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Why Is The Narcissist Rotting?
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- Опубликовано: 26 фев 2021
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The narcissist is rotting. What does this mean and why is it happening?
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Winning is everything for the narcissist, for them to win, you have to lose. Cut the toxic cord and never look back. Leave them to rot, job done. 😊
How do I know he is a narcissist 😢 ????
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Logically makes sense. Agree.
@@maroneem3209?. You should try something called self awareness and noticing your being abused , maybe? Just an idea But if you have to ask that ( albeit I know that you just said that you understood the question) tells me that either a, there taking the p, or b, they are just a looking for attention and are probably a narcissist or a victim and a narcissist 😊
my ex is 50 but looks 65 karma is a patient gangster
I wish it were
My ex was looking good when I met him. Good for his age. 1,5 years later I left him and his adult son escaped. He lost weight, his face is slim and dark, added like 10 years 🎉
Lmao patient gangster got it
😂😂
Where we were just patiently pitying while waiting to see our chance to escape and never look back, he once used the word rot about me, saying that my rot is spread to him still that was yet another example of how he was projecting his LLL ( lower lesser level)
It took 3 years longer to escape
4:19 😂😂 talking about the life support he often spoke about if he was in a coma and or life support DONT let them just turn it off because he might not really be dead, I remember I retorted’ what if I need to charge my phone?’ Oh dear 😂😂😂 forgot about the lack of humour and irony
If you want to watch a narc foam at the mouth tell them a certain situation has "nothing to do with you" and they will almost have convulsions. Then don't react! Pure bliss. 🤗
This is literally what happened to my mother’s abusive, narcissistic ex after she was finally able to break free and go no contact. He drank himself to death and towards the end refused to answer the door even to concerned acquaintances. He was eventually found dead, alone and rotting in his bed. A fitting end for a horrible person who for years, brought so much torment to our lives. Without my mother, he, having never treated anyone else well and with no one to one left to torment, had nothing left. Thank you, HG. This is brilliant. It is actually quite therapeutic to understand what was happening to this man who brought such misery to our lives after we were finally free of his control.
Now he's really rotting in hell
I've witnessed this too... Without her best supply her hair fell out and she instantly aged.. . When her favourite supply was back in her life, she was younger again and the hair grew back... Their not even human.
Yes, this happened to my mother. And here I always thought this phenomenon was caused by sudden rushed aging. Now I am now waiting for this to happen to another who caused the remainder of our family to disintegrate.
And 'their not' is not even good writing or grammar. 😂
It’s pathetic seeing the rotting narc frantically and manically seeking attention.
I'm being bullied by others for not speaking to her. I don't care. We don't punish them. We simply won't be a doormat for them anymore.
My narcissist ex will be 62 in October. He is a big shot lawyer but the strokes are getting fewer. He likes to play in bands and pretends they are actual bands. His um "parts" aren't working anymore. As a man in his 30s, 40s, and 50s, he had more fuel than he knew what to do with. I met him in his autumn, and he future faked like MAD during golden period. He said he and his wife were separating but it was allll a lie. I got out safely, but there's a part of me that enjoys his fall. He's aging and not well. His wife has become a Covid19 shut in for fear of long Covid. His world is getting smaller and smaller, and his delusions are catching up with him. Zero possibility of self-actualization or even joy in his old age. Being a narcissist is automatic Karma. They have to be themselves. Edit: He has adopted a steady Marijuana habit that his wife shares and this helps with the decline in fuel and increased isolation.
My ex is 62 and his “parts” haven’t been working since his late 50’s. Lies, future fakes people. Good riddance!
This is a clear sign of their short-sightedness... Over years they will lose people who really loved them and really cared for them by their manipulative and abused behaviors... And in their late age, they will pay the services of fuels and resident benefits to people who don't love them and serve them for one purpose only: obtain the money...
They destroyed all people who loved them to obtain people who are interested only in their money... A very sad ending for the narcissistic people... If this isn't the karma, I don't know what it is... Thx HG for all the knowledge you provide us in these videos 💖
Indeed but of course the narcissism will never allow this to be seen. If you want more insight in this regard listen to The Deathbed Narcissist Series.
@@hgtudor-theultra Always the best HG ❤️
@@hgtudor-theultra
Thanks for the information. I didn't know that serie. Makes me think of my old witch mother and witch sounds like b...
Gotta check it out!
THIS!
