TBH this is the first time I've seen/heard a rational & mature take on India. Most other RUclipsrs add music & forced graphics which makes it very gimmicky.
Your take on everything has been honest and precise. Much appreciated. 1. Honking is...ingrained in the psyche in a way. Cars honk when they see you at visible distance from the road because they seek to warn you. Most understand that you can hear the car approaching, but they decide to 'play it' on the safer side of thigs. In India unintentional roadkill happens in volumes. But, honking at a solo girl traveler for reasons that have to with simple teasing are NOT to be ruled out either. 2. Indians DO NOT use toilet papers. Not generally. We prefer water and soap and towel. Toilet papers make us (most of us anyway) feel kinda unclean. 3. Tipping is purely voluntary here- it's not as toxic as it is in the USA. If you feel like it, you can tip. No pressure at all. 4. The enormous amount of paperwork are repetitive because centre and state have got different administrative setups and concerns and departments. Govt bureaucracy continues to be a migraine in India. There are advantages to this as well, but let's not go down that path. 5. COMPLTELY agree on an absence of cleanliness in the public place, lack of awareness about personal space and most importantly, the (typically north Indian) mentality of taking sexual advantage of solo women. This is VERY unfortunate and as an average Indian I genuine feel ashamed. There's NO excuse and I don't know if this will ever end. The ONLY silver lining is the hope that probably with time things MIGHT change for the better. Take care and stay safe.
*It was all fine until you mentioned that North vs South bs.* Women are sadly harassed even here in NYC and also when I was back in UK. There are hundreds of cases daily in our south India too. It's a global issue.
4:44 because we had a terrorist attack in Mumbai after that everything changed. Even when entering a shopping mall, a security guard will be scanning your bags.
Easier said than done and its different everywhere. Remember we stay with an hostile neighbour, who is heel bent on terrorist activities in our country.
Lol! Our Punjab Police is well known for slapping these young Goons for Eve Teasing.iam still so proud of their (lol) Law Enforcement. SLAP FIRST THEN ASK questions
Yes,true ,actually they hv set their woman as standard for rest of the world most of whom are very raw and unfit.Be rough with them upfront and they understand so well
A big like! As an Indian man I agree with what you said. I recommend traveling more to the North Eastern, South India side also Himachal and Ladakh. Please refrain from cities like Delhi, the guys there give the rest of us a really bad name.
Delhi is the only true metropolitan in India...yeah we get guys from haryana..up..Bihar..rajasthan..punjab...but never has any delhite said u don't belong here...in Mumbai..Chennai. Bangalore.. etc u get that a lot...Delhi accepts everyone...mayb rough bcos it represents north which had to toughen up bcos of the continuous attacks and plunder by Afghans...Persians..mughals
@@vipulmalhotra6426 indian man from north predominately harassing and raping woman because of attacks from Persio 400 years go ... dude get a grip stop writing nonsens. It's our culture that sees woman as less and as objects, especially those from the villages. They even blame the girls for being raped. You can blame 400 year old invasions as long as you want, but it's definitly not an acceptable excuse. Those men are also not tough at all, tough man protect woman not rape them, those are cowards and uneducated men that should be thrown in jail for life.
Just came back, literary, today from India. It was my fourth trip. It will take me a day to reset, and feel back as well, and the way to do it, slowly, naturally, is to watch videos like this.😊.Loved hearing your perspective!
Many foreigners often complain about cleanliness in India, but I believe that much of this stems from choosing to eat or stay in places that are not up to their usual standards, often in the name of adventure and to save money for the months long trip. Unlike the US and EU, India offers food and accommodation at a wide range of price points. To receive decent service and cleanliness, one should aim for above-average establishments. However, I have noticed that some foreigners opt for entry-level options and then complain about the cleanliness. In contrast, the US and EU have minimal variations in price points for different income levels, making the quality more consistent. Most of it comes from their expectation of a service level similar to their country, you can get that in India, but it would cost the same as their country.
I agree, although I stayed in mid range hotels and to be honest for 30 eur a night not to get toilet paper or bed sheets was a bit surprising. Byt yeah European hotels can be horrible and overpriced.
@@yanaslight Toilet paper is not a think in India. Even some luxury hotels might not offer toilet paper if they arent used to western tourists. And we have more efficient septic system of drainage in India and not the regular toilet paper friendly sewage system like in the west.
Are you from north east india? My understanding about north east is, a lot of terrorism happens there. I have seen travelers review of North East, they are also mixed... discrimination, overcharging is prevalent there too.
As an indian ,tourist guide or indian friends can make your travel experience more safer and comfortable. Showing to much body can be uncomfortable so,try to wear indian flag with traditional cloths .so many indians try to help you. Go to a good rated restaurant indian street food can be harmful due to your immunity difference. Don't travel in 3rd class trains because poor people may take your seats & stinky some times . Its better to pay Little extra money for your personal safety & comfort. All the best. 🇮🇳❤️🙏🏻
I always see these Western people making video on safety in India. Never seen anyone talking about: 1) "Are Western countries safe for Indians?" 2) Why are so many Indian students getting killed in US, UK, Canada, Australia?
Did you watch the video?? I actually shared that India was safe just like any other place. Why don't Indian people share experiences, I can't relate as I'm not Indian.
@@yanaslight So many Indian students are suffering in Western countries and u don't even care. That shows your mentality. Before pointing fingers at others, first check your own backyard. India does not need anyone's validation.
Very interesting video. As someone who has traveled India extensively I think you nailed it perfectly. I think this was recommended to me because I watched another video from an Australian lady recently who had a really horrendous time in India. I am not saying she didn't experience what she did, however she was definitely not an experienced traveler, as I watched another of her videos and she had a hard time in Dubai as well.
Thank you so much for your comment, yes unfortunately some people's experiences are very different, and yes its important to know how to travel and also have an open, positive attitude.
*(#2)More Places to eat at in Mumbai:* *1. Ashok Vada Pav - (Kashinath Dhuru Marg, Dadar West, Dadar, Mumbai)* This stall is the Birth place of the iconic Mumbai Vada Pav. One of the best Vada Pavs in town. Very clean & hygienic. Their USP is their iconic Chura that they add in the Pav & their spicy Green & Red chutneys. *2. Gajalee - (Kadamgiri Complex, Hanuman Road, next to Icici Bank, Vile Parle East, Mumbai)* One of the most famous Sea food restaurants of Mumbai. Enjoy succulent, flaky, tender fish cooked in a blend of Indian spices. *3. Lalta Pav Bhaji - (Next to Gurukrupa Restaurant, Valabhbagh Lane, Tilak Rd, Ghatkopar east, Mumbai)* One of the best Pav Bhajis & butteriest pavs in the suburbs of Mumbai. Make sure to ask them for separate sliced onion & tomato discs with chaat masala sprinkled on them.(Open till 2 am) *4. Achija Ghatkopar - (1, Gala Garden View Society, Valabhbagh Lane, Tilak Rd, Ghatkopar east, Mumbai)* One of the best Ghee Onion Rava Masala Dosa in Town & Extremely tasty North Indian food).(Open till 2 am) *5. Laxman Vada Pav - (Shop no.6-7, Sri Sati Krupa Shopping Center, Garodia Nagar, Ghatkopar East, Mumbai) Famous for various types of Vada pav like Maggi Vada pav, Amul butter Vada pav, Cheese burst Vada pav, Masala Vada pav etc. Also, other fast food dishes. *6. Ram Ashraya - (Shop 3-6 ground floor, Jamnadas Mansion, bazar, Laxmi Narayan Lane, Matunga central, Matunga East, Mumbai)* One of the best places to have South Indian dishes. Try some of their iconic dishes like Pineapple Sheera, Upma, Vada Sambar, Appams, Dosas. *7. Famous Masala Vadapav, Mulund (Original) - (Purushottam Kheraj Road, Dr Ambedkar Road, opposite Kalidas Auditorium Road, Mulund, Mumbai)* Famous for their Masala Vada Pav & Cheese Masala Vada Pav. *8. Jay Jalaram Ice Bhel - (Patel Building, MG Road, Mulund West, Mumbai)* Famous for their iconic Cold Bhel puri, Sev Puri etc. One of the iconic food spots in Mulund. *9. Khau Galli - (Near SNDT College, Cross Maidan, Marine Lines, Mumbai)* An entire Lane to enjoy Street Food like Pav Bhaji, Frankies, Bhel Puris, Momos, Faloodas, Juices etc. *10. Tandoori Delicacies at Jai Jawan - (Opposite National College, Next to Chappal Market, Linking Road, Bandra West, Mumbai)* Famous for its Tandoori Chicken, Punjabi Prawns Masala, Punjabi Prawn Fry, Kababs etc. *11. Aaswad - (Sanskruti Building, Gadkari Chowk, 4, Lady Jamshedji Road, opp. Shiv Sena Bhavan, Dadar West, Mumbai)* Famous for its Authentic Maharashtrian dishes like Misal Pav, Thaali peeth, Modak, Sheera, Piyush, Kothimbir vadi etc. *12. Haji Ali Juice Centre - (Lala Lajpatrai Marg, Haji Ali junction, Near the entrance to Haji Ali dargah, Dargah Rd, Mumbai,)* Famous for its Juices, Shakes, Faloodas & Ice creams. Do try their iconic dishes of Strawberry Cream & Sitafal cream. *13. Zaveri Bazaar Street - (169/171, Gambhir Bhavan, Khau Galli, 3rd Agyari Ln, Zaveri Bazaar, Mumbai) The entire street is famous for its food. Try the Masala Khichiya papad & Khamani here. Also, try the Pudlas at the famous Mohanbhai Pudlawala. *14. Cannon Pav Bhaji - (Mahapalika Marg, Opposite Chhatrapati Shivaji Terminus, Hazarimal Somani Road, Fort, Mumbai) Famous for its buttery Pav Bhaji & other dishes. *15. Aram Vada Pav & Aram Hotel - (Capital Cinema Building, Hazarimal Somani Rd, opposite CST Station, Azad Maidan, Fort, Mumbai,) Famous for its Vada pav & other Maharashtrian dishes like Upma, Sheera, Pineapple Sheera, Piyush, Solkadhi, Misal Pav, Kothimbir vadi etc.
