Story 4- wow! What beautiful souls OP and his wife are. End of life care is extremely difficult for everyone involved and he gave compassion and dignity to his ex wife’s ex husband. What amazing human beings. I agree- although he was right about his ex being a witch (that is actually a nice way of putting it), he could have said it differently to his son. But his compassion outweighs that, in my opinion.
Story 6 - Had the same growing up. Gramma put a sign on the closet dubbing it the "Toy Library" just like the book library you had to have a "library card" and you could sign toys in and out for 1 week and then you had to return them to get other toys. (we did every Sunday at Grammas). Anything that wasn't returned, Mom and Dad would have to pay a $30 replacement fee the following week no matter if it was a $1.50 toy from the Doller Store or your priveleges to check out toys were suspended until the toy was returned along with a $5 late fee or parents paid $30. LMAO. Believe you me, it was rare that toys were not returned.
Story 2 - "How DARE my wife think im the type of guy to cheat on his pregnant wife. No way!!!... Im the type of guy to divorce his pregnant wife the moment and temporary problem pops up."
Story 2, I went through the same thing! My mind was convinced my husband was cheating on me while I was pregnant even though he’s never given me any reason to think that. I finally talked to him about it and felt better afterwards. It only lasted about a month, but pregnancy hormones can really mess with your mind.
4:13 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 psycho stalker. This is when you hear the news story “if I can’t have her no one can” and then a body turns up for a missing female…. This girl needs to get a restraining order ASAP!!!!!!!!!!!
Story 1. This guy has to be hung up on her. He only went to the reunion to see her, got mad she's moved on and wants to run her relationship so maybe she'll give him another chance. Yeah, creep vibes for sure. But to mention a past high school boyfriend does not need to be brought up. Weirdo
The Toy Closet Story....the person who commented "well, you actually might be the ahole..." yeah, that's the person you see in all of the comments on AITAH posts. that person knows dang well the person in this story should take their kids' toys back, but you better believe they're gonna say they shouldn't. bad attention is still attention, and those people are starved for attention. they're the people who can't hide their mental disorders.. they're fully displayed. even in their day to day life.
I love you. I really do.. but story 2. Yeah I'm fuming. Communication. Pregnancy is fine, but what about communicating to others? I get hormons and everything. But doesn't mean he has to accept it 100%. Regardless of pregnancy, you need some accountability
13:20 he feels controling...The divorce ultimatum just to lay her worries to rest is ego driven and feels abusive to me... there's a LOT more to that story I'm sure!
Turkey theft: parents said they didn't like the boyfriend and yet they still let him in their home. He was wrong for taking a he turkey and most espe the bomb threat. But parents also have to take some accountability for things that happened. You allowed him into that side of the family because you were afraid to tell your adult daughter no, and look what happened. I don't blame the other family members for being angry because it's just as much your fault. Stop being afraid of your kids
Cheating dreamer: this was by no means grounds for divorce but pregnancy hormones aside you are responsible for how you handle those hormones and you chose to accuse your husband and father of your child of cheating when you had no proof except for a silly dream. If children can regulate their emotions then so can qn adult married soon to be mother, pregnant or not, that's no excuse.
Story 1- I think he and his family are the abusive ones… he left a comment saying that when they were dating, she was a Vegetarian. She came to meet his parents and because they ‘weren’t fond’ of Vegetarians, the sneakily fed her Chicken Soup. When she figured that out the got angry, confronted them, and left. He apparently didn’t do shit to support her. Idk but he and his parents sound like the full of shit ones to me. Not her.
Story 2- It wasn't one incident. OP described the final straw for himself and you're treating it like that was all he went through. If he is home 5 days of the week there is going to be more of those things going on. The moment we hear "pregnant" we tend to side with them, but an unhealthy relationship is an unhealthy relationship regardless of the partners condition. Of course the post is all from OP's perspective so take it with a grain of salt, but usually I'd expect to hear that the person obsessed with cheating is usually doing something themselves.
The moment I hear "pregnant" I immediately think "okay, here's some irrational logic that we'll just blame on them being pregnant and not consider that they do know what they're doing." My hormones go absolutely NUTS when PMSing (I actually have PMDD so it tends to be more severe) but that doesn't mean I'm not completely aware of what I'm doing.
NOW, you pissed me off, sir.. story 2. Simple fact. Yes, trust is earned. But if you have been together long enough to get married.. and there is not enough trust in your partner.. WHY the hell did they get married?? My wife and I have been together 30 years.. I would never ask my wife for her phone..I'm with OP, the MOMENT, the trust is gone enough to search a phone or emails to see if your partner is cheating.... marriage is over.. cause once that thought is there. It will ALWAYS be there... to me, that's just a matter of facts..
I agree, the moment she chose to go through his phone, that trust was gone. OP saying "If you look through my phone, it's over" is not him saying he has something to hide. It's him saying "if you really know me and trust me, you have no need to go through my phone because you know I wouldn't cheat on you." She still looked through his phone after being explicitly told what the ramifications would be (cue shocked Pikachu face when he followed through.) No one in a relationship should have to deal with constantly being accused of cheating when they've given their significant other no reason to believe that...they've just created a scenario in their head that their partner is cheating.
