Don't Talk to Me Like That

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  • Опубликовано: 28 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 119

  • @natashakean8414
    @natashakean8414 2 года назад +29

    I continue to fail as a wife, and everytime I feel like my marriage is on auto pilot i pull up these sermons and just get lost in the word and it recharges me.... Thank you so much Jimmy and Karen for telling the world your story and being called to serve for marriages.... it is sooooooo NEEDED in the world today. and God has blessed ya ll to bring the word to help us have better marriages. I can't thank you enough for being here for me when I need it the most.

  • @faithfulservant200
    @faithfulservant200 3 года назад +8

    Until we let our past die, God won't let our future live...

  • @catomellark4942
    @catomellark4942 6 лет назад +74

    Teachability breeds success. Dear Lord I choose to be teachable. Whatever You show me I will do.

    • @sonyahartley6320
      @sonyahartley6320 4 года назад +1

      Pastor you are so right about this

    • @laragreene8328
      @laragreene8328 4 года назад +2

      Life is simple but we insist on making it complicated!!

    • @marilia2084
      @marilia2084 3 года назад

      @@sonyahartley6320 lelvojl

    • @Mila-yp4vr
      @Mila-yp4vr 3 года назад

      @@sonyahartley6320 49th.

    • @rethatew1617
      @rethatew1617 Год назад

      I hope it works out for us

  • @soulsaver1000
    @soulsaver1000 6 лет назад +69

    These messages saved my marriage by changing me and helping me to recognize the things that I was doing there was not strengthening developing encouraging me to begin to wash my wife in the word of the Lord it also allowed her to see the changes in me was Drew her back from distant position she had taken up to one of acceptance

    • @tilladuplessis9523
      @tilladuplessis9523 6 лет назад

      Ll

    • @miss007kimm
      @miss007kimm 5 лет назад +5

      GloryB2God. I am ecstatic in the Lord that transformation has taken place for you and your wife. Heaven rejoices at such a victory. Satan didn't win!!!

    • @TheSoughtAfter1
      @TheSoughtAfter1 4 года назад +1

      Amen 🙏🏾

    • @abisoyewilliams-mumuni4881
      @abisoyewilliams-mumuni4881 2 года назад +1

      I truly respect men that are willing to listen to these messages and actively work on their marriages. GOD bless and keep you Sir and your marriage. May everything you lay your hands on be richly blessed as you treat your wife gracefully!

    • @sramirez777
      @sramirez777 2 года назад +1

      I’ve sent these videos to my husband but instead of being receptive, he yells at me to stop sending him these “stuff.” I feel defeated. My question is how you allowed yourself to be receptive? I have been praying for my husband to be open minded.

  • @GodsChosenMekAmoR
    @GodsChosenMekAmoR 5 лет назад +24

    You are amazing. The Holy Spirit truly gave wisdom. To hear you and your wife's testimony makes my heart rejoice.

  • @stephanielovedandadoredbyg8976
    @stephanielovedandadoredbyg8976 Год назад +1

    I’m determined and chosen to heal my inner wounds from childhood and teenager years. This ministry is a vital educational tool. I so need it

  • @nadinecolbath5584
    @nadinecolbath5584 5 лет назад +22

    This was really insightful!!! I've just started watching these videos and I'm learning a lot from them. Thanks for posting these so we can make our marriages better!!!

  • @miltonacevedo2412
    @miltonacevedo2412 5 лет назад +23

    Excellent words, God bless those who spends time learning in providing and improving marriage.

  • @speakrighttogod
    @speakrighttogod Год назад +2

    Uhhhhhhhh...in general (excluding traumatic experiences, fears, UNREASONABLE expectations), if a woman does not want to have sex with her husband, it's PROBABLY because he is driven by his desire to PLEASE HIMSELF ONLY. He PROBABLY is also SELFISH and does NOT EVEN BOTHER to find out what rocks her world. If he does not make it his business to find out what buttons to push because It... IS...ALWAYS...ABOUT HIM, wouldn't you think that the wife would think, "There's nothing in it for me?!"
    In reality it SHOULD BE that BOTH spouses desire to please each other and know each other inside out (spirit soul & body), but some things are just NOT what they should be.
    Furthermore, tired of hearing the 'men want sex' (and women don't) angle from almost every one that dares to address the topic. WHEN DO MEN EVER STOP AND CONSIDER that their wives JUST MIGHT...BE...PHYSICALLY... TIRED/EXHAUSTED, especially with children in the picture, considering that she is usually the one doing most/if not all of the work/care with them ALL DAY AND PART OF THE NIGHT?????? From the time her feet hit the floor in the morning until she finally gets to put her feet up...in the bed...ready to sleep, she has SERVED as the wife, mother, cook, teacher, laundress, nurse, referee, maid, chauffeur, landscaper, financial manager, customer service negotiator, etc, etc, etc seven days a week, almost around the clock. SOMETIMES.... do you think husbands could be mindful/thoughtful/caring/understanding/appreciative and offer to massage the wife's back/feet, run a hot bath for her and/or SOMETHING along those lines. If hubby is NOT SELFISH, and 'does her right' in AND out of the bed, the declines would likely be minimal to none.