Yes your points are well taken. There's lots of stuff that we as a country need to improve I did not hear much about what you enjoyed. Did you? What you learned?
ohhh what exaclty is she supposed to learn according to you? Maybe India needs to learn about garbage about honking about decency with people and tourists and personal space and so many things. Why don't you learn something bro.
Oh for sure, I love India! People, culture, food, colors, nature, variety. Sorry if it sounded like a rant! You can see my travels in other videos I defo loved it!
Kudos for passing on your personal experiences to prospective visitors and people in general ❤ If you had added videos along with narratives, it would made an interesting & educative vlog! Enjoy your travels🎉
*Developing and developed nations have a different set of problems.* Women's safety is a global issue, be it here in the States or India. Most parts of India are unexplored imho.
Discrimination, travel issue, Food problems, healthcare, rude and good behaviour, theft, mugging, crimes, entertainment, sex/fun offers, overcharging vs fair pricing vs opportunity cost... These are part and parcel of all the countries and cities. I feel it is more problematic in the west. Only thing good about west is cleanliness, after a while it starts to feel annoying too. Cost wise broad day light robbery goes on in the west. Everything is damn expensive. I salute you for your courage to travel alone. I myself never had guts to travel alone even being a guy.
The elaborate airbnb documentation is due to the over zealousness of the local cops. As a consequence even the airbnb operator HAS TO keep an "office copy" to prove that they aren't running a brothel.
I agree 200%, IRCTC website to book train tickets sucks. too much demand, too little upgradation of tracks and increase in number of trains. i have to plan 3 months in advance while i dont know whether i will be alive 3 months in advance
All the problems you stated are the problems even we as Indians think needs to be solved. 1. Honking is a curse but then historically due to poor road conditions and existing poor traffic management, honking has become a tool to communicate. Thats why you would actually see less road accidents on a rather crowded street become of management through honking. 2. ATM situation - People are generally innocent and they really dont find people standing behind. Even if you request people to go out, they might very well not understand why you said so. 3. Using hands to serve - Its a grey area. You can wash hands multiple times in an hour you cant wash gloves or utensils that often. That being said, hygiene standards are generally poor because even someone who is poor and drinks unsafe tap water can open a food cart. And by his own quality standards, he/she thinks that the food is of great quality. Thats why we usually avoid such places. Regulating such places is a difficult task for the govt. 4. Littering - Even i dont understand why people litter. I would recommend you come to my state, Madhya Pradesh. Things are way better here. My city is a lot cleaner then busy European and American cities and people are generally mindful of trash.
@@yanaslightyeah come to madhya pradesh, madhya pradesh have the most tigers in the world and also have biggest forest area in whole India, Bhopal, Indore are best cities and more cleaner than some of the cities of North and South India
very apt and loyal point of view by you yana , of my country and its people ! liked it ! as for me i live in the northern rural part of india (haryana) about 60km away from delhi ! being an educated man , i could have chosen the city life and city cultur to blend in for my life , but i chose the calm approach of living and spending my life in indian villages ! i have spent my last 30 yrs in educating the common folks out here about the same things you have mentioned which have to be looked after in india ! --- but aah ! you missed one point here , and thats ---- the "STARING" part --- as an indian myself that too living in village, i know my fellow countrymen , being a very curious lot , have a habit of staring people , that too people like you from the western countries ! so my point is not to get offended by this ! its in our DNA , we cant help it --- we just have to stare, though i know people visiting india may find it offensive, but it is also a part of daily life here ! so it should be taken lightly ! anyways liked your true analysis about my country and now i will try to help my people here more by figuring out what all i have missed amd by learning from your beautiful vlog ! thanks and regards --- bobby !
With all my respect to u ma'am.very sorry for whatever bad experience u had in india n v understand ur feeling mam .but one thing v must admit the way u sounded (sounded u handle the situation very well) n very women should handle the situation how u have handling it in any country. V Indian know there is lot of problems n chaos but v r getting there mam I hope next time when visit India u will have a much more better experience.thanks mam n sorry again ✌️
Im not saying any negative about to you . But I have seen Western concern about safety and stuffs while Indian people getting discrimination in foreign countries getting k*lled , torture , gun violence and things like that. .
@@yanaslightwell he is telling truth in US many Indians are dying because of racism, gang violence and don't know why even racism against Indians are normalised in social media
Great content - very honest which isn't always the case with travelling vlogs. We spent a month in India as a family this winter and there are just some points I wanted to add: Do persevere at registering with the Indian train system IRCTC. Try different mail addresses, gmail worked for me, and different mobile numbers - try a friend's if yours doesn't work, you won't need to communicate via phone later on. We did nearly all our travelling by rail in India and it was very, very efficient, hassle free and good value all things considered. Try different credit cards, too... Secondly, we experienced some problems purchasing SIM cards, too. But at least at Delhi airport there was a workaround - we needed some perseverance here, too, observing other tourists, talking to them, asking several times.... Next time we will bring Indian phone numbers - luckily possible for us. Thirdly, it seemed to us they drive by sonic system - at least in utterly overwhelming Delhi traffic they clearly used the horn to warn when they were overtaking, to settle matters of priority and so on. But you are right - being honked at in plain sight without any apparent reason at all happened to us, too - very annoying. We have been contemplating the attitude to littering, too. Not easy to understand. It crossed my mind that it might have grown out of the cast system historically... but then I don't know. I could go on with comments... Well done you for travelling alone !!! I wouldn't feel comfortable, although I'm a lot older which might make things easier. Keep exploring and all the best.
