Been following and loving you for YEARS..... but sis, you need to learn how to be alone. You don’t need a man to complete you. You’re young and beautiful and super successful. Your energy has been so off these past few months and we can see right through it. Please don’t let him be your downfall...you’ll be good on your own.
I’ve been watching you since you’re breast augmentation video until a few years ago when you became so codependent on men. Your whole energy changed. When you was single and moved back to NYC, i didn’t even know you was single until I noticed how happy and free you felt. Especially with your friends. You may dislike a few things about your new apartment, but you only overall dislike it because your man is whining about coming back. You need to find yourself again. I wish you the very best but in a few years, I can see you finally seeing what your long time supporters are trying to tell you Love isn’t suppose to hurt. It isn’t suppose to be hard. It’s not normal to “go through things” to the point where you want to run continuously. It’s not a job, it’s an experience. Love isn’t labor, Aaliyah Jay. It’s a rollercoaster, a ride, but a ride you come off wanting to do it again. If you remember nothing else, remember that
I feel like the relationship with Menelik is taking a toll on you as a person. I feel like your pouring so much into it. You're always bringing men up that isn’t on your level. However, I’m not here to judge I’m just looking in. As a supporter, I think that you react off of your emotions too much and that is also why you in an apartment that you don’t like. You're a quick decision-maker which sometimes can be bad. Nevertheless, I wish you and Menelik the best but I think you should continue to put your energy into your Channel.
Girl drop that dead weight and boss up, because lets be honest you dont need him! I feel like your ruining your image and you could be doing alot better if you just focus on yourself.
I want women to know that yes relationships have challenging moments. But the relationship shouldn’t feel like you are constantly toiling. It is work, but it shouldn’t feel like a dead end job. Pay attention to how you feel.
Miss Mamas, i think i speak for us all when i say you disappointed us with this one. Can’t nobody tell you nothing bout your relationship, that’s facts. But, if you gone “BOSS UP” and be in your bag like you say was or do, then act on THAT. One thing about these men, THEY ALWAYS come back. You are the prize so act accordingly, you moved for a reason LA didn’t work, for a reason. Y’all still got work to do, your peace is that apartment whether he there everyday OR NOT, it’s yours. Love & Light sis!
Y'all Have To Get To The "ROOT" Of Y'all Problems, That Means Healing From Any Child Had Issues As Well As Present Issues, That Means Learning How To Be "By Yourselves" Teach You How To Love You Heal & Love You First, Must Relationships Don't Survive Because Of Past & Present Pain That Never Get Addressed 😊
We as women always tend settle because 1:we don’t want the man to be with someone else 2:we don’t feel like there is some else out there that’s better for us 3:we always allow the man to disregard the boundaries there set in place because of insecurities.... Please baby girl I know you are young but please don’t waste your time with someone that you already know it’s not going to work then years down the road your shaking your head all because you wanted to be in a relationship..There is a lot of good advice in the comments ,please take heed! Live your life ! Time weights for no one🙂
1. I liked Menelik better when we didn’t know what he looked like or sounded like. I don’t like his influence or presence on this channel at all anymore and in my opinion it has caused your energy and content to take a toll as well. 2. Did I miss something? The last video we seen you seemed really excited about this new apartment. You just moved in so hopefully you’ll be able to make it YOU soon🥺 3. I agree with everyone else in the comments. You seem different and not in a good way. I’m not gonna speak on anything specific cause we never know what’s going on behind closed doors but I really hope you’re you again soon and you find the guidance and light that you deserve ❤️
I think she’s different because of the guy she messed around with while “single”. He’s put their business out in social media and the blogs and i think she’s embarrassed by it. And i think it’s hard seeing her personal life everywhere and probably trying to explain that to menelik.
@@gabby3626 like yeah all of a sudden you hate your apartment your were just so happy to buy furniture and decorate I like her videos but I feel like something is off these past few videos it’s like she feels the need to keep explaining her relationship, she just doesn’t seem genuinely happy like she did in the past few videos
lol a relationship should definitely not be like a job or even compared to thats bad stop forcing it to work if it’s not meant to be then let it go you are young still have so much ahead of yourself
Yes !! I was def confused like girl I’m married and SOMETIMES it feels like a job but ya jus dating 😕 that’s concerning ! But some of these people in the comments it’s going over their heads.
Aaliyah, sis, it's none of my business but you need to run..... find someone that is low key, wealthy and not on the ’scene’ and doesn't want to be ’seen’. It will flow much better and won't be as hard and you can be you, who you are truly and they won't care bc they have their own thing to be them in their own lane. Be open to who you date, there's so much out there; we just have to be open. Wish you both well.
I love the apartment. I'm not able to upgrade to anything up to date yet. I have to make due what I can afford lol. And it's nice to see someone on her level inspire ppl like me or others it's okay. None the less I think the apartment is not bad at all. It kind of looks like the last apartment.
This is Auntie here. Menelik is playing mind games with her and he is dangerously narcissistic about it. She can’t see it because she trust him. If she goes to her father and explain everything to him what’s going on her father will put a stop to it before he uses her up and uses her money up.
@@marciaminter9700 smh shes young and hes playing with her head and money,when she lived in LA she always seem irritated and frustrated with him in the videos, but hey everybody so open on RUclips, some stuf need to be kept private...
If I’m understanding correctly... you got your apt just to show him that you didn’t need him? Lol now that you’re back together you hate it? You bought a house to move to an apt in LA and loved it so much that you moved back to Ny? Make it make sense for us sis..
I think the apartment is nice in the sense that its such a good location like right in the middle of the city and the view looks nice but I completely agree
Same thing I was just thinking!! I’m thinking “she went from that apartment in LA to that?” Regardless, I was happy for her, but something was definitely off.
