5 Secret Thoughts A Man Has When He's Totally Into You | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

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  • @matboggs
    @matboggs  Год назад +5

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  • @gabrielapohlenz7203
    @gabrielapohlenz7203 4 года назад +1540

    We were cuddling one evening, three months dating, when suddenly he said "You're wonderful, you're full of wonders. You're the best thing that has happened to me in my four years in this city". That memory still melts my heart ❤️

  • @IM-uh5tk
    @IM-uh5tk 4 года назад +1045

    1. He'll think, "you can't get rid of me easily". He is going to fight for you. You can't scare him away.
    2. He'll think, "oh yeah, watch me." When you challenge him and say you won't be able to do it, he will prove you wrong.
    3. He will think to himself, oh man, I am in trouble." If you don't accept him, it's going to devastate him.
    4. He'll think in his head, "I hope she likes it". He'll try his best to make you feel good.
    5. "I have to share this with her". He will want to share the best of his moments with you.

  • @aprilthornburg7213
    @aprilthornburg7213 3 года назад +445

    My boyfriend in college said to me, "This feels like a fairytale." That's when I knew he loved me.

    • @sunitafisher4758
      @sunitafisher4758 3 года назад +16

      🌸 that’s beautiful, thank you for sharing
      It reminds me of innocent love 💕

    • @lekiawilson2635
      @lekiawilson2635 3 года назад

      @@sunitafisher4758 umkkl0

    • @angenoyes6406
      @angenoyes6406 3 года назад +3

      Mine says it sounds like heaven what you say. I want it, I'm just scared 💞

  • @catarinagarcia2552
    @catarinagarcia2552 4 года назад +706

    He said that my presence shined through, and that I lit up his world. We are now married! 🤗❤️

    • @waitwhat6882
      @waitwhat6882 4 года назад +14

      I LOVE that!!! Congratulations!!!

    • @universe5d176
      @universe5d176 4 года назад +6

      ❤️❤️

    • @rinawilliams6249
      @rinawilliams6249 4 года назад +9

      Wow!! He always tells me,he loves being around me,he says I love the calmness in your presence....

    • @thatindividual8414
      @thatindividual8414 3 года назад +6

      🤩Wow Happy Married life Congratulations to both of you!

    • @Dany-nt6dn
      @Dany-nt6dn 3 года назад +4

      Your so lucky

  • @FollowYourLife
    @FollowYourLife 4 года назад +849

    Exactly! The right guy who knows that he wants to be with a woman doesn't play around. He sticks to his plan and proves that he is the ONE to be with.

    • @dellchica2373
      @dellchica2373 4 года назад +14

      Simple 🤷‍♀️

    • @MaiXoxo3
      @MaiXoxo3 3 года назад +3

      🥰💕

    • @Concatenate
      @Concatenate 3 года назад +3

      We don't have plans, lol.

    • @latinaalma1947
      @latinaalma1947 2 года назад +10

      So nice to have been with a great man who doesnt play games for 40 yrs...if I could clone him I would be a trillionaire. No power trips but strong...I put my very LIFE in his hands for ten years sailing the Caribbean. There is literally no one else on this earth I would trust that much.

    • @FollowYourLife
      @FollowYourLife 2 года назад +4

      @@latinaalma1947 it's awesome to hear such happy life stories... real love and commitment do exist, and that's great! Congratulations for your strong couple 🌺

  • @dadinirt1973
    @dadinirt1973 4 года назад +505

    Whenever I tried to push my fiancé away, his reply was always consistent, "I'm never letting you go" You can't just push me away. The more you push the more I will stick to you. I love you like no man's business.

    • @thresasanders6883
      @thresasanders6883 3 года назад +2

      How can u get a man to talk to u more. And to text you some time.

    • @bexaidacandelaria5128
      @bexaidacandelaria5128 3 года назад +2

      I have him sharing all of this !Matt he has. He has telling me he wants to marry me, and calls me his wife

    • @ivylillace
      @ivylillace 2 года назад +1

      Wow lucky you i pray i find the one

    • @judefl2
      @judefl2 2 года назад +1

      Wooow, thats awesome!!!

    • @leahchipeta2936
      @leahchipeta2936 Год назад +1

      My type of man He won't let me go

  • @randomperson360
    @randomperson360 3 года назад +321

    “You can’t screw up the right thing” so true!!

  • @Peace86535
    @Peace86535 4 года назад +382

    I laughed very hard at the intro😂 My man loves cycling and I started asking him about bikes, riding etc. he couldn’t believe it. He said no one has ever taken an interest in him like I do. Now he tells me lots of stories about his rides and how he cleans his bikes etc... I find it soo cute and I love listening to him no matter what he’s saying.

    • @lioydwilliams1850
      @lioydwilliams1850 4 года назад +4

      Delicia Darby, you look stunning dear

    • @raisaarce5880
      @raisaarce5880 4 года назад +4

      So cute!

    • @olaia13
      @olaia13 3 года назад +10

      You'll start cycling soon and be a very happy couple, guaranteed. I want a cyclist!

    • @Peace86535
      @Peace86535 3 года назад +19

      @@olaia13 He bought me an e-bike and now we road cycle together❤️ life is good!!

    • @cariannkirby
      @cariannkirby 3 года назад +5

      That's cute. 😊

  • @rochelletemby2513
    @rochelletemby2513 3 года назад +113

    I like that comment “it’s hard to screw up the right thing” 🐝

  • @sherriecutab7198
    @sherriecutab7198 Год назад +26

    When I tried to let go of this man during the early stage of dating because I was becoming vulnerable. He told me “I’ll never let go of you. Never.” #1 was true . You can’t scare off a man who’s really into you.

