*It’s important to recognize that intimacy fulfills more than just physical desires; it validates a man’s sense of closeness and mutual appreciation in a partnership.*
Me as an Introvert since I was little and already had issues with girls when I was college and high school. They say I’m bloody weird which is by me I couldn’t care less about that
I cannot leave a woman. I am okay if they leave me. If I leave a woman, the thought of Is she doing okay? will keep following me. When I give my loyalty, I do not abandon. I do not like the modern dating scene / situationships / whatever.. Get bored and move on. It is sad... I love my parents and my grandparents era where your word meant something. Holding hands till oldage
What I love about Sadia is that apart from the psychology and therapeutic nuances she dispenses, she is quite truthful more so than factual.. That's quite a refreshing difference from many others who have similar podcasts.
Cool-videos! My five-year relationship came to an end a month ago. The love of my life chose to leave, and I can't stop thinking about him; I love him so deeply. I've done everything I can to win him back, but nothing seems to work. I'm feeling frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my efforts to move on, I just can't shake the thoughts of him. I don’t know why I’m sharing this, (but I really miss him)
Saying goodbye to someone you love is difficult; I know this from my 12-year relationship ending. But I was unable to simply let him go, so I made every effort to get him back. I eventually sought aid from a spiritual counselor, who was able to help me regain his affection.
I am glad he mentioned the book LES 5 BLESSURES QUI EMPÊCHENT D’ÊTRE SOI-MÊME by the Canadian LISE BOURBEAU. This book is a must read!!! And it is translated in many languages. Happy new year to Sadia and her community 🎊✨🌸
Such an fascinating conversation, guys. You've really opened my mind. Thankyou. I just wanted to add 1 reason for cheating is to test the love. When u come clean ur so hopeful that ur lover will still want to be with you and love you. It's why i cheated, anyway. I always loved that person the most, no doubt (but that's bc of trauma.) But I had quite a lot of friends who were cheaters. Male and female who did it for the same reason. (I can only presume we were all broken people who kinda didn't feel like they deserved to be loved, tbh.)
It could be any number of reasons. He might be conditioned to keep conversations open because in the real world yes or no often ends a conversation and people don't ask follow up questions. Sadia would clearly accept any answer and then ask why that is... so he might also have just skipped that step. It might also have to do with his fears he mentioned he has. He's clearly not avoiding answering the question, but it does seem like his opinion might be still in development, he also might not be a black and white thinker and thinks it's all circumstantial, as are most things in life. There's no difference between a belief and an opinion and sometimes we don't give things enough thought to have a belief about them... and to have an opinion would be disingenuous Who knows though.. it is a good observation on your part
I can't get over how beautiful and put together Sadia is. I can never be like her, in fact quite the opposite with colours, but I wish she had a school to teach women how to be a this elegant, beautiful and feminine. Deeply admire her and her wisdom ❤️
I say be yourself and happy in your skin. I agree Saadia is incredibly beautiful and glamorous. I'm totally the opposite but am feminine and sexy and attractive. We're all different and all beautiful in our own way.
She’s got plastic surgery done lol, loads of ladies look like this when they have work done, i wouldnt desire it because its not real or a reflection of reality
I've struggled with porn most of my life, and I was out of control when I had multiple affairs during my 4-year marriage. We divorced a year and half ago now, and I'm still ashamed of myself because I felt like an addict, and I couldn't control myself. I know with the woman I pursued while I was married, it was physical lust that overtook me. Was it something that was missing from my relationship, perhaps, but instead of suggesting my wife did anything that led me to lying and cheating, I did what I did, and I have to face the responsibility for my actions. I'm on my way to healing and no longer being controlled by my urges.
If you study history of peoples around the world, polygamy was rarely sensual or romantic but necessary for survival of a tribe, family or group. Consider factors such as war, raiding hostiles, disease & starvation
Men (and women) need outlets and direction which are sorely lacking this day and age. I loved how quickly you pivoted from “once a cheater always a cheater” to your guest’s point of view of not always.
As a man in denial, a slight attempt at humor: "No we do not! Now, please excuse me while I go n collapse in a pile of drool and anything else that might come out if one collapses due to exhaustion too hard for too long." Mental health-wise for men, I kinda fret that it might be a sorta 'best take care of this yourselves chaps, because no-one else is coming' kinda thing. But then again, we're in 'femicide' type times, whilst also seemingly adjusting most things to become so equal that.. opposite & equal reactions from the other end of such spectra might be presumed, for better & worse. Thanks for your content, Sadia.
