Jazz Shocked - Old Fling Came To Her Event With New Girlfriend! | I Am Jazz
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- Опубликовано: 4 мар 2022
- Jazz's family is trying to get Jazz to come out more so they throw an event to help her get out of her shell. However, the last thing she expects is her old fling to come there with a new girlfriend!
From season 7 episode 2.
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I can't imagine dealing with depression in front of the whole damn world.
He's been through worse. He got his penis inverted and his testicles castrated.
Jazz your very BEAUTIFUL the meds are the reason why your gaining weight especially depression meds. I gained 40 pounds on meds stop taking them and you'll start losing weight
Well it's sad but she doesn't have to be on t.v showing the world her every move so it's her choice
people being doing every day u just never know
That’s because she cares more about the money
If they truly cared about her health both mental and physical they would try to end this show. It's like when they try to "help " her it's like a plot line for the show. She needs to get away from them...
I don’t think you understand the amount of pressure she puts on herself. It is NOT her family doing so. She became a trans icon very quickly. She knows that her representation is so goddamn important to saving lives. I’m not saying that means she has to do that. But she is young and has a huge heart that is over taking her emotions I think. She for sure need a break
@@pillowtalk1925 that's the pressure her MOTHER put on to her... Her mother knew what the long game was when she was fishing around for media attention. But I agree it's a lot of pressure she doesn't need.
yep. I keep looking at this like she needs to leave them. Just get away from all of these people. I wonder if the cameras will be there while in school or what?
Jazz is an adult, and the show is about her. Her family don't have the right to stop her from being on the show. It's something she will have to decide to do for herself
1000%
What the parents, doctors, & show have done to this child's life is unacceptable.
It's about as SICK as it gets.
....and dangerous. It all starts with the enabling narcissistic mother, the father is obviously spineless . I've heard that sick mommy had planned another reality that fell through. I believed she fueled groomed/reinforced Jazz's dysphoria/delusion early on, I don't think she ever tried to get help from anybody that wouldn't support her view. The Sander kid exhibits the same characteristics, he is also being ruined, but the train wreck of Jazz masks it. Very few in the media is willing to be objective and criticise her and risk be labeled "transphobes". She wins the sick mother of all time IMO.
He chose to do this to himself.
@Emma No, she was a child when she made the decision. A child should not be taken seriously. They should have waited. We do not know if she would have wanted to stay a boy after getting a bit older. There have been cases where after they grow a bit more, they change their mind.
Gypsy Rose Blanchard in the making
It's crazy how they are ignoring the fact that her pub blockers and hormone pills are a major factor in jazzs weight gain. Plus depression.
Since she’s had bottom surgery I don’t believe she’s on blockers anymore. Hormones and antidepressants definitely contribute to weight gain tho
Puberty blockers and female hormones at 11-12 years and depression at 12 and his mother says no connection. His mother is a loon!
Nah - eating a box of donuts, three cheeseburgers at a time, etc general overeating contributed to her weight gain
I feel so bad that jazz's identity revolves around making her parents proud.
Her momma wanted to be famous and her kid is trans since 5... i mean...
Same.
This the problem with trans kids it’s all about the parents and they excuse it by saying or make it seem is the is for the sake of the kid.
Her mother pushed it, she was soooo happy to say "I am an amazing person and I have a trans child" she wants all the fame, not jazz. I often wonder, if Jazz would have been gay, instead of trans, if her mother didn't tell her, her entire life. I support HER decisions, not the mom's.
@@Dee-jq2ob it's surprising Jazz has dated boys & girls
It’s obvious that Jazz doesn’t want to be in front of people. She’s exhausted on the inside. Eventually she’s going to pull away from her family. Bless you Jazz. Hang in there.
True. I think that’s what she meant by “living for other people”. Maybe she thinks her family wants her to be this public trans advocate and Harvard grad, but maybe she just wants to live a normal life as a typical young lady?
yep and Jazz will burst and end up with the wrong people and pick up very bad habits JUST to rebel from all of them. This show is titled after Jazz but since the weight gain its been all about criticizing Jazz. Its just a mess.
Yea all that pressure on her organs must be rough
I always felt bad for how much she’s been pushed to be social. Not everyone wants to be around people and talk and that’s ok.
@@rzum81 they literally chose to be on a reality tv show, wtf are you talking about
Someone needs to check on her.
She sounds clinically depressed. The “living for others” line is what’s most concerning.
I think transitioning was a big mistake.. instead of accepting himself he changed to please others, thinking it would make him happy but it doesn't.
After all the love and support jazz should be flourishing but he's not. Either there's some complex emotions surrounding the whole thing that aren't immediately obvious, she/he's being a drama queen, or he's not really trans and living as such is furthering the depression that was always there.
This is the thing with depression, it can make you do a number of things that make you more depressed and you get stuck in a negative feedback loop. Doesn't the whole family seem a little on the spectrum? Maybe that's why jazz feels different because they don't even come across as feminine. Like yeah they look and sound feminine, but the actions and speech seems like that of a slightly feminine man.
@@paulbunyan6024 I agree. People can transition if they want to, but it should be in adulthood and only and I mean only if the person is in a right state of mind. I am hearing more and more about situations where people transitioned and were in a worse place mentally then before.
@@Linda-uo8hh and detransitioning people are often taken down off platforms or intentionally buried in feeds to not get their story out. People are so scared to talk about the fact that the population of trans went from less than 2-3% of the entire population into an explosion of new supposed trans within last 5 or so years. This many people are not naturally so, they are heavily influenced into thinking they are by media and social circles.
@@paulbunyan6024 please do not misgender her or assume that she regrets transitioning. respect her choice & pronouns. how sickening.
@@paulbunyan6024 this comment is disgusting why do you care how other people live their lives? How does it affect you in any way? i genuinely wanna know what happened to you for you to feel entitled enough to misgender, and assume her life. How weird.
The fact that she's saying she lives to please others makes me question her whole transition.. especially with how depressed she is. Makes you wonder if she regrets it. My heart goes out to her.
