When You Reject Your Spouse | Marriage Today | Jimmy Evans
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- Men and women are different by God's design. When we don't understand the differences between us, we will experience rejection and long-term frustration.
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I hate being rejected. It’s soul destroying. So tired of being made to feel like nothing and neglected. Almost begging for the most basic of things
I felt this in my soul. I never thought I'd be begging for sex in my marriage. It's like if she don't wanna do it we not doing it. It's bugged out and I'm trying to figure out what I did but I can't get a real answer.
Try spending the last 15 years begging and being rejected
@@notsure1350 damn
@@infamousy2g1 I think you married lesbian or she is not attracted to you that's it beginning does not help
@@jasonsamuel6601 tbh I'm not sure what it is.
No truer words spoken: 'When you reject my needs, you reject me and rejection is the greatest pain that a human can feel.'
The 2nd truest words spoken "rejection, the greatest pain that a human can feel"
I am rejected daily in my marriage for years. No big deal.
Mike Johnson rejection comes in many forms and it’s not good for anyone, especially when constant.
Yes, my kids and husband, father all totally rejected me it's what humans do that's why God created animals they care because their soul is more kind.
My wife reject me 23 years and our grown sons who still live at the house are her sentry now to prevent my tender advances to have sex with her. Can I leave this woman. Isn't her new husband nothing, or a sex toy, or that lady she goes with to our very own honeymoon spot, regardless if she is having sex or not, I just don't know, but if it is fulfilling a deep desire can I assume she has taken another.
Lord standing on Hosea 2:6-10 and Mark 10:8-9. Praying for my husbands salvation and my marriage reconciliation. Amen
Elyse Marie update?
Good luck
Also remember, the one who is REJECTING, is the same one who is INVITING the evil one INTO the marriage.
Rejection is the greatest pain and love is our greatest need !!!
@ Larry Reynolds
SEX is the greatest need of marriage in order not to fall in temptations but who cares about what God has to say these days ?
Evans makes me sick in a way that you cannot imagine.
Lord , haste your judgement on this fake christianity that is going to the slaughterhouse !
When I get rejected and express my hurt; I’m out of line and causing problems in the marriage.
You ain't got a marriage. You have a hostage situation.
manipulation definitely
@@SteelSaint749
Like most simps unable to be in control in and out of the bedroom.
Is this how the Lord is cursing those men who don't rule over their wives anymore but let them rule over them and destroy them ?
SHAME ON US for listening to Evans and co , those Luciferian liars who tell men to submit to their wives instead of taking back control.
@@SteelSaint749
Hostage situation ! lol
Unable to TAKE his wife like a real man and impose his LEGITIMATE will.
It is HIS DUE in marriage as 1 Co 7:5 says
" when I get rejected and express my hurt"
Sounds like a little child with nothing between the legs.
This is what Luciferians have done to Christian men by imposing their feminist vision and silencing God's .
Emasculating ALL MEN , including of course Christian men is part of the Luciferian agenda.
I can't believe it. I just can't believe it.
If I had such a husband , I would spit at his face for being so weak on me.
@@framboise595 What control?
My husband just walked away from our family. He told our kids, I'm not happy, I'm selfish, I hurt your mom, more than she ever hurt me. She's a good woman, she doesn't deserve what I'm doing to her, or you kids. I'm so hurt, I've been a stay-at-home mom all these years, gave up my career to raise our children, just for him to walk away. I'm trying to NOT be afraid about what the future holds... really trying to press into God, & keep my focus on Him. Not gonna lie, this is so painful.
Did you have sex regularly? And if not, who withheld?
@Spencer what question is that??? praying for you and family, this situation must be really painful! be strong the Lord is with you!
@@sunshineb1778 - He is correct. Did you even watch the video? Only a gay man will sit around with you and act happy without intimate sex.
@@Spence77
The bitch withheld as usual because EVANS tells females that they can do whatever they please with their bodies .
My body my choice
Luciferian/feminist slogan used by so called preachers.
Luciferian lie of "sexual consent" preached by the church system .
No submission , no possession anymore.
The Bible says the exact opposite . It says that a wife has NO POWER over her bodybut her husband has.
So , how can she withhold anything at all ?
@@sunshineb1778
Ah ! Ah ! Prayer as a fig leaf ! So convenient now that females are running the show and men just let it go.
Pray for me I'm screwing my marriage by doing all that I want and rejecting God's will.
Pray for me !!
You do'nt fool the Lord all the time.
It is time to expose those liars like Evans who teach wives everything but submission.
Bring back DOMESTIC DISCIPLINE .
I will hand MEN the whip.
I've sent several of these messages to my husband and he refuses to watch them. I don't know what else to do. Please pray for my marriage.
My marriage is not how God wanted it to be either. I've done everything to save it too. My husband is not willing to help me save our marriage. He is opposed to every effort. I don't know why we still live under the same roof. To be honest, I have given up. I can't do this any more.
Do you women believe in Jesus? Have you repented and are born again?
@@framboise595 wow, that is so wonderfully true what you just said sister. You truly are blessed to think this way.
@@servantmichael2514
Thank you
I heard this spiritual hucksters tell wives that can withhold sex as they want and the husband just has to sit there and "take it" with no reaction !!!!!!!
God knows I don't lie .
It tears my soul into pieces . It sickens me .
He is the kind of wolf who is compassionate towards rebellious wives and deceives them into thinking that they still have ownership of their bodies .
Their husbands would have the right to suspect them of carnally lying with another man as in Numbers 5 .
But of course , they would be called "abusers , the magic word !
