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  • Опубликовано: 8 ноя 2024

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  • @FrankJames
    @FrankJames  2 года назад +2725

    subscribe for mac n cheese

    • @StephanieJeanne
      @StephanieJeanne 2 года назад +32

      What if we're already subscribed, do we get a case of linguini?😉

    • @talyahfeigenbaum9486
      @talyahfeigenbaum9486 2 года назад +15

      @@StephanieJeanne I think in this case we are allowed to order any kind of pasta...
      Question is, what else is on the menu??

    • @bunny8148
      @bunny8148 2 года назад +8

      come on i already feel single enough after yesterday-

    • @Sunset553
      @Sunset553 2 года назад +7

      i ate my stouffers mac n cheese yesterday. i’m saving the gluten free mac n cheese for a special occasion, like teevee night Wednesday

    • @StephanieJeanne
      @StephanieJeanne 2 года назад +4

      @@talyahfeigenbaum9486 😹Yeah.

  • @SomeNerd970
    @SomeNerd970 2 года назад +11133

    "Because I'm tired all the time even when I get a full night's rest."
    I feel this pain very deeply.

    • @louisejoel
      @louisejoel 2 года назад +132

      I do all my best thinking at 2am

    • @edennis8578
      @edennis8578 2 года назад +110

      @@louisejoel Yes! Ever since high school, I noticed that I get my best ideas at 2-3 am. I'm 67 and it's still true, dammit.

    • @NoopyP
      @NoopyP 2 года назад +63

      I actually realized I tend to feel more tired if I have more sleep, but I'm very sleep-deprived and tired in generarl

    • @louisejoel
      @louisejoel 2 года назад +9

      @@NoopyP Ever been tested for sleep apnoea?

    • @NoopyP
      @NoopyP 2 года назад +35

      @@louisejoel Um, no... But the main reason I'm sleep-deprived is that I go to bed late, take forever to actually fall asleep and then have to wake up rather early.

  • @solviviflores2904
    @solviviflores2904 2 года назад +7841

    "I'm fine. I just have a perpetually disappointed looking face"
    😂😂😂 Accurate

    • @liddellsoul3344
      @liddellsoul3344 2 года назад +15

      sammeee

    • @WolfoxBR
      @WolfoxBR 2 года назад +22

      Yup. That's me alright.

    • @thirstwithoutborders995
      @thirstwithoutborders995 2 года назад +33

      I am perpetually disappointed though. My fine is other people's depressed.

    • @emanuelmayer
      @emanuelmayer 2 года назад +25

      my RBF ... but translated: "Resting (already) bored face"

    • @emmanelson5363
      @emmanelson5363 2 года назад +36

      I knoooow. People always ask me why I look sad. I just always look sad. 😆😆😆

  • @Ada-Wong.
    @Ada-Wong. 2 года назад +6441

    My introvert insecurities are when people don’t think I have a personality just because I don’t voice my opinion.

    • @wolfseddais
      @wolfseddais 2 года назад +457

      Same here. I've gotten used to being called boring because I don't open up right away...but then, it's usually an extrovert saying it.
      "You don't need to be so quiet so the time."
      "I'm not intentionally quiet. It just takes a little bit for me to open up."
      "Don't you trust me? Aren't we friends?"
      Hm. I should stop before I go too far. xD

    • @Ada-Wong.
      @Ada-Wong. 2 года назад +142

      @@wolfseddais it’s mostly because I don’t have the energy to, so I just agree that way I’m not pushed more. I haven’t been lucky enough to be adopted by an extrovert tho :(

    • @nadineobrien2095
      @nadineobrien2095 2 года назад +107

      Who cares what they think? If anyone says anything to me about how quiet I am, I just smile and wave and say something like I'm happy just listening, or Once I start talking, I forget to shut up or just admit I'm socially awkward Lol They usually go away after that.

    • @sizzyw5034
      @sizzyw5034 2 года назад +32

      (Turns out you can't just type nothing and send it)

    • @lengsuyurio2245
      @lengsuyurio2245 2 года назад +11

      Why is this so accurate

  • @manasivranade
    @manasivranade 2 года назад +756

    "If you propose to me in a public place, or really anywhere other than the living room, I will say No."
    I feel this strongly.😁

    • @Bellatrix2606
      @Bellatrix2606 2 года назад +7

      What about proposing in the bedroom?!

    • @manasivranade
      @manasivranade 2 года назад +6

      @@Bellatrix2606 lol It's private. So works, I guess...😅

    • @aidafuentesv
      @aidafuentesv Год назад +8

      Taylor swift wrote Champagne Problems for us, public proposals. Should be ilegal

    • @sophiekotlc6396
      @sophiekotlc6396 Год назад +2

      Ikr!!

    • @miriamrobarts
      @miriamrobarts 6 месяцев назад +1

      Obviously, they don't know you well enough yet.
      Also smashed cake in the face at the reception = annulment

  • @rebeccalopez3397
    @rebeccalopez3397 Год назад +85

    “Changing clothes because they make me seem friendly and approachable” 😂 got me good

  • @LadyStella99
    @LadyStella99 2 года назад +5164

    "He didn't respond to my text message for 30 minutes so I assumed the relationship was over."
    This is painfully accurate 😂😂😂

  • @Runner466
    @Runner466 2 года назад +1555

    “Our anniversary is coming up, maybe you should book a weekend getaway for you and the boy, so I can have some time to myself.” Omg that’s me 100% 🤣🤣🤣

    • @bronwynreijnders7205
      @bronwynreijnders7205 2 года назад +30

      This spoke to me! I recently asked my roommate to please go on holiday so I could have the house to myself 🤣

    • @Kattywagon29
      @Kattywagon29 2 года назад +14

      I mean, I'm no introvert, but that sounds good to me! LOL

    • @Vegoonery
      @Vegoonery 2 года назад +6

      .....I literally asked my husband to leave the house for a weekend, or let me go spend a weekend by myself. We've been together for 16 years, so he gets that it's not personal. This is the only time I've asked for this. Im going to study, clean, make some food for me and my dog and watch a movie 😊.