I watched an interview a few years ago where she said not getting the surgery would be disappointing for lots of people. They rushed into it and it didn't solve anything but the opposite.
Willing to bet she has regrets. She isn’t being allowed to be honest about he true feelings (even within herself) because everyone else is looking to her to be the “trans youth hero”, and she feels like she’ll let everyone down if she expresses what’s really on her mind. I could be wrong, but I think I’m the future, we all will hear a very different perspective from her about all of this once she finally is at the point where she’s ready to tell her truth.
@@MsKDennaetheDiva Jazz is male calling him she is fake
@soomstrategist I don't see how is satanic. I just think it's self damaging and makes people crazy.
@@esval3054 self damaging and crazy are from demons which are derived from Satan himself.
Wow it's scary how unhappy she is, even after everything.
It’s not surprising tbh. Have you seen the stats on trans people and suicide?
Because he probably isn't really trans.. their family seems high functioning autistic but doesn't know it cause they cope fine. Jazz could easily have gotten this idea in his head and been encouraged by everyone including tlc and now it's too late to even consider he might be wrong. It's documented to happen with autistic teen girls who go undiagnosed. I honestly think jazz has the characteristics and personality of the average teenage boy who has a touch of femininity. Probably just bisexual, hence how he still seemingly prefers women even as a girl.
I think his problem is instead of learning to be comfortable in his own skin he thinks he has to change things and obviously it doesn't work. Then depression hits, weight gain happens, depression hits more and then more shit happens. Rinse and repeat until you hit a major turning point or gameover yourself. The only thing you can do to make yourself happy with who you are is to do good things, whether it be for the world in general, loved ones or even for yourself. I believe jazz will need to find a good antidepressant to kickstart any real change in self perception. Once there's confidence they will be able to confidently assess what they want and who they are. I think a lot of this is based on other people's expectations. There's such thing as being too supportive.
@Paul Bunyan Anything else you want to project? I think more parents need to work on loving their children and getting help for your learning disabilities and social disorders before allowing you to use the internet and spreading the type of misinformation
@@mandyschmidt206 His response is quite reasonable. I hope more parents look at this as a cautionary tale and not cause irreparable damage to their child.
@@mandyschmidt206 keeping them grounded and not encouraging living in fantasy land, IS loving your children.
Living on tv for so long is what is truly killing her. All the comments, memes and endless bs that comes with "fame" can drag even healthiest people down. She needs to turn off the cameras and live for herself because ultimately most people wont even remember who she is in 10 years much less care if her life is destroyed from all the trauma reality tv has caused.
🎯EXACTLY!!!
Amen
She should just end the show and live for herself, and heal. She has this platform and is clearly struggling. She would probably get healthy if she stops the show
Himself
yes. shes been on television for the past decade. shes never gotten a single break. her entire life & all of her business has been laid out on the table for the world to see. the way shes had to endure being filmed when it came to her transition, most of her surgeries, weight gain problems, & a ton of other personal issues like dating is NOT fair. teenagers should be able to have some sort of privacy within their lives & this girl has absolutely NONE.
Transgender, cisgender, whatever…it’s bizarre to me how much they talk about Jazz’s genitals on this show. The penis fairy, the depth of their vagina after surgery…I would have been so humiliated talking about anything like that with my parents at 20 but none of them seem to blink an eye. The lack of boundaries is disturbing. It’s also interesting, how the transgender movement loves to say that “sex and gender are different” yet there’s all this focus on bottom surgery and genitals. 🤷🏻♀️
Omg I agree with your last sentence 100%. It’s really confusing.
Regarding their talk about her genitals, I kind of understand why they do it? They’re trying to be open about trans issues and sex positive. They think by doing this, they’ll “educate” others but in my opinion it’s just putting a lot of pressure on her and it’s unhealthy.
She tries to advocate that parents should allow children to “transition” whenever they see fit, because she transitioned at 4-5 years old…but she is the exception, not the rule. I do not believe it’s healthy to allow children to transition before they truly know themselves. It’s fine that it worked for Jazz, but one shoe does not fit all. She’s pushing this agenda that I just don’t believe should be forced on others.
I understand where you're coming from but think of it this way, if you suddenly woke up with the opposite genitals you were born with and had to have extensive surgery to switch back, you'd talk alot about it too. That's just how it feels to them.
Exactly
Sex and gender are different though, because you can’t change your sex. It confuses me too, because genitals are a part of your sex, but you can’t change your chromosomes. You can change your genitals, secondary sex characteristics (like breasts), and your hormones, but not your chromosomes… but that’s like 3/4, lol, so am I 3/4 male?? :/
As far as the genital stuff, yeah that’s not normal, at least not among me or other trans people I’ve seen. I’m open with my parents about literally everything, but not like my genitals. The thing for me is the cameras on her. Like, if you talk about that stuff behind closed doors I get it, maybe they pay her extra to talk about that? Keep the ratings up?
@@FeroxCinereoLupus
I believe that children can wear whatever they want, go by any pronoun, change their name, whatever, but just not transition with surgery (beta blockers are fine if they are 100% certain because they’re reversible. You do those at like 13).
Even if kids experiment with their gender, most of them grow out of it anyways. Even if they grow out of it, it’s important for you to believe your kid and respect their pronouns/gender/name/clothes, as they actually are happier regardless of whether they really are trans when you do these things.
Her siblings seem well intentioned, but they are not nutritionists/coaches/etc. This family is way too codependent. She needs to meet with an actual nutritionist that understands BED and work alongside her psychologist/therapist on it.
When she was younger, she seemed to enjoy having things televised, but people change and teenagers/young adults deserve privacy. It's sad that her whole journey is under a microscope and she has to be the "model minority" before just being a person. Every party and social or family event has to be LGBTQ related like it's her brand. Nothing wrong with having events like that or feeling comfortable in a community of like minded people, but it's all so forced. Gives off Target during pride month vibes.
