SIL Pulls Cruel "Prank" Triggering My Past Trauma, I Lash Out and Family Cuts Her Off. Now She's...
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- Опубликовано: 25 фев 2024
- SIL Pulls Cruel "Prank" Triggering My Past Trauma, I Lash Out and Family Cuts Her Off. Now She's Trying to Play the Victim and Turn Them Against Me.
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Having someone sit on a whoopie cushion is a prank. Terrorising someone with legitimate trauma is sadistic and evil.
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“pranks should amuse, not abuse”
They should also amuse everyone involved. Not just the initiator@@minties51
Exactly. A prank would've been sending a photo in a horrible state and say "I'll be late", not sending a creepy photo to someone who had experienced stalking
I just finished watching the video and my first thought was "Couldn't you (Sophie) just put one of those cushions (I didn't remember the object's name) in her (OP) seat? That would have been actually funny"
Sophie really went "Ah yes, that traumatic experience you went through? _Lemme _*_recreate_*_ that"_ head ass ಠ_ಠ
Yea like can she even think?
@@janapavlikova4553sure can(t)!
She made the
When you don't pay for therapy and they give you back your trauma joke to literally
That's honestly disgusting because I've had this experience as well
@@janapavlikova4553 I doubt it
"It's just a prank, bro" is usually code for "I'm a piece of s---, deal with it and stop whining."
More like "I'm a piece of shit, please deal with it? Cause I am allergic to accountability."
The other one is "We're not laughing at you, we're laughing with you." Bitch I ain't laughin
And “be the bigger person” is just code for “lay flatter doormat.”
@@sheepisfortheweak6164 that's when you hit them with new trauma... And actual trauma, as in the medical term for when you're hit with a steel chair. Don't want responsibility, have the inability to walk again.
Sophie is 30 years old, acts like a toddler, and thought this "prank" was a good idea.....?! SHE'S 30!! IM 21 AND I KNOW BETTER THAN THAT!! Any one that supports the Sophie are also crazy!!
The fact that she was spoiled throughout the childhood and then got a rich husband so she didn't had to work because of that she never got a taste of real life and how struggling it is.
Well she's been spoiled from childhood, and her husband is a Sugar Daddy that also excuses her actions. Though that might just be OP's POV. She didn't say anything about Sophie getting a Divorce, so that says something.
im 13 and i know better than that
@@user-td6ri9vp5dfax I pulled a prank before by stealing someone’s bag because they insulted me and my ancestors but it was my fault for stealing but after that day I never did big pranks except for small ones.
I'm 19 and I would never pull such prank on anyone. This is just cruel and messed up.
Aaron is a real one for taking _none_ of that bullcrap and assuring OP that she doesn't need to apologize. I can't imagine either that it wasn't traumatic on some level for him, too, to be told to barricade himself in his house, due to a crazy stalker with scissors being outside to get his wife. A stalker like that would have every reason to want to hurt the perceived "other man" for sure, and had it been a real scenario, Aaron would've surely been in danger and you never know whether someone like that is armed with worse than scissors.
Agreed, that was probably terrifying to be woken with the news of a potentially aggressive person outside your house that has reason to target you
I mean, unless you're crazy having your wife call you in a panic and telling you to arm yourself and barricade the room you're in because a crazy person is threatening her would be traumatizing.
@@Olimar92He also probably knows the face her wife has when she goes into a disociative state of mind. She had no need to tell him how badly she was, because he could see it.
Interesting that Sophie admits in her apology that she was only sorry that things got out of hand for herself, not that she hurt the OP.
Not only that, originally she refused to apologize and claimed it was "implied" that she was sorry! Who says that sort of thing??
Bruh Sophie is the definition of "play stupid games win stupid prizes"
And it wasn’t just something that was a spur of the moment thing, she had the picture for a few days
idk why I'm asking, its completely unrelated but did u mean the lyrics from the taylor swift song
@@AngelXOforthewin uhh no I meant the proverb 😅
@@AngelXOforthewin average swiftie💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
@@pi_man3 I just like her songs??? I ain't one of them cult leaders
Screw that. That wasn’t a “prank” that was just cruel, evil even. Who makes someone relive that horror of being stalked and threatened and give them the fear that their stalker came back for them. Like Sophie copied the exact details. That was so unnecessary. And then to try to turn it on OP? Really? Sophie deserves everything that comes her way.
