reclaiming power : Dancing with the Devil
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- Опубликовано: 29 мар 2021
- “You really find out who’s there for you when the world falls out from under your feet.”
Demi goes to rehab and begins their road to recovery, but with bumps along the way. As they return to the stage for the first time since their overdose, they needs to find balance in her life.
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Production Companies: OBB Pictures, SB Films
Director: Michael D. Ratner
Executive Producers: Michael D. Ratner, Scott Ratner, Scooter Braun, Allison Kaye, Scott Manson, Kfir Goldberg, Miranda Sherman, Andy Mininger
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0:00 Clearing Their Good Names
4:41 New Management
8:25 More Heroin
14:28 Friends & Management React
17:07 Music As Catharsis
19:58 The Big Game 
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It’s ironic to me that people watch this and think “wow she’s so strong, so amazing” but when we see someone on the street clearly struggling with the same problems, we look down on them and scrutinise them so heavily. What a world we live in.
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not you copying another comment lol
bruh u just copied the comment below you lmao
To be honest, it depends more over on how you see them. And I don't mean you specifically, but I mean anyone. Personally for me, I would see a homeless addict in streets the same way I see Demi, which is someone who is in need of help. But, not everyone will see it in that perspective because the homeless person is homeless, which puts them down on the list in our society, whereas a celebrity will make it in the news because they're a celebrity.
Scrutinize LOL
I hope every single person who sent that woman a hateful messages sends her an apology. That was disgusting.
Agreed and this should apply to fans of any fandom who behaved like this, it really make my blood boil when a fanbase does that.
Agreed! But also not surprised as I’ve seen some influencers share some of the nasty messages they get sometimes over nothing. Don’t know what’s wrong with people sometimes. Morals and human decency seems to go out the window.
They won't. I wish we could call them all out though
I was bullied by this fandom online as well. Nothing I blame Demi for, but this is a tough group and really goes in for the low blows. I hope this helps some of them feel less hateful
Or how about celebrities going through the same problems as a million other people dont act like they're some inspirational story. Since they pulled through thanks to millions of dollars, virtually endless resources, millions of adoring fans, and all around just 100x more than the average person. Much less average drug user. It's difficult no matter who you are, but I have endless more respect for someone pulling themselves out of the gutter than someone who was already on top and went through this with money falling out of their pockets.
“abusing your abuser is not where the healing is gonna come from” powerful line that most people don’t realize 🙏🏼 praying for Demi’s true healing. she needs to take a break from Hollywood because it’s eating her up
Yep I call it hellywood
Turning them in so they don't hurt others isn't abusing them.
She needs to go back on the needle. She was cooler when she was using. She didn’t try to tell everyone ice cream is racist or what ever she was saying.
Thank u doctor sharlene I hope demi listens to ur clearly very professional advice, u must've been a therapist for years now lol
@@jadebel7006 girl whut???? 🤣 if you’re such an expert then go and be Demi’s therapist then dafrickk???
Props to Demi for calling out her fans by saying "they're passionate, but they're a little out of line sometimes" and giving her friends who were unreasonably blamed the chance to clear their name.
Its scary how much our own mind can destroy us so easily
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exactly, some people don’t realize how they even non intentionally can lead someone to catastrophe..
@@viktoriyarts exactly, thats why bullying is so dangerous
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@@ericawilson9490 true, we are wired to be negative, its sad.
I feel so bad for her choreographer friend. Her entire career was ruined because of toxic fans
That how some members of a fandom will act like, I have witness it 1st hand, it's not pretty and it gets me upset when i see fans act like this, and for certain Lovatics to act that is even more upsetting because that is form of Cyberbullying and that is something Demi has spoken out about.
She was still gainfully employed for many months after the o.d. she worked with. Fall out boy, Halsey, recently Madison Beer. But its terrible she lost her teaching jobs.
Because of demi!
Not only toxic fans but the toxic media too
I'm sure she's part of a long list
The fact that paparazzi still overwhelmed her and invaded her privacy while going through something so personal is absolutely horrible. Just because she’s a celebrity and is occasionally vulnerable doesn’t mean it’s okay for them to invade her personal space during something like this.
even put into words
The fact that she can still sing after having THREE strokes is absolutely incredible!!
She's so strong to come forward with all of this!! =)
I’m amazed she can even _speak, walk and feed herself_ after _three strokes._
Yes!! Exactly I was thinking the same...
