You blew my mind in the first 60 seconds.. I feel like everything I learned about relationships in my childhood was not only a lie, but in direct conflict to your explanations here. Thank you!
I actually came here from tiktok, and due to childhood invalidation, I force the curiosity route. Learning needs, allowing needs, is my big next thing. Feels very alien! Good place to start, with the list
Monogomish!!! 😂😂😂 Never heard that one before but it resonates. Love it. Thanks for sharing, this clarification of relationship needs and wants is really helpful
Im so thankful that i found you in tik tok this year and now with youtube I can learn more about your techniques and tips for different aspects of life. Im always looking forward for your tiktok videos and Im already applying some of your advices in my relationship and for my life... Sending love from Colombia
I feel like I know my needs and your video helped solidify that. I need my boundaries to be respected, otherwise I'm not being respected by my partner.. but he just keeps crossing and pushing them and I feel hopeless. I dont know what else to do or say to be enough or to be taken seriously, do you have any content regarding this sort of situation?
Any tips for autistic folks who engage in curiosity at just about all things interpersonal? I loved this but when I tried, I realized it was not intuitive. Please advise. I love your stuff! ❤
Love your content Jeff, follow you on other social media. Unfortunately the link to the list has expired 😢is there any other link to access to that list!? TYSM in advance and for all your contribution to your community ❤
Jeff hi! After watching the video, I just realised that my current partner is meeting my "Want" list but not my "Need" list and I just can't break up with him. And I know that he is reinforcing my wounds in that "Need" list, but I can't just break up. Would you have suggestions or a video on this type of situation? Thanks!
2:20 “only you get to decide what your needs and wants should be in a relationship, nobody else can tell you what they should or shouldn’t be” ….. then a big sad sigh????? Hope that wasn’t a personal trauma 😢
Sex will never be a “need” unless someone want’s children. The people who claim they need it to be in a happy relationship just make me sad. Way to have the right priorities. Let’s values people for who they are not for how they are in bed.
You blew my mind in the first 60 seconds.. I feel like everything I learned about relationships in my childhood was not only a lie, but in direct conflict to your explanations here. Thank you!
Love that you're learning!
I actually came here from tiktok, and due to childhood invalidation, I force the curiosity route. Learning needs, allowing needs, is my big next thing. Feels very alien! Good place to start, with the list
They say timing is everything, i am glad to have found you,
can you post a new link to the needs website? it’s not working anymore :(
changingminds.org/explanations/needs/cnvc_needs_inventory.htm
Hi I came from tiktok and think your content is great!
Monogomish!!! 😂😂😂 Never heard that one before but it resonates. Love it. Thanks for sharing, this clarification of relationship needs and wants is really helpful
I really appreciate your content. Found you on tiktok and you have been so helpful. Love from Kenya!
Thank you 🙏🏾
Pure gold video!🥰
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Im so thankful that i found you in tik tok this year and now with youtube I can learn more about your techniques and tips for different aspects of life. Im always looking forward for your tiktok videos and Im already applying some of your advices in my relationship and for my life... Sending love from Colombia
Well done. I like what you’re up to.
I feel like I know my needs and your video helped solidify that. I need my boundaries to be respected, otherwise I'm not being respected by my partner.. but he just keeps crossing and pushing them and I feel hopeless. I dont know what else to do or say to be enough or to be taken seriously, do you have any content regarding this sort of situation?
The link of the website isn't working, just an fyi :)
Any tips for autistic folks who engage in curiosity at just about all things interpersonal? I loved this but when I tried, I realized it was not intuitive. Please advise. I love your stuff! ❤
I love you content, I found you on TikTok & thank you for giving all this valuable info
Thanks for checking me out on RUclips. Tell all your friends! 😉
👋🏻 from TikTok!
Thanks for checking me out here!
Love your content Jeff, follow you on other social media. Unfortunately the link to the list has expired 😢is there any other link to access to that list!? TYSM in advance and for all your contribution to your community ❤
You Rock!!! ❤️❤️❤️
wow this is amazing!!
That link doesn't take you to a need list inventory:(
The link isn’t working
Jeff hi! After watching the video, I just realised that my current partner is meeting my "Want" list but not my "Need" list and I just can't break up with him. And I know that he is reinforcing my wounds in that "Need" list, but I can't just break up. Would you have suggestions or a video on this type of situation? Thanks!
Link is broken
There is no link to Need inventory
My bad. It's there now!
2:20 “only you get to decide what your needs and wants should be in a relationship, nobody else can tell you what they should or shouldn’t be” ….. then a big sad sigh????? Hope that wasn’t a personal trauma 😢
Not sad. More like "whew, that was an important thing to say, and I hope they got it" sigh
Not finding the link there guy
Sorry! It's there now.
👏🏾
Why I feel so mad to explain a basic obvius needs in a normal relationship 😑
Sex will never be a “need” unless someone want’s children. The people who claim they need it to be in a happy relationship just make me sad. Way to have the right priorities. Let’s values people for who they are not for how they are in bed.
You Rock!!! ❤️❤️❤️