How I overcame alcoholism | Claudia Christian | TEDxLondonBusinessSchool

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  • @loganallen2225
    @loganallen2225 13 дней назад +517

    Years ago, I struggled with addiction and mental health challenges that felt impossible to overcome. Discovering psilocybin therapy transformed my life completely. After about 9 years of being clean, I’m endlessly thankful for the healing power of nature.

    • @ralphadams2433
      @ralphadams2433 13 дней назад

      The therapeutic benefits of psilocybin mushrooms completely changed my recovery journey, and other psychedelics like DMT and LSD have also played a key role in my healing and personal transformation.

    • @michaeljohnson5853
      @michaeljohnson5853 13 дней назад

      Psilocybin mushrooms, DMT, and LSD have played a crucial role in my mental health recovery. After being diagnosed with severe depression and other mental health challenges, a friend recommended Golden Teacher mushrooms for spiritual and mental rejuvenation. l've experienced remarkable well-being for the past four years.

    • @waynedavis2022
      @waynedavis2022 13 дней назад

      Hey everyone, can someone point me to a source? I've been battling severe anxiety, panic attacks, and depression.

    • @seanwood9463
      @seanwood9463 13 дней назад

      doctorcyruss is your guy, really good with anything psychedelics, and the most knowledgeable that I know.

    • @amahlengubane6920
      @amahlengubane6920 13 дней назад

      He’s on Telgram?

  • @colbycovington6073
    @colbycovington6073 5 лет назад +3874

    I’m 90 days clean I am never going back please pray for me and other people struggling with this disease

    • @koichinishi9075
      @koichinishi9075 5 лет назад +38

      One day at a time!!! It works when you work it!!!!!?

    • @mikeforcerer8537
      @mikeforcerer8537 5 лет назад +17

      @DelusionRU Hail Satan, I'm 3 years sober i didn't need jeebus. lol

    • @l__SPOOK__l
      @l__SPOOK__l 5 лет назад +14

      @@mikeforcerer8537 Same here brother, i went from drinking spirits to heavy beer, after months i dropped to mid strength and then to light. At this point i was sick of my life, sick of drinking and had been for years, honestly i should have stopped years before this point because I'm quite sure that vomiting blood isn't normal, i think i stopped for 1 or 2 weeks and got right into it. My last weekend drinking was enjoyable, i had it planned, just chillout and watch youtube vids, relax at home, i bought 2 cartons of light beer and 2 hits of acid, great weekend and that was it.
      I felt great for the first month, that's when i started getting cluster headaches, they were nearly daily and very hard to deal with while driving a forklift, they faded away after 5 or 6 months. I think shortly after that i bought Anton LaVey book, Hail Satan Brother!! You've done well.

    • @ulthelth2899
      @ulthelth2899 5 лет назад +18

      "As a person THINKS in their heart so are they." Proverbs 23:7
      How you think and view yourself not as an alcoholic but a new creation in Christ is the key. Alcohol and other drug addictions have a mental relationship and spiritual relationship addiction. You need to be a new person and according to the Apostle Paul in 2 Corinthians 5 : 17 " Therefore if anyone is in Christ [that is, grafted in, joined to Him by faith in Him as Savior], he is a new creature [reborn from above and renewed by the Holy Spirit]; the old things [the previous moral and spiritual condition] have passed away. Behold, new things have come [because spiritual awakening brings a new life]. 18 But all these things are from God, "
      You need a brand new spiritual self and get rid of the old dead replacing it with God's eternal life of God. It's as easy as a simple prayer to accept Jesus and ask Him to come into you making you brand new spiritually and receive His eternal all encompassing sacrifice for the eternal forgiveness of any sin.

    • @blsbeserker8634
      @blsbeserker8634 5 лет назад +31

      Prayers...I'm over 2 years sober from alcohol. It gets easier as you go.

  • @BA-de4pn
    @BA-de4pn 3 года назад +3925

    Addiction is giving up everything for one thing. Recovery is giving up one thing for everything.

    • @Ranch.no.sweetpotatoesbitch
      @Ranch.no.sweetpotatoesbitch 3 года назад +60

      I love this.

    • @jamedlock83
      @jamedlock83 3 года назад +38

      can't tell you how many times I have pawned my stuff just to get beer. . . I pawned my vehicle for beer, and lost my vehicle. . I never lost my electronics though. I want to quit, but I just don't know how. . . . . Living alone sucks, with no friends. . . .

    • @PjPjPaul
      @PjPjPaul 3 года назад +13

      I needed this

    • @cvmitchell9368
      @cvmitchell9368 3 года назад +7

      Thank you.

    • @52brittster
      @52brittster 3 года назад +17

      I needed to read this comment

  • @EdgarSanchez4-13
    @EdgarSanchez4-13 Год назад +294

    6 days clean …. Pray for me please .. Doing this for my marriage and my family ! I am 28 years old and I’m really struggling ! We got this !! Saddest thing ever

    • @Michael-tr7uq
      @Michael-tr7uq Год назад

      If willpower alone doesn't work for you, this method can. Do not ignore this science. Free support for The Sinclair Method is all over social media and podcasts today.

    • @EdgarSanchez4-13
      @EdgarSanchez4-13 Год назад +10

      @@Michael-tr7uq stilll staying sober ! Thank you

    • @Michael-tr7uq
      @Michael-tr7uq Год назад +3

      @@EdgarSanchez4-13 Great, being alcohol-free is the best !

    • @claradontcara
      @claradontcara Год назад +3

      I hope you're still doing ok. Even if you aren't doing great, don't give up. You are YOUNG and have so many reasons to win this fight!

    • @lindahoffman2692
      @lindahoffman2692 Год назад +3

      Edgar, I hope with all my heart that you are still winning your Battle! People don’t realize that often it’s necessary to give up far more than the alcohol - you may have to give up certain friends, activities, places even Family who are impediments to your Recovery! Not easy but SO worth it to keep what matters to you and to build your new life upon that success. You’re in my prayers 🙏💞

  • @Tresor2919
    @Tresor2919 6 лет назад +3481

    I'm done with drinking guys I've lost so many years with my family please pray for me

    • @christopherclamour
      @christopherclamour 6 лет назад +132

      Tresor Kalombo I’ve been working hard on sobriety the past year and a half. It’s actually so difficult sometimes and yes I have had some binges in that time but I tell you what, the best feeling in the world is waking up in the morning and knowing you didn’t drink the day before.

    • @MyDigitaLifes
      @MyDigitaLifes 6 лет назад +64

      You are courageous by admitting it. I've lost almost anything 17 years ago. I'm sober since 2001 and you can be sober too. Try AA (Alcoholic Anonymous) it help a lot.

    • @wakeoftheflood2
      @wakeoftheflood2 6 лет назад +30

      I havent had a drink since 2008. It isnt easy at the outset, but I send you the good news that it does get easier, over time. Be well. Never too late.

    • @wakeoftheflood2
      @wakeoftheflood2 6 лет назад +34

      One more thing Ill say...I still feel like an outsider when in social situations everyone else is drinking, or drunk, & Im not. I dont think that will ever go away, but it also gets easier. Or Ive just gotten used to it. Dont let that influence you negatively, stay with it, because its not worth throwing away your hard work just to be like everyone else.

    • @gloriamaryhaywood2217
      @gloriamaryhaywood2217 6 лет назад +12

      @@christopherclamour Yes!....that certainly is the best feeling in the world! Although it's been years and years since my crazed drinking days, I can absolutely still relate to what you're saying!!😉

  • @peacefull6096
    @peacefull6096 4 года назад +3613

    Almost all mistakes I ever made in my life were under the influence of alcohol.

    • @elizabethvandyke1733
      @elizabethvandyke1733 4 года назад +69

      Every single one

    • @R0FLC4T5
      @R0FLC4T5 4 года назад +122

      3 relationships. Each one worthy of a lifetime...gone.

    • @thomaspartington8526
      @thomaspartington8526 4 года назад +53

      Same here mate all of my mistakes were through alcohol man.

    • @marianapopescu753
      @marianapopescu753 4 года назад +60

      Me too.. And l am so ashamed 😔

    • @bethangee1348
      @bethangee1348 4 года назад +124

      "something bad doesn't happen everytime I drink but everytime something bad happens it's cause I've been drinking"

  • @manueldelush9716
    @manueldelush9716 3 года назад +1173

    Today is going to be my first day of sobriety in almost 10 years. Alchohol has gone from being something fun to something that has taken away so much for me. Today is the day. Wish me luck

    • @uwsgrrl2308
      @uwsgrrl2308 3 года назад +21

      Don't ever give up! Good luck!

    • @johnphillips9921
      @johnphillips9921 3 года назад +11

      I'm on your side, Manny! John.

    • @manueldelush9716
      @manueldelush9716 3 года назад +36

      @@johnphillips9921 I made it 16 days before falling off. Its been a tough month but I'm starting 2022 off fresh and sober. Need to keep on going

    • @johnphillips9921
      @johnphillips9921 3 года назад +24

      @@manueldelush9716 Hi, Manny ! First thing: Don't beat yourself up. Falling happens to ALL of us who fight this demon. Whatever stage you are in, keep calm & carry on. Hang with truly sober people. Their presence will bolster your confidence. They stayed sober & so can you. Always remember, you are NOT alone! your friend, John.

    • @manueldelush9716
      @manueldelush9716 3 года назад +8

      @@johnphillips9921 thank you man, that really means alot. I have a great family around me so im luckier than most. It's being honest with myself I think is my biggest problem. Again thank you John
      Happy new year
      Danny

  • @strumminfuel4625
    @strumminfuel4625 2 года назад +399

    Get your head straight if you plan on quitting. Mental illness and addiction go hand in hand. I started seeing a psychiatrist and my cravings are easier to recognize and control. 7 years sober, I nearly fell off in the last few weeks. Talking to someone helped big time. Stay strong, it gets better.

    • @datMNboi
      @datMNboi 2 года назад +8

      Stay strong. Proud of you.

    • @65vwbug87
      @65vwbug87 2 года назад +5

      what did the psych say to help you? and good job by the way.

    • @strumminfuel4625
      @strumminfuel4625 2 года назад +15

      @@65vwbug87 When I quit drinking I didn't go to rehab so I never learned what my triggers were, I found out that I drank to numb my anxiety, which was caused by not resolving other personal issues that are now resolved. I would recommend AA or rehab. Only 5 percent of people that try to quit succed. I'm not stronger than anyone, I had a great supportive family ❤️. I don't judge anyone, it's hard.

    • @65vwbug87
      @65vwbug87 2 года назад +1

      @@strumminfuel4625 right on ! Just was wondering what they talked about. I wish your future continues to grow in health and clarity on your journey.

    • @nickisnyder3450
      @nickisnyder3450 2 года назад +8

      Naltrexone helps too.

  • @KanwarAnand
    @KanwarAnand 5 лет назад +3287

    I'm 37 days sober.
    Goal is 365 days.
    Who thinks I'll do it?

    • @VAMR-vc7xg
      @VAMR-vc7xg 5 лет назад +23

      Yeah, you can do it.

    • @neerajmoudgil7692
      @neerajmoudgil7692 4 года назад +14

      U will definitely

    • @darby_hudson
      @darby_hudson 4 года назад +32

      only you know

    • @susan1098
      @susan1098 4 года назад +9

      I think you can certainly do it😊Keep us posted. We are here to support you. You can do it 😊

    • @kitmcv
      @kitmcv 4 года назад +1

      I do mate.

  • @reddiver7293
    @reddiver7293 4 года назад +1825

    She's right about the decade thing. I wanted to stop drinking. I tried and continually relapsed. It was hard and it was depressing. But somewhere after that ten years, I did stop drinking. And in six days, it will be 23 years without alcohol. And life got BETTER.