@@ye23. she’s not rich rich but she makes a good amount of money. She said so In her last video it was expensive and they decided to move back to nyc during covid because the service was cut to protect the stafff and it was expensive for no reason. She left for finical reasons.
I make my boyfriend watch Aaliyah’s videos with me and he’s ALWAYS asking what menelik does for a living!! 😩 I feel like she should be single she doesn’t need anyone bringing her down and honestly he’s giving me piggyback vibes
Exactly she needs to stay humble, I really don’t hope she sticks with this attitude girl she acting ewwwww. I been watching her since she was in her bedroom she better remember where she came from and who her true fans are. Some people are homeless and she complaining about that, girrrrrrl. Ok rant over just didn’t want to make my own comment but I totally agree. This was annoying as hell.
I Keep Hearing You Say We Have To Teach Each Other How To Love/Deal Each Other, You Can't Teach Old Pain How To Love, When One Heals & "KNOW THYSELF" Then You KNOW How To Love Others, Know That Every Being On This Planet Has Experienced Pain & Life Don't Always Show Us Or Gave Us Time To Heal, Unfortunately "The Tell -Lie-Vision/Society Make Feel Like Being In A Relationship Will Solve Everything, Must Relationships Don't Survive Because Of Past & Present Baggage... Love Doesn't Hurt/Pain Is Lust 😊
Women need to stop settling for struggle relationships & trying to raise grown men. Speaking from experience it’s a waste, also emotionally & mentally draining.
Hey Queen, Peace and light to you. The more you get to know your husband the better the compromises will be for you and him fight for your marriage you feel it in your heart. Aaliyah is in a dangerous game with him he is a narcissistic mind player and he is playing this game on her.
@@marciaminter9700 not trying to be rude or anything I’m just wondering why you think he’s narcissistic. I also don’t like Menelik tho I feel like he’s childish and not man enough for Aaliyah
@@ammebee16 No problem queen narcissistic personalities Narcissistic personality disorder is found more commonly in men. The cause is unknown but likely involves a combination of genetic and environmental factors. Symptoms include an excessive need for admiration, disregard for others' feelings, an inability to handle any criticism, and a sense of entitlement.
I’m glad she’s taking accountability but “I get really emotional and break down” isn’t going to cut it. I hope she gets help bc she isn’t a child and effective communication and not making decisions on impulse will help her in the long run. She can’t keep running from the internet and letting other ppl write her story for her. She did good cleaning up the rumors this time. She also seemed more productive when she was single bc she had no choice but to get herself together.
Is anyone else confused? One minute you with dude all happy, lovey and stuff then you saying you single. It ain’t my business and you don’t have to explain but your actions are giving mixed messages and it feels like you just trying to get views. Both of you need to find out who you are individually and then try to work it out. If he ain’t for you, don’t settle just because it comfortable.
"I was London Tipton in that bitch!" Lmaoooo Purrrr. Seriously, I watched you grow to the success where you're at now and I'm fucking proud of you! Continue living your life to the fullest Joy😩 It Girl for real! 😍✨
I knew you weren’t going to be the most fond of this new apartment especially coming from the LA luxury apartment, but getting this apartment and living on your own is such a big step so that’s a big positive way to look at it! 💕
Cut your Keurig on 10 mins before making the coffee, longer you let the water heat the hotter it will be or warm your creamer in the microwave before adding to coffee.
@@shaythareal2382 yep agreed! the reason shes been unhappy lately is because her soul is over that relationship. Her energy has been extremely heavy lately.just watch apt hunting video to the conetent after he returned... BEEN THERE, choose YOU a because When the heart isnt happy everything else in life will reflect that.
She def bought that house her family lives in it. Some of y’all are not family oriented and it shows. Now she’s older of course she wants a house that’s solely her own
I’m sorry, Aaliyah. This might be an unpopular opinion but, you should not have to teach someone how to treat you. Yall should have enough respect and knowledge about each other to know what y’all need.
That’s not what she’s saying. What she’s saying is sometimes when you get in a relationship you may not know automatically that the person you’re with has certain love languages and triggers. Not everyone can and should be loved the same. You have to learn your partner and vice versa and with learning comes teaching. Example: when you have multiple kids (or siblings ) i guarantee you they all or you all don’t need to be loved the same way. One child may be more independent and disciplined and may need a parent to be more laid back or it’s upsetting while the other child may be more dependent and unmotivated and they may need the constant reminders. That’s what she’s saying. U have to learn your child and your partner and they have to teach you how and what they want
@@sevenrue4754 💯 musiq sound child “teach me how to show me the way to surrender my heart” . You definitely have to learn your partner and I find that those that do they’re the best of friends and tend to have long lasting love.
I see what you’re saying but I do think you have to teach your partner how to love you.. you are two separate individuals coming together, with two different upbringings.. Your needs are going to be different. So if both parties can come together respectfully and learn each other you can sustain a healthy relationship
I really love and respect that you're so honest and don't tell people what they want to hear but tell the truth. I'm a cancer as well and incredibly emotional I've made good and bad decisions but I wouldn't take any of them back. Happy that you're in a stable relationship whenever things go bad work it out!
Idk but her apartment look old fashion and only the bathrooms look more modern for her. Plus the apartment tour she should’ve chosen the 3rd or i think the 2nd apartment. I’ve also feel like she rushed it . An apartment is a big step when living alone.
I agree. The old fashion look was shocking to me. I couldn’t believe she was choosing that apartment. But maybe some furniture will make it more “her” if not I think she should leave. No point in staying somewhere you don’t want to be.