Yeah, even if OP never went through anything, it still would have been too far. A good scare prank is something like removing the chain on a chainsaw and chasing trick-or-treaters around for Halloween, not this passive-aggressive crap.
What exactly is wrong in her head that she thought it would be funny and harmless and that it wouldn’t possibly end bad?
Sil being a grade A narcissist.
Classic sil in these stories
Not a grade but an SSS++ grade of xtra narcisim
With "pranks" like those, one of these days Sophie is gonna fuck around and find out 😅
One day? She already did. Then she wanted to pull the surprised Pikachu face and play the victim.
@@littlemisstink921 oh she did, that's true. But I was thinking more.... _permanent_ consequences.
I.e. she's gonna get gatted cause she pulled one of those "pranks" on a vet with PTSD or something
I was kinda hoping she would try something dumb like pretending to break into OP's house, OP would give her the business and break something.
Also I am hoping OP was popular because she didn't let that two-bit, punk stalker ruin her life. People like scandal but also admire courage.
@@Gumbier_Than "people like scandal, but also admire courage"
I mean, I see where you're coming from I guess, in theory anyways.
But (most) people also tend to avoid trouble. And a stalker like that is pretty big trouble.
I mean, he's already stalking her, what if he's got more lethal tendencies?
As a dude, if you get close stalker boy might get jealous and go after her or you.
As a chick, what if you're next?
Likely she got the scandal, but also a lot of people avoiding her for fear of being caught in the crossfire.
Maybe she got one or two friends out of it tho, who "admired her courage" like you said
If so, that'd be nice 😀
Op didn't press charges so I'd say op already went out of her way to be kind.
So to sum it all Princess Sophie got her prize. My god, in my 18 years of life I've never came across a narcissist and hopefully in future too!
I hope you don’t have to either. I was all good without meeting one until in my twenties where out of no where BOOM my brother married one 🙄
@@bodforge9484 oh shoot that's such a close relationship. Hopefully the next reddit story won't be yours lol "my narcissistic SIL...."
"Victim" Implies she is innocent of what is happening to her. She's fully responsible for this action and OP does not need to apologize for anything. Everything that is happening is her own fault.
As a female prankster who was stalked, that prank has gone too far. Sophie's lucky that OP didn't get a heart attack.
As a woman who's skittish enough to have struck a person or two when surprised, Sophie's lucky she didn't get her face cracked. OP is trained in Jiujitsu after all.
Sophie tried to guilt OP all the way to the end, with the comment about “I see now we never were friends and we never will be.” And all the “put herself first” bull. Definitely a narcissist bc a normal person would have just said that they screwed up and they were sorry. Oof. The MVP of this tho is the husband! Awesome supportive partner!
Anyone seen that video of the prankster that got shot in the mall trying to prank a guy? I remember that and smile and think to myself that not everyone will take a so called prank like you want them to.
Isn't the 1st time, back when the killer clown "Social Experiment" thing was going around it sort of ended very quickly at one point because like 3 or 4 of them in quick success got shot, run over or some other version of dead.
What have pranks become, few years ago the the most extreme prank we did in school was smacking your mate on the face. Now it’s just causing literal trauma 💀
For anyone dealing with similar this is not just attitude but classic narcissism/psychopathy. They see apologies as weakness they can exploit & forgiveness as a chance to get away with anything. Check out the cycles of gaslighting & abuse chart, establish clear boundaries & consequences & if possible private any social contacts you have & NEVER give them to the narcissist
lol Amazing. Sophie fucked around and found out and then wants to pull the surprised Pikachu face and play the victim. Gotta love it.
She did that to her self
11:09 I completely lost all concentration watching this dude struggle to light up the targets 🤣🤣🤣🤣 it wasn’t working and they looked so confused
Sohpie played the stupid game, and mad she won the grand prize
Holy moly Sophie is a monster for triggering someone's past trauma....
