Dust comes in ALL colors…and her insight then is astounding - she was ahead of her time! And i see men still have the same bag of tricks and women are realizing it even more💜
You are so right! But I really think that it’s not so much that there’s a mass awakening in women about men’s bull, I think women started changing things up once they had the *ability* to do so, i.e. could be self-sufficient.
Somebody described it perfectly. When they say males are hunters and women are their prey like a deer this is what they mean. They go after the biggest deer and most elusive deer (successful, pretty, intelligent woman, happy, carefree-they definitely despise carefree women big time) they can catch. It's an ego boost for them to domesticate women like Eartha Kitt. They don't necessarily want you but they definitely don't want anybody else to have you either.
I had no idea. Eartha Kitt was wayyy far ahead of her time, and it's surreal to me how much people of today can learn from her life. I felt winded when I read this part: because Miss Kitt truly deserved someone who loved her for her but instead got a dusty booty bandit . #Sigh.
I hate to say this but this man targeted her. He knew who she was, he knew her potential, and he kept pursuing her because he wanted to take advantage of her. Ertha Kitt was a beautiful successful woman. It hurts me to know that she really wanted to be with Harry belafonte, but Harry Belafonte turned her away. This just shows that men of all ethnicities and all colors have the potential to be mean, cruel ,and nasty. I understand now why she made the video declaring that she would not compromise for anyone.
This is why I am holding my breath on Serena Williams. Gosh, I really want her and her husband, their daughter and the one on the way to be forever, but who knows. These men know how to play the long game with babies and all. I hope they both got pre-nuptial agreements.
Wow! This just shows that people should not romanticize periods in time. If Eartha Kitt had the independent woman mindset in her time, how many other women had the same mindset?
plenty did, if you take the time to really get to know the seniors around you...that's why they had the laws they did to prevent women from acquiring autonomy and wealth
You weren’t kidding about the gasp. As soon as you read that her husband sold her property I gasped and then I got angry. Eartha was a real Capricorn queen! ♑️👸🏽
Just goes to show that we need to vet ALL MEN, not just the ones from our own communuty. I bet he would have done the exact same thing if his wife was yt. WM have always been jealous of and abusive to women, it didn't start only in the 1960s. After all, who else were WW complaining about when they were complaining about men? 🤷🏾♀
a lot of content creators in female spaces write off the fact that wm femicided like no other ----- millions of women were robbed slandered and met grisly deaths during the Spanish I nquistions and WITCH HUNTS it was a giant wealth transfer!!!
Why do bw have to see millions of examples before saying the exact same "this is why you should vet all men" You should know that as common knowledge before the age of 18. But because most bw worship men, yall have to constantly repeat this basic info like its news each time.
Financial abuse in the form of a spouse stealing from the other is probably more common than thought, but very under reported . I recently had a coworker complain that her husband bought himself a sports car with money she was saving for a down payment on an investment property she had her eye on. Another told me her husband used $14,000 to make some risky CRYPTO investments (he is not a knowledgeable investor) basically lost it all in some sort of scam.
I think 14 thousand dollars being wasted would probably make me hate him! I'm surprised she's still married to him! A business venture being halted because my husband wanted a sports car would give me the same reaction!
Dude SO common. I was telling a colleague about my relative's ex husband who would steal money from their joint account (which mostly consisted of her earnings). She said her dad used to do the same thing until her mother had enough and opened her own seperate account. I was shocked by what she said cause her parents are STILL married. I'm SO happy we are weaning off the times when you stay in a marriage no matter what happens cause my spouse stealing my money is a definite deal breaker for me.
And who is it that is doing all of these romance/dating schemes swindling all these women out of their life savings. It’s not women. Although part of me wishes women would start doing it as a form of payback to all the men who’ve done the same to countless numbers of women.
That probably was his whole intention of gettin with a famous bw. He knew bein a wm he could easily gain her trust and have her sign-off on a spousal document, excluding her in the process. Stealin. Allegedly legal racism 🤔😒
Nina Simone had a lot of emotional and mental health issues! Her husband physically assaulted her right before their wedding, but she married him anyway! Her only child said she beat her regularly, and at 14, she chose to live with her father, who didn't beat her! She said her mother was emotionally unavailable even after she grew up! Sad😢
Of course he didn't. Think about it - if he didn't even TELL her that he sold them in the first place, he very likely wasn't going to give her the money.