@@mayacincosa6975 no body said her apartment is bad , it’s just not for her and her lifestyle, she said it herself. And if that was the case she should’ve just stayed home and save her money if she couldn’t buy what she wanted cause now she’s saying she doesn’t like how her apartment is moving
I wish you didn’t broadcast that you were moving into an apartment or told menelick about it because I wonder if that bum would’ve came back to you. He’s using you Aaliyah. Wake up and stop being codependent
Preach and everything that she is talking about sounds rehearsed because he is a narcissistic person that plays dangerous mind games she will learn in the end if she don’t get away from him.
what makes y’all think this? i just feel like they’re just young & in love and with that comes some toxicity but i feel like they’re growing. you can see the bond tho & he’s far better than anyone else she’s been with. how can he be a bum or using her when he constantly spoils her and treats her well? y’all gotta stop acting like people/relationships don’t have there flaws
@@sweetcandy244 you kinda answered your own question. Toxicity in a relationship is never good, no matter the age. The can have some hard times but actual toxicity is where you should draw the line. Especially at this age! Don’t waste your young years on all that!
A lot of people don’t realize that for most couples after the 2 year mark that’s when the real work starts. And yep you’re right there will be problems and bumps to work through. It don’t matter who you are! It’s delusional and a little egotistical to assume that things will just always flow naturally. So good for you, if it is meant to be I’m sure you guys will make it work🙂
You should read ATTACHED I just read it on audible. I learned so much about all the different attachment styles and how to deal with them. And I feel like the book could really help you two out in trying to understand each other more.
nah im rewatching this and now 70's style is trending hard. SIS get in your BAG and start a BRAND if you need to do this single then so be it don't hold yourself back.
Relationships are hard. I’m still working on mines. Setting boundaries and time apart is important. Teach people how to treat you. Me and him are in that phase to. I love you. Thank you for this candid conversation about your life! Xoxoxo it will get better !
Please buy a house. If you are throwing away 3-5k(+) a month then it will be very beneficial to buy a house. Yall are also still in the honeymoon phase and there really shouldn’t be this many issues. Please take that as a red flag. You also seem happier and more productive single. Take that as a sign.
@@ShakeraMonique i know that but she doesn’t live there . Therefore how is having a house and spending in rent beneficial when she could just buy another house. 2 assets right there.
I would keep that relationship personal! You know it’s individuals who don’t want the best for you! Your Family understands that! Thanks for sharing and I’m glad you’re in a better ( head/Love space)
So happy to hear that things are getting back to normal for you 2020 was a rough year but we managed to get through it with all the things that transpired in our lives! You guys are great for each other wishing you many more years together 🤞🏽💕
Everyone that says your "single" until you're married. Well don't get mad when your partner who you are not married to single handedly manage to entertain anything with human legs
I have been in and out of watching your videos for years so I don't know much about you or your personal business girl but looking through these comments... your supporters are awesome and REAL ones. They truly care about you and didn't hold back from giving you some real guidance. Good luck to you in your journey dear.
Consequences to every choice and decision we make. Sometimes things happen to teach us a lesson, it's up to us to learn and grow from them. Make the best of every situation. ✨ God continues to humbles us. No one is perfect.
It’s important and there’s nothing wrong with having a good man that supports you by your side. Don’t let anyone discourage you. I hope you guys get married, love y’all.
Stay moved out , living with your partner fins down the spark in not being together “ till death do us part” , long story short you get used to it. Keep that spark and don’t live together and firm itt. Then he’s gonna miss you 10x more and desire the need to get that ringgg
Aaliyah baby you know I LOVE YOU 😩♥️♥️ .. but you have got to stop acting like you weren’t the source of the confusion during that period . Your supporters been peeped that there were issues (hence y’all suddenly living apart) - but just figured you wanted to keep that private , so we supported that . It was you who got up and made a video basically saying we’re “nosy haters” and that we should stop assuming stuff , and y’all were never breaking up , etc .. 🥴
I honestly understand where you're coming from and I didn't know I needed to hear this until I heard it. I'm 18 going on 19 and I constantly struggle with the idea of love and relationships because I'm scared but when you said "if you really wanna be with each other then keep working at it" that made a lot of sense.
I mean she did say that they both went through a lot individually AND as a couple in 2020. Sometimes when you transform as an individual, it brings along a whole new set of boundaries and foundation to ALL of the surrounding relationships in your life, so I totally get it. And that transformation sometimes does require you to teach others how you deserve to be treated. She's still young and still exploring all of who she is, cut her some slack....
Sometimes once you live in it you no longer like it anymore. Another RUclipsr Tierra J, moved in and moved out in a new apartment within a month because of pest. You don’t know some times until you live in it.
Im glad you mentioned relationships being work. So often we get lost in the romanticism of it all, but that's not real life. We don't even fall in love... idk to me it's like you intentionally choose to be in it. It's about meeting someone who cares about you enough to put the work in with you.
That hairstyle is definitely coming back! The voluminous bouncy layers curled look is amazing! I love hairstyles from back in the days but the mullet sis is a no for me!
Sorry I have to be the one to say it but menelik gives me bad vibes and my gut feeling never lies. I don’t even watch videos of y’all together only ones of yourself. Hopefully you see yourself out of this one and learn why you’re attracting men like him ( no offense) your energy is so different in this relationship love you just want to see you flourish with or without him
Your actually speaking about an actual profession that pays veryy well depending on the fashion company. Called a Trend Forecaster. You work with the company/brand to determine next seasons trends when it comes to color/clothes/fabric/hair & anything inspirational. Those pple see the visions like you! You could def. Be one! 💕
Y’all better stop living for men !
TALK TO EM
Say it again.
LOUDER SIS!! ION THINK THEY HEARD YOU! 🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️
💪🏾💪🏾...They don't hear you!!!