When pulling a prank I’m going to give everyone a piece of advice know your audience especially if you’re pulling risky pranks. If you don’t aim to confuse not harass or hurt .
This. I played a prank on a customer who is a Georgia bull dogs fan. I wrote "roll tide" on a sticky note and hid it between 2 things they bought.
Nuh uh, Sophie has NO point. OP is chill, 5/5 good person, Sophie is pure evil
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
these stories have conditioned me for scorched earth. its hilarious to see a story start out super dramatic and devolve into occasional passive aggressive texts. none of the updates added anything lmao
"Now I know we were never friends" The Audacity! I wouldn't even pull a prank like this on someone I'd known 20 years! No normal thinking person would think it was a prank. She knew she was being cruel & most likely thought it would cause OP to not go on the trip.
a prank is putting salt in someone’s coffee instead of sugar, not causing a panic attack
You have to be a new level of demented using someone’s past trauma as a “prank”. Sophie is the one who should apologize not op.
i'm about halfway through the video and even if op DIDNT have past experience being stalked, it's STILL a cruel prank to send a picture from an unfamiliar number showing someone outside your house holding something that could very easily be a weapon. it is NOT harmless at all.
Prank:
Putting salt into someone coffee.
Putting food dye in someone's water.
Putting a "smack me" note on someone's back.
Those are pranks.
She shouldn't have pulled that prank in the first she the one at fault here so she should apologize for what she did.
If you are not a 10 year old? The word 'Prank' SHOULD NOT BE IN YOUR MOUTH AT ALL!!!!!
Sophie is a Hippotwatomus.
The only thing op should apologize for is comparing pigs to her SIL. We've raised pigs, and pigs do not behave that way!
Sophie should have known the apology for the fat comment was implied.
The fact that this woman-child put so much thought and care into this prank shows that it was malicious, pre-meditated, and was done knowing that certain outcomes would happen. She went to their home. Brought scissors. Took her nail polish off. Got a new phone number. Took pictures. Created the fake texts. That’s all signs of crazy person. I do not think that OP should have apologized. I’m almost always a “take the high road” person, but was SIL did was disgusting and cruel. OP comments to her are not even in the same stratosphere. Let’s say, for arguments sake, that OP said some horribly nasty things…. All of the things OP said were heat-of-the-moment in response to what SIL did and the mental re-traumatization she put OP through. If that’s what OP needed to do to help her own healing, then I will respect her choices. Good for Aaron being there for his wife, and I hope SIL and MIL get their karma
So she basically had police resources wasted... and she gets a slap on the wrist? Why am i not surprised
Sophie is an extreme narcissist. If she doesn't get her act together, life will kick her face in
The loudest sigh I let out when she said she apologized
I held in a fart until the family cut off Sophie. Then I got physical AND emotional relief at the same time. I feel great!
This could have been a whole lot less harmless since panic attacks can cause a number of problems
Sophie should probably take a minute to be thankful OP didn’t press charges against her ass for communication of a threat and false reporting, followed by suing her.
Also in my state, you can be charged for false reporting if you cause someone to give a report to police that ultimately turns out to be false.
Also friends don’t trigger friends on purpose.
That was a cruel amd sadistic action I cannot believe she thinks its only a prank =/
For being 30 years old woman, she failed miserably as a human being and we can put the blame on her mom which clearly still threating her as the golden child.
I feel kinda sorry for her because as soon as her mom is out of the picture, she will be so alone.
"overreact over a silly little prank"? OP was traumatised by that incident and Sophie just had to trigger it🤦🏻♀️
"Your just as bad as me if you defend yourself" You can't compare ocean to a cup of water
I would have been furious as I have been stalked twice and both times I felt so vulnerable and the one I was threatened by him and he would follow me home. My bosses husband joked (not knowing about the situation) that there was a guy outside waiting for me. I just broke down crying. He did go out and gave him a good "talking" and he never bothered me again. *Btw the first guy eventually just stopped. I am not that proud that I didn't stick up for myself but I totally can relate to the gal.