    • @angieang26
      @angieang26 2 года назад +6

      @@Vegoonery my husband is social and I have social anxiety. And when he's somewhere talking to people when we on vacations. Or even neighbors he makes it a point to tell me. I don't care who he talks to. He just like to put it in my face how more social he is than I am. He talks to people and I don't. I will only talk to people if they talk to me first.

    • @jaimepiano1985
      @jaimepiano1985 Год назад +1

      We have four sons and have been married 16 years, but the line still works!😂

  • @BagelTwist
    @BagelTwist 2 года назад +5452

    I’m loving this new female character you’ve been featuring lately, definitely want her to be a regular! I kinda ship her and Chuck though, not gonna lie - they’d be perfect together 😂

    • @nomadicgamer9466
      @nomadicgamer9466 2 года назад +63

      Oh my gosh!! But yeah .. it .. totally makes sense.

    • @BagelTwist
      @BagelTwist 2 года назад +37

      Glad it’s not just me, lol!

    • @grim.sleeper
      @grim.sleeper 2 года назад +22

      dude yess

    • @fernandagardeleo7045
      @fernandagardeleo7045 2 года назад +34

      Wait...aren't they together?? Hahaha

    • @ceilinh6004
      @ceilinh6004 2 года назад +21

      Just as long as you're not shipping her with Chip. Because while they would probably get along perfectly well, it would be weird.

  • @nonamelast3113
    @nonamelast3113 Год назад +128

    "I have the perfect night planned out...so don't interfere."
    0:21
    I'm so dead because that's me described in one line.
    It's as if we introverts know that the most chill date we can ever have is with ourselves.

  • @vitoriarocha2554
    @vitoriarocha2554 2 года назад +357

    "I like my relationships like I like my microwavable mac'n'cheese: probably not healthy for me, but way too practical to quit, and very hot, but with some frozen pieces still in the middle there."
    I can totally relate to that.

  • @kattissmall8373
    @kattissmall8373 2 года назад +4714

    Well. If someone proposes in public to a highly introverted person they have just proven they don’t know their partner at all. Red flag. I would not say yes to such a person.
    Also this proposing in public thing is very odd. Why involve a bunch of random strangers?
    Another thing that is sooo odd to me is hiding an engagement ring in food and serving it to the person. Do they want them to lose their teeth or do they hope they will choke to death? Seems very aggressive to me.

    • @deconstructing7307
      @deconstructing7307 2 года назад +303

      16 Personalities as Villains Proposing.

    • @boruverse1774
      @boruverse1774 2 года назад +61

      Agreed

    • @daebak_hana
      @daebak_hana 2 года назад +19

      🎯🤣

    • @Ophelia702
      @Ophelia702 2 года назад +77

      This reasoning is sound and I like it😌

    • @CPage-oj1zz
      @CPage-oj1zz 2 года назад +186

      I'm extroverted and I'd say no too, but I suspect for different reasons. 1. Nobody is peer pressuring me into marraige. 2 (I can't stress enough that this is the main reason) you can't consummate an engagement in a restaurant.

  • @dd9911
    @dd9911 2 года назад +476

    "If you propose to me in public.. I will say no"
    Words I said to my husband when I realized he was on that thought train.. 🤣

    • @joyalexandru1393
      @joyalexandru1393 2 года назад +18

      Same here! Luckily, he already knew better.

    • @Shan.naekpopismyjam1526
      @Shan.naekpopismyjam1526 2 года назад +18

      This is soo me every time I watch a TV show/drama and they propose in public I'm like why you don't know if they are going to say yes so pls do I. Private for the love of god

  • @Neversaynever64
    @Neversaynever64 2 года назад +487

    Lol. Asking someone anything personal in public is an automatic "hell no".

    • @andeeanko7079
      @andeeanko7079 2 года назад +19

      My ex proposed to me in front of his entire family at Christmas! 😮

    • @Neversaynever64
      @Neversaynever64 2 года назад +49

      @@andeeanko7079 and that explains a lot about the "ex" reason in this comment. Lol

    • @patriciarose2342
      @patriciarose2342 2 года назад +27

      Sad confession here: my ex proposed on one knee in a restaurant. I didn't know what to say so I said yes to not embarrass him. I tried to break it off several times but was unsuccessful. After it was announced he and family took the reins. Then I bought a last minute wedding dress. It was so last minute that only my mother could alter it. Then somehow I made it to the altar. 7 years later I was divorced. Longest years of my life. Wrong person???🤔

    • @Neversaynever64
      @Neversaynever64 2 года назад +15

      @@patriciarose2342 Sensing an "ex" theme. Been there done that, learned to say "hell no" after too many trials by fire. Learned it the hard way. At this point in my life it's on them after I explicitly tell everyone in my life, never surprise me in a public way. If they do, then it's over.

    • @patriciarose2342
      @patriciarose2342 2 года назад +10

      @@Neversaynever64 good idea. I hate surprises. Love anticipation.

  • @Gabriela-sp8vw
    @Gabriela-sp8vw 2 года назад +123

    I relate do many of these. When I was in university dorm, my roommates always said at the end of the weekends , sadly "We have to go home :(" , feeling bad for me staying alone for the weekend, but those weekends were the best for me. The moments when I was alone in the dorm room or when I could call a friend and not feel stressed If i disturb or the need to be careful what to say.... I don't know why people feel sorry for us, those who can find comfort and happiness in our rooms and in our small group of 2, maximum 3. I am glad that after all these years I can understand and accept that I am this way, an introvert.

  • @tigerlily2519
    @tigerlily2519 2 года назад +19

    Accurate! I've always felt like there was something wrong with me or I was doing relationships wrong so it's really encouraging to see someone be really confident about it and it not be seen as a bad thing, just different. Thank you!!

    • @okochanwamaka1585
      @okochanwamaka1585 2 года назад +2

      We are in the same boat. I get told by a lot of people that the way I think is wrong or that I'm childish. I get asked if I have trauma etc.. blah blah but I've come to accept and love myself no matter what people say. God loves me too, soo yeah I know I'm awesome.❤😋. Stay strong

  • @ArmednotTriggered
    @ArmednotTriggered 2 года назад +678

    I figured it out. I, an INFJ, married an INTJ. He's the only human that can sit with me for three hours in total silence without either of us asking if we're okay. It's glorious. Oh, and we carve out alone time separately every night.