    • @reddiver7293
      @reddiver7293 3 года назад +9

      @SkimShark Mic
      Almost 2 months!
      Excellent!
      We all have our own routes to becoming sober.
      Lots of fellow brothers (I go mostly to stag meetings) and sisters in recovery. Lots of literature, lots of stories.
      Bottom line is not drinking alcohol.
      Please be aware of the Pink Cloud Syndrome as you deal with the issues that every Today brings.
      SkimSharkMic, proud of you!

    • @shellycaldeira
      @shellycaldeira 3 года назад +4

      Stats so awesome. You are part of a very RARE statistic! But I and sure you know that just by looking around.

    • @shellycaldeira
      @shellycaldeira 3 года назад +3

      @SkimShark Mic if something changes, good to have some naltrexone around. Out of the 23 percent it’s doesn’t work for 10 percent is because of compliance. Which I totally do not get. How hard is it to keep a pill with you at all times? Honestly, I don’t understand that at ALL. I feel sad for the other 10 percent or so. Something about their receptors working differently or something. Good for you for not giving up and finding something that works for you. 👍😄

    • @shellycaldeira
      @shellycaldeira 3 года назад +11

      @SkimShark Mic oh I also wanted to mention that I am 57 and had that same “after I made the decision” it was easy. Life got way better (everytime) until I slipped… it went exactly as she describes except slower for me. It would take me about a year or more to get back to drinking as often and as much as when I hit my personal bottom. I was sober once for 5 & 1/2 years in my 30s. 3 years in my 40s and a couple of years in my 50’s. OVER IT. I got the Nal and OH MY GOD… it’s a SOLID game changer for me.

    • @reddiver7293
      @reddiver7293 3 года назад +8

      @@shellycaldeira For me, I would see my drinking like a movie. The beginning part was great, felt wonderful for about 45 minutes to an hour. The rest of the movie was all about everything I did not like about drinking. And I did not feel good at all. Fast forwarding that movie in my head really helped me resist any cravings I had.

  • @ellenreed6299
    @ellenreed6299 4 года назад +1247

    Been sober in AA 27+ years. Never have regretted it. Best decision I’ve ever made. Don’t miss feeling sick, guilty or embarrassed. It’s possible. Don’t give up. One Day at a Time.

    • @Siziusmopul
      @Siziusmopul 4 года назад +12

      Wow that gives me hope.

    • @stevecooper7038
      @stevecooper7038 4 года назад +32

      AA is complete nonsense. It does nothing to address the medical cause of AUD

    • @ellenreed6299
      @ellenreed6299 4 года назад +92

      Nikola Tesla you are correct that AA does not offer medical advice, however millions of recovering people have their lives back due to complete abstinence thru A.A. the proof is in the pudding my dear.

    • @murrumbidgeekid
      @murrumbidgeekid 4 года назад +6

      @@ellenreed6299 not only speaking from beyond the grave (thanks for your inverntions Mr Tesla) but I wonder if he has shares in this treatment style? No one is saying the system outlined doesn't work.. It obviuosly worked for the presenter. AA is another option.

    • @seriousstrawberry3064
      @seriousstrawberry3064 4 года назад +1

      @@stevecooper7038 that is why one must see a psychiatrist

  • @kayceeken5550
    @kayceeken5550 Год назад +339

    Psilocybin saved my life. I was addicted to alcohol for 15 years and after Psilocybin treatment I will be 3 years clean in September. I have zero cravings. This is something that truly needs to be more broadly used in addiction treatment.

    • @KingBright-dc3dl
      @KingBright-dc3dl Год назад +6

      A lot of people have testified about this and I really want to give it a shot. I put so much on my plate and it definitely affects my stress and anxiety levels

    • @BekiLouis
      @BekiLouis Год назад +3

      The Trips I've been having have really helped me a lot,I finally feel in control of my emotions and my future and things that used to be mundane to me now seem incredible and full of nuance on top of that I'm way less driven by my ego and I have alot more empathy as well

    • @KingBright-dc3dl
      @KingBright-dc3dl Год назад +1

      Does mush_pharm ships?

    • @luther350
      @luther350 Год назад

      Shrooms was the best trip I had. It was an amazing experience.

    • @luther350
      @luther350 Год назад +2

      Tripping is not really bad but find a good mycologist Who will teach you the right things you need to know

  • @garisonboy
    @garisonboy 5 лет назад +2337

    Who else is coming off an embarrassing drunken alcoholic binge while watching this

    • @umno925
      @umno925 4 года назад +36

      Day one. Should have taken half the pill because nausea, but on a Saturday, which would have been a full day binge, I basically cut consumption of vodka in half. Go to a doctor cry your eyes out and ask about netroxane. They already knew about it and got cheap rx the next day. 38 yr heavy daily drunker

    • @daniluchison
      @daniluchison 4 года назад +9

      Just start taking the pill.

    • @audreylee2675
      @audreylee2675 4 года назад +31

      I was trying to talk myself out of picking up beer on the drive home

    • @stevendiaz7633
      @stevendiaz7633 4 года назад +9

      Not me, I am writing a paper about Quitting. But I understand coming here after binge drinking

    • @shaggystair9549
      @shaggystair9549 4 года назад +22

      Audrey Lee take a pill... go buy your cold beer! Bet you don’t make it to 3... that is why Naltrexone is so awesome! You drink to undue the drinking... makes AA nuts! Because life is about having an internal argument for the rest of your life every time you pass a liquor store.
      I can’t live like that. I’m too weak.

  • @ryandearmun
    @ryandearmun 8 лет назад +2675

    Alcohol gave me the wings to fly, and then took away the sky

  • @FishGuts92
    @FishGuts92 6 лет назад +1260

    To all those inflicted with alcohol addiction: I am sorry for all those who judge you and I am sorry for the hardships you face to get clean.
    Much love and good luck xo

    • @Marshallmallowlol
      @Marshallmallowlol 6 лет назад +19

      FishGuts92 thank you, this means a lot

    • @elliselite9828
      @elliselite9828 6 лет назад +15

      Thank you love!

    • @nicholas70paul
      @nicholas70paul 6 лет назад +7

      Nice :)

    • @aaronluevano8236
      @aaronluevano8236 6 лет назад +9

      Thank u so much for these words. God bless u.

    • @healthfreak18
      @healthfreak18 6 лет назад +23

      It's rare to hear things like this and what this woman is talking about. Usually people just kick you while you're down and think you're no good if you have an addiction, even after you get sober.

  • @km3710
    @km3710 Год назад +145

    This is the most eloquent and well delivered Ted Talk I have ever seen. I have watched it at least six times today and counting, because it affected me so profoundly. When she said, "Please reach out and help others, be kind, share this message with others," I busted. I have struggled with AUD since I was 18 and have always passed out. I am now 38. I'm on the verge of being written up for my attendance at work, losing my apartment, and losing my job. I'm behind on bills. I have cried and cried and cried all day. Thank God I found rehab and my insurance will cover all but $650 of it. I have tried everything. And I am currently drinking as I write this. I think I've relapsed about 16 times and counting now. I don't know if rehab will work, but at this point I'm desperate. Desperate for answers, desperate for help, desperate for hope. Alcoholism runs on both sides of my family. I have never been able to control it. And I am at the end of my rope. It's either I get help, or I die. I wish more people understood the ins and outs of ANY addiction, and all that it entails. It is the most destructive, hellish problem I have ever had to deal with. I feel so alone and this woman has given me hope.

    • @km3710
      @km3710 Год назад +13

      On my second day of the Sinclair method and I’ve gone from 6 drinks a night to a maximum of 4. And then I’m just not interested anymore like she says in the video. Even that 4th drink I was nursing for a good hour plus. I feel like I have hope again. I will never give up.

    • @zanedietlin7645
      @zanedietlin7645 Год назад +9

      You’re not alone. I’m with you. You can crush it, and so can I. There’s a lot of life to live. Fight the good fight ❤

    • @abhinavsabharwal2324
      @abhinavsabharwal2324 Год назад +3

      Please attend meetings please

    • @carlyeckert4670
      @carlyeckert4670 Год назад +3

      You can do this! I have faith in you. I will keep you in my prayers. 🙏 ❤

    • @marliprice1983
      @marliprice1983 Год назад +3

      One day at a time ❤

  • @uwsgrrl2308
    @uwsgrrl2308 3 года назад +672

    I am celebrating 33 Yrs clean & sober on January 5, 2022. It was the hardest thing I've ever done & it's the best thing I've ever done. I thank AA & my AA buddies for my sobriety.

    • @JustBrian1111
      @JustBrian1111 3 года назад +13

      You also gotta thank yourself. With help, yes. But you did it and keep doing it.

    • @uwsgrrl2308
      @uwsgrrl2308 3 года назад +5

      @@JustBrian1111 thank you

    • @angelagrabill3366
      @angelagrabill3366 2 года назад +28

      Thank you for your comment. I owe my life to AA and AA family too.

    • @TheMarrella
      @TheMarrella 2 года назад +13

      I see no comments thanking drugs for their sobriety,,,me too with AA have been sober 7 and a half years

    • @stevecooper6515
      @stevecooper6515 2 года назад +4

      You clearly don't understand the cause of Alcohol Use Disorder.

  • @kc476
    @kc476 2 года назад +832

    I broke down into sobbing tears when she talked about how they think we need more punishment and to hit "rock bottom" to quit. It's so true, it makes you feel worse when you were already suffering.
    My heart breaks for every human being who has had to endure a soul-crippling addiction of any kind, that it even exists.
    Sending my love and prayers to everyone here. 💙🙏

    • @MARSBELLA1
      @MARSBELLA1 2 года назад +18

      me too - its awful and so cruel. Only we lose faith in EVERYTHING but only the most compassionate stay with us. AA doesnt work for us all and its so annoying they have to come onto a TEDTALK about another method and still go on about it. I drink because I am crippling shy. Thus I cant stand up at meetings and talk about my feelings. I KNOW that AA wont work for me but TSM WILL. We should all have the right to this medication. We can only hope - I pray for all addicts all the time. So few understand it X you are not alone

    • @manthakalyan6343
      @manthakalyan6343 2 года назад +8

      I am going through the same

    • @MinetpX
      @MinetpX 2 года назад +4

      Thank u kc

    • @DrippydaBoss
      @DrippydaBoss 2 года назад +2

      🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @tiaduck9161
      @tiaduck9161 2 года назад +2

      me too! i even made a short about it because it reminds me of my mother!!!

  • @leahevehumphries
    @leahevehumphries 3 года назад +1387

    50 days sober today!! So proud of myself, I never thought I'd be able to do it! I've had some strong cravings this past week but managed to overcome them ☺️✨
    Edit: it is the 26th of November 2022 and I never thought I’d get here again. I am once again 50 days sober!! 😁🥰
    Edit: as of the 15th of January I am 100 DAYS SOBER! Wow that has gone fast, I am so proud of myself! 🥰

    • @Lisa-ov8wx
      @Lisa-ov8wx 3 года назад +5

      Hi Leah hope your still doing well can you point me in the right direction please

    • @leahevehumphries
      @leahevehumphries 3 года назад +22

      @@Lisa-ov8wx :( i am sorry to share this but i am not sober anymore. To be honest it has got worse and now i don't feel right when i don't drink. I really hope I can kick this habit. Life has its ups and downs and I trust myself to get through this and back to the other side. I wish you all the best. We've got this.

    • @leahevehumphries
      @leahevehumphries 3 года назад +9

      @@Lisa-ov8wx thank you so much for commenting by the way. I needed this reminder that I need to get back on track.