Man, that comeback was epic, though.
“You’re as much of a pig on the inside as you are on the outside.”
If you’re gonna say something that fuckin’ EPIC then stand by it!
Her 'put herself first'... Please be yourself as long as you live.
It’s honestly weird how they think Op is overreacting when they pulled a stalker prank, like we all know anyone in the same situation would react the same as Op.
She should learn that not all prank are for everyone, so she should be carefull what she wants to prank for.
I swear to god I watched a video a few days ago where OP’s little sister is Nadia and his older, entitled sister is Erin 😦
“Ya did A-A-ron!”
A prank is when everyone laughs . What she did to you was not a prank.
This makes me think of how disconnected people of privilege and/or wealth are to such a degree that in their level of 'boredom' they believe a blatant act of TERRORISM is a joke in their and other's eyes.
Worse yet, they refuse accountability and play victim when the consequences of their actions come for them.
Like all the things she could've did, she went through efforts to really make this look legit that folks should check on her mental.
8:30 HOW IRONIC, that "what she did was a prank but whats happening to her is real and hurtful" HOW IRONIC is that that sophie is essentially, going through what she put OP through.
I would hate to make fun of someone for something that's out of their control, her weight is 100% in her control
So OP was a doormat in the end, of course. 🙄
Why would you even consider apologizing to that narcissist? She’s not worth it.
It's the gaslighting in top of it all for me.
She shouldn't have done that in the first place, obviously.
She should have (very publicly - social media?) explained exactly what she did, why it was wrong and made a very public apology with efforts to make it up to her with OP's input and except all consequences. AND done so before it spread because it was going to spread anyway and ppl would need to know to some degree that something has happened so the two don't mix again.
That would have shown remorse and character.
She only apologized for calling SIL fat not about everything else. That s good enough. You dont have to be so cold and revengeful absolutely to everything. Calling doing what s right "doormat" would question your compassion and understanding to others.
She felt bad for insulting her appearance, which was wrong of her, no matter how angry she was. You can acknowledge your mistakes without forgiving the person that hurt you. We all do things we regret when we're extremely angry and upset. The reason why OP felt guilty and unsure about insulting her SiL's appearance was because she felt like it betrayed herself. She knows first hand how much it can hurt to have your appearance insulted, and she did it to someone else in a moment of rage. That's why she feels bad about what she said. It's incredibly immature and close minded to call someone a doormat for wanting to apologize for doing something wrong. In the end, OP put her foot down and didn't forgive her SiL for what she did to OP and cut SiL out of her life, so I'm not sure what you're on about by calling OP a doormat.
the fact that sophie said that she did a harmless prank made me fumming
if i was you,i wouldnt apologized
That was no damn prank, Sophie flat out took trauma and used it against OP. And even if she didn't know it was so traumatic she should never and i mean NEVER have pulled that shit. And ON ROP OF THAT, this woman has the audacity to call the others negative and still think their in the wrong. Gtfo💀
Sophie was jealous of the trip and wanted to ruin it
Yeah no that wasn't an apology. "She would never have done the Prank if she had known it would had had such horrible consequences", she should be saying sorry Because she caused those horrible consequences to you. 15:15
Bro what city does OP live in because when I got stalked for 2 years the police kept saying that they couldn't track anything 😂
As someone named Sophie (nickname, technically I’m Sophia), I feel very embarrassed listening to this.
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes
10:47, aw man OP, why did you have to insult innocent pigs?
Can we canonize Sophie as the Patron Saint of Fucking around and finding out?
Nope, Sophie is too old to be acting like this.
I really hope that OP didn't apologize for a pig comment as a whole just for 'outside part'
I love these there juicy drama! 🍵
Yeah. Trigger someones PTSD for a prank
You see, this is why you send memes. Memes are safer.
Dawg I’m not gonna apologize to somebody for calling them a pig because that’s basically just helping them realize they’re fat
Nadia should have sent Sophie a "Nobody likes you, Sophie, and nobody here cares that you're not here. Go crawl back into your hole" response.
bro is parkouring the wrong way. Does anyone else get triggered by that?