    • @galaxylucia1898
      @galaxylucia1898 2 года назад +70

      I am so happy for you two!!! That honestly sounds like the perfect romantic relationship🥰

    • @campbell1446
      @campbell1446 2 года назад +49

      Sounds like heaven.

    • @JujuWoman_TheHealingFairyNg
      @JujuWoman_TheHealingFairyNg 2 года назад +20

      Bliss

    • @yoongistongue4163
      @yoongistongue4163 2 года назад +31

      this sounds like the only kind of relationship i would accept... so happy for you

    • @pc6461
      @pc6461 2 года назад +9

      You are truly blessed

  • @lauramayfair7887
    @lauramayfair7887 2 года назад +378

    47 year old INFP here. Single. And I have no desire to be in a relationship. My friends find this very odd. I don't understand why the world thinks everyone is meant to be part of a pair. I relate to this video!

    • @Neversaynever64
      @Neversaynever64 2 года назад +57

      I agree! I am happier now than I have been in any relationship. I have not been in a relationship for going on 12 years now and VERY happy. To me, being in a relationship has proven to be far lonelier than being "alone".

    • @nadineobrien2095
      @nadineobrien2095 2 года назад +30

      So true! I'm happiest hanging at home with the dog

    • @lauramayfair7887
      @lauramayfair7887 2 года назад +8

      @@nadineobrien2095 Me, too! Doggos for the win!

    • @yigitbulut4972
      @yigitbulut4972 2 года назад +3

      Broke up with a INFP girl recently, wasn’t the best experience

    • @fanime1
      @fanime1 2 года назад +9

      You go! The single life is very underrated.

  • @abouttraumahealing4840
    @abouttraumahealing4840 2 года назад +922

    🤣 "Maybe you should book a weekend getaway for you and the boys so I can have some time to myself" .
    That´s literally me! I have said that to my husband so often (only difference with don´t have boys but two girls). My perfect vacation is staying home alone while my family is vacationing elsewhere 😃
    People always ask if I miss them and if I don´t feel lonely. The answer is no and no. 😘

    • @thirstwithoutborders995
      @thirstwithoutborders995 2 года назад +29

      Teach me your ways, oh wise one! I was thinking of actually getting an Air BnB on my own, for a weekend of blissful solitude.

    • @beatecsm1183
      @beatecsm1183 2 года назад +26

      @@thirstwithoutborders995 There's nothing wrong with an AirBnB. Yet, you don't know in advance if it's really quiet and if the mattress is ok. My husband regulary goes hiking/ skiing / camping with the kids for about 4 days, and I have the house to myself. I don't need to pack stuff and to drive. I can sleep long, go for walks ir go to my favorite lake to swim and eat the best fries in the world there.
      Some days ago my husband asked me about my favorite holidays and I told him it's either a wellness hotel with pools, sauna and an own room for myself or me being alone at home.

    • @kikicz1637
      @kikicz1637 2 года назад +11

      I was literally busting out laughing and agreeing at this statement Bahaha!

    • @IzzyKawaiichi
      @IzzyKawaiichi 2 года назад +76

      I don't think she meant their children-- in the context of a man and "the boys," it usually means him and his friends (like "the girls" would refer to a woman's friends). She's literally tell him to go spend the weekend with his friends instead of her. There's no children involved.

    • @momentsformoms9467
      @momentsformoms9467 2 года назад +8

      Yes! I kept telling my sons dad to go see his friends or the one brother that lives out of state (his other two live with their parents still). He went once to each but I don’t think his friend or brother really like him so it’s unfortunately not something I can really get him to do. It was most definitely nice while he was gone though & our son was at the grandparents (dads parents bc they live about 5mins away) and I had to work,plus he’s there weekends anyways so that’s how I have my work schedule set up.

  • @annaburns2865
    @annaburns2865 2 года назад +15

    “Yawning-because I’m tired all the time even when I get a full night’s rest.” So true. To those of us with sleep conditions it’s very hard to socialize. We literally just don’t have the energy to be extroverts.

  • @tasa9958
    @tasa9958 Год назад +17

    "Maybe you could book a weekend get away.. for you and the boys so I can have some time to myself," - that's exactly my thoughts every anniversary!🤣🤣🤣

  • @Joonivy
    @Joonivy 2 года назад +1543

    It's a miracle she even got a boyfriend in the first place, I salute the relentless effort of the boyfriend lol

    • @barabaramoo
      @barabaramoo 2 года назад +99

      yeah! introverts have value too! who would've thunk!

    • @LaurenHayley16
      @LaurenHayley16 2 года назад +233

      Dude right! This video was me in a nutshell. I’m single because I just don’t put any effort into having relationships. All of the friends I have have been because they forced their way in😅. Like, you have to come to me, and even then I have to like you enough to spend time as opposed to just hanging out alone in my bed all day.

    • @jent6476
      @jent6476 2 года назад +141

      @@barabaramoo And actually, our value is so high that we are very, VERY selective about who gets to receive it

    • @toriyt2714
      @toriyt2714 2 года назад +47

      @@LaurenHayley16 wow you just summed up why I don’t have friends and I didn’t even know it

    • @LaurenHayley16
      @LaurenHayley16 2 года назад +29

      @Kam Same! I’m about to be 27 in a few days and every time I talk to a family member I haven’t seen in a while one of the first questions is “any boyfriends yet?”

  • @SarahDavisPhoto
    @SarahDavisPhoto 2 года назад +942

    I'm an INFP married to an ESTJ (for 27 years). I can honestly say that watching your 16 personality videos have helped me understand my husband....it's seriously helped us so much!! And also, you are so spot on with this video---love this new character! It's me!

    • @randomfornow
      @randomfornow 2 года назад +60

      wait-how does that work

    • @nathalie_desrosiers
      @nathalie_desrosiers 2 года назад +93

      This relationship sounds painful.
      - A fellow INFP

    • @yuppers1
      @yuppers1 2 года назад +72

      @@nathalie_desrosiers It is painful. That combo is my parents. But they're still together and happy at least half the time. It helps that I'm an INFP so my ESTJ mom can't say my INFP dad is just crazy (she used to). She's still accepting that people are different, not better or worse.