  • @danaidysrodriguez7033
    @danaidysrodriguez7033 3 года назад +192

    He recently went on a boys weekend with his brother to rock climb. I got a text with a bunch of photos of him climbing and the view from the top. That meant a lot that he stopped in the middle of his climb to share that moment with me.

    • @lizpedano1542
      @lizpedano1542 3 года назад +4

      I don’t think he stopped in the middle of climbing lol ... he probably snapped some pictures while climbing and sent you them when he was done climbing lol 😆

    • @casstay4499
      @casstay4499 3 года назад +5

      @@lizpedano1542 Don’t ruin it for her, Liz! Lol😇

    • @Mae-rr5ye
      @Mae-rr5ye 2 года назад +1

      Aw super cute

  • @katcuzzi
    @katcuzzi 4 года назад +278

    I have an ex who used to always tell me that he felt really proud to be with me, just walking down the street or at a party. As a person, not as a trophy. It was very sweet.

    • @andreamurphy1126
      @andreamurphy1126 4 года назад +18

      Kat B .....So Sorry re your statement.., Sadly, that statement he said to you is All about him. Not You. He is only thinking about himself. He's totally a Narcissist. He wants to have a good looking person on his arm to show he's able to get a pretty woman. A Totally SelfishConcept. Just Know that. He's patting himself on his back. He's very Insecure. It's Not a
      To give you a Compliment, it's to stoke his own Ego. Yuk.

    • @katcuzzi
      @katcuzzi 4 года назад +28

      @@andreamurphy1126 Sorry but you’re absolutely wrong and likely projecting. He didn’t mean it in reference to appearance. He meant that he liked the way I interacted with the world and with his friends.

    • @catarinagarcia2552
      @catarinagarcia2552 4 года назад +5

      Só sweet, why have you broken up?

    • @katcuzzi
      @katcuzzi 4 года назад +2

      @@catarinagarcia2552 it’s complicated :)

    • @andreamurphy1126
      @andreamurphy1126 4 года назад +5

      Kat B.... Sadly, U don't know what u don't know ... Educate your self

  • @MissSeaSea
    @MissSeaSea 3 года назад +177

    I don’t think I’ve ever been with a man that actually, truly cared about me at all.....
    I think these videos have proven that to me. I’m super happy for all these lucky ladies that are finding their perfect partners. Bless y’all.
    I give up

    • @planetwalker798
      @planetwalker798 3 года назад +10

      I hear you.
      In watching these I found myself thinking about the past; and realizing what I didn’t know!
      My new friend is a breath of fresh air. It started with each of us saying we wanted to meet kind people - like genuinely realizing that’s not so easy. That was vulnerability and an acknowledgment of past hurts, and wanting to do things differently.
      Mat has reminded us of something- how open are you to letting love in? I know I haven’t been but slowly working on it. I hope you can, too.

    • @MissSeaSea
      @MissSeaSea 3 года назад +2

      @@planetwalker798 I’m happy for you and I hope that person gives you the respect and results you want and deserve

    • @planetwalker798
      @planetwalker798 3 года назад +2

      @@MissSeaSea Thank you :)
      So far yes. He’s a football watcher and he gave up a whole day to spend my birthday with me. And this is new (few months knowing each other, going slow with the natural flow). It blows me away, honestly….

    • @beccareynolds4625
      @beccareynolds4625 2 года назад +3

      Same .. it’s just not meant for me in this life time and I’m ok with that.

    • @dawnstonerock4253
      @dawnstonerock4253 2 года назад +1

      Same

  • @dcampbell6548
    @dcampbell6548 4 года назад +140

    I finally found my man!!! He is so amazing. Instead of telling me that he loves me he says "I'm loving you" because he says each day he is loving me more and more. 😍💕

    • @Chemilia
      @Chemilia 3 года назад +5

      Omg that's too cute

    • @priyankachowdary3395
      @priyankachowdary3395 3 года назад +5

      Congratulations congratulations congratulations🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 Sending you so much love ❣️

    • @ancientpathwalker9490
      @ancientpathwalker9490 3 года назад +4

      Ohhhh my GOODNESS!! 🥰

    • @tangledshoelace4726
      @tangledshoelace4726 3 года назад +3

      How precious!!😃😃💙💙🙏🇺🇸

    • @TheLove2surf
      @TheLove2surf 3 года назад +3

      Reading all these comments for the whole video... makes me think really just how awesome so many men are. What wonderful creatures... its such a relief to read these after being exposed to so much of this third wave feminism!

  • @Shalom_7777
    @Shalom_7777 3 года назад +95

    He told me "your safe with me"❤

  • @darcymcdaniel6048
    @darcymcdaniel6048 3 года назад +165

    “You’re a positive influence on everyone around you, so of course they all like you. It’s like saying the sky is blue! It’s really obvious to us, even if you don’t see it.”
    The most meaningful compliment anyone has ever paid me, I cried a little bit. 🥰

  • @nammecostales1571
    @nammecostales1571 4 года назад +64

    Regarding to the number 5
    My man got a new smartphone and he said "I wanna open my new smartphone with you" then days later he visit me in my house and I thought he's just gonna show me his new phone but to my surprise he bought 2 smartphone! And he gave the other one for me.. he is a working student that's why Im really proud of him that he can manage to give gifts... I love my man

    • @Chemilia
      @Chemilia 3 года назад +2

      Wow that really was sweet

  • @terricunningham6810
    @terricunningham6810 2 года назад +43

    I told my man I have PTSD...and he didn't leave. we are still hanging out. It feels so good he is sticking around. Love has hit my heart. and yes he know's that.

