Ladies and gentlemen - thank you SO SO much 🥹. This was the biggest project of my life and it worked me to my absolute limit but couldn't be more proud of the product. The hardest thing of this whole series was answering the question we began with... How do we become more attractive, scientifically? How should we conclude this whole series? What is the answer that ANYONE, no matter their physical status, can takeaway? The past nine months have been the most revealing journey of my life, and to see you all resonate with my story, the research, and the shots cemented my purpose in doing this craft. I LOVE creating stories and I can't wait to keep upping this game. Welcome to our corner of the internet, a place where we create new perspectives, conversations, and lessons around modern topics that make an impact.
Can't blame constestant three at all, it was far too much information, i totally thought it would be a question about who were best at listening to the story and were to answer questions afterwards.
I've gained confidence. Previously, I thought I was very unattractive, but watching this and hearing people receive compliments on traits I possess has lifted me up significantly. My number one goal has always been to learn how to become a good parent, which explains this. I understood I'm not fully made up of unattractive stuff. I learned that i have good traits and bad traits like others.
This is outstanding. It’s been amazing to go on this journey with Tejas, Ken, and Hope. The authenticity and vulnerability while diving into these topics create something I think is truly impactful. Seeing how much heart and effort Tejas and Ken put into every episode, especially this final one, has been such a rewarding experience. Veljko, Colt, and Shervin were hilarious. (Not to mention courageous!) What a great series-I’m so grateful to have been part of it. Excited to see how it resonates and what’s next!
low key one of the things that made me feel better tbh you could be a doofus who likes to make people laugh and one person could find you a bit tacky but someone else will match your vibe and you will be the funniest person they've met now if only i could teach my brain to handle rejection T_T
“The struggle between authenticity and acceptance.” Dang that hit deep. It’s far easier to help others feel more comfortable than it is to share your own vulnerabilities.
The fact that Tejas opened up and showed us what he has been going through shows that he took the first step towards self fidelity. This whole episode gave me so much to self reflect about. Amazing series my man!
The fact that you recognized this means a ton. Genuinely the most impactful journey of my life thus far and you can see it from a zoomed out perspective with the direction this channel is going! Self-fidelity is a lesson that I will carry for the rest of my life.
Wow, this made me realize what I lack in personality, I decided to take part in this as if I was the contestant and answered in my own way mentally. I suck! No wonder... I always thought I lacked somewhere, now I know what. I need to be more present, more curious, disclose more, and make conversation deep not wide. Never have I identified with a video as much. 10/10 perspective change
Fr bro cause ngl I’ve been on the more physically attractive side gets compliments and sometimes women come up to me and honestly bc of that I’ve never really had to talk too much yk. But I’m funny around my friends and family but it’s like that adhd kinda funny and that comedic timing kinda funny but when I’m around women it’s like I’m not funny at all 😭 but this opened my eyes fr
wait, I've listened to the third story 4 times now. She never said the year lmao. I would have been super cooked. There's no way my brain is doing simple mental math under pressure like that. The fact that he got it right... dude killed it
Favorite baldie just commented 🥰 My favorite lesson from watching this contest is realizing staying true to yourself is the best advice because none of the girls were worth contorting yourself into a version someone else desires is worth it; the 3rd contestant prioritized accomplishments and that was off putting to the 3 girls, sucks to be them
It's all about our decisions and what we do. Discipline is about making decisions that are aligned with our intentions. Inspiration may get us started, but it's the habit that keeps us going. Habits stay with us even when we don’t have the inspiration. All of it I grabbed from the book Unveiling Your Hidden Potential
Number 3 reactions to every criticism... Relax, breathe, don't react so much my guy lol! You can easily see the inner child in him, he needs to work on self-validation. Insecurely, and looking for external validation is poison... Because how easy it can be given to you (When someone wants or needs something from you sometimes) ... And taken from you when someone wants to get under your skin and throw your game off.... Self-Fidelity is indeed the strongest to work on in my opinion.
if i can ask... how do should receive criticism actually? like what mindset should i have? because i think although i wouldn't express really my emotion that outwardly, i relate to the feeling that he felt, is it really that im still lacking confidence in myself?
@@okaywhatever3948 "Sensory Input from the outside world". Meaning that my reaction to it is actually something that I can control AND if I could control my reaction to "negative things" then I don't need to let negative things control me. For example someone insults me, says I'm a "terrible human being", "bad friend", etc... These are all very objectively very hurtful things to say and do I get hurt by them... At the beginning I did but eventually I learned "HOW TO FILTER MY PERCEPTION". Instead of letting those words directly into my mind and letting them shape MY TRUTH... What I learned how to do is create a barrier between those two kinds of things... So I'm not going to let the infection sink all the way in. Instead, what I start to do is run this dialogue in my head... "Ok this is what this person is saying. Let me pause for a second and think about why this person would be saying this... They say this or that about me... What do they know about me as a person?" Basically, think alot what is FACTUAL TRUTH about the situation and what is your REACTION to it... What is objectively correct, your interpretation, your conclusion before you just react immediately.... Hope this helps
@@okaywhatever3948 I have gotten compliments from alot of people that I'm very receptive to criticism. And it's all about having a mindset of constant learning and understanding that. YOU. are in fact not the sh*t. When people tell me things I do wrong and things I could've done differently I just listen attentively with minimal reaction and nod my head while I own up to my mistakes and weaknesses. I also point it out myself loudly in the conversation and try to see it from their perspective. This takes work for some but for others we just luckily have it in our personality. I hope this helped :)
Idk I think he was playing up for the camera a lot, and that he was approaching the show as a challenge rather than just being himself. I think that changes how he reacted. He's clearly pretty intelligent but it seems that he plays up for jokes.