    • @marianapopescu753
      @marianapopescu753 3 года назад +6

      Be strong and keep moving forward. You can do it💪🤗

    • @leahevehumphries
      @leahevehumphries 3 года назад +34

      @@marianapopescu753 thank you, 11 days sober now - had my best sober moment ever last week when I saw my friends and ended up at a house party with them and didn't drink anything, even when one of them gave me a bottle of beer and another one offered me cider! (they didn't know I've been having issues, I didn't tell them yet). I am so proud of myself for that. 😍

  • @NativeGnosis
    @NativeGnosis Год назад +49

    This video changed my life. Thanks to this video, I started taking Naltrexone and within a few weeks all cravings for alcohol subsided, and within months I stopped even thinking about alcohol. I'm so grateful for this video and for the work Claudia did to spread this information. Naltrexone gave me back my life.

    • @alisongraham3475
      @alisongraham3475 Год назад

      Where did you get the Naltrexone from please?

    • @NativeGnosis
      @NativeGnosis Год назад +1

      @@alisongraham3475
      I got my first month's prescription from urgent care, then went to my GP for my refill. This enabled me to get the first bottle quickly while I waited for an appointment with the doctor.

    • @Michael-tr7uq
      @Michael-tr7uq Год назад

      ​@@NativeGnosis, thanks for sharing

    • @pamw3163
      @pamw3163 Год назад +2

      They should make it over the counter

    • @Kathy-bz7zx
      @Kathy-bz7zx 5 месяцев назад

      Same.....it saved my life, had to beg my Doctor to prescribe it ....

  • @jerry123456789101112
    @jerry123456789101112 5 лет назад +704

    I hear ya. 13 month coma. Liver psoriasis. Learned how to walk again. Learned how to say my own name. 6..... 6 years out of work. 9 years sober. You can do it.

    • @Dt87pod
      @Dt87pod 5 лет назад +19

      Well done brother

    • @ambermalone4543
      @ambermalone4543 5 лет назад +13

      Wow I'm working on three years. After 45 years of hard drinking my last time I went out it was only for five days, but almost lost my life! My hands and arms don't work. My mouth dot-dot-dot. Don't form words very well. I can't even write my name. And I Stumble and fall all the time. I thank God for a AA in sobriety

    • @mnewt712
      @mnewt712 5 лет назад +3

      jerry123456789101112
      Awesome! 😁🙌🏽

    • @millsykooksy4863
      @millsykooksy4863 5 лет назад

      Damn!

    • @blairedawn8307
      @blairedawn8307 5 лет назад +1

      OMG

  • @moneymikegotuvideos312
    @moneymikegotuvideos312 5 лет назад +645

    I'm at 3 and half weeks no alcohol. Amen thankyou Jesus

    • @lostboi3974
      @lostboi3974 5 лет назад +15

      I'm at 3 and a half years. If you stay the course, your life will be unrecognizable to what it is now. And I mean that in a good way.

    • @moneymikegotuvideos312
      @moneymikegotuvideos312 5 лет назад +6

      @@lostboi3974 thanks much love

    • @carnagedogg4294
      @carnagedogg4294 5 лет назад +4

      @@lostboi3974 TRUE,my psychologist saw me 3 weeks without a drink and still commented how i looked better when i saw him next time ,about 10 weeks with good food and exercise and you are at a good point

    • @lostboi3974
      @lostboi3974 5 лет назад +1

      @@carnagedogg4294 💪😎👍

    • @jarno_r
      @jarno_r 5 лет назад +3

      It better be 4 and a half now boy

  • @udonnomi6958
    @udonnomi6958 3 года назад +548

    I drank daily from age 20 to age 34. Tried to quit several times during those years and once was able to stay sober for 6 months. During those six months, there were intense cravings and a strong desire to drink at nearly all times. One drink ruined that sober period and plunged me back into my habit again. Alcohol absolutely ran my life, every last little thing revolved around my habit.
    To this day I do not know how I stopped drinking. I had resigned myself to my alcoholism and given up on any attempts to quit. One night I was fairly drunk and went to take another sip of whiskey, it tasted bad to me and I poured it out. Haven't had a drink since. It's been 1.5 years and I've had no cravings or desire to drink what so ever.

    • @princillerwilliams9996
      @princillerwilliams9996 3 года назад +12

      I am fed and needs to stop this drinking for good

    • @IamMusicSauce
      @IamMusicSauce 3 года назад +4

      I am so so grateful for these moments

    • @sylviacarlson3561
      @sylviacarlson3561 3 года назад +9

      Udon Nomi - Congratulations Darling! You Did IT!!!!

    • @Fearlessfighter0
      @Fearlessfighter0 2 года назад +6

      did u get any crazy side effects from not drinking?

    • @truejoyvette
      @truejoyvette 2 года назад +1

      So happy to hear this! I am Believing this for my brother & loved ones. ♡ 🙏

  • @evie-annaa808
    @evie-annaa808 2 месяца назад +11

    22 years old and been alcohol free 99 days today. Can’t say it’s been easy at all with my age and friend groups, but being someone who grew up with addict parents damn it does feel good and almost not even real.

    • @pjgarret7653
      @pjgarret7653 2 месяца назад +2

      Hope you are in triple digits now. I had no idea how it is so culturally ingrained it is to drink until I started socializing with a guy trying to avoid alcohol.
      It is really a poison. Wishing you every strength and support to stay off of it.

  • @Sunnydayz2046
    @Sunnydayz2046 5 лет назад +280

    After years of alcoholism I tried naltrexone and I am 1 year sober and am still going strong..it’s taken away all my cravings and I have absolutely no desire to consume alcohol...thank you for this video it really did save my life x

    • @cdunne208
      @cdunne208 4 года назад +2

      Seems expensive. Does insurance cover it?

    • @chrissysmith1198
      @chrissysmith1198 4 года назад +7

      I just picked up my subscription, binge drinker for 15 years here, I have hope 🙏🏻

    • @chrissysmith1198
      @chrissysmith1198 4 года назад +11

      Chris Dunne how expensive is your alcohol and everything else it costs you like missed work ?

    • @ralphealking4071
      @ralphealking4071 4 года назад +2

      Where can I find naltrexone

    • @charlenethompson6406
      @charlenethompson6406 4 года назад +7

      What about the mental and spiritual aspects of your recovery? Can you get that from that pill 😂

  • @aaronguerrero985
    @aaronguerrero985 4 года назад +147

    My sobriety date is Jan 28, 2018. Since then, I've been promoted at work, I've had raises, I got engaged, I got married, I got out of debt, bought a house, made amends to my loved ones, regained everyone's respect, and have become dependable again. Among many MANY other things. I live a disciplined life that I love. I'm not bored either, I LOVE MY LIFE. The blessings are endless. I'd be naive if I said that alcohol and drugs were not the problem. My journey was painful and difficult but believe me when I say that if I can do it, anyone can. Try it. Your life will change, for the better too.

    • @themindhelp9584
      @themindhelp9584 4 года назад +4

      Keep going!!! I am so happy to read your beautiful story!

    • @duncescotus2342
      @duncescotus2342 3 года назад +3

      It's called the grace of God, man. And the prayers of your mom. Jesus, bro. Did you think it was you?

    • @doraho669
      @doraho669 3 года назад +2

      Woow needed to see this

    • @whatwillbem6825
      @whatwillbem6825 3 года назад +1

      Then …there is hope for my 38 year old son…😔

    • @michelleevers5
      @michelleevers5 3 года назад +1

      Thank you for sharing! It gives me so much hope!

  • @angelinehernandez4838
    @angelinehernandez4838 5 лет назад +178

    I have ruined my relationships with people because of alcohol. Thank you for this.

    • @ThePlutonicWay
      @ThePlutonicWay 5 лет назад +1

      I hear you 🙏

    • @ruhiab6390
      @ruhiab6390 5 лет назад +9

      I have done so too.I hate myself more each day for it.The guilt and shame is too much.I have today decided to quit Alcohol.I am tired of not having control over my words and actions hence hurting people that I love and care about.I'll take it one day at a time
      So help me God.

    • @skii7602
      @skii7602 5 лет назад +1

      @@ruhiab6390 same here. Good luck!!

    • @duncescotus2342
      @duncescotus2342 3 года назад +1

      Jesus forgives you completely and holds nothing but open arms to you. Come to him as a child. Hope will not disappoint.

    • @xxyes8879
      @xxyes8879 3 года назад

      @@duncescotus2342 Can JC also prescribe nalmefene? If not, his 'forgiveness' is no good to me.

  • @Brett_trejo11
    @Brett_trejo11 2 месяца назад +98

    I could remember few years back after my wife died, I was left alone with 3 kids. I suffered severe depression and mental disorder. Got addicted to alcohol and cigarettes. Not until a friend recommended me to psilocybin mushrooms treatment. Psilocybin treatment changed my life for better. I can proudly say i'm totally clean for 6 years and still counting. Always look to nature for solution to tough problems, Shrooms are phenomenal.

    • @canerbakar-jv2si
      @canerbakar-jv2si 2 месяца назад

      I love hearing great life changing stories like this. I want to become a mycologist because honestly mushrooms are the best form of medicine (most especially the psychedelic ones) There are so many people today used magic mushrooms to ween off of SSRI medication- its amazing! Years back i wrote an entire essay about psychedelics. they saved you from death buddy, lets be honest here.

    • @Morrisbraga-jm9lc
      @Morrisbraga-jm9lc 2 месяца назад

      Hey mates! Can you help with the source? I suffer severe anxiety, panic and depression and I usually take prescription medicine, but they don't always help. Where can I find those psilocybin mushrooms? I'm really interested in treating my mental health without Rxs. I live in Australia don't know much about these. I'm so glad they helped you. I can't wait to get them too. Really need a reliable source 🙏

    • @DonnDenisse
      @DonnDenisse 2 месяца назад +5

      YES sure of mycologist Predroshrooms. I have the same experience with anxiety, addiction. Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.

    • @LucasRobert-ns3nj
      @LucasRobert-ns3nj 2 месяца назад +1

      Where do I reach this dude? If possible can I find him on Google

    • @TomSanders-qv8bv
      @TomSanders-qv8bv 2 месяца назад +3

      Yes he's Predroshrooms. I know few friends who no longer suffer ptsd and anxiety with the help of shrooms. Never had to take shrooms after then.

  • @Chico11661
    @Chico11661 5 лет назад +374

    This vídeo literally saved my life. Never gonna be able to thank enough for this.

    • @musingsfromthewoodlands
      @musingsfromthewoodlands 5 лет назад +26

      It was your own Response to the info, that saved your life. You give the credit away from yourself, own the credit. You are a powerful being of light, and your own guidance brought you to this point. Eternal blessings

    • @musingsfromthewoodlands
      @musingsfromthewoodlands 5 лет назад +5

      @Falafelpump rosh you done the work friend as did I, even tho I used the same phrase :Miraculous. WE ARE DIVINE 🌱🔥👣

    • @keithnorris8982
      @keithnorris8982 5 лет назад +7

      It's truly such an amazing and simple solution to such a complicated problem.

    • @jorgeluisarmndo
      @jorgeluisarmndo 5 лет назад +5

      @@musingsfromthewoodlandsNot too clear to me; is she still drinking and taking Naltrexone or TSM?

    • @jorgeluisarmndo
      @jorgeluisarmndo 5 лет назад +3

      @@musingsfromthewoodlands Not too clear to me; is she still drinking and taking Naltrexone or TSM?

  • @jlabeautyxo4188
    @jlabeautyxo4188 4 года назад +216

    I’m 46 months sober , ODAAT congratulations 🎊

    • @simoneg4397
      @simoneg4397 4 года назад +1

      Jennifer Leigh Arthur CONGRATS!!!!