🗣 Preach sis!
sis you become a whole new person when your in a relationship and THAT'S the problem, you should be "in your bag" with and without a man.
agreed. not just with her though, that happens with a lot of women in general
correct!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
“In your bag” also means “in your feelings” and that’s what she meant
Been following and loving you for YEARS..... but sis, you need to learn how to be alone. You don’t need a man to complete you. You’re young and beautiful and super successful. Your energy has been so off these past few months and we can see right through it. Please don’t let him be your downfall...you’ll be good on your own.
This! She’s codependent & hopefully it won’t be her downfall.
righttt 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
FACTSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS! It’s like she doesn’t know who she is unless she has a man
Faaaaaaaaact!!!!!
I’ve been watching you since you’re breast augmentation video until a few years ago when you became so codependent on men. Your whole energy changed. When you was single and moved back to NYC, i didn’t even know you was single until I noticed how happy and free you felt. Especially with your friends.
You may dislike a few things about your new apartment, but you only overall dislike it because your man is whining about coming back. You need to find yourself again. I wish you the very best but in a few years, I can see you finally seeing what your long time supporters are trying to tell you
Love isn’t suppose to hurt. It isn’t suppose to be hard. It’s not normal to “go through things” to the point where you want to run continuously. It’s not a job, it’s an experience. Love isn’t labor, Aaliyah Jay. It’s a rollercoaster, a ride, but a ride you come off wanting to do it again. If you remember nothing else, remember that
Beautiful statement Queen.
This was so beautiful ❤️
I hope this is what helped her see what she’s capable of.
I feel like the relationship with Menelik is taking a toll on you as a person. I feel like your pouring so much into it. You're always bringing men up that isn’t on your level. However, I’m not here to judge I’m just looking in. As a supporter, I think that you react off of your emotions too much and that is also why you in an apartment that you don’t like. You're a quick decision-maker which sometimes can be bad. Nevertheless, I wish you and Menelik the best but I think you should continue to put your energy into your Channel.
fr
Fact
If this relationship doesn’t work out she should stay single for a while, I feel like she’s afraid to be alone
“You’re always bringing men up that aren’t on your level” 👏🏾👏🏾
This!!!!
Girl drop that dead weight and boss up, because lets be honest you dont need him! I feel like your ruining your image and you could be doing alot better if you just focus on yourself.
My exact thoughts
Agreed
seriouslyyyyyy
I want women to know that yes relationships have challenging moments. But the relationship shouldn’t feel like you are constantly toiling. It is work, but it shouldn’t feel like a dead end job. Pay attention to how you feel.
Miss Mamas, i think i speak for us all when i say you disappointed us with this one. Can’t nobody tell you nothing bout your relationship, that’s facts. But, if you gone “BOSS UP” and be in your bag like you say was or do, then act on THAT. One thing about these men, THEY ALWAYS come back. You are the prize so act accordingly, you moved for a reason LA didn’t work, for a reason. Y’all still got work to do, your peace is that apartment whether he there everyday OR NOT, it’s yours. Love & Light sis!
Y'all Have To Get To The "ROOT" Of Y'all Problems, That Means Healing From Any Child Had Issues As Well As Present Issues, That Means Learning How To Be "By Yourselves" Teach You How To Love You Heal & Love You First, Must Relationships Don't Survive Because Of Past & Present Pain That Never Get Addressed 😊
We as women always tend settle because 1:we don’t want the man to be with someone else 2:we don’t feel like there is some else out there that’s better for us 3:we always allow the man to disregard the boundaries there set in place because of insecurities....
Please baby girl I know you are young but please don’t waste your time with someone that you already know it’s not going to work then years down the road your shaking your head all because you wanted to be in a relationship..There is a lot of good advice in the comments ,please take heed! Live your life ! Time weights for no one🙂
Dang I tell my friends this ALL THE TIME. I NEVER hesitate to leave. EVER. I mean look at me! Fuck that nigga PERIODT. ✨
@@HannahAlexanderia 🗣 OK ! PEEEERRRRIODDDDD!!!🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️
Sis, start taking some time out to talk to God - especially when you’re feeling overly emotional.
ppl need to understand this!
Yes! Thank you 🙏🏽
I NEEDED this!
Yessssss! It is the cure, I'm sorry HE is the cure 💕
Yess! I agree
1. I liked Menelik better when we didn’t know what he looked like or sounded like. I don’t like his influence or presence on this channel at all anymore and in my opinion it has caused your energy and content to take a toll as well.
2. Did I miss something? The last video we seen you seemed really excited about this new apartment. You just moved in so hopefully you’ll be able to make it YOU soon🥺
3. I agree with everyone else in the comments. You seem different and not in a good way. I’m not gonna speak on anything specific cause we never know what’s going on behind closed doors but I really hope you’re you again soon and you find the guidance and light that you deserve ❤️
Omg I was just about to say this!!!!
I think she’s different because of the guy she messed around with while “single”. He’s put their business out in social media and the blogs and i think she’s embarrassed by it. And i think it’s hard seeing her personal life everywhere and probably trying to explain that to menelik.
Ladies 💛 you’re single until you’re married 😂 no but fr
Yes date them all 😂🤣
That’s the mindset of someone who doesn’t want to be committed
Lol this is funny cause this guy I talk to says the exact same thing
@@kenadidias8391 oh well do you love. Too many young girls get so head sprung over a man when in reality there is no official commitment.
Loll
Sis, get on your Lori Harvey! You're so bomb and deserve more!! You in your 20's live it tf up!! ✌🏾
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for her to get on her Lori Harvey, she would have to drop the dead weight and play the field, and she's not ready to do either
Lori Harvey is no one to look up to, she’s a pass around and now she’s in a fake publicity relationship to make herself and MbJ look better.