The fact that "fans" ruined a woman's career and mental state by continually harrassing her is horrible.
happens all the time on twitter
That’s so sad but true . People can be cruel it isn’t fair smh
Its a big part of fame 🤦🏾♀️
@@sham_morgan no it’s not
Yes injecting yourself is blamed because of her fans 🤣 dumb and stupid
It's awful that her friends had to suffer for her mistakes. If she died, her friends never would have been able to clear their names. That's so sad.
I don’t understand when bullying became cool so much hostility and anger
I know I was thinking if Demi would of not been here that poor girl would of been blamed for things she didn’t do.
AAAAAAHHHHH!!!! PAAAAAIIIINNNN!!!!!!
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Pay close attention to the kind of people who act so cruel and never allow that to go unchallenged.
@@save_bandit they aren't, they mean the people who were bullying Demi's friend Dani😅 but I can see how it looks that way
There is such a huge difference when someone says “you need to do ...” and punishing you vs “let me help you “ “im here for you” “I’m not leaving your side”
Absolutely and when you have the type of personality Demi does. She will fight being told what to do. We all need to feel in control of our own lives on some level.
or "I'll be here for you when you're ready". People need space sometimes
@@SophisticatedFun78 we all need to humble ourselves also... demi is free to do what she wants- but look where that put her
If only Amy Winehouse had this kind of love and support maybe she will still be here
unfortunately has nothing to do with the amount of love & support. addiction is a mental health battle & no one else can fight it for you.
@@lindseyp2511 she was exploited for her talents, a little empathy maybe? she didn't have to fight that battle alone
@@gingeralesoda I agree with you! Her team let her do repetitive shows, seeing that she was not in a position to do so.They let him get ridiculed in front of the audience. They should have canceled the tour and helped him get his life back on track.
I think Demi’s former team was more concerned with the image of her being sober, than her actually being sober and well.
She summed it up so well, if all anyone is focused on is how not well you are, you aren’t going to be well. And it makes so much sense!
If people thought she wasn’t sober she wouldn’t be able to book the big gigs because she’d be considered a liability. They absolutely put how much money she was making before her quality of life.
@@smexipenguin That’s what’s wrong with the industry. They care more about an image, and their own asses, then they do about actual human beings and their wellness.
It was like Disney Channel all over again
definitely yes
while she was sharing her eating disorder story I teared up because it's 5pm and I haven't eaten anything in two days so I ordered myself a bunch of food. I'm not starving myself anymore.
I don't know you but I'm so proud of u, keep going, we see u!
Take care of yourself. I don't know you either but I'm also proud of you
I am so proud of you! You deserve to be nourished.
You enjoy that food!! ❤❤🥰
I'm so proud of you honey, u are beautiful and u've got this
I read a comment on the Grammy’s performance vid that was like, “If Demi hadn’t made it, this would’ve been her legacy song, the last song she recorded before she died... so glad she didn’t, she has so much more to do...” and I got such chills. She says it foreshadowed her OD... insane that it’s foreshadowing her rock bottom but not death or escaping death...
I wish Selena was interviewed about this too, she and Demi were inseparable during their Disney days before they had a fallout. I don't want them to talk about the fallout but about things that happened during that time
A friendship fall out will destroy u on top of trauma, I understand her story a lot.
Selena and Demi... that's a very complicated relationship. I think they experienced a lot of trauma around the same time and handled things differently. I think how they are now is fine and shouldn't be made into a spectacle. They both seem to wish each other the best and I think that's more than enough for them.
“How much heartbreak can you have at 16?!”
Stuff like this bothers me so much. Adults truly believe you have nothing to stress over or be sad about because you’re young. Age doesn’t mean a thing when it comes to pain. And it’s not a competition on who’s been through more pain than the next. What I’m going through may be the worst thing IVE ever experienced because it’s ME. When adults say stuff like that or, “you have nothing to be stressed about, I have to pay bi-“ it just makes me so upset and leads me to just keep everything to myself until I have a mental breakdown.
And people dont seem to get that what now can sound shallow to you, for a teen, it's their first time going through that, their mentality is different, they have different mechanisms to deal with things. You cant judge yourself or anyone for something from the past using the mentality you have now.
exactly! and pain is relative too! like someone who has been through a lot may take something a lot better than someone who has had a decent life up until something bad happens and they totally breakdown because they have never experienced something like that before. Everyone feels pain differently and it isn’t fair to discredit someone and their experiences because you dealt with it better than they did. I wish adults understood this.
This hit too close to home 😞
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Minimizing anyones pain is always no bueno.