God's word is mocked and totally bashed .
And so are husbands .
Rebellious , adulterous but always "victims".
Their preachings are the devil's workshop today.
The way Evans brainwashes gullible women full of sins has already caused at least one divorce among Christians .
There is a man who made a YT video to denounce the way his own wife had been led astray by Evans and was just encouraged to be more rebellious and unsubmissive .
Isabelle M, we are never to withhold sex from our husband. Women should have a quiet and gentle spirit.
I was left alone on my 19 wedding anniversary, he completely ignored it and went to work early, my heart is shattered.
Sometimes men have their mind on something else and they miss the details. I would say give him the benefit of the doubt. I would text him at work happy anniversary babe! and have something special for him expecting nothing in return. You'll get lots of love!
Rejection is the worse pain ever. As much as death almost. Makes you feel like a nothing. No one should ever do this to their spouse. Scripture says we are to not. If we don't take care of our spouse we are not living in God's word.
I don't want divorce but wife does. She won't go to counseling, or even talk. I'm standing on God's word not to divorce. My marriage was awesome. I made few mistakes. And changed my life thanks to Jesus. But she won't give me a chance. I put my marriage in God's hands. I gotta believe God will restore. Please pray for His will be done as I am.
Rejection has been a mainstay in our marriage but when I almost strayed I’m the bad guy
This is absolutely the best advice I have ever listened to in My entire life this man is absolutely blessed by the power of God !!!
@ Randy Howell
If you believe such quacks , then you have never openened a Bible .
King David used to say that he had more wisdom than all his masters because he was instructed by the Lord only.
@@framboise595 You keep your mouth shut if you have wisdom. You don't boast about it.
If you had been married to K David you would have regretted it. But yes, the lecturer does this as a business, the definition of a quack. Just like many Christian preachers are quacks after money.. Its all BS.
Reading some of your comments below you are completely full of BS. I doubt if you are any sort of female. You are living proof that religion is the pits.
God help us, heal us. Restore us as one. I love him so much. God promised us to be one and no man can separate what God has joined us together as one. Matthew 19: 5-6. Heal our hearts and minds. I am only half a person. Forgive me for all my sins. Holy Spirit guide us to heal, restore, heal and brings us back to one again. But with a future, leave our past that is healed. A future with love, peace, joy, happiness. Holy Spirit guide us into all truth. The devil must leave as I have turn to God and I trust and have faith. Forgive me!!! Bring my husbands heart back to our healing marriage. I praise you for everything you are doing in our hearts. Matthew 19:5-6 What God has joined together as one for No man can separate. Thank you for your blessing we are about to revceive. I am humbled and I belong to you God. Heal our family. I sing praise to you God.
Tina Woodward Amen, Amen,Amen
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Amen!!! 🙏
Tina how do u know it was God that joined u two together?
How are you now? How is your marriage?
So simple, but yet sooo profound! This really blessed me and was truly life changing!! Thanks for posting this! 😇
That's the word...rejection. I've been looking for a word to represent my life. Perfect.
Finally biblical answers to questions I've had for the longest time now
What about non Christians?
i think this is the best teaching about marriage i have ever listen to. thanks Mr. & Mrs. Evans.
Its common sense, dude. Some mistakes can't be rectified. Split up. Or put some effort in. Your choice. But you knew that, even before you watched this. Keep your money and spend it on your wife and kids.
I would love to share this video with my husband. It says a lot of things I need him to hear ; except one. I didn't get my expectation of communication from a soap opera. I got it from my father who in my growing up year's talked to me all the time about everything. My husband would discredit this entire video because of that one line that he can point out you said my expectations were unrealistic. My husband never talks to me and never has it any stage in our marriage about anything unless it's on the phone or we're fighting.
my father too was my best friend who was with me through everything.and now he has had a stroke..and cannot speak..
.I miss him so very much and I hv a husband who thinks my talking is unnecessary/destroys his peace and doesn't want to fill in my emotional needs
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Every time I attempted to communicate and confide to my (now ex) wife, she was offended. I was deeply wounded by that. I had to learn to withhold my private heart with her to keep from being wounded. This issue goes both ways.…… I was crushed by this.
@@rogerdsmith so sorry to hear that.. So many of us are in pain.. and hurt people tend to hurt other people.
@@rogerdsmith im going through this now. Things that i told my wife from the bottom of my heart, in confidence she will throw back in my face and step all over it in such a hateful way that i genuinely feel i cannot love her anymore
I AGREE WITH YOU 101%GOD JOB JIMMY!!!!
If you are rejected constantly, it kills your spirit and you start to withdrawal from your spouse. Talk about it, if the spouse don't change you have a right to file divorce. God doesn't want us to divorce but ask the Lord for forgiveness and He knows your situation. God Bless.
Stepped out 6 weeks ago advice by a doctor the rejection unwanted unneeded & emotional belittled abuse shattered me into a million pieces & for me to get better spiritual mentally physical I can’t bare live in same home with the spouse that I adore & I return I get nothing.
My wife rejected me 14 years ago, right after our third child was born.
I have not touched her (or anyone else) for 14 years.
I have stayed only because the children needed a father.
Trapped by a combination of the needs of the children and misandrist divorce law.
At first I tried to rekindle our relationship. After her continued rejection wore me down, I simply stopped trying.
Are you aware that the Lord says that you as a husband is in control of her body , NOT her ?
Then , how can you let her reject you ?
She has no right over her body .
Moreover , she has to submit to you in everything .
So ?