*Places to eat at in Mumbai:* *1. Elco Pani puri - (area - Bandra west in Mumbai)* - One of the best Pani puris in town. Very clean & hygienic. They use bottled mineral water to make these. So very safe to eat Pani Puris at this place. *2. Sardar Pav Bhaaji - (area - Tardeo in Mumbai)* - The best and the most buttery Paav Bhaaji on Planet Earth. *3. Bade Miyan - Late night place - is open till 3 am or so (area - near Taj hotel & the Gate way of India in Mumbai)* A late night place, patrons eat in their cars, but has a seating area as well. Famous for their wraps, Tikkas, Tandooris & barbecued stuff. *4. Leopold Cafe (area - Colaba causeway in Mumbai)* - Nice beer, barbecues, nice desserts. *5. Pancham Puriwala - (area - fort in Mumbai)* - 5 types of puris(bread), savory dishes & desserts. *6. Persian Darbar - (area - Bandra west in Mumbai)* Famous for their Raan Biryani. Delicious Mughlai cuisine. You'll love it. *7. Mahesh Lunch home - (area - Juhu Tara road in Mumbai)* Heaven for Sea food lovers. Very clean & hygienic and you can get the most iconic sea food dishes here. *8. Mini Punjab's Lake side - (area Powai in Mumbai)* Need to call and book a thaali(platter) in advance. Famous for its Dara Singh Thaali - available in both veg & non-veg versions. A must try. *9. Britannia & co. restaurant - (area - Ballard estate, Fort in Mumbai)* Famous for its Irani / Parsi cuisine. Awesome Desserts & Sodas. *10. Anand Stall - (Vile Parle west in Mumbai)* A fast food joint famous for its awesome Vada Paav, Sandwiches & Dosas. *11. Mohammed Ali road - (Area - CST - 6 pm onwards till late night)* The whole street is filled with street vendors who sell various non-vegetarian stuff and some vegetarian too. Plus, there are some really nice restaurants on the same street. Try the famous dessert that you get only on this street in a sweet shop. The dessert is called Aflatoon.
More u travel more u understand n feel the pulse... i think the language about love, sadness, tears n laughter are all universal ❤ from india, hope u comeback n start ur journey again. ....best wishes for all ur travels.
I am from a state in the north called Uttarakhand and i feel you pain when you see trash everywhere. i remember back in the days at least in Uttarakhand we had no trash problem. Unfortunately some idiots travel to these beautiful places and ruin it with their garbage. I recently went to Himachal Pradesh myself and it was beautiful but people left so much trash there that i was in trauma for a while. People of India need to understand that environment is very important. if we ruin our land then its going to damage us in the future. Very short sited people unfortunately.
In India it is very unnatural for a man an woman to go out and get a coffee or to show them around, unless it is a licensed tour guide. So when the hotel manager went with you in his mind he thought this was like a date, and you were interested in him. This is what a lot of Western people do not understand. There is still the culture of service, and that is it. You become friendly it takes on a different vibe in their mindset. That is unfortunately the mindset that still continues.
Yes, he is actually a tour guide and it wasn't going out somewhere, we had chai right there and he offered to show me a quiet place in nature. But yes I understand the differences in mentality. What's offensive is the assumption that a white woman is easy and should straight away be interested in "having fun"
If u get the time also come to Eastern part as well like Kolkata , Darjeeling, Gangtok and north eastern sates. North east is exceptionally beautiful , peaceful and clean u will definitely like the ambiance.
2:27 Gentle correction: Ladakh and Kashmir are distinct Union Territories and are NOT part of, nor have they ever been part of Himachal Pradesh, which is a different state altogether. Ladakh and Kashmir were part of the state of Jammu and Kashmir till 2019.
Yesterday, I asked two German tourists if I could be their guide. I know it might have been a bit annoying, so I only spent a couple of seconds and then left. Your feedback will really help us understand things from your perspective. By the way, if you ever come to Kerala, let me know. I'm from Alappuzha 😅 Trust me, I'll show you an authentic experience on a budget. I even have a scooter.
Oh lovely to hear! I would never be rude if someone is just asking! But I’ve had people really follow me and really be insisting! Definitely if I’m ever in Kerala!
unless you are a official tourguide i wouldn't offer strangers to be their tourguide because that would come as very strange and wired to western tourists. I'm from Kerala too but grew up abroad, i would blindly trust almost any stranger in Kerala, i have only met good people. But in the west, people don't trust strangers so easily, here kids are teached to not trust strangers from a very early age for their own protection, so their guard is always up. The best thing to do if you see tourists is to just leave them alone, only offer help if they approach you. Also depending on the country the tourists are from, they sometimes don't want too much interaction and just want to be left alone (mostly germans and swiss people from what i konw)
@@sebinsebastian9404 haha do what ever you want to do, i don't care. I just gave you my opinion based on my experience. It's the age of the internet, no one looks for a tourguide by just walking around in the city, if they would want a tourguide, they would look online. If a stanger approaches them to give them a tour, especially if it's not from a tourism company, the first though would be "it's a scam". Western tourists watch a lot of videos and prepare themselves before travelling to india, india is not like travelling to any other country.
@yanaslight thank you. It will take time, we should encourage people to do the right things and hope for a better future. They may be ignorant, but good at heart.
Does not matter if they are Hindu or Muslim. Have seen awful behavior toward women even at 'religious' places. Religion is just a way for the ego to look 'holy', while the inner self is a hypocrite.
Here in India it is impolite not to horn😅 If a diver doesn't horn means he doesn't really care enough about the lives of the people in the streets to alert them.
honking is for safety and to let others know that i am behind or i am overtaking you or asking way to overtake or to change lanes. it prevents accidents. it works in india because traffic police cannot be everywhere to guide the traffic, people are careful if they hear a honk. it a kind of self regulation to prevent accidents. it works in india. so it will happen in india. if you don't like things in india, no one forced you to come here. Tourist should come, experience and get going. There is no point of giving advice. Remember you did not come to india to change it or improve it. Did you? Women safety is an issue everywhere in the world. Mugging, rapes, assaults, robbery is common in all western, eastern, southern and central earth. As a general rule, no human being should roam around shady localities alone anywhere in the world. Garbage disposal is a government created problem, they give contracts to private sectors and they take the money and never do the job. Garbage collection companies are the biggest hotspots of corruption in India. People throw garbage in random places because enough dustbin are not made available. we can do better with the garbage thing. It will only stop when people start asking for answers for the tax they pay and why the pile of garbage exist in the locality. Don't go around trying to educate Indians about how to handle garbage. This is not your country. Some people may take offence and may harm you. Please Do not save the nature at the expense of your life and dignity. India is a free country in its literal sense. Government does not implement the exact rules on the road. Not just road, all rules apply depending on the situation and seriousness. Our definition of seriousness is not the same as western laws. Also every state has state specific laws, they are all indian laws, a variety of them. You already know what I am talking about. Anyways I have seen people smoking weed everywhere in india but marijuana is highly illegal in India. I do not see foreigners complain about that!! why?? because you people do that too and like it too? do not be a hypocrite. A brown guy is always discriminated in Europe and north america. Do not talk about discrimination here in India.. Foreigners are given a lot of respect because we think that Guest are god. If you complain about isolated events, that would be hypocrisy considering the worst treatment a brown guy have to face everyday in west.
I am not going to get into an argument with you and neither am I saying your points are not right. I am sharing my experience and not trying to change your country. Freedom of speech they say hey?)
As a female who is going on a solo trip soon....I watched a lot of these videos. And the girls who did have very creepy situations all have one thing in common...they usually stayed in very cheap accommodation. In my opinion those are designed for Indian Men who need to travel for whatever reason and not for young, foreign backpackers in tank tops. Unfortunately I also saw bad feedback when booking a guided tour, as "tour" for westerners is a busload of people, while in India it is a guy and a driver and they sure take you for a ride😂 and so you imagine you are safer when on a tour...but actually it works to your disadvantage cause they take you to overpriced places and rip you off and get what they can out of you. I will make a video when I get back..haha
you are an iranian ? if so , you are here in a country which still preserves the ancient original oriental eastern cultures , faiths .. gave home to zorostrain parsis , jews ...etc
Well it's a tragedy for claiming to be the 'Spiritual Capital' of the World. So much basic stuff to rectify on the outside before offering to teach others what's inside. I don't know it's the population density or what why we Indians can't get few basic things straight? Although I know places, in India itself where it's a non-issue. Only thing I can think of is these things weren't ingrained in us during our childhood by our parents, eventhough almost everyone had learned them at school. Being such a diverse country (both geographically & culturally) and probably, the true spiritual capital of the world, the cradle & library of spirituality, it's a shame we are still grappling with such fundamental inadequacies, almost a century after independence from colonialism 🥺🥹 P.S. Things ARE moving in the RIGHT direction...but we ought to TRULY expedite things, by a LOT!
