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I like watching your channel but the English subtitles are a major distraction. What's the point of English subtitles when the narrative is in english? Using the excuse that some people speak english as a 2nd language doesn't make any sense considering they all watch english with subtitles in their native language not english subtitles because it makes absolutely no sense. I have travelled extensively and there are absolutely no countries with the exception of the US that posts english subtitles if the narrative is in english.
Women seem to want the guy they can't have or the guy they want to mold into someone they want. When they get that guy or try to control him or have caught him. They are bored and move on to the next. They need the constant dopamine rush.
You are such a different person than Myron, the followers for each of you are completely different categories of people, don't stoop down to his level, it's obvious that he is worried about losing face.
She is right about wives starting to go full mommy mode and forgetting she is also a wife and neglecting her hubby. I had set an exit date in my marriage and my wife realized i was emotionally detatching and realized her mistake in the relationship snd she did a 180. Now 27 yrs and happy.
@@shawnfallahi5616 but her mentality is for provision for herself and children, so it better include intimacy with husband or she may find herself a single mom with only half the time with her children.
Sadia is correct in that women’s options shift as they get older. The thing that Sadia doesn’t say here is that as the women get older, they don’t want the older men. They want men their own age, however, the men their age (30-45) tend to look for younger women, and that is the ‘wall’ that is spoken about.
@@rf4537 It’s more common overseas. In Latin America, men ages 40 - 55 have access to women ages 25 - 35. Especially, if the man is fit, fairly decent looking (5 or greater), and financially stable.
@@rf4537Also, a man who wants children. Life is about trade-offs. Men are forced to accept that reality. Yet women think that doesn't apply to them. Buckle up for turbulence ahead, lol
Yes. But she is doing the same thing as everybody else, which is translating certain issues of men by her own experience. Like porn problem. For her, it is about gratification of being with "high value woman". Because that is her worldview. For men, it is mostly about hormonal balance. It is a physical process. For women, the hormonal cycle has one month. For men, it is 1-2 days. It is like a crocodile saying to a dog, that it has food addiction, because it has to eat every day. Different problems require different solutions
I was asked at a dance club what i was having as he wanted some because he saw me happy dancing and in high spirit. I told him it was H2O. He did not believe me. If you are confident, love yourself, live a heathy and fit lifestyle, you don't need drugs to make you feel good. Period!
Not only is Sadia's understanding of male/female dynamic so expert, she's so real and practical about it too. The part about "you don't need a pyschologist, you need pt .... you're too overweight to be here" hits so hard. That's so honest and real. They way she can break down a complex topic down to basic things is so impressive and I feel like I've leveled up just listening to all of this.
She is brilliant. She offers a different and realistic perspective in many issues. She cleared up so many issues I have been wondering for while. The world is in need of more women with a brain like hers.
@@32AA32 and why the hell not..do you expect women to sit on the coach so you can cheat on her. And throw her life away. The best years of her life. FOR YOU 🤡
Pills( blue, red , yellow , green, black )are needed. I can't wait until she gets married. Sadia is a princess who needs to live and get some experiences.
Facts! This is ruining the world and lives. It is truly sad. On one hand, we have men and women lying to their single audiences by giving them bad advice, and then going home to their husband or wife. While on the other hand, single people are following the bad advice that is guaranteed to keep them single forever and lifelong consumers of this type of content, by listening to other singles. It proves that being educated doesn't equate to being intelligent. I really hate this for us.
It's incredible how spot on Sadia is about the male psyche and what our needs are, how we camouflage them and how the whole world works in a way to exploit this and keep you powerless. Working on yourself and cultivating self-control and doing things to earn self-respect are key.
Sadia, your words of wisdom have helped me subconsciously for a while, but now after a little "wake up call" and sitting through a whole podcast i think im ready, thank you!
*Confidence, self-respect, and emotional intelligence are the key traits that make a man stand out. When you focus on being your best self, the attraction follows naturally.*
Sadia is a very wise woman. She understands that both sides are different, deeply flawed and have work to do. I love an impartial view on the dynamics of relationships.
Sadia is 100000% correct when she says men find nurturing women highly attractive. I fell really hard for someone who had this quality and I always was seeking it out with women I started to meet after her.
Hi Sadia, I've listened to a number of your posts & I have to say you talk a lot of sense. As a man who has had emotional trauma in his childhood I recognise the things you mentioned. Very wise words
Well....wealthy men can and do attract the top 1% of attractive women. Even when and if the wealthy dude is 20 plus Years older and is fat and ugly, he's STILL getting the top 1% attractive women chasing em down
Wow amazing Sadia. There's so much to learn from her when I listen to her pouring out a lot of practical ideas so fluently and spontaneously. A perfect role model for most women!
13:30 i didn’t drink until my 2nd semester of freshman year in college. i used to talk to all the girls sober and could interact fine (of course i had approach anxiety but would get over it after the first few). 1st semester junior year i was averaging 3 blackouts a week. my reliance on alcohol to approach girls became so bad that i literally told myself that i had to be on the edge of blacking out before i had the confidence to approach them. i’m 2 years graduated and 8 months sober and learning to be my authentic self without alcohol in social situations where i want to approach a girl. still working on it, but i’m so much more confident and proud of myself because i decided i didn’t want to rely on something to let me do what i want to do.
“For a a woman, the offers are endless.”Three points: If you live your life online, it’s true that there can be endless connections -and not just for women-yet nothing can replace the personal human interactions, the human touch. There is a big difference between chatting online and living together in matrimony. Second: The paradox of choice is that more choice you have, the more you are bound to go for no option at all. So I am not sure why men should “wake up” or why she says they overestimate themselves? Men and women are not two separate groups, they are one. What one does directly affects the other. Lastly: “Respect your body. Go to the gym.” There are people who go to gym every day and still die of a heart attack because they eat junk. So it’s not that simple. Nutrition actually accounts usually for over 80% of health, 20% is physical activity.