I find that being with a narc has given me a window into a clearer understanding of the demonic and diabolical and largely ignored spiritual component of narciccism in our secular society,,Jesus Christ never minced words when rebuking the Pharisees in scripture,,calling them "white washed tombs,full of dead man's bones." "A brood of vipers",,etc. I have a narcissist mother,,she is a very "religious" narc.,,C.S. Lewis said that " Some of the most evil people in the world are religious evil people". And in my experience,,they are true monsters in human form,,my dog has more 'humanity" than these freaks on the devil's leash,,and I would always prefer to be in the company of my dog than to be around these evil twisted monster.
This happened to the woman who birthed me; I was born to be her primary source. My father was also a primary source but she drove him into an early grave, at 50- a heart attack from all the stress and dysfunction. Her health declined when I moved out, she had to have her gall bladder removed. I moved a little further away; she was hospitalized and diagnosed with Type 2 diabetes. BTW, I did keep in touch with her and took her out to eat on occasion but she always continued with the cruelty towards me, her favorite scapegoat. She would insult me, scream insults, hang up on me! My therapist suggested I break away when the Narc started in with demeaning my children simply because they were mine (in front of my kids and me the woman purposely loved and spoiled my siblings' kids.) I raised my children differently, breaking the cycle; I was determined they would not suffer from trauma and CPTSD like me. Two of my sibs didn't have kids the one who did (have 3) let that woman raise them much of the time. I believe they were neglected (like I was) but I don't think she had the total access for fuel as she had in her 'prime'. She got MS and deteriorated rapidly, dying in her mid 60's.
My mother was good at pitting one person against another. After a time it got to the stage where no one in the family ever spoke to each other. So I understand where you are coming from. My mother was hateful, grasping and greedy, may she rest on a lower plane of existence.
If she was good with your siblings but not with you, you might be the problem. The tell that you are the problem is you calling her the person that birth you. No matter how bad a person is, if she is your mother, you should call her mother.
@@GapModel1You know nothing about her situation. I call the person that gVe birth to me my egg donor, because she sabataged my whole life.
Sorry to hear…that’s sad actually.
Good heavens! What a hell for the narcissist and everyone around them. You really can't get anywhere. With them. They destroy their feeling and if you don't realize what is happening , you will also be destroyed or left with no feeling. God help these people and their caretakers. 🙏🙏
I don’t believe the narcissist cares at all. Agree tho, that it is a certain hell to know one, personally.
They can use you as a tool; you may be doing wrong to people who don't deserve it and don't be aware. That's what's worse.
@@Lyrielonwind yes, like Meghan and Prince Harry
Why help a narc? They needed help before they became one but once they are one it's too late like a zombie or vampire there is no going back, no help just them being unable to have love, empathy or anything other then a need to control and appear in a what they believe is positive light
......because they are dead. Thinking they are alive
yes they die
They are not dead.
@@annekerotterdam7499
I think she means dead inside.
They don’t even exist. There just a collection of identifies that they stole from people. We were cat fished and abused by a delusion.
Tania Jean louis the mere truth is frightening from a logical perspective.
I realized my narc was fine after huge fights. He would speak all calmly to people on the phone. He was fine because he had a reaction. Now I just don’t care . .
The last few years he countless times said he wanted to be dead already. Life sucked, he was done. This March karma finally told him okay let's go. The last time I saw him lying in the hospital bed he held his mothers hand and begged her to help him. He drank himself there. Not a fun way to go. I'm alone with my dog and cat, his parents live next door (we have a hay farm) in the country. It's peaceful now and I am healing. One day at a time my friends. God has this
Why replace narc illusions for godly ones? Both aren't full of substance and are fake news. Wake up to reality.
She is rotting in the "Physical Sence". In one year she looks like she has aged 10 yrs. Such beauty wasted.
My ex narc is falling apart, teeth and all. All the drugs and unhealthy eating will hopefully kill him.
@Caroline Carradine they had one for the last 4 yrs its called the white house
@@pjpredhomme7699 Hahaha!
True.
@@PatriciaSobralArtz Are you alright in the head? Kill him? Seriously???
I was a shell of a person after my ex narcissist left me for another woman. I'd aged about a decade during the 3 years that we lived together. I'm currently going through a depression since finding out that I was nothing more than a DLS to the latest narcissist, and that he had fallen deeply in love with someone else. Initially in both cases, I felt relieved but devastated at the same time. Logically, I know that I'm better off alone... but it still hurts.