    • @indigogalaxy6341
      @indigogalaxy6341 2 года назад +3

      That was one my man and I had a talk about to. He told me it doesn't matter how dark it gets, I'm going to hold you through it. I thought he would have left by now too.

  • @keshakellogg5995
    @keshakellogg5995 3 года назад +55

    Oh my gosh, #1. I was ready to throw in the towel on my new relationship. I told him, "I've realized-- I don't need any of this." His response was to physically move closer and say, "You may not need it... But do you WANT it?" That was the key I needed to unlock my heart. Fighting for me, indeed. It's been transformational. 😭💖💖

  • @956judith
    @956judith 3 года назад +49

    Started dating again and he is amazing. He tells me daily he adores me and said I was valuable. No man has said those words to me. He compliments facial features that no one else has🥰He’s vulnerable and doesn’t shy away talking about emotions or hard topics. He worried I had options and I was was like nope I’m looking for mental, physical and shared goals/values and don’t settle. He’s definitely a high quality man❤️🥰

  • @sherrichandler9803
    @sherrichandler9803 4 года назад +220

    Mat your advice for this 55 year old traumatized woman has been breath taken. I have the Star Trek Enterprise shield but this man who shares with me, makes me laugh and compliments me has made the shield come down 50%. Because of you I'm giving me a chance again. Thanks😉

    • @sunitafisher4758
      @sunitafisher4758 4 года назад +17

      🌸 I hope you never ever experience any further trauma 🤗✨

    • @yogacorner5472
      @yogacorner5472 4 года назад +8

      Bless you 😊

    • @bthechange1633
      @bthechange1633 4 года назад +10

      Same same @ Sherri Chandler
      You are wiser now and trust yourself and your intuition. We dont get older without getting wiser. You have lots to offer the right one 💕💕

    • @deewils381
      @deewils381 3 года назад +3

      Love it!!!

  • @itsfree3467
    @itsfree3467 4 года назад +40

    Ditto here. Im on my 2nd "right guy" When I met my man i was a fresh widow of 6 months. I knew what i wanted and i was strict. My man rose to every challenge i gave him. 4 yrs later We r engaged and happily live together.

  • @ChelissaMoon
    @ChelissaMoon 4 года назад +143

    I’ve had two separate men in my life tell me, “You help me to believe in magic.” It was so humbling and wonderful to hear that. The fact that I’ve heard it from two separate people in my life definitely makes me feel magical ✨

    • @pottiluis4262
      @pottiluis4262 4 года назад

      Hello my dear,I can refer you to a relationship expert who help me to manifest my ex back few days ago’after six months of breakup ,he can also help you to solve all your relationship problems too

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      @pottiluis4262 4 года назад

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    • @pottiluis4262
      @pottiluis4262 4 года назад

      WhatsApp him now ❤️❤️

    • @pottiluis4262
      @pottiluis4262 4 года назад

      +2349130316818

  • @shleshapradhan4085
    @shleshapradhan4085 4 года назад +90

    He wrote this for me😍
    “Tapping my heart she woke me up
    To witness a beautiful world around me
    New bond of love to my soul
    Colourful enough to be beautiful than a rainbow
    It was a dream turned out to be real
    How do I stop my pounding heart
    How do I express my love
    Holding her enough with in my arms
    I started living with in her smiles”

    • @TG-nh6ni
      @TG-nh6ni 3 года назад +2

      Omg awww 😭😭😭😭

    • @ten-itis6644
      @ten-itis6644 3 года назад +2

      Oh wow! That's so much better than the break up poem I got 💔

    • @Mae-rr5ye
      @Mae-rr5ye 2 года назад +4

      🥺 so cute 🥰 congrats girl 🥳

  • @Whoamidontknow17707
    @Whoamidontknow17707 2 года назад +15

    I had a guy who searched for me for 4 months when I vanished due to a nervous breakdown. We just reconnected. I’m beyond floored that this guy didn’t just give up looking for me…especially because we are in separate countries. The tenacity…like it doesn’t seem real that he could care that much about me when we haven’t met in 3D yet.
    He also told me that he was proud of me for buying a new guitar (we’re both passionate guitarists) and for continuing to make music. I’ve never had anyone say anything like this to me. And he just forgave me for disappearing and putting him through agony looking for me.
    Angels exist. I need to see this person in real life soon. He’s amazing!!

  • @bouha002
    @bouha002 4 года назад +132

    Matthew, I love it when you share personal stories as real-life examples, it really helps to put things in perspective

  • @luingalls
    @luingalls 3 года назад +25

    I had no idea he thought of me as the "one" but he showed me in his actions. He held back but wouldn't get scared off nor would he let me go. 20 years later he's just opening up about his deep thoughts about me and its wonderful.

  • @marylouhemann5906
    @marylouhemann5906 3 года назад +50

    Fell in love with a man 17 yrs my junior. I was in the middle of leaving my boyfriend, so I was not looking for a relationship. I am absolutely smitten with him and he is in love as well. He is the love I've never experience In 3 long term marriages or relationship. Never dreamed of love again.