My ex girlfriend was a gym instructor (airobics classes), and she brought me to one of there AW events, it was silly much nonhelthy stuff, they basicly trained hard soo they could eat lots of junk acasionally. Soo you are soo right! And I don't know if all that training stress is excactly 100% healty. If it is endless why all makeup and operations first.
You like skinny dudes??? 😂 once you get past a certain age you lose 10% of your muscle mass per year. I hate it if I don't look hot with my clothes off for, for my woman and I expect her to be hot and in shape for me. Of course there are people who like skinny sex, and others who like chubby sex 😂😂😂😂😂 but that ain't me.
whats more likely to happen you die of a heart attack as an active person or you die of a heart attack as someone that never gets off their ass? no one said going to the gym makes you immune to an pre existing conditions or mortality in general its just healthier and more visually acceptable in general than being overweight. what working out does is increase your RMR which allows you to burn more calories which makes the 80% more effective. if you dont want to go to the gym just say so...i would love it if more people didnt it would be alot easier to get stuff done in there lol so please spread your logic to as many people as possible lmao...
Not every woman wants top 10 guys. Y’all are so delusional from watching this red pill. In reality, women date and marry those of their class and circle.
It is most beautifully explained for middle age people. It covers so many subjects, it get me thinking for many hours. Every one 17 and anwords should watch this!!! I will show my girls when they grow up. p.s. I have learned a lot about my self too. Many many thanks :)
I'm am up at 330am every day, working out at 4am, at work at 6am as a Journeyman Lineman. It's not just CEO's that do this. Honestly I hate working out and if I had to do it at 5pm I wouldn't do it. So I get it done and over with before the day starts. I'm 47 and look better than I did when I was 20 because Im consistent, watch my food intake and rarely drink.
Almost no CEOs actually do this. They want YOU to do it, because it's good for their profits. It's a simple manipulation that so many fools fall for. However, if you're self-employed, that's different
When I had my own apartment, I didn't have a TV or a phone line connection or even an internet connection. And I got more things done in my life if I needed the internet for online banking I went round to my parent's house and used their internet to pay bills. I read more books listen to music got better as cooking food, my fitness got better I enjoyed dating more had no distractions, even had a basic mobile phone talk and text. I miss those days.
They can't be endless. A 21 or 22 year old chick has men of every range to pick from that will take her seriously depending on her looks and behavior. A good looking 50 or 60 year old woman may have younger men that will smash, but they overwhelmingly wouldn't take her seriously long term.
3:20 was me. Just realized quality time is my love language not physical. Unbelievable realization and my depression left the moment I put time into actually being in the moment
She makes a lot of good points. Some of it is funny as s^&& but true. It's good and refreshing to see an attractive well educated, well spoken and informed women speak so true and eloquently. This content will definitely help a lot of guys out there, but they also have to be able to have an open mind and willing to listen and apply it. Great content ...
Hi Sadia! You are one of the wisest women I've ever heard speak. From listening to your podcasts I am pretty sure your wisdom is due a lot with having been reared by both your mother and father. And your parents did a wonderful job instilling their values with you. I wish more people will listen to your words of wisdom. Thank you for being such a beautiful human being. You are a great beacon of light in this world full of so much ignorance and darkness.
That's exactly what I think, but I believe a lot of what she said intuitively comes so normal to her becouse of her muslim family background, as myself being muslim, I can so relate to what she explains and approve myself due to same sort of mindset always within the islamic communities, one advising the other continuely to avoid personal pain and built healthy relationship. so thanks to Sadia and the host making this podcast available to humanity.
Personal observations and analysis have nothing to do with upbringing. Her parents probably haven’t noticed any of this and probably couldn’t reach her conclusions.
@@AA-nb2kyLOL Muslims don’t talk about building healthy relationships. Nor do they talk about love. Most Muslims come from cultures where it’s all about duty and some cultures force duties towards in laws, without love and respect in return. It’s not a muslim thing at all which is why most Muslim countries have awful records on women.
I love what you said about Myron from fresh and fit. There is nothing more attractive than a woman who is in her, 40s, 50s and possibly even 60s, that takes really good care of themself. you give such great advice to men and women… love your content. Fellow Brit
Sadia is right on the money and described my experience for when we had children. Wish I knew then what I know now, I could understand and do things differently (although I would still have to work 60, 70+ hour weeks, come home and do housework etc and try to steal some time with my baby / kids).
It depends, some still have that young girl (look) in their 40s but until you get up on her and get to know her past her self representative, she’s just for sex and love bombing you to hook you.
Because 87% of women believe that they deserve a man that's in the top 5% of men. Well...the top 5% of men are able to have the best pick of the litter...this means that by the time these delusional woman are in their mid to late 30s....find themselves still single...haha. now, they have to settle for a man that she NEVER gave the time of day to her entire adult life. Because of this, it's caused MANY married men(good men) to have a wife who doesnt respect him, doesnt love and care for him like a good wife should/does. It's sad (for the man)
I’m 59 I’m kinda short… but I’m fit.. very physically fit actually and if I were 6’2” I would be slaying the ladies in all ages ..I’m actually getting more women now than I did when I was in my was in my 20s-30s-40s.. I was married for a decade.. but it was actually after that marriage ended that I started attracting more attention from women.. I work out 3 times a week, all muscle groups and women look. More than ever before.. I don’t know why… maybe it’s because women around my age see their other options and they didn’t take care of their bodies.. but I get younger women too.. I’m seeing a 27 year old woman who I met a few months ago.. and she’s exceptionally beautiful.. everyone stares at her…and she’s mentally attractive too, in fact I’m falling hard for her,.. but there is another young one pretty much the same , that I just got a number for…also in her 20s maybe closer to 30.. all I can Sysco to the men out there… get your body into good physical condition.. the best you can..you’ll be amazed
we (men) really dont give af about intellectual intimacy. I work all day, all I want when i get home is a warm, loving, caring wife. Someone who cares for me, and cares for others. That's literally it.