@@vanaphill2454 This is Soooooo very True Hon. The main reason they do this is to always control their lying AZZ Agenda that they'll never or maybe they will tell you but they make it out in humor or a humourous tone! I'm so sick of their hatefully spiteful demeanor when they're jealous and envious of someone doing better than them. But to steal from you after you Marry them and trusting them with your finances.. OOOOHHH..that's a special kind of monster right there😢😢😮!? Lol the jokes just keep writing themselves about sorry individuals, but what he did wasn't even bad..it was way worse! I'm glad that Lady Eartha is in a better place because at that time he would of been eating crow and sleeping with em'. Yeah that's definitely Powdered Dust there Hon. The nerve-wracking motions of dealing with a crooks who appear NORMAL
Married to her accountant? That figures. Bcuz men going after rich women and controlling their money was common back then. And there’s no way to do that without marriage. Same thing happened to Melba Moore. Some white guy she married made off with all of her money that steered her to welfare. Ike Turner retained all of Tina’s money and she went to welfare until she got on her feet again. That bs was very common back then. What wasn’t common was women not being married. There had to a man as head. 😢
Here's what I think. What is the point? Why are we here? Should we spend our lives alone? What do we do with our physical urges? Did God ever intend for men and women to get along?
He did, but the devil got in there and messed things up. This is God's intention right here: ==> Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her (Eph 5:25) Connecting the dots and reading the other parts of Scripture, you see that loving your neighbor as yourself includes not sinning against them. There are several listing of sins - included in the list are theft, swindling, greed, lying, deceit, ...
When i lived in LA i met a famous celebrity's daughter. She carried the female version of her father's name. When i saw the name i instantly said to her " oh you are so and so daughter". The father was in my grandma/ mother's generation. He was a legend in his time. The daughter was working with a stage producer and stage producer let me know he dispised this lady's husband. The stage manager caused a hugh situation involving me when he told thid woman she needed to pay now. Of course she came in w her hugh check book to settle the bill. The husband had stepped out to the car. When the husband got back and saw his wife writing a check he losted it and scolded his wife (mind you, i am just meeting these people, the stage manager standing of to the side w a scrowl on his face). The wife is upset, she doesn't understand the husband's anger. I didn't understand it either. The stsge manager he knew. He wanted so bad to say to the wife " woman you are the daughter of...." I hoped she left him by now too. She was in the same situation like Eartha.
@@BurbNBougie yes he said it, he did not want the wife to use the check book. He did not want her writing checks even though both of their names are on the checks. He managed the money. She was telling him the same and he was clearly angry that she took the book and was writing the check. Mind you the stage manager set this up to let the wife see how controlling the husband was over her finance and life. Many women especially those who grow up sheltered are not aware of how the rope gets pulled in slowly when they get married to men who are beneath them. Apparently the lady and her husband had 4 children. In my short conversation with her she was so humble. She was surprised I knew who her father was.
Dust comes in ALL colors…and her insight then is astounding - she was ahead of her time! And i see men still have the same bag of tricks and women are realizing it even more💜
You are so right! But I really think that it’s not so much that there’s a mass awakening in women about men’s bull, I think women started changing things up once they had the *ability* to do so, i.e. could be self-sufficient.
Somebody described it perfectly. When they say males are hunters and women are their prey like a deer this is what they mean. They go after the biggest deer and most elusive deer (successful, pretty, intelligent woman, happy, carefree-they definitely despise carefree women big time) they can catch. It's an ego boost for them to domesticate women like Eartha Kitt. They don't necessarily want you but they definitely don't want anybody else to have you either.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
So true. The hunter/deer analogy is perfect.
And their big egos don’t want to see you happy.
Omg this is so true. I love your comment.
When a man steals from you. Its time to get rid him.
I had no idea. Eartha Kitt was wayyy far ahead of her time, and it's surreal to me how much people of today can learn from her life.
I felt winded when I read this part: because Miss Kitt truly deserved someone who loved her for her but instead got a dusty booty bandit . #Sigh.