Demi really made a great point. “They want what’s best for me but don’t always have all the information.” As a result, her friends lives have been ruined because of misconstrued information.
So have many, many, many others' lives. Not just famous peeps.
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@@WillBlindYouWithLight But when it comes to famous people, it literally affects so so many people
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fans are not friends or family and should stay out of celebrities personal life, cuz they need personal space as well, that being said celebrities should stop calling their fans ''friends'' or ''family'' cuz that makes their fans have delusions about the relationship and feel entitled there's surely a better way to show your fans you appreciate them then something that's unhealthy and simply not true as matter of fact
That Scooter person saying "we knew we needed to manage her because she needed a friend". Nobody you pay is your friend. She still seems to be surrounded by sycophants leeching off of her. I guess deep inside she knows that and that's why she's using, too.
But all these entertainment management people are vultures. They use these emotionally vulnerable fame thirsty individuals to make every cent.
Exactly, the second Demi stops giving money to Scooter he will forget her and move on to the next artist
She’s not using hard drugs. She’s better now and scooter helped her
@@Sof-ti4yb Demi went a year and a half without giving him any money so that’s not true
Facts
I really dislike people on the internet. Look at all the disgusting things that they wouldn't dare say if they were in your face.
if you paid attention in the last episode the choreographer actually was telling the barman to stop giving alcohol to Demi.
Very true
yesss she was like "nooo"
I totally saw that.
timestamp please I will love you forever!!!
@@jaylenwilliams6022 episode 1 - around 18:40 you see her shaking her head “no” to the barman
I cant say that any other person in her position with this platform has ever been this vulnerable, raw, and real with us. She deserves all the love and support we have!
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@Ali Abr as it should.
Seriously? There's no way you're older than 25 if you actually believe that lmao
yesss
This is the ultimate ‘taking responsibility for my actions’ action. Allowing your loved ones and friends to tell their story, even if it makes you look bad.
These people need to be named. I’m proud she finally is speaking out but for fucks sake we need to hold these monsters accountable and shine a light on them, whether people will believe it or not we need to keep our eyes out and on the ones who are being accused
She will come forward more when she’s ready
Not your place to pressure anybody to say anything. This is such a personal documentary. Respect what she doesn't want to publicly address, it isn't much...
she's not gonna name him
That will do NOTHING. The war on drugs is failure. Decriminalize and start providing free treatment
@@elijahgavin6706 decriminalize heroin? that's retarded.
The case manager said it all. It’s always “how can you do this to yourself” not “you must be in so much pain to go through that”. Demi wasn’t seen or heard the way she needed to be. Much love to Demi, I hope I can overcome the darkness like her.
Yeah, I always see "Why are you doing this" instead of "What is making you do this?" What people are mentally or physically going through to make them choose certain actions is what we all really should be talking about more.
I’m overcoming mine! You can do it, love! I promise 🤍
Sending you light☀️
You will, you're strong !
“You really find out who’s there for you when the world falls out from under your feet.” #Truth
I come back to this documentary in my recovery to help remind me that I’m not alone in the struggle
so proud of you. I'm hoping you're healing well. ❤
This episode just proves that stan culture is so toxic. Fans gotta stop feeling entitled to be a part of their favorite artists. We aren't part of their lives, there's a limit.
This!!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
This...100%!
@Halcyon Days so true I mean I love Demi and a lot of singers but only in a respectful manner. I mean yes I was concerned for her overdose and worried like the rest of them but I wouldn’t harass or hate her personal friends for no reason without supporting evidence or proof! That’s what separates normal respectful fans and the creep crazy ones!!
@Spike Vaccyanide lol no
Not arguing, but to add to your point, it really doesn’t help that the music industry takes advantage of artists and the pressures to the extent that artists almost literally rely on their fans to keep them afloat to the extent that fans feel like they do have control and there isn’t a limit.
It breaks my heart to hear Chris Harrison say "Come on! How much heartbreak can you have at 16?!?" knowing what she had actually already been through at that age.
that part made me cry my eyes out...
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Yeah females for some reason think they're the only ones to ever do drugs and have sex.... or their emotional state is completely unique and no one would understand!
meanwhile there's 500 million homeless drug addicts that didn't have 40 million dollars or herds of people bringing them free drugs and pedicures and starbucks
but DEMI IS SUCH A VICTIM AND HERO! lmao
@@jcbbb bro are you ok?
@@samuelbonaya9941 literally no one said that baby calm down
I feel so bad for the trauma Demi’s friends had to go through on account of Demi’s fans. That’s so awful. It is NEVER okay to send death threats or harass someone.