YUP EXACTLY
But everybody else in the house skinny so maybe she should listen to them😂😂
@@JoseRamirez-et5di that's actually worse because they don't know how to relate to her and they don't understand what she's struggling with. If this was someone who gained 20 lbs and wanted to tone up, then sure, go on a run with your siblings, afoot simple healthy habits. But she gained 100 lbs in a very short amount of time and she clearly has underlying psychological challenges. That's a risky ED situation, not a diet and tone up situation.
@@JoseRamirez-et5di yes but if she has actual binge eating disorder (which it seems she does but isn’t my place to diagnose) then just listening to her family members won’t help. I have an eating disorder, which for me is a lack of eating (diagnosis is “disordered eating” because I have a sorta mix of anorexia and bulimia) and if it’s flaring up I can’t just watch my family or friends eat and go “I should do that too”. Even just the thought of eating will make me feel sick, my jaw subconsciously tightens and it feels like my tongue swells up so it feels like even if I wanted to I couldn’t get food into my mouth. It also physically stops me from feeling hungry. At one point last year I didn’t eat anything for two days, the first day all I consumed was my anxiety meds, the water needed to take them, and maybe one or two sips of water. That was it for a full 24 hours. The next day I had more water but that was again it. Even when I did eat the third day I was barely hungry. Eating disorders aren’t something you can just ignore, it takes actual work to get over them and it’s way easier with the help from professionals.
"I live for others" and that is the explains his entire story. Really really really sad.
His
@@summerwood1359 Oh yeh I forgot lol. His.
@@summerwood1359 her*
@@spartan1347981 him* you’re just as delusional as that whole family 😂
Everyone knows why Jazz is unhappy, but they are in way too deep to admit the mistakes they made. It’s ruining her..
YT is censoring the responses to this
@@lalagordo i’m glad someone else noticed
Why she is unhappy
@ŤHÄÑØŚ oh you are so heartbreakingly mis-informed my darling....i'm so sorry
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Notice how everybody in Jazz’ family doesn’t respect “her” boundaries?!? “She” said she didn’t wanna be on stage and use the microphone but still nobody cared, talked “her” down and pushed her up there…🤔 I think that is quite sad. 😢 she doesn’t get to be her own person at all
Depression is a very debilitating disease. Most people don't even know how to address the subject. I suffer with anxiety and depression myself. Often it strikes without any notice. Support from family and friends are so very important. I hope that Jazz can snap out of it. Be strong, Girl. You'll get through this. ❤
Probably because they switched the gender and all the hormones. They have to accept that not everyone will agree with it
@@janjan6661 Could be.
She never was a girl. She is a poor boy that got butchered, and now will never know pleasure and got exploited by his family for money.
I wonder why Jazz would possibly be depressed. Any alarming reasons?
@@deadguy718 LOL! I am with you on your thought train. ☺
"I live for others" I'm glad she's self aware because this whole situtation is sad and I mainly blame the mother who pushed all of this.
Jazz was a gold mine for them this is not about psychosis, it's about evil and cold exploitation of a human being.
It's bizarre to me that they made it almost seem as if it was a commercial. The one brother acts like a salesman. If any of my siblings did this I'd be defensive & feel sad too. There's a time & place for this ... the paycheck can't be THAT good.
The family is toxic. I feel sorry for her/him/them.
Right. I kinda don’t see Jazz having much of a relationship with any of her family in the future.
@@ftmrivas3043 her. Jazz has never said she uses any other pronouns
This show needs to end - she sounds clinically depressed and needs medication. She might also benefit from CBT, and a break from the show. I think her family means well, But she needs serious help ♥️
She's medicated. Her mom said she takes 18 pills a day (for real) to cope with mental issues.
@@esval3054 18 pills a day? How could anyone keep up with that?
Problem is… they likely all life off the income it provides so they don’t want her to stop the show and she must feel a huge amount of pressure to continue. She’s their meal ticket.
Her eyes are crying but no one around her gets it.
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@@summerwood1359 her*
She has been living to make her parents happy for her entire life.
*he
She has really changed since last season. Depressed, rarely smiles. And still sits covering up with her blanket.
Lost her confidence and sparkle
Ikr ever since her surgery you almost never see a real smile from Jazz
Well Jazz is sick, she takes lots of pills..half in the morning, half in the evening. She is going to Harvard to please her family, she said...no word of a Major tho.
It’s sad I remember seeing her show on television years ago when I had a network that aired her show. I remember she smiled more and was loving life I think everything is getting to her now and that she’s got the show, her events, all in her head I think she needs a good break from filming the show and should relax because I’m starting to think the show is affecting her.
@@cp2342 yes. And her family is starting to negatively effect her as well.
Oh poor girl. Don't live for others. I did that for 30 years. I'm 50 and FINALLY doing what I want. Take the love and support. ❤🧡💛💚💙💜
Dayum you 50. Ngmi.
@@Pleasekillmysonsdad Says who? This bish has seen some sheet
Na that's just her deflecting away from a topic she doesn't like. Making the "real" issue become her just being TOO selfless for her own good. It's pretty basic manipulation, but unfortunately there's nobody close to her that can, or will just cut thru the BS n make her confront the stuff she doesn't want to. Idk what that actually is, but she does... I'm confident that it's not her selflessness (🙄) or her binge eating... which u notice shes embraced calling it a disease cus that draws the reactions she needs to keep herself in a victim mindset and able to justify it to herself as she continues perpetuating the cycle.
@@zeebee3606 Wow. I should just follow you & not waste money on the graduate degree in Forensic Psychology I'm getting.
@@psychshell4644 I agree that is a waste of money.
The whole family controls her. Weird.
If Jazz ends up in an even deeper depression and maybe even attempts suicide or succeeds 😢 her family will say they didn’t see it coming or if she had taken better care of herself she wouldn’t have done it. Wake up family.