@@okaywhatever3948 what others think of you is often not due to their mindset but how you present yourself. Being genuine is the most important. My first day of college, you could tell instantly on my floor who people wanted to be around based on how genuine they were. One guy was very humble and took most things pretty well and listened very attentively to others. I started off like the guys in the video but I feel like I did a good job of trying to become more genuine and to work on myself because I realized that when people seemed to think poorly of me, it wasn’t because of their mindset, it was because of how I presented myself.
This has been one of the best series I have watched so far. If this is the quality of content we're going to be getting I am very very excited for how successful you are going to be, and I'll be able to say " I'd been there from the start! " Big ups man great things coming your way!
@@TejasHullurHe’s 100% right. Pin this to your wall bro and keep up the amazing work. Production quality is magnificent…your introspection and curiosity…don’t lose that - glad to have joined this journey !
This spoke to me. I've been exploring this self-fidelity question in the past few weeks and have arrived at the knowledge that while I'm lonely, I'm much happier by myself knowing that I'm sticking to what my values are and what I believe in. I'm glad to know that someone else in this world has arrived.
Just let me be honest for a moment. I have never felt this much connection to a video on the internet in like FOREVER. The story that was told has been soo connecting to my personal experiences that, it made me rethink my life. Thank You Tejus and his whole crew for making this awesome docu-series. It was the best experience of my life to - date.
I think the dating show part really showed me how subjective and seemingly random we find people attractive and gave me a renewed sense of confidence. I think also it me realize how true and valuable the advice of “be your best self” is because you can’t please everyone, but you can please that one person that finds you pleasurable.
I don’t usually comment but this is the most dedicated and inspiring series I’ve ever seen someone do. Not only did you reach out to experts for it and use real life situations but also made it enjoyable for us 🙏 thanks for the time put into it
I am at a loss of words as I write this. I have struggled with self-fidelity all my life, where I'm always anticipating the next moment over the current one, without ever being present in the current one. Always thinking of how I'm being perceived, never owning up to my own, or trying to find my personal values. I'm grateful to you, Tejas, for taking this reflective journey and making myself question more inward. I just hope we both get there eventually... And never have to go through this internal battle each and every day. Hopefully one day it is over. 💔
Self identity and figuring out how to figure out who you are is one of those things we are never taught properly in society....that is, right until you made this video. Amazing work, Tejas. Your work impacts so much of us!
This series explored one of the less talked topics and the one that troubled me for years. The production and sound was top notch and kept me hooked till the end of this series. Probably the only series on RUclips that I completed. Kudos to you, million subs aren't far away. Love from India ❤
This is a masterpiece. When your love for creating something so artistic and true ends up with character growth, that's probably the best thing that could ever happen. Loved seeing this journey span over 4 episodes and I can't wait to see what's in store for the future, for you and your channel!
Means so much! And yes, you hit it on the head - the best part of this whole series is you see me and my friends go through authentic hero journey's and it was a natural story
Here's the biggest flaw with your study. Women, in general are very concerned with the perception others have of them. Therefore, with their faces and identities disclosed, you don't know if you are getting honest answers from the judges, or merely answers and justifications for their ratings that make them look good, aka earn public approval.
I'd argue this makes their ratings more realistic, because in the real world, people judge and evaluate potential partners based on perceived approval, but are also judged themselves based on who they date. removing this element would likely make it more distant form real world interactions.
Bro wtf is that video ? The quality of this is insane ! How are u not on million of followers ? Is this a second account ? I don’t know this guy, this video was insane !
This series was AMAZING. Truly a representation of hard-work, dedication, and AUTHENTICITY. Tejas, appreciate you for bringing your audience a new perspective and AWARENESS
Today I couldn’t find a video that held my attention long enough to watch. I unknowingly clicked on the first episode of this series because it’d been in my recommended for awhile, and I’m proud to say that I just sat and binged all four episodes! The storytelling, cinematography, music, and just charisma of everyone involved made me instantly hooked. Congrats on making this amazing docuseries! I’ve laughed so much, gained insight about myself and others, and as a new subscriber, I’m so excited to see more! I know I’ll be thinking about this series for awhile and I’ll recommend it to all of my friends to watch. Thanks so much for all your and your team’s hard work and dedication!!!
Genuinely amazing series! Left me with so many questions on how I should navigate my life moving forward and made me realize that there are tons of things I need to work on. I really resonated with the points you brought up and how you struggle with self fidelity and I genuinely think that is the one major struggle I am currently going through and I never realized it before. So, thank you for making this video and making me realize what I need to do to better myself. I genuinely really appreciate it.
Tejas I've been following your content since the last 2 years, and I've gotta say this has to be one of the best Docu-series I've seen on RUclips. You've come a long way, can't wait to see what you create in future!
You should be really proud of this series. I don't know you but I am incredibly proud of you showed yourself, be vulnerable but also taught us something.
This is probably, and I am not exaggerating, the best piece of content I have ever saw on the internet. It was fun to watch and edited perfectly, but at the same time so interesting and enlightening. Thank you so much for this series, hope you will have much more followers and attention, because your content is really something else in RUclips.
I just wanted to take this chance to thank you for creating this docu-series. I myself have had a failed relationship a few months ago that went eerily similar to yours where I couldn't quite figure out what I did wrong. And now, with the conclusion of your series I've realized that the reason as to why things didn't work out for me was because I, in some way, suppressed who I really am and wasn't self-confident enough, similar to your case - and for that I want to thank you for bringing this to light. I hope this doesn't come off as weird because you obviously don't know me, but really man, thank you! I'm stoked to see more of what you create
read the unplugged alpha by Richard Cooper. that's what girls look for. I look for long hair, feminine, introverted, sweet, elegant etc. Completely different things
The quality of this docu-series is GREAT! On par with a giant coorperation with millions of followers. Really clear to see the time and energy you've put into this. This project and your channel deserve a lot more love
It’s incredible that this entire documentary is free to watch! It’s so insightful and powerful-it really resonates. Amazing work on the filming and storytelling, Tejas.