Isabelle M (a) I and we are not Christians. (b) I am not a rapist. (c) When I touch a woman it is because I want to make love to her, not vent my lust. The thought of forcing myself on a woman horrifies me to the point that I would be unable to have the erection necessary to do the deed.
Cully Schmetterling
Really ? It's really strange because the Bible ( I know now you're not a Christian .. I'm sorry )is crystal clear that a husband has authority over his wife's body ( and it goes both ways), so the word 'rape' is totally inaccurate in marriage .
What you feel is strange because for us women it is the opposite : the idea of forced sex is what turns most women on !
Women are most aroused and receptive in submission.
Isabelle M I know that the Bible says that. I have studied the Bible extensively. To me, that is rape and a form of abusive relationship that does not interest me. I would not want a woman who did not want me to touch her. That simply would not work for me. If she had a fantasy about being tied up and 'raped' I could play that game, but I could never, ever, force myself on a woman. The idea appals me.
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My wife intemately abandoned me over 10 years ago after she had break down apparently from having several affairs, which I only recently learned that there were several betrayals of infidelity. But, after having a Near Death Experience 6 years ago, it began to concern me that I would die without never being able to be physically intimate with her again. Everyone thinks she is such a caring individual and only I know how selfish she is, to point of having "multiple" affairs and continuing to reject me through denial for over 10 years now. The only reason I stay is that it is written that God HATES divorce, but it seems as though it is only path open to where I can have needs of intimacy and compassion ever met on this side. All said, I don't understand why God sent me back here to learn of her affairs, who she claims she cannot remember who they were with, and endure the pain and suffering, physically, mentally, and spiritually!!!
Actually you can divorce a adulterous wife
@@Android-ds9ie reread the scriptures. Malachi 2:16 clearly states that the Lord says "He hates divorce" and Jesus said "Moses", not God, allowed for it because of the "hardness of people's hearts". He did condoned "putting away" (i.e. Separation) not divorce, for fornication. But seems we have returned to those days of Moses when quick and easy divorces on frivolous excuses are occurring.
Not sure if you are still married but she sounds horrible to be married to
Mathew 19:9 say you can divorce when one is not faithful ,but you both can still seek the help of marriage counselor to see whether you can improve on the relationship . Divorce should be last resort . God bless your Union and give you a good life
I'm married to the same type of woman. I've followed the steps in Matthew chapter 18, and will be divorcing her soon. I hope things are well with you.
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Thank you Jimmy !!!🙏🏼✝️
Rejection is became my ever day life with my spouse. Unable to get him to listen to your ministries really wish he give a minute to see how great your advice is.
remind him that God does not condone using your body as a weapon for emotional blackail
Perhaps you should listen for your own growth and let God work on you. Your husband is suppose to be under Christ not you, you are to submit to your own husband. God will hardened your husband's heart because you're trying to get him to take advice from this ministry yet Christ wants your husband submitted to Himself and proper order in the home. Let the Lord change you and show you areas you need maturity. Leave your husband in His hand be prayerful and do what you're called to as a wife and not Proverbs 31 but Titus 2
@@bryantotten7315
How can you use your body as a weapon since your body belongs not to you but to your spouse ?
erstand and agree with you it is.Many people use this to manipulate and oppress their spouse into sexual slavery etc.That is all but in a loving relationship to hold back sex is also blackmail.
@@bryantotten7315
" It is not the wife who has authority over her body but her husband" 1 Co 7:5
Can the Bible be clearer ?
So , if the husband has authority , it means he has ownership of her body , so he just has to go to her for sex and that it all.
Moerover she has to be submissive to her husband. If she rebels , he has to take steps and sort things out very quickly unless the situation gets worse .
But most men today are dumb "betas" with no backbone. Their wives will pass on to others as the Bible says . Migrants maybe ?
If a man does not treat his wife right, does not communicate, ignores, and does not value her- I don't want to hear him talk about Christianity.
When a husband rejects his wife, he is rejecting God. Praying! ❤️🙏🏻
Asking for prayers of restoration
Tasha Vessely it’s important to realize that when you marry it’s a responsibility of his wife to fill his needs as it is his to fail hers.
I've been Praying for a while to the Lord 🙏🙏 to reconcile me to my marriage.
God bless you and your walk with Christ ! Best of luck in your marriage.
I am praying for my marriage as well
I've been getting the rejection for years I have shut down completely. Time to move on.
But it’s so sad. All the time wasted. Emotional anorexia.
@@lauras2046 I'm finding out that divorce is expensive. The most expensive sexless relationship I've ever could imagined happening before my eyes. Too bad there's no do-overs!
Its very true jimmy thank you good advice.
My husband has rejected me six month after being married and he refused to get help. Broken heart.
Keep trying. Do what makes you happy.
Keep praying for his salvation. I layed hands on my spouse and said, "Be born again in Jesus' name." And he has been believing in God ever since. He doesn't ignore me near as much anymore. It still ain't a perfect marriage but I do believe God is changing him and it takes time I guess. He still drinks a lot but he seems more enlightened now so hopefully he will quit someday.
He may be suffering from ED.
@@sierrasiennasavahnadesertn6605 drinking makes 'impotent' Yikes
Do you have an update ?
1 of the top 5 videos ive seen regarding marriage it was only a little over 7 min! Keep it up Jimmy.. Keep doing what your doing.. Yes, everyone has married someone who has alot of things about them that are different and some the same.. A GREAT thing for all spouses to keep in mind.. To continue to have each others difference s celebrated.. 👍
My wife rejected me. It was frustrating and painfull.