As a Man who had plenty of women I must say: save this woman. Save Saidia. Feminine energy through the roof, intelligent, conservative. The type of woman I would marry immediately. So Saidia I am coming for you 😁
What I realised is that psychology is an interplay of various systems. Sadia has not only built an extensive understanding of all these systems but she’s figured out how they influence each other and drawn all the relationships. She’s hectic. In life, we meet defining professionals. People who show you what real competence is. Sadia was that force for me - within the field of psychology. I thought it was quite a lot of BS till I listened to her longer podcasts/interviews
A bit of googling and a few sources say that she's 35. I don't know what a well-adjusted 35 year old woman sounds like - I'll check then decide from there
I disagree with her assertion on women as they age. Statistics shows the age bracket where women are productive and after which they depreciate by nature which some of them are trying to slow down by doing aurgumentation to any part of their body. As the woman ages the attraction diminishes. Using psychology to analysis human behavioral actions sometimes goes in tangent to the reality.
@@martian.07_I think she knows because in one podcast she ascertain that she was misled with the norm of going to school, empower yourself, make money and be independent and missing out one of the part of life, bonding in relationship with someone within your age bracket. She is just trying not to hurt someone people's feel by sitting on the fence.
Sadia, you make WAY too much good sense ! Keep it up though. Definitely we are ALL looking for that connection. I probably knew that already but it's great to be reminded. Many thanks.
He is neglected by his wife! You should've yelled this as loud as you could! Love this lady. She will teach you everything you need to know! So intelligent.
Yea. I meant this as fun. But maybe love for men is not found from wimen. But rather from A Tribe. Or towards the child and its legacy. Or in emptiness from God and the beauty of a brieze and barefoot on grass.
“When men come to me saying they feel lonely, if they’re overweight, I say you need a personal trainer not a psychologist. You’re too fat to be here.” Facts. Overweight folks should be taxed extra for their irresponsibility and the economic damage that produces to our health care system.
This woman is speaking facts. So much wisdom on so much different topic, maybe she'll be the one to solve the great crisis of our generation in a changing world (celibacy/hikikomori/lack of love/OF) ???!
But basically she is just saying everything we talks constantly on Red Pill podcasts. And she is quite manipulative in some points when comes up to this topic.
Note: when you spoke about your achievements - your masculinity went down immediately.. never brag, when you do this woman immediately sense you are compensating..
What Sadia is talking about in the beginning is what I call the illusion of options set forth by dating apps and social media. It’s sexual attention women are getting post 30 not relationship attention.
I love your suggestion about alcohol being pseudo confidence. And yes, then because it’s natural for human beings, that if somethings good then more is better, this ends up being a trap that causes people to over drink make fools of themselves, and eventually become addicted, and then narcissism usually sets in. The Bible is very clear that we are to remain sober, when we live intoxicated, we literally lose portions of our brain that serve to protect us, and pre frontal Cortex etc, dull and we then drop our inhibitions . At this point, then people often sin, or do acts of unrepentant sin that then gets that person judged, and when a person is judged in the courts of heaven, they are handed over to the devil, and the devil now owns them and the devil only comes to steal, kill and destroy them.. remaining sober, keeps us in touch, hearing the still small voice of the Holy Spirit that does Guid us , guides our conscience . In a nutshell, this is the reality
wow Sadia not only you have a beauty and highly intellectual you use your brain to help & model people troubling understanding the problems in modern society not knowing the underneath the traditional culture still much needed till these days. You delivered your words so clear what’s good & bad for society whats valuable or not.
I am in my 50s and if I were single, I would not desire a woman below 30 other than sex. (Don't ridicule me for being honest). I will rather be with a woman over 40s who is successful and who can stimulate my mind with common interests, mindset and experiences. I don't even mind if they have children. Sadia's third eye is always open.
Sadia the only woman that ever told me this about people pleasing and setting boundaries. Else it's only made sense out her mouth. Fact is I've learned all this through hard experience and the woman not going to tell me this in the moment nor help me improve in the time we spend together. Even naturally doing this women got a way of reducing boundaries or letting you ruin yourself. I see my partner slipping imma correct them and help keep them at their best. I'm done here.
Same goes for men too. I don't even like MYSELF when I'm fat, lethargic and out of shape. My hormones, testosterone, feels DEAD. I like to stay active, keep the blood and endorphins flowing.
This is one of the best videos I’ve watched in a long time . She is really smart and beautiful and not showing her body attributes like most girls do on the internet nowadays but the guy had the best questions really good content.
I’m 55 and stopped inviting girls 20-30 to holidays about 3 years ago. Instead I go to places with a vivid nightlife (Mykonos, Ibiza etc) and hookup with girls there which saves me money. Even if I was to start inviting girls to holiday again, I would never invite anyone above 30. There is just no need for it as there are more than enough younger ones. So yes, a 30+ woman will still get laid but she will find it increasingly difficult to get something in return.
0:45 this is one thing I don’t agree with her take. Being wanted physically and for wanted for marriage are two different things. Her options do drop off exponentially for marriage or being with someone long term. It’s not there aren’t options being sexually desired, but not the options she wants as she gets older, especially if she wants to get married.
"The offers are endless." - Over 35, it's harder biologically to have children. That's what they are talking about. Not about having offers or not having offers.