When Dani started crying it broke my heart, fans can be super toxic, WAY too invasive & end up causing SO much hurt it's messed up!!
I feel so bad for the choreographer who got threats for something she never did..humans judge people too fast without knowing the full story. Nobody even reached out to her to know what actually happened..I cannot imagine what she must have gone through...
Demi should have been financially supporting her. Demi ruined her business and threatened her livelihood. She could have ended up on the street because of what Demi did
@@user-vn5nm9nu7z i understand where you’re coming from but demi wasnt even financially stable enough to have control over her own money, let alone helping someone else with theirs. she was in a state of where she was never sober and when she was, she didn’t fully understand what was happening. as horrible as what happened to her choreography was, demi couldn’t be the support system for someone else she couldn’t even support herself.
@@user-vn5nm9nu7z shut up
@@alishadiamond7394 no ❤️
Demi acted soo nonchalant about what happened to that poor girl ... spoke of it for a blip of a second like it was a little oops and then all rt back to being about her her her.
When the interviewer asked if someone ever taught about giving up on her, I think her friends were not being totally honest but her sister was so real, thinking about it doesn't mean you will ever do it, its your blood, you get angry even feel like fighting the person and then you get yourself back together and keep fighting for your loved one...
I'm watching this again, and honestly hearing Maddie saying "yeah" to thinking about giving up on Demi, it's so heartbreaking 💙
This is exactly why everyone needs to stop canceling people. You don’t know the full story. I’m talking about Demi’s friend
Cancel culture is toxic and ignorant
@@emilyellerbe5363 agreed. It’s also immature.
Who cares she did heroine
@Northern lights indica 247 true, but social media CAN ruin your life. Dani got cancelled on social media & look what it did to her career
Some people deserve to be cancelled though, like Shane Dawson and David Dobrik
I feel so sorry for Demi's friend, Dani. Being a passionate fan is one thing, but don't use that as an excuse to threaten someone's life.
Agreed. Using the passion of being a fan of some artists and using it as an excuse to harass and buliy someones life is awful and I've seen this happen in other fan communities.
Exactly!!
the real focus should be on the assistant that massively lagged in calling 911 and when she did told them no sirens aka stop at every red light and stop sign...dont rush. Something shady about her. I have a feeling she may have helped facilitate the heroine and was afraid when the OD happened.
Christine Lo stop it..she already explained she had to sneak away to call and someone told her to say no sirens...stfu
@@ChristineLoABCBachelorette Did you not watch the part in the earlier part of the documentary where she literally explains that? Stop being ignorant.
The sister answer to the question “did you ever think about giving up on her” was the only honest answer. Anyone who’s dealt with addiction knows you think about giving up on them all the time but you don’t because you love them. Anyone that says they’ve never thought about giving up on them is a liar.
I hope her message spreads all over the world. Especially in the Kpop industry, where the stars are treated unfairly and Kpop stays silent about it.
"believe it or not being 16 I've been through a lot" absolutely heartbreaking
I know 😟
No one had the slightest clue, imagine everyone who might’ve made fun of her for saying that
Was that Chris Harrison who said that!?
Like what? If I may ask?
yes
I feel so bad for her friend/choreographer, people were so mean💔
It straight up ruined her career just because she was there
she has done some other mean stuff that also contributed to it. like taking the credit for jojo gomez dance so she isnt fully in the clear.
if you look at the footage of demi drinking with the glittery makeup in a yellow top, you literally see Dani signaling to the bartender “don’t pour too much” or “that’s enough.” She WAS taking care of Demi even tho Demi is a grown woman. She’s a great friend and I’m so sad she got so much backlash :/
@@minnidena7527 yeah but there's a huge difference between being a heroin dealer and taking credit for something that wasn't yours. Don't equate the two
@@minnidena7527 true dani isn't an angel, but I'm glad she told her story cause blaming a almost death on someone is horrible
Nobody protected this girl. I hope she gets true healing from her trauma.
She’s my idol
Sadly I lost my virginity in a similar situation, I even convinced myself that bc I liked the guy that it wasn’t rape and a year after I tried to “date” him bc throughout the day he seemed a great person and bc he acted like it wasn’t wrong I convinced myself he wasn’t doing anything wrong but every time it came to sex, he was very pushy and aggressive... it took me years to call it what it was.. which was rape!!
you are so strong. keep your head up.