This summer, I went through one of the most tumultuous relationships and experiences in my life. And a massive trait I kept seeing is how fluid I was, how much I didn't trust my own judgement, and how easily I conformed to someone else's. I didn't know why I was such a pushover and had all these qualities related to not being true to myself and not being the one who would define situations, but now I finally see it, I finally see a word that encapsulates this perfectly - self-fidelity. I realize I dont know exactly what my values are and how I don't have faith in myself or those values to the extent that I want to either. Thank you Tejas for giving me that insight. I felt like I never had it before and it opened up a whole new world of how I can improve myself and tackle my anxieties and fears to become a better version of me. Thank you so much. This episode and the ending especially is something that has already deeply impacted me.
The moment "self-fidelity issue" was mentioned, I cried. This was such a revealing experience for me, thank you Tejas for putting yourself out there and making such genuine informative content! I somehow feel uplifted, like something has been weighing me down for a long time, and now a voice is telling me that everything's alright, that it's okay. Am a huge fan of yours now. (p.s.: I love the way you laugh)
This has helped me a lot too Tejas! I'm someone who struggles with self-confidence and doesn't view themselves as very attractive. I have asked myself the same questions you asked and I'm truly thankful for this series. I really have a lot to think about
Can I just say that the production quality of this entire series was just spot on! I have see my fair share of video essays and docu-series, but this is by far the best. The story telling was beautiful! Loved it!
The best thing about this whole series is watching Tejas grow. You really grabbed every best core element of your videos and tied those threads together & weaved this beautiful journey. You're the guy who chases the questions he has for enlightenment. Who combines his curiosity, creativity and courage to be vulnerable. The guy who keeps doing what he loves. And you're so so so inspiring. I mean, who ever thought a docuseries about science behind attractiveness could make you cry? It's you Tejas, you move our hearts by being yourself. THANK YOU SO SO MUCH FOR GIVING THIS GIFT. PS: Your corner of the internet is the warmest place to be.
@TejasHullur you go Tejas, gonna be always here to remind you of how amazing and magical and inspiring you are (yes, there is gonna be more best compliments)
INCREDIBLE series I feel like the previous endings have had the same shot of looking into the mirror and I've seen it as analyzing yourself, but with the lead up at the end it felt like you were looking at the viewer instead, the whole ending hit me so hard
I really needed this right now after struggling with obsession too. The journey of what you’ve discovered is beautiful and its bittersweet having the answer be the most simplest phrase we’ve heard “just be yourself” ❤
Interesting in test #3 to see all the girls rate the guys they spoke with 1-on-1 with as their number one choice, and the other girls rate them lower. Seems to be some sort of implicit bias there, and interesting to imagine how that plays out when sharing our dating experiences. Especially the culture of girls sharing dating experiences amongst each other.
Truly beautiful Tejas, especially at the end I cried, I feel exactly what you and for the first time see that some other person goes through what I do. I also always didn’t understand the reason why I cling or change for the person, but now I know it’s about my values and my true self that I still need to discover at my young age of 22. Incredible documentary, please keep on creating, there is a bright future ahead of you! Would love to meet up when someday will visit NYC again 🥹🙏
To be fair, they aren’t able to see these girls faces and make eye contact. I think eye contact and reacting to facial expressions is one of the most powerful things in conversation and in my personal experience it’s one of the only ways I know how to really connect with people. This brings me back to when we had to wear masks everywhere and after a few months I felt like I hadn’t connected with someone in so long because words can only do so much.
WOW such a fantastic series. truly a gem on RUclips. can't believe I'm watching this for free - it's beautifully shot, scripted, evidence backed and keeps you engaged (I didn't skip through one bit in this one). I especially loved the use of metaphors in the end. Excited for whatever comes next!!
You are killing it, both the huge production value and immense depth of thought going into this series make this the most informative and helpful videos on RUclips I‘ve seen in a long time, maybe even ever. Keep it up, the world really needs people like you these times.
Really great video and series!! I enjoyed it very much. But I can’t be the only one who noticed that each girl had a different favourite candidate, which contributes to the argument that attractiveness is still quite subjective
Wow. Let me just say that watching this series has been incredible and the fact that I was able to watch it for free is even more incredible. It kept me captivated the whole time and I can say that I learned a lot from this series. This is some phenomenal work. I'm fully invested in your channel now and I'm looking forward to all your future videos. Keep it coming!
I'm honestly loving this series because it's allowed me to reflect and just think about my own life and how I feel about these topics. It's made me think deeper about how I act or what I think of myself physically and it's also reminded me to stay positive about myself and not to be too negative. It's definitely a journey(it hits even harder just coming out of a 15 month relationship). Thank you for these great videos and keep it up Tejas!
This was an amazing watch. I'm glad you decided to undertake this massive project and do it justice! Looking forward to whatever you've got in store next.
I don't think I've ever been more invested in a series than this one. The production, editing, presentation is all S-tier. The stuff you bring up is not only helpful but incredibly interesting. Personally, the past month that I've spent watching these videos when they came out, I noticed a lot of the words you said echoing in my head and it helped me out in so many ways. It should be a crime that you don't have millions of subscribers, this is absolute gold, award winning stuff man. Tejas, I don't hope you grow in subs and success, I know you will. Really happy to have found this corner of the internet :) Keep it up
Tejas, firstly, what a great production! Congratulations on that. I would like to appreciate one of the numerous other good characteristics - the coherence of the entire 4-part series. It was spot on. The use of the places, took us to back the premise immediately. Their repetition prepared us for the following content. You are one of my fav creators! I hope you take a good break after this long journey. And it sure as hell taught me a lot. Gave me something to improve upon
Just going to comment while watching. The dating show is hilarious. So fun seeing each of you in that scenario. Love that Tejas brings in experts for each of the beats in the story.