Welcome to the Club. Try YEARS like in my case.
@ Brian Hoyt
How can your wife "reject" you since she has NO POWER over her body but YOU have ?
1 Co 7:4/5
How can men be such wimps and listen to their foolish Eves instead of the LORD ?
Serves you right sorry to say.
The Lord tells you to rule over your wife.
You don't ? So you let SATAN in.
@@framboise595 I understand that now but most preachers don't preach thT or understand that. They choke on wives submit to your husband's. I did too. I now realize how destructive iteas to me and my marriage and to our society.
FOR GOD SO LOVED THE WORLD THAT HE GAVE HIS ONLY BEGOTTEN SON THAT WHOSOEVER SHALL BELIEVETH UNTO HIM SHALL NOT PERISH BUT HAVE EVERLASTING LIFE
JOHN 3:16
So sleeping in the other room cause a little bit of near abuse is rejection? I’m just trying to send the message that it’s not okay to treat me like that
Your body is not your own. Denying your spouse is wrong period
@@poetry-n-motion5563
You cannot deny anything when you do not own your body actually.
Women today are awfully deceived by quacks like Evans and plenty of feminist literrature posing as christian.
But husbands are so weak that they silence the truth or even end up thinking that they have no right to their wives anymore !
Evans calls husbands perverts when they go to their wives for sex. I heard him on another video !
Of course , he did it with a smile on his face. As if marriage and sexuality (male of course) was something you could joke about.
@@framboise595 : I just recently divorced my wife of 15 almost 16 years of marriage. Because she denied me of intimacy. And some think that this is ok. Some christians think that this is ok and it seems some christians will not hold the wife accountable for denying her husband. That's not right I don't care who does it
@@poetry-n-motion5563
They are as christians as my pair of tights.
But I still wonder , how can you deny intimacy when you do NOT own your body ?
A man just has to go to his wife and have sex . That's it.
The very day I married my husband , I knew that my body was not mine anymore.
And I liked the idea in fact because it is thrilling .
But you will never hear quack like Evans who walks on egg shells with goddess woman speak the truth on that matter.
Withholding sex can only be done with the consent of the other spouse.
I think that men should whether TAME such rebellious wives or just repudiate them.
@@framboise595 : The church is not holding married couples accountable for this rebellion in the church.
My wife just quit. No counseling. No talking. Just left. We both got us here and in the end I was the only one who wanted to fix this. There is no justification or way to get over this. Why do I feel like I have a newfound relationship with God, but he's not here...
Are both of you christians? Repented, believed in Jesus and born again?
So what about the husband whose never in the mood and yet he confessed his sins but always working and tired
..what is a wife supposed to do...
Oso Loco welcome to 99% of the world of men No Mercy hear
It’s hard. Everyone always seems to think it’s the woman not wanting sex and intimacy. Sometimes it’s the guy and that seems like it feels worse bc so many guys out there want it and don’t get it
@@christinehartfield3577
Sex is DUTY in marriage .
But churchianity hates the Lord and his Word .
It rather embraces Satan's will and the whims of Satan-driven wives who are told that they still have ownership of their bodies , which is devilish lie.
THose wives who are not "in the mood" and are allowed by their own husband to withhold sex ( I can't believe how men can be so passive and let sin go in their own household) , they just give it to another man elsewhere .
Women today are more adulterous than ever .
@@abisamraj4408
The Bible says men and women get married because of SEX and a husband has power over his wife's body.
Welcome to the world of the Bible , hated , mocked and scorned like never before.
Sexless marriage does not exist in God's eyes , except if there is something physically wrong with the man and he cannot perform sexually .
Marriage= sex in God's eyes but who cares since God is mocked and scorned in this day and age ?
@@framboise595 and the husbands body is now the wife's it goes both ways
After 32 years of marriage
unbelievable how everything in my home ,
is in all upside down & inside out just A whole lot of mess & garbage.
powerful teaching.
Surprising majority of people in the comments are women withheld by their husbands.
Practice makes perfect ive got some work to do ..i get it bless you.
Can't think of a worse feeling in the world
Marriage can be a place of rejection.
@ Rassia Melo
Marriage cannot be a place of rejection according to God's teachings , especially 1 Corinthians 7:5 where sex can only be withheld with mutual consent .
But nothing is more hated among "modern "Christians" than the Bible
So , better listening to hucksters like Evans who NEVER teach sexual obligation in marriage
This man encourages wives to withhold sex as they want as if they stll had ownership of theIr bodies .I heard him say that i n another video
It is plain devilish
He is a wolf playing the game of Satan
Nothing more nothing less .
The truth about marriage and its sexual duties is not preached anymore because Satan is behind .
@@framboise595 it’s so painful to read your hate filled comments. You know, there’s the biblical IDEAL of marriage, and then there is what actually happens. It’s up to the 2 individuals as to how much they want their marriage to honor God. If there’s one person who rejects the other…. Which I DO experience frequently… it really, really hurts. Not just talking about sex, but emotionally as well. I don’t think it’s supposed to be that way. I don’t think it’s God’s fault.
@@aneber1811
Pff , our feminist societies are societies of mind control and emasculation .
Don't be surprised that false christianity preaches exactly the same rubbish because Evans and all the others just HATE God and men .
if Evans was honest with the word of God , he would not preach such lies because sexual rejection is just IMPOSSIBLE in marriage.
The LORD says that a husband has authority over his wife's body . So , when he wants sex , he just has to go to his wife and take her. You see , it is very simple .
If the wife wants sex , she just has to go to her husband and he cannto reject her because she also has authority over hsi body and sex is her marital rught as well as we clearly see in Exodus 21:10 .