Please dont think India is a safe place and you could just walk around anywhere at anytime. Not even Indian themselves do such thing of walking around in middle of nowhere. also stay away from Muslim areas dont even dare to walk alone. you are not aware of Indian history and Kashmir search for Girija Tickoo a woman what they did to her. youll never see India as normal nation. bcz it isnt.
See I feel like this is a very limited perspective, again, not walking everywhere, but during day time and in central places, Kashmir was safe. There's security everywhere. This is my real like experience.
@@yanaslight Yes there is security and just few days back 5 soilders died. Just few days before 9 civilians were killed. not even 1 year old kid was spared by terrorists My job is to make you aware of history so you'll keep in mind of possible threats Please 🙏 read about Girija Tickoo she is part of our heart. you'll.know what India is. My India mother is wounded but not defeated Girija Tickoo was one such victim who fell victim to the barbaric designs of such Islamic fanatics in June 1990. Girija, all of 21 years and a mother of two, had been working in Govt Girls High School, Trehgam (Kupwara), on a non-teaching position. Kashmir Valley was under de-facto control of Pakistan supported terror organizations since September 1989. Most of the Kashmiri Pandits fled the valley in terror in January 1990. It is said that Girija’s family were staying put in the valley, hoping that the madness would be over soon. One day, Girija received a message from one of her Muslim colleagues that situation had improved in their area and she should come to her office in Trehgam, Kupwara, to collect her pay check. Little did an unsuspecting Girija realize that this was probably a ruse to lure her out of her home. She came to Trehgam on June 6, collected her pay-check but, on her way back, she was dragged out of her bus and abducted in a taxi by 5 gun totting men, including one of her Muslim colleagues. What befell Girija is worse than a nightmare - something even a ghoulish mind could not have conceived. She was raped, tortured and, in an ultimate act of fanatic zeal, cut into two pieces with a mechanical saw. Her abused body was found buried under sand in a nullah on June 25, 1990. When her brother Satish Raina was notified by police of her gruesome death, he first could not believe his ears nor muster courage to visit the police station. Later, accompanied by some relatives, he visited the police station where the SHO, a Hindu, with tears in his eyes, again requested them not to insist on seeing the dead body - so badly had it been mutilated. However, the family insisted that whatever was left of Girija be handed over to them so that they could at least give her a proper funeral. Girija Tickoo died unsung, an innocent victim to the machinations of vultures masquerading as power brokers, political animals, and religious bigots who wanted to ethnically cleanse Kashmir. Not even a proper FIR was lodged to investigate her murder, leave aside bringing the culprits to book. Instead, her family started receiving threats of physical harm, forcing them to flee Kashmir. The terrible way Girija was butchered only sent a shiver up the spine of those Kashmiri Pandits who were still clinging to their homes and hearths in the Valley, prompting yet another wave of Exodus, this time from the hinterland of Kashmir
@@yanaslightgod bless you then😂 in every city and village of India they live in ghattos where mostly non muslim fear to go....... Even in a broad day light.....still you being tourist feelsand having good time there, best wishes for your experience❤
Honking is a means of communication in India, saying dont do any sudden stupid thing, i am here and coming. Its just everyone telling other, where they are. Sorry but thats the way things are, probably when India can be a $10k per capita economy, things will start to change as will have appropriate infrastructure and rules
@@yanaslight yea trucks even have a writing on their tail saying "Sound Horn", so it's expected. Please use horn, even when they go around a corner, so in case a car comes towards them, they are already warned. Took me a lot of time to figure that out xD. Makes no sense from a western perspective.
East Europe is poorer & Boring and has more Crime. India has all Varieties in every sphere. US, Europe & East Europe has more Crime and a sandwich costs 10 euros.
Mindset while traveling to different parts of India has to be different, one needs to know the cultural aspects and way of life... philosophy of life in india to understand how people live ..their motives etc. 2 cribs of yours about throwing muck outside and not telling I don't know... when you don't know are valid. Your crib of handwashing of clothes is silly ... materialistic way especially if you have lived in UAE...eastern way of living is philosophical and our focus is on karna and not too much on what we don't have... crime and other problems are worldwide, trusting people and being nice and friendly are the qualities you can pick up and take home! I also sense Buddhism is seen by the west as some exotic mumbo jumbo...most of the westerners fall for it without understanding! India lives in different levels. ...one needs a life time to understand it
Appreciate your opinion.🙏🏼 And while I will never understand in depth the way of life in India, I have traveled and lived in different countries in this world and love to see how different people live. Blessings to you
Thanks for being very candid. I might probably see about half of what you saw with your western eyes. Many of the issues, in my opinion, come from religion, culture, poverty and over population.
Yes hyper-religion means you concentrate on the 'personal' next-life. Decreases social-responsibility & reproducing without thought of the bad resources::population ratio.
TBH this is the first time I've seen/heard a rational & mature take on India. Most other RUclipsrs add music & forced graphics which makes it very gimmicky.
Thank you so much, really appreciate it. I'm really not a vlogger and editing is so hard, so I'm glad someone likes the content!
@@yanaslight make food blogs in India and you will get rewarded more and more....like Daily Max...the American food blogger
@@yanaslight YOU ARE SOOO BEAUTIFUL 😍❤️
Most of the foreigners come to India to make vlogs on dharavi
Second that
Your take on everything has been honest and precise. Much appreciated.
1. Honking is...ingrained in the psyche in a way. Cars honk when they see you at visible distance from the road because they seek to warn you. Most understand that you can hear the car approaching, but they decide to 'play it' on the safer side of thigs. In India unintentional roadkill happens in volumes. But, honking at a solo girl traveler for reasons that have to with simple teasing are NOT to be ruled out either.
2. Indians DO NOT use toilet papers. Not generally. We prefer water and soap and towel. Toilet papers make us (most of us anyway) feel kinda unclean.
3. Tipping is purely voluntary here- it's not as toxic as it is in the USA. If you feel like it, you can tip. No pressure at all.
4. The enormous amount of paperwork are repetitive because centre and state have got different administrative setups and concerns and departments. Govt bureaucracy continues to be a migraine in India. There are advantages to this as well, but let's not go down that path.
5. COMPLTELY agree on an absence of cleanliness in the public place, lack of awareness about personal space and most importantly, the (typically north Indian) mentality of taking sexual advantage of solo women. This is VERY unfortunate and as an average Indian I genuine feel ashamed. There's NO excuse and I don't know if this will ever end. The ONLY silver lining is the hope that probably with time things MIGHT change for the better.
Take care and stay safe.
@@diguification maybe this honking is to alert the blind beggars or dogs and cows.
*It was all fine until you mentioned that North vs South bs.* Women are sadly harassed even here in NYC and also when I was back in UK. There are hundreds of cases daily in our south India too. It's a global issue.
Again north vs south 😂😂
I have lived in India for 48 years. And I mirror your feelings ❤, that's why I love India ❤ Stay safe and blessed 🙏
Wow amazing!
4:44 because we had a terrorist attack in Mumbai after that everything changed. Even when entering a shopping mall, a security guard will be scanning your bags.
I know but these horrible cases happen everywhere in the world. We should not live in fear and feel unsafe🙏🏼
Easier said than done and its different everywhere. Remember we stay with an hostile neighbour, who is heel bent on terrorist activities in our country.
In india being polite with men does not work ...u got to be firm
Lol! Our Punjab Police is well known for slapping these young Goons for Eve Teasing.iam still so proud of their (lol) Law Enforcement. SLAP FIRST THEN
ASK questions
@rockstarjamie being polite gives them the impression you want casual relations.hahaha
Yes,true ,actually they hv set their woman as standard for rest of the world most of whom are very raw and unfit.Be rough with them upfront and they understand so well
A big like! As an Indian man I agree with what you said. I recommend traveling more to the North Eastern, South India side also Himachal and Ladakh. Please refrain from cities like Delhi, the guys there give the rest of us a really bad name.