One of if not the best youtube video I’ve ever seen. I used to overthink so often and many times it was about what confidence meant in terms of attracting and you completely answered that for me. Thank you!
damnn, i dont think i have been interested in some series on yt so much, literally counting down the days for the next epi, the story telling, the editing everythings on spot, and especially the motive. Really inspired by you Tejas, i have been wanting to start yt since 3 yrs now but i just dont find wat i want to create or dont find the driving force, and i think i have found it now, thanks to u. really love the content man, keep posting. looking forward to collab with u one day for sure.
Wow. I’ve never been on a first date like that, but if I ever have to. I know what I need! Always a banger from Tejas. As a psych major these things are very intriguing
man this series was on another level never seen something like this on youtube before i really loved it! and respect to you for being so open and vulnerable throughout the series man!
That was such a heart-warming and enlightening watch!! Thank you. I loved the three pillars of non-physical attraction. I think in relation to your breakup, the problem was that you felt that you didn’t deserve that person, and this insecurity can really bleed into a relationship. It seems like you are becoming more confident on this journey and learning your self worth because you do in fact have a lot of value to give!! Looking forward to seeing more of your content ❤
Really well made video!! Something so exciting and attractive is when people see the value and worth God gave them!! It’s something i sometimes struggle with, but when you start to see how amazing you are designed and how unique and special you are, it truly does change your whole outlook and outcome of life!!😊 Anyone reading this I want you to know how special you are!! Even if you don’t feel special, even if you don’t feel like you matter, your feelings do not make that true!! Regardless of how you feel, you are designed and you are important!! ❤️❤️
What a great final episode and what a great series! Very high quality and interesting stuff. Thank you for sharing so much, and being brave, thoughtful and vulnerable. It's been great to get to understand more about you, and to have you help me understand more about myself too!
You can tell the amount of passion and dedication put into this series. So many little things in every video make it more than just good information. Keep going Tejas, you're doing great.
man, ive been straight binging your content the past few weeks, honestly feels like stuff that could be behind a paywall. I really enjoy this style of content in general and you and colt and sherwin actually only make bangers fr
This video has inspired me in countless ways, and with your great storytelling, amazing concepts and a very powerful message about confidence - it's changed the way I view things. Keep up the great work! Absolutely brilliant!
What a series! This is Netflix and Hollywood quality. You did so well educating and entertaining at the same time. I can’t wait to see your future projects!
Thank you for making this, Tejas. I, too, am on a similar journey, and this helps paint a clearer picture of an inkling about myself I noticed, but couldn’t put words to describe it. I clapped at the end of the video as this, to me, felt like cinema, even if people might frown upon the usage of the word on this style of visual storytelling. It’s because you are able to convey complex ideas and weave a compelling narrative that I truly applaud you for, and I would like to wish you all the best! Keep up the great work!
At the end of this, we learn that everyone is different nad there is always someone that will accept you as you are, even with things you need to improve, obviously all of us have. Attractiveness is relative. Great video!
Ladies and gentlemen - thank you SO SO much 🥹. This was the biggest project of my life and it worked me to my absolute limit but couldn't be more proud of the product. The hardest thing of this whole series was answering the question we began with... How do we become more attractive, scientifically? How should we conclude this whole series? What is the answer that ANYONE, no matter their physical status, can takeaway?
The past nine months have been the most revealing journey of my life, and to see you all resonate with my story, the research, and the shots cemented my purpose in doing this craft. I LOVE creating stories and I can't wait to keep upping this game.
Welcome to our corner of the internet, a place where we create new perspectives, conversations, and lessons around modern topics that make an impact.
Past nine months??? I knew this was way too good to take only a few months but damn near a whole year? Props for such dedication
I wish more people would see that
What amazing work
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this docu-series was so good, my appreciation to your contribution for humanity sir💐👏🏻
To be fair, the boys had no idea they were holding a conversation 😭😭
"were we having a conversation??"
@@TejasHullur exactly!
^^^ this 😂😭
Can't blame constestant three at all, it was far too much information, i totally thought it would be a question about who were best at listening to the story and were to answer questions afterwards.
True
Number 3 had a complete breakdown+ Midlife-Crisis 😭😭
Creative? Yes.
Scientific? Yes.
Immersive? Yes.
Well made? A BIG YESSS!!!
This is ART.
🥹 Welcome to our corner of the internet
Scientific!? So far not at all 17:14
I've gained confidence.
Previously, I thought I was very unattractive, but watching this and hearing people receive compliments on traits I possess has lifted me up significantly.
My number one goal has always been to learn how to become a good parent, which explains this.
I understood I'm not fully made up of unattractive stuff.
I learned that i have good traits and bad traits like others.
Wow. This means a ton. I'm glad you're feeling better about yourself!
I care so much about parenting, and I'm glad that skills I'm working on today will help me as a parent in the future
This is outstanding. It’s been amazing to go on this journey with Tejas, Ken, and Hope. The authenticity and vulnerability while diving into these topics create something I think is truly impactful. Seeing how much heart and effort Tejas and Ken put into every episode, especially this final one, has been such a rewarding experience.
Veljko, Colt, and Shervin were hilarious. (Not to mention courageous!)
What a great series-I’m so grateful to have been part of it. Excited to see how it resonates and what’s next!
You’ve been more impactful in my life than you know 🥹
Yoooo it's the Smithydude!
Tejas on a generational run rn 😭😭😭😭😭
I'm loving the game!
I think it's pretty heartwarming that all 3 of them picked a different number one. What an episode btw, this is amazing
low key one of the things that made me feel better tbh
you could be a doofus who likes to make people laugh
and one person could find you a bit tacky
but someone else will match your vibe and you will be the funniest person they've met
now if only i could teach my brain to handle rejection T_T
“The struggle between authenticity and acceptance.” Dang that hit deep. It’s far easier to help others feel more comfortable than it is to share your own vulnerabilities.