What else should fhey do? Let her fall deeper into mental health and obesity
So if the family doesn’t try it’s their fault …. If the family tries it’s their fault too??? Grow up
If I was part of her family I’d probably hate her for all the drama, hysteria and attention seeking. I wouldn’t want to live in a goldfish bowl because my brother was severely mentally ill!
@Linda Lowther
💀 it’s nice to smile every once in a while in such a depressing comment section.
@Linda Lowther “IM IN HELL!” 😭😭
The fact that Jazz wants a girlfriend says a lot
Yeah, it's a script, he's a gay boy
😂😂
It literally doesn't say anything, she's also bi
@@user-lr6pg7ti7t she's not a boy, and she's bi
It says she outgrew her body dysmorphia as most do…thats why you dont mutulate a child
I love that her brother made the point that school isn’t what’s important, and that it’s not the end of the world if she doesn’t go there. Getting her healthy is important because they love her. ❤️
She has such a supportive family
@@vcada4756 her parents ruined her life.
I feel like Jazz only got into Harvard to make the parents seem impressive, but the show must continue, and the show won't go on without Jazz, so now Jazz is home continuing with it... Making it to school is what most teenagers strive to do, but it's obvious school was never going to be a long running thing for Jazz, the tv show always comes first....
I'm sure Jazz is depressed but what is jazz really depressed about? I feel like the parents found another convenient situation to keep the show going and they need Jazz in the family home to film.
Yeah if she goes to college their money train stops
@@nicoleallen6792 That's why Jazz is at home moping around like a zombie talking about depression.... New story line and justification to keep the the episodes coming.
If my family did this to me I would probably not talk to them for months
True. Hopefully this is just for TV.
TLC pays well.. it’s sad they are making her mental health worse
AND if they did it to you on TV for the world to see??? That’s even worse... omg I wouldn’t trust my family ever again
Before I relapsed on my eating disorder, my step grandpa said I looked better skinnier. Everyone in the room immediately looked at me, I went to the bathroom to cry but fell and had a seizure instead cuz it was triggered by stress (that’s my main trigger for them, stress and overstimulation are the main ones). I still refuse to say I love you back. I’m a stick now. No glow on my face, so pale. Dead eyes. And all I can think about is food 24/7.
Sometimes, your loved ones just don’t understand. But that doesn’t mean they should barge in anyway. This video clip makes me sick because I see myself when I look at her. Sad, anxious, drained. I hope she moves away from them soon and focuses on herself, and I hope I do the same too (although, I’m gonna stay home but I’m not really gonna associate with those that do this 💩 to me cuz I’ve been trying to fix myself for half of my life now and it just pulls me down when I’m trying to learn how to deal with it better, so I’m self isolating [with my dad cuz I’m disabled and can’t afford even food for Christ’s sake] for now)
You know how it all began? Comments from my family. Daily. Oh you’re eating too fast, too slow, too much, not enough WHEN I WAS 10. I no longer know what is normal because I no longer understand my bodies natural hunger cues because I just tried to do what they wanted to make them happy but quickly down-spiraled. Now, it’s not all of their fault, I’m the one that has to recover, but my point is, it’s too damn similar to her story. Only focused on body but never the mind. God I want to cry again
What about if your family did everything else that’s happened to Jazz? Never speak to them again I hope.
Each member of this family seems like an interchangeable person with multiple personalities.
One must behave like that when handling the family business, and the business is Jazz.
I've say it over and over again, bc everyone I knew who fully transitioned was never the same again all but one regretted their decision, but they ALL now suffer with severe depression. Allowing this to happen to essentially a child who is simply confused should be considered child abuse.
Everyone that I know (personally) that have transitioned, had severe depression to begin with.
I’d just put my kid on hormone blockers in their teen years if they were confused and let them decide once they are an adult. (Seems wrong but man it would suck having such a deep voice for a trans female or breast for a trans male etc etc etc)
If they’re confused, I’ll let them decide later on, not right away. It’s not a cure for depression, some think it is, but it is NOT. Just plain sad ugh
@@sagegod21 blockers destroy bones, that´s why we dont use them to delay puberty with kids anymore.
Please keep sharing your real life experience with unhappy transitions even if you get criticized for it. Somewhere- someplace-a child will read this and think twice
I know someone who was transitioning to male. The hormones were destroying her organs and she was having health complications. She stopped it all and is now a Mother to a beautiful baby boy. She is extremely happy being a Mother.
@@JayyJaeCee so glad she didn't fully transition
Look at the big difference in how she present whilst talking, in contrast to what she is really feeling like.
I'm pretty sure it's not a "fling" if you didn't even kiss. It's called a crush.
It feels like a fling if you’ve barely had any relationships. Doesn’t mean it is tho, but you get my point.
It must be very difficult to date someone like Jazz. She's too complicated.
Jazz is hurting . You can literally see it all over her . Her family can’t push her to lose weight she has to do it her self but it takes time . This was wrong for them to embarrass him like this .
Exactly, having an eating disorder is so difficult, forcing her to diet doesn't help that, she needs a therapist to return to regular eating habits
I have thought that the eating is only thing she could do on her own. Surprisingly they didnt padlock the cupboards and frig to keep control on her
Watching this makes my anxiety go crazy. I wouldn't imagine constantly being talked to about MY depression and MY lifestyle. Yes it's awesome they want to help her but constantly cornering her about it is so damaging. And to have this happen over and over in front of the world no less isn't good for her. I just wish they'd change their approach.
They don't give a sh!t about helping her. They're being patronising because they like feeding her insecurities and in turn creating more stories for the show. Sickeningly manipulative.
Well said
I get anxiety watching this too
It's not Jazz's fault but it must be exhausting to be one of her siblings and seeing how everything revolves around Jazz all the freaking time and still she can't be happy.
Jazz's codependent outlook (living for others) is really concerning. Binge eating is a coping mechanism for trauma and depression --- I think the siblings are trying their best to help but have no concept to understand that nothing will change until the family enmeshment issues that are causing Jazz's depression are addressed. They probably haven't even woken up to the unhealthy dynamics normalized in their home.