I hate to say this but this man targeted her. He knew who she was, he knew her potential, and he kept pursuing her because he wanted to take advantage of her. Ertha Kitt was a beautiful successful woman. It hurts me to know that she really wanted to be with Harry belafonte, but Harry Belafonte turned her away. This just shows that men of all ethnicities and all colors have the potential to be mean, cruel ,and nasty. I understand now why she made the video declaring that she would not compromise for anyone.
This is why I am holding my breath on Serena Williams. Gosh, I really want her and her husband, their daughter and the one on the way to be forever, but who knows. These men know how to play the long game with babies and all. I hope they both got pre-nuptial agreements.
Why are bw just now realizing that men are men?
@@ari_an_yah Dude's a pREDDITor creator. That marriage won't last.
Wow! This just shows that people should not romanticize periods in time. If Eartha Kitt had the independent woman mindset in her time, how many other women had the same mindset?
plenty did, if you take the time to really get to know the seniors around you...that's why they had the laws they did to prevent women from acquiring autonomy and wealth
You weren’t kidding about the gasp. As soon as you read that her husband sold her property I gasped and then I got angry. Eartha was a real Capricorn queen! ♑️👸🏽
Just goes to show that we need to vet ALL MEN, not just the ones from our own communuty. I bet he would have done the exact same thing if his wife was yt. WM have always been jealous of and abusive to women, it didn't start only in the 1960s. After all, who else were WW complaining about when they were complaining about men? 🤷🏾♀
Vetting only does so much and goes so far. People's jealousy and envy can be triggered by the smallest things.
a lot of content creators in female spaces write off the fact that wm femicided like no other ----- millions of women were robbed slandered and met grisly deaths during the Spanish I nquistions and WITCH HUNTS it was a giant wealth transfer!!!
Why do bw have to see millions of examples before saying the exact same "this is why you should vet all men"
You should know that as common knowledge before the age of 18. But because most bw worship men, yall have to constantly repeat this basic info like its news each time.
There's a famous interview where she gets asked about men and relationships and she just bursts out laughing. I didn't understand why until now.
They still do this now if you let them 🙄 who wants tradition again?
Her Spidey-Sense was telling her he wasn't it and she relented because she was desperate to have a family.
Financial abuse in the form of a spouse stealing from the other is probably more common than thought, but very under reported . I recently had a coworker complain that her husband bought himself a sports car with money she was saving for a down payment on an investment property she had her eye on. Another told me her husband used $14,000 to make some risky CRYPTO investments (he is not a knowledgeable investor) basically lost it all in some sort of scam.
I think 14 thousand dollars being wasted would probably make me hate him! I'm surprised she's still married to him! A business venture being halted because my husband wanted a sports car would give me the same reaction!
Dude SO common. I was telling a colleague about my relative's ex husband who would steal money from their joint account (which mostly consisted of her earnings). She said her dad used to do the same thing until her mother had enough and opened her own seperate account. I was shocked by what she said cause her parents are STILL married. I'm SO happy we are weaning off the times when you stay in a marriage no matter what happens cause my spouse stealing my money is a definite deal breaker for me.
And who is it that is doing all of these romance/dating schemes swindling all these women out of their life savings. It’s not women. Although part of me wishes women would start doing it as a form of payback to all the men who’ve done the same to countless numbers of women.
The more things change the more they stay the same. 🙄
Yep, in scripture it says there is nothing new under the sun. Yep!
How in the hell could he sell buildings that SHE owned? As her accountant?
It was the 1960's and he was white.
He might have had power of attorney. She might have signed one unwittingly.
That probably was his whole intention of gettin with a famous bw. He knew bein a wm he could easily gain her trust and have her sign-off on a spousal document, excluding her in the process. Stealin. Allegedly legal racism 🤔😒
I am so happy she left and I had no idea he was powdered dusty! I am so happy to be living in this time period so i can be free of XYs!
Wow that Dude was straight up evil
Wow!!! Tried to cut her down because he felt so small. 😢😢
I think Nina Simone had this going against her too.
Nina Simone had a lot of emotional and mental health issues! Her husband physically assaulted her right before their wedding, but she married him anyway! Her only child said she beat her regularly, and at 14, she chose to live with her father, who didn't beat her! She said her mother was emotionally unavailable even after she grew up! Sad😢
He sold HER apartments. Did he give her the money?