The fact that Tejas opened up and showed us what he has been going through shows that he took the first step towards self fidelity. This whole episode gave me so much to self reflect about. Amazing series my man!
The fact that you recognized this means a ton. Genuinely the most impactful journey of my life thus far and you can see it from a zoomed out perspective with the direction this channel is going! Self-fidelity is a lesson that I will carry for the rest of my life.
I clapped out loud - didn’t want this series to end. So excited for whatever is next. Bravo, Tejas and Ken!
Don!! Thank you. Welcome to our corner of the internet!
Wow, this made me realize what I lack in personality, I decided to take part in this as if I was the contestant and answered in my own way mentally.
I suck! No wonder... I always thought I lacked somewhere, now I know what.
I need to be more present, more curious, disclose more, and make conversation deep not wide.
Never have I identified with a video as much. 10/10 perspective change
Fr bro cause ngl I’ve been on the more physically attractive side gets compliments and sometimes women come up to me and honestly bc of that I’ve never really had to talk too much yk. But I’m funny around my friends and family but it’s like that adhd kinda funny and that comedic timing kinda funny but when I’m around women it’s like I’m not funny at all 😭 but this opened my eyes fr
I don't usually watch 1 hour long videos on youtube but I really enjoyed this one.
wait, I've listened to the third story 4 times now. She never said the year lmao. I would have been super cooked. There's no way my brain is doing simple mental math under pressure like that. The fact that he got it right... dude killed it
I don't even understand her story 😭
She was in 8th grade and the movie was shown in 2008, how did Contestant #3 deduced it was 2012???
I think they also cut the video for time so we didn’t get the full story
hey babe (Colt) wake up, Tejas just posted another Attractiveness episode
Kariza kicking her feet in the air
Contestant #2, tell me about yourself?
Another banger 🔥 Love the Content Closet family ❤
sherwin! my personal fave to win the contest
Favorite baldie just commented 🥰
My favorite lesson from watching this contest is realizing staying true to yourself is the best advice because none of the girls were worth contorting yourself into a version someone else desires is worth it; the 3rd contestant prioritized accomplishments and that was off putting to the 3 girls, sucks to be them
I'd be VERY interested to see this replicated with the guys as judges
Would be great!
Yesssss
AN HOUR LONG?! LESSGO TEJAS BE COOKIN!
Been in the lab! Been in the cave!
i had the exact same reaction😄
It's all about our decisions and what we do. Discipline is about making decisions that are aligned with our intentions. Inspiration may get us started, but it's the habit that keeps us going. Habits stay with us even when we don’t have the inspiration. All of it I grabbed from the book Unveiling Your Hidden Potential
27:18 "any follow up questions?" "We were having a conversation" is so funny lol 😂😂😂
Number 3 reactions to every criticism... Relax, breathe, don't react so much my guy lol!
You can easily see the inner child in him, he needs to work on self-validation. Insecurely, and looking for external validation is poison... Because how easy it can be given to you (When someone wants or needs something from you sometimes) ... And taken from you when someone wants to get under your skin and throw your game off.... Self-Fidelity is indeed the strongest to work on in my opinion.
if i can ask... how do should receive criticism actually? like what mindset should i have? because i think although i wouldn't express really my emotion that outwardly, i relate to the feeling that he felt, is it really that im still lacking confidence in myself?
@@okaywhatever3948 "Sensory Input from the outside world". Meaning that my reaction to it is actually something that I can control AND if I could control my reaction to "negative things" then I don't need to let negative things control me.
For example someone insults me, says I'm a "terrible human being", "bad friend", etc... These are all very objectively very hurtful things to say and do I get hurt by them... At the beginning I did but eventually I learned "HOW TO FILTER MY PERCEPTION". Instead of letting those words directly into my mind and letting them shape MY TRUTH...
What I learned how to do is create a barrier between those two kinds of things... So I'm not going to let the infection sink all the way in. Instead, what I start to do is run this dialogue in my head... "Ok this is what this person is saying. Let me pause for a second and think about why this person would be saying this... They say this or that about me... What do they know about me as a person?"
Basically, think alot what is FACTUAL TRUTH about the situation and what is your REACTION to it... What is objectively correct, your interpretation, your conclusion before you just react immediately.... Hope this helps
@@okaywhatever3948 I have gotten compliments from alot of people that I'm very receptive to criticism. And it's all about having a mindset of constant learning and understanding that. YOU. are in fact not the sh*t. When people tell me things I do wrong and things I could've done differently I just listen attentively with minimal reaction and nod my head while I own up to my mistakes and weaknesses. I also point it out myself loudly in the conversation and try to see it from their perspective. This takes work for some but for others we just luckily have it in our personality. I hope this helped :)
Idk I think he was playing up for the camera a lot, and that he was approaching the show as a challenge rather than just being himself. I think that changes how he reacted. He's clearly pretty intelligent but it seems that he plays up for jokes.
@@okaywhatever3948 what others think of you is often not due to their mindset but how you present yourself. Being genuine is the most important. My first day of college, you could tell instantly on my floor who people wanted to be around based on how genuine they were. One guy was very humble and took most things pretty well and listened very attentively to others. I started off like the guys in the video but I feel like I did a good job of trying to become more genuine and to work on myself because I realized that when people seemed to think poorly of me, it wasn’t because of their mindset, it was because of how I presented myself.
leaving the rose coloured glasses behind. what a beautiful symbol. really well does Tejas, another banger
omg i didnt even see thatt damnnn
This has been one of the best series I have watched so far. If this is the quality of content we're going to be getting I am very very excited for how successful you are going to be, and I'll be able to say " I'd been there from the start! " Big ups man great things coming your way!
Means so much. Welcome to our corner of the internet!
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@@TejasHullurHe’s 100% right. Pin this to your wall bro and keep up the amazing work. Production quality is magnificent…your introspection and curiosity…don’t lose that - glad to have joined this journey !