@@MyChannel-ul3tm who said anything about looking up to her? 🤣🤣🤣🤣
MyChannel exactly! If you look up to that chick then u need to check ya self. Pass around big time.
You’ll forever be the relatable girl I’m so glad I’ve found when I was a teenager
I feel like the energy shifted from vlogmas up until now🤷🏽♀️
I was thinking the same thing.
Same. She was spending time with family and friends and then it switched to that
@@gabby3626 like yeah all of a sudden you hate your apartment your were just so happy to buy furniture and decorate I like her videos but I feel like something is off these past few videos it’s like she feels the need to keep explaining her relationship, she just doesn’t seem genuinely happy like she did in the past few videos
lol a relationship should definitely not be like a job or even compared to thats bad stop forcing it to work if it’s not meant to be then let it go you are young still have so much ahead of yourself
words to live by! a relationship is not a job, a marriage is! there is no ring and no child, she should not be half as stressed. smh
straight facts
I was going to say this... cus some days I hate my job😂😂😂 I don’t want those vibes in my relationship.
Yes !! I was def confused like girl I’m married and SOMETIMES it feels like a job but ya jus dating 😕 that’s concerning ! But some of these people in the comments it’s going over their heads.
@@MartinaTina91 yes because they young minded
Aaliyah, sis, it's none of my business but you need to run..... find someone that is low key, wealthy and not on the ’scene’ and doesn't want to be ’seen’. It will flow much better and won't be as hard and you can be you, who you are truly and they won't care bc they have their own thing to be them in their own lane. Be open to who you date, there's so much out there; we just have to be open. Wish you both well.
!!!!! This.
Jayla Michele I agree! He's too braggy and that comes off so tacky and immature. She needs a grown man
This & also be ok with being single . It’s not a bad thing
Does Menelik have anything to do with you not liking your apartment? Its looks perfectly fine. Unless your trying to keep up with a lifestyle ?
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I love the apartment. I'm not able to upgrade to anything up to date yet. I have to make due what I can afford lol. And it's nice to see someone on her level inspire ppl like me or others it's okay. None the less I think the apartment is not bad at all. It kind of looks like the last apartment.
Most likely because I heard him in the background of a previous video talking about it until she cut it off
This is Auntie here. Menelik is playing mind games with her and he is dangerously narcissistic about it.
She can’t see it because she trust him. If she goes to her father and explain everything to him what’s going on her father will put a stop to it before he uses her up and uses her money up.
@@marciaminter9700 smh shes young and hes playing with her head and money,when she lived in LA she always seem irritated and frustrated with him in the videos, but hey everybody so open on RUclips, some stuf need to be kept private...
If I’m understanding correctly... you got your apt just to show him that you didn’t need him? Lol now that you’re back together you hate it? You bought a house to move to an apt in LA and loved it so much that you moved back to Ny? Make it make sense for us sis..
Exactly 🤦🏽♀️
Omg that’s exactly what it seems like 😳😳
Right!!!
I've being SINGLE for long period and am Loving it ... Ladies invest in yourself much as you can STOP living for men trust me they ain't worth it 🖐🏽
Yes! 💯
If menelik dont like the apt just say that 😩😂
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Fr ‼️‼️😂😂
He wants to live off of Aaliyah that is his total revenge.
Right , cuz before she put him back in the vlogs she was excited af or maybe I was just high
@@sosincere1212 and in one of her vlogs a few weeks ago you can hear him in the background complaining about the apt.
When you did the apartment tour I definitely felt like it wasn’t your style. Hopefully you can make it your own with the furniture you like.
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I think the apartment is nice in the sense that its such a good location like right in the middle of the city and the view looks nice but I completely agree
@@anamersi4888 it’s like the perfect apartment for one single person. & location is bomb
But this apartment is Aaliyah without menelik . Y’all must only be used to her with menelik
Menelik got in your head about your current apartment. You can still live your best sex and the city life. Periodt.
What he say?
@@Msanonymouslady menelik gtfoh & go get your own shit.
When you moved in I was a bit shocked. I was like this doesn’t look Aaliyah Jay-ish.. I could tell it was a quick decision.
It was the living room furniture for me 🤔
Same thing I was just thinking!! I’m thinking “she went from that apartment in LA to that?” Regardless, I was happy for her, but something was definitely off.
@@nehemie1255 it was the chair wasn’t it? Lol I said hmm it’s just not coming together like I know she could have
@@Hope_lyss same! Still happy of course
I THOUGHT SO TOO.
Get a therapist
Your LA apartment was so nice .. but to me it seems like a bad business decision .. like lots of money being thrown out the window
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Agreed!!
it was a hole in her pocket, and she made waaaay less content there tbh
@@ye23. 12k/month
@@ye23. she’s not rich rich but she makes a good amount of money. She said so In her last video it was expensive and they decided to move back to nyc during covid because the service was cut to protect the stafff and it was expensive for no reason. She left for finical reasons.
I make my boyfriend watch Aaliyah’s videos with me and he’s ALWAYS asking what menelik does for a living!! 😩 I feel like she should be single she doesn’t need anyone bringing her down and honestly he’s giving me piggyback vibes
Yes! It’s giving me very much Queen and her boyfriend!
girl bye ...welcome to the real world 😫 get up and make your own breakfast lol
Exactly she needs to stay humble, I really don’t hope she sticks with this attitude girl she acting ewwwww. I been watching her since she was in her bedroom she better remember where she came from and who her true fans are. Some people are homeless and she complaining about that, girrrrrrl. Ok rant over just didn’t want to make my own comment but I totally agree. This was annoying as hell.