You’ve just described my aunt. She is rotting and it’s driving her nuts. Last time she summoned me to pay her a visit, it was to honor her husband’s 5th year memorial. I arrived and realized that everyone attending the event besides me and my two small children were staff. Her housekeeper, her lawyer, her driver, her hairdresser, her tailor, etc. I was the only one there that showed up that was not on her payroll and I only showed up because she was pestering me for weeks and lured me with very expensive theatre tickets for my children to watch The Lion King which I couldn’t afford otherwise. She was cruel and berating as usual and I realized that I was under no obligation to put up with her nonesense and decided right then that it was the last time I ever go through that. It’s been such a relief not dealing with her anymore.
What they carry around inside of them, aside from their abject emptiness, eventually manifests. Still I have compassion, but from a distance of course.
Oh yes......my ex not only has crap health due to his gluttonous lifestyle he is now dependent on opioids. Glad I escaped being his nursemaid.
Doesn't sound too good. 😕
My ex narc friend hit the drugs hard, then gained 60 lbs in last year. Didn't shower.
Sounds like a lovely person but I’m confused. I could have written your description about my Narc. Was he your Narc? Escape notwithstanding. You have my condolences.
sounds like vampires dying from starvation
They are narculas 🦇
Sounds like a human with a disorder*
Current unaware, alcoholic, rager lower ranger is 39 going on 72. "Rotting" is the perfect way to describe his physical and mental decline. And honestly, it's one of the ugliest and most glorifying things I've ever witnessed.
The irony being... its incredibly narcissistic to think "they are dying/rotting without ME in their lives"
I lost weight only after a few months with her while she gained in weight.
That's a sign of energy exchange; she literally took my own energy. But now she has no source...
Yes, they STEAL your energy from you and live on it. You shrivel while they shine.
This happened to a friend of mine who I believe is mid range type A. Her mom was her primary source for sure. She went completely nuts after her mother died. She started causing rifts between me and my own mother in an attempt to steal my own mother away from me. It was pretty sick. It was then that I realized what she was. I ended up moving far away from her.
yes, my Mom used to do this too and she was a mid range type A. I believe this totally.
My ex of 13 years, mom passed of covid in 2020. I carded her casket. My 80 yr old mom is still alive and I think she's jelous that instill have mine and she doesn't have hers anymore. 6 months later she took all her things and moved out and into her mom's old room at her brothers house. I was a step dad as well helped her daughter get a hs diploma as everyone dropped out of school on that side. Doesn't matter they don't care. Means nothing to them.
Took the family car cleaned me out. Whole 9 yards. I have less now than when I first met her. 😕 horrible people
They DO steal your people! It's sad really, that who we thought were OUR peeps...end up bonding with such awfulness!
This is slowly happening to my mother and I’m living for it
How does she act?
@@lauradelregno99
Now that my last sister who was living with her has moved out, she has been lashing out at my sister more because of course my sister leaving is a threat to her control and I imagine she is desperate as she does not have a partner.
She also started drinking more in recent years. I do not witness anything directly as I no longer speak to her, but my other siblings sometimes share this information with me.
I was told that my mother is interacting on social media more and in some cases expecting celebrities to respond to her and generally making very bizarre comments about her use of social media, suggesting that she expects to be treated as more important than she actually she
@@lauradelregno99
Oh I forgot to add that she’s also in debt with her rent payments, and she wanted to keep this hidden
Mine is 85 looks more like 105.. she blames my enabler father for how she looks.....
Yep, I can imagine that this is happening and will only get worse for my ex. Thank you.
Same with mine x)
Happened to my stepmom and is currently happening with my ex wife.
It's like they are vampires who need their human blood and they shrivel if they don't get it. Don't forget that, like a vampire sucking the blood out of a human, their victims are harmed as they get their supply. The victim ROTS until they get free.
It is rotting, and it deserves to rot, good riddance.
I have pictures of an ex during supply with me and after with NO supply. Its scary, he went from looking in shape muscular and healthy to looking like a skinny, completely crazy skeleton. From keeping his hair perfectly to not even cutting it and it stood on its ends, that crazy stare in his eyes aswell and a sunken in face.. Its spooky. They look crazy.
My ex looked crazy at the end...Imagine seeing a 6"4 ,250lb looking like a skeleton..We were together for years,years ago but I left him....I ended up seeing him his new fiancee and his narc mom at a store...I had talked to him over the phone but hadn't seen him about a year and a half...