She needs the focus to be taken off her body in general..... It has been such a topic of scrutiny since she was a little kid, for many different reasons (being Trans, growing up as a public figure, etc) and the hyper control the family has on her body just leads to more stress and shame and feeling like she's out of control with her life, which fuels more binging.
A lot of covert selfish/narcissistic parents are supportive publicly if it gets them "woke" points or some sort of social capital, but the parents are so conditional with her and don't really support Jazz's true happiness unless it aligns with they way they want to look to others.
The whole focus is on Jazz without actually factoring Jazz herself into the equation --- like the way the siblings are talking AT her instead of TO her. Jazz is like the scapegoated commodity. (I think the siblings mean well but they only have toxic tools to try and help because they live in a toxic family).
The parents get to be seen to be helping Jazz, getting "good parent" points for being supportive of Jazz, of course benefitting off Jazz being in the public eye, and I think Jazz's body and brain is telling her she's living in an emotionally abusive family before her understanding has caught up --- because none of this is her fault but she keeps scapegoating herself and blaming herself for being a "burden" and making life hard for her parents without understanding that she was a kid and it was her parents job to protect her, this family dynamic isn't her fault, and her mental health issues are not her fault.
I really hope she gets a therapist who understands covert abuse and learns to put down healthy boundaries with her parents, and that her siblings follow suit, because I think those boundaries and getting some distance from the mom especially is going to really help her be her own person and learn to be her own self advocate. I hope they end this show altogether, and IF Jazz wants to do advocacy in the future it is on Jazz's terms.
Amazing amazing. Exactly how I saw it, you just put it into words for me.
They need to stop making her personality about being trans. She has been the poster trans person since she was a child. Let her develop her own personality and her own experiences.
I agree I was thinking the reason she’s highly depressed is because everything is revolved around her events, the show, her identity it makes money but I think she needs to detach from that for a bit and have a month or 2 break from filming and everything else just to sit back and relax.
@@cp2342 She and the show need a permanent break.
Why would they stop when they've been doing it to him all his life and getting everything they want out of it?
Munchausen by proxy
You can tell jazz is tired warn down not very happy. I know she tried to fake it but you can clearly she. It's taking a total on her. I mean being on tv where alot of people watch her can take a toll.
I think she went through too much too soon. They should've supported her without pushing her or encouraging her to follow a path she may not have been ready for at that moment. Her whole life was lived in public view. She should've been able to find herself in private.
I feel so sorry for her. She’s lives in front of the world so much. She deserves peace!
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@@summerwood1359 she*
“Maybe you should talk to your therapist?” Pretty sure the therapists have done enough damage here.
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The therapist is her aunt too what a joke
I feel so sorry for Jazz, she’s been pulled in every different direction and has had every form of her personal life exploited. No one deserves to feel the way she does where her happiness doesn’t matter. 😢
Jazz is a he and needs real love. Not your fake love and pity. Disgusting
You can plainly see that Jazz couldn’t be more uncomfortable with this.
It's painful to watch
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Damn leave her alone, they are too open!!! They feel way too comfortable to say whatever they want to her. I could not imagine my family coming in the room and every single time they do they're judging what I'm doing what I'm eating and then just feel free to say whatever the hell they want to say about it. 🙄 she needs her privacy and people need to stop feeling they can say anything they want to her. I can't stand their judging looks at her I can't imagine what that feels like to have like five people come in the room and everybody's like oh there's poor fat jazz oh my God and then tell her stuff she already knows. She doesn't need you to point it out she knows!!!
They need to leave the guy alone
Theyre trying to help, not bully her. Theyre trying what they think is their best
I think the siblings are just concerned they see Jazz is struggling mentally which is leading to her poor eating I think they’re just trying however I can see your point of all of them are sitting there saying this and that about her weight it seems too forward however I don’t think the siblings mean to come across like that it’s just concern.
@@percyjackson5417 no they aren't they are all judgy pricks. Grandma looks like a squirrel that got hit in the head and her eyes crossed permanently but they wanna talk about a girl gaining some weight. Maybe mon could get her eyes closer together or a nose job. Maybe dad could get a nose job and some hair. Maybe the brothers could stop banging each other. I wonder if they'd like their critiques I have for them. I just feel sad this little boy had his whole life ruined over a phase and the mom wanting another daughter. The whole thing is just very sad
I agree. Its really hard bc I'm sure the family thinks "tough love" will work but clearly it's not working and they need another approach. I feel for her because I gained a lot of weight in a very short period of time during quare and it was debilitating and humiliating. To sit there and stare at a closet full of clothes and know that none of them got you except for like 3 shirts and maybe 2 pairs of bottoms. It was so hard because I felt like a failure. And it's not just about food, it's about EVERYTHING ELSE. I wish her the best and I hope she can find peace and happiness and health. I'm not sitting on my high horse either- I'm still working on losing the weight and improving. There's ups and downs, I can just see that she's sad and I relate to that. I remember I would avoid ANY social events because I didn't want people to see me like that and judge me. And jazz's struggle is broadcasted on national television for all to see. I just wish her peace.
Im trans , im overweight, i have depression, i have anxiety, pity is the way she moves through life.
Jazz’s family made her what she is from a tiny person and now they just gang up and bully her all the time. Jazz needs somewhere that she is 100% accepted now matter what she thinks, feels or looks like. This has been years they’ve been doing it like this. It hasn’t worked yet. smh i love ya Jazz!
Being 💯 accepted in everything is not healthy.
@@yumiloomerstorytime.4830 dumbest shit I've ever heard
Frfr
@@yumiloomerstorytime.4830 Particularly when you think you're born in the wrong body.
There is no place that accepts you 100%
Why her family thinks she has to do everything with them, they should let her decide what she wants to do.
Child abuse, scary
I really don’t like the fact that they kept pushing her to go on IG live or Tiktok live. What she needs is a break from this show and all the noise from social media, because damn, it’s already hard enough dealing with depression privately let alone having the whole world see it. ☹️ I just hope she’ll eventually get back on track with her life and live for herself.