I am so sorry 😔 I don't know a single lady who had not happened something like this....why so many abuse? We need to talk more about it and raise a better society, and be together as victims too
“ I’m tired of opening my mouth so, there the tea..” Felt that in so many levels.
Yes
I didn't see any tea tho? Is it sweet tea?
@@Heart2016Sim I hope that was sarcasm.
Sophie Turner always say “that’s the Tea” 😶
Pra mim ficou muito claro que tem a ver com o Joe!
I can understand that demi wasn't in a place to defend her friend at the time but the fact that not even her team or her publicist or anyone spoke out on her behalf to defend her friend is really messed up. a simple "demi is not ready to talk about the events of that night but her friend had nothing to do with it" would've sufficed
I think they just didn't know who was involved so they couldn't speak on it.
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Agree! I can’t believe her choreographer stood by her! Disgusting
EXACTLY. Pretty sure they did not cuz at the time they DID blame her.
She was a baby and she really never had control over her life. It's not tea. It's her life. I hope she's better. I swear I needed to hear this.
I just wish I could talk to her myself 🥺 I know so many of us out there have felt/feeling what she is and she’s truly inspiring me and I’m sure so many more people out there on their road to recovery. Thank you Demi for sharing your story 💕
The whole crew being there for her is so heartwarming !
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They should have been there more. A true friend picks up on when another friend lies. They had no clue she was on drugs. Pay attention to your friends people!
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1. After hearing Dani’s side and Demi clearing her friend’s name, I just think how some of her fans didn’t learned nothing about bullying.
2. It’s heartbreaking to see that she tried in some way to “fix” the rape, and it’s sad to see that when she was younger she couldn’t say something because she thought she can’t as Disney Star to say she isn’t virgin anymore.
It’s show how bad the disney industry is.
Agree
High-key agree.
Honestly people didn’t consider doing that stuff to Dani like harassing her or bullying her for something she never did and I’m ashamed people didn’t consider that stuff they did to Dani bullying
Yeah, she tried to "fix" the rape. She said she abused her abuser. So did she rape them? This raises so many questions and is concerning!
@@justinepanzarella2419 I think she just means she took back to control that they had over her
I truly admire Demi for doing this documentary! Thank you for sharing your heartbreaking story. I hope it helps others. You’re such a strong woman for doing this. Much love from the UK.
So much love for Demi using her voice and platform to share her experience with abuse and addiction and hope. She is a role model if there ever was one - relapse and all. The recovery journey is lifelong and there are going to be relapses, but as long as your heart is beating, there is always hope. Big love!
I feel that many of us can relate to her struggles whether it's depression, anxiety, eating disorder, addiction, and a feeling of loneliness.
that’s what makes her such a role model
@@kloverc2657 she never signed up to be your role model tho. You can admire her strength and will to keep going but she definitely shouldn’t be your “role model”
yes for sure
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i really hope her abuser isn't someone i'm supporting like a celebrity
Its 100% a celebrity, they were in the movie with her and honestly it scares me
@@sophiaguzman4757 do you know what movie specifically?
@@samanthacarlos8830 No, but when she was talking about it she looked like she was in her Sonny with a Chance phase
@@samanthacarlos8830 most likely camp rock
Hope it's not true but the Jonas Brothers perhaps? It all lines up honestly. They too wore "promise rings" they too acted with her I mean she dated one. She did say she called the guy back
I can’t understand at all why they blamed Anna. Like how did that even become a rumor?? Poor girl :(
I am so thankful that you are still here to tell your story and to bring awareness you are so strong and it shows
I think Demi’s sister’s response was the most honest in regards to ‘giving up’ on her. I’ve dealt with being around someone with addiction and I think it’s a lie or naïve to say that you’ve never wanted to give up on someone with addiction. It becomes tiring after years 😕. You don’t want to give up, but often people place you in that position where you don’t have much of a choice
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People need HONESTY. Even honesty which hurts.
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Odd seeing Scooter Braun painted as the hero in her story when he's the villain in many others....
People are complicated like that. Someone can be the villain of one person's story and the hero in someone else's, and both can be equally true of somebody.
can u tell me all the drama abt him? bc a lot of people talk abt him but i have no idea whats up lmao
He is also a producer of this documentary Sooooil
@@samanthae1578 Welp that explains some things lmao
@@samanthae1578 Google him and Taylor Swift
Demi is not a Normal popsinger, she's one of the Best Vocalists on the Planet and for me personaly a Soulsinger and not a Popsinger! Love you Demi🌹My LIVESAFER!💋
as a recovering addict who has has been SA, have had 12 relapses in 3 years, thank you. thank you for telling the stories that I feel like I can call my own. you are not alone in trying to reclaim power. I have felt so alone. I am getting help. taking a day at a time. Will always stand by you and keep you in my prayers. Thank you Demi. This was not for nothing. because I didn't give in tonight.