I was in awe at how he appeared...Half of himself...was there....It was weird and of course I had to say something..He was so embarrassed that I saw him...
Well eventually I went through a break up so dis he hus fiancee left him...That us when the hoovering of me started as a old supply...If course I didn't know any of this at the time.Boy this stuff is crazy...
O M G...I SAW THAT SAME VISUAL IN MY X NARC..IT WAS AS IF AT 69 . HE WAS A PATHETIC PSYCHOTIC UNKEMPT OLD MAN.
I PITIED HIM
I take no pleasure from their demise. So mama wasn't around enough to completely F me, theirs was. It's draining, is kind of pleasure, it's Schadenfreude. Toxic.
We should share pictures..
@@melinatedvessel6840 it is a spiritual DEATH
In retrospect, my narc friend was rotting. Many of his friends stopped spending time with him over the last five years. Addiction and/or mental illness made him increasingly less hygienic and repeatedly saying increasingly more socially unacceptable things, racist, incendiary, just to get reactions. Me and my other friend were his closest friends, but we finally bailed once the domestic violence started and the drug use escalated.
I don’t derive pleasure from knowing this happened to my sister. It is sad actually. But, I didn’t budge when she tried to get me back.
Mine as well.It's a sad sight..
Mine too. Karma for the living hell shes bestowed on so many people, animals and children.
I only managed to get out and get in control of my emotional thinking thanks to HG’s videos. All the stuff I left behind though.... 😢 Never mind
I still break down at all the things I had to give up or leave behind. I can't bear it sometimes it really gets to me
Ditto... 😢😡
@@VMM34 no its good u left it there. Those are triggers and they keep u STUCK bother emotionally and at times physically. U lose motivation and don't feel like doing anything, as a result of what happened and flash backs from those triggers. It hurts at first but it's for the best in the long term
@@VMM34 🥺😥
OMG, My husband died exactly one year after he could no longer be at the office after selling our business to our son. He lost many sources of supply.
So this is what happened to my ex: he wasn’t as successful in his job as before, family members became more distant ect. He‘s always had health issues, even friends who aren’t in close contact noticed that he was constantly ill and I had to take care of him.
Well, I wonder whether his new supply does the same, considering that she has three small kids of her own to care for? Good luck- I‘m off the hook! 🤗
Thank you for this explanation. I now have a better understanding of what my grandfather was. Your description was terrifyingly accurate to what I heard and saw of my grandfather near his end.
Don't forget, even during a discard by the narcissist, the victim can suffer depression so bad and torment that they also suffer weight loss bad health etc depression can ruin a person.
@Zian Lowell that's an internal object. Introject is what it's called. Their voice, triggers cause flashbacks of what happened, your mood drops etc. U have to SAY to yourself. "STOP..This is emotional thinking. They're not even here anymore. I'm doing this to myself. They're a fn fraud. They DON'T CARE, only about themselves. Why should I care about someone who doesn't care."
Just because you wouldn't do those things, doesn't mean they wouldn't think twice about it. Positive, negative, they don't care. As long as it's attention. The need to be right ALL the time.
@Zian Lowell u believe what u tell yourself. Every day multiple times a day u tell yourself positive things about yourself. It's called affirmations.
U begin to believe it. At that point, the recovery doubles in speed. And healing begins to speed up. You're pulling YOURSELF out that emotional hole. Staying home ruminating also keeps u on that wheel of misery. These videos help for the first year or so, but when u can answer the question in the titles of the video, ya you're done watching them. U already know what the video is about before watching it. You're just keeping yourself there at this point. Pull away and implement other types of videos into ur mind. Diy stuff, crafts, projects etc. Gaming, anything but more and more narc vids.
Our communication was so terrible. I felt he kept me in his back pocket.
Interesting, I have left, and he actually said, Who will take care of me when I am older...this was his worry, amazing
and yet this is also what nearly every parent on the planet says in reference to their child ...interesting
My father (narc) used to say his blind brother was foolish for never having children. They would have been his carers in old age.
My uncle was decent enough to not want his offspring to inherit his condition.
I will admit- I find the idea of this slow decay and the fuel crisis in particular most amusing.
Gee, that's a real shame. Decay setting in, addictions winning and his mummy getting very old. Almost wish I could watch, but thankfully now have better things to do.