I'm sorry. I know most of these stories are probably fake, and it is generally more fun to pretend they're real; however, I really hate it when the story makes no sense. If this all happened when they were at an airport getting ready to start going through that whole ordeal, it wouldn't have happened like this. Either they would have missed their flight because OP wasn't there, or they would have gone without her in which case the police wouldn't have been dragging the SIL in a few hours later. The more I think about it, the less sense it makes.
yeah I would have apologised for the Pig comment myself
Funny how people are quick to call something cruel or mean a prank when they notice everyone isn't laughing and faced with the immediate consequences in public. I love when super spoiled adults face the consequences of being stupid.
1) "I shouldn't have to beg for forgiveness when my apology was implied" good luck trying to spin that narrative in court or to the police.
2) "if you have nothing nice to say don't say anything at all. You're as bad as I am if you do" so why did you think furthering harassing the victim of your stupid prank was a good idea if you didn't want your feelings hurt? Oh right. She's a narcissist and freaking out by the fact the family is dethroning her spoiled princess status.
I'm really disappointed with op apologizing. Giving narcissists an inch will allow them to try and take a mile. The only thing sophie was sorry about was the fact this created such a backlash against her, not the fact she hurt someone.
This is the type of prank that wouldn't be funny even if someone had never dealt with a stalker. Doing it to someone who has is just evil.
Also, choices that require this much work and planning are not "small mistakes". She got a different number, went to her house, took a picture there, went home, crafted the messages, sent them to herself, screenshot the messages, and sent them with additional commentary. That's a lot of work! A small mistake is spilling coffee on someone's carpet, not actively working to traumatize them.
Then, she proceeded to harass OP endlessly.
OP didn't overreact. The idea of "being a bigger person" goes out the window when it doesn't work. If someone will not stop, sometimes you have to stoop to their level and make them stop.
Also, the woman is THIRTY. This isn't even a case of "teenager being insensitive not thinking about consequences". I am also thirty and I cannot IMAGINE doing something so cruel. How is that funny? How does that benefit her? It costs $0 and takes zero effort to not harass and traumatize people.
Edit: it's completely fair for OP wanting to apologize for the weight comment. I think she was completely fair to make it, but I also get why she felt bad about it.
Ah yes, Sophie is making herself the victim. Textbook narcissistic behavior.
Sophia is 30, and thought that “prank” was good. IM A LITERAL MINOR AND I KNOW BETTER
I dont understand how people can be this self-centered. Is Sophie aware other people have emotions or is she immature and emotionally stunted?
13:16 no she annoyed 😒
I'm a teenager and even *I* know that that prank was a shitty and sadistic ass idea ಠ_ಠ
That's not a sister in law that's a pig in law
After all it's soap opera sophie😅😅
Uh, no, past experience or not. That was NOT just a prank
Why tho
how lazy r u
me : I watch reddits instead of reading 😅
Wokay
Don't feel sorry for her, it wasn't a prank at all. She's a psychopath crying fake tears. Make sure she knows the apology is ONLY for the 'fat' remark and not for anything else.
11:13 first try 😂
OP, husband and Nadia seem a bit cliquey. Whatever is going on, it feels like we're missing some context. I kinda wanna hear the other side on this one.
No one talking about how OP is a pos in this situation too?
OP realized her mistake and apologized. So no, no one is talking about it.
Op apologised sophie didn't
It was never a prank, SIL heard about the experience and thought it was funny.
tbh piggy fucked around and found out, maybe if you don't want a hurtful reply don't spam someone for hours
Okay, so you apologized to sophie, but did you apologize to pigs? Because, I mean, what did they do to deserve to be compared to her?
For all my others none karen Sophie's😭
Op is a good person. I'm fat so I didn't like the attack on weight but understood they were angry. I don't care if I'm called fat. It's other things like comparing me to animals that I'm not okay with. I don't tell skinny people they look like stick bugs or ferrets. It's equally insulting