    • @soraeverblue
      @soraeverblue 2 года назад +40

      I am an INFP and my older sister is ESTJ! I feel like we are quite close and she's comfortable to tell me about her day and herself.
      Do you know Overcooked? That coop game about chefs that people said will ruin friendships and relationships with the constant yelling and swearing? Nope, that never happened with us. My sister and i played Overcooked and i'd say those gameplay hours were calm.
      She's in charge of splitting the tasks between us, "I'll do A and B, and you can do C and D. How's that sound?" "Are you struggling doing that task? let's switch, imma do C and you can do my A task."
      And i'm the one who calms the atmosphere down so we can have space to focus, "it's okay if you died, i can hold on for another 30 seconds (the respawn cooldown time)." "It's okay to fail this stage now, there's always the restart button."

    • @LydiaTereK
      @LydiaTereK 2 года назад +32

      Sarah! I’m an INFP married to an ESTJ (just passed our 4th anniversary), I need your wisdom! 27 years? How?!

  • @talyahfeigenbaum9486
    @talyahfeigenbaum9486 2 года назад +170

    STAY IN
    true as it can be!
    Nailed it!
    That's awesome!

  • @taylorbreckenridge6390
    @taylorbreckenridge6390 2 года назад +3

    "And by short I mean like 5'11..." sent me 🤣

  • @katien3022
    @katien3022 2 года назад +2

    “By short I mean like 5’11” 😂 @all girls 💀 shots fired

  • @JessicaKennedy367
    @JessicaKennedy367 2 года назад +338

    Can confirm. My husband proposed to me alone in our living room. I wondered why he was being so formal about it. But at least we were completely alone. Any audience would have been mortifying.

    • @Amynity
      @Amynity 2 года назад +27

      it's a great thing he knows you well then.

  • @333invitado
    @333invitado 2 года назад +229

    I don't even know how to express how freaking AMAZING this female introvert character is and how well represented I feel ✨✨🌟🌟🙌🙌🙌🙌😂😂😂😂😂😂 Please make it a returning character. It's so unbelievably good. Great job FJ! Making introverts around the world feel less weird ✨✨✨🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌😂😂😂😂

  • @jenniferhanses4205
    @jenniferhanses4205 2 года назад +714

    "If you ever propose to me in somewhere more public than our living room, I will say no." Very true. And you left out the fact that it cannot be a family gathering in the living room.
    But seriously, public proposals might be great for certain people, but not even all extroverts like that idea because it takes away the option to say "no" or "I'm not sure if I'm ready yet, let me think about it" for most people, and can lead to a yes followed by getting the ring thrown back at you a hour later when you're alone or suddenly being ghosted as she runs away with the rock on her hand. Or you can date an INTJ who will just say no outright on the principle of the matter of trying to force her into a position to be manipulated, because that doesn't work on us.
    Basically, if you're doing it in public, you need to be super confident that you know your girl and that she'll enjoy the attention rather than see it as forcing her hand.

    • @Neversaynever64
      @Neversaynever64 2 года назад +54

      Or discussed it at length and agreed to get married prior to the publicity. Although I HATE surprises with a passion.

    • @BombshElle_7
      @BombshElle_7 2 года назад +11

      FACTS

    • @MarianneBrandon
      @MarianneBrandon 2 года назад +60

      I am an INTJ and flat out told my (INFJ) boyfriend that if he ever proposed to me, to not make it an elaborate thing or do it in front of a bunch of people. When he did pop the question, we were alone in the car because there were too many people loitering where he had originally wanted to do it. 😆

    • @suzannerogers5623
      @suzannerogers5623 2 года назад +15

      I was a bit annoyed with my husband for deciding to take a van load of people to make sure he had witnesses…they weren’t right there, but I knew they were around. Definitely made it less romantic. Oh well. Been married almost 18 years.

    • @thirstwithoutborders995
      @thirstwithoutborders995 2 года назад +22

      I was pretty disappointed with my proposal, we are both introverts, but I wanted it semi-public in some pretty outdoor space. Not for attention, just for atmosphere. The living room just wasn't it.

  • @analisamelculo85
    @analisamelculo85 2 года назад +11

    0:50 I felt so identified with the "I'm fine. No, really that's not a code for anything, I just have a perpetually disappointed looking face." I don't know where the stereotype that women say that they're fine when they aren't comes from, but in my case I'm very open with my emotions and a lot of times, as a quiet and unfriendly resting face girl, boyfriends would think that I'm mad when I really am not

    • @demiladeijimakinwa
      @demiladeijimakinwa 2 года назад +2

      Yeah.. I never really got that whole "if she says she's fine, then she's not fine" thing. A lot of my female friends say it's correct for them tho🤷🏾‍♀️. If you ask me how I am, I am most likely to just tell you the truth: "I'm really happy today, I got a new tab!" or "I am very tired at the moment, I didn't sleep last night."

    • @nicolepettit5120
      @nicolepettit5120 2 года назад

      I don't do the "I'm fine" thing, except if I'm upset about something that's none of the inquiring person's business, or we're in public and I want to discuss it in private. This happens once every few years or so. But then the person usually doesn't get the hint, and they say "well, clearly you're NOT fine." Then I get angry, or I get frustrated that they keep asking me about it and start crying. By then I'm not even upset about whatever the first thing was, I'm upset about this friend or relative giving me a hard time, and meanwhile they are still sitting there like "Wow, she is so sad about XYZ situation. Have a hug, poor girl."

  • @tired.5565
    @tired.5565 Год назад +10

    Frank is the only man who understands how to treat me.

  • @yunicelennar7626
    @yunicelennar7626 2 года назад +93

    I like how this sketch isn't mean about this girl's personality. It's funny without being offensive and I live for sketches like that.