What can I do as a woman, to be more attractive? I'm 19 years old, but I don't want to be the one who has to cross the wall losing me, being like the rest! Sadia is becoming my mentor, Thank you for the content👏🏻
Sadia, you've made good choices not only because you were reared that way but because of you are. Some people with the same religion and culture and parental structures will still go out and do whatever. So kudos to you
@@josephfreeflowingnatural8907 when she mentions George Clooney as a man of high value...I deduce that this woman has not had a happy romantic relationship and has not yet found the right man for her....talking about her failed marriage brings us nothing .... the important thing are her ideas, when I searched for her on google I discovered that she is Pakistani, I understand her way of analyzing ... women in Muslim countries grow up with a lot of complex ... the proof is that she says that masculanity is to have limits bondries .... her ideas are interesting for women like her not for women who were born in developed countries where the woman has had almost all her rights for centuries
You are achieving your goal. Listening to you on top of a recent connection gives me the deep confirmation that I should delete material that has had its claws in for too long. Thank you. ❤
this video is jam packed with important caveats that are needed in the modern society,sadia is a woman that women should look up to.i actually want to make reaction videos to unpack and to further divulge into the things she is taking about
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I like watching your channel but the English subtitles are a major distraction. What's the point of English subtitles when the narrative is in english? Using the excuse that some people speak english as a 2nd language doesn't make any sense considering they all watch english with subtitles in their native language not english subtitles because it makes absolutely no sense. I have travelled extensively and there are absolutely no countries with the exception of the US that posts english subtitles if the narrative is in english.
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I'm excited for your amazing programme and very attractive topics
Isit make me pleasure.
Women seem to want the guy they can't have or the guy they want to mold into someone they want. When they get that guy or try to control him or have caught him. They are bored and move on to the next. They need the constant dopamine rush.
i was gonna suscribe to your patreon but then I watched the video and you said that you'd have someone in india responding.. .
You are such a different person than Myron, the followers for each of you are completely different categories of people, don't stoop down to his level, it's obvious that he is worried about losing face.
She is right about wives starting to go full mommy mode and forgetting she is also a wife and neglecting her hubby. I had set an exit date in my marriage and my wife realized i was emotionally detatching and realized her mistake in the relationship snd she did a 180. Now 27 yrs and happy.
This is why you don't get married. have kids and pay child support if you want a family. Everything is temporary including relationships.
@@raddadizationit's all good, she is now 55, I'm 51 and she enthusiastically jumps my bones nightly.
@@johnjefferson1260good stuff man 🙏💓
Glad she was able to see the signs
a womans biology isnt to take care of YOU, ..instead it is for her offspring. But it sounds like some correction happened, and you are blessed :)
@@shawnfallahi5616 but her mentality is for provision for herself and children, so it better include intimacy with husband or she may find herself a single mom with only half the time with her children.
Sadia is correct in that women’s options shift as they get older. The thing that Sadia doesn’t say here is that as the women get older, they don’t want the older men. They want men their own age, however, the men their age (30-45) tend to look for younger women, and that is the ‘wall’ that is spoken about.
plenty of old 40s hit me up online and in my 20s and theyr hot cougars looking for young overseas husbands
Unless that old dude meets her intellectually and physically at her age
@@rf4537 It’s more common overseas. In Latin America, men ages 40 - 55 have access to women ages 25 - 35. Especially, if the man is fit, fairly decent looking (5 or greater), and financially stable.
@@rf4537Also, a man who wants children. Life is about trade-offs. Men are forced to accept that reality. Yet women think that doesn't apply to them. Buckle up for turbulence ahead, lol
Facts this will hit Sadia hard aswell cuz i feel she still believes she has endless options which is not true. @@30minutesLess
She has one of the most pleasant voices ive ever heard. Easy to listen to.
She has a very high IQ. She puts other influencers to shame with her articulation, knowledge, and insight.
Yes. But she is doing the same thing as everybody else, which is translating certain issues of men by her own experience. Like porn problem. For her, it is about gratification of being with "high value woman". Because that is her worldview. For men, it is mostly about hormonal balance. It is a physical process. For women, the hormonal cycle has one month. For men, it is 1-2 days.
It is like a crocodile saying to a dog, that it has food addiction, because it has to eat every day. Different problems require different solutions
beautifully said..
sadia know the relationship psychology of men and women and good in teaching it
Agreed. 1,000%
She misunderstands the term red pill and who consider themselves red pilled, though. Other than that, she’s usually very spot on.
I was asked at a dance club what i was having as he wanted some because he saw me happy dancing and in high spirit. I told him it was H2O. He did not believe me. If you are confident, love yourself, live a heathy and fit lifestyle, you don't need drugs to make you feel good. Period!
Not only is Sadia's understanding of male/female dynamic so expert, she's so real and practical about it too. The part about "you don't need a pyschologist, you need pt .... you're too overweight to be here" hits so hard. That's so honest and real. They way she can break down a complex topic down to basic things is so impressive and I feel like I've leveled up just listening to all of this.
She is brilliant. She offers a different and realistic perspective in many issues. She cleared up so many issues I have been wondering for while. The world is in need of more women with a brain like hers.
Totally AGREE.
💯 Amen 🙏🏻
That's how women from middle east think
Yeh. You watch the video and BAM you become irresistible.
@@32AA32 and why the hell not..do you expect women to sit on the coach so you can cheat on her. And throw her life away. The best years of her life. FOR YOU 🤡
Finally a woman speaks the truth you go girl I hope you get so popular that other women strive to be like you and people’s live will get better
Pills( blue, red , yellow , green, black )are needed. I can't wait until she gets married. Sadia is a princess who needs to live and get some experiences.