Great video! Now I have a better sense about your feelings towards the person your withs character. If the other person isn't being fulfilled then you need to step your game up. Hopefully it's a healthy conversation
No. I won’t stay in a relationship if the sex becomes stale or no longer attracted to the person. That’s just one of an infinite number of reasons why I’ll never marry or have kids. People change. Situations change. Everyone deserves an easy out. Only someone insecure and selfish wouldn’t see it that way. We’re all unique. Generalizations about an entire gender are lazy and untrue.
We choose either intimacy, or diversity. Intimacy needs energy investment. And two people to grow in synergy. We could not be masters in any endeavour without focus. There are easy ways and fulfilling ways to live our lives.
What we are BY NATURE is no longer relevant for me. What a person chooses to do now or has chosen to do or to become is what matters to me now because THAT is the person that I have to deal with now or choose to not to deal with anymore.
The thing is we all have a different love language and in relationships we need to understand our partners love language and they ours. Men and women are very very different. Our needs are different and often its the little things that matter. Undersanding each others needs is key. Intimacy is more than sexual. It's showing up every day with the same energy and communicating the good, the bad, and the ugly, safe in the knowledge that you are loved and you are safe.
Also maintaining the attraction is important by keeping up with the polarity dynamic.. making sure you as a man are in your natural state of masculinity and the woman in her natural feminine state. Then it will never due out. Men are solar beings in fire element. Solid base. Women are lunar beings in water element. Cyclical flow.
I don’t think men who are cheating are necessarily afraid of their partners. It’s more like the situation they are in. They might love their wife and kids and not want to give up their family so they try to have both. It could also be for financial reasons that they don’t want to leave the relationship or marriage.
But if the logic that cheating is about unmet sexual needs how can you also claim 'once a cheater always a cheater'? What if in the next relationship the needs ARE met??
You can grow to not cheat, but it's a harder challenge then it is for someone who doesn't. Like drugs. You can be a recovered alcoholic but it would be more of a focus in building to maintain recovery. The expression more susceptible in a particular weakness, so it requires more attention. More education education in focusing to not brake.
i love sadia and i clearly don’t have her expertise however i work with a lot of women and im seeing a pattern with some women in their late 40s early 50s that their partners aren’t wanting sex with them and theyre now considering cheating because of it, so is the man cheating already? or has the man’s sex drive gotten low and the women’s sexual desire has gone higher? These women have both expressed to their husbands that they feel neglected and need more, these women also take care of themselves so what’s going on here? im very confused if women sex drive is supposed to go down with age or does menopause cause a hormonal change? Also may i add they both love their partners and but don’t feel desired .
Agreed. Many women desire multiple lovers too. Each man has different skills, body composition, strengths, etc. I’m high maintenance, one single man can’t do or be it all nor would I want to put that pressure on him. I have no desire to be anyone’s one and only either. That’s a burden and liability that doesn’t work for me. People cause so much of their own problems and stress with silly expectations of monogamy. A relationship shouldn’t feel like a cage or prison. It’s not about possession or dependency. It should be about mutual pleasure, sharing and growth.
I disagree. I love sex and my husband at the time didn’t have a libido that kept up with me. I now have a boyfriend that meets my needs. We have a loving a relationship
Where on God's earth does Sadia get these claims that women's sex drive drop....I'm older than Sadia and I'm quite interested in sexual pleasure. Where do you get these wild assumptions....women I know who are my age and older, married etc have healthy libidos....please Sadia stop broad brushing people it's absolutely crazy especially at your age
Lmao I thought I was the only one. I’m currently in my early twenties and even I thought it’s crazy for her to say that given that she’s not even old yet to speak from experience
No no no, I don't need to babysit anyone's triggers. That person needs to heal. I won't change my ethics and the way I give love just because someone will get 'triggered' and be more probe to cheating otherwise. Very bad advice, and is a projection on your part. Just because youre a more codependant style person in a relationship "having to know what your partner is doing at all times etc" doesn't mean your advice is correct and you preach it to the world. If you advise people it's important to know ehat a projection is.