Jazz sounds on auto pilot answering those questions
Damn!! Victoria didn’t leave her GF and holding hands the entire time . But the moment jazz’s brother offered people to say something on their live social media , she bolted to that camera!!!! 8:50 🤣
She was paid to be Jazz's girlfriend
@@Afmedic85 awe 😞
She ran like a track star. So thirsty lol
@@aminahreviewsstuff right!! Glad I’m
Not the only who noticed her literally dropping hands with GF for her moment🙄
She’s deff got narcissistic tendencies
These siblings are so toxic and cringe. Talking to her like she’s 5. losing weight won’t solve her problems if her mind is still fucked up and she’s living for everyone els.
Wow, it seems no one honors what Jazz says. No wonder she thinks she lives to please others. Leave her alone for once. Let her be.
I wish the best for her ! The experiment was a terrible failure!
Can you imagine the stress of your family’s entire financial security depending on something you said when you were six? Poor kid. No wonder he looks exhausted.
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Not you thinking her being trans is simply something she said when she was young 💀
@@abigailmarughu3403 That’s exactly what it is. Then he had to commit to it because their revenue stream depended on it.
I think most of America knows by this point that this is a case of Munchausen by proxy.
@@abigailmarughu3403 It was actually when Jazz was 2 years old. Apparently, he kept insisting he was a girl after that. No 2-year-old understands sex and/or gender. There is no such thing as a male or female brain. It is biologically impossible to be born in the wrong body. Any rational adult understands that this is abusive manipulation by the mother he must've wanted so much to please at 2 years old. It is a nightmare, and there are a lot of young people in the same situation.
I used to think Jazz's parents were right about transitioning. But after rewatching some of the newer episodes, I can see all the damage that Jazz has to suffer for being encouraged to become a girl at such a young age and never even trying to accept they were a boy. Before you come with hateful comments, you should know most cases of gender dysphoria among kids fade when reaching puberty. If one denies puberty, you will never know if that was the case. And it's not only damaging the body but the brain that will never fully develop. Puberty is not only about phisical changes. That's probably why Jazz remained so immature. She doesn't fully understand the consequences of her actions (for example, she doesn't even takes care of her neovagina after surgery as stated in the last season), can't fully engage in a romantic relationship and can't even wake up on her own, even though she's over 20 years old.
I disagree. I think it's not transitioning that has kept her so immature, but rather being in the spotlight from such a young age.
I dont know the stats, so take this with a grain of salt, but among myself and my trans friends, dysphoria seems to often get WORSE during puberty. You know, when your body develops the secondary sex characteristics that cause distress in people with gender dysphoria. I never understood the idea that you have to experience pain to understand joy/contentment. Assuming you're cis, why don't you feel the need to live as the opposite gender for years just to prove that you understand your identity?
No hate at all, because I get where you're coming from, but IME that school of thought doesn't really hold up. It seems far more likely that she's another example of kids having their growth stunted by having their issues aired out for the world to see.
It makes even more sense considering that if she already was going to suffer from mental health issues, they're probably made even worse/easier to see since she's on a reality TV show. Plenty of depressed cisgender young adults can't wake up and go on dates every day, but we just don't see it because it's not broadcasted. I'm not convinced there's a correlation between this behavior and her identity; like, think of all the Disney channel stars who went through similar turbulent periods in their early 20s and late teens.
I disagree.
Jazz wasn't "denied" puberty, she just went through female puberty instead of male puberty via HRT - something some cis people also have to do if their bodies don't naturally go through puberty. If her dysphoria was going to fade and she turned out to be a cis boy, she would have experienced dysphoria while going through female puberty and now. If you ever come across folks who have detransitioned they usually experienced dysphoria after going on HRT and realized they were not trans after all. Not that we really know how she's feeling, but Jazz has never expressed any regret about transitioning.
As for her immaturity, I think her family really coddles her and centres themselves around her. She's the youngest and I know some people speculate her parents (or mom at least) have been intentionally exploiting her for fame/money, making her publicize her transition since she was little. They seem to really want to keep her close even as an adult, making her dependant on them like with her ~fitness journey~ they are collectively "helping" her with despite seemingly not addressing the root of the problem: her eating disorder. Also...she's like 21. And hasn't experienced living on her own yet I don't think? There is such an intense amount of emotional growth that happens in your early 20s in my opinion/experience, and for someone who is financially privileged and babied by her family, I don't think it's surprising that Jazz is immature.
She was traumatized by the surgeries. That's a lot to deal with.
The puberty blockers made it worse also. Things don't develop 'down there' & they didn't have enough material to work with & what was there didn't (& apparently won't?) sexually mature.
So either way you're right, ultimately trans or not trans, puberty blockers seem like a damaging way to go.
And it's weird that I know any of this about a child/teenager, this show is way too invasive into a minor's life.
@@idgafiminfinite A female having a hormonal imbalance and taking estrogen for a short period to regulate her natural bodily functions is one thing. But even Dr. Marci Bowers, the one who performed Jazz's surgery, said that Jazz never fully went through puberty and that's why she's incapable of experiencing sexual arousal.
Taking that away from a person i's quite damaging at a personal and relational level.
Just look at Jazz now. She's clearly unhappy and it's alarming that some people think her case is "inspirational".
Everything in this home is so depressing.
Watching how she was before the weight gain, she was so much more bubbly. She’s lost her bubbles! ♥️ I hope she gets them back.
Ngl I do feel sorry for her sometimes, her family seem like they're unintentionally toxic af, especially the mother
It brakes my heart to hear a daughter saying she's focused on making her parents proud... girl just live your life on your own terms! 💯 mom's love here!
Jazz is an abused boy who lives his entire life to appease his mother.
The siblings and parents are so messed up. They only care about Jazz for the camera it seems like, especially Sander. It all sounds so scripted. Poor Jazz - no one seems to care unless it’s for publicity or a narrative.