Facts! This is ruining the world and lives. It is truly sad. On one hand, we have men and women lying to their single audiences by giving them bad advice, and then going home to their husband or wife. While on the other hand, single people are following the bad advice that is guaranteed to keep them single forever and lifelong consumers of this type of content, by listening to other singles. It proves that being educated doesn't equate to being intelligent.
I really hate this for us.
Very correct! Her clients are beta males, she has no husband and children so sorry where is her " wide experience"?.
yea, the blue pill... definitely needed... to consummate the marriage.
It's incredible how spot on Sadia is about the male psyche and what our needs are, how we camouflage them and how the whole world works in a way to exploit this and keep you powerless. Working on yourself and cultivating self-control and doing things to earn self-respect are key.
Sadia, your words of wisdom have helped me subconsciously for a while, but now after a little "wake up call" and sitting through a whole podcast i think im ready, thank you!
*Confidence, self-respect, and emotional intelligence are the key traits that make a man stand out. When you focus on being your best self, the attraction follows naturally.*
Sadia is a very wise woman. She understands that both sides are different, deeply flawed and have work to do. I love an impartial view on the dynamics of relationships.
It’s not impartial at all
@@AshnesssHaha, the man didn't see it but you do 😂
Your psychology is SOOOO AMAZING Sadia!! 🙏🙏🥰. You really strike a strong moral code that I have been hoping would surface. Thank you!!
Sadia is 100000% correct when she says men find nurturing women highly attractive. I fell really hard for someone who had this quality and I always was seeking it out with women I started to meet after her.
Hi Sadia, I've listened to a number of your posts & I have to say you talk a lot of sense. As a man who has had emotional trauma in his childhood I recognise the things you mentioned. Very wise words
You can only attract what you are. One must be the desire they seek. High value people desire high value people, so always seek to be your best self.
Well....wealthy men can and do attract the top 1% of attractive women. Even when and if the wealthy dude is 20 plus Years older and is fat and ugly, he's STILL getting the top 1% attractive women chasing em down
Well spoken brother! ✨❤
Hundo.
Sadie thank you. Dropping so much untold truth. 100% many need to hear this.
Wow amazing Sadia. There's so much to learn from her when I listen to her pouring out a lot of practical ideas so fluently and spontaneously. A perfect role model for most women!
This women is so unbelievably intelligent. Listening to her videos gives me so much confidence in my relationship with my partner.
Thank you Sadia.
13:30 i didn’t drink until my 2nd semester of freshman year in college. i used to talk to all the girls sober and could interact fine (of course i had approach anxiety but would get over it after the first few). 1st semester junior year i was averaging 3 blackouts a week. my reliance on alcohol to approach girls became so bad that i literally told myself that i had to be on the edge of blacking out before i had the confidence to approach them. i’m 2 years graduated and 8 months sober and learning to be my authentic self without alcohol in social situations where i want to approach a girl. still working on it, but i’m so much more confident and proud of myself because i decided i didn’t want to rely on something to let me do what i want to do.
the indian guy on Big Bang Theory had the same issue.
Ok groomer
Congrats! Good for you! 🎉 I still contend alcohol is one of the worst drugs out there
This entire conversation goes both ways. If you’re considerate, and your nurturing to a woman, she will melt as well.
“For a a woman, the offers are endless.”Three points: If you live your life online, it’s true that there can be endless connections -and not just for women-yet nothing can replace the personal human interactions, the human touch. There is a big difference between chatting online and living together in matrimony.
Second: The paradox of choice is that more choice you have, the more you are bound to go for no option at all. So I am not sure why men should “wake up” or why she says they overestimate themselves?
Men and women are not two separate groups, they are one. What one does directly affects the other.
Lastly: “Respect your body. Go to the gym.” There are people who go to gym every day and still die of a heart attack because they eat junk. So it’s not that simple. Nutrition actually accounts usually for over 80% of health, 20% is physical activity.
My ex girlfriend was a gym instructor (airobics classes), and she brought me to one of there AW events, it was silly much nonhelthy stuff, they basicly trained hard soo they could eat lots of junk acasionally.
Soo you are soo right! And I don't know if all that training stress is excactly 100% healty.
If it is endless why all makeup and operations first.
You like skinny dudes??? 😂 once you get past a certain age you lose 10% of your muscle mass per year. I hate it if I don't look hot with my clothes off for, for my woman and I expect her to be hot and in shape for me. Of course there are people who like skinny sex, and others who like chubby sex 😂😂😂😂😂 but that ain't me.
Sleep/Rest = 60%
Diet = 30%
Physical Fitness/Gym = 10%
whats more likely to happen you die of a heart attack as an active person or you die of a heart attack as someone that never gets off their ass? no one said going to the gym makes you immune to an pre existing conditions or mortality in general its just healthier and more visually acceptable in general than being overweight. what working out does is increase your RMR which allows you to burn more calories which makes the 80% more effective. if you dont want to go to the gym just say so...i would love it if more people didnt it would be alot easier to get stuff done in there lol so please spread your logic to as many people as possible lmao...
What Sadia is pretending to herself is that the offers get less lucrative as the females smv drops….
She is simply incredible. What a good teacher. I’ve learned a lot
The offers are endless but not with the top 10 dudes that she likes, she is now forced to change her tastes
… and be resentful about it.
Tastes change anyway as you age. A 40 yo woman does not want anything serious with a 25 yo manchild.
Ues but a 40 years top man dont want a 40 old years woman but a 25 one
Not every woman wants top 10 guys. Y’all are so delusional from watching this red pill. In reality, women date and marry those of their class and circle.
@@christinah2109 and that's whu you have 50 percent divorces
Amen 🙏🙏. Thank God for your faithfulness. Lord here I come this year. Arise and guide me.