Delhi is the only true metropolitan in India...yeah we get guys from haryana..up..Bihar..rajasthan..punjab...but never has any delhite said u don't belong here...in Mumbai..Chennai. Bangalore.. etc u get that a lot...Delhi accepts everyone...mayb rough bcos it represents north which had to toughen up bcos of the continuous attacks and plunder by Afghans...Persians..mughals
@@vipulmalhotra6426 indian man from north predominately harassing and raping woman because of attacks from Persio 400 years go ... dude get a grip stop writing nonsens. It's our culture that sees woman as less and as objects, especially those from the villages. They even blame the girls for being raped. You can blame 400 year old invasions as long as you want, but it's definitly not an acceptable excuse. Those men are also not tough at all, tough man protect woman not rape them, those are cowards and uneducated men that should be thrown in jail for life.
True Pushy.Touts😢😢
Just came back, literary, today from India. It was my fourth trip. It will take me a day to reset, and feel back as well, and the way to do it, slowly, naturally, is to watch videos like this.😊.Loved hearing your perspective!
Wonderful! I’ll be back soon too!
Many foreigners often complain about cleanliness in India, but I believe that much of this stems from choosing to eat or stay in places that are not up to their usual standards, often in the name of adventure and to save money for the months long trip. Unlike the US and EU, India offers food and accommodation at a wide range of price points. To receive decent service and cleanliness, one should aim for above-average establishments. However, I have noticed that some foreigners opt for entry-level options and then complain about the cleanliness. In contrast, the US and EU have minimal variations in price points for different income levels, making the quality more consistent.
Most of it comes from their expectation of a service level similar to their country, you can get that in India, but it would cost the same as their country.
I agree, although I stayed in mid range hotels and to be honest for 30 eur a night not to get toilet paper or bed sheets was a bit surprising. Byt yeah European hotels can be horrible and overpriced.
@@yanaslight Toilet paper is not a think in India. Even some luxury hotels might not offer toilet paper if they arent used to western tourists. And we have more efficient septic system of drainage in India and not the regular toilet paper friendly sewage system like in the west.
@@phillipii4709Toilet paper are available in market
Your analysis about India is correct. Next time travel to north east india, you will have totally different experience. ❤
Are you from north east india? My understanding about north east is, a lot of terrorism happens there.
I have seen travelers review of North East, they are also mixed... discrimination, overcharging is prevalent there too.
Very good take on India. Hope there will be change to keep environment clean.
thank you, appreciate it!
As an indian ,tourist guide or indian friends can make your travel experience more safer and comfortable.
Showing to much body can be uncomfortable so,try to wear indian flag with traditional cloths .so many indians try to help you.
Go to a good rated restaurant indian street food can be harmful due to your immunity difference.
Don't travel in 3rd class trains because poor people may take your seats & stinky some times .
Its better to pay Little extra money for your personal safety & comfort.
All the best.
🇮🇳❤️🙏🏻
I always see these Western people making video on safety in India.
Never seen anyone talking about:
1) "Are Western countries safe for Indians?"
2) Why are so many Indian students getting killed in US, UK, Canada, Australia?
Did you watch the video?? I actually shared that India was safe just like any other place.
Why don't Indian people share experiences, I can't relate as I'm not Indian.
lol they think theyre superior, nothing new. Has been like this for a long time, just be you 🙏🏾
@@yanaslight So many Indian students are suffering in Western countries and u don't even care. That shows your mentality. Before pointing fingers at others, first check your own backyard. India does not need anyone's validation.
@@yanaslightI think he is not criticizing your video. He is just expressing why this happens always
I live in Australia
In general Australia is much safer
Womens safety a women can swim alone in sea without any concerns
Very interesting video. As someone who has traveled India extensively I think you nailed it perfectly. I think this was recommended to me because I watched another video from an Australian lady recently who had a really horrendous time in India. I am not saying she didn't experience what she did, however she was definitely not an experienced traveler, as I watched another of her videos and she had a hard time in Dubai as well.
Thank you so much for your comment, yes unfortunately some people's experiences are very different, and yes its important to know how to travel and also have an open, positive attitude.
The second one is to comment from Moldova.
I have been there in May, absolutely mind-blowing country.
🇮🇳 is shit.. Pls be honest...
Atlast a honest youtuber , I like you 😂
*(#2)More Places to eat at in Mumbai:*
*1. Ashok Vada Pav - (Kashinath Dhuru Marg, Dadar West, Dadar, Mumbai)*
This stall is the Birth place of the iconic Mumbai Vada Pav. One of the best Vada Pavs in town. Very clean & hygienic. Their USP is their iconic Chura that they add in the Pav & their spicy Green & Red chutneys.
*2. Gajalee - (Kadamgiri Complex, Hanuman Road, next to Icici Bank, Vile Parle East, Mumbai)*
One of the most famous Sea food restaurants of Mumbai. Enjoy succulent, flaky, tender fish cooked in a blend of Indian spices.
*3. Lalta Pav Bhaji - (Next to Gurukrupa Restaurant, Valabhbagh Lane, Tilak Rd, Ghatkopar east, Mumbai)*
One of the best Pav Bhajis & butteriest pavs in the suburbs of Mumbai. Make sure to ask them for separate sliced onion & tomato discs with chaat masala sprinkled on them.(Open till 2 am)
*4. Achija Ghatkopar - (1, Gala Garden View Society, Valabhbagh Lane, Tilak Rd, Ghatkopar east, Mumbai)*
One of the best Ghee Onion Rava Masala Dosa in Town & Extremely tasty North Indian food).(Open till 2 am)
*5. Laxman Vada Pav - (Shop no.6-7, Sri Sati Krupa Shopping Center, Garodia Nagar, Ghatkopar East, Mumbai)
Famous for various types of Vada pav like Maggi Vada pav, Amul butter Vada pav, Cheese burst Vada pav, Masala Vada pav etc. Also, other fast food dishes.
*6. Ram Ashraya - (Shop 3-6 ground floor, Jamnadas Mansion, bazar, Laxmi Narayan Lane, Matunga central, Matunga East, Mumbai)*
One of the best places to have South Indian dishes. Try some of their iconic dishes like Pineapple Sheera, Upma, Vada Sambar, Appams, Dosas.
*7. Famous Masala Vadapav, Mulund (Original) - (Purushottam Kheraj Road, Dr Ambedkar Road, opposite Kalidas Auditorium Road, Mulund, Mumbai)*
Famous for their Masala Vada Pav & Cheese Masala Vada Pav.
*8. Jay Jalaram Ice Bhel - (Patel Building, MG Road, Mulund West, Mumbai)*
Famous for their iconic Cold Bhel puri, Sev Puri etc. One of the iconic food spots in Mulund.
*9. Khau Galli - (Near SNDT College, Cross Maidan, Marine Lines, Mumbai)*
An entire Lane to enjoy Street Food like Pav Bhaji, Frankies, Bhel Puris, Momos, Faloodas, Juices etc.
*10. Tandoori Delicacies at Jai Jawan - (Opposite National College, Next to Chappal Market, Linking Road, Bandra West, Mumbai)*
Famous for its Tandoori Chicken, Punjabi Prawns Masala, Punjabi Prawn Fry, Kababs etc.
*11. Aaswad - (Sanskruti Building, Gadkari Chowk, 4, Lady Jamshedji Road, opp. Shiv Sena Bhavan, Dadar West, Mumbai)*
Famous for its Authentic Maharashtrian dishes like Misal Pav, Thaali peeth, Modak, Sheera, Piyush, Kothimbir vadi etc.
*12. Haji Ali Juice Centre - (Lala Lajpatrai Marg, Haji Ali junction, Near the entrance to Haji Ali dargah, Dargah Rd, Mumbai,)*
Famous for its Juices, Shakes, Faloodas & Ice creams.
Do try their iconic dishes of Strawberry Cream & Sitafal cream.
*13. Zaveri Bazaar Street - (169/171, Gambhir Bhavan, Khau Galli, 3rd Agyari Ln, Zaveri Bazaar, Mumbai)
The entire street is famous for its food.
Try the Masala Khichiya papad & Khamani here.
Also, try the Pudlas at the famous Mohanbhai Pudlawala.
*14. Cannon Pav Bhaji - (Mahapalika Marg, Opposite Chhatrapati Shivaji Terminus, Hazarimal Somani Road, Fort, Mumbai)
Famous for its buttery Pav Bhaji & other dishes.