  • @juchebo100
    @juchebo100 3 года назад +15

    He(the guy I’m in a LDR with) told me a while back that it hadn’t snowed in the UK(where he lives) in 3 years so it snowed in January and he sent me a video of snow falling outside his window. He was like it snowed finally; just wanted to share that with you 😊 and then he thanked me for showing such kindness, thoughtfulness and love and he said I was an example of a true kind soul and I’m redefining the word for him 🥰 that truly showed him how much I mean to him because I have never had a guy genuinely care about me that way. So it’s really nice to read that and he has been amazing and wonderful since then ☺️ so glad I stumbled on your video today, Matthew 😊

  • @indigogalaxy6341
    @indigogalaxy6341 2 года назад +9

    Wow just wow
    HE SAID IT! HE ACTUALLY SAID IT. I told him I was scared and that i was worried I wasn't going to be able to open up to him the same way. It would take time for me to trust him. He looked me in the eyes and said " well, guess what, you're not getting rid of me that easy. Suck it up buttercup. You're the one for me. " I've also heard " Yep, I choose you Pikachu, so figure it out " When I'm saying things like "are you sure this is what you want?"
    He said " watch me! " WHAT?? 🤣🤣🤣
    3 out of 5? I can't 😵😵‍💫
    So, after the video, I'm guessing he may actually be into me. 😸🌻

  • @tharanda
    @tharanda 3 года назад +22

    After he faced a devastating loss and months of grief, he told me that I made him want to get up every morning. No man has ever touched my heart and soul like that.

  • @longdogt6724
    @longdogt6724 2 года назад +26

    Thank you, Matt, these videos are uplifting in an unusual way…I am over 70 with two abusive marriages in my past, and one long term relationship that turned into friendship. I wish I could have taken your course 40 years ago. I feel it’s too late for me, but I like hearing that there are true love stories out there. Blessings!

    • @mcb00
      @mcb00 Год назад +7

      It's never too late

  • @Rainsong777
    @Rainsong777 4 года назад +47

    08:30
    "A man's worth is directly tied to his productivity. And productivity in a relationship, is: how is he helping you to create happiness?
    How is he producing a happy experience for you?"

    • @matthewboggs6165
      @matthewboggs6165 4 года назад

      Thank you for being part of the channel, send me a message on my unique whatsapp +1 (323) 4865213 to ask for help or advice.

    • @planetwalker798
      @planetwalker798 3 года назад +2

      I love that - and I want to do the same for him.
      One way my friend does this is choosing glass half full. It reminds me to do the same; just because of his energy.

  • @GoldChocobo77
    @GoldChocobo77 4 года назад +24

    I feel like men that are into me seem to share their thoughts either when they feel vulnerable (like they want to be conforted) or overwhelmed by a beautiful moment we're sharing, and just telling me how cool this is.

  • @katemiller5990
    @katemiller5990 4 года назад +31

    Ahhh Mat, I see what my husband was thinking now when we were dating!
    A couple of weeks or months in, I nervously told him over dinner about three big things that I felt might have been deal breakers in the fledgling relationship.
    Instead of pushing him away, he took them seriously and rose to the challenge!

    • @kealeyadrian7926
      @kealeyadrian7926 4 года назад

      Hello my dear,I can refer you to a powerful relationship expert who help me manifest my ex back after six months of breakup ,he can also help you to solve all your relationship problems too

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      @kealeyadrian7926 4 года назад

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  • @nyimasnaila2735
    @nyimasnaila2735 3 года назад +9

    Once he was having a vacation with his group of friends. First, he told me about what happened along the trip after he got home. And then the next day, he posted on his social media, a picture of him sitting by the seashore, along with a one-word-caption which is the special nickname he made for me. I can't stop smiling whenever I see that post :'3

  • @xojaggediciclexo86
    @xojaggediciclexo86 2 года назад +5

    Mine told me #1 not too long ago. He is the first guy I've dated since a toxic relationship and I dated and tried seeing what was out in the world. This man, has lifted me up, made me laugh so much, comforts me and validates my feelings, puts in the effort even though we live 40 mins from each other on opposite sides of the city. He's given me hope, excitement and has given me the ability to trust him. My last relationship was so broken and I felt so alone. He makes me feel like I matter and I don't have to struggle through challenges alone. He's my blessing.

  • @sparrowgrimwork3530
    @sparrowgrimwork3530 3 года назад +17

    One of the hardest things I've done this year is open my heart up to someone. We've both been hurt many times before, so we made a deal to give eachother all our confidence and honesty. It's been vary transforming, to choose trust. But worth it. And I know that no matter what happens, I will keep these happy memories he gave me safe. 🥰🥰🥰

  • @sushisaschi7744
    @sushisaschi7744 3 года назад +23

    Our relationship has been intense since we first met and it's the first time I don't stammer around a guy; it is totally natural. He has shared so much about himself, especially about his family and upbringing - just today he was showing me funny videos he likes and his old tumblr page which was really emo (basically what he looked like back in his early 20s, his thoughts back then which were dark) - he even shared where he used to skateboard (his happy place) and that he actually really misses it. But the 2 things that get me and that I have never gotten from other relationships - he actually listens to me!! He will randomly bringing back into conversation what I said previously, or remember to get me what I asked etc. Very attentive. ALSO, he asks me questions and genuinely wants to know the answers.

  • @veeranevalainen5994
    @veeranevalainen5994 4 года назад +39

    Earlier in the relationship I'm currently in I was getting ahead of myself and without thinking I said something dumb. I was sure he would either freak out and dissappear or get a wrong impression of me and would try rush things ahead. Instead he told me it aint a big deal, that he is getting ahead of himself as well and that he wants to take it slow, as did I even I said what I said. And I must admit my very first thought was "gosh, this sort of guys really exist!"

    • @lioydwilliams1850
      @lioydwilliams1850 4 года назад +1

      Veera Nevalainen, you look stunning dear

    • @raularmas317
      @raularmas317 3 года назад

      I suggest you read up on Viktor Frankl and Elkhart Tolle (the power of now). Frankl talks about the power to choose your response and not simply having a(knee-jerk) or emotional reaction.
      Saying something "dumb" is the same as saying something prematurely out of desire?
      Cut yourself some slack. No one seems quicker to judge us than us.