It wasn't explained further in the book!!
I believe the answer is HELL NO HE DIDN'T. It's coercive control.
If he did give it. Would it not be hers what she bought? Hate women making their own money cause u wanna control what she does with yours
Of course he didn't. Think about it - if he didn't even TELL her that he sold them in the first place, he very likely wasn't going to give her the money.
That's so crazy!
Wow...a yt dusty!!
He was beneath her which is why he did that.
This is precisely why women shouldn't date or marry down. The menz will get jealous and angry
I was watching Ciceky Tyson in MOSES, and her husband stole her freedom money. I NEVER FORGOT THAT. Men will steal from you.
@@vanaphill2454 This is Soooooo very True Hon. The main reason they do this is to always control their lying AZZ Agenda that they'll never or maybe they will tell you but they make it out in humor or a humourous tone! I'm so sick of their hatefully spiteful demeanor when they're jealous and envious of someone doing better than them. But to steal from you after you Marry them and trusting them with your finances.. OOOOHHH..that's a special kind of monster right there😢😢😮!? Lol the jokes just keep writing themselves about sorry individuals, but what he did wasn't even bad..it was way worse! I'm glad that Lady Eartha is in a better place because at that time he would of been eating crow and sleeping with em'. Yeah that's definitely Powdered Dust there Hon. The nerve-wracking motions of dealing with a crooks who appear NORMAL
MF'A...Wow😮😢
Wow .. now that is audacity 2:42
You can't vet men, no matter what avenues you use. You Will never know the TRUE person until they show you.
Married to her accountant? That figures.
Bcuz men going after rich women and controlling their money was common back then. And there’s no way to do that without marriage. Same thing happened to Melba Moore. Some white guy she married made off with all of her money that steered her to welfare. Ike Turner retained all of Tina’s money and she went to welfare until she got on her feet again. That bs was very common back then. What wasn’t common was women not being married. There had to a man as head. 😢
I thought he actually loved her. I never knew he did this. Not just nakers want to control women.
Here's what I think. What is the point? Why are we here? Should we spend our lives alone? What do we do with our physical urges? Did God ever intend for men and women to get along?
He did, but the devil got in there and messed things up. This is God's intention right here:
==> Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her (Eph 5:25) Connecting the dots and reading the other parts of Scripture, you see that loving your neighbor as yourself includes not sinning against them. There are several listing of sins - included in the list are theft, swindling, greed, lying, deceit, ...
i 'n 🤮 sick. That was horrible to hear.
What is the name of this book you are reading?
Confessions of a Sex Kitten
Kitt was an intelligent and classy lady who was ahead of her time. Thank you for the information. @@BurbNBougie
W🤯W!
Damn 😐
When i lived in LA i met a famous celebrity's daughter. She carried the female version of her father's name. When i saw the name i instantly said to her " oh you are so and so daughter". The father was in my grandma/ mother's generation. He was a legend in his time. The daughter was working with a stage producer and stage producer let me know he dispised this lady's husband. The stage manager caused a hugh situation involving me when he told thid woman she needed to pay now. Of course she came in w her hugh check book to settle the bill. The husband had stepped out to the car. When the husband got back and saw his wife writing a check he losted it and scolded his wife (mind you, i am just meeting these people, the stage manager standing of to the side w a scrowl on his face). The wife is upset, she doesn't understand the husband's anger. I didn't understand it either. The stsge manager he knew. He wanted so bad to say to the wife " woman you are the daughter of...." I hoped she left him by now too. She was in the same situation like Eartha.
Did you ever find out why the husband was so angry?
@@BurbNBougie yes he said it, he did not want the wife to use the check book. He did not want her writing checks even though both of their names are on the checks. He managed the money. She was telling him the same and he was clearly angry that she took the book and was writing the check. Mind you the stage manager set this up to let the wife see how controlling the husband was over her finance and life. Many women especially those who grow up sheltered are not aware of how the rope gets pulled in slowly when they get married to men who are beneath them. Apparently the lady and her husband had 4 children. In my short conversation with her she was so humble. She was surprised I knew who her father was.