This spoke to me.
I've been exploring this self-fidelity question in the past few weeks and have arrived at the knowledge that while I'm lonely, I'm much happier by myself knowing that I'm sticking to what my values are and what I believe in.
I'm glad to know that someone else in this world has arrived.
This is a big realization
Just let me be honest for a moment. I have never felt this much connection to a video on the internet in like FOREVER. The story that was told has been soo connecting to my personal experiences that, it made me rethink my life. Thank You Tejus and his whole crew for making this awesome docu-series. It was the best experience of my life to - date.
Wow, means the world. Welcome to our corner of the internet
I think the dating show part really showed me how subjective and seemingly random we find people attractive and gave me a renewed sense of confidence. I think also it me realize how true and valuable the advice of “be your best self” is because you can’t please everyone, but you can please that one person that finds you pleasurable.
I don’t usually comment but this is the most dedicated and inspiring series I’ve ever seen someone do. Not only did you reach out to experts for it and use real life situations but also made it enjoyable for us 🙏 thanks for the time put into it
I am at a loss of words as I write this. I have struggled with self-fidelity all my life, where I'm always anticipating the next moment over the current one, without ever being present in the current one. Always thinking of how I'm being perceived, never owning up to my own, or trying to find my personal values. I'm grateful to you, Tejas, for taking this reflective journey and making myself question more inward. I just hope we both get there eventually...
And never have to go through this internal battle each and every day.
Hopefully one day it is over. 💔
❤❤ Thank you.
This was beautiful. I wish I had watched this series when I was 15 years old. Thank you Tejas and congratulations for your work. :)
That's a huge reason I want to make these videos, they are really postcards to my 18 year old self. Thank you :)
Wow
a LOT of people would find this docu series extremely valuable
and I hope it brings you great success
thanks for putting in the effort
Self identity and figuring out how to figure out who you are is one of those things we are never taught properly in society....that is, right until you made this video. Amazing work, Tejas. Your work impacts so much of us!
This series explored one of the less talked topics and the one that troubled me for years. The production and sound was top notch and kept me hooked till the end of this series. Probably the only series on RUclips that I completed.
Kudos to you, million subs aren't far away. Love from India ❤
Thank you!! Welcome to our corner of the internet. Also appreciate that love from across the world 🇮🇳
This is a masterpiece. When your love for creating something so artistic and true ends up with character growth, that's probably the best thing that could ever happen. Loved seeing this journey span over 4 episodes and I can't wait to see what's in store for the future, for you and your channel!
Means so much! And yes, you hit it on the head - the best part of this whole series is you see me and my friends go through authentic hero journey's and it was a natural story
@@TejasHullur to see everyone benefiting from this journey to find out something that's usually just considered trivial was beautiful to see!
Here's the biggest flaw with your study. Women, in general are very concerned with the perception others have of them. Therefore, with their faces and identities disclosed, you don't know if you are getting honest answers from the judges, or merely answers and justifications for their ratings that make them look good, aka earn public approval.
I'd argue this makes their ratings more realistic, because in the real world, people judge and evaluate potential partners based on perceived approval, but are also judged themselves based on who they date. removing this element would likely make it more distant form real world interactions.
Bro wtf is that video ? The quality of this is insane ! How are u not on million of followers ? Is this a second account ? I don’t know this guy, this video was insane !
This series was AMAZING. Truly a representation of hard-work, dedication, and AUTHENTICITY. Tejas, appreciate you for bringing your audience a new perspective and AWARENESS
Today I couldn’t find a video that held my attention long enough to watch. I unknowingly clicked on the first episode of this series because it’d been in my recommended for awhile, and I’m proud to say that I just sat and binged all four episodes! The storytelling, cinematography, music, and just charisma of everyone involved made me instantly hooked. Congrats on making this amazing docuseries! I’ve laughed so much, gained insight about myself and others, and as a new subscriber, I’m so excited to see more! I know I’ll be thinking about this series for awhile and I’ll recommend it to all of my friends to watch. Thanks so much for all your and your team’s hard work and dedication!!!
Gravy, wow. I'm so glad you enjoyed, learned, laughed and more! Welcome to our corner of the internet.
Genuinely amazing series! Left me with so many questions on how I should navigate my life moving forward and made me realize that there are tons of things I need to work on. I really resonated with the points you brought up and how you struggle with self fidelity and I genuinely think that is the one major struggle I am currently going through and I never realized it before. So, thank you for making this video and making me realize what I need to do to better myself. I genuinely really appreciate it.
Self-fidelity is one of the most important lessons of my life. Thank you for the compliments! Welcome to our corner of the internet.
You’ve found your style! I know it’s been a journey but you should be so proud. Great series!
Didn’t even realize this was an hour either haha. Props to you 👏
Tejas I've been following your content since the last 2 years, and I've gotta say this has to be one of the best Docu-series I've seen on RUclips. You've come a long way, can't wait to see what you create in future!
You should be really proud of this series. I don't know you but I am incredibly proud of you showed yourself, be vulnerable but also taught us something.
This is probably, and I am not exaggerating, the best piece of content I have ever saw on the internet. It was fun to watch and edited perfectly, but at the same time so interesting and enlightening.
Thank you so much for this series, hope you will have much more followers and attention, because your content is really something else in RUclips.
Couldn't help but cry at the end. Thank you for such an honest, vulnerable and explorative video. Subscribed!
I just wanted to take this chance to thank you for creating this docu-series. I myself have had a failed relationship a few months ago that went eerily similar to yours where I couldn't quite figure out what I did wrong. And now, with the conclusion of your series I've realized that the reason as to why things didn't work out for me was because I, in some way, suppressed who I really am and wasn't self-confident enough, similar to your case - and for that I want to thank you for bringing this to light. I hope this doesn't come off as weird because you obviously don't know me, but really man, thank you!