It’s so sad that she didn’t even want to come out as a survivor of assault initially because she was scared that no one would believe her. How toxic of a world we live in... And that at the very end of it, she says “I’m tired of opening my mouth” She was assaulted. She was a child. And she feels defeated even after coming clean all these years later. 🥺
Many assault survivors feel this way. And usually that’s the case. Especially when it comes to the judicial system, we are not protected. We are thought as crying rape. When in actuality the person were reporting is a rapist, but because of their social standing, they will never see any jail time and we will never see any justice. So I feel her on that completely. Would I want to be known as the girl who cried rape? Or do I want justice?
Nobody believed me when I came out thay it happened in high school. Then I was hated and labeled the girl who faked it.
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@@victoriagagnon4050 I know. I’m a survivor too. It’s just heart breaking how many of us have dealt with this. I just can’t imagine dealing with that AND having to be this perfect Disney role model at the same time.
@@cheyannecatalano2951 Thats horrible. I’m so sorry. Sending you hugs. 💜
That's disgusting. No matter what Demi went through, people had no rights to bully her friends, it is someone's career and life
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Agree 💯
“I told you I was okay but I was lying” anyone with an eating disorder can relate to that so much.
Exact representation of how disgustingly petty our generation is. It’s seriously getting ridiculous.
Meu Deus, a Demi é muito forte, passou por tantas coisas difíceis 😔😔 Ela é definitivamente uma guerreira.
Desejo muita força pra ela conseguir continuar lutando ❤️
I knew nothing about how hard her life's been during her teen years. I find her super articulate and aware of every step that leads to recovery. This episode is deeply moving.
I really hope she comes out about the person who took her virginity, Disney is a disgusting machine that needs to be stopped.
She probably won’t bc there’s no physical proof anymore (and doesn’t want to get sued) ... I was thinking joe Jonas (or maybe one of the other jo bros) bc she dated joe publicly during camp rock (when she was 15/16 and beyond)... they’re the only dudes in the movie I could see Disney refusing to pull 🤷🏼♀️ Also her touring with them after makes me think the tour was like a pay off
Candice Cart it could’ve been princess protection program as well, think she was around the same age
It’s so sad that she confirmed this happened now and still no one can do anything, this person won‘t have any consequences. Feel like it must be Joe Jonas as well
@@edweer670 wtf is wrong with you
@@edweer670 so how exactly do they get cash from this? You’re disgusting. Seek help.
Only people waiting for the premiere can like this
i’m with you!🤍🌷
Yass
Yess sirrrrr
Question: what’s the WORTHIEST phrase to search on youtube?
Answer: “chill yall” is the answer. Check it you don’t believe me!
Seriously 🖕🏼🖕🏼🖕🏼
its nice to know that we dont struggle alone with the struggles we face. i understand wanting to take control after being violated but in my mind i could not make sense as to why such a reasoning became an option for me but hearing it come from someone else who like me kept it hidden for so long is why it is vitally important to speak your truth, someone is listening for healing. ♥️💪🏾 #survivor
I was sexually assaulted over a year ago and got 2 STI’s from it. I spent months internalising it and blaming myself. The person never got arrested and pretty much nothing was done about it.
Thankyou Demi for talking about it. It’s taken some of the pain away.
It’s crazy how we literally almost lost her. 😞 I just can’t get that out of my head.
I think about this almost all the time. It’s crazy. 😢
like literally SO close.
no for real
what makes me more pissed off is that we tried to warn that she was not doing well when she released "sober" but nobody listened to us
@@samvalle563 exactly I don’t understand how they didn’t figure it out after she was literally singing she wasn’t sober 🤦🏽♀️ ..the tour should’ve ended when that song came out.
"Abusing the abuser is not where your healing is going to come from" ❤️
Who do you think the abuser is
@@nealacasey6748 I have no idea
This really resonates with me
Can't just let him get away with it
Also rather unlikely the abuser would feel "abused" this way, so the whole idea is all wrong to begin with, as much as I can understand wanting to "get that power back"
All of us need this type of strength to help us get through the day especially at these times.
i feel like this documentary truly explains how hard drugs and alcohol has a hard impact on you and how hard it is to stop addiction. Love u Demi!