It is most beautifully explained for middle age people. It covers so many subjects, it get me thinking for many hours. Every one 17 and anwords should watch this!!! I will show my girls when they grow up.
p.s.
I have learned a lot about my self too. Many many thanks :)
Thank you for speeding out what alcohol and other easy ways to dopamine do to people, that is so true.
I'm am up at 330am every day, working out at 4am, at work at 6am as a Journeyman Lineman. It's not just CEO's that do this. Honestly I hate working out and if I had to do it at 5pm I wouldn't do it. So I get it done and over with before the day starts. I'm 47 and look better than I did when I was 20 because Im consistent, watch my food intake and rarely drink.
Almost no CEOs actually do this. They want YOU to do it, because it's good for their profits. It's a simple manipulation that so many fools fall for. However, if you're self-employed, that's different
Almost no one has the discipline that you do. a CEO is nothing special, just a busy guy or gal. Doing what you do is exceptional.
Put me in the game coach the money you make will usually give you extra capacity for motivation 😅
Lean and muscular best
The Alcohol section really hit me hard. Thanks for that
When I had my own apartment, I didn't have a TV or a phone line connection or even an internet connection. And I got more things done in my life if I needed the internet for online banking I went round to my parent's house and used their internet to pay bills. I read more books listen to music got better as cooking food, my fitness got better I enjoyed dating more had no distractions, even had a basic mobile phone talk and text. I miss those days.
I like the way this lady thinks and portrays the information.
She’s half right, at 20, they can get anyone, but at 30, less, at 40, even less!!
Thanks!
Thank you x
They can't be endless. A 21 or 22 year old chick has men of every range to pick from that will take her seriously depending on her looks and behavior. A good looking 50 or 60 year old woman may have younger men that will smash, but they overwhelmingly wouldn't take her seriously long term.
3:20 was me. Just realized quality time is my love language not physical. Unbelievable realization and my depression left the moment I put time into actually being in the moment
I don’t like minimizing men’s need for intimacy as being a “baby”. Spoken like a true female…
Yeah she's absolutely full of it.
So sensitive 😂
Don't take it personally.
She makes a lot of good points. Some of it is funny as s^&& but true. It's good and refreshing to see an attractive well educated, well spoken and informed women speak so true and eloquently. This content will definitely help a lot of guys out there, but they also have to be able to have an open mind and willing to listen and apply it. Great content ...
Hi Sadia! You are one of the wisest women I've ever heard speak. From listening to your podcasts I am pretty sure your wisdom is due a lot with having been reared by both your mother and father. And your parents did a wonderful job instilling their values with you. I wish more people will listen to your words of wisdom. Thank you for being such a beautiful human being. You are a great beacon of light in this world full of so much ignorance and darkness.
That's exactly what I think, but I believe a lot of what she said intuitively comes so normal to her becouse of her muslim family background, as myself being muslim, I can so relate to what she explains and approve myself due to same sort of mindset always within the islamic communities, one advising the other continuely to avoid personal pain and built healthy relationship. so thanks to Sadia and the host making this podcast available to humanity.
yep and I was up on the moon last night with Miss World
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Personal observations and analysis have nothing to do with upbringing. Her parents probably haven’t noticed any of this and probably couldn’t reach her conclusions.
@@AA-nb2kyLOL Muslims don’t talk about building healthy relationships. Nor do they talk about love. Most Muslims come from cultures where it’s all about duty and some cultures force duties towards in laws, without love and respect in return. It’s not a muslim thing at all which is why most Muslim countries have awful records on women.
I love what you said about Myron from fresh and fit. There is nothing more attractive than a woman who is in her, 40s, 50s and possibly even 60s, that takes really good care of themself. you give such great advice to men and women… love your content. Fellow Brit
If there's one takeaway ive learnt watching Sadias videos is the importance of self respect. Take care of yourself.
Sadia is right on the money and described my experience for when we had children. Wish I knew then what I know now, I could understand and do things differently (although I would still have to work 60, 70+ hour weeks, come home and do housework etc and try to steal some time with my baby / kids).
"This crypto broke" That was hilarious. Did clarify the point you were making tho! Another awesome conversation! 👏
If she has class in all aspects...she will always be the prize!!
This is A high value woman. Her father would be proud.
Madame sadia khan i have learned alot from your psychology talk show. Very beautiful physically and psychologically. Very rich insight.
Attention a women gets at 22 is just not the same at 44.
It depends, some still have that young girl (look) in their 40s but until you get up on her and get to know her past her self representative, she’s just for sex and love bombing you to hook you.
thank god
You know the truth... I hope alot of women will not live in delusion
Because 87% of women believe that they deserve a man that's in the top 5% of men. Well...the top 5% of men are able to have the best pick of the litter...this means that by the time these delusional woman are in their mid to late 30s....find themselves still single...haha. now, they have to settle for a man that she NEVER gave the time of day to her entire adult life. Because of this, it's caused MANY married men(good men) to have a wife who doesnt respect him, doesnt love and care for him like a good wife should/does. It's sad (for the man)
Sadias coping hard because she knows this deep down hence why ain’t married….
Your Spot on , I don't drink or smoke , my friends do, the more they drink, they. Become different people, !!
That’s when she is well maintained., follows diet, and exercises regularly and stays in shape, stays fit., then she will always be desired..
Nope you be surprised how much even ugly girls get attention
If she doesn't. Nobody wants her at 15 25 or 35
So it's a given - people should TAKE CARE OF THEMSELVES, nah?
Connection is the key, it opens the door to your inner self and your partners. Rest is superficial but important and reinforces the connection.