I'm stoked to see more of what you create
read the unplugged alpha by Richard Cooper. that's what girls look for. I look for long hair, feminine, introverted, sweet, elegant etc. Completely different things
The quality of this docu-series is GREAT! On par with a giant coorperation with millions of followers. Really clear to see the time and energy you've put into this. This project and your channel deserve a lot more love
It’s incredible that this entire documentary is free to watch! It’s so insightful and powerful-it really resonates. Amazing work on the filming and storytelling, Tejas.
This series was absolutely amazing! I am so grateful that I found these episodes when they all came out. PEAK docuseries
thank you for following along the whole ride and all the delays we've had hahaha
This summer, I went through one of the most tumultuous relationships and experiences in my life. And a massive trait I kept seeing is how fluid I was, how much I didn't trust my own judgement, and how easily I conformed to someone else's. I didn't know why I was such a pushover and had all these qualities related to not being true to myself and not being the one who would define situations, but now I finally see it, I finally see a word that encapsulates this perfectly - self-fidelity. I realize I dont know exactly what my values are and how I don't have faith in myself or those values to the extent that I want to either. Thank you Tejas for giving me that insight. I felt like I never had it before and it opened up a whole new world of how I can improve myself and tackle my anxieties and fears to become a better version of me. Thank you so much. This episode and the ending especially is something that has already deeply impacted me.
The moment "self-fidelity issue" was mentioned, I cried. This was such a revealing experience for me, thank you Tejas for putting yourself out there and making such genuine informative content! I somehow feel uplifted, like something has been weighing me down for a long time, and now a voice is telling me that everything's alright, that it's okay. Am a huge fan of yours now.
(p.s.: I love the way you laugh)
Can't express enough how genius & authentic this guy is. Thanks!
1) Self-fidelity (authenticity)
2) curiosity and presence
3) warmth.
Saved you an hour. 53:09
Appreciate you!! 🙏
that's what girls look for. I look for long hair, feminine, introverted, sweet, elegant etc. Completely different things
The Moment he said that they look for traits that make a good father I felt a realization... thanks for expanding my perceptive, a wonderful video!
This has helped me a lot too Tejas! I'm someone who struggles with self-confidence and doesn't view themselves as very attractive. I have asked myself the same questions you asked and I'm truly thankful for this series. I really have a lot to think about
this is an insanely well made documentary. well done
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Can I just say that the production quality of this entire series was just spot on! I have see my fair share of video essays and docu-series, but this is by far the best. The story telling was beautiful! Loved it!
The best thing about this whole series is watching Tejas grow. You really grabbed every best core element of your videos and tied those threads together & weaved this beautiful journey. You're the guy who chases the questions he has for enlightenment. Who combines his curiosity, creativity and courage to be vulnerable. The guy who keeps doing what he loves. And you're so so so inspiring. I mean, who ever thought a docuseries about science behind attractiveness could make you cry? It's you Tejas, you move our hearts by being yourself. THANK YOU SO SO MUCH FOR GIVING THIS GIFT.
PS: Your corner of the internet is the warmest place to be.
This is one of the best compliments I’ve ever received. Thank you so much 🥹
@TejasHullur you go Tejas, gonna be always here to remind you of how amazing and magical and inspiring you are (yes, there is gonna be more best compliments)
1 minute in... the production quality is already insane
Great series! So informational and insightful! I think it's something a lot can benefit from in this day and age. Keep up the great work!👍
This is such an underrated series and this deserves a million views. Keep killing it you are making it big one day.
Throughout this entire series, your musicwork has been just immaculate. Your catalog, cutting, timing, expression. Immaculate.
INCREDIBLE series
I feel like the previous endings have had the same shot of looking into the mirror and I've seen it as analyzing yourself, but with the lead up at the end it felt like you were looking at the viewer instead, the whole ending hit me so hard
cant believe your channel isnt bigger. best of luck on your endeavours.
I really needed this right now after struggling with obsession too. The journey of what you’ve discovered is beautiful and its bittersweet having the answer be the most simplest phrase we’ve heard “just be yourself” ❤
Interesting in test #3 to see all the girls rate the guys they spoke with 1-on-1 with as their number one choice, and the other girls rate them lower. Seems to be some sort of implicit bias there, and interesting to imagine how that plays out when sharing our dating experiences. Especially the culture of girls sharing dating experiences amongst each other.
this was excellent, I couldn't stop watching. I love Tejas, Shervin, Thomas and Hope. Nice to meet Kolt & Veljko
Truly beautiful Tejas, especially at the end I cried, I feel exactly what you and for the first time see that some other person goes through what I do. I also always didn’t understand the reason why I cling or change for the person, but now I know it’s about my values and my true self that I still need to discover at my young age of 22. Incredible documentary, please keep on creating, there is a bright future ahead of you! Would love to meet up when someday will visit NYC again 🥹🙏
Tejas you are an icon for making this. You’ve touched the lives of thousands. Thank you
To be fair, they aren’t able to see these girls faces and make eye contact. I think eye contact and reacting to facial expressions is one of the most powerful things in conversation and in my personal experience it’s one of the only ways I know how to really connect with people. This brings me back to when we had to wear masks everywhere and after a few months I felt like I hadn’t connected with someone in so long because words can only do so much.
It probably depends on how you grew up interacting with others. For some online, text or even voice alone are enough to connect with someone.
read the unplugged alpha by Richard cooper
WOW such a fantastic series. truly a gem on RUclips. can't believe I'm watching this for free - it's beautifully shot, scripted, evidence backed and keeps you engaged (I didn't skip through one bit in this one). I especially loved the use of metaphors in the end. Excited for whatever comes next!!
You are killing it, both the huge production value and immense depth of thought going into this series make this the most informative and helpful videos on RUclips I‘ve seen in a long time, maybe even ever. Keep it up, the world really needs people like you these times.
Didn't realise how interesting social sciences is, well made!