    • @konstanting3400
      @konstanting3400 4 года назад +1

      You're star! Congratulations! ❤️

    • @duncescotus2342
      @duncescotus2342 3 года назад

      Quit the counting. Get saved. Jesus loves you. He created you Jennifer. Have you ever created anything? Yeah. I know you know.

    • @duncescotus2342
      @duncescotus2342 3 года назад

      Prayers for Jennifer Leigh. God's love conquers all.

  • @annamorrison3480
    @annamorrison3480 4 года назад +550

    I am starting today, Hoping to never ever ever drink again. Struggling. Fingers crossed for me please!

    • @MRHBUCK
      @MRHBUCK 4 года назад +12

      Be strong Anna! This is my first day sober after relapsing and it feels horrible. Just know that you’re not alone on this journey ❤️

    • @seemad4126
      @seemad4126 4 года назад +3

      Same here.

    • @annamorrison3480
      @annamorrison3480 4 года назад +31

      Starting day number 3! Embarrassed myself yesterday at checkout when I asked the cashier to actually put those three bottles of wine away (she already scanned them) as I changed my mind. The little victories!

    • @torycolvin9500
      @torycolvin9500 4 года назад +8

      @@annamorrison3480 That's a huge victory - I'm starting Day 4. Good for you -- don't be embarrassed - be incredibly proud of yourself for that. You can do it.

    • @codyleonard6948
      @codyleonard6948 4 года назад +6

      Read "control alcohol the easy way" by Allan Carr. The guy is genius

  • @MattsFishingJournal
    @MattsFishingJournal 4 месяца назад +7

    I watched this video 5 years ago and have been sober ever since ! Thank you . Changed my life

    • @annesaevig4688
      @annesaevig4688 4 месяца назад

      Wow! That's amazing! Congratulations!

  • @Llight-qg9tc
    @Llight-qg9tc 5 лет назад +50

    I'm 48hours sober. Stay strong (any one else who struggles) God be with you.

  • @titanimagalasi5139
    @titanimagalasi5139 2 года назад +234

    When she said she drank because she was physically addicted to alcohol and not cause of trauma or a bad life.. it's like she explained my life..

    • @Michael-tr7uq
      @Michael-tr7uq 2 года назад +10

      I do hope you look into this method. It is groundbreaking in my opinion. TSM documentary 'One Little Pill'
      see the right margin in r/Alcoholism_Medication for more TSM resources
      The book by Dr. Roy Eskapa on The Sinclair Method explains this science and is important reading for everyone.

    • @susanfisher3655
      @susanfisher3655 2 года назад +10

      She owned her AUD. Anyone that wants to blame it on something WILL find anything. Until you own it, sobriety will be difficult.

    • @Meat_Waygu
      @Meat_Waygu Год назад +9

      I know I really related to that. so many programs and help for people who have addiction because of past trauma or bad living. Nobody ever believes me when I tell them I'm addicted to alcohol because I enjoy the feeling it gives me not because I have had a bad life. I'd always tell people I drink because I'm happy and I like to and that was the honest truth, even though it doesn't change the fact that I have a problem with alcohol.

    • @stevegilmore3399
      @stevegilmore3399 Год назад +3

      @@Meat_Waygu same here man, so hard to quit

    • @Charan-fs6vh
      @Charan-fs6vh Год назад

      9,m😅😮

  • @ouremberstillburninginside858
    @ouremberstillburninginside858 4 года назад +848

    turns out by the comments nobody is here by accident, everyone was looking for this

    • @fadiyassine6257
      @fadiyassine6257 4 года назад +11

      4 days now. I don’t even know how I found this video.

    • @silkegehtyoutubegarnichtsa892
      @silkegehtyoutubegarnichtsa892 4 года назад +3

      Let's say, you either have drunken alcoholic beverages at some time in your life, or you are an abstainer forever! Seems that's the reason! I'm not making light of it though, but if there's one thing I have, it's anti-triggers, odd.

    • @mirandadouglas2119
      @mirandadouglas2119 4 года назад +2

      Me..lol

    • @mohittiwari28
      @mohittiwari28 4 года назад +12

      True, for its day 1.
      Just pray for me.

    • @NatiLite
      @NatiLite 4 года назад +6

      This comment gave me chills

  • @betsybauer7340
    @betsybauer7340 Год назад +2

    12 step programs, doing the work and a spiritual awakening has kept me sober for 8 1/2 years

  • @rubyandkenny
    @rubyandkenny 4 года назад +115

    I was an alcoholic for twenty years of my life, it took a severe overdose where I almost died for the penny to drop for me, I said to myself I am not doing this anymore to myself and I am proudly five years sober, I did it all on my own, with willpower and the love of God xxx

    • @duncescotus2342
      @duncescotus2342 3 года назад +5

      Proudly sober. Willpower. God. One of these three things deserves praise. What is the penny drop? You are lovely and unique. God is with you/

    • @anti-ethniccleansing465
      @anti-ethniccleansing465 3 года назад +2

      @@duncescotus2342
      You know you can look up the expression on the internet? Lol.

    • @gypsyfiresign1064
      @gypsyfiresign1064 3 года назад +4

      Willpower is so 7nderrated. Our minds literally manifest our reality. That and surrendering your will to our Lord Jesus Christ can work miracles. I'm hoping these two powerhouses work for me

    • @sylviacarlson3561
      @sylviacarlson3561 3 года назад

      Sinead Brophy - That is Wonderful! How are you today love?

    • @Mark-pp7jy
      @Mark-pp7jy 3 года назад +2

      @@gypsyfiresign1064 For the chronic alcoholic, "willpower" is an illusion. All the willpower in the world, won't change my genetic composition. I have a physical allergy to alcohol, and intellectual prowess will never cure me.

  • @morganmiklus1288
    @morganmiklus1288 3 года назад +355

    Randomly came upon this Tedx. I have been on Naltrexone for 7 months now after departing from treatment and my life and drinking habits have ultimately changed, so drastically that it's like a rebirth. Loved this video.

    • @Michael-tr7uq
      @Michael-tr7uq 3 года назад +7

      Congrats Morgan !

    • @rmazzy1230
      @rmazzy1230 3 года назад +12

      I just started them Monday. Good luck to you...

    • @ritabrito5040
      @ritabrito5040 3 года назад +4

      Any side effects? I take anxiety medication, and wonder if I can take it.

    • @Michael-tr7uq
      @Michael-tr7uq 3 года назад +5

      @@ritabrito5040 , most people have no side effects. TSMers recommend starting with 25mg for a few weeks with food and water, before going to 50mg.

    • @ritabrito5040
      @ritabrito5040 3 года назад +1

      @@Michael-tr7uq but I take anxiety medication. Don't know if they are compatible.

  • @clammymccockleshell6075
    @clammymccockleshell6075 4 года назад +74

    To everyone who has commented on this video, I am rooting for you. I am sorry you struggle. I have faith in you and your strength. Good luck

    • @duncescotus2342
      @duncescotus2342 3 года назад

      Bad place to put your faith. Try the savior. But you have a soft heart. And that will never fail. So I commend you and say that God hears you for sure. Try not to take this the wrong way. I hope you understand. In other words, the strength comes from God through Jesus.

  • @Conrad6900
    @Conrad6900 2 года назад +135

    I choose to become sober full time, what made me choose to make a turn around was the fact that it was affecting my life around me & especially my grandmother, she told me “turn things around or throw your life away to that stuff”, so I chose to take it to heart & stop drinking altogether in order to better myself & I’m a recovering alcoholic, I’m proud to say that “alcohol will never touch my lips ever again, I’m pro life for myself & for the better of better opportunities for myself”!
    First official commitment date: 12/01/2022 ❤🙏🏻💪🏻

    • @jamestaylor9537
      @jamestaylor9537 2 года назад +18

      I’m starting today 12/2/22, I’ve had enough of this. No one understands except the good people here. I pray for all of you and I love all of you.

    • @jerrylumpy5141
      @jerrylumpy5141 2 года назад +6

      Yeahhh,🎉🔥🤩. Happy for you.

    • @jerrylumpy5141
      @jerrylumpy5141 2 года назад +14

      @@jamestaylor9537 you can do it. I stop for years and then start. Spent more time not drinking then drinking. But, drinking makes me so unhappy. Bad decisions and with binge drinking. Tomorrow is 6 months sober. Feel great.

    • @shadowfox_117
      @shadowfox_117 2 года назад +5

      Good Job C A, never look back.

    • @shadowfox_117
      @shadowfox_117 2 года назад +6

      @@jamestaylor9537 you can do it, at least you did the most important thing acknowledging and now taking action...you can do it, my friend!

  • @swst
    @swst 5 лет назад +142

    I went to AA in 97 & thanks to the people there, my sponsor, family, friends & “The Man Upstairs” I haven’t had a drink since.

    • @jimogrady1131
      @jimogrady1131 4 года назад +3

      dave moore Those AA people are so Friendly & helpful. I had the worst time drinking 10 years & never built up a Tolerance 4-5 sips I was Buzzed. I think it had to do with me being only 5'6" Tall

    • @stevecooper7038
      @stevecooper7038 4 года назад +1

      @@jimogrady1131 AA is bollocks & does nothing to address the medical cause of AUD

    • @52andattitude48
      @52andattitude48 4 года назад +1

      Nikola Tesla Why thank you for your unsolicited input Mr. Tesla

    • @murrumbidgeekid
      @murrumbidgeekid 4 года назад +3

      1986 and counting.. :)

    • @Funnyhilarioustube
      @Funnyhilarioustube 4 года назад

      There's no man upstairs there's a man right there

  • @josephpasquarella878
    @josephpasquarella878 5 лет назад +219

    Keys to quitting: find a more constructive hobby to fill the void, and do not take your friends and family seriously when they say “it’s ok to have just a couple”. Know that deep down almost everyone wishes they can quit like you did, and that you are doing something special and honorable by staying sober!

    • @ProactiveResilience
      @ProactiveResilience 4 года назад +1

      Thank you. (:

    • @tensegritywill
      @tensegritywill 4 года назад +6

      Very well said. AA tells you to drop the ego but I believe a little healthy pride can keep you going.

    • @bencarter3166
      @bencarter3166 3 года назад +4

      I can put it down for weeks at a time. But once I take that first pop the party is on. Best path to success is abstinence. Don't bargain with the booze as you'll lose every time.

    • @shanthilal6360
      @shanthilal6360 3 года назад +1

      Please try alcoholic anonymous meeting, really it works... Iam sober for 4 years

    • @Mark-pp7jy
      @Mark-pp7jy 3 года назад +1

      Recovering from a fatal condition requires more than a hobby. It's called living to good purpose on a daily basis!

  • @robertwiegman1
    @robertwiegman1 5 лет назад +483

    I'm an alcoholic too and I've been sober now for 7 years :)

  • @kenjimiwa3739
    @kenjimiwa3739 5 месяцев назад +2

    This woman has a lot of courage for sharing her story so publicly.

  • @annaburtenheim5310
    @annaburtenheim5310 5 лет назад +323

    11months in 5 days. no drugs, no rehab, no friends, no AA. its been 6 years of alcohoism. and i had my first birthday without alcohol since i was 16. im now a 23 year old sober person.

  • @LaurieSomma
    @LaurieSomma 3 года назад +158

    So powerful. I am 24 years sober from drugs and 4 years sober from alcohol. I almost let 2021 get the best of my sobriety but I DIDN'T!! Being sober is the best gift I have ever given myself.

    • @Michael-tr7uq
      @Michael-tr7uq 3 года назад +2

      Bravo!

    • @chrissparks3254
      @chrissparks3254 2 года назад

      Yes! Wel said. Sobriety is definitely an amazing gift. 4-2-17

    • @davisholman8149
      @davisholman8149 2 года назад +1

      👏🏼 So admirable!