Evans makes me want to vomit because he is nothing but a nother Luciferian with a pastor title who never teaches what is written.
"Come together again so that SATAN does not tempt you " 1 Co 7:5
1 Co 7:4 To avoid fornication , let every man have HIS wife (..).
so that SATAN does not tempt you
do you realise what the Bible says ?
So , any so called preacher who preaches sexual rejection is of SATAN.
Do you think those who read the Bible can be fooled that easily ?
All those who listen to Evans and so many other quacks posing as pastors do not open a Bible .
In Evan's country , the Puritans used to physically punish a man who would not give his wife her sexual due .
Because a due is a due . It has to be given in a way or another.
Do you think this satanic preacher teaches that sex is a DUE in marriage ? That a man who gets married has free access to his wife's body any time (except whenG OD forbids it ) ?
My hate filled comments ? Is this a joke ?
My comments are based on the Bibkle and the sexual obligation , and the use of the marriage bed . All those things have been put in the back burner by satanists who have hijacked western christianity.
I'm not kidding , it's too serious.
Satan has succeeded in turning marriage into everything but a SIN FIX and a long term solution for our sexual urges.
But since I expose Satan's works , praised by false FEMINIST christians , I'm filled with "hate".
You know , this speech will never work with me.
"Christian" feminism already belongs to Satan and the mark of the beast is for them.
They hate God and men so much that they CANNOT be what they pretend to be.
This satanic Evans does encourage wives to withhold sex and be rebellious to their husbands . He deceives them with the demonic My body my choice feminist motto and tells HUSBANDS that they just have to cope with it and not do anything against such an infamous conduct !!!
I know what I've heard from him.
People say that men are far more susceptible to pornography than women, but that's not true. Look at the success of "50 Shades of Grey." Man's pornography is pictorial; women's pornography is in text.
read GENESIS 3.....its all there ..women must be careful of what they hear........they must be careful of whom they are getting their info/advice and they WILL give it to their husband to take on..............
“Your spouse is the opposite of you, but normal.”
Married 13 years and we have no communication no intimacy. Been roommates for 6 plus years. I’m still here but I can’t make him change if he doesn’t want too
So powerful Pastor 👑
Thanks!!!
my wife has completely rejected me, now i live in a camper in the yard; she will not talk or reason with me, says her kids do not like me, treating our marriage like trash; ignoring gods word and ignoring anyone encouraging her to work out her marriage.
I tried many times but she rejected me over and over and it led to problems in my marriage because i was constantly embarrassed and it lowered my self esteem.
I now slept in different room, having multiple sex partners outside and I'm happy at home concentrating on my kids because I got no issue with her.
I will never have sex with her even if she wants it because I don't want to be in that embarrassing cycle again.
As long as I serve my kids is far important than having sex with my wife. I'm now not attracted to her because I've realized how female outside appreciate me and treat me sexually. I'm a Christian and so is my wife but I can't find a solution to it unless my sexual feelings are some how removed
Christians repent of adultery, they do not justify it. I ask you Lord to bring this decision he has made to a place of disclosure and repentance.
You were so right but you have to meet 50/50 if you are growing apart
This was wonderful.
Am in a marriage were my husband has abandoned me for 3 years Now, he dosnt call, he dosnt send me anything, his family has accused me of being a witch, I gave birth and lost the Baby, he never came to console me, he stays in Dubai while I starve in Nigeria, he just came into my life and make a mess of my life. He sends money to his family but nothing to me cos he says he will frustrate me, I have asked for divorce .
So true, unfortunately I married a boy who plays games. Going to finalize divorce. After 16 yrs of chances they never change. Live and learn ladies.
No, follow Christ and learn of Him but take up your cross first.
@@Richard-xo2uv I do follow Christ and I know he wouldn't want me staying. Some marriages were not put together by God. I already filed to reinstate the divorce. I'm done.
@@missmaddie241 He doesn't want you to honor the covenant you made? If you made the covenant He joined you two. If you're being abuse then you should get away but that's still YOUR husband so you should be praying for him and whatever issues are going on between you both. Also, understand a covenant is not something taken lightly. God is a covenant keeping God and expects His people
to be like Him. A wife is bound to her husband as long as he lives. You married him don't bash him pray for him.
@@Richard-xo2uv not all marriages are joined by God. God also knows if the spouse meant their vows the day they got married or to save face. So the spouse lies before God that covenant is void.
@@Richard-xo2uv don't worry about me. I know when I stand before God I'll be forgiven. I'm glad I can now heal and am still alive.
What if theirs emotionally no emotionally connection are not in love with your spouse: what if their was alcoholic abuse in the marriage : emotionally blackmail
Great videos!
Pastor Jimmy should watch the TV series called " Two and a Half Men". It is one of the best descriptions of relationships. They show things the way it is but people don't want to see. I've been in youth groups, college groups, and single's groups in church. It is all the same Hollywood manual. The jerks get all the girls and the real good Christian guys don't have a chance.
That program is crap, all it promotes is adultery
@@peterjones7617 Why do you think the church is different. Lots of divorced couples in church and pastors think it is ok even if the Bible is very clear. Many pastors got divorced and remarried. How the bible calls that? Adultery. So.... it is the church any different?
I ain't having sex with someone who disrespected me continously and consistently. Nope. You killed that.
Well kick rocks, and call Jody like you usually do. They reject us because they are saving those feelings for her side piece.
Then why stay in the marriage?