  • @toyawest4520
    @toyawest4520 3 года назад +24

    This is great & so true!
    We are taking things slow, not in a relationship yet but he invites me on dates/adventures so that (in his words) "Get more acquainted with each other." He asks questions about where I would like to go & what I would like to do, and is invested in sharing those adventures with me. This is new, I really like this close friendship & pray that it turns into a beautiful relationship/marriage one day. He moves slow but maybe that's a good thing.

    • @mariaelizabandolesalcantar3928
      @mariaelizabandolesalcantar3928 2 года назад +2

      May I ask how things are going now if it's okay with you? It's been a year since this comment was posted ?

    • @KrystalMoniique
      @KrystalMoniique Год назад

      Aw.. that’s precious.. praise God.

  • @Yana-nr2zi
    @Yana-nr2zi 3 года назад +22

    Those first 1 minute 47 seconds were the best, most romantic movie I’ve ever seen. 10/10 would watch again.

    • @cajunlady4893
      @cajunlady4893 3 года назад

      What is the name of the movie?
      I popped laughing 😆
      Too funny
      Same happens in my relationship
      We are so in sync!

    • @lisacooper745
      @lisacooper745 3 года назад

      What movie is it?

    • @donnaahrens1119
      @donnaahrens1119 3 года назад

      She meant it is just the first 1 minute 47 seconds of Mat’s video here.

  • @atiyehatiyeh8322
    @atiyehatiyeh8322 3 года назад +14

    I love hearing stories about your community it also brings tears to my heart because I'm in my early 60s. I've been divorced and single since 1995 my heart is heavy

  • @jac1057
    @jac1057 4 года назад +53

    Mat, I related to your shoe story. I was dating a man years ago that called at the last minute and asked me to get dressed up that he was coming to pick me up and take me out. I was a mess from just giving the dog a bath. So my roommate helped with the dog and I ran upstairs to get ready. Well, it was worth it to see the look on his face when he picked me up as I came downstairs. It wasn't until we got to the restaurant and seated at the bar until our table was ready. We were talking and he looked down and then back up at me with this strange grin on his face and said. "Nice shoes do you have another pair at home?" I looked down and I was wearing two different colored shoes. One navy blue and the other black. I was mortified and he started laughing which made me laugh. In our rush, not me, my roommate nor he noticed my mistake. He told me I still looked beautiful. The shoes were the same style but I made sure to put a light color pair between them in order not to make that mistake again. So I laughed again at the memory. The occasion was he had gotten a big commission check at work and wanted to take me out to celebrate. We had a wonderful time.

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    • @beatricelunkuse383
      @beatricelunkuse383 3 года назад

      So interesting 😂

  • @ingridkhajeh8982
    @ingridkhajeh8982 4 года назад +10

    Wow! Thanks for the shout out Matt
    And I didn't know he was totally into me..........but I do now. Thank you Matt:)

  • @christied425
    @christied425 4 года назад +16

    I watched your videos a lot when I was dating and coming back to this, now engaged to be married, powerful! It’s so helpful hearing about men from a man who’s helping women. Ha :)

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  • @oliviamadison5989
    @oliviamadison5989 3 года назад +2

    I have a guy in my life who told me that he was always proud of me and still is.. that he deeply cares and loves me .. he wants the best health for me .. he was there when my father passed away a month ago, he always comfort me when I needed it the most.. I'm told him the same ..that I'm always there for him and love and care for him too ...

  • @romisebienaime7461
    @romisebienaime7461 3 года назад +5

    If I knew all these infos , I would never wasted 13 years of my life with someone that didn't love me. But, since he's completely out of my life, it's the best and most rewarding feeling ever.

  • @toriegrenier3985
    @toriegrenier3985 2 года назад +5

    I love this video, Mat. Making oneself vulnerable in telling your partner how you feel is scary. Glad to know that I’m not the only one that would feel like this.

  • @alyssasidney5570
    @alyssasidney5570 4 года назад +41

    I received a random text from my love interest that said "you are one awesome woman😍"

    • @julifunnygirl71
      @julifunnygirl71 4 года назад +1

      Well, now I'm jealous!

    • @ladyowl9187
      @ladyowl9187 4 года назад

      Eerrrmmaarggaarddddd me too!!

    • @israabashir2476
      @israabashir2476 3 года назад +1

      Aww ..even me blushed 😄 what have you done to melt this poor man's heart, girl?? 😍

  • @foxerrr7864
    @foxerrr7864 Год назад

    He tells me he’s so proud of me, which I never heard growing up. It means so much, and I know how much he really means it.

  • @2ndChanceCrafting
    @2ndChanceCrafting 4 года назад +55

    Long distant relationship. He tells me he is lovesick all the time. He keeps track of how many days, hours until we see each other again. He recounts the first time we met.

    • @kealeyadrian7926
      @kealeyadrian7926 4 года назад

      Hello my dear,I can refer you to a relationship expert who help me to manifest my ex back few days ago,after six months of breakup ,he can also help you too

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      @kealeyadrian7926 4 года назад +1

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    • @nancysiekierski729
      @nancysiekierski729 3 года назад +3

      @@kealeyadrian7926 It doesn't sound like she needs any help. Peddle elsewhere.

  • @listianiachmad3140
    @listianiachmad3140 4 года назад +21

    He said my smile is the most important smile in the whole world.

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    • @w.v.e.8643
      @w.v.e.8643 3 года назад

      Mine said the same thing, and after a while he left and never came back....

  • @lisaofthelodge
    @lisaofthelodge 4 года назад +30

    This is one of the most inspirational and rememberable videos I've watched. Seriously excellent content!

