is unhealthy
She has made it the entire storyline for the show. She has asked her family for help with her diet on like every episode before this… you can’t get mad at people for trying to help when you’ve asked for help. She also does need to lose weight. It’s not healthy at all.
@@emma2370 this doesn’t help anyone lose weight though. from a personal pov, when you hound someone like this and humiliate them it just makes them start eating in private and binge eating because they don’t want to hear the comments and the berating. there are a small amount of people who actually take this and end up losing weight, but even then you’re probably creating issues for some people who lose the weight but not very healthily and keep up the unhealthy habits.
THERES LITERALLY NOTHING ON THE PASTA LIKE NO SAUCE ITS JUST PASTA WHAT IS THAT
Wow, I am pleasantly surprised. These grandparents have really matured and opened up over the years. When you look back on how they related to Jazz in her earlier years, it was painful.
7:54 the most exercise she’s gonna get in a while lmaoooo 😂😂😂
what were their views before?
@@catrocks93 it's hard to say exactly what their views have been and we only see what's on the show. But it's been years of them being judgemental, critical, dismissive and unkind towards Jazz, not only about her gender but her as a person. And then doing what many do - say they love you unconditionally while constantly making you feel unsupported and bad. I think one could say lots of microaggressions.
So it's really great to see them not bring their own opinions to the forefront (as usual) and appear to be supportive.
They got lobotomized by this nonsense
They need to cut her some slack. She's been through wY more than any of them. She just needs a break or two . Let her process these last couple of years and I think if they back off a bit they will see her strength and power sore . SHE HAS GOT THIS , SHE IS A STRONG YOUNG WOMAN. SHE IS JAZZ AND SHE Can GET Through IT ALL
That's no excuse to stop looking after yourself and getting unhealthy
She asks them for help constantly! You can’t ask for help and then get mad when people try to help you.
@@emma2370 yes, you can when they are mean about it. You can say anything you want to say . Her feelings matter . Help is great but when you have a tude behind the help that's something else
7:54 the most exercise she’s gonna get in a while lmaoooo 😂😂😂
@@zazasworld8377 What about the rest of the family's feelings? They have always been there for Jazz but she is entitled and throws tantrums like a small child.
Both the guys are GORGEOUS and ADORABLE. I can’t even with the puppy eyes and lashes.
4:10 the look on his GRANDMOTHER face is priceless 🤣😂😂😂🤣🤣
😂😂😂
Brother is 100 percent jealous of his wierd sister, trying to prove something lol
😂😂😂
That whole family is crazy
Having a sibling with weight issues....they already know and need self motivation, want to eat healthier. No one can encourage someone enough. Has to come from within.
Definitely, she really needs a therapist that specialises in eating disorders rather than being forced on a diet
The whole family looks like one person, they look so much alike
Cross eyed grandma stole the show for me. Couldn't pay attention to anything else 🤣😂
Glad you said it 😆
Only reason I clicked.🤣
Shes crazy looking omfg im sorry but damn
@@catebartley9865 super rude and ableist
👩⚖️ 🔥 hell
Her siblings constantly being in her and talking down go her does more damage than good. She may be making mistakes or bad judgments, but there is more to this than simply overeating. They are adding to the emotional part of emotional eating
Amen. There needs to be more emphasis on developing appropriate coping skills such as a consistent exercise (something like walking a dog twice a day) rather than taking away the emotional eating.
Jazz's siblings have taken a back seat to Jazz since at least Jazz was five.
Crazy how sensitive you gotta be around these people lol
Seems like Jazz’s family has resorted to food shamming and bullying. I have a problem with that. It’s mean and not helpful.
if everyone was yelling at me like that I'd start swinging idc I'm so lucky I don't have siblings
Jazz, I can totally relate. I was bingeating and gaining so much weight after my parents divorce in high school, I didn’t even recognize myself. I support you 100%
She shouldn’t have to apologize and her sister dragged it talking about “i don’t like when people eat when we’re cooking it’s rude”. Girl byeeeee 😂
I seriously could never imagine my weight/eating disorder being the butt of every joke, the topic of every conversation on national television like OMG! I would be sick with depression 🤢. I feel for Jaz.
Poor Jazz, I'd be tired of being the main focus of everyone. Lot of pressure for one person.
This is what happens when you allow a child who isn't emotionally developed to cut it's body parts
That’s a horrible thing to say
@@bbyshark1354 Telling the truth is never a horrible thing when you mutilate a child now that's a horrible thing
I have struggled with my weight all my life, I'm in my 40s and I was told by my family when I was younger that I had to stop eating certain foods etc. You cannot bully people into losing weight. It will happen when they are ready. Being nasty to someone over food they eat is very abusive and it doesn't help
💯!!!
Do you think it’s an excuse for not being stick to a healthy diet? If it’s something deeper, like stress and some psychological troubles, then works that out. Blaming on her own suffering and keep eating is not a solution, it’s just she’s letting herself slip down the hill. And, only her knew that whether she tried or not.
What happen when “when I’m ready” doesnt come an the person dies or in a coma bc they couldn’t stop gourging themselves?
No. Fat people need to be pressured to change their habits. There is nothing acceptable being a fat person.
When were you ready?
Jazz is just a person thats full of drama. Plus shes been getting what she wants from the beginning.
jazz shouldn't have apologised in this situation imo. ari misread the situation and ignored jazz when she repeatedly said that she wasn't eating, just putting a portion aside. if anyone was to apologise, it should have been ari because she didn't communicate with jazz at all, she just assumed the worst of her and made it a big deal. making a big deal about food is so counter productive when dealing with someone who has an eating disorder - whether you're making a big deal out of what is being eaten, when, how much, etc.. it just further distorts the psychological response to food. it seems like ari's personality is a little bit controlling (not necessarily in a negative way) but she should bear in mind that everyone she talks to is different, and an approach like this can be interpreted incredibly negatively by some.
Yeah… this family is totally happy and normal 🙄
To be honest no family is perfect and everyone has their issues. But underneath it all they have each other’s back
I’d put butter on that dry, plain pasta too
“The noodles are drowning!” And I am laughing!
That pasta looks horrid.
Coming from a true Italian American that pasta looks very dry like eczema.😂
It's insane how they actually think they're helping her.
Grandma reminds me of a lil bird 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
Poor grandma’s eyes. There’s no way she can see well…
The family is not down with him dating a trans woman, their body language says it all lol
@@DsaherGuy and or for the attention that can make him money.
@@DsaherGuy wth are you talking about. This guy is extremely good looking and intelligent, I’m sure he can get any girl he wants so bye…
It's because they did conversion therapy on Jazz. They didn't want a gay son, so they guided him into being a "trans woman" instead. Their son dating a trans identifying male has them worrying about homosexual vibes all over again.
@@yanco1279 Love isn't a market. Attraction isn't a market either.
Changing your diet is hard. Responsible eating is hard. Coming from the other side of the spectrum I definitely feel for her. It still is challenging for me to eat regular and sizeable meals and while I'm not underweight anymore I'm still thin and it is still a journey but what I learned is that people criticizing your every move won't help
Parents are completely nuts
The family is being rude and not listening to a word that jazz was saying she said that she was NOT EATING and no one was listening.
That was all over some butter…. I think jazz just needs to move out and have space from her family. It would actually improve her mental & physical health not being monitored and watched by her family 24/7. Can’t believe how judgemental they are with her eating habits
Yea they bringing her down big time
"I like solo interviews more" I laughed so loud at that 😂
‘I love you’
‘ that doesnt really change anything’
😂😂😂😂😂
They control Jazz so much I bet that when she eats she feels in control.