I feel like shes trying to be someone shes not. Cones off as pretentious
Girl you’re Gods child that’s how you’re able to speak life. Better know who your father is to truly know who you are
How u know her relationship with God to say she’s His
@@Isrealbeauty what?🤦🏽♀️😂
@@malnlu25 what do u mean what .. ? How r u confused
@@malnlu25 just because God created doesn’t mean ur His .. is she even a spiritual person because I don’t get that from her I’m just being honest
Do you know your father, do you really have a relationship with him??
I do that’s how I know 💛
Girl we knew u were single, soon as you started saying "My Apartment" over and over lmao. Sis we know you
Lol Aaliyah... everyone knows Fashion ALWAYS repeats itself like every 10yrs.
@@inonge1555 loooool comprehension is key.
I Keep Hearing You Say We Have To Teach Each Other How To Love/Deal Each Other, You Can't Teach Old Pain How To Love, When One Heals & "KNOW THYSELF" Then You KNOW How To Love Others, Know That Every Being On This Planet Has Experienced Pain & Life Don't Always Show Us Or Gave Us Time To Heal, Unfortunately "The Tell -Lie-Vision/Society Make Feel Like Being In A Relationship Will Solve Everything, Must Relationships Don't Survive Because Of Past & Present Baggage... Love Doesn't Hurt/Pain Is Lust 😊
Women need to stop settling for struggle relationships & trying to raise grown men. Speaking from experience it’s a waste, also emotionally & mentally draining.
I’ve been married three years and we still learning from each other. If it’s worth it, fight for it.
Hey Queen, Peace and light to you. The more you get to know your husband the better the compromises will be for you and him fight for your marriage you feel it in your heart. Aaliyah is in a dangerous game with him he is a narcissistic mind player and he is playing this game on her.
@@marciaminter9700 not trying to be rude or anything I’m just wondering why you think he’s narcissistic. I also don’t like Menelik tho I feel like he’s childish and not man enough for Aaliyah
@@ammebee16 No problem queen narcissistic personalities Narcissistic personality disorder is found more commonly in men. The cause is unknown but likely involves a combination of genetic and environmental factors.
Symptoms include an excessive need for admiration, disregard for others' feelings, an inability to handle any criticism, and a sense of entitlement.
I’m glad she’s taking accountability but “I get really emotional and break down” isn’t going to cut it. I hope she gets help bc she isn’t a child and effective communication and not making decisions on impulse will help her in the long run. She can’t keep running from the internet and letting other ppl write her story for her. She did good cleaning up the rumors this time. She also seemed more productive when she was single bc she had no choice but to get herself together.
Having a real relationship is a job, people need to understand this isn’t high school, real relationship, real situations, real love
Is anyone else confused? One minute you with dude all happy, lovey and stuff then you saying you single. It ain’t my business and you don’t have to explain but your actions are giving mixed messages and it feels like you just trying to get views. Both of you need to find out who you are individually and then try to work it out. If he ain’t for you, don’t settle just because it comfortable.
Chini66 she don’t know what she want
She said she WAS single. She said they have decided to be together now, you can hear him in the background.
Sounds like she’s stuck in a toxic relationship and she doesn’t want to admit it
"I was London Tipton in that bitch!" Lmaoooo Purrrr. Seriously, I watched you grow to the success where you're at now and I'm fucking proud of you! Continue living your life to the fullest Joy😩 It Girl for real! 😍✨
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I literally read this as she said it that’s crazy😂😂😂😂
As soon as i read this she said it too😭😭 im fucking weak
I remember when Aaliyah Jay didn’t use foundation only concealer, and her makeup was still flawless.
And she didn’t put makeup on her forehead
I knew you weren’t going to be the most fond of this new apartment especially coming from the LA luxury apartment, but getting this apartment and living on your own is such a big step so that’s a big positive way to look at it! 💕
Cut your Keurig on 10 mins before making the coffee, longer you let the water heat the hotter it will be or warm your creamer in the microwave before adding to coffee.
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Great advice omg
Thanks!
Idk. I like the bond you two display but I like single Aaliyah. She makes her own decisions and didn’t second guess herself for no man
We loved single Aaliyah!
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Definitely
Yes but sometimes she should consider being alone when she’s single, you don’t gotta date all the time
@@shaythareal2382 yep agreed! the reason shes been unhappy lately is because her soul is over that relationship. Her energy has been extremely heavy lately.just watch apt hunting video to the conetent after he returned... BEEN THERE, choose YOU a because When the heart isnt happy everything else in life will reflect that.
@@goddessinnerg9744 no I think she’s honestly tired of that boy exposing their videos he even posted a video of him bathing her.
“It’s really early”
time: 12 pm
LMAOOO
Yeah I was like wait whet 😂😂
That fact that y’all really in these comments giving her relationship advise is beyond me🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I know u miss ur la apt but the money u will save for ur own house is better in the long run!
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she "bought" her own home a few years ago. but im thinking now it was all lies
She def bought that house her family lives in it. Some of y’all are not family oriented and it shows. Now she’s older of course she wants a house that’s solely her own
You need to learn to control your emotions but I guess that’s part of learning and growing ... we still here to support you sis
She’s a cancer ♋️ we can’t 🥴😂
Girl try being a cancer for a dam day shit im tired of myself more time😭😭
@@shanygnepowell I be exhausted dealing with myself 😂😂😂
Nobody can control their emotions the only thing we can control is how we respond to them and act them out.
@@SimplyBeauLLC LEARN
love your transparency , wishing you the best on your journey aaliyah. just don’t forget about you and what’s best for you 🙏🏾🤍
I could see you living in the apartments that Jayla Koriyan was living in. It was giving very much luxury vibes
Facts. Her view and everything was amazing
@@Tamika2363 yesss, it made me want to move there fr😭
I kept thinking this the whole time she was showing her new place. That place was breathtaking
I think Joy was going for location more than anything and the 'fancy' locations always have tiny spaces but higher prices.