If you don't trust your partner with your phone, it's probably because you have something to hide. And what better way to make your partner insecure than to ensure she knows you would literally end the relationship rather than have any transparency?
@emilypaxton5601 problem is my wife's phone has work info on it, and she deals with patients.. so God forbid I look in her phone. I can get her in soooooo much trouble with Hippa. So we can't ALWAYS be transparent with our phones.. that was my point, and I'm sorry if it didn't come across that way.. but some people have work info on their phones that their S.O. just can't see.. and human nature makes most people. If you tell them you can go on my phone, just not this folder. The average person is GOING to look in that folder.. Like I said, my facts and I probably should have said, in my opinion, as well
@@emilypaxton5601 The problem is not that there is something hidden on the phone, but rather the lack of trust that would lead someone to searching the other person's phone.
Story 2 - I think you completely missed the mark. Too often women are given a pass for whatever their actions are because they're pregnant. I think it's time we stop using pregnancy as a pass for women to treat their husbands/boyfriends like garbage just because of their hormones. OP's feelings are valid and her accusing him of cheating is no better than him asking for a paternity test after the baby is born "just to make sure." It hurts a person to be accused of cheating with no basis. OP's wife's feelings aren't the only ones that matter.
So I agree that we shouldn’t use it to drag on men. I’m 4 months out from pregnancy and I feel like my old self again. I was having such VISCERAL dreams, I had to ask my husband if things really happened at least once a week. It was wild. I had such realistic dreams and I felt they were so real, I felt like I never slept some nights. I absolutely dreamt my husband cheated on me. But it was only once. I could see actually believing it until seeing the phone because the dreams feel scarily real.
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This is the behaviour of a stalker. Early stages but meeting up again had restarted it
Story 1: Dude is a narcissist who needs a reality check.
Story 4- wow! What beautiful souls OP and his wife are. End of life care is extremely difficult for everyone involved and he gave compassion and dignity to his ex wife’s ex husband. What amazing human beings. I agree- although he was right about his ex being a witch (that is actually a nice way of putting it), he could have said it differently to his son. But his compassion outweighs that, in my opinion.
Story 6 - Had the same growing up. Gramma put a sign on the closet dubbing it the "Toy Library" just like the book library you had to have a "library card" and you could sign toys in and out for 1 week and then you had to return them to get other toys. (we did every Sunday at Grammas). Anything that wasn't returned, Mom and Dad would have to pay a $30 replacement fee the following week no matter if it was a $1.50 toy from the Doller Store or your priveleges to check out toys were suspended until the toy was returned along with a $5 late fee or parents paid $30. LMAO. Believe you me, it was rare that toys were not returned.
Story 1: what a freakshow! It seems like he hasn't gotten over her!
Story 2 - "How DARE my wife think im the type of guy to cheat on his pregnant wife. No way!!!... Im the type of guy to divorce his pregnant wife the moment and temporary problem pops up."
Story 2- Candy Thunder's comment was right on the head.
Story 2, I went through the same thing! My mind was convinced my husband was cheating on me while I was pregnant even though he’s never given me any reason to think that. I finally talked to him about it and felt better afterwards. It only lasted about a month, but pregnancy hormones can really mess with your mind.
4:13 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 psycho stalker. This is when you hear the news story “if I can’t have her no one can” and then a body turns up for a missing female…. This girl needs to get a restraining order ASAP!!!!!!!!!!!
First guy is wild!!!!!
thank you for the new video!
Story 3: Chris is going to take her college years, and then he's going to take her trust fund.
Story 1. This guy has to be hung up on her. He only went to the reunion to see her, got mad she's moved on and wants to run her relationship so maybe she'll give him another chance. Yeah, creep vibes for sure. But to mention a past high school boyfriend does not need to be brought up. Weirdo
Story 2: Husband clearly already is out the door. The phone is an excuse. Pregnant wife needs to get full custody of the baby.
The Toy Closet Story....the person who commented "well, you actually might be the ahole..." yeah, that's the person you see in all of the comments on AITAH posts. that person knows dang well the person in this story should take their kids' toys back, but you better believe they're gonna say they shouldn't. bad attention is still attention, and those people are starved for attention. they're the people who can't hide their mental disorders.. they're fully displayed. even in their day to day life.
Story 2. Maybe his selfish separate attitude is causing her ancestors about him having someone else
I love you. I really do.. but story 2. Yeah I'm fuming. Communication. Pregnancy is fine, but what about communicating to others? I get hormons and everything. But doesn't mean he has to accept it 100%. Regardless of pregnancy, you need some accountability
28:47 sounds like his plan worked; he totally isolated her... now he has complete control.
13:20 he feels controling...The divorce ultimatum just to lay her worries to rest is ego driven and feels abusive to me... there's a LOT more to that story I'm sure!