  • @Tropicaligirl86
    @Tropicaligirl86 3 года назад +6

    Matt, I love all of these. I just met someone last weekend at a wedding I was in and he came too. We have started talking long distance and he is flying out here in two weeks to take me on a date. He shares things with me that I feel no other man has just because. I can't wait to see where this journey takes him and I.

    • @lindakithinji9495
      @lindakithinji9495 3 года назад +1

      Where did the journey take you ?

    • @Tropicaligirl86
      @Tropicaligirl86 3 года назад +1

      @@lindakithinji9495 the journey has taken me on an incredible path with the love of my life as we are going 9 months strong still. He is amazing!

    • @lindakithinji9495
      @lindakithinji9495 3 года назад +1

      @@Tropicaligirl86 I'm so happy to hear that.
      LOVE is such a beautifull thing.
      I hope to find the love of my life one day.

    • @Tropicaligirl86
      @Tropicaligirl86 3 года назад

      @@lindakithinji9495 thank you so much! You will I know it ❤️

  • @nicolewilson3722
    @nicolewilson3722 3 года назад +2

    My boyfriend gives me his time. He’s busy and he works hard. But he makes time for family and that’s special to me

  • @dianasherry9903
    @dianasherry9903 4 года назад +23

    The Sky! story is so similar to my Moon story. When I’m apart from my guy, I imagine we both gaze at the moon. My thoughts and feelings I send to the moon so they can bounce off the moon and go right to him, and he likewise.

    • @kealeyadrian7926
      @kealeyadrian7926 4 года назад

      Hello my dear,I can refer you to somone who help me t manifest my ex back few days ago,after six months of breakup

    • @kealeyadrian7926
      @kealeyadrian7926 4 года назад

      He can also help you too

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    • @phoenixmode6909
      @phoenixmode6909 4 года назад

      I do that too, both moon and sun. He lives in the West Coast and I'm currently in the Midwest, so since moon and sun big head that direction, I send him love via the moon and sun, sometimes. 🥰

  • @almaengberg313
    @almaengberg313 4 года назад +3

    Love it! I met an amazing guy last year and we are now together. The fact that I tried to end things twice (yeah, i was slow to warm up, a bit ashamed of that now almost, but it got us to today) with this guy last year when i was unsure and that he didnt let me (unless he was sure I really meant it) meant the world to me. It made me realise that he wasnt wasting my time and that he really cared.

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  • @boertung
    @boertung 3 года назад +6

    He made me a play list with special songs I've never heard played anywhere. I asked why he made me this. He answered in a really cool way ; this is music you should like. And it turned out to be this amazing songs that totally melted my heart. And speaking of men acting cool with a well hidden crazy mix of feelings inside. That was discovered when he found out the order of the songs was not how he planned. His freak out eyes some days after was just funny. That just melted my heart even more when I understood he planned this so well to make it work

  • @merciamentoor4493
    @merciamentoor4493 4 года назад +9

    This is so true, especially #3. He told me I was "dangerous" in a good way. We're newly dating and it feel so good to be with someone who shares themselves freely

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  • @jenniferfrost7713
    @jenniferfrost7713 4 года назад +16

    My new man said "Every Day Is Like Discovering Paradise All Over Again" and "Every Day Is Like Heaven When I Am With You"
    My former husband said to me "I Can Plant Your Feet In Dirt And Grow Roses"

    • @bryanjaon2550
      @bryanjaon2550 3 года назад

      Hello how are you doing hope you're safe over there👆👆👆

  • @esthergloria
    @esthergloria 3 года назад +2

    He always tells me that I'm the woman of his dreams 🥰🥰 sometimes I will find him staring at me and when I'm like "why are you looking at me like that"? He will be like " I'm the luckiest man babe, I am lucky to have you" and that was when I knew that he's sincere and I'm hoping that he's the one because I'm always feeling secured and peaceful around him

  • @donaDsejdiu793
    @donaDsejdiu793 4 года назад +52

    😁😁😁 different shoes.I love that part.

    • @notabotbrittany
      @notabotbrittany 4 года назад +4

      OMG SO CUTE. When men try their best! ADORABLE.

    • @donaDsejdiu793
      @donaDsejdiu793 4 года назад +2

      @@notabotbrittany Yeah finding someone like that is worth more than gold.

  • @crystal1555
    @crystal1555 4 года назад +2

    He finds ways to tell me how he appreciates me or notices something that I do. It's very heartfelt and genuine every time. Sometimes it takes me by surprise because I'm not used to compliments like that. FYI I'm recovering from covert narcissistic ex.

    • @bryanjaon2550
      @bryanjaon2550 3 года назад

      Hello how are you doing hope you're safe???

  • @claudiag.5163
    @claudiag.5163 4 года назад +17

    What you explain in #2 happened to me in my 20s. I lived at home with my parents and the guy I was seeing wanted me to stay over at his place. When I told him I couldn't he changed me for somebody else. Now in our 40s he chases me saying I'm the best that's happened to him lol I can care less for him, now he's alone with no girl to pay attention to him.

    • @kealeyadrian7926
      @kealeyadrian7926 4 года назад

      Hello my dear,I can refer you to a relationship expert who help me manifest my ex back ,after six months of breakup ,he can also help you too

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      @kealeyadrian7926 4 года назад

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    • @alwaysjolly1096
      @alwaysjolly1096 3 года назад

      @@kealeyadrian7926 obeah man

  • @secretshaman277
    @secretshaman277 4 года назад +45

    Love your honest sharing, so good for men and women to help them understand each other. Love your black shoe story, your wife is a keeper. The fact that her father was so protective of your wife helped develop/test your budding relationship and allowed it to grow/strengthen emotionally before you were sexual. So important for women, and so hard to do nowadays (to women's disadvantage).