Ong
The “Scrolling through the comments while listening” squad
Oh Yeah😏🤘
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Yep but who is crying lol
Aye
“I told you I was okay but I was lying” anyone with an eating disorder can relate to that so much.
Well I think anyone with any sort of struggle - depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, eating disorder, addiction - can relate to that. We often show a smile to the world when we’re not feeling happy inside.
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I was just going to say that. Anyone who is struggling with anything. They pretend they are okay and hide it.
"I wanted to be super hot and famous so I had to keep throwing up duh"
"I really like cocaine and heroin.. i'm such a victim"
I FEEL THAT... I really love cocaine as well and I guess i'm a victim too!
My mom died... my cat died... my dog died...
See... look at that emotional turmoil!
Anyone with any type of addiction can relate
Love you Demi. Thanks for
Spreading awareness on so many topics that are needed.
Grateful you are here and finding what makes u happy. You deserve it
She’s had 3 strokes, a heart attack, she was temporarily legally blind, and she had pneumonia. And she can still sing as amazing as she can is so incredible to me..
taking a moment to think about all the non-celebs who deal with the same issues Demi faced but don't get support and get looked down on. we see you, you are worthy
Im that person. And finally coming out with my truth
I'm late to the party cause of to much trauma I had to overcome thanks for the acknowledgement :)
This is why I am glad Demi is using her platform to bring attention to problems even us average joes go through.
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Sad to know my childhood enjoying her talents, she was suffering behind the scene.
literally same w Jennette McCurdy. Hollywood isn’t for kids
It is heartbreaking hey. Whoever this monster is that raped her, and she gave little hints, I hope and pray that justice is served for Demi and other girls they would of obviously done the same thing to. But who is it?
That’s all I could think of. And the fact that we never knew, or at least not her whole story. she always tried to keep a smile on her face for us.
Her voice is so beautiful i remember watching the Grammy performance and I cried like a baby she is just so beautiful inside and out she is just so unbelievably amazing and a beautiful soul
Love you, Demi. Hope you’re feeling stronger and healthy.
This episode teaches the audience that you never really know what someone is going through. Don’t judge others!
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Demi end Selena’s career
Especially celebrities. Kardashians for example we see and have seen a ton of their lives for a long time but weve seen a quarter of their actual lives. We see what they want us to see. We think we know them we have literally no idea.
True that!
I’ve been clean off heroin for 4 years and 5 months now, you CAN do this Demi! Praying for you to live a happy and sober life ❤️
I'M SO INCREDIBLY PROUD OF YOU❤❤
You’re amazing! Keep it up 🥰🙏🏽
You are such strong person! Wishing u many more years of sobriety 💙
Amazing!! Proud of you!
Congratulations!! You’re doing amazing!
Hello demi I just wanna say your journey is very emotional and can’t wait for the last episode and it’s ironic how 2020 was your rebirth back into the stage and yet this quarantine sort of in a way both stopped it and get improved it by giving you time to both make more music and film this for all of us.
I love your strength and brutal honesty Lovato.
You got this.
I hope the same way they flooded Dani with so much hate, they flood her with apologies. That's representative of Demi's fandom and Dani deserves it.
you really think they're gonna do that?
I doubt it which is so sad tbh
I can say for certain they didn't
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yes! I may not like Dani, but blaming her for such a serious stuff??? Wishing death? I see why Demi hates us and doesn't talk to us. Lovatics deserve it 100%.
I did the same thing as her after being assaulted . I thought sleeping with him again would take back my power . It didn’t and I was judged . I’m so so happy that she shared this , it’s the first time I have felt like someone got me
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I did too. Thank you for taking the time to share your experience. It made me feel less alone too.
Yeah, it never works out. Thank you for sharing. Makes me feel a little better.
That’s crazy that she did it again after she almost died. But I’m here watching this after DMX has died...such a sad world and life.
Rehab treatment should not have to cost large sums of money. Quality treatment should be available for everyone.
I love how Demi is owning up to her mistakes and realizing the people she's hurt and giving everyone a chance to explain what happened.
it's part of sobriety.
Just took 4 years and some life and career ruined but yesss I guess
ikr she's being honest now.
Their is no one to blame but her own self ... I used to admire Demi but she lied to many times kinda over it as a fan
I agree. I think she tried the common force of sobriety which resulted terribly. Addiction involves a lot of downs, but working through them is a better turnout in the end. Truthfully, I feel the pop music industry tried to control her, whereas rock has always been a way to scream out what’s really going on- not to mention the audience is filled with souls that have been the kindest of everyone I’ve met.