  • @mrs.b0742
    @mrs.b0742 2 года назад +195

    Rofl these are hilarious. INFJ married to INTP for almost 15 years now. Sometimes our dates consist of going for coffee and us both reading our phones in silence. He is also the only person I’ve ever spent all night talking to on the phone when we were dating. That’s when I knew he was the one.

    • @ceilinh6004
      @ceilinh6004 2 года назад +37

      Whoa.
      He stayed on the phone with you all night?
      My husband and I are both INTPs, and we don't really talk on the phone. The one exception was back in 2009, while we were dating, he once read me a book over the phone while I was sick with H1N1.
      Neither of us enjoy being on the phone. LOL

    • @patriciarose2342
      @patriciarose2342 2 года назад +11

      😯 you talk on the phone? I have a deal with myself that we only talk on the phone with family members and real closies who are in another city. Everyone else can txt, email or make time to see me in person. You must have really felt at home.

    • @boruverse1774
      @boruverse1774 2 года назад +28

      As an INFJ, if I can confirm that is true. If you can make me have a call with you longer than 5 minutes (I'm being generous btw) then you're the one.

    • @TCTCTCTCTC
      @TCTCTCTCTC 2 года назад +6

      Wow that’s lovely. If I wanted to stay on the phone for longer than 30 seconds to anyone, they must be the one for me.

    • @etcwhatever
      @etcwhatever 2 года назад +2

      @@boruverse1774 im infj and hate talking on the phone 🤣 once i had to work in a call center. Hell totally. Only for 2 months it was so bad. But with my guy i love to videocall 4,5, 6 hrs i dont notice the time. Well...i much prefer to see him in person. Were from different countries and hes been with his mom whos sick. But once hes back here im gonna be so happy 😍😅 i understand hes introvert but he seems to have a lot of characteristics that are the opposite of me. Im so intrigued. Maybe i can convince him to do the mbti test hahah

  • @tarikarajani5381
    @tarikarajani5381 2 года назад +1

    I love how these are closer to the true meaning of introverts, and not just shy person

  • @jurikuran333
    @jurikuran333 2 года назад +29

    "because Im tired all the time, even when I get a full nights rest." FINALLY! Someone else confirmed this! 😍

  • @nicolelyon2530
    @nicolelyon2530 2 года назад +106

    After a rather awkward Sunday afternoon of an extrovert guy trying everything he can to get me to 'relax and open up'.... I wish I came with an Introvert Girlfriend Owner's Manual, so I can just hand it to guys and not have to try to 'explain' myself. 🤦‍♀️
    ---INFJ

    • @deconstructing7307
      @deconstructing7307 2 года назад +15

      Put him in a closet and tell him to tense up and shut down for a while. Then you'll negotiate.

    • @commandermercury6654
      @commandermercury6654 2 года назад +7

      Maybe get them to read up on INFJ’s. It’s not a manual, but at least they might get an idea what’s going on in your head.
      Barring that, the closet idea sounds like a solid Plan B.

    • @AK-jt7kh
      @AK-jt7kh 2 года назад +18

      I’m an INTP in a new relationship with another introvert. Several weeks in, and I am still explaining myself in minute detail with supporting arguments and scientific evidence as is appropriate. Give me this dudes number. I will explain you too.
      We should just go ahead and write the manual. The trick is giving it to them at the right time. I would say after the first kiss. That way they can get that romantic fantasy off their chest. Then you can shove a 50 page textbook into it and say “read this by Monday, then we’ll talk.”

    • @nicolelyon2530
      @nicolelyon2530 2 года назад +4

      @@AK-jt7kh Nice! That should work. 😂

    • @commandermercury6654
      @commandermercury6654 2 года назад +9

      @@AK-jt7kh Give them a pop quiz afterward just to see if they did their homework!😂

  • @stmc6086
    @stmc6086 2 года назад +63

    1:20 😄 That's funny and true. I was actually proposed to (some years back) but before that happened, months before we were talking and I was saying how I didn't want to be proposed in front of anyone. It’s my moment and I want to feel free to be me in it. I dont want to be bothered with other people. The proposal went well.

  • @Morticiaflava
    @Morticiaflava Год назад +5

    As a very introverted girl this is completely correct😂

  • @shizukagozen777
    @shizukagozen777 2 года назад +1

    The one about proposing in public though, SO ACCURATE ! 🤣🤣🤣👏

  • @TeaAddict
    @TeaAddict 2 года назад +69

    This makes me feel so seen for always enjoying it when my hubby is out for the day or the evening 😂 my favourite one was the - "I've planned the perfect night, lit some candles, picked out a romcom - so you can do whatever you want, I'll be in my room" - this is literally my marriage 😂

  • @StephanieJeanne
    @StephanieJeanne 2 года назад +116

    Man, that chick's got a deep voice. 😁 I can never eat pasta in my room, though. If I spill spaghetti sauce on my white bedspread, it's game over!😂 I love the white board she uses at the end, and the acronym was spot on!🤭💜

    • @etcwhatever
      @etcwhatever 2 года назад +1

      If its white just bleach it. Enjoy your room pasta hahah

  • @maybemaybenot44
    @maybemaybenot44 2 года назад +24

    As an introverted woman I finally feel seen. Thanks for that, love your humor about this stuff, too.

  • @erikam7044
    @erikam7044 2 года назад +4

    Awesome description 😂 I laughed all the time. Frank you nailed me as an INFJ introvert

  • @rituparnachakraborty6480
    @rituparnachakraborty6480 2 года назад

    This is just too accurate.!!!!!!!! OMG..!!!! Somebody on this planet finally understands my emotions..!!!!!!

  • @rey2745
    @rey2745 2 года назад +40

    Love how he wears a wig in every other video when he plays a woman but in this series he doesn't 😂😂

  • @BeckyPhelps
    @BeckyPhelps 2 года назад +47

    My perfect introvert/introvert relationship: Can we agree on 4 days on, 3 days off, overtime as needed, and saying stuff like, "Love you lots, babe, see ya next week for Taco Tuesday"?? 😁

    • @StephanieJeanne
      @StephanieJeanne 2 года назад +7

      🙌That is perfect! 🤣 You've really thought this through!