@@darthraider2050 LOL fr
@karabo mothupi I don't get it either. People take their religion so seriously that they'll put up with abuse. I won't put up with that type of stuff.
Does this hold true for emotional abandonment as well?
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Emotional abandonment is usually subjective. Sexual abandonment is neglect of a primal need. Two different worlds.
@@Spence77
There cannot be sexual abandonment when your body belongs not to you but to your spouse.
Evans is a LIAR who never preaches what is written at all.
Marriage is for sex . That's the reason why God allows his children to get married . To keep away from sexual temptations.
You know that silencing this critical truth is going to backfire on us ?
God 's wrath is on us . We have absolutely no excuse at all.
God knows how much his word is HATED today by those who pose as christians .
God knows who really belong to him. Those who KEEP his word and don't embrace the feminist narrative which is leading all civilisations to a quick death.
@@framboise595 I endorse your message.
@@Spence77
Thank you so much
Pastor Jerry Miles Humphrey was born in 1872.
He was against remarriage (he calls it "divorce-marriage"). He was married at 19 years old to his 17 year-old wife, until his wife grew cold and wanted a divorce. So they did and He remained unmarried for 7 years until many several Orthodox men of God who knew more told him that he was free to remarry because he was innocent. So he remarried. As soon as the marriage ceremony was over, he felt wrong in his spirit. He would fast and pray for answers for months, but it was constant until it became real doubt. So he decided to live separate from his second wife for 18 months to seek God in prayer and fasting about if he made a mistake and if it was a mistake, to know how to get out of it. He was fully ready to obey God at all costs, even to the point of losing his life if he had to. And so he began to have dreams.
On April 13th, 1907, he dreamt of a minister who spoke to him the words from Isaiah 52:11, “Depart ye, depart ye, go ye out from thence, touch no unclean thing; go ye out of the midst of her; be ye clean that bear the vessels of the Lord.”
On September 28th, 1907, he dreamt of a being who said:
"There is someone in this community rejecting God-given light, and if they do not stop, God is going to send them to hell forever. He has sent me to warn them. Now you may do as you please about this matter. I have warned you, so good-bye!"
The 3rd dream was about a large white boat that represented the Bible. He was in a narrow boat/skiff which represented the "except it be for fornication" from Matthew 19:9 (the scripture that people us as grounds/excuse to divorce). His small narrow boat was being beaten up by the crashing waves until he sank into a watery grave.
In the 4th dream, "I saw myself joined arms with my second wife, walking down a wide brimstone road in hell, and as we passed a large vestibule I saw throngs of voluptuous men all dressed in black, and wearing silk hats. They were all keeping time to a band of music, and waving college banners, and singing this chorus:
“In hell at last! In hell at last!
And earth and all her pleasures past.
In hell at last! In hell at last:
For aye and aye the die is cast.”
And in front of these men were about a dozen large black swine (emblems of filth and uncleanness). And they were flopping their ears and cringing to the music. In this, God showed me that I had followed the sensual, unclean, flesh-indulging multitudes of earth, into this divorce-marriage business. At this I awoke with that awful picture burning in my brain, and that hellish music ringing in my ears."
5th sign was this, "One day, as I stood all alone in the parlor of a friend’s house, in an eastern city, (while contemplating taking up this awful cross) it seemed as though a glorified spirit descended, and sang the following chorus to me:
“Heaven is cheap at any cost,
Do gain its ports or all is lost;
For earthly gain is only dross
And naught’s of value but the cross.”
And with this song there seemed to come volleys of exhortations from Wesley, Fletcher, Pollock and millions of glorified saints saying to me, “Gain heaven’s port at any cost”
At this he now realized he must divorce, and people found out about it and tried to convince them out of their convictions, to not divorce, but as he put it, "their arguments were too shallow to build on for eternity."
Then he had another dream, it was a preacher reading from a paper and said “You would be all right if it were not for that divorce-marriage.”
The last dream he had was of lightening picking him up and throwing him in a fire and the words spoke "Prepare to meet thy God". When he woke up, his bed was hot.
He was clear in his direction, he talked to his second wife, and they finally divorced, after two years.
He says:
"Since we did so, I feel as clear as an angel. And I am fully convinced that divorce-marriages are wrong; no matter if every preacher in the universe says they are not...I am not writing what I think, but what I positively know; and am willing to seal this testimony with my blood. I know whereof I speak. And no matter how conferences or church disciplines may rock the conscience of the people to sleep telling them they can marry while their husbands or wives live; they are wrong, and the souls whom they are deceiving will find it out when eternity is unveiled, if not before. I thank God that He kept conviction and light streaming from heaven on my soul until I walked in it, in spite of all the false comforters, who were crying, Peace: Peace: when there was no peace; but dread, fear and awful uncertainty... if you are now in one, and love your soul, and want to gain heaven, do get out of it: even at the cost of all things, or else you will regret it throughout all eternity."
Here's the link for the full testimony:
cadz.net/humphrey.html
True repentance is "admit it and quit it"
Ridiculous! Marriage is 50/50. Good for the goose, good for the gander. Sounds right to me!
God bless you
Honestly, I don't think 98% of us really understood the purpose of marriage.
80% of all divorces are filed by women, 90% if they are college educated. It’s feminism and women rejecting their marital roles seems to be the majority of the issue.
I have been rejected enough times to end our relationship. I saw a life of being disrespected too many times. He wanted me to leave the door to open friendships with women who want to be with him and me love it.
When you reject your spouse, your spouse goes to get down with someone else. Then boots you.