She’s so pretty without makeup😍
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I’m sorry, Aaliyah. This might be an unpopular opinion but, you should not have to teach someone how to treat you. Yall should have enough respect and knowledge about each other to know what y’all need.
That’s not what she’s saying. What she’s saying is sometimes when you get in a relationship you may not know automatically that the person you’re with has certain love languages and triggers. Not everyone can and should be loved the same. You have to learn your partner and vice versa and with learning comes teaching. Example: when you have multiple kids (or siblings ) i guarantee you they all or you all don’t need to be loved the same way. One child may be more independent and disciplined and may need a parent to be more laid back or it’s upsetting while the other child may be more dependent and unmotivated and they may need the constant reminders. That’s what she’s saying. U have to learn your child and your partner and they have to teach you how and what they want
@@sevenrue4754 💯 musiq sound child “teach me how to show me the way to surrender my heart” . You definitely have to learn your partner and I find that those that do they’re the best of friends and tend to have long lasting love.
Let’s stop acting like everyone is perfect
@@rosalynbryanna7465 no one is saying it will be perfect.
I see what you’re saying but I do think you have to teach your partner how to love you.. you are two separate individuals coming together, with two different upbringings.. Your needs are going to be different. So if both parties can come together respectfully and learn each other you can sustain a healthy relationship
I really love and respect that you're so honest and don't tell people what they want to hear but tell the truth. I'm a cancer as well and incredibly emotional I've made good and bad decisions but I wouldn't take any of them back. Happy that you're in a stable relationship whenever things go bad work it out!
Single until I get a ring on my finger
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Idk but her apartment look old fashion and only the bathrooms look more modern for her. Plus the apartment tour she should’ve chosen the 3rd or i think the 2nd apartment. I’ve also feel like she rushed it . An apartment is a big step when living alone.
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I agree. The old fashion look was shocking to me. I couldn’t believe she was choosing that apartment. But maybe some furniture will make it more “her” if not I think she should leave. No point in staying somewhere you don’t want to be.
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@@mayacincosa6975 no body said her apartment is bad , it’s just not for her and her lifestyle, she said it herself. And if that was the case she should’ve just stayed home and save her money if she couldn’t buy what she wanted cause now she’s saying she doesn’t like how her apartment is moving
i thought i was the only one. this apartment is definitely not fitting for her
Yes the farrah Fawcett hair is coming back. It was popular in early 2010s too when girls were getting sew ins with leave outs
I said the same thing. Some people never left it behind though. Lol.
Girl...my mouth is dropped. The 70 styles hair is trending rn!!!!!! Girl.....ur a Queen😭 I’m just rlly shook rn bc it’s trending on Tik Tok rn.💀
I wish you didn’t broadcast that you were moving into an apartment or told menelick about it because I wonder if that bum would’ve came back to you. He’s using you Aaliyah. Wake up and stop being codependent
Preach and everything that she is talking about sounds rehearsed because he is a narcissistic person that plays dangerous mind games she will learn in the end if she don’t get away from him.
Hes draining her, she trying so hard to keep up with him!!!
exactly
what makes y’all think this? i just feel like they’re just young & in love and with that comes some toxicity but i feel like they’re growing. you can see the bond tho & he’s far better than anyone else she’s been with. how can he be a bum or using her when he constantly spoils her and treats her well? y’all gotta stop acting like people/relationships don’t have there flaws
@@sweetcandy244 you kinda answered your own question. Toxicity in a relationship is never good, no matter the age. The can have some hard times but actual toxicity is where you should draw the line. Especially at this age! Don’t waste your young years on all that!
A lot of people don’t realize that for most couples after the 2 year mark that’s when the real work starts. And yep you’re right there will be problems and bumps to work through. It don’t matter who you are! It’s delusional and a little egotistical to assume that things will just always flow naturally. So good for you, if it is meant to be I’m sure you guys will make it work🙂
I agree. My relationship changed in year 3 and has gotten 100x stronger ever since. Definitely a huge difference from when we first started.
You should read ATTACHED
I just read it on audible. I learned so much about all the different attachment styles and how to deal with them. And I feel like the book could really help you two out in trying to understand each other more.
nah im rewatching this and now 70's style is trending hard. SIS get in your BAG and start a BRAND if you need to do this single then so be it don't hold yourself back.
Are we not gonna talk about how she predicted the trending hairstyle in the beginning at 9:26....it’s currently trending rn y’all💀
I kept looking at the apartment like, nah, this ain’t you lol
Relationships are hard. I’m still working on mines. Setting boundaries and time apart is important. Teach people how to treat you. Me and him are in that phase to. I love you. Thank you for this candid conversation about your life! Xoxoxo it will get better !
Please buy a house. If you are throwing away 3-5k(+) a month then it will be very beneficial to buy a house. Yall are also still in the honeymoon phase and there really shouldn’t be this many issues. Please take that as a red flag. You also seem happier and more productive single. Take that as a sign.
She already bought a house, her family live in it...
@@ShakeraMonique i know that but she doesn’t live there . Therefore how is having a house and spending in rent beneficial when she could just buy another house. 2 assets right there.
@@Draiyable urrm no.
I would keep that relationship personal! You know it’s individuals who don’t want the best for you!
Your Family understands that! Thanks for sharing and I’m glad you’re in a better ( head/Love space)
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Apartment looks amazing beautiful as always be grateful babe a lot of women would switch w you and Covid showed me nothing is guaranteed
I would love to live there! 🙌🏾
The 70s hairstyle is already trendy. It’s all over TikTok
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@@meltedmelanin882 People are saying "Farrah Fawcett."