*15. Aram Vada Pav & Aram Hotel - (Capital Cinema Building, Hazarimal Somani Rd, opposite CST Station, Azad Maidan, Fort, Mumbai,)
Famous for its Vada pav & other Maharashtrian dishes like Upma, Sheera, Pineapple Sheera, Piyush, Solkadhi, Misal Pav, Kothimbir vadi etc.
Great to hear you and loved that you understand INDIA very well in comparison to other tourists.......lots of love 💕
Thank you so much for you honest feedback/views
Thank you appreciate it
Thank you for your honest feedback. Glad you are able to return safely. We will try to
Make our country better for future visitors.
Yes your points are well taken. There's lots of stuff that we as a country need to improve
I did not hear much about what you enjoyed. Did you? What you learned?
ohhh what exaclty is she supposed to learn according to you? Maybe India needs to learn about garbage about honking about decency with people and tourists and personal space and so many things. Why don't you learn something bro.
Oh for sure, I love India! People, culture, food, colors, nature, variety. Sorry if it sounded like a rant! You can see my travels in other videos I defo loved it!
I’m from India. I agree with everything pointed. We have our own share of crazies. No doubt. But amazing culture too. Thanks.
Kudos for passing on your personal experiences to prospective visitors and people in general ❤
If you had added videos along with narratives, it would made an interesting & educative vlog!
Enjoy your travels🎉
Thank you yes got lazy at editing
U should visit ladakh Leh, kashmir, Shimla, Manali, Rishikesh, udaipur, jodhpur, pushkar, Jaisalmer, Goa, Kerala, Bangalore, hampi, meghalaya, Darjeeling, Sikkim, Andaman and Nicobar islands in India 🇮🇳❤️
*Developing and developed nations have a different set of problems.* Women's safety is a global issue, be it here in the States or India. Most parts of India are unexplored imho.
Discrimination, travel issue, Food problems, healthcare, rude and good behaviour, theft, mugging, crimes, entertainment, sex/fun offers, overcharging vs fair pricing vs opportunity cost...
These are part and parcel of all the countries and cities.
I feel it is more problematic in the west. Only thing good about west is cleanliness, after a while it starts to feel annoying too. Cost wise broad day light robbery goes on in the west. Everything is damn expensive.
I salute you for your courage to travel alone. I myself never had guts to travel alone even being a guy.
Thank you for your perspective! And its really interesting to travel alone, you learn a lot about yourself!
The elaborate airbnb documentation is due to the over zealousness of the local cops. As a consequence even the airbnb operator HAS TO keep an "office copy" to prove that they aren't running a brothel.
Ah wasn’t aware thank you!
Very candid view on India 👍
You r right sister..I agree with you 🙏
I agree 200%, IRCTC website to book train tickets sucks. too much demand, too little upgradation of tracks and increase in number of trains. i have to plan 3 months in advance while i dont know whether i will be alive 3 months in advance
haha yes its a funny system, I gave up!
Great Yaana sharing your views 🎉🎉🎉🎉
All the problems you stated are the problems even we as Indians think needs to be solved.
1. Honking is a curse but then historically due to poor road conditions and existing poor traffic management, honking has become a tool to communicate. Thats why you would actually see less road accidents on a rather crowded street become of management through honking.
2. ATM situation - People are generally innocent and they really dont find people standing behind. Even if you request people to go out, they might very well not understand why you said so.
3. Using hands to serve - Its a grey area. You can wash hands multiple times in an hour you cant wash gloves or utensils that often. That being said, hygiene standards are generally poor because even someone who is poor and drinks unsafe tap water can open a food cart. And by his own quality standards, he/she thinks that the food is of great quality. Thats why we usually avoid such places. Regulating such places is a difficult task for the govt.
4. Littering - Even i dont understand why people litter. I would recommend you come to my state, Madhya Pradesh. Things are way better here. My city is a lot cleaner then busy European and American cities and people are generally mindful of trash.
Thank you for a thoughtful comment
Even we indians avoid places where i see tourists eating...
@@yanaslightyeah come to madhya pradesh, madhya pradesh have the most tigers in the world and also have biggest forest area in whole India, Bhopal, Indore are best cities and more cleaner than some of the cities of North and South India
Have a peaceful and self realisation trip
very apt and loyal point of view by you yana , of my country and its people ! liked it ! as for me i live in the northern rural part of india (haryana) about 60km away from delhi ! being an educated man , i could have chosen the city life and city cultur to blend in for my life , but i chose the calm approach of living and spending my life in indian villages ! i have spent my last 30 yrs in educating the common folks out here about the same things you have mentioned which have to be looked after in india ! --- but aah ! you missed one point here , and thats ---- the "STARING" part --- as an indian myself that too living in village, i know my fellow countrymen , being a very curious lot , have a habit of staring people , that too people like you from the western countries ! so my point is not to get offended by this ! its in our DNA , we cant help it --- we just have to stare, though i know people visiting india may find it offensive, but it is also a part of daily life here ! so it should be taken lightly ! anyways liked your true analysis about my country and now i will try to help my people here more by figuring out what all i have missed amd by learning from your beautiful vlog ! thanks and regards --- bobby !
Thank you so much for sharing! Oh haha you are right, but I found starring more like with interest at me! Love India!🇮🇳
With all my respect to u ma'am.very sorry for whatever bad experience u had in india n v understand ur feeling mam .but one thing v must admit the way u sounded (sounded u handle the situation very well) n very women should handle the situation how u have handling it in any country. V Indian know there is lot of problems n chaos but v r getting there mam I hope next time when visit India u will have a much more better experience.thanks mam n sorry again ✌️
Not at all you have a beautiful country just shared some thoughts! I’ll be back!
Wherever you travel and live, one has to protect themself from everything .🎉
CORONA pandemic has changed the definition of healthy life. Most unhealthy ppl survived as opposite
I think you should travel to the North-Eastern states of India like Arunachal Pradesh, Meghalaya etc. You would really love it.
Thank you, I hope to travel India some more, 2 months is defo not enough!
Many more beautiful and good experiences to you 🙏🏼
Possibly, India men understand and appreciate your feelings!
Haha thank you!
It make me sad and angry same time. I always protected my two beautiful sisters when I was a teenager from some of these Creepy leachrous men.😢😢
Im not saying any negative about to you . But I have seen Western concern about safety and stuffs while Indian people getting discrimination in foreign countries getting k*lled , torture , gun violence and things like that. .
Thank you, I actually felt safe in India, and its very sad for anyone to get hurt anywhere in the world. I was just sharing my experience.
@@yanaslightwell he is telling truth in US many Indians are dying because of racism, gang violence and don't know why even racism against Indians are normalised in social media
Thank you for posting ❤
Well sometimes you got to say, what you got say, nothing wrong with it.
Great content - very honest which isn't always the case with travelling vlogs. We spent a month in India as a family this winter and there are just some points I wanted to add: Do persevere at registering with the Indian train system IRCTC. Try different mail addresses, gmail worked for me, and different mobile numbers - try a friend's if yours doesn't work, you won't need to communicate via phone later on. We did nearly all our travelling by rail in India and it was very, very efficient, hassle free and good value all things considered. Try different credit cards, too... Secondly, we experienced some problems purchasing SIM cards, too. But at least at Delhi airport there was a workaround - we needed some perseverance here, too, observing other tourists, talking to them, asking several times.... Next time we will bring Indian phone numbers - luckily possible for us. Thirdly, it seemed to us they drive by sonic system - at least in utterly overwhelming Delhi traffic they clearly used the horn to warn when they were overtaking, to settle matters of priority and so on. But you are right - being honked at in plain sight without any apparent reason at all happened to us, too - very annoying. We have been contemplating the attitude to littering, too. Not easy to understand. It crossed my mind that it might have grown out of the cast system historically... but then I don't know. I could go on with comments... Well done you for travelling alone !!! I wouldn't feel comfortable, although I'm a lot older which might make things easier. Keep exploring and all the best.
Ahh thank you for sharing! I loved every second but just wanted to share my thoughts!
*Places to eat at in Mumbai:*
*1. Elco Pani puri - (area - Bandra west in Mumbai)* -
One of the best Pani puris in town. Very clean & hygienic. They use bottled mineral water to make these. So very safe to eat Pani Puris at this place.