    • @BeckyPhelps
      @BeckyPhelps 2 года назад +4

      @@StephanieJeanne It's part of my growth "care plan" 😁. Now ask me how likely it is that I'll find that type of relationship.....🤪😂

    • @StephanieJeanne
      @StephanieJeanne 2 года назад +3

      @@BeckyPhelps 🤣 I saw the partial reply "It's part of .." and thought, she's going to say a 7-step plan or something..."care plan." Girl, you kill me!! Yeah, the second part...if you figure out how to thread that needle, let me know 😂😂🙌

    • @BeckyPhelps
      @BeckyPhelps 2 года назад +3

      @@StephanieJeanne Not feeling optimistic about the second part, but I'm not in the dating pool at the moment either 😂. I worked in healthcare for years and thought it was a good analogy lol! I wish I could organize it into specific steps, but everything is kind of mushed together like different colors of Play-Doh...so....my care plan gives the overall aesthetic of "brown" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 (Not an artist, obviously)

    • @StephanieJeanne
      @StephanieJeanne 2 года назад +1

      @@BeckyPhelps 🤣🤣 Too funny!! Brown...🙌😂😂

  • @e.h.buchmann23
    @e.h.buchmann23 2 года назад +95

    As someone who has resting introvert face, this one hit a bit too close to home, Frank 🤣

    • @toriyt2714
      @toriyt2714 2 года назад +2

      That’s it! Resting introvert face 😆. That’s the perfect description.

  • @camillea7697
    @camillea7697 2 года назад +1

    You’re very entertaining And right on !!!
    Introverts👏👏👏

  • @01031999sweet
    @01031999sweet 2 года назад +1

    I mean... I clicked the Like button like at the second quote or smt because of the RELATABILITY of this video!!!

  • @treenotion9466
    @treenotion9466 2 года назад +25

    Public proposal to introvert =she grabs the ring saying "my precious" over and over while walking away. Fun way to say that was a mistake.

    • @edennis8578
      @edennis8578 2 года назад +5

      Nah. My husband would have loved that. We're both big nerds.

  • @queenseabee8113
    @queenseabee8113 2 года назад +63

    Lol! Frank knows me so well. Being married with 2 boys....I like hunting season, not because I like to hunt, but because they will all be gone for about a week

    • @BeckyPhelps
      @BeckyPhelps 2 года назад +6

      I can relate to that! 😂 I was married for 10 years and loved his weekend fishing trips!

    • @sandathomollari2394
      @sandathomollari2394 2 года назад +7

      I'm married for over 20 years, with three sons. Guess which is my favorite day? Father & sons'. 😂

  • @jadey4843
    @jadey4843 2 года назад +46

    Lol. I'm loving this female version so much. And her sitting style. 🤣😍
    You're awesome, Frank bro. 💛

  • @therip660
    @therip660 2 года назад

    That 'text messages' part, that's me🤣🤣.
    And the tired AALLL the time🤣.

  • @0ChildStar
    @0ChildStar Год назад +11

    I'm an introverted wife some of these are true. I just died. However, I am married to a Gamer and I can get my alone time. 🤣😭🤣💀

  • @Cherrycreamsoda1
    @Cherrycreamsoda1 2 года назад +55

    "I just have a perpetually disappointed-looking face." Why do I feel so attacked by this 😂

  • @khushkhan4343
    @khushkhan4343 2 года назад +22

    "I just have a perpetually disappointed looking face"
    Exactly me😂

  • @trinaq
    @trinaq 2 года назад +30

    I love this new girl that you've been featuring on your channel. She sums up ALL of my thoughts!

  • @bloubluebleu2739
    @bloubluebleu2739 2 года назад

    The acronym STAY IN is perfect

  • @milo_thatch_incarnate
    @milo_thatch_incarnate 2 года назад +5

    Why do I see NO ONE talking about “I’ve got the perfect night planned out… I’ve lit some candles and picked out the perfect movie……… So YOU can do whatever you want just don’t come in my room“
    😂😂😂

  • @kiranpreetkaur737
    @kiranpreetkaur737 2 года назад +15

    "I like my relationships like my microwavable Mac and cheese,probably not healthy for me but way too practical to quit , and very hot but with some frozen pieces still in the middle there " damn it's too relatable

  • @helgaioannidis9365
    @helgaioannidis9365 2 года назад +12

    The idea to send her partner away for the weekend so she has time for herself 😂😂
    Being married to an introvert for me this is impossible to happen, my husband doesn't even have a group of friends to go on a trip with. I've been trying for 8 years now to convince him to visit his best friend for a few days who lives abroad. He always finds reasons why he can't leave. They only talk to each other on the phone when I call his friend from my phone and then give it to my husband. Then they can talk for hours and laugh a lot and really enjoy the chat. Both of them think last time they met in person was about 3 years ago (it was 10 years ago).

    • @CrokusTheDerg
      @CrokusTheDerg 2 года назад

      well why dont you ask to go with and then your own thing when y'all get there

    • @helgaioannidis9365
      @helgaioannidis9365 2 года назад +2

      @@CrokusTheDerg one reason is that we have children and they are not in an age yet where I can just leave them on their own for several days. The other reason is that we can't afford it. I can somehow manage during the year to put aside the money for one ticket as a big, big gift for his birthday, but two tickets are out of my reach. I haven't visited my best friend for 8 years, because I can't afford it.
      We live in Greece, the financial crisis has left us with a much lower living standard.

  • @butterbeer4582
    @butterbeer4582 2 года назад +30

    Re: height, I've realised the only reason I've ever thought about height is because people have commented "oh you'll need a tall guy" etc, so thinking about how we'll look together from the outside. Idgaf guys. I'm tall. I've liked shorter guys and taller guys. Who cares 🥰 I used to be ashamed of being tall because of this. Now I'm looking at those tall heels because why shouldn't I wear them with confidence?

    • @blacky_Ninja
      @blacky_Ninja 2 года назад +7

      It‘s a silly ‚tradition‘ that the woman HAS to be smaller than her man anyways. I mean what difference does it really make, aside from dancing?? And even there you could just switch parts and it‘s fine again.