I think her logic on cheating is a slippery slope. There are high level jobs that prefer to hire criminal minded people to the highest degree. If you actually have morals you won’t get the job 🤣 idk maybe my thinking is flawed 🤦♂️
*It’s important to recognize that intimacy fulfills more than just physical desires; it validates a man’s sense of closeness and mutual appreciation in a partnership.*
Me as an Introvert since I was little and already had issues with girls when I was college and high school. They say I’m bloody weird which is by me
I couldn’t care less about that
I cannot leave a woman. I am okay if they leave me. If I leave a woman, the thought of Is she doing okay? will keep following me. When I give my loyalty, I do not abandon. I do not like the modern dating scene / situationships / whatever.. Get bored and move on. It is sad... I love my parents and my grandparents era where your word meant something. Holding hands till oldage
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 love your comment.
7:15 The Book the guy was taking was *"Heal Your Wounds & Find Your True Self"* by *"Lise Bourbeau"*
*Five Wounds*
*Wound One:* Rejection , *Mask:* Withdrawal
*Wound Two:* Abandonment, *Mask:* Dependency
*Wound Three:* Humiliation, *Mask:* Masochist
*Wound Four:* Betrayal, *Mask:* Controller
*Wound Five:* Injustice, *Mask:* Rigid
Is this an English book?
Thank you! :)
What I love about Sadia is that apart from the psychology and therapeutic nuances she dispenses, she is quite truthful more so than factual.. That's quite a refreshing difference from many others who have similar podcasts.
Cool-videos! My five-year relationship came to an end a month ago. The love of my life chose to leave, and I can't stop thinking about him; I love him so deeply. I've done everything I can to win him back, but nothing seems to work. I'm feeling frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my efforts to move on, I just can't shake the thoughts of him. I don’t know why I’m sharing this, (but I really miss him)
Saying goodbye to someone you love is difficult; I know this from my 12-year relationship ending. But I was unable to simply let him go, so I made every effort to get him back. I eventually sought aid from a spiritual counselor, who was able to help me regain his affection.
Father Obah Eze is a wonderful spiritual counselor who has the ability to bring back your ex.
He can assist you; he is Father Obah Eze, and he possesses immense powers.
He can assist you; he is Father Obah Eze, and he possesses immense powers.
You love your ego, not him
Sadia figured us all the way out
She opened up more here than I've ever heard from her before.
She makes a lot of great points without bias...
I am glad he mentioned the book LES 5 BLESSURES QUI EMPÊCHENT D’ÊTRE SOI-MÊME by the Canadian LISE BOURBEAU.
This book is a must read!!! And it is translated in many languages.
Happy new year to Sadia and her community 🎊✨🌸
It's always great to catch up on Sadia content, very much informational ❤😮
INFJ here ✨ new subscriber this was just what I needed
the truth feels dangerous, and that’s why the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki is ignored
Such an fascinating conversation, guys. You've really opened my mind. Thankyou. I just wanted to add 1 reason for cheating is to test the love. When u come clean ur so hopeful that ur lover will still want to be with you and love you. It's why i cheated, anyway. I always loved that person the most, no doubt (but that's bc of trauma.) But I had quite a lot of friends who were cheaters. Male and female who did it for the same reason. (I can only presume we were all broken people who kinda didn't feel like they deserved to be loved, tbh.)
Good day Sadia,
Polygamy is over-rated...it's rough enough keeping one woman happy amd making all her dreams come true! 🖤👑🖤
Why can’t this guy not answer a question straight on? ‘Do you find monogamy easy?’ Yes or no?
That is SO not a yes or no question tho; "do you drink alcohol"? IS a yes or no question.
It could be any number of reasons. He might be conditioned to keep conversations open because in the real world yes or no often ends a conversation and people don't ask follow up questions. Sadia would clearly accept any answer and then ask why that is... so he might also have just skipped that step.
It might also have to do with his fears he mentioned he has.
He's clearly not avoiding answering the question, but it does seem like his opinion might be still in development, he also might not be a black and white thinker and thinks it's all circumstantial, as are most things in life.
There's no difference between a belief and an opinion and sometimes we don't give things enough thought to have a belief about them... and to have an opinion would be disingenuous
Who knows though.. it is a good observation on your part
😂
I'll answer it for you. Is it easy, absolutely not. If he's weak or he's sexually neglected by his wife it's more likely he will cheat.
I said the same thing then saw your post lol
I can't get over how beautiful and put together Sadia is. I can never be like her, in fact quite the opposite with colours, but I wish she had a school to teach women how to be a this elegant, beautiful and feminine. Deeply admire her and her wisdom ❤️
I say be yourself and happy in your skin. I agree Saadia is incredibly beautiful and glamorous. I'm totally the opposite but am feminine and sexy and attractive. We're all different and all beautiful in our own way.