*2. Sardar Pav Bhaaji - (area - Tardeo in Mumbai)* -
The best and the most buttery Paav Bhaaji on Planet Earth.
*3. Bade Miyan - Late night place - is open till 3 am or so (area - near Taj hotel & the Gate way of India in Mumbai)*
A late night place, patrons eat in their cars, but has a seating area as well. Famous for their wraps, Tikkas, Tandooris & barbecued stuff.
*4. Leopold Cafe (area - Colaba causeway in Mumbai)* - Nice beer, barbecues, nice desserts.
*5. Pancham Puriwala - (area - fort in Mumbai)* - 5 types of puris(bread), savory dishes & desserts.
*6. Persian Darbar - (area - Bandra west in Mumbai)*
Famous for their Raan Biryani. Delicious Mughlai cuisine. You'll love it.
*7. Mahesh Lunch home - (area - Juhu Tara road in Mumbai)* Heaven for Sea food lovers. Very clean & hygienic and you can get the most iconic sea food dishes here.
*8. Mini Punjab's Lake side - (area Powai in Mumbai)* Need to call and book a thaali(platter) in advance.
Famous for its Dara Singh Thaali - available in both veg & non-veg versions. A must try.
*9. Britannia & co. restaurant - (area - Ballard estate, Fort in Mumbai)*
Famous for its Irani / Parsi cuisine. Awesome Desserts & Sodas.
*10. Anand Stall - (Vile Parle west in Mumbai)*
A fast food joint famous for its awesome Vada Paav, Sandwiches & Dosas.
*11. Mohammed Ali road - (Area - CST - 6 pm onwards till late night)*
The whole street is filled with street vendors who sell various non-vegetarian stuff and some vegetarian too. Plus, there are some really nice restaurants on the same street. Try the famous dessert that you get only on this street in a sweet shop. The dessert is called Aflatoon.
More u travel more u understand n feel the pulse... i think the language about love, sadness, tears n laughter are all universal ❤ from india, hope u comeback n start ur journey again. ....best wishes for all ur travels.
I am from a state in the north called Uttarakhand and i feel you pain when you see trash everywhere. i remember back in the days at least in Uttarakhand we had no trash problem. Unfortunately some idiots travel to these beautiful places and ruin it with their garbage. I recently went to Himachal Pradesh myself and it was beautiful but people left so much trash there that i was in trauma for a while. People of India need to understand that environment is very important. if we ruin our land then its going to damage us in the future. Very short sited people unfortunately.
🇮🇳🇮🇳❤️🇮🇳❤️🇮🇳💯💯. Thanks for ur trust... God bless us all
In India it is very unnatural for a man an woman to go out and get a coffee or to show them around, unless it is a licensed tour guide. So when the hotel manager went with you in his mind he thought this was like a date, and you were interested in him. This is what a lot of Western people do not understand. There is still the culture of service, and that is it. You become friendly it takes on a different vibe in their mindset. That is unfortunately the mindset that still continues.
Yes, he is actually a tour guide and it wasn't going out somewhere, we had chai right there and he offered to show me a quiet place in nature. But yes I understand the differences in mentality. What's offensive is the assumption that a white woman is easy and should straight away be interested in "having fun"
@@yanaslight thanks to hollywood and corn :(
wow......good insight........
If u get the time also come to Eastern part as well like Kolkata , Darjeeling, Gangtok and north eastern sates. North east is exceptionally beautiful , peaceful and clean u will definitely like the ambiance.
13:40 We ,indians,have the personality of using things to its maximum possible potential that includes honking.
Haha good to know!
Himachal is peaceful and best for meditation
2:27 Gentle correction: Ladakh and Kashmir are distinct Union Territories and are NOT part of, nor have they ever been part of Himachal Pradesh, which is a different state altogether. Ladakh and Kashmir were part of the state of Jammu and Kashmir till 2019.
Oh thank you, I overlooked this!
Yesterday, I asked two German tourists if I could be their guide. I know it might have been a bit annoying, so I only spent a couple of seconds and then left. Your feedback will really help us understand things from your perspective.
By the way, if you ever come to Kerala, let me know. I'm from Alappuzha 😅 Trust me, I'll show you an authentic experience on a budget. I even have a scooter.
Oh lovely to hear! I would never be rude if someone is just asking! But I’ve had people really follow me and really be insisting! Definitely if I’m ever in Kerala!
unless you are a official tourguide i wouldn't offer strangers to be their tourguide because that would come as very strange and wired to western tourists. I'm from Kerala too but grew up abroad, i would blindly trust almost any stranger in Kerala, i have only met good people. But in the west, people don't trust strangers so easily, here kids are teached to not trust strangers from a very early age for their own protection, so their guard is always up. The best thing to do if you see tourists is to just leave them alone, only offer help if they approach you. Also depending on the country the tourists are from, they sometimes don't want too much interaction and just want to be left alone (mostly germans and swiss people from what i konw)
@@binskee677 athokke sahacharyam pole irikkum, chelappo avar orale thappi nadakkuarikkum. Appola paper nokkan pokunne.
@@sebinsebastian9404 haha do what ever you want to do, i don't care. I just gave you my opinion based on my experience. It's the age of the internet, no one looks for a tourguide by just walking around in the city, if they would want a tourguide, they would look online. If a stanger approaches them to give them a tour, especially if it's not from a tourism company, the first though would be "it's a scam". Western tourists watch a lot of videos and prepare themselves before travelling to india, india is not like travelling to any other country.
@@binskee677 nattil evada?
Efficiency/etiquette of India is not at per with west. Please do not judge India and Indians because they are different.
Not at all my intention judge or compare. Just sharing my experience.
@yanaslight thank you. It will take time, we should encourage people to do the right things and hope for a better future. They may be ignorant, but good at heart.
Does not matter if they are Hindu or Muslim. Have seen awful behavior toward women even at 'religious' places. Religion is just a way for the ego to look 'holy', while the inner self is a hypocrite.
religion is a drug
@@careerscoop5241 to control masses
@@careerscoop5241you are spot on
religion and dharma are 2 different things learn the difference
@@AdityaJape Talking about hypocrite behaviors of people, not some theory of dharma.
Honest review 😊😊
Here in India it is impolite not to horn😅
If a diver doesn't horn means he doesn't really care enough about the lives of the people in the streets to alert them.
Wow thank you for this haha, cultural differences are so interesting!
honking is for safety and to let others know that i am behind or i am overtaking you or asking way to overtake or to change lanes. it prevents accidents. it works in india because traffic police cannot be everywhere to guide the traffic, people are careful if they hear a honk. it a kind of self regulation to prevent accidents. it works in india. so it will happen in india. if you don't like things in india, no one forced you to come here. Tourist should come, experience and get going. There is no point of giving advice. Remember you did not come to india to change it or improve it. Did you?
Women safety is an issue everywhere in the world. Mugging, rapes, assaults, robbery is common in all western, eastern, southern and central earth. As a general rule, no human being should roam around shady localities alone anywhere in the world.
Garbage disposal is a government created problem, they give contracts to private sectors and they take the money and never do the job. Garbage collection companies are the biggest hotspots of corruption in India. People throw garbage in random places because enough dustbin are not made available. we can do better with the garbage thing. It will only stop when people start asking for answers for the tax they pay and why the pile of garbage exist in the locality. Don't go around trying to educate Indians about how to handle garbage. This is not your country. Some people may take offence and may harm you. Please Do not save the nature at the expense of your life and dignity.
India is a free country in its literal sense. Government does not implement the exact rules on the road. Not just road, all rules apply depending on the situation and seriousness. Our definition of seriousness is not the same as western laws. Also every state has state specific laws, they are all indian laws, a variety of them. You already know what I am talking about. Anyways I have seen people smoking weed everywhere in india but marijuana is highly illegal in India. I do not see foreigners complain about that!! why?? because you people do that too and like it too? do not be a hypocrite.
A brown guy is always discriminated in Europe and north america. Do not talk about discrimination here in India.. Foreigners are given a lot of respect because we think that Guest are god. If you complain about isolated events, that would be hypocrisy considering the worst treatment a brown guy have to face everyday in west.
I am not going to get into an argument with you and neither am I saying your points are not right. I am sharing my experience and not trying to change your country. Freedom of speech they say hey?)