  • @lorraineellis777
    @lorraineellis777 2 года назад +1

    Communication is key and
    Keeping the lord in front and praying everyday, support one another❤️encouragement as well

  • @leonardroldan2476
    @leonardroldan2476 4 года назад +2

    I love these videos. I wise Christian 98 year old woman of God have me the best advice when I found out my husband was having an emotional affair. She said she was married 60 years the secret was to always say yes. In love, in sex, and in needs. Our marriage is thriving! I didnt realize I was on autopilot after 17 years of marriage. We've got to cherish our spouses. God blesses us with our wives, husbands. Let's appreciate and flourish our marriages!

    • @hereiam587
      @hereiam587 2 года назад +1

      Sometimes you need to say no, it's all about balance.

  • @Plantladytiff
    @Plantladytiff Год назад +1

    I’m dealing with this right now. Verbal abuse. I am trying to continue to love and forgive. Hurting people hurt people. I pray my significant other releases his hurt and pain and anger so that he can love me purely and honestly and righteously

  • @iw9338
    @iw9338 5 лет назад +9

    Good message. God asked me to give Him my score card.

  • @timlucasentertainment
    @timlucasentertainment 4 года назад +1

    Marriage Today is changing my life and my marriage

  • @marye5828
    @marye5828 Год назад

    Grateful for your transparent testimonies and your videos .
    I know God is no respector of persons . Im so hopefilled. When we do things God's way we have a better chance at success in our marriages.
    These videos show us the practicality how to walk that out.
    Many including me had no godly examples of marriage . That's why sound biblical marital teachings are important.
    Thank you. .
    I pray grace grace for ea of us gleaning & our spouses to be teachable, and to have a wonderful thriving biblical marriage the way Jesus intended.

  • @MT-kj2zv
    @MT-kj2zv Год назад

    He also talks about repenting that most So- Called preachers try to avoid. This is a good man and says what he means in a simple way.

  • @tammyvo8880
    @tammyvo8880 Год назад +1

    Thank you so much Pastor. I’m new to your Chanel. Please continue to pray for all of us🙏in the midst of our marital struggles.

  • @0901sandman
    @0901sandman 5 лет назад +9

    Thank you, thank you, thank you for this video. It may save a marriage. God bless you both.

  • @ygbowee34
    @ygbowee34 5 лет назад +1

    Your Ministry is Helping my Heart everyday! Thank God for using you!

  • @diamonte18
    @diamonte18 6 лет назад +16

    This speaks to me real deep right now.

  • @psalmist333
    @psalmist333 6 лет назад +8

    Yes unhealed hurts. Big time!!!

  • @psalmist333
    @psalmist333 6 лет назад +20

    My husband will not communicate. When I try I get Shhhh, or Hush. I do NOT tolerate that and tell him to stop saying that to me. I am at a loss. 34 year marriage and a lot of things have changed for the negative. I’m tired of hearing more “words” spoken to me that I have to deal with later. The hurt that’s left. I’m so tired of it. I’m sorry, just venting. 😢

    • @gabyflowers3010
      @gabyflowers3010 6 лет назад +2

      dpw4him ruclips.net/video/TWw5OvfntV0/видео.html

    • @gabyflowers3010
      @gabyflowers3010 6 лет назад +2

      This helped me. I hope it can help you

    • @gabyflowers3010
      @gabyflowers3010 6 лет назад +4

      May God heal and Bless your marriage

    • @shelleyd9910
      @shelleyd9910 5 лет назад +6

      Yes exactly. How do we get them to listen to this instead of us. Prideful, arrogant men who claim to know Jesus.

    • @ericaprice3987
      @ericaprice3987 5 лет назад +1

      Sometimes actions speak louder than words

  • @mchelegreen7269
    @mchelegreen7269 4 года назад +1

    Thank you Karen & Jimmy for sharing these most valuable messages

  • @2bethankful48
    @2bethankful48 4 года назад +4

    Wow going through a divorce right now. But theses are so good to me . I have learned a lot from you both . that way when God does bless me with a Good Godly man . I will be more educated and more wise to how me and my future partner can be successful and healthier in our relationship.