    • @LaurieSomma
      @LaurieSomma 2 года назад

      @@davisholman8149 Thank you so much!

    • @wineasy9002
      @wineasy9002 2 года назад

      Congratulations Laurie. Hope you doing well in your life. 🙌

  • @sandrawilson9852
    @sandrawilson9852 5 лет назад +74

    We drink until we get tired of being sick. God bless you dear!

  • @n00dles78
    @n00dles78 Год назад +7

    I came across this video 7 months ago after hitting rock bottom. I got naltrexone shortly after. It has changed my life. Thank you, I really mean it.

    • @Michael-tr7uq
      @Michael-tr7uq Год назад +1

      Congrats for finding TSM, understanding how it could help you and then getting the job done.

  • @bradleylatham8184
    @bradleylatham8184 4 года назад +260

    I have literally lost everything and was recently diagnosed with multiple skin cancers. Alcohol Use Disorder is a progressive killer. For everyone who has this monster on their back, lets pray together.

    • @duncescotus2342
      @duncescotus2342 3 года назад +12

      Skin cancer is being healed by the power of Jesus Christ. Nice guy. He really is.

    • @reddiver7293
      @reddiver7293 3 года назад +5

      Bradley, I have had many skin cancers. Any non-melanoma can be treated quite well and a full recovery is possible. And today can be one day you don't drink. Get to a meeting, brother. You can do this!

    • @bradleylatham8184
      @bradleylatham8184 3 года назад +5

      @@reddiver7293 Thanks for your vote of confidence.

    • @bradleylatham8184
      @bradleylatham8184 3 года назад +1

      @Branislav Malikovic YUP, because the sickness industry is in full swing.

    • @sylviacarlson3561
      @sylviacarlson3561 3 года назад +2

      Bradley, how are you love? Please let me know. I care!

  • @ladylibra3404
    @ladylibra3404 6 лет назад +494

    I had been battling alcoholism since my early 20s and I never wanted to take Naltrexone cause I thought I could do it myself ha! When I got to the VA hospital I was offered it again I took it and have been sober 8 years and counting 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @hownottobeanasshole5675
      @hownottobeanasshole5675 6 лет назад +2

      Congrats!

    • @ryanburr5948
      @ryanburr5948 5 лет назад +5

      Got some input on monthly/yearly cost of Naltrexone, Lady Libra? I'm living in China as an English teacher. Wanting to take action.

    • @ladylibra3404
      @ladylibra3404 5 лет назад +1

      Ryan Burr when I looked up the price it said about $50 for 30 days but I don't know what that dosage is I started at I think 50mg or 75mg the first year and weened off the second year be blessed 💫💫💫

    • @ryanburr5948
      @ryanburr5948 5 лет назад +3

      @@ladylibra3404 cool. advice for a Website for purchase? Again, I'm living in China for now

    • @michaelheery7427
      @michaelheery7427 5 лет назад

      @@ryanburr5948 how you now?

  • @MatthewCavalieri
    @MatthewCavalieri 3 года назад +124

    This speech changed my life forever! Going on 2 years sober . I never could have imagined this before I found tsm . Not only did I quit for good but it was easy . Thanks again Cluadia .

    • @Michael-tr7uq
      @Michael-tr7uq 3 года назад +6

      Way to go Matthew. The science of this method is rock solid. Spread the word.

    • @TheMarrella
      @TheMarrella 2 года назад +2

      How do you actually know after 2 years that you are no longer an addict?,,

    • @luco-games
      @luco-games Год назад

      @@TheMarrella you are addict your whole life. But sober addict.

    • @BarbaraatQueensAvenueTarot
      @BarbaraatQueensAvenueTarot Год назад +1

      @@TheMarrella When you don't want a drink you're no longer an addict.

  • @rololoy2
    @rololoy2 Год назад +44

    I decided to become sober after years of alcohol abuse when one day I woke up at noon , with a terrible hangover and suddenly realized that I was 36 years old and I haven’t accomplished anything good in my life. It was a wake up call for me so I needed to change.

    • @PeterSelie001
      @PeterSelie001 7 месяцев назад +1

      How's it going now?

    • @MJ-ct3gv
      @MJ-ct3gv 3 месяца назад

      How are you? I hope you are doing better.

  • @jacksputrid
    @jacksputrid 4 года назад +73

    “That’s just a billboard” every drinker here felt that.

  • @richardgadberry8398
    @richardgadberry8398 4 года назад +210

    Last drop I had was back in '94. 26 years sober.

    • @thomaspartington8526
      @thomaspartington8526 4 года назад +1

      Wow man what an achievement . Well done 👍

    • @richardgadberry8398
      @richardgadberry8398 4 года назад

      @@thomaspartington8526 Thanks.

    • @thehomeboidrew8570
      @thehomeboidrew8570 3 года назад +1

      @@richardgadberry8398 I was born in 94 so that’s just insane to picture someone being sober that long lol Happy for you though!

    • @rudyferrell
      @rudyferrell 3 года назад

      How did you do it?

    • @yome6132
      @yome6132 3 года назад

      You are a strong man

  • @laceyj311
    @laceyj311 6 лет назад +257

    AA saved my life. I tried absolutly everything to stop and nothing worked. It took me a few tries because I wasn't willing enough. I use to couldnt go a day without drinking. My sobriety date is 11/15/16

    • @herculewayne106
      @herculewayne106 6 лет назад +16

      AA works great for some people, Lacey. I'm grateful that it worked well for you. The mistake is in thinking that if it works well for one, it will work for everyone.

    • @merijn1902
      @merijn1902 5 лет назад +3

      Still sober?

    • @cathykidd6688
      @cathykidd6688 5 лет назад +3

      Glad it worked for you - but AA only has 5 - 8 % success rate.

    • @MrAxegrinder
      @MrAxegrinder 5 лет назад +4

      Cathy Kidd unfortunately you can’t measure the success rate of AA because not everyone that gets sober in AA will stay in AA. There’s no way of knowing.

    • @Grimenoughtomaketherobotcry
      @Grimenoughtomaketherobotcry 5 лет назад +13

      There's no way of knowing if AA "works" because AA does not keep statistics, but also, as it is a spiritual programme, asking if it "works" is like asking if Catholicism or Judaism or Taoism "works". It works for those who desire to stay sober so much that they are willing to surrender their need to drink/use to their higher power on a daily basis, find a sponsor to work the steps with, and go to meetings regularly. And if that sounds like too much work for some people, then I guess AA won't "work" for them.

  • @Selandry1
    @Selandry1 3 месяца назад +4

    Thanks. I’m an older ER doctor and this is news to me. You have inspired me and I will do more research into this method and can hopefully help more people like yourself.

  • @ryanmcneila1957
    @ryanmcneila1957 4 года назад +133

    34 days clean. Brother overdosed and passed away 37 days ago. Good luck to us all.

    • @nektariosvasilopoulos3841
      @nektariosvasilopoulos3841 4 года назад +6

      Sorry for your loss. Good luck.

    • @TheBubblybobby
      @TheBubblybobby 4 года назад +5

      Yep my brother passed away at 39 from an alcoholic seizure and i took more seizures then him AA and good help saved my life 14 years sober ! And i feel like i'm on holidays with the things i went through on the friggin stuff ! :)

    • @tobyf4910
      @tobyf4910 4 года назад +4

      Ryan Mcneila: You gotta be willing to stop... It's not booze you gotta stop, it's the constant little voice in your head saying ''Just one more'' It's ALL psychological!!

    • @jessidipz1718
      @jessidipz1718 4 года назад +4

      Stay strong 😇

    • @antoinettenovella1630
      @antoinettenovella1630 3 года назад +2

      Sorry to hear that Ryan. May he rest in peace. May you keep your's

  • @austinjones592
    @austinjones592 7 лет назад +82

    I love this woman!! She inspired me to overcome my dangerous addiction with a family of four. The monster isn't in control anymore, I am! Thank you Claudia for saving my life!

    • @angelfortruth12
      @angelfortruth12 6 лет назад +3

      Austin Jones she is a godsend. I’m never been more grateful. I’m tracking my journey through RUclips.

  • @pablpfanque
    @pablpfanque 7 лет назад +1076

    Alcohol. Worst drug ever.

    • @herculewayne106
      @herculewayne106 7 лет назад +40

      It's a freakin' hideous drug.

    • @kerryarmstrong2876
      @kerryarmstrong2876 6 лет назад +17

      Xanax is probably worse

    • @bitmx
      @bitmx 6 лет назад

      No.

    • @peteryyz43
      @peteryyz43 6 лет назад +2

      @Espada: "tobaco"..What's that?: Is it more addictive than Tobacco?

    • @brianoneill2776
      @brianoneill2776 6 лет назад +3

      @@TheAnswersAreWithin alcohol is s depressant..it depresses the central nervous system

  • @wuzzgoinon3674
    @wuzzgoinon3674 8 дней назад +1

    Good luck to everyone going through the same struggles. We’re all rooting for you!

    • @walter3433
      @walter3433 8 дней назад

      I'm not. Drunks have great stories

  • @jonwick5824
    @jonwick5824 5 лет назад +60

    The 13th of this month I'll have 14 months. God has overflowed my cup with blessings and I'm coming around to enjoying myself in Alcoholics Anonymous. God bless everyone who are or want to get sober.

    • @jonwick5824
      @jonwick5824 5 лет назад +4

      @depressionbeatdown The pink cloud wears off and you start to come back down to reality. Life can get routine and a bit boring and the 'newness' so to speak wears thin. Personally, as many others in recovery would agree, it's really always what you make of it. My 2nd year is fantastic as I'm living life on it's own terms and I'm just now getting a bit more control over my thoughts and emotions. I actually enjoy the growth that sobriety has given me and I hope every day gets that much better! I have a new sponsor as I'm really wanting to get into the steps (as opposed to sort of kind of going through the motions) I'm getting a better spiritual connection with God, and likely one of the best things is that I don't hate people the way I used to. I'm a bit more open minded and patient (I said a bit lol!)and have a tad bit more humility.

    • @billmoyer3254
      @billmoyer3254 4 года назад

      AA has a low single digit success rate

    • @jonwick5824
      @jonwick5824 4 года назад

      @@billmoyer3254 Thanks, God bless!

    • @thetruthk5138
      @thetruthk5138 4 года назад

      @@billmoyer3254 Think through before you post Every treatment program has low success because as at my home group which I have been attending for seven years because the majority of individuals do not want to put the work in to get/stay sober .
      Many people want to do what they want Alcohol/Drug abuse but without suffering the consequences of their actions that's the fact of the situation.
      Like most things in life relationships fiance etc etc. You get out of life what you put in if you put nothing in you get nothing out FACT God Bless AA it continues to help and turn life's around.

  • @daveclarke60
    @daveclarke60 5 лет назад +190

    I got sober with AA ...28 years sober just for today...I hope everybody gets well soon

    • @BigWill2k
      @BigWill2k 4 года назад +5

      and no radical drugs needed

    • @shirleyandfrankfrye9696
      @shirleyandfrankfrye9696 4 года назад +3

      Well done Theresa. I am coming up for 32 yrs sober. AA helped me remain sober, up until today

    • @natbarron
      @natbarron 4 года назад +7

      I’m 3 days sober - wish me luck

    • @emresaka4934
      @emresaka4934 4 года назад

      @@natbarron how is going dude?