TEJAS ATE THIS UPP, WE'RE SO PROUD OF YOUUU
Really great video and series!! I enjoyed it very much. But I can’t be the only one who noticed that each girl had a different favourite candidate, which contributes to the argument that attractiveness is still quite subjective
This is ART! Tejas is for sure the most attractive in his towel
The cinematography is incredible it feels like I’m watching a movie
Wow. Let me just say that watching this series has been incredible and the fact that I was able to watch it for free is even more incredible. It kept me captivated the whole time and I can say that I learned a lot from this series. This is some phenomenal work. I'm fully invested in your channel now and I'm looking forward to all your future videos. Keep it coming!
I'm honestly loving this series because it's allowed me to reflect and just think about my own life and how I feel about these topics. It's made me think deeper about how I act or what I think of myself physically and it's also reminded me to stay positive about myself and not to be too negative. It's definitely a journey(it hits even harder just coming out of a 15 month relationship). Thank you for these great videos and keep it up Tejas!
This was an amazing watch. I'm glad you decided to undertake this massive project and do it justice! Looking forward to whatever you've got in store next.
I don't think I've ever been more invested in a series than this one. The production, editing, presentation is all S-tier. The stuff you bring up is not only helpful but incredibly interesting. Personally, the past month that I've spent watching these videos when they came out, I noticed a lot of the words you said echoing in my head and it helped me out in so many ways. It should be a crime that you don't have millions of subscribers, this is absolute gold, award winning stuff man.
Tejas, I don't hope you grow in subs and success, I know you will. Really happy to have found this corner of the internet :) Keep it up
Wow wow wow!! Thank you so much, seriously. I really want to make our corner of the internet something special so thank you for being a part of it!
Tejas, firstly, what a great production! Congratulations on that.
I would like to appreciate one of the numerous other good characteristics - the coherence of the entire 4-part series. It was spot on. The use of the places, took us to back the premise immediately. Their repetition prepared us for the following content.
You are one of my fav creators! I hope you take a good break after this long journey.
And it sure as hell taught me a lot. Gave me something to improve upon
Just going to comment while watching. The dating show is hilarious. So fun seeing each of you in that scenario. Love that Tejas brings in experts for each of the beats in the story.
One of if not the best youtube video I’ve ever seen. I used to overthink so often and many times it was about what confidence meant in terms of attracting and you completely answered that for me. Thank you!
damnn, i dont think i have been interested in some series on yt so much, literally counting down the days for the next epi, the story telling, the editing everythings on spot, and especially the motive. Really inspired by you Tejas, i have been wanting to start yt since 3 yrs now but i just dont find wat i want to create or dont find the driving force, and i think i have found it now, thanks to u. really love the content man, keep posting. looking forward to collab with u one day for sure.
Wow. I’ve never been on a first date like that, but if I ever have to. I know what I need! Always a banger from Tejas. As a psych major these things are very intriguing
man this series was on another level
never seen something like this on youtube before
i really loved it!
and respect to you for being so open and vulnerable throughout the series man!
We can tell you spent a lot of time on this series. I enjoyed all of the episodes. Thank you!!
That was such a heart-warming and enlightening watch!! Thank you.
I loved the three pillars of non-physical attraction.
I think in relation to your breakup, the problem was that you felt that you didn’t deserve that person, and this insecurity can really bleed into a relationship. It seems like you are becoming more confident on this journey and learning your self worth because you do in fact have a lot of value to give!! Looking forward to seeing more of your content ❤
Really well made video!! Something so exciting and attractive is when people see the value and worth God gave them!! It’s something i sometimes struggle with, but when you start to see how amazing you are designed and how unique and special you are, it truly does change your whole outlook and outcome of life!!😊 Anyone reading this I want you to know how special you are!! Even if you don’t feel special, even if you don’t feel like you matter, your feelings do not make that true!! Regardless of how you feel, you are designed and you are important!!
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Great video Tejas!
I really appreciate your idea on making this video and the intention.
This was truly a cinematic masterpiece, I cannot begin to understand the work you’ve put in. Thank you.
Well done Tejas!
This series was eye opening and I loved the ending. Couldn't have resonated more with it. Keep it up 😌
What a great final episode and what a great series! Very high quality and interesting stuff. Thank you for sharing so much, and being brave, thoughtful and vulnerable. It's been great to get to understand more about you, and to have you help me understand more about myself too!
Wow this production quality is top notch. I was stunned when I looked down and saw you only had 100k subs. Keep up the great work man
That conclusion was truely beautiful
damn! I just found the near perfect mini-docu series in youtube, really loved this and your effort behind this!
You can tell the amount of passion and dedication put into this series. So many little things in every video make it more than just good information. Keep going Tejas, you're doing great.
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man, ive been straight binging your content the past few weeks, honestly feels like stuff that could be behind a paywall. I really enjoy this style of content in general and you and colt and sherwin actually only make bangers fr
This video has inspired me in countless ways, and with your great storytelling, amazing concepts and a very powerful message about confidence - it's changed the way I view things. Keep up the great work! Absolutely brilliant!
that's what girls look for. I look for long hair, feminine, introverted, sweet, elegant etc. Completely different things
What a series! This is Netflix and Hollywood quality. You did so well educating and entertaining at the same time. I can’t wait to see your future projects!
Thank you for making this, Tejas. I, too, am on a similar journey, and this helps paint a clearer picture of an inkling about myself I noticed, but couldn’t put words to describe it. I clapped at the end of the video as this, to me, felt like cinema, even if people might frown upon the usage of the word on this style of visual storytelling. It’s because you are able to convey complex ideas and weave a compelling narrative that I truly applaud you for, and I would like to wish you all the best! Keep up the great work!
At the end of this, we learn that everyone is different nad there is always someone that will accept you as you are, even with things you need to improve, obviously all of us have. Attractiveness is relative. Great video!