Hearing her say she doesn’t care about herself and her happiness, and is simply living for others is SERIOUSLY scary. She can’t fully analyze what she really feels and wants because she’s being used as a prop for other peoples purposes. She will have a lot of resentment in the future about a massive amount of things when she’s older and understands all of this from a different perspective.
She lives for others is definitely FACTS!!! That's how Jazz got this way
She’s such a sweet girl and I truly wish that she will be able to find happiness within her life.
She really deserves happiness.
With family like this, who needs enemies?
That’s not motivation- It’s guilt and shame. “Just be yourself”. Except fat. Or introverted. Private. Anything that isn’t graduating from _Harvard.
Jazz has been groomed to think that these dynamics are normal, _especially_ if you’re trans. They’re normal- , if you’re the _ scapegoat_ for familial narcissistic abuse and/or familial addiction.
I gravely fear for Jazz’s mental safety.
The best thing Jazz could possibly do for herself is
Financially separate from her parents; permanently delete all of her social media;
fly to the other side of the world; and check into a holistic inpatient neuropsych centre.
Somewhere which can assess/, strengthen Jazz in mind, body, and soul.
Jazz would benefit greatly from living in a community of people with vast life experiences, learning together skills necessary for this life to be worth it to _Jazz_.
Amen , well said
She's unable to take care of herself. Her mom treats her like a 12 year old. Did you know she actually rented a loft in Boston to be around Jazz while she attends Harvard? It's ridiculous.
"Just be yourself." Except a male with girly tendencies...
Agree
She doesn’t need to be inpatient to whatever tf u said. But the rest is fine
I can 100% relate to what Jazz is going through regarding being a "ppl pleaser" esp with her parents. That's an issue that I absolutely hope that Jazz is able to overcome prior to getting older (I'm almost 40 and only coming to terms with this now). Thanks Jazz for being (I'm sure painfully at times) honest- you've helped me! 😀
Has any one considered the possibility that Jazz may be low in testosterone? Even females need testosterone. In males it is normally produces in the testes but Jazz had these removed. Low testosterone will cause fat gain, low motivation and depression. If her testosterone is lower than the needs of her body and brain, then no amount of pep talks is going to help her feel better.
Is that a thing? I have extremely low testosterone as a female and am underweight
@@georgiedenbrough There is stacks of info available online on the subject should you wish to investigate it... Having said that, if an individual is underweight and has very low testosterone, part of the issue may be that they have low muscle mass and low bone density. Your individual situation is best advised by your doctor.
@@georgiedenbrough Yes, but men and women are different and testosterone is kinda more relevant to men, thus if we aren't getting a healthy dose, our bodies suffer. Thats why as men age it becomes harder for us to lose weight, heal and bounce back, even our sex drive takes a hit, our T levels decline as we age.
Jazz was born a male, so....its relevant.
@@TheDalinkwent OHHHH yeah that makes sense actually, especially that last bit. Hopefully Jazz can get better, thanks for the info!
They’re whole family is a nightmare. Mom is an enabler. Dad is a doormat. Jazz is a narcissist. The dysfunction is profound
Jazz is not a narcissist. Not even close.
Jeanette is a narcissist and dad is a enabler. Jazz is a victim of the abuse and has been turned into a people pleaser. I see this dynamic ALL THE TIME.
i think her family means well but i think they just need to give her professional help, work with her as a team and give her space to enjoy life, i feel like her life as been so much about activism that she’s been living through pov that isn’t always hers i wish her well tho!
Did the producers intentionally look for a place to shoot with no air conditioning? Everyone was sweating so bad it kept distracting me!
Cutting off healthy body parts is enough to make anyone want to eat themselves to death.. she's depressed, she made a big mistake and she knows it. The doctors lie and tell people that the trans suicide rate decreases after surgery which is absolutely untrue. A study in Sweden actually showed that the depression, anxiety, and suicidal ideation of trans people increased after sex reassignment surgery. Transgender people struggle with mental health issue, before, during, and after transition. It's a life long battle. It's not her fault she was born with this issue, but mentally healthy people don't feel like they are trapped in the wrong body. Anybody who feels that way has a mental health issue. Jazz hoped that the surgery would cure her of her depression and anxiety when in reality it made the problem worse.
Shes completely lying. How can she say I finally have the body ive always wanted she feels like crap. She hated every minute of this
Why does Jazz's hair always look greasy
Imagine being the only girl in the family and you're over shadowed by your brother who your parents turned into a girl, I would be so angry and frustrated, I thought Jazz was an only child, the fact thst he has 3 siblings who are all mature and Independent says alot about the mom and her motives
Jazz saying they live for others made me think did they transition for their self or others?? This may be why they're in a constant depression and not accepting of their body or self, inwardly jazz is in a constant battle.
I think she’s so used to pleasing her mom and doing what her mom wants to make her happy and that’s caused her to be so miserable. I feel truly so sad for her
I’ve never been a fan of this family. The mother is meddlesome and the father never stands up to her. If you wanted to have a happy child, you never should have paraded her onto a public platform where she could be ostracized on a national stage. They seem so attention seeking and they will pay the price by sacrificing their child’s well being and mental health. I’m really sick of the “self help siblings” as well.
Wait a minute, Jazz wants a girlfriend?
My goodness! Jazz looks terrible I feel so bad for her feeling like she has to please everyone. I get it!
Yeah, she really needs to stop the show abd just focus on her, have her privacy back, stop focusing on advocacy/activism, get a therapist for her ED and any other mental health issues, and become a little more independent from her family sill do her a world of good IMO
She looks so miserable, her family it's her enemy!
I know they're trying to help, but she needs to grow up and do it herself. That's how you learn. Give her a chance to pull it together without being treated like a child.