    • @dole4002
      @dole4002 4 года назад +1

      I am always happy to hear from people that have experienced success with AA. Unfortunately you would be the outliers. Most studies have shown anywhere from a 5 - 12 % success rate .Personally working the steps for over a year and even attending multiple meeting points other than my home group did absolutely nothing for me. On the contrary many of the leads I heard similar to mine made me want to drink even more. The constant theme of alcohol at every meeting just made it harder and harder to stay away for good. Currently using alternative methods. 10 months in and I am feeling much more confident about my sobriety. Anyhow, gratz to all and keep at it.

  • @MrJKnowsBest
    @MrJKnowsBest 6 лет назад +208

    Watched this video yesterday morning, started researching naltraxone, and began crying as I read people's reviews because I've got the beast too. Not many understand the beast unless you have it. I found an online doctor consultation and had a prescription in 4 hours. Last night was the first time I didn't dwell on alcohol mentally in years. I think I've found my savior, and hopefully just in time to save my family. Thank you for this video...

    • @herculewayne106
      @herculewayne106 6 лет назад +6

      Awesome! Congratulations Jason and come visit us at the Options Save Lives forum or the Alcohol_Medication subreddit on Reddit! The community has plenty of good support as well as some tricks and tips for you. Nota Bene, TSM can be very up and down, especially at the beginning (there's often a "Honeymoon" effect). Have a look at Embodied Daily's videos here too (her name is Katie), she's got some great info too!

    • @dianafales7563
      @dianafales7563 6 лет назад

      Jason, please share where you had an online consultation, I know someone who needs this desperately but think they will not go to a doctor in person. Thank you.

    • @MrJKnowsBest
      @MrJKnowsBest 6 лет назад +5

      @@dianafales7563 honestly I just googled naltrexone doctors near me and it gave a list of physicians that could do phone referrals. You should be able to find one that is taking clients in your state by doing the same. Some can only work in certain states.

    • @dianafales7563
      @dianafales7563 6 лет назад +2

      Jason Stout thanks!

    • @soph5097
      @soph5097 6 лет назад +13

      I took my husband to the doc. And i directly ask for him to perscribed the Naltrexone medicine; my husband is finally alcohol free for 7 days. Our relationship was on verge of breaking apart due to alcoholism.

  • @jortiz0911ify
    @jortiz0911ify 2 года назад +37

    Im on my journey of sobriety . . . It’s only been 3 days and I’m praying to god for help to overcome this disease . . . I thought I had it under control but through my blindness it controlled me. I don’t have much money to do all the fancy stuff . . . But I’m not gonna give up I know god has more for me in my life. Keep me in your prayers. . . Thanx to all

    • @timburdsey
      @timburdsey 2 года назад +4

      You’ve got this, my friend. I believe in you and I know you can do it. Sending love from London.

    • @jortiz0911ify
      @jortiz0911ify 2 года назад +1

      @@timburdsey thank you my friend . . . God bless you

    • @liammorley6727
      @liammorley6727 2 года назад +2

      @@jortiz0911ify I hope you're doing well Jesus. You've got this brother, let me know how it's going

    • @GeoffreyGuenther
      @GeoffreyGuenther Год назад

      I'll ask the people at my church tomorrow to pray for you. [DONE!]
      I can tell you with certainty that it IS a condition, not a moral failing.
      Your brain is fine, but it was adapted for 30,000 BC, before wine and beer were invented. Don't drink alcohol.

    • @dermothenley2663
      @dermothenley2663 Год назад

      Take it day by day!

  • @peaceannie
    @peaceannie 5 лет назад +616

    I can't drink cause the next day I feel depressed. Not worth it.

    • @lnpiparo
      @lnpiparo 5 лет назад +81

      That's exactly how I felt not to mention crushing anxiety accompanied by guilt. I was so worried about what I said the night before and if anyone could tell that I acted tipsy.

    • @natw5040
      @natw5040 5 лет назад +31

      i feel so anxious the next day

    • @cynthiamarston2208
      @cynthiamarston2208 5 лет назад +7

      Exactly plus the depressing yucky day lasts like forever and getting anything done just doesn’t happen. No wonder I ended up drinking again to escape all that and daily for years! Looking back I don’t know how I did that. Sometimes I think of the waste of my life and feel bad but it...darn bad!

    • @yaomang08
      @yaomang08 5 лет назад +16

      Same here I felt worried for no reason the next day along with guilt and depression

    • @alexallen6286
      @alexallen6286 5 лет назад +54

      As an alcoholic, I kind of see drinking as borrowing happiness from tomorrow. Sad part is you can never get out of debt.

  • @stevepalmer3160
    @stevepalmer3160 2 года назад +46

    You may have just literally saved my life. Thank you ma'am. I am grateful to you .

  • @kennywally
    @kennywally 4 года назад +50

    This is incredible. She is so smart. I was a drinker -- 10-15 drinks per week. I just stopped about a year ago. Got sick of being hungover and wasting time. Alcohol is a waste of time. And it can really get a hold on some people. I admire this woman for sharing her incredible story.

    • @nadiafedorova3438
      @nadiafedorova3438 2 года назад +2

      1000% , man. Alcohol is a waste of time and a waste of life. How are you doing now?

    • @westcoastorbust2462
      @westcoastorbust2462 2 года назад

      Are you still sober?

    • @kennywally
      @kennywally 2 года назад

      @@nadiafedorova3438 doing well thx!

  • @jeffkamen703
    @jeffkamen703 9 месяцев назад +2

    I saw this video soon after it was posted, a couple thousand views. I have never had more than one drink since I first saw it. Now, I haven't had a drink in years! My goal is not abstinence, but I am never interested in drinking. Maybe one day... Thanks Claudia for spreading the word about TSM

  • @meechelle
    @meechelle 3 года назад +144

    I’m 1 year , 9 months 15 days and 6 hours sober this very minute that I’m writing this. I keep track and I’m proud of that sh*t! I focus on all the benefits of my sobriety and I changed my life by distancing myself from some and staying out of certain environments where alcohol is the center attraction.

    • @thintwin48
      @thintwin48 3 года назад +2

      Sigh...living in a large city in France ...definitively...qualifies as one of those "certain environments"! Bravo to you and continued sobriety success to you!

    • @sylviacarlson3561
      @sylviacarlson3561 3 года назад +2

      Cara, what helped you? Can you share with us please?

    • @Mark-pp7jy
      @Mark-pp7jy 3 года назад +2

      @@sylviacarlson3561 One thing Cara said, was that she focuses on the benefits of sobriety. She is most certainly on the right path. I tried to quit drinking 500 times, and failed at them all. Why? Because I was focused on the alcohol, instead of focusing on changing me. "Drinking is but a symptom", and NOT the root problem. The last 27 years of continuous sobriety have been the greatest years of my life!

    • @stonewall45
      @stonewall45 3 года назад

      Congratulations! Stay strong.

    • @reddiver7293
      @reddiver7293 2 года назад

      You rock, Cara!

  • @janebennett71
    @janebennett71 6 лет назад +36

    Naltrexone has changed my life; no alcohol cravings, I can take it or leave. Thank you Claudia for powerfully explaining how and why this works; it truly has for me......

    • @darby_hudson
      @darby_hudson 4 года назад

      it didnt work for me... it was a placebo

  • @jkovenski
    @jkovenski 6 лет назад +146

    Whatever helps you stop, I'm all for it. Alcohol has ruined so many people. I'm in recovery and I stand with and pray for all of my brothers and sisters in the struggle... keep fighting!

    • @herculewayne106
      @herculewayne106 6 лет назад +2

      Thanks for being open minded, jkovenski! It's a tough one to kill, but together we will prevail. If you run into someone that doesn't seem to do well with strict abstinence (they relapse and binge drink), tell them about The Sinclair Method.

    • @herculewayne106
      @herculewayne106 6 лет назад +4

      You can certainly offer it, but don't assume that if they didn't succeed before that they didn't do the steps "right". The 12 steps offer no guarantee of sobriety and such programs are simply a poor fit for many. Of course, when most leave the program within 90 days and only about 10% of those who remain are able to stay sober for 5 years, you might do better to be aware of other treatments and encourage them to find an adjunct that offers them a better chance. That alone would be the biggest improvement AA has ever seen. But to insist that the sole determination of whether or not they did the steps right or whether they "want to be sober" is years of continuous sobriety speaks more of blind belief and rhetoric than it does of delivering concrete results. TSM offers a success rate of about 80%, why not pull people aside, review their progress and say (for instance) "Jake, you've been through the steps 3 times and your relapses seem to be getting worse. Have a look at this video and talk to your doctor about it. It may well help you. If it doesn't, there are other treatments that will. We'll be here for you all along the way in any case."
      No, you say that since a few managed to get sober the AA way that it's the only best and true solution for *everyone* and everyone that fails simply didn't want to get sober, which is AA's biggest mistake and a huge flaw in the doctrine of strict abstinence. And that doctrine has been around for centuries before AA. For most, it has not brought relief. For most, it has at best offered only stigma.

    • @susiewilliams4134
      @susiewilliams4134 6 лет назад

      jkovenski l

    • @rnagel54
      @rnagel54 6 лет назад

      Hercule Wayne Was

    • @just4me2
      @just4me2 5 лет назад

      Thank you

  • @tightlines5572
    @tightlines5572 3 месяца назад +2

    Everyone struggling, keep your heads up! I'm a veteran with mental health issues but six and a half years sober. It's the best decision I ever made and will never drink again. I believe nobody will quit until 14:25 they are ready themselves and are willing to take the proper steps. One day I woke up and said I was done and that was it. Never went to meetings or AA, I had hit my rock bottom and knew I had to change to be the man I knew I was capable of being. If you truly want to change, you must make that decision within and for yourself, not for others! Not everyone can go cold turkey as I did and it can be medically dangerous as well. Look into the options that you think works best with your personality and character,only you can make these decisions for yourself.

  • @tracyorn3521
    @tracyorn3521 6 лет назад +177

    I'm so glad this treatment is helping people. For me, AA has been the answer for 13 years and the monster is gone for me too!

    • @herculewayne106
      @herculewayne106 6 лет назад +4

      That's fantastic, Tracy! Congratulations!!

    • @heatheroutlaw2989
      @heatheroutlaw2989 6 лет назад +13

      yay AA I have 13 years too!

    • @tracyorn3521
      @tracyorn3521 6 лет назад +3

      @@heatheroutlaw2989 What Miracles we are!! Congrats!

    • @GabrielSonde
      @GabrielSonde 6 лет назад +16

      Im 10 years sober in AA, really glad to have received a new life too, and not very big fan of treatments that a “drug” is needed. Im very grateful to admited my powerless and surrend my life to a greater power. Best wishs to Sinclair method, anyways

    • @helengibson8196
      @helengibson8196 5 лет назад +3

      Can you please tell me...does the impulse to want to drink ever go away?

  • @kindachill
    @kindachill 4 года назад +172

    Bless this talk. Starting on my journey to recovery as I turn 27.

    • @liselottenormannsrensen7867
      @liselottenormannsrensen7867 4 года назад

      Respect 💕

    • @mikestwinsky7358
      @mikestwinsky7358 4 года назад +2

      Lets do this together. Iam starting today

    • @ana-bananainca790
      @ana-bananainca790 3 года назад +3

      I began my descent into addiction at 28. I’m now 47 and once again newly sober wondering where my vigor for living beauty and youth went. Don’t be me.

    • @sammyjamjars
      @sammyjamjars 3 года назад

      I'm 28 and started Naltrexone treatments last year. It's just as great as she says it is. Ask your doctor about a script.

    • @spencerleftie4262
      @spencerleftie4262 3 года назад +1

      How’s the recovery going?

  • @hangsambo12
    @hangsambo12 8 лет назад +308

    I have gone cold turkey and am 4 months sober today. I was a daily vodka drinker for ten years.

    • @hangsambo12
      @hangsambo12 8 лет назад

      +Drumguy What are u on about?