DO NOT SPECULATE WHO RAPED HER. There is a reason she did not say his name. There is a reason she started this episode with what happened to Dani Vitale. If she would have wanted us to know, she would have told us. Don't speculate. Don't harass. Don't ruin someone's life. Just stop and respect peoples boundaries.
Exactly, I saw that happening in the Live Chat Feed During the premiere i had to minimize it. I don't like Fandom Behavior like that and Lovatics are better than that.
@@danholt1561 your question literally defeats the entire purpose of this comment - don't ask :)
@@danholt1561 it’s not the Jonas brothers they stayed friends and worked together after disney
Let’s worry about protecting a rapists reputation
I think it's human nature to speculate who it is. As long as people don't act upon that speculation and send hate I think it's fine.
Dani needs Justice she was getting blamed for Demi's choices and those so called "fans" should have been arrested for verbal abuse and harassment like who tf does that to someone when you only know one side of a very sad and unfortunate situation
I had no idea she had such a traumatic history. I'm glad she made this series and was vulnerable. I had no idea she had a problem with addiction until she overdosed.
That is why MaryKate & Ashley are no longer in the public eye. It’s tough.
what happened to them
@@ray-kf3mf they were mifchelle on full house since they were like 1, movie companies and merchandise- millionaires by 7! But then people starting bullying them, one was anorexic, they stopped acting, and to this day run their fashion line( which is REALLY SUCCESSFUL)
omg yes. most of the disney and nickelodeon child stars were relatively older when they started, so I can't imagine how it's different starting out when you're an infant and don't even have a choice in the matter. I don't know how much they've said about their childhood but I do kinda wish they would do something like this.
Very true. I miss them so much...
@Grace C Lizzie as in Elizabeth Olsen?
It's really tough to see Scooter being a supportive person in Demi's life and so deeply hurting Taylor. People contain multitudes.
Demi is trying to tell her story.. So why are you worried about Taylor
@@princessduran7444 relax he’s a monster
Fr It’s so weird I thought the same thing
@@BitchGotAVJAY Haha exactly. He's there for Demi because he knows he can make money off of her talent.
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She needs to change those words. “I LOST my virginity in a rape” no. You’re virginity wasn’t lost. It was TAKEN. There’s a difference.
Hi
Im just so proud of you, you are so strong doing this. Im so sorry you had to go through all of that but its made you so strong now. People judge to easy which its wrong, learn and listen to what you and your best friend went through and understand the reason you got to the point you did. Again im proud of who you have become
I can’t take Scooter seriously after what he did to Taylor Swift and allegedly to other artists. I think he just looks at her as a money bag :( wish her the best
Exactly what I thought as soon as he came on screen 😩
Lmao I was pissed when I saw him at the screen i feel like its not genuine. It's like all for the ~cam~
This! How can you say that people don't believe women when they are mistreated and then go to the agressor of one and call him a "friend" COME ON!!!!
I wish she’d call out which Disney star did it. But I love her. She is an inspiration to me.
Agreed
She’s not obligated to name anyone if she’s not comfortable with it and people should really stop speculating because it’s not fair to make assumptions... this is exactly how Dani’s career was ruined, through fans assuming she had done something wrong
Same
@Anakin Skywalker go fys
@Anakin Skywalker your choice of words speaks more about yourself
Demi, I seriously cried the first few minutes of this. As someone who is going through substance use disorder an eating disorder and alcohol use disorder I somewhat get your decisions. Keep going...
Hello Demi, you are wonderful, I remember you when we watched your movies with my son. thank you for not depriving the world of your presence and beautiful voice.
Blessings!
I can’t believe Dani got blamed, I never saw that drama with the rest of the OD news. I’m so glad that she and the rest of Dem’s team get to share in this episode
Yeah it was really bad. She lost teaching lessons, because parents didn’t want the kids go to her classes and other artists stopped working with her. She didn’t do anything and I wonder why Demi waited this long to help her friend....
Interviewer: how much heartbreak can you have at 16?
Demi: oh... a lot
That hit me in the chest. The trauma these kids experience in these industries. It's lucky any of them get out alive.
Not just industry, her family issues, bullying, eating disorders, the mutilation...none of it is child star exclusive issues.
@@soaribb32 Never said it was exclusive to the industry, just a commentary on the industry itself and what kids are put through.