Girl listen when you showed this apt .. I wasn’t feeling it and I say watch she don’t like how this place look
I want her to be single because more blessings and more motivation. When you’re in love ... it’s a sidetrack. Girl, do you !
Right again! I see the 70’s style hair making a comeback like you predicted 🙄💗
Speak to god, pray , & meditate !!! That’s what you need to make a priority building a relationship with GOD SIS !! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
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I’m a cancer so I feel you people often misunderstand us ! I’m glad I am running into more cancers that I can relate to . 💓
“He wasn’t racist against me.” 🥴💀
Thought it was just me. 🤦🏽♀️😂🤣😅
@@natasha9561 naw, sis! 😂🤣😅
She just means he didn’t SAY anything to her.
yea that was the dumbest sh*t to say 🤦🏾♀️
So happy to hear that things are getting back to normal for you 2020 was a rough year but we managed to get through it with all the things that transpired in our lives! You guys are great for each other wishing you many more years together 🤞🏽💕
Everyone that says your "single" until you're married. Well don't get mad when your partner who you are not married to single handedly manage to entertain anything with human legs
I have been in and out of watching your videos for years so I don't know much about you or your personal business girl but looking through these comments... your supporters are awesome and REAL ones. They truly care about you and didn't hold back from giving you some real guidance. Good luck to you in your journey dear.
Consequences to every choice and decision we make. Sometimes things happen to teach us a lesson, it's up to us to learn and grow from them. Make the best of every situation. ✨ God continues to humbles us. No one is perfect.
It’s important and there’s nothing wrong with having a good man that supports you by your side. Don’t let anyone discourage you. I hope you guys get married, love y’all.
you can tell by the puffy eyes that you’ve been crying 😭 stay strong girl
you were right about the 70s hairstyle.
Stay moved out , living with your partner fins down the spark in not being together “ till death do us part” , long story short you get used to it. Keep that spark and don’t live together and firm itt. Then he’s gonna miss you 10x more and desire the need to get that ringgg
exactly! this is what she should do. you can’t give husband luxuries to a boyfriend.
The intro got me lol , “Imma mF MONSTAAAh” *Nicki voice* 😊😊😅
Why y’all mad she prefers the LUXURY apartment over her new one like damn
Aaliyah baby you know I LOVE YOU 😩♥️♥️ .. but you have got to stop acting like you weren’t the source of the confusion during that period . Your supporters been peeped that there were issues (hence y’all suddenly living apart) - but just figured you wanted to keep that private , so we supported that . It was you who got up and made a video basically saying we’re “nosy haters” and that we should stop assuming stuff , and y’all were never breaking up , etc .. 🥴
That was mad lotion 😂😂. Love ya Girl 💓
I honestly understand where you're coming from and I didn't know I needed to hear this until I heard it. I'm 18 going on 19 and I constantly struggle with the idea of love and relationships because I'm scared but when you said "if you really wanna be with each other then keep working at it" that made a lot of sense.
you still haven’t posted the mullet 🙄🙄🙄🙄
I just realized that!!
I truly hope you both find happiness...I have gone through this with my now husband and we have been together for 15 years 💖
That braided wig is not it
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Lmaooooo right
I mean she did say that they both went through a lot individually AND as a couple in 2020. Sometimes when you transform as an individual, it brings along a whole new set of boundaries and foundation to ALL of the surrounding relationships in your life, so I totally get it. And that transformation sometimes does require you to teach others how you deserve to be treated. She's still young and still exploring all of who she is, cut her some slack....
Now sis how you hate this apartment. That you was so in love with. Make it make sense
She toured the place and everything. Lololol. Girl bye.
😂😂😂 I’m saying !
I’m starting to get annoyed with the flip flopping lately!
@@MartinaTina91 damn she can’t change her mind??😂
Sometimes once you live in it you no longer like it anymore. Another RUclipsr Tierra J, moved in and moved out in a new apartment within a month because of pest. You don’t know some times until you live in it.
@@BlameitonKhia she absolutely can but my comment was mainly in general lately she just been flip flopping 🤷🏽♀️.
Im glad you mentioned relationships being work. So often we get lost in the romanticism of it all, but that's not real life. We don't even fall in love... idk to me it's like you intentionally choose to be in it. It's about meeting someone who cares about you enough to put the work in with you.
That's right girl...live in your truth....don't let the haters write your story for you.... Happiness is the best revenge!
You guys also need to have that time away from each other instead of automatically moving him in with you again.
You are spot on Aaliyah. Michelle Obama rocked the “Farrah Fawcett”curls at the inauguration and now it’s trending....Congratulations!🥰
That hairstyle is definitely coming back! The voluminous bouncy layers curled look is amazing! I love hairstyles from back in the days but the mullet sis is a no for me!
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Ain’t nothing wrong with missing the best of the best cus I’d be crying honestly 😂
Sorry I have to be the one to say it but menelik gives me bad vibes and my gut feeling never lies. I don’t even watch videos of y’all together only ones of yourself. Hopefully you see yourself out of this one and learn why you’re attracting men like him ( no offense) your energy is so different in this relationship love you just want to see you flourish with or without him
No hate but Aaliyah looking like Francine from Arthur lately..
Kinda reminds me of botox 🥴🤷🏾♀️
Yea!
LMAOO you rude asf 😭😭
@@youngblisslife4308 yes her face is stiff as hell. She was prettier natural
It's those lip injections and the weight gain combined lol
Your actually speaking about an actual profession that pays veryy well depending on the fashion company. Called a Trend Forecaster. You work with the company/brand to determine next seasons trends when it comes to color/clothes/fabric/hair & anything inspirational. Those pple see the visions like you! You could def. Be one! 💕