    • @hangsambo12
      @hangsambo12 8 лет назад

      ***** Oh, OK. That's nice. Thanks for the support.

    • @hangsambo12
      @hangsambo12 8 лет назад +9

      ***** Why are you such an expert here? I've been to two rehabs, lost my job for drinking in work and been hospitalised numerous times. You don't like to see someone doing well? I'm still young.

    • @hangsambo12
      @hangsambo12 8 лет назад +4

      Oh, I see, you're a more qualified alcoholic? Your a hateful person and I think it is you who is the dry drunk.

    • @hangsambo12
      @hangsambo12 8 лет назад +4

      You goaded me into saying what has happened tho me by saying 'you don't need support'. I had to defend myself to a snob like yourself.As for bragging, I believe I mentioned a job and entering hospital. You however, have to one up or rather, million dollar that up, with your night club and three homes. As for stepwork, here's the age old AA fundamentalist, throwing rhetoric and bias at someone who believes they can achieve sobriety a different way. AA is not for everyone.You're bitter, still and a dry drunk, who can't empathise with someone trying to achieve the same goal, but by different means. Crawl back under your narrow minded rock and leave the people who want to actually do good alone.

  • @paulchristian1094
    @paulchristian1094 5 лет назад +10

    My doctor calls me one of his miracle patients. 15 years sober. Now President of 300 unit Condominium. Yet a non-owner. How? I kept coming back. Drinking. AA meeting. The old man smiled. Said "Keep coming back". The sayings are embedded in my mind. Haven't been to a meeting in 12 years. Still part of me. Thank you all who helped me. Good, genuine friends now. Happier now than i have been in 30 years. I still miss my children though.

    • @duncescotus2342
      @duncescotus2342 3 года назад

      Jesus is going to restore your family. But you must cast out the spirit that holds you.

  • @dancelovehubdancelovehub3523
    @dancelovehubdancelovehub3523 4 года назад +19

    Inspiring Ted talk. I'm 10 years sober and still like to watch video's like this one to remind myself to never slip back

  • @merridian74
    @merridian74 6 лет назад +133

    My bf, the love of my life, has AUD. I've watched him, helplessly, until we discovered TSM & Naltrexone. It wasn't a quick fix, but it did work, and he felt the effects with the first pill. As of writing this comment, it's been a year since that first pill. He was able to give up his vodka about 6 month into the process and our lives have become normal. No more binging. It's truly a miracle we happened upon this information. May it help you and your loved ones, too! Thank you for this video Claudia!

    • @Michael-tr7uq
      @Michael-tr7uq 6 лет назад +4

      Congratulations. Another TSM success story!

    • @jascintarebello3234
      @jascintarebello3234 5 лет назад

      Please tell me what does TSM stand for

    • @tinab612
      @tinab612 5 лет назад +1

      Thank God! I hope my bf can reach this success too!

    • @markrodgers4615
      @markrodgers4615 5 лет назад

      Jascinta Rebello the Sinclair method

    • @davidperry343
      @davidperry343 5 лет назад +1

      How can i get more info on this?

  • @clingyants
    @clingyants Год назад +14

    I did the Sinclair method. It is a miracle for me. First 3 weeks my alcohol consumption was reduced by 70% with more and more craving free days without alcohol. Thank you Claudia for stepping up.

    • @Hermitgirl2
      @Hermitgirl2 Год назад

      How are you doing? I am exactly 3 months on TSM and drinking daily but always in compliance with naltrexone. I had my first sober day today without cravings today. I will only drink if I take the medication first. I want extinction.

    • @clingyants
      @clingyants Год назад +1

      @@Hermitgirl2
      Hey there! After a month, feeling good! I usually have 4-5 days without wanting a drink, and then there's one day when I get cravings with less drinking than before. Also I can stop the drinking when I still have alcohol when it's a must. I've also noticed while resisted an urge, that the cravings only last about 1 hour instead of the 5-6 hours like it used to be. Progress! 🌟 Don't give up! Keep going! Our body must be different, you must have drank way more than me, I assume thats why it takes more time for you for the progress.

    • @Michael-tr7uq
      @Michael-tr7uq Год назад

      Awesome !!

    • @NativeGnosis
      @NativeGnosis Год назад

      @@Hermitgirl2 Extinction will come! Keep up with your compliance. Compliance is key.

    • @clingyants
      @clingyants 2 месяца назад

      @@Hermitgirl2 It took 2 tries, and I am completely clean since 4th of July, 2024. That is more than 4 months by now. Thank you David Sinclair.

  • @seyentertainment4823
    @seyentertainment4823 5 лет назад +12

    I love myself and all of you, who share this pain.

  • @InvisionTM2
    @InvisionTM2 7 лет назад +128

    I'm killing myself with alcoholism. I want so bad to get better,,, I'm tired of disappoint the love of my life. Thank you so much for sharing your history. Of all the substances I have used in my life, this is the one that's most dangerous and the one that made me more harm. The one that I'm still fighting and it's very hard to overcome. I wish everyone in this same battle the streng to overcome this.

    • @soucamillaribeiro
      @soucamillaribeiro 7 лет назад +4

      We can get over this together

    • @user-jp3py2hl4p
      @user-jp3py2hl4p 7 лет назад +7

      The full length documentary says it even better onelittlepillmovie.com (free to watch on Amazon Prime).
      This TEDx video and the documentary have changed the way I look at all addictions ! In 2017, there are good ways to cure these learned ailments. The methods are inexpensive and available now. Learn about them. Best to you.

    • @InvisionTM2
      @InvisionTM2 7 лет назад

      D:

    • @theselfmade806
      @theselfmade806 6 лет назад

      Your are not alone.. I'm fighting here with you.. everyday is a fight to get sober and stay sober...

    • @theselfmade806
      @theselfmade806 6 лет назад

      @@soucamillaribeiro yes we will.. there's strength in numbers

  • @dagfinnkolberg
    @dagfinnkolberg 4 года назад +42

    12 step program saved my life! 20 years sober now. Grateful!

    • @franco7928
      @franco7928 3 года назад

      Hi Dagfinn, do you still go to meetings?

    • @dagfinnkolberg
      @dagfinnkolberg 3 года назад

      @@franco7928 Hello Franco! No I don't. Still feel that I live in the program with daily prayers and meditation.

    • @duncescotus2342
      @duncescotus2342 3 года назад +1

      Jesus saved your life. Give him credit, eventually. He's patient.

  • @pisceandreams5893
    @pisceandreams5893 2 года назад +112

    I'm 37....I have been drinking since before I was even 18.
    Both parents alcoholics.
    I can only tell people that I drink to feel normal for a few hours a day.....and then it repeats day after day.
    I do function pretty regularly......I can talk anyone into believing the reasons I drink by pointing out how ridiculous this world can be on a daily basis.
    I desperately want to stop because it's not fair to the love of my life,, even though she doesn't know that it isn't fair.
    I will drink alone and not bother anyone,, unless they get in my way of me cracking beers at 8 at night until 6 or 7 or 8 in the morning.
    I can absolutely out drink anyone who tries at this game with me,, I do it to show them that this isn't a game at all when the opportunity presents itself.
    Wether I'm drunk or sober nobody can tell......But this eats me alive more than it does anyone else.
    I am confessing all this for anyone who may understand.
    I have actually found Jesus, I now know why we absolutely need him,, because even my love for God still takes a backseat to my addiction.
    I am drinking now even though I wake up every day and swear to myself I WILL NOT DRINK TONIGHT.....It's actually pathetic!!
    Like I said,, I drink to feel normal in this crazy world but that shouldn't be the case...... people like you and me have this ritualistic behavior......I have researched for so many years everything about this and I have found that many people with OCD use alcohol to shut their brains off.
    Also people who have closed head injuries suffer from severe depression and anxiety like myself,, amd i also have more than 1 closed head injury.
    I am confessing these details so anyone who reads this and understands the struggle knows they are definitely not alone.....and I need you to know that our families need us and the world needs us and that is why we are Spiritually attacked so heavily!
    I LOVE YOU

    • @Meemeeseecoo
      @Meemeeseecoo 2 года назад +7

      Same here, also 37. Finally got tired of drinking, gonna see a Psych on Wednesday, hopefully get help and figure this out. The drinking to feel normal part really hits home. Good luck, ur not alone.

    • @petemalelis3037
      @petemalelis3037 2 года назад +9

      39 same story as above but 6 years sober. Jesus is key.

    • @quanburris6162
      @quanburris6162 2 года назад +9

      Same here. 35 years old. Tired

    • @markdelaney7326
      @markdelaney7326 2 года назад +3

      Thanks for sharing your story! There is hope.

    • @taz19741974
      @taz19741974 2 года назад

      take NAC 600MG TREATS brain poisoning from the alcohol and treats ocd.

  • @SoniaAnastasiaaa
    @SoniaAnastasiaaa 6 лет назад +195

    if you have to decide between alcohol and a loved one, then there is a problem. I hope to be sober starting at age 21 (this year). I really don't like feeling this guilt and I am ready to be the best version of myself

    • @kimwilletts8476
      @kimwilletts8476 6 лет назад +7

      aspire to be the best version of yourself, it may help. Your life, is worth fighting for.

    • @busimanolo326
      @busimanolo326 6 лет назад +5

      the guilt is the worst

    • @karlaspoonamore5189
      @karlaspoonamore5189 6 лет назад +4

      Sonia. your message gave me so much power this morning. im going to store it in my heart forever. such a wise advise... "Im ready to be the best version of my self"

    • @SoniaAnastasiaaa
      @SoniaAnastasiaaa 6 лет назад +5

      @@karlaspoonamore5189 Thank you so much , it is very comforting to know that I am not alone on this journey and that it is possible to overcome binge drinking. If there is guilt involved in any action, something is not right! You got this and we have each others support

    • @karlaspoonamore5189
      @karlaspoonamore5189 6 лет назад +4

      @@SoniaAnastasiaaayou are so right, we have to support each other. people don't understand that alcoholism is a disease and can kill as much as cancer, HIV or diabetes. peole is very prompt to judge, but not to help. TY so much for your kind words.

  • @stopandsmelltheroses104
    @stopandsmelltheroses104 6 лет назад +162

    Naltrexone for 6 months..now 3 years sober. No turning back. Definitely a miracle for me..immediate result of no desire for the rush of alcohol

    • @creativemind26los82
      @creativemind26los82 6 лет назад +3

      Is this medication over the counter medication or will I need a doctor's prescription also what does it cost I'm finally ready to quit and would like to try the pill. Also how did it work for you please share your story. Thanks

    • @constantmotion2124
      @constantmotion2124 6 лет назад +1

      How were you able to afford it or have it prescribed? We looked in to it for a family member but was cost prohibitive at $1800 for one week dose.

    • @soph5097
      @soph5097 6 лет назад +1

      It's has to be perscribe here by doc in California. Im sure you can buy it online. If you have medical insurance, It's cheaper thought if u get it prescribe. It's best to get the medicine and therapy referral from the doc. My husband is an alcoholic and finally stay off alcohol for 7 days with Naltrexone.

    • @ltd4895
      @ltd4895 6 лет назад +1

      @@mitchellcline5738 CAN BE is the operative phrase! Doesn't mean it is for any or everyone! There is a scientific physiological pathological process associated with it that a placebo is not going to offer I don't care how good reverse psychology is. Some people are on it for so long their body craves it like oxygen!!