If your husband married another woman and respected her and provided a home health care and children yet never even bought me groceries once yet gave everything to his true wife how can I be expected to live alone unprovided for unheard unseen because he thinks he owns me and doesn't want anyone to help me. God knows his true wife isn't me. I have been unheard unseen and all my questions are just stored inside. To think there will never be anyone to share anything with because he thinks he can isolate me.
I wish my husband would understand this :(
I wish my wife would understand this :(
@@apraia6
He shall rule over you Genesis 3:16
More needed than ever but silence by Evans and buddies in bed with the Luciferian western world.
I wish men understood that they are called to be in authority over their wives including their bodies...
1 Co 7:4/5
impossible
@@framboise595, No Way many men are not smart enough to lead
Faith 💑 Amen🙏
AMEN.
Absolute truth!!!!
My husband rejected my he refused to take responsibility for my kids even the one we had together !
8 years without so much as a kiss. She just has shut down and will not give anything of herself that requires vulnerability.
So true
My wife felt I didn’t meet hers and I felt at times she didn’t meet mine, but surely it wasn’t the only justification to her asking me to leave our home
Woman NEED to feel desired. Like you NEED their body. Like you can’t live without it. Without them feeling that, it will be an unhappy marriage. I speak from experience.
Why do you want someone who doesn't want you?
The bible says it's not good for the man to be alone, yet women reject men in marriage and file for divorce 80% of the time. More women need to hear this message I guess? 🤔
I’m in my 2nd marriage and it has been really hard.
I feel depressed and alone.
I’ve tried to reach out to him hundreds of times and I always get rejected. I’ve given up trying to get him to talk to me. We are pregnant with our 2nd child together and right now our marriage feels hopeless.
Haven’t had sex in over 2 months. Have no desire to share that part of me with him anymore since I feel invisible in my home.
I don’t believe in divorce but somedays I feel like, what’s the point. 😔
Anytime I’ve ever tried to connect with him his response is, “I can’t be your God.”
I don’t understand how anyone’s heart could be so cold.
@ clarissa cano
Except that that "part of you" as you say does not belong to you anymore but to HIM
See the difference ?
You just hide your rebellion behind victimhood which is wrong
The Lord tells you to be submissive to your husband in everything and win him over by your conduct
1 peter 3
Pray for him , submit to him and and adapt to him
You are married to him , so you have duties towards him;
Stop acting like a little child and be a strong Proverbs 31 woman that her husband can trust because she does him good every day of her life And not evil .
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Listen carefully... Sex is IMPORTANT for a man, period. If you withhold because you feel invisible, than be prepared to see your third marriage... Guaranteed. On the other hand, satisfying his sexual desire will provide you with a changed man... Guaranteed. It sounds like what he's trying to tell you is that you need to stop trying to expect something out of him that he doesn't have. It's not rocket science. You marry who you marry. Be happy with what you got and maybe what you got might get better.
Wish I heard this 10 Yeats ago.
You cannot negotiate genuine sexual desire.
if a prostitute can fake it for $50, then your spouse can put on a smile and get to work in exchange for all that you do for her/him
@ mfriedrich2012
The BIBLE (not the quack in the video) teaches that it is not sex that can be negociated in marriage but abstinence .
But most Christians today do not open a Bible .Too hard . Better listening to a quack , and God knows how many liars there are on YT videos .
@@nickdipaolofan5948 Her interest would be in the money for the drug fix. Not in ongoing desire for a stranger.
@@parler8698 my point is that if a hooker can fake it with a stranger for a hit of drugs, then a spouse can put their best foot forward sexually for the person they love.
Fantastic video.
How do you get past being ignored being rejected having someone's job come before you, being called every name in the book in front of your children your family your neighbors your friends being completely rejected until only he wants sex. I'm in a 30 year miserable marriage. When I would call from home telling him I needed medical attention he would tell me he was too busy I now went through stage 3 cancer got all the way to stage 3 before anyone knew because my husband would not help me do anything. he has emotionally destroyed me physically destroyed me and I am mentally destroyed I don't even know how to come out of it. And his behavior towards me literally taught my children to treat me the same way
No one ever addresses this. There are so many people that suffer alone and have degrees of this problem. This speech is only for vanilla no problem problems. I understand the source of disrespect from your children is him. Its just no way to go through life. I hope God has mercy on you and I also hope that pastors learn to shepherd people going through marriage objectification and humiliation. If you went to this pastor for counselling he wouldn
Would not know what to say to you because he has an answer to a very different problem and he doesn
Recognize your situation.
Am in a long distance relationship and I'm feeling rejected because my husband doesn't come and visit me in 6 years and I feel fraustrated.
Rashi Campbell I’m so sorry. My husband doesn’t talk to me for weeks calls randomly, then blames me, doesn’t want to live with me. I’m frustrated too I cry to God all the time
@@ellieboels530 I'm so sorry too and am praying and still waiting but I really don't no what is happening it's killing me inside,thanks so much for replying.
I am in the same boat right now , I really understand. I will be praying for you as I pray for myself 💕
Rashi Campbell that’s a tough one I don’t think he wants to be in relationship
6 years? Has he come back yet? If not, I can show him how it’s done.
Okay so accept that we’re different- 🤔
I've talked to my husband for months about marriage counseling. We are newlyweds. He doesn't respect my boundaries. He doesn't meet my financial, emotional, physical, or spiritual needs. I give and give...and he takes. I've asked him to do some of the small things I do for him for me.. pick up my favorite shampoo or conditioner.. he doesn't make an effort. I've been married before and I think the issue is me. So I am stuck in this marriage
PREEEACH JIMMY!!