Oh, that's my FAVORITE part: when they fuck up a good situation by acting like a complete asshole, then crying and playing victim to their own diabolical sabotage while also trying to negotiate a severance package in the midst of a burning building that they themselves set alight. Just remember: you're still the bad guy! 😆😅🤣😂
And you're the empath right? 😂
I can see how certain narcissists would rot in the case where they have terrible nutrition, poor hygiene, enjoy the drink and drugs too much, plus ailments or injury which would cause them to deteriorate overall.
So can I. Also, everything, from getting married to getting sick to claiming credit for the way people of my generation have turned out, has to be a competition with them.
Watched this and immediately recognised my narc mother. She only has my enabler father left. Zero other secondary sources except my sister who visits twice a week or so.
My dad is genuinely ill but he cooks and does everything for her whilst she lays in bed. Has never worked a day in her life.
Heres the kicker: she blames MY FATHER for what she looks like. She is 85 but looks 105.
I escaped (literally) 6 years ago to another country. I decided to go NC after a hugely big upset with her last week, i just cant do this anymore.
My mother has been abandoned by everyone bar my dad and elder sister. He is the sole focus of her rage and frustration and he is not a well man. But she will not stop until her behavior kills him.
The narcissist I was entangled with is aware of your videos. I know this because looking back, I remember that he used phrases and even your video names in our messaging. It was kind of in the context of our conversations. Imagine how stupid I felt when I eventually found your videos and realised that I was conned 🤦🏻♀️
I believe the Narcissists also watch HG to fine tune themselves. How to step up their game! It’s sick and twisted!
No, they don’t because they don’t realise they are narcissists.
@@hgtudor-theultra But don’t you tell us how you are “The Ultra Narcissist”? You are aware then??
@@hgtudor-theultra oh yes some of them are aware and some of them, take pride in it and get off in trying to 'perfect' their 'skills'. Tell the wrong narcissist what they are and they seek to perfect it and wear it like a medal 🥇 My ex husband's unaware mistress of 3 yrs called him out on being a narc and left him. He's been researching it and perfecting his manipulations ever since. Saying phrases only you say in your videos. Naming the abuse tactics when he didn't label them before. They're watching, trust me
The ex narc looked older than his parents
I wondered if I was my narc husband's "retirement plan", meaning I am much younger than him, and I found out later how he cheated often on his other relationships but with me he seemed fine to stay in the bedroom 24/7 to be catered to. I do get some satisfaction knowing my running probably really fudged all that up...almost a year of NC and I still get emails about how he's dying all the time.
This title tickles me bc I’ve always floated between telling my narc husband he was rotten and empty. Another brilliant and informative video HG 🙌🏽
Tickled pink? :)
My last narc is experiencing this among friends who are starting to see through him. He's 60, wants to be 30, talks smut about women and gossips about his closest circle. They're catching on.
Grabbing the 🍿.
Hi Sir, this is excellent, I know those who are never happy or content age very quick. May the two narcissists I know rot nice and slow😡😡
Mine seemed to be rotting in the last year of the relationship. I stopped offering as much as I had used to and he went final countdown after I left. Daily drugs like acid and meth. Sleeping with street rats. He was healthy but most of his secondary sources, intimate and non started seeing who he was, even after years and cut him off. His constantly trashing me didn't aid in that. It's like watching Rapunzel's 'mom' fall apart in the movie Tangled.
He really let himself go. We did a lot of hiking and he was going to the Gym and picking up other women (I know mow). I saw a picture of him about a year ago and he gained probably 80 -100 pounds and was drinking and doing drugs. I did say to him at that time, "What happened to you?" and then cut off all contact.
Thanks HG. That's a fine description of a Narcissist's demise. Excellent news.
Thank you for all the effort you put in HG!
You are welcome.
A narcissist is like a self destructive terminator! They can't stop even to save their own hide from bankruptcy, divorce, disgrace, illness, prison and even death. Not necessarily in that order and not just their own demise but that of others as well. Just bc they lack accountability doesn't mean there isn't any! I've seen a narc reduced to a shell it was unsettling to say the least. Like a vampire that hadn't been able to suck anyone's blood for a long time. I knew nothing about narcissism at the time but walked away with a sense that whatever was wrong was beyond repair. I mourned him that day as if he had already died bc the person I thought he was just wasn't there anymore. Later once I knew about narcissism I came to realize he really had never even existed he was after all just a facade.
