When do You Give Widowers a Second Chance?
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- Опубликовано: 18 сен 2024
- Many women break up with widowers only to have the widower come crawling back and asking for a second chance. What do you do when this happens? In this video Abel Keogh teaches you vital widower psychology so you can know if the widower has really changed or if he's looking to take advantage of you all over again.
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Thanks for the great video Abel! Me and my widower fiance almost broke up after 4 months together, it was on his late wife 1st year death anniversary. Actually he told me he loves me very much but he is still grieving. Its normal for me. I gave him some space for 1 week.. I gave him second chance and now after 2 years together and 3 years after late wife have passed, I am the most blessed, lucky and loved women on earth. Listen to your heart, don't push too hard, be patient and if he the right person and you are ment for each other, everything will work out!!!! And there are so many red flags in the relationship not only with a widower or widow, so don't judge too soon and too quickly!!❤🙏
Your thoughts are good for all relationships not just dating a widower, thank you.
Great advice for any relationship. Actions do speak way louder than words. It's easy to forget this when the heart is involved.
This common sense advice is well and clearly explained, particularly regarding relationships with widowers, in this video.
Thank you, Abel.
I noticed that as soon as my guy thought he “had me” his behavior was offish. Putting friends first, cutting short our conversations to take another’s call , others more important including grown kids …..
My experience also
I really needed this! I’m in the middle of giving my widower another chance. He changes but then reverts back…so I don’t know. I’m going to wait til
He shows better behavior for longer and truly changes …he took down a lot of thr memorials, improved communication with me, told his kids he’s not gonna share all our stuff (our personal business)with them and won’t listen to their opinions so much anymore, and says he will put me first. We shall see. We get along so great and want the same things, but it’s the lifestyle. Our lifestyles must mesh
Great relationship advice, Abel.
I think over 55 too complex to date. Could be taking on someone you cook and clean for a pay bills and also look after if sick in old age. If his children dislike you or family hard work. Best stay alone unless deeply in love.
I’m 62, my widower is 68, it’s not too old, we are enjoying life, holidays, trips away etc and generally having a great time, it’s down to the people, not their ages.
I know this is a old video but the topic really got to me. Okay so I took a huge break from him, and things are really heating up, like we went to a Bible study tonight, that is not part of our church, and boy do we have a great time. He was looking at me and nudging me and, I'm like is this really the man who had been tried me crazy, so yeah I'm very intrigued right now.
Never
If I was dating a widower and I went to his home and he had her clothes and pictures all over the place would ask him if he thinks she is coming back? that may give him something to think about
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thats cold
@@hollystone7448 But the truth. They need a cold slap every so often
That is so cruel!
But if there is too much of her stuff in the house, it is almost like they're waiting for them to come back from the store or something period from ice perspective it's like they still want to be married to them. A small memorial a remembrance is fine and maybe pictures of the kids and their mom but not an entire shrine
However we all have to be understanding of a person great loss and I feel if he cares for you he will in due time put them away out of sight. And she or he died there not coming back and you should let them think about it
Imho, the clothes should be gone before the widower even thinks about dating. I won't date another widower again but if I met one and had to do it all iver again and I somehow I found out the clothes were still there, I'd quickly walk away & not even bother getting involved. If the widower asked why I wouldn't see him, I'd say I thought you were further along in your grieving process. With personal items still around the house, it tells me you are clearly not ready to move forward & are holding on to the past. Your heart is not open for a new woman in your life (and I will not be a human band aide for your broken heart).
never
Great video - you look fine but thinner.
What about a tatoo after dating me .. what I should do
Pls tell me
it's a red flag.
Run away
It means they are emotionally unavailable.
Omg. I hope you are not with this widower. You will NEVER be #1. Run!
That's not just a red flag it is a Billboard in times square
Provide Protect Profess…….
My widower tells me I spend 90% of my free time with you.,..10% w my adult children (who hate me)..you are making me choose between you & them,,,,,
We put his wife’s stuff in third bedroom like a shrine for her. I was okay with that. They were married 52 years.
Right now we are not speaking. Every argument is when he goes to their events without me. He doesn’t even say my name to them.