She’s got plastic surgery done lol, loads of ladies look like this when they have work done, i wouldnt desire it because its not real or a reflection of reality
I've struggled with porn most of my life, and I was out of control when I had multiple affairs during my 4-year marriage. We divorced a year and half ago now, and I'm still ashamed of myself because I felt like an addict, and I couldn't control myself. I know with the woman I pursued while I was married, it was physical lust that overtook me. Was it something that was missing from my relationship, perhaps, but instead of suggesting my wife did anything that led me to lying and cheating, I did what I did, and I have to face the responsibility for my actions. I'm on my way to healing and no longer being controlled by my urges.
I enjoyed his input, people can ALWAYS change for the better! ❤
Everybody takes each other for granted over time, you need to be aware and be mindful as she says.
If you study history of peoples around the world, polygamy was rarely sensual or romantic but necessary for survival of a tribe, family or group. Consider factors such as war, raiding hostiles, disease & starvation
Men (and women) need outlets and direction which are sorely lacking this day and age.
I loved how quickly you pivoted from “once a cheater always a cheater” to your guest’s point of view of not always.
Sadia asks questions!! She is very observant and present 👍
sadia looks stunning🔥
This talk is so eye-opening. Thank you Sadia!
She's on point!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
As a man in denial, a slight attempt at humor: "No we do not! Now, please excuse me while I go n collapse in a pile of drool and anything else that might come out if one collapses due to exhaustion too hard for too long."
Mental health-wise for men, I kinda fret that it might be a sorta 'best take care of this yourselves chaps, because no-one else is coming' kinda thing. But then again, we're in 'femicide' type times, whilst also seemingly adjusting most things to become so equal that.. opposite & equal reactions from the other end of such spectra might be presumed, for better & worse.
Thanks for your content, Sadia.
Great video! Now I have a better sense about your feelings towards the person your withs character. If the other person isn't being fulfilled then you need to step your game up. Hopefully it's a healthy conversation
I can say from my own perspective that I don’t need sex, but the intimacy that often accompanies sex.
Incase you missed Part 1
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But cheating is about control and low self-esteem. Not unmet sexual desires
You are wrong
How could u possibly know that for sure?? 😂
By nature we are monogamous, Polygamous is a choice!
How did you come to believe that?
I don’t know. It depends how on the historical male female population ratio and other things like guess.
Nope!
No by nature we’re polygamous. Monogamy is a choice.
Monogamy has to be socially enforced, therefore it is not natural.
No. I won’t stay in a relationship if the sex becomes stale or no longer attracted to the person. That’s just one of an infinite number of reasons why I’ll never marry or have kids. People change. Situations change. Everyone deserves an easy out. Only someone insecure and selfish wouldn’t see it that way.
We’re all unique. Generalizations about an entire gender are lazy and untrue.
As long as ur honest about that with her and she’s ok with that arrangement, it’s good
Same here
We choose either intimacy, or diversity. Intimacy needs energy investment. And two people to grow in synergy. We could not be masters in any endeavour without focus. There are easy ways and fulfilling ways to live our lives.
What we are BY NATURE is no longer relevant for me.
What a person chooses to do now or has chosen to do or to become is what matters to me now because THAT is the person that I have to deal with now or choose to not to deal with anymore.
Thanks both of u. Very valubale content 😍
Love how you put your content prevention is the best when both up to the challenge …
The thing is we all have a different love language and in relationships we need to understand our partners love language and they ours. Men and women are very very different. Our needs are different and often its the little things that matter. Undersanding each others needs is key. Intimacy is more than sexual. It's showing up every day with the same energy and communicating the good, the bad, and the ugly, safe in the knowledge that you are loved and you are safe.
Also maintaining the attraction is important by keeping up with the polarity dynamic.. making sure you as a man are in your natural state of masculinity and the woman in her natural feminine state. Then it will never due out.
Men are solar beings in fire element. Solid base.
Women are lunar beings in water element. Cyclical flow.
Big Facts in the beginning 💯🎯🔥
What ? Woman doesn’t need intimacy?? Which ones ??
I don’t think men who are cheating are necessarily afraid of their partners. It’s more like the situation they are in. They might love their wife and kids and not want to give up their family so they try to have both. It could also be for financial reasons that they don’t want to leave the relationship or marriage.
This is a great one 👏🏼
But if the logic that cheating is about unmet sexual needs how can you also claim 'once a cheater always a cheater'? What if in the next relationship the needs ARE met??