Press on for Jesus !!!!!!! GODSPEED !!!!!!!! Stay on point !!!!!!!
So it safe thing to say that they are indeed their own worst enemy!Silly people. 😂
Dude that is also a PHYSICAL decomposition, i'v SEEN it, trust me.
Me To
they rot u to
@@thomaspereira2069 true! I have been force fed so much negativity, my throat is screwed! I was not speaking my truth. I am free now, tryin to get my health, and sanity back! 💚🤘
Totally agree
Looking at the comments, yes it’s understandable to feel satisfaction (especially to empaths) to see the decline of a narc.
Remember, however, that narcs can cause this to happen to others. The decline of a human being, fast or slow, doesn’t indicate whether or not they’re a narc.
A person could very well have escaped the narc, but the narc still controls them via the children or by other means, for instance.
Excellent, informative vid by the way.
You artistically and intellectually articulate what observations I made during the establishment of my no contact and.... That in itself : having a described video and in depth interpretation and insider view: that's all the revenge I need.
Beautiful.
Thank you.
This happens. I found my ex boyfriend in this state. I went to the store and bought him creams for his rashes, vitamins, fed him. It's a sorry sight. Fixed him up brought him back to life. 2 years later he kicked me in the head for it. True story. My mother used to go into her bed and fake a migraine for a couple weeks. This is very real. They literally rot away and become ill. They lose color; they gain or lose weight, they trip over there awkward words, no charm, its nasty. This is what I want ; going no contact doesn't make it happen but gosh, love to see this happen to them. I wish they would ROT. ruclips.net/video/ErvgV4P6Fzc/видео.html patience patience.
Me too! These are EVIL people. They know what they do. They deserve every bit of rotting decay.
My narc sister now has emphysema, an hearing aid and thrombosis and she uses these to control people now. She has her hearing aid working perfectly but insists people are incapable of talking properly. She makes everyone feel so inferior. She's thriving on this new found ill health
Seems like a fitting end for a narcissist.
This would explain why some old people are contankous, their desperate for fuel so a quick insult provides a quick dose of fuel.
This is it. This is the one that really resonates and I see exactly what I was dealing with. The aging Narcissist is something I’ve been wondering about more and more.
Same here. I was ensnared by a now 67 yr old. We were in our early 50's at the last go-round and there were 14 yrs to pass till this latest one thru the last year. I saw that age had caught up to him dare I say a little more than it caught up to me? We both have had a health issue or two, but it is very clearly seen in him. As for the mental health, it was a polar opposite to me. Negative and delusional compared to positive and truthful. A meanness compared to my easy-going nature. Basically alone & relying on the few friends, compared to the family and friends that surround me. It was a sharp contrast to what I remembered in years past. I had to take my leave finally, he was so very difficult to deal with. Only afterwards did I come to realize I had been in love with a narcissist for far too many years. It was a shocking discovery. Can never go back.
The word Narcissist sounds like it will be something cool, not some insufferable peice of shit to be avoided.
Like an exotic bird or something. Awesome observation.
all i can say, is this is the absolute 10000000000% truth
I am currently witnessing this with my ex best friend. Excellent t explanation H.G. Thank you grand narrator.
I moved away from my mother and was too sick to visit for a few years. Combine that with the death of her codependent drug addict sister and my mother rotted away and died. It took 3 or 4 years and was actually pitiful to witness even after all the abuse I felt for her.
You explained this really clearly, Thankyou H G🌻
I think it's all very sad. Sad for the narcissist and sad for those appliances that love the narcissist. Everybody loses.
I think this might be happening with my mother. I am her main fuel supply now, but because she sucks life out of me, for my own sanity I have to limit my contact with her to the bare minimum. Because of her health & living situation, she is not in a position to find replacement sources for all the people she has driven away. I take no pleasure in seeing her rot though, & feel guilty that I don't do more for her & spend more time with her. Because in spite of all the things she's done, I do still love her & worry about her a lot. Learning more about her narcissism definitely helps me cope.
You are low key enabling her for your own benefit of thinking you finally have a mom.
You NEVER disappoint...Good good information
IPPS is now gone (total NC) and I do believe this steady erosion will begin considering their age and limited socialization due to Covid restrictions.
My ex doesn't care about Covid restrictions, he's out and about as normal, after being so pious and sanctimonious when lockdown first began, instructing people to stay indoors and do their duty.