I’m 59 I’m kinda short… but I’m fit.. very physically fit actually and if I were 6’2” I would be slaying the ladies in all ages ..I’m actually getting more women now than I did when I was in my was in my 20s-30s-40s.. I was married for a decade.. but it was actually after that marriage ended that I started attracting more attention from women.. I work out 3 times a week, all muscle groups and women look. More than ever before.. I don’t know why… maybe it’s because women around my age see their other options and they didn’t take care of their bodies.. but I get younger women too.. I’m seeing a 27 year old woman who I met a few months ago.. and she’s exceptionally beautiful.. everyone stares at her…and she’s mentally attractive too, in fact I’m falling hard for her,.. but there is another young one pretty much the same , that I just got a number for…also in her 20s maybe closer to 30.. all I can Sysco to the men out there… get your body into good physical condition.. the best you can..you’ll be amazed
Are you planning to get married/commit like Sadia suggests?
👍
Actually really appreciate this content
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we (men) really dont give af about intellectual intimacy. I work all day, all I want when i get home is a warm, loving, caring wife. Someone who cares for me, and cares for others. That's literally it.
I'm just going be honest thanks for your shows God Bless You and your Family,
wow, Sadia is actually genuinely brilliant!
this interview and her wisdom have blown me away, why haven't i heard of her before?
Thanks for sharing the wisdom Sadia.
As a Man who had plenty of women I must say: save this woman. Save Saidia. Feminine energy through the roof, intelligent, conservative. The type of woman I would marry immediately. So Saidia I am coming for you 😁
I agree, she has a good blueprint that other woman should follow.
@@MagoCeltaa lot of us already know this, we just are home living our happy lives not in the club or on OF to be found
@@Jackielikeskillersmiles i dont go to clubs, i prefer to go to the bank :)
@@MagoCelta physically go to the bank!? Who does that anymore? Lol
@@Jackielikeskillersmiles business owners and ppl who have tons of cash to deposit
This is a really new perspective. Thank you for the podcast
The lady cracked the code of human relationships pretty well. She really knows a great deal of things, despite her age. She must be very talented.
What I realised is that psychology is an interplay of various systems. Sadia has not only built an extensive understanding of all these systems but she’s figured out how they influence each other and drawn all the relationships. She’s hectic.
In life, we meet defining professionals. People who show you what real competence is. Sadia was that force for me - within the field of psychology. I thought it was quite a lot of BS till I listened to her longer podcasts/interviews
whats her age? she must be late 30ties. You should have a lot of experience at that age.
@@humanbeeing4962 oh damn.. okay.. I don't know why I didn't factor age into my analysis. I actually have no idea how old she is
A bit of googling and a few sources say that she's 35. I don't know what a well-adjusted 35 year old woman sounds like - I'll check then decide from there
@@thaboshikwambanemany many miles 😂
14:46 - hence the term “liquid courage”.
True statement about alcohol.
It's not the use of alcohol that causes the problems but it's the ABUSE of alcohol that does.
I feel like I'm in therapy (and I need it)! This woman is wonderfully deep and insightful!
I disagree with her assertion on women as they age. Statistics shows the age bracket where women are productive and after which they depreciate by nature which some of them are trying to slow down by doing aurgumentation to any part of their body. As the woman ages the attraction diminishes. Using psychology to analysis human behavioral actions sometimes goes in tangent to the reality.
Because she herself in 30, so she has to defend it.
@@martian.07_ You're telling me that she's not attractive enough for you? You have access to even more attractive women? 🤣🤣🤣
@@martian.07_I think she knows because in one podcast she ascertain that she was misled with the norm of going to school, empower yourself, make money and be independent and missing out one of the part of life, bonding in relationship with someone within your age bracket. She is just trying not to hurt someone people's feel by sitting on the fence.
Sadia, you make WAY too much good sense ! Keep it up though. Definitely we are ALL looking for that connection. I probably knew that already but it's great to be reminded. Many thanks.
So based! Smart woman. Love the sobriety talk especially.
This is such an excellent analysis 👌
This woman is incredibly sharp.
He is neglected by his wife!
You should've yelled this as loud as you could! Love this lady. She will teach you everything you need to know! So intelligent.
That's why marriage is scary. What if after marriage she neglects me.
@@crand20033 try not to have emotional needs.
Yea. I meant this as fun.
But maybe love for men is not found from wimen. But rather from A Tribe. Or towards the child and its legacy. Or in emptiness from God and the beauty of a brieze and barefoot on grass.
Hi Sadia you are brilliant every word comes out from your mouth its like Nail on the head thank you for your wisdom learning a lot 🙏
Wow, great Information!!! Thank you both so much!!!
“When men come to me saying they feel lonely, if they’re overweight, I say you need a personal trainer not a psychologist. You’re too fat to be here.” Facts. Overweight folks should be taxed extra for their irresponsibility and the economic damage that produces to our health care system.
Not women.
And they should fly first class or get two adjacent seats if flying coach
True. Even science proofed that the opposite of addiction is connection
Don't make a difference how old a man gets....he always gonna have options..
Presentation matters. Attraction for me is more about an appropriate presentation, confidence, self respect, and a sharp mind.
Sadia. God has truly blessed you with wisdom with relationships. Love listening to you. God bless you 🙏
This woman is speaking facts. So much wisdom on so much different topic, maybe she'll be the one to solve the great crisis of our generation in a changing world (celibacy/hikikomori/lack of love/OF) ???!
Incredible. What a healing message. And she's not "red pill" or this or that pill, she's just correct. So refreshing.
But basically she is just saying everything we talks constantly on Red Pill podcasts. And she is quite manipulative in some points when comes up to this topic.
@@Consultant31 How is she at times manipulative? Can you give some examples? Genuinely curious.