    • @shruti4715
      @shruti4715 2 года назад +1

      My boyfriend is short, but I haven't told my family about him because they will judge him :(

    • @lisagd22
      @lisagd22 2 года назад +5

      I'm 5 feet tall, so I don't want the tall guys. My two longest relationships were with guys who were 5'7" and 5'3". The 5'3" guy was just right--I didn't have to stand on my tiptoes to kiss him.

    • @demiladeijimakinwa
      @demiladeijimakinwa 2 года назад +1

      I'm 6'3 and I wouldn't marry a tall guy. Just imagine the monstrosities we would produce! 😂😂

    • @blacky_Ninja
      @blacky_Ninja 2 года назад +2

      @@demiladeijimakinwa To infinity and beyond! 😆

  • @sczdnb5507
    @sczdnb5507 2 года назад +1

    When we had to stay at home during the pandemic I felt soooo happy being alone for 3 months! Best holidays ever!
    My friends wanted to have video calls almost everyday at first and I was like "wait we don't see each other that much normally! I'll call for birthdays and that's all".

  • @shizukae9045
    @shizukae9045 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for being me!😂 That’s me who don’t reply his text, or don’t call back

  • @hajira7833
    @hajira7833 2 года назад +102

    hey frank! i have some ideas for future videos:
    16 personalities in their wedding
    16 personalities interacting with their extroverted type, for example, INTJ interacting with ENTJ
    16 personalities interacting with their ideal type, for example, ISTP interacting with ESTJ or ENTJ
    16 personalities interacting as superheroes and super villains, like the hero is one type and the villain is its opposite type. for example ESTP is the villain so INFJ would be the hero
    16 personalities watching anime
    16 personalities playing minecraft
    16 personalities interacting with each other on discord
    16 personalities as spies
    idk how good or bad these are, but they sound like they'll be fun to watch

    • @dottores_husband
      @dottores_husband 2 года назад +5

      I really want to know, How is it to interact with my Extrovert type(ENTJ), I'm ready for that disaster.- INTJ

    • @bornabencic3499
      @bornabencic3499 2 года назад +2

      I like all of them and this opens so many more options and ideas. We just got to get frank notice your comment

    • @Carat0851
      @Carat0851 2 года назад +1

      These are all so good. I especially want to see the interaction with the extroverted type and discord interaction or any social media

    • @naginiriddle7091
      @naginiriddle7091 2 года назад

      If it's a minecraft one, I need to see the INFP being all tentative and scared and not wanting to hurt the animals only to fast forward a couple weeks to the INFP dominating the minecraft world.
      #IalsodidthiswithStardewValley

    • @hajira7833
      @hajira7833 2 года назад

      @@naginiriddle7091 i would say the ISFJ is more like what u just described

  • @galaxylucia1898
    @galaxylucia1898 2 года назад +12

    I genuinely do not understand why Frank is coming for me like this! He’s really speaking my entire inner monologue for everybody to hear!!! 😂😂😂
    This was hilarious and like 112% accurate. Kinda scary if I’m honest lol.

  • @selencymacwan6668
    @selencymacwan6668 2 года назад +40

    Dating a guy like FJ is still a dream 😩

    • @withstarsvini
      @withstarsvini 2 года назад +6

      I agree 💯

    • @solviviflores2904
      @solviviflores2904 2 года назад +5

      Right?

    • @niiskuneitiBANAANI
      @niiskuneitiBANAANI 2 года назад +4

      But I don't know how he's like. He might be difficult in relationship you know. You never know. ö_ö

    • @randomfornow
      @randomfornow 2 года назад +4

      @@niiskuneitiBANAANI don't worry about it, you won't be dating him anytime soon😏
      (ok ok maybe I don't know)

    • @selencymacwan6668
      @selencymacwan6668 2 года назад +4

      @@niiskuneitiBANAANIwell it's not like I'm actually going to date him 🥲

  • @danilea4633
    @danilea4633 2 года назад +1

    Dude, I think you've been spying on me as the inspiration for this character. I feel exposed 😂😂 Brilliant job

  • @gypsybelle4757
    @gypsybelle4757 2 года назад

    “Stay In”. Got it! Perfect acronym. 👍😆

  • @dancewithme1981
    @dancewithme1981 2 года назад +36

    I literally laughed out loud at the “If you propose to me in a public place, I will say no” bit.

  • @ArtistIntuiting
    @ArtistIntuiting 2 года назад +11

    Love the perpetually disappointed face 😂 and how her idea for their anniversary is to suggest he goes away 😆😅 …''yawning'' 😄 clever acronym lol

    • @cherrainemkhokeli2811
      @cherrainemkhokeli2811 2 года назад +2

      It's my birthday and I'm sending my family away for the weekend. So real.

    • @ArtistIntuiting
      @ArtistIntuiting 2 года назад +2

      @@cherrainemkhokeli2811 Aww 😄 Happy Birthday!! Hope you enjoy the quiet for a bit 😊

    • @cherrainemkhokeli2811
      @cherrainemkhokeli2811 2 года назад +1

      @@ArtistIntuiting Thanks! It's gonna be great! 🤣

    • @BriarEstelle
      @BriarEstelle 2 года назад +1

      Hey @Artist Intuiting 👋 Think he will go have a series of "Introvert boyfriends be like..." ?
      Haha "Darling, our anniversary is coming up. Maybe you should book a weekend gataway... (you know) for you and the boys." That was so funny! 🤣
      Poor boyfriend of hers lol the perfect night for her is not with him. Ohh hoho burn lol.
      To FJ, nice lighting 🙂 Interesting scarf 🤔

    • @ArtistIntuiting
      @ArtistIntuiting 2 года назад

      @@BriarEstelle That line was clever wasn't it 😄 seeing the boyfriend versions would be good too lol, love these type videos …the Keanu Reeves one was brilliant lol

  • @AJ-pn8us
    @AJ-pn8us 2 года назад +24

    My mom's an introvert and everything this guy says here literally matches what my mom says

  • @MyrrdinWylltEmrys
    @MyrrdinWylltEmrys 2 года назад +1

    As an Introvert I agree with some of these.
    Plan your night or have friends over and never don't come into my room until your hangout is over.
    My partner hinted for months about wanting to propose in public I told him I am going to just walk away and not say a word lol, just order pizza let's play video games and propose I'm cool.
    I love my sweatpants and hoodies, I hate wearing formal attire for work(which is required) cause I totally look good in a suit and that just makes people want to talk to me which i hate very much, which is why i was super relieved when I was asked to work from home permanently since the pandemic.