The guy who's wife is pregnant and wants to leave her is a walking red flag! I'd put money on him having another fone! He's for sure upto something.
I'm angry about Story 3, ngl.
Still listening to it. I’m fuming
To mess with a funeral is crazy
Was he thinking about someone???
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Turkey theft: parents said they didn't like the boyfriend and yet they still let him in their home. He was wrong for taking a he turkey and most espe the bomb threat. But parents also have to take some accountability for things that happened. You allowed him into that side of the family because you were afraid to tell your adult daughter no, and look what happened. I don't blame the other family members for being angry because it's just as much your fault. Stop being afraid of your kids
9:40
I am not trusting this guy either, he is hiding something.
Cheating dreamer: this was by no means grounds for divorce but pregnancy hormones aside you are responsible for how you handle those hormones and you chose to accuse your husband and father of your child of cheating when you had no proof except for a silly dream. If children can regulate their emotions then so can qn adult married soon to be mother, pregnant or not, that's no excuse.
Story 1- I think he and his family are the abusive ones… he left a comment saying that when they were dating, she was a Vegetarian. She came to meet his parents and because they ‘weren’t fond’ of Vegetarians, the sneakily fed her Chicken Soup. When she figured that out the got angry, confronted them, and left. He apparently didn’t do shit to support her.
Idk but he and his parents sound like the full of shit ones to me. Not her.
Story 2- It wasn't one incident. OP described the final straw for himself and you're treating it like that was all he went through. If he is home 5 days of the week there is going to be more of those things going on. The moment we hear "pregnant" we tend to side with them, but an unhealthy relationship is an unhealthy relationship regardless of the partners condition. Of course the post is all from OP's perspective so take it with a grain of salt, but usually I'd expect to hear that the person obsessed with cheating is usually doing something themselves.
The moment I hear "pregnant" I immediately think "okay, here's some irrational logic that we'll just blame on them being pregnant and not consider that they do know what they're doing."
My hormones go absolutely NUTS when PMSing (I actually have PMDD so it tends to be more severe) but that doesn't mean I'm not completely aware of what I'm doing.
Story 1 they was kids… move on she is NOT the same person. I understood closure but he doing to much
NOW, you pissed me off, sir.. story 2. Simple fact. Yes, trust is earned. But if you have been together long enough to get married.. and there is not enough trust in your partner.. WHY the hell did they get married?? My wife and I have been together 30 years.. I would never ask my wife for her phone..I'm with OP, the MOMENT, the trust is gone enough to search a phone or emails to see if your partner is cheating.... marriage is over.. cause once that thought is there. It will ALWAYS be there... to me, that's just a matter of facts..
Yeah that’s not how trust is earned and kept.
I agree, the moment she chose to go through his phone, that trust was gone. OP saying "If you look through my phone, it's over" is not him saying he has something to hide. It's him saying "if you really know me and trust me, you have no need to go through my phone because you know I wouldn't cheat on you." She still looked through his phone after being explicitly told what the ramifications would be (cue shocked Pikachu face when he followed through.) No one in a relationship should have to deal with constantly being accused of cheating when they've given their significant other no reason to believe that...they've just created a scenario in their head that their partner is cheating.
If you don't trust your partner with your phone, it's probably because you have something to hide. And what better way to make your partner insecure than to ensure she knows you would literally end the relationship rather than have any transparency?
@emilypaxton5601 problem is my wife's phone has work info on it, and she deals with patients.. so God forbid I look in her phone. I can get her in soooooo much trouble with Hippa. So we can't ALWAYS be transparent with our phones.. that was my point, and I'm sorry if it didn't come across that way.. but some people have work info on their phones that their S.O. just can't see.. and human nature makes most people. If you tell them you can go on my phone, just not this folder. The average person is GOING to look in that folder.. Like I said, my facts and I probably should have said, in my opinion, as well
@@emilypaxton5601 The problem is not that there is something hidden on the phone, but rather the lack of trust that would lead someone to searching the other person's phone.
Story 2 - I think you completely missed the mark. Too often women are given a pass for whatever their actions are because they're pregnant. I think it's time we stop using pregnancy as a pass for women to treat their husbands/boyfriends like garbage just because of their hormones. OP's feelings are valid and her accusing him of cheating is no better than him asking for a paternity test after the baby is born "just to make sure." It hurts a person to be accused of cheating with no basis. OP's wife's feelings aren't the only ones that matter.
Hormones are hormones. You can't control them. But if he was ready to leave JUST like that, he was already not IN the marriage.
So I agree that we shouldn’t use it to drag on men. I’m 4 months out from pregnancy and I feel like my old self again. I was having such VISCERAL dreams, I had to ask my husband if things really happened at least once a week. It was wild. I had such realistic dreams and I felt they were so real, I felt like I never slept some nights. I absolutely dreamt my husband cheated on me. But it was only once. I could see actually believing it until seeing the phone because the dreams feel scarily real.
Story 2: Defending her. Female privilege double standards.