Note: when you spoke about your achievements - your masculinity went down immediately.. never brag, when you do this woman immediately sense you are compensating..
What Sadia is talking about in the beginning is what I call the illusion of options set forth by dating apps and social media.
It’s sexual attention women are getting post 30 not relationship attention.
She knows it. Her jab at Myron says it all.
Attractive milf who gave u sexual attention - u will SIMP for relationship sooo BAD. So STOP THE CAP
100%!
And the tier of men that’ll give her attention as she ages, decreases A LOT
I love your suggestion about alcohol being pseudo confidence. And yes, then because it’s natural for human beings, that if somethings good then more is better, this ends up being a trap that causes people to over drink make fools of themselves, and eventually become addicted, and then narcissism usually sets in.
The Bible is very clear that we are to remain sober, when we live intoxicated, we literally lose portions of our brain that serve to protect us, and pre frontal Cortex etc, dull and we then drop our inhibitions . At this point, then people often sin, or do acts of unrepentant sin that then gets that person judged, and when a person is judged in the courts of heaven, they are handed over to the devil, and the devil now owns them and the devil only comes to steal, kill and destroy them..
remaining sober, keeps us in touch, hearing the still small voice of the Holy Spirit that does Guid us , guides our conscience . In a nutshell, this is the reality
wow Sadia not only you have a beauty and highly intellectual you use your brain to help & model people troubling understanding the problems in modern society not knowing the underneath the traditional culture still much needed till these days. You delivered your words so clear what’s good & bad for society whats valuable or not.
I quiet my mind and listen to its infinite wisdom. I did notice how many thoughts & actions are driven by desire 😮
oh Sadia, the same and I live in Poland where everyone in my young time had to drink....I SO UNDERSTAND YOU.I was the ackward one..
I am in my 50s and if I were single, I would not desire a woman below 30 other than sex. (Don't ridicule me for being honest). I will rather be with a woman over 40s who is successful and who can stimulate my mind with common interests, mindset and experiences. I don't even mind if they have children. Sadia's third eye is always open.
I definitely learned "this and that and the other"
I would’ve loved to have Kevin Samuels and Sadia in one room.
Hectic stuff.
That would have been interesting indeed. At least then he couldn't hang up on her lol
@@don220486 He only hung up on the unruly ones.
Right! she has way too many strong opinions on why a man does what but she’s never been a man so… yeah, that would be something to hear
Sadia the only woman that ever told me this about people pleasing and setting boundaries. Else it's only made sense out her mouth. Fact is I've learned all this through hard experience and the woman not going to tell me this in the moment nor help me improve in the time we spend together. Even naturally doing this women got a way of reducing boundaries or letting you ruin yourself. I see my partner slipping imma correct them and help keep them at their best. I'm done here.
Sadia's gym views are spot on. If your body and fitness is not in the right place then your hormones and mental state is not going to be either
Same goes for men too. I don't even like MYSELF when I'm fat, lethargic and out of shape. My hormones, testosterone, feels DEAD. I like to stay active, keep the blood and endorphins flowing.
This is one of the best videos I’ve watched in a long time .
She is really smart and beautiful and not showing her body attributes like most girls do on the internet nowadays but the guy had the best questions really good content.
Other than her extensions eyelashes and nails ...sure I agree.
"Money only attracts emotionally unavailable women ". The truth said by a beautiful woman. This is gold 😅
31:01 her sincerity makes better than anyone else.:) because its firmly connected with warmth.
I’m 55 and stopped inviting girls 20-30 to holidays about 3 years ago. Instead I go to places with a vivid nightlife (Mykonos, Ibiza etc) and hookup with girls there which saves me money. Even if I was to start inviting girls to holiday again, I would never invite anyone above 30. There is just no need for it as there are more than enough younger ones. So yes, a 30+ woman will still get laid but she will find it increasingly difficult to get something in return.
What has been your experiencing inviting a woman 20-25 on holiday? Was it worth it?
how many STDS are you harbouring that you have collected over soo many years?
0:45 this is one thing I don’t agree with her take. Being wanted physically and for wanted for marriage are two different things. Her options do drop off exponentially for marriage or being with someone long term. It’s not there aren’t options being sexually desired, but not the options she wants as she gets older, especially if she wants to get married.
"The offers are endless." - Over 35, it's harder biologically to have children. That's what they are talking about. Not about having offers or not having offers.
What can I do as a woman, to be more attractive? I'm 19 years old, but I don't want to be the one who has to cross the wall losing me, being like the rest!
Sadia is becoming my mentor, Thank you for the content👏🏻
Sadia, you've made good choices not only because you were reared that way but because of you are. Some people with the same religion and culture and parental structures will still go out and do whatever. So kudos to you
Except her short marriage that lasted a month. Not good judgment on her part. She never talks about that part of her life.
What is her religin ?
@@josephfreeflowingnatural8907 when she mentions George Clooney as a man of high value...I deduce that this woman has not had a happy romantic relationship and has not yet found the right man for her....talking about her failed marriage brings us nothing .... the important thing are her ideas, when I searched for her on google I discovered that she is Pakistani, I understand her way of analyzing ... women in Muslim countries grow up with a lot of complex ... the proof is that she says that masculanity is to have limits bondries .... her ideas are interesting for women like her not for women who were born in developed countries where the woman has had almost all her rights for centuries
… Got it!
stay focus on self goals & improvement
You are achieving your goal. Listening to you on top of a recent connection gives me the deep confirmation that I should delete material that has had its claws in for too long. Thank you. ❤
She got a answer to everything
this video is jam packed with important caveats that are needed in the modern society,sadia is a woman that women should look up to.i actually want to make reaction videos to unpack and to further divulge into the things she is taking about