I would disagree with this pastor in this case. Is Jesus makes it clear. The long term denial of your partner in the area of sex does indeed cause them to commit adultery.
Matthew 5:32 (NASB 2020): but I say to you that everyone who divorces his wife, except for the reason of sexual immorality, makes her commit adultery; and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery.
The apostle was an authority on marriage? LOL.. he never married
Lord take this aggravation I feel towards my husband I love him but I feel like he piles a lot on me when I would just want to sleep …… I do everything always anyways but damnnnn….. lord speak to me please
Why does this subject need to be in the context of religion.
I agree with the moral part, but I dont believe in god, I believe in reality
Husbands n wife's should be continually daily living from the vine. Jesus fulfills each others need, there are needs in each that cannot be met by the spouse, instead causes pressure. Both Dependant on Jesus first individually and together as two branches in the vine . Marriage serves, pleases and is for God, not for personal satisfaction and gratifying the flesh. Each vessels is holy, sanctified and respected as we are first the bride of Christ and remain to be so, till his return for all His children. Surendered first to God and then serving each other unselfishly.with love as Jesus first loved us. KEEP JESUS IN THE CENTRE OF THE MARRIAGE. DON'T GIVE WAY TO THE DEVIL TO DESTROY WHAT GOD HAS PUT TOGETHER.
Nowtwo
What about wifely submission ?
The Word of God is hated by those who claim to be Christians .
@ To God be the GloryGod created marriage for channeling human sex drive . That is why he made sex obligation for both spouses in marriage.Don't speak the truth . Suppress it and circle around like that so called "preacher" does in the video.
@ To God be the Glory
The purpose of marriage is sexual in God's eyes .
If humans were not sexual , they would not need marriage.
HOW can this fundamental truth be overlooked ?
There is an agenda in the west and those so called preachers are part of it.
Amen 💟❤️🔥
my husband. has ed for 20 yrs. now a woman who has access to Viagra offered him sex he took her up on it 4 about a year heathen broke it off with her and she tried to commit suicide when she got out of LifeStream she text me the information she still texts my husband on holidays she told me that she loves him he says that he does not like her I have asked her three times now to stop texting him I took his phone he's okay with that now what do I do there are times I think of it and I still get upset it has been about 3 months now
The Lord adopt me 11 years it was the most beutifull day off my life now ihave father😭cos iwas caring root off regection from my eart dad that never met .olso find out my relationchip was lot lies and start to get lot regection .is lot paing idont wann just hur iwas not ready never for this .Lord jesus you dont wann this in my live daddy please rescue me Lord please it hurt 😭😭😭😭
I need to send this massage to my sister but She doesn't understand English 😕 🙄 😪 😒
I too have been rejected for over 10 years now by my wife. A couple of years ago, she admitted to having "multiple" affairs in the past and said she did not know it was wrong when she did it. Yet she hid, lied, and deceived them, which seems odd if there wasn't any sense that she was doing wrong. She also refuses to even discuss further or provide details as to how many affairs, with whom, when, where, etc. which leaves many unanswered questions, chief being if this behavior is still continuing!!
Now she lays claim to Andenomyosis medical condition as to reason, despite there are several ways, and more through new medicines now 10 years later, but she refuses to even consider any remedy so wife obligations to me as her husband can be fulfilled. Yet she claims to be a devote, empathetic Christian and has others all buying into it too. Really has me questioning what it means to be Christian and following ALL of His Word, or just cherry picking what we want to follow and ignore the rest?
@@NYCHairguru
False information ?
I give false information ?
Are you kidding me ?
I say that marriage is for SEX , that is what the Bible says .
On the opposite , what you say against me is not biblical at all .
The Bible portrays marriage as a SIN FIX but Evans and co just wilfully silence the truth .
A wife ( or a husband) is a sexual partner . Sexless marriage is an oxymoron .
The Bible ( not you , Evans and all the blind who listen to him) that people , male and female get married in order to avoid fornication .
So , what do you have to say against that ?
Evans and co are LIARS who deprive marriage of its true sexual purpose .
They just do the game of Satan himself .
@@NYCHairguru
There is no blessing when a man lets his wife rule over him and does not do what GOD tells him to do .
The Bible says get married in order to have sex ! OT and NT say exactly the same , so stop telling me to read the Bible .
I say what spiritual hucksters wilfully silence .
@@NYCHairguru
A husband has authority ove his wife's body .
1 Co 7:5 is new testament , right ?
So , why do you hold the TRUTH in unrighteousness ?
A man conquers a woman , then she is his ! She belongs to him . Her body belongs to him , and she cannot withhold sex without his consent .
False informations ?
Are you turning God into a liar and spiritual hucksters into people who speak the truth ??
@@framboise595 oh stop bragging you medieval bull*hit from Bible. You're no better than Taliban in Afghanistan. Both of you religious fanatics (mentally sick haha!)
So, where is the whole sermon.
The more I look at marriage the worse it seems like a good idea.
This is why I stop believing!
Ok but the lesson was too short
..I siah 54:5 For your Creator will be your husband; the LORD of Heaven's Armies is his name! He is your Redeemer, the Holy One of Israel, the God of all the earth. When you stop worrying about how a man who was suppose to love you is not, and you accept that God is. He will lead you himself, even if you were comparable to the woman at the well, who was ultimately rejected, until God showed up, and shone his light into the deep and dark places in her heart.
Sexless marriage for over ten years and after she moved into another bedroom I bought a life like sex doll and now she’s accusing me of cheating on her