  • @HTFWSFWWE
    @HTFWSFWWE 2 года назад +2

    "If you ever propose to me in public or outside the living room, I will say no." Lmao! this had me laughing so hard! As an INTP, I was expecting my husband (ESTP) to propose in some flashy way but thankfully while the proposal was technically out on public (local park) we were walking on the bike trail in the woods at night under the guise of stargazing. So at least no one was around us at the time so I didn't feel the pressure of automatically saying yes. I still did automatically say yes, but that's just because I love him and his willingness to always compromise for me.

  • @lyndseystrait1513
    @lyndseystrait1513 2 года назад +5

    🤣This was pure gold! The acronym really got me! This introvert girl is spunky and awesome!!! Much better than the other one in my opinion!

  • @mysoulcalledlife
    @mysoulcalledlife 2 года назад +16

    I have literally said that almost verbatim about being proposed to in public.

    • @ChiakiNanami736
      @ChiakiNanami736 2 года назад +2

      Same. My sisters know they will have to hide a body in this case.

  • @malecejas
    @malecejas 2 года назад +10

    love how he portrays introverts, so accurate

  • @KiaraIrie
    @KiaraIrie 2 года назад

    I'm in literal tears. Why are you so LOUD?!
    The algorithm is scary because why was this the first thing I saw when I opened this godforsaken app?!?

  • @ruthachayo8038
    @ruthachayo8038 2 года назад +1

    'If you propose to me in any public place , i will say no ' this got me 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @shannonp1656
    @shannonp1656 2 года назад +6

    STAY IN
    That's going on my front door for my few visitors to see.

  • @MelaniePoparad
    @MelaniePoparad 2 года назад +7

    Holy shit. This is way too accurate. It’s the same for introvert wives. Great video.

  • @richardmattocks
    @richardmattocks 2 года назад +45

    That acronym needs to be a tee shirt 😊

    • @starfish5267
      @starfish5267 2 года назад +7

      Yes! 🙌

    • @ul8532
      @ul8532 2 года назад +1

      Pls someone do it XD.

  • @SofieBjorkheim
    @SofieBjorkheim 2 года назад +2

    Perfect for me and my bf since we're both intro and can live togheter without being in each others face. (We usually sit beside each other but do our own thing, and then hold hands or say something cute intermittently), works like a charm.

  • @joguestin
    @joguestin 2 года назад

    you NAILED the script, but this is extrovert energy, i wish i could be this loud

  • @obiageliodi8734
    @obiageliodi8734 2 года назад +6

    The proposal part too. This video had me crying. It felt like I was watching me. One of my greatest fears: being proposed to..........
    in public

  • @KahinAhmed72
    @KahinAhmed72 2 года назад +7

    Now make an “Introverted Boyfriends be like…”
    LOL 😂

  • @forestgirlasha
    @forestgirlasha 2 года назад +4

    As an introvert I can completely relate to this and public proposal is nightmare fuel. I also schedule time for myself seriously don't mind my bf making time for friends just like I need time for me, myself and I.

  • @SheriK926
    @SheriK926 2 года назад

    absolutely true...keep sharing
    spreading the word

  • @_hopeless_romantic_
    @_hopeless_romantic_ 2 года назад +1

    I didn't know this channel could become even more relatable😂

  • @user-im6xi4ch5f
    @user-im6xi4ch5f 2 года назад +16

    If there would be a person that would like to date me, I would send them this video to prepare them for what's coming!

  • @whatintheheck4692
    @whatintheheck4692 2 года назад +4

    This is 95% accurate. The only part that is wrong in my situation is that I like spending time with my husband. Once introverts find “their people” they like spending time with them. There are times though that I do want to watch my rom-coms and true crime alone.

  • @fernandagardeleo7045
    @fernandagardeleo7045 2 года назад +4

    Watching your videos and laughing everytime make me feel better about myself! Like i thought i was just wrong with some attitudes but now i can tell it's fine sometimes❤👏 greets from 🇲🇽México

  • @angelicaocon1461
    @angelicaocon1461 Год назад +1

    Having a personal room is a sacred place..

  • @pPrincessL
    @pPrincessL 2 года назад

    This guy read me through n through but I'm kinda happy because I realize there's a lot of people like me

  • @katmgorska
    @katmgorska 2 года назад +10

    why can I only focus on how nice is this pink scarf, I don't know
    It suits you lady 😋

    • @starfish5267
      @starfish5267 2 года назад +2

      ikr 😄 but seriously, i like the colour 💖

  • @MoMoLuv87
    @MoMoLuv87 2 года назад +4

    I loved this 😆 made my day. INFP here, and yes I am tired today and just wanna relax on the couch. My next door neighbor blasted their light 💡 on their side of their house all night. It was like a 5o spotlight. You could only imagine how wonderfully I slept

    • @patriciarose2342
      @patriciarose2342 2 года назад +2

      Totally. I have the same problem with my neighbor. The security light. Im already overestimated 😣 - INFP

    • @MoMoLuv87
      @MoMoLuv87 2 года назад +1

      I’m only being fr it’s shit! Fak

  • @meatkirbo
    @meatkirbo 2 года назад +6

    "I just have a perpetually disappointed looking face" yeah I also look like that.
    "Yawning, because I'm tired all the time, even when I get a full nights rest" again, also me.
    This is just you attacking me isn't it?

  • @sunidhisharma6654
    @sunidhisharma6654 2 года назад

    I love it when you play an introvert girl.... You do it so accurately😂😂

  • @chandralekhapanda5736
    @chandralekhapanda5736 2 года назад

    Introverts experience everything vicariously!!

  • @danibob_
    @danibob_ 2 года назад +16

    "Im fine, I just have a perpetually disappointed looking face"
    Never before have I been so insulted by something I 100% agree with