    • @planetwalker798
      @planetwalker798 3 года назад +2

      actually it was someone else, not his wife :)
      but still a good story.

  • @giftekun9972
    @giftekun9972 Год назад

    Just started seeing this you, he told me he wasn't even thinking about a relationship and boom I came along.
    This video is so relatable.

  • @stacybennett4982
    @stacybennett4982 Год назад

    Hey Mat, I love your videos...thanks for the advice.. My guy said to me "Babe, your seriously a dream come true, I love u❤"...My heart melted...so sweet

  • @ojala5555
    @ojala5555 4 года назад +10

    So so so great video❤❤❤❤❤! Thank you,thank you,thank you, Mathew! You and your wife move me to tears and remind me of my parents' marriage. You are such a loving person with a big warm heart. You are a blessing for all women here😇. I wish you all the best in the world!🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞

  • @angelawiggins7651
    @angelawiggins7651 3 года назад

    He has shared his childhood, what he works at now, and photos of where he works as well as lots of pictures of himself and his dog.. I love it.

  • @monahammond1776
    @monahammond1776 3 года назад +5

    After a wonderful week together a few weeks later he said: I want to take you on hiking weekend and share what I love with you. It was the best ever memorable moment in my life that a man ever said and it was an incredible experience.

  • @Cruella_DG
    @Cruella_DG 4 года назад +109

    If a girl does it when a guy gets scared. She’s labelled a psycho.

    • @Oscaritoooo
      @Oscaritoooo 4 года назад +5

      Exactly !!

    • @FoereaperGaming
      @FoereaperGaming 4 года назад +14

      Well stop saying it with a knife in your hand.

    • @sugarplumaesthetics6054
      @sugarplumaesthetics6054 4 года назад +3

      @@FoereaperGaming 😭😂😂

    • @gritsonamission
      @gritsonamission 3 года назад +4

      @@FoereaperGaming Then dudes need to stop breaking this news while we're cooking. LOL J/K. I don't cook.

  • @saravina8267
    @saravina8267 2 дня назад

    He said he wants to be with me & he realized that I am the right woman for him, and he said he would do whatever it takes to make it happen! 🥰

  • @TanzaniteHayley
    @TanzaniteHayley 4 года назад +6

    My guy has said ‘my friend is worried, worried that I’ll fall for you’. Bless him x

    • @TanzaniteHayley
      @TanzaniteHayley 4 года назад

      @blackcatsarecool I know it could sound like that but me and this guy didn’t want anything serious as I’ve not long come out of a separation and he’s 2 years out of a long term relationship.

  • @lisasepulveda5570
    @lisasepulveda5570 3 года назад +1

    I melted when he said....
    Where have you been my whole life💕

  • @belindaroulston152
    @belindaroulston152 2 года назад

    I read my man so well, I don't know how but I seem to be so intune with him and it shocks him 😉☺
    Just a month ago I asked him if he had given it any thought to getting any more tattoos, his response was "omg I was only just looking a some design ideas just now" (we were not together at the time I asked him this) There has been a few occasions this has happened.
    Not long after we first started chatting, he was suprised how well I understood him, he still says this now, 20 months later.
    I love this man so much 🥰 and so grateful he feels the same way.

  • @remarkable937
    @remarkable937 4 года назад +70

    It's funny, I never think of a guy as being nervous to talk to a girl or that he even has all those thoughts like it showed in the beginning clip. To me, guys attitudes are "whatever" and really don't care if a girl likes them or not, very indifferent to feelings, thoughts, etc.

    • @-Solange-
      @-Solange- 4 года назад +8

      Yes! I was surprised too.

    • @sherwetmoh.4854
      @sherwetmoh.4854 4 года назад +4

      Me too honestly, and I still cannot believe it completely tbh!

    • @DojaRogueWolf
      @DojaRogueWolf 4 года назад

      😲

    • @MsBhappy
      @MsBhappy 3 года назад +5

      We're both humans which comes with self doubt, insecurities, past hurts, fears and a yearning to be loved.

    • @remarkable937
      @remarkable937 3 года назад

      @@MsBhappy This is true. But I have never had a man display this outwardly.

  • @PaviPavi-rh3he
    @PaviPavi-rh3he 2 года назад +1

    actually, we live in a long-distance relationship, sometimes in the middle of the night he will call and say " hey I miss you so much I wish you could be here" it made me feel so close to him and nowadays he often talks about marriage, one day he said '" I can't live without let's get married, I will start to look for a place to live "I was surprised. Now we're planning for our marriage

  • @kbmc07
    @kbmc07 4 года назад +2

    So I believe the guy I’ve been with for about 2 months is my soul mate. The connection is simply unreal and unlike anything we’ve ever experienced. He has expressed his attraction and the fact that I’ve changed his life. But recently he has had some difficult circumstances come up and he has determined that he can’t focus on building our relationship as a result. He says he doesn’t know when he can revisit that and doesn’t want to lead me on-so he friend zoned me saying friendship is all he can offer right now. What’s a girl to do?

  • @belindajacques6817
    @belindajacques6817 4 года назад +15

    I think this is my favorite video this year so far!!! Love it, thank you😊

  • @the3mschannel
    @the3mschannel 4 года назад +5

    I’ve never had a guy be totally in to me to ask that question but your video made me chuckle

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  • @angeltouch4444
    @angeltouch4444 2 года назад

    every thing u mentioned, i m.experiencing it with my man..all 5 and thts where i feel so secure and happy n blessed to hv my Mr. right by my side always rock solid, no matter wht❤I love him to the universe and back. This is for u babes😘🤗❤

  • @karronfisher4188
    @karronfisher4188 3 года назад

    Happy for all of you! I think that moment might feel like " you have a moment of clarity, or you are wildly passionate about something you heard ,saw,experienced and your life stops untill you are able to tell your boyfriend, girlfriend, etc ! During the moment of telling, they received a phone call,text,in the middle of your moment," to be paused" untill you get your chance, " however" Delivery is not the same! I can see how that can be a mood changer! Thanks again for your perspective!