    • @echo1999
      @echo1999 6 лет назад +6

      But, how's life as a person and growth going? Recovery is not abstinence but working on diving into the deep inner cleaning of ones internal self. A suggestion is to go further than the drug to gain control of the addiction and read the 12 steps. That's where a lot have failed only to years later admit that even a prescribed pill can do so much. Much love and the best in being sober. I myself have almost 11 years with no pill. I do it with the 12 steps. This speaker talks about self-will but, self will is not part of the 12 steps its giving our power to a higher power. And guess what, I'm not religious at all i do not even attend church, yet I strongly believe in spirituality and guidance from a higher power. I don't agree with this Ted speaker at all.

  • @mika.mercury
    @mika.mercury 3 года назад +110

    Nearly four years sober. I used to drink a full bottle a night if at home alone and up to 36 shots (I've done the math- 4 full, like full, rocks glasses neat of whiskey) if I were out at a bar. I'm thankful for my sobriety. If anyone's out there struggling remember it's a process. There is no timeline for healing. Be kind to yourself. Be mindful of yourself and remember it's a daily decision to remain sober. I nearly died from this and I will always remember that. Take care and remember there's always hope

    • @XxToxicLemonzXx
      @XxToxicLemonzXx 2 года назад +2

      Did you have to get treatment or were you able to quit cold turkey? I wanna quit and i know i can. But im scared im gonna have seizures.

    • @freyavalentina3153
      @freyavalentina3153 2 года назад +1

      @@XxToxicLemonzXx You gotta taper off. How are you doing?

    • @XxToxicLemonzXx
      @XxToxicLemonzXx 2 года назад +1

      @@freyavalentina3153 doing great, only drink on the weekends if I want to, but not as heavy as I use too. It was hard for the first week or so, but got way easier

    • @lesleydavies3199
      @lesleydavies3199 Год назад +1

      Too much money to be made in selling alcohol, it's like any other drug, only it's legal and socially ingrained. Or maybe there's just too much pain in this world and we need to be numbed, be it with drugs, money, religion or romantic love. Seems we've all lost our way.

    • @Nancy_B6240
      @Nancy_B6240 Год назад

      Thank you 😢

  • @Prince-of-Whales666
    @Prince-of-Whales666 Год назад +21

    I followed her advice and it changed my life. Incredible. I feel so happy now.

    • @Kathy-bz7zx
      @Kathy-bz7zx 5 месяцев назад +1

      Same....Naltrexone is a miracle drug

  • @jjwashburn60
    @jjwashburn60 5 лет назад +66

    Drinking alcohol repetitively is like living life with the emergency brake stuck on , in the steering wheel all the way to the left, So you keep going in circles

  • @MrRCDiamonds
    @MrRCDiamonds 3 года назад +84

    I started crying listening to her story because it closely resembles mine. I needed this video. Hope you all get through your struggle and overcome it

  • @abrannat8048
    @abrannat8048 4 года назад +57

    I'm sober and clean without any treatment or help for six years now ... just listen to that deep voice in your head , you can do it guy's 💓

    • @lovesings2us
      @lovesings2us 3 года назад

      Congratulations! How did you do this? If you wouldn't mind saying a bit more about learning to listen to that deep voice, I'd love to hear. Thanks for considering.

    • @duncescotus2342
      @duncescotus2342 3 года назад

      You're not clean. And sobriety is much more than you think. Only Jesus can make a man clean. Prayers were made for you tonight and all your people, that the holy one would visit you all. Light and truth with prevail.

  • @larryulery3729
    @larryulery3729 7 месяцев назад +6

    I am 35 years sober
    My sobriety date is April 28,1988
    I am truly grateful. I had to learn to love myself again. I used cookie and cream to help the sugar craving. The first 30 days I shook like drug store dice. I went to meeting worked with others. One month, then three months. I started to believe in a higher power, God and working with others. It's been a wonderful ride

    • @joshwithers1760
      @joshwithers1760 7 месяцев назад +1

      I'm 56 days sober this time around. I have an AA home group, sponsor and I'm about to commence the 4th Step.

  • @testaccount4150
    @testaccount4150 4 года назад +80

    On 12-12-20, l will be sober for 27 years. Thank God for AA.

  • @michaelh-uk3867
    @michaelh-uk3867 4 года назад +30

    I have tried this method, it was incredibly effective. its beyond comprehension in many ways. I was completely dependent, multiple rehabs, jobs lost, multiple relapses. Horrendous cold turkeys, you get the point. I cannot believe this is not championed by the NHS.

    • @herculewayne106
      @herculewayne106 4 года назад

      It's available on NHS, but whether the doctors in your area know about it or not is another thing.

    • @Michael-tr7uq
      @Michael-tr7uq 4 года назад +3

      Congratulations Michael! Spread the word. TSM is being offered via Telemedicine across the US now and growing. Many doctors are just becoming aware of this method.

    • @emilyrose2444
      @emilyrose2444 4 года назад

      Im with you Michael, i had to go privately to start the sinclair method but now my GP is totally won over by it and ive sent several people her way. Its been such a massively positive change in my life :)

  • @allthingsjohnna3742
    @allthingsjohnna3742 2 года назад +52

    I have been sober for a week and it has been the most pleasant days that I have had in a longtime, I was drinking every day and not being productive. This week I’ve gotten so many things done, gone from finishing wine bottles to finishing bottles of water best decision I ever made. Alcoholism is real and it affects your life more than you think. I saved my life

    • @juliaguise2582
      @juliaguise2582 2 года назад +2

      I'm right where you are, one week yay

    • @keithrobertson5110
      @keithrobertson5110 2 года назад +4

      Well done, your doing better than me, I just can't stop, 42 years drinking everyday, I'm now 58. I want to stop, any suggestions?. Thanks.

    • @ahefner33
      @ahefner33 Год назад

      Not for those self medicating going broke trying to get help for years. You think alcoholism is hard, try benzodiazipine sobriety

    • @davewhitehead8601
      @davewhitehead8601 Год назад

      @@keithrobertson5110 I had long intended to stop but now have after ages of to-ing and fro-ing and short stints of sobriety. I decided I needed to turn the page and did so by making it like the end of a story - a piece of art, if you like. I recalled the first beer I ever had (in Belgium in 1996) and then knew I was going to Belgium again. As such, I said "I'm going to end as I began." and did. I had the same beer as in 1996, took a photo and just walked away - and slept terribly again as always after alcohol, but I knew that that was that.
      I also felt that alcohol was like baby products. When my son was 1, we were constantly buying them. He's now 11 - the baby parts of supermarkets now no longer interest me and I simply walk straight past. Claudia's point about the billboard resonated a lot with me - she's quite right.
      My suggestion is therefore make a set date and a reason to stop. Wave goodbye to your old friend and then leave it behind. Tell friends and family WHY you're doing it. Here in Germany, alcohol is a BIG part of tradition and so there is *always* a reason to drink. But, if you explain your reasons, people get it. I simply said "It's not you, it's not that I don't like the taste, but I have to do this for me. When I start, I don't stop. So the best thing for me to do is not start." If you phrase it simply, people genuinely get it.
      And now, sleeping better, getting more done, feel better, spending less money (always good these days) - go for it. Make it the end of a page in your life story - put an embellishment on the end. Then turn the page.
      Hearing a woman on another video saying "You get jealous that people can go into pubs and you can't." made me laugh. You can. The only person forcing you to drink is you. There are a wealth of alternatives. They might not give you the warm and fuzzies like booze does but I can tell you that a fantastic night's sleep and the feeling of actually being in control of your life again MORE than makes up for it.
      Ignore my story if you wish - but, after 26 years of almost daily drinks, I'm done. And I regret nothing about stopping. My page has been turned - I'm moving on.

  • @jordanphizacklea-cullen1098
    @jordanphizacklea-cullen1098 4 месяца назад +1

    My sister-in-law, an alcoholic, passed away suddenly and unexpectedly four months ago at the age of 37. It's shocked me into going sober myself; I only wish she had been able to find the inner peace she needed in time. Thank you for sharing your story.

  • @kazkazimierz1742
    @kazkazimierz1742 3 года назад +42

    Had my last drink in 1981. I had an easier time in my addiction than many people - never got a DUI, went to jail, or had a car accident, but it was bad enough that I went to an AA meeting. It became apparent to me after a few meetings that the answer to my problem was total abstinence. That's what I have done ever since and life is much better.

    • @domenicadomenica4949
      @domenicadomenica4949 Год назад +1

      Me too. That was 11 years ago. Not sure if she mentions that most people don’t/can’t do it alone. AA was the last house on the block and the one that worked for me. You can’t say you tried AA unless you worked the 12 steps

    • @kazkazimierz1742
      @kazkazimierz1742 Год назад +1

      @@domenicadomenica4949 I never worked the steps. I found most to be complete nonsense. Not drinking was good enough for me, and I will be eternally grateful to AA for teaching me that.

    • @bobt6694
      @bobt6694 Год назад

      Me too,never worked the steps.The only requirement is a desire to stop drinking.

  • @TR-yo5nx
    @TR-yo5nx 2 года назад +33

    I found a place 37 years ago where there were people just like me who had been sober from 1 day to 50 years. They didn't want my money or to preach a religion to me but all that they asked is that I not drink and keep coming back. They taught me that alcohol was a symptom of a greater disease. They cared about me and eventually I cared about them. I found a fellowship of men and women who shared their strength and hope so that I too could stay sober. I owe my life to them because today I'm no longer alone believing I was the only one and that problem was unique.

  • @sandilee5897
    @sandilee5897 6 лет назад +51

    12 step program almost 10 years God & AA saved my life. I drank from morning till next morning

    • @ronaldebbert3473
      @ronaldebbert3473 5 лет назад +3

      I trusted God, cleaned house (searching and fearless moral inventory),& I help others. 12 step AA program

    • @charlieleonardo
      @charlieleonardo 5 лет назад +2

      Yes same here- 3 decades of continuous alcohol abstinence-AA is a simple programme that works if I work at it!

    • @LindaMay38
      @LindaMay38 4 года назад +1

      The only time that I was not drinking was when I was alsleep

    • @oscarwilliamson1264
      @oscarwilliamson1264 4 года назад

      Sandi Lee, you are so beautiful ❤️ ❤️❤️.Please give up on alcohol

  • @diver4341
    @diver4341 2 месяца назад +1

    Prayer works. Meetings work. Being open and honest works. 94 days today. My future is wide open. I love now instead of hate. Being grateful and abusing alcohol do not mesh well. We all got today. Embrace it the best you can.

  • @Playlist25951
    @Playlist25951 3 года назад +80

    I’m 10 years sober due to naltrexone. I had to do the research myself. It wasn’t offered to me by 20+ doctors. I had to ask for it which is sad IMO. I’m still frustrated by that. I destroyed half of my life due to addiction to pills and alcohol and I just needed one pill a day to cure it. I now own two houses and a small business. I’m still fixing mistakes from my past. Including family relationships.

    • @ballsey4521
      @ballsey4521 2 года назад +1

      Wonderful👏👏👏

    • @alexprior-byrne4597
      @alexprior-byrne4597 2 года назад +1

      well done lad x

    • @peenweinerstien3977
      @peenweinerstien3977 2 года назад +1

      That is fantastic!!

    • @buffster948
      @buffster948 2 года назад +3

      I'm really pleased for you, Ronnie, although I know it must still be pretty frustrating to have to keep making up for lost time and fixing the damage your addiction did...but, you are fixing it! You're free from the prison you made (and hopefully any trauma that may have led you there in the first place). I don't know you, so it feels weird to say I feel proud of you, but, I really do. Well done and thank you for being an example to others.

    • @mrsbelcher
      @mrsbelcher 2 года назад +2

      So you took one pill each day and your brain stopped asking for getting high? The lockdowns threw me in a very unpleasant drug addiction (Alcohol is the worst part of it) and since two years I'm failing to STAY sober. Managed to stay dry for a few weeks or a month from time to time, but I always relapsed due to cravings. I hate it so much.