Funny how she says she feels finally complete with her body but all she does is talk about how unhappy she is with herself 😹 her parents should’ve NEVER transitioned her as a FIVE year old… outrageous
Jazz said she doesn’t regret transitioning if she says she’s unhappy with her body she’s talking about her weight….she’s human just like a cis person can be unhappy about their body so can a trans person and it will NOT nothing to do with transitioning
@@courtneywilson2232 she is very contradicting for herself. It’s very clear. Nice for trying to correct me
But you can see it in every video of herself that’s why big decisions like “transitioning” should not be made by a CHILD, until
There brain is done developing at 25 or at least till there a legal adult(18). It should be illegal. And poor her no one
She has has body dystrophia her parents have expoloided her for money since she was little with all these tv shows that genuinely a kid should never be put thru especially In there hormonal years. Very mentally neglectful but hey anything for a quick buck rigjt ? Don’t know how she let herself get so big if she is unhappy bein that way.
@@courtneywilson2232 when will enough ever make the girl happy
@@courtneywilson2232 I’m sure all
These hormones shes dosing herself up with could DEFINETLY have something
To
Do
With gaining weight. Every human body takes hormones different, side effects may vary. Especially if she even isn’t taking the rifht care she needs for her body In the first place girl. You and your community’s thought process cease to amaze me
Everyday. Take care. Feel bad for your future children.!
Her fam seems to really care
They really do.She really has such a loving supportive family.
Her family seems very controlling
@@natalieblack6192 On some things yes! But I think they want her healthy
@@haydenskiez nah .. they just want TLCs money
@@melsin1143 OOP!
'Today, I want to provide a safe space for everyone but my sister. '
Jazz had reassignment surgery for her mom, because her mom wanted to be famous. Jazz is a boy and boys need to eat a lot of food.
She should not have gotten the surgery. It was all down hill from that point.
Exactly!!
She will never going the able to feel an orgasm, that is hardcore shit
Oh man that broke my heart when she said she's caused her parents so much pain.
Why is every episode I see they are just on her about her weight?? Leave the poor woman alone.
It's probably editing to make for "television" I think this series has definitely strayed away from what it was originally and definitely overstayed it's welcome, jazz deserves to get on with her life in private.
I’m sorry, but Jazz is not happy about the surgery!
The only good thing about this video is the cute sleeping cat on the carpet.
Poor Jazz, victim of a "mother" with Munchausen's. The parents should be jailed 🤬
Her parents have Munchausens? I didn't know that😕
@@melissamathis8995 not confirmed, just my point of view & opinion. I don't see any other way a parent would allow full srs on a minor child. So heartbreaking & maddening. I could NEVER allow this happening to my son, it would be over my de@d body.
@@SkelzaDawn Whaaat????
@@tinasamuels2596 Jazz was a minor when full srs was done, only 17 years old when the surgery was done. Disgusting for that to have happened to a young kid.
@@SkelzaDawn you’re not alone in this thinking. It’s criminal imo. Jazz has been let down by everyone around her
Had she been left to grow up normally she probably wouldn't be so messed up now!
I just want to show jazz that there are so many millions of amazing people out here and we all would be besties! Poor girl... she wants love but she can't see that she has the ultimate love..... love from a family!!!
Lol nobody would be his beastie. He's over dramatic and thinks he's smarter than he is. He's like Whitney Thorne
Well the family needs real help too. There are all kinds of issues that Jazz is dealing with as the result of an abnormality that no family deals with. They don't know what they're doing and neither does Jazz. They are trying but they need real help on how to move with situations like this. Esp Jazz. I think Jazz eagerly wants to move to school to get away from them which is right. Tho there may come other problems but at least Jazz will get SOME freedom.
Do you mean poor girl? ♀️
There must be a reason why she has no close friends. She's too difficult, over dramatic and self centered.
Jazz lost all her regular friends after the surgery and then only would be around other trans ppl ....which I would think would be caused by jealousy of hanging out with normal people (that don’t have all the issues trans ppl have) ....which I understand her being jealous (who wouldn’t be)
I wonder how people can be so insecure, depressed, and unsure of themselves. Man you guys really let tik tok , instagram and twitter destroy your lives
Wow look at how healthy those three siblings look compared to jazz. So sad😮
man they treat Jazz like a puppet…its all for their own personal gain and has nothing to do with Jazz
Honestly this show just needs to end and give her some privacy and independence back in her life. I don't think it's doing her any good at all
Poor Jazz. It's the Truman Show with genital mutilation. He never had a chance.
Why do all of these kids talk like they are reading a script in a psychology class demonstration video?
Siblings hearts are in the right place but put her on show when shes feeling so low about herself is probably going to have the opposite effect they wanted. Stop asking her to change everything at once, make one small change at a time so it's more manageable. Go for the slow and steady approach instead of the big bang approach. She just end up trying to lose weight for them instead of herself
I quit starving for someone else, turned into bulimia reeeeeal quick. She never came back. It’s her birthday today. (Incredibly long and sad story that’s next to impossible to explain)
People pleasing is probably my most self destructive trait I have. And as you can see in her eyes, it’s the same for her too.
I know her family wants to help her, but this is only going to make it harder on her. I wish her the very best.
@@sagegod21 same here, I mean it pretty literally when I say my people pleasing is a toxic trait. Not just for myself but sometimes for others (weird Ik) like I’m ace but sex positive, dicks weird me out tho. I absolutely hate saying no to anyone and that includes my cis bf, so I’ll often try to go along with stuff before eventually having to call it quits. Every time he reassures me that he doesn’t care and he just wants me to be happy and ok. One time I drank too much and got sick and I was telling him to go to bed instead of sit with me because I knew he didn’t get a lot of sleep, the next morning he told me to stop saying that he should just leave because it’s not true and he’d feel bad. I’m the fantastic mix of being a people pleaser, a protector, and having anxiety. Aka three different things that make me go “everyone else’s needs in more important”, I once said to a friend how my outlook on life is “everyone should worry about themselves, and I’ll worry about me and them”
This show is crazy. I’ve never seen such a codependent family. So uncomfortable to watch. I really hope they edit so it looks worse than it is. The siblings are terrible!!!