  • @3chickenlegs
    @3chickenlegs 2 года назад +4

    I love the way you share your personal experiences! Its so mature and helpful! And wow such a sweet story... the shoes!! 🤣 I never saw this but it's what's happening, so helpful to hear a mans side :) thank you again! xx

  • @notabotbrittany
    @notabotbrittany 4 года назад +23

    Ok. I like this shirt. Also omg I love how much Matt loves love. So presh. BRING THE WIFEY BACK ON!!!!

  • @davinawilkins2125
    @davinawilkins2125 2 года назад +1

    I have a question and didn’t know where to ask 😂… so I met this guy and he’s super sweet but I can tell he’s also very shy.. but he texts me every morning good morning, asks about my day even brought me medicine when I was sick.. after we would hang out he would immediately text me and tell me he had a great time and ask what my plans are…. I started feeling him he even told me he likes me… I recently told him how I feel and he responded with ❤❤❤ but I have not heard from him in 2 days (and I haven’t reached out.. I figured I’d give him some space and time) 😅 I think I scared him off tho… what should I do?

  • @Grrrrrrr123
    @Grrrrrrr123 2 года назад +1

    You are a wonderful communicator really 🙏

  • @maryannegarrett6247
    @maryannegarrett6247 2 года назад

    I've been texting with a guy for a little over 7 months. We see each other occasionally - a sort of long distance relationship. He's got other obligations. I've tried to cut it off several times. One time he told me he would typically say fine, and run. But he didn't. We discussed that we do want to be in each other's life. We each continue to work on ourselves and still have a good relationship. I'm not sure where it will go, but I'm enjoying the ride.

  • @sakurasan2091
    @sakurasan2091 3 года назад +4

    I'm a girl, and that thought of "oh I'm in trouble" is also correct for me. I dont use to lose control, or feel to much, a rational woman here, lol

  • @rakshagopiehund8036
    @rakshagopiehund8036 4 года назад +2

    My best moment this guy i met over social media, he stole my pic and sent a sweetest birthday message💖

  • @tamaralandreneau8005
    @tamaralandreneau8005 Год назад +1

    I love when you share something with us, that I've been experiencing with my love, that you've made me view in a different way.
    Blessings, to you . 😍❤️🌹🥰🌹

  • @nikikula9693
    @nikikula9693 4 года назад +1

    Thank you so much Matt, finally he said that he loves me and I promised I'm not gonna leave him till the day I die.

  • @NaturallyWit
    @NaturallyWit 4 года назад +11

    Wow I'm already the first point in and this is already helpful. I'm still learning more about myself after being single for a year now. I'm concerned that I'll be overwhelmed when the right guy comes around. But it's helpful to know that if he's really feeling me he's not going to let me go that do easily 🥰

  • @valentinanocross8677
    @valentinanocross8677 4 года назад +7

    This is the best video for remembering our future. Manifesting in feeling. I love this Matt.

    • @lioydwilliams1850
      @lioydwilliams1850 4 года назад

      Valentina Nocross, you look stunning dear

    • @kealeyadrian7926
      @kealeyadrian7926 4 года назад

      Hello my dear,I can refer you to a relationship expert who help me to manifesty my ex back few days ago,he can also help you too

    • @kealeyadrian7926
      @kealeyadrian7926 4 года назад

      Whatzpp him now

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  • @tessmunoz6351
    @tessmunoz6351 3 года назад

    From what u shared i now knew that he wants me to share memories with him.his not saying what he felt towards me but when he is here he always say that he wants to do lots of stuff with me.his not so vocal of what he is feeling but we do a lot of stuff together.thanks for sharing this.

  • @LanaAnneMD
    @LanaAnneMD 2 года назад +1

    Good video, but caution: narcs do this too, so we need to be aware and not afraid to ask upfront direct questions that require a definitive answer. Narcs don't expect this, so they tend to hedge

  • @hakunamatata1352
    @hakunamatata1352 3 года назад +1

    Once I was with a guy (and some friends). I had been feeling homesick all day, and we were looking at a particularly beautiful night sky and mentioned that, wondering if them back home were looking too. With a tone of total indignation, he said that surely the night sky was the same everywhere!?!! That hurt. Haven't seen him in years. Couldn't care less.

  • @judyhough197
    @judyhough197 Год назад +1

    Thank you Matt I always enjoy your videos , I want to tell you about Ken and I met in November of last year 2022 , we haven't been together very long we flirted with each other but one day out of the blue ken told me that he loves me and I aww thank you baby I love you too , but I been hurt by my passed relationship ken looks at it as a challenge he told me that he not the other guys and he is going to change my mind and you know what Ken has changed my mind I do love him 😘❤️ very much

  • @tamarah1470
    @tamarah1470 3 года назад +1

    Love the part where really doesn’t make a lot of time for you and say you’re probably get bored and find someone else. That is like with me and my man he’s in the Navy he’s a surgeon he tells me I don’t really have a Lotta time for you that it scared me away I see it as a challenge like you’re saying and I told him I am in it for the long-haul. We are still together long distance relationships are really really hard but it’s totally worth it❤️

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      @abigealmayowa1001 3 года назад

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