@@VMM34 my ex was exactly the same in that respect. Infuriating!
My ex narc is 33 years old and has been on dialysis for 4 years. I’m looking forward to the day he is bedridden and has to face himself, alone and without constant fuel. He has a job that has multiple customers. When that is taken away, he will rot I expect. 🤷♀️
Wow, you have so much cognitive empathy for everyone, you've got me feeling depressed now.😢 Your voice here reminds me of the _original_ Marvin the Paranoid Android (from the unparalleled BBC radio show). How are all the diodes down your left side doing?
PS: You've also accurately described what it's like for an empath or even a 'normal' to become disabled with a crippling disease that gets worse with age. Except instead of losing our 'fuel matrices,' we just lose all our friends and family. (Same thing, different perspective. Although the narcissists are the first to run from any sort of illness in their 'fuel matrix' and smear/accuse us of faking. It doesn't help being on the autism spectrum either. Losing your 'construct' is like autistic people 'unmasking'/losing our acquired social skills due to disuse. And people are more than happy to tell us our personalities have 'changed' or just avoid us altogether. 'Life. Don't talk to me about life ...')
I'm done . (Little bit more) I love the sound of your voice! Brilliant!
I bet he likes the sound of it more.
Daaaaaammm I call that Karma.
This is perfection
Yes ……. said Narc must be in this state of rotting……it’s been quite extraordinary to me ……. I am in minimal contact due to his condition a total wreck……
Incredible material, thank you HG Tudor
Brilliantly explained, as always.
Why do narcissists have breath that smells like rotting flesh when they are in a rage and their eyes are black?
Fascinating explanation. Thank you for the insight HG.
You hardly ask people to subscribe and to like your videos. Most people don't like the truth. Continue in your truth, the ones who subscribe, share and stay are the winners who are ready to face the truth. If one person a day becomes aware of this truth, it's a win.
Omg I watched this happen. He broke up with me and in the 6 months between my break up text that he forced me to send, and seeing him again, he looked like he aged ten years. I had a hard time looking at him because I couldn't believe this was the same man who I'd met less than 18 months ago.
And it's not just me. I would think I was just being petty but other people have asked me, what happened to "....x", he looks so old.
And I can only shrug my shoulders.
It actually made me sad at first.
But now I'm just like, whatever...
Glad You Okay
Extremely interesting facts about the narcissist!
The narc I was with was suicidal ended up in a mental hospital, I felt so bad, I wanted to help they pushed me away..I spoke to them a year ago they were battling depression, and played victim to get attention. I suppose they found someone to fuel them. They hoovered me, but I didnt respond, I just cant deal with them at all...
I would think that all the knowledge now available about the narcissist would reduce available fuel.
TUDOR, I CAN ONLY SAY.... DEAD ON!! :)
All I can say is "YEY" can't wait
They deserve this, almost like self imposed karma
See I have nothing to worry nor fear. Damn it feels good finally. See if my boundaries arent. Met. On my terms. Hey there will be someone. Who will. I dont need to settle for no bullshit or excuse. Anylonger. Damn I think I have come back to life.
Thank you HG, as ever totally enjoyable, helpful, and informative.
I am watching my upper-mid level, cerebral narc fighting this situation right now. Two years ago, his enmeshed mother died, shortly after he tripped and tore a major ligament in his thigh, a year later he tore the same ligament and this time had to undergo surgery. He is not working well with his partners, has put on 80 lbs and now has a stoop, drinks and eats too much bad food, his primary source, an enmeshed adult child, is becoming involved with another and I have shelved him...for now. I almost feel sorry for him. Almost.
Thank you HG
HG, thank you for helping me understand me
Things ended so crazy Christmas week. Beyond toxic.
Thank you for these very informative programs, H.G.
I ended a 15 year business partnership with my narc. He had been a high functioning alcoholic among other bad health choices, like a diet of mostly pizza and chicken wings. And too much sun exposure. 3 years after the discard, which he preempted (that's another miscalculation on my part), he got cancer and within 3 years after that he was gone at the age of 54. And guess who his wife turned to to salvage the last six clients he had that needed to be taken care of when he could no longer function? One guess.
You!
My narc ex is 45, but looks 55+. Like they say: when you are young, your face/beauty is given by genetics, but as you age you get the face you have deserved 😅
Very excellent.
This one is Epic!
Thanks for this very useful info HG!!
Sound like vampires without the blood