Don't go jungle in darkness that the advice every thing will be fine.
Can a female Indian traveller visit Detroit or Philadelphia alone?
Not sure I have actually never been to the US)
Great observations...
As a female who is going on a solo trip soon....I watched a lot of these videos. And the girls who did have very creepy situations all have one thing in common...they usually stayed in very cheap accommodation. In my opinion those are designed for Indian Men who need to travel for whatever reason and not for young, foreign backpackers in tank tops. Unfortunately I also saw bad feedback when booking a guided tour, as "tour" for westerners is a busload of people, while in India it is a guy and a driver and they sure take you for a ride😂 and so you imagine you are safer when on a tour...but actually it works to your disadvantage cause they take you to overpriced places and rip you off and get what they can out of you. I will make a video when I get back..haha
Love from Punjab 🇮🇳❤
What is your next city in India?
Ah I am in Indonesian now, but surely will be back!
you are an iranian ? if so , you are here in a country which still preserves the ancient original oriental eastern cultures , faiths .. gave home to zorostrain parsis , jews ...etc
No no I am from Moldova. 🙏🏼❤️
@@yanaslight i anticipated an eastern origin too . meanwhile , may i ask you something? something about the propagation , portrayal and presectives ..
Other countries safe for indians?
Im sure they are!
@@yanaslight there is no one more foolish than you 🤣
Well it's a tragedy for claiming to be the 'Spiritual Capital' of the World.
So much basic stuff to rectify on the outside before offering to teach others what's inside.
I don't know it's the population density or what why we Indians can't get few basic things straight? Although I know places, in India itself where it's a non-issue.
Only thing I can think of is these things weren't ingrained in us during our childhood by our parents, eventhough almost everyone had learned them at school.
Being such a diverse country (both geographically & culturally) and probably, the true spiritual capital of the world, the cradle & library of spirituality, it's a shame we are still grappling with such fundamental inadequacies, almost a century after independence from colonialism 🥺🥹
P.S. Things ARE moving in the RIGHT direction...but we ought to TRULY expedite things, by a LOT!
Of course! India is a beautiful country and I just wanted to share some of the things that were difficult for me, but I deeply love it
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Background 🎶❤ untill it's 🔊☪️☪️☪️☪️ . Are they spread in India too?😅
Haha
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From 🇮🇳 India..
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Please dont think India is a safe place and you could just walk around anywhere at anytime.
Not even Indian themselves do such thing of walking around in middle of nowhere.
also stay away from Muslim areas dont even dare to walk alone.
you are not aware of Indian history and Kashmir search for Girija Tickoo a woman what they did to her. youll never see India as normal nation. bcz it isnt.
See I feel like this is a very limited perspective, again, not walking everywhere, but during day time and in central places, Kashmir was safe. There's security everywhere. This is my real like experience.
@@yanaslight Yes there is security and just few days back 5 soilders died. Just few days before 9 civilians were killed. not even 1 year old kid was spared by terrorists
My job is to make you aware of history so you'll keep in mind of possible threats
Please 🙏 read about Girija Tickoo she is part of our heart. you'll.know what India is. My India mother is wounded but not defeated
Girija Tickoo was one such victim who fell victim to the barbaric designs of such Islamic fanatics in June 1990. Girija, all of 21 years and a mother of two, had been working in Govt Girls High School, Trehgam (Kupwara), on a non-teaching position. Kashmir Valley was under de-facto control of Pakistan supported terror organizations since September 1989. Most of the Kashmiri Pandits fled the valley in terror in January 1990. It is said that Girija’s family were staying put in the valley, hoping that the madness would be over soon. One day, Girija received a message from one of her Muslim colleagues that situation had improved in their area and she should come to her office in Trehgam, Kupwara, to collect her pay check. Little did an unsuspecting Girija realize that this was probably a ruse to lure her out of her home. She came to Trehgam on June 6, collected her pay-check but, on her way back, she was dragged out of her bus and abducted in a taxi by 5 gun totting men, including one of her Muslim colleagues. What befell Girija is worse than a nightmare - something even a ghoulish mind could not have conceived. She was raped, tortured and, in an ultimate act of fanatic zeal, cut into two pieces with a mechanical saw. Her abused body was found buried under sand in a nullah on June 25, 1990. When her brother Satish Raina was notified by police of her gruesome death, he first could not believe his ears nor muster courage to visit the police station. Later, accompanied by some relatives, he visited the police station where the SHO, a Hindu, with tears in his eyes, again requested them not to insist on seeing the dead body - so badly had it been mutilated. However, the family insisted that whatever was left of Girija be handed over to them so that they could at least give her a proper funeral. Girija Tickoo died unsung, an innocent victim to the machinations of vultures masquerading as power brokers, political animals, and religious bigots who wanted to ethnically cleanse Kashmir. Not even a proper FIR was lodged to investigate her murder, leave aside bringing the culprits to book. Instead, her family started receiving threats of physical harm, forcing them to flee Kashmir. The terrible way Girija was butchered only sent a shiver up the spine of those Kashmiri Pandits who were still clinging to their homes and hearths in the Valley, prompting yet another wave of Exodus, this time from the hinterland of Kashmir
@@yanaslightgod bless you then😂 in every city and village of India they live in ghattos where mostly non muslim fear to go.......
Even in a broad day light.....still you being tourist feelsand having good time there, best wishes for your experience❤
All inefficiencies you mentioned because of your unawareness.
Not sure how you made this conclusion but thank you for the feedback
If you don’t mind sharing, could you share your nationality?
Hehe you won’t guess, I am from Moldova but lived in different countries🙏🏼
Honking is a means of communication in India, saying dont do any sudden stupid thing, i am here and coming. Its just everyone telling other, where they are. Sorry but thats the way things are, probably when India can be a $10k per capita economy, things will start to change as will have appropriate infrastructure and rules
well the income-inequality has widened to record levels, and continues..
Means the majority will still exhibit inappropriate behaviors.
I know I know was just sharing what really bugged me. lol thats exactly what I heard many times: Sorry but that's the way things are!
@@yanaslight yea trucks even have a writing on their tail saying "Sound Horn", so it's expected. Please use horn, even when they go around a corner, so in case a car comes towards them, they are already warned. Took me a lot of time to figure that out xD. Makes no sense from a western perspective.
Casual relationship 😂😂😂😂😂 come on..even in Dubai I had non stop this kind of thing..amd suprisingly often from very educated Indians!
Crazy world we live in)
East Europe is poorer & Boring and has more Crime. India has all Varieties in every sphere.
US, Europe & East Europe has more Crime and a sandwich costs 10 euros.
I'm not at all comparing, I actually said India is safe :) just sharing my experience
local number called aadhar number and all the security because of lovely pakistani generals they some types randomly explode the firecrackers 😂
Too much crib!
Mindset while traveling to different parts of India has to be different, one needs to know the cultural aspects and way of life... philosophy of life in india to understand how people live ..their motives etc. 2 cribs of yours about throwing muck outside and not telling I don't know... when you don't know are valid. Your crib of handwashing of clothes is silly ... materialistic way especially if you have lived in UAE...eastern way of living is philosophical and our focus is on karna and not too much on what we don't have... crime and other problems are worldwide, trusting people and being nice and friendly are the qualities you can pick up and take home! I also sense Buddhism is seen by the west as some exotic mumbo jumbo...most of the westerners fall for it without understanding! India lives in different levels. ...one needs a life time to understand it
Appreciate your opinion.🙏🏼 And while I will never understand in depth the way of life in India, I have traveled and lived in different countries in this world and love to see how different people live. Blessings to you
it's not safe for females to travel India alone, you took a huge risk.
Thanks for being very candid. I might probably see about half of what you saw with your western eyes. Many of the issues, in my opinion, come from religion, culture, poverty and over population.
Yes hyper-religion means you concentrate on the 'personal' next-life.
Decreases social-responsibility & reproducing without thought of the bad resources::population ratio.
@@alani3992 What about the Indian students getting killed in Western countries?
11 students already got killed in USA in 2024.
@@alani3992 Are Western countries safe for Indian students?
@@matgranger5061 Yes North India is notorious for being 'safe'.
Thank you so much! Yes, its a complex continent, and I'm lucky to have had a taste and would love to learn more