I thought it was the other way around where females drive gets better as she ages, while the males drive goes down due to expressing his life force😅
I know mine increased, I’m starting to realize I don’t agree with much of what she says 😂
Hook ups are very different than actually deeply loving more than one person at the same time
they don’t want you to read the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki because it sets you free
"Need" is a strong word. Sex is just another drug. Use in moderation.
You can grow to not cheat, but it's a harder challenge then it is for someone who doesn't. Like drugs. You can be a recovered alcoholic but it would be more of a focus in building to maintain recovery. The expression more susceptible in a particular weakness, so it requires more attention. More education education in focusing to not brake.
Be in a open relationship. Do not lie to yourself. Just be open from the jump
Did I miss it? Did he answer her question????
I choose u sadia❤
can you let me know book title please this is a must read thank you
Everyone wants the and to be the chad Übermensch but like Nietzschean philosophy said it's rare for a reason cuz it's hard
Very nice I like! High five!
So many truths
👋🏽 hello, it says click on the link below but then the website looks like it’s not working.
i love sadia and i clearly don’t have her expertise however i work with a lot of women and im seeing a pattern with some women in their late 40s early 50s that their partners aren’t wanting sex with them and theyre now considering cheating because of it, so is the man cheating already? or has the man’s sex drive gotten low and the women’s sexual desire has gone higher? These women have both expressed to their husbands that they feel neglected and need more, these women also take care of themselves so what’s going on here? im very confused if women sex drive is supposed to go down with age or does menopause cause a hormonal change? Also may i add they both love their partners and but don’t feel desired .
What's the name of the book with the love languages and ego?
The one the man is talking about is "Heal your wounds & find your true self" by Lise Bourdeau I think
*TWO !!! 😂*
✝ MERRY CHRISTMAS ✝
CHRIST IS BORN ❤🙏✝🕊
🙏 GOD BE WITH US 💪
What is the gentleman’s name?
the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki is what everyone avoids because it’s too real
total rubbish… Many men desire more than partner , and for a variety of reasons.
Agreed. Many women desire multiple lovers too. Each man has different skills, body composition, strengths, etc. I’m high maintenance, one single man can’t do or be it all nor would I want to put that pressure on him. I have no desire to be anyone’s one and only either. That’s a burden and liability that doesn’t work for me. People cause so much of their own problems and stress with silly expectations of monogamy. A relationship shouldn’t feel like a cage or prison. It’s not about possession or dependency. It should be about mutual pleasure, sharing and growth.
Yes well women and children need safety and global law changes to not decriminalise rape sooooo….
And Egypt will they end up in a good position??
I agree😅if they want to marry one more just let them😂Let them fool around n find out.
Mindset ❤️🔥
I disagree. I love sex and my husband at the time didn’t have a libido that kept up with me. I now have a boyfriend that meets my needs. We have a loving a relationship
Where on God's earth does Sadia get these claims that women's sex drive drop....I'm older than Sadia and I'm quite interested in sexual pleasure. Where do you get these wild assumptions....women I know who are my age and older, married etc have healthy libidos....please Sadia stop broad brushing people it's absolutely crazy especially at your age
Lmao I thought I was the only one. I’m currently in my early twenties and even I thought it’s crazy for her to say that given that she’s not even old yet to speak from experience
She'll realise how wrong she got this later on.
No we don’t
This woman is beautiful....❤
everything you believe might crumble if you read the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki
Sadia sounds like my grand mother, looks better though!
society would change overnight if more people read the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki
Whats it about?
😉🤔jews Holy spirit Christian son Muslim father Trinity.... true ...
Really!? Who saids?
No no no, I don't need to babysit anyone's triggers. That person needs to heal. I won't change my ethics and the way I give love just because someone will get 'triggered' and be more probe to cheating otherwise. Very bad advice, and is a projection on your part. Just because youre a more codependant style person in a relationship "having to know what your partner is doing at all times etc" doesn't mean your advice is correct and you preach it to the world. If you advise people it's important to know ehat a projection is.
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First
Respect my friend !!
I think her logic on cheating is a slippery slope. There are high level jobs that prefer to hire criminal minded people to the highest degree. If you actually have morals you won’t get the job 🤣 idk maybe my thinking is flawed 🤦♂️
NO ! You don't know them at all.
Choose someone whose actions are only for Allaah. Someone who fears Allaah.
Nah……
I have been married to one of those, but he does not fear allah😂😂
5 wounds is a new age book, i'm not interested
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Women trying to understand men 🫠
Sadia never gets it wrong 🤌🏽
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