  • @Bonnie55317-w
    @Bonnie55317-w 5 лет назад +5

    This was hard to hear but incredibly helpful.

    • @FlawedmanServingajustGod
      @FlawedmanServingajustGod 4 года назад +1

      God bless you for being honest was hard but you still listened and you said it was helpful so you must have applied you are truly strong and blessed 😃

  • @TheSolidheroes
    @TheSolidheroes 3 года назад +1

    I have great admiration for any man who can live together with a woman for more than a week.They are the real heroes imho.

  • @suzonne100
    @suzonne100 5 лет назад +6

    Wow! This was a such a good sermon. Thank you.

  • @debrahilliard7541
    @debrahilliard7541 3 года назад +1

    Great information I'm not getting married anytime soon but it's great to hear this before jumping the broom

  • @noraramirez5354
    @noraramirez5354 5 лет назад +15

    Why no body told me this before. 👍

    • @laragreene8328
      @laragreene8328 4 года назад

      Life is simple but we insist on making it complicated!!

  • @MrAllysonn
    @MrAllysonn 3 года назад

    The greatest reminder. Such a great sermons.

  • @romanapintek3596
    @romanapintek3596 5 лет назад +2

    Thank you so much, amazing message, so helpful and spiritual. God bless you.

  • @siphelelethelmamkhize4786
    @siphelelethelmamkhize4786 5 лет назад +4

    I like your teachings

  • @bc2109
    @bc2109 Год назад

    Sad that I can totally relate to how Jimmy felt when he heard his friend talking sweetly to his wife.

  • @lorraineellis777
    @lorraineellis777 2 года назад

    I love my husband - through it all

  • @shariclifford5065
    @shariclifford5065 5 лет назад +3

    Amazing wisdom

  • @jacquelinegoring9002
    @jacquelinegoring9002 5 лет назад

    Marrage-- mark ch10: 6-9. Mathew ch22--30. Hey ch13 --4

  • @kabzakathunder3323
    @kabzakathunder3323 4 года назад

    I love this talk... it's most amazing thing to listen to such... thank you

  • @jesuschristsaves392
    @jesuschristsaves392 3 года назад +1

    🙏“Padre, sé que he violado tus leyes y mis pecados me han separado de ti. Realmente lo siento, y ahora quiero alejarme de mi vida pecaminosa pasada hacia ti. Perdóname y ayúdame a evitar volver a pecar. Creo que su hijo, Jesucristo, murió por mis pecados, resucitó de entre los muertos, está vivo y escucha mi oración. Invito a Jesús a convertirse en el Señor de mi vida, a gobernar y reinar en mi corazón desde este día en adelante. Por favor envía tu Espíritu Santo para ayudarme a obedecerte y hacer tu voluntad por el resto de mi vida. En el nombre de Jesús oro, Amén "

  • @henrychika9525
    @henrychika9525 4 года назад +1

    Good one!

  • @sharodeley675
    @sharodeley675 5 лет назад

    What a beautiful message

  • @pdpode8978
    @pdpode8978 4 года назад +3

    Was enjoying it till it abruptly quit and they started asking for money 😒

  • @shelleyd9910
    @shelleyd9910 5 лет назад +27

    I hate how men can be so sure that their wife isn't "normal" when every single woman has similar needs.

    • @Lili-Benovent
      @Lili-Benovent 5 лет назад

      Sounds like you are very frustrated, get yourself a toy boy.

    • @mattlove9066
      @mattlove9066 5 лет назад

      Noooo never the woman's fault poor little ol me

    • @Lili-Benovent
      @Lili-Benovent 5 лет назад

      @@mattlove9066 The mans first love, Beer and football.

    • @ericaprice3987
      @ericaprice3987 5 лет назад +2

      @@mattlove9066Are you angry at women?

    • @mattlove9066
      @mattlove9066 5 лет назад +1

      @@ericaprice3987 no

  • @kimhawkes2570
    @kimhawkes2570 4 года назад

    Great teaching

  • @jesuschristsaves392
    @jesuschristsaves392 3 года назад +2

    Dear God🙏♥️💕 in heaven, I come to you in the name of Jesus. I acknowledge to You that I am a sinner, and I am sorry for my sins and the life that I have lived; I need your forgiveness.
    I believe that your only begotten Son Jesus Christ shed His precious blood on the cross at Calvary and died for my sins, and I am now willing to turn from my sin.
    You said in the bible that if we confess the Lord our God and believe in our hearts that God raised Jesus from the dead, we shall be saved.
    Right now I confess Jesus as my Lord. With my heart, I believe that God raised Jesus from the dead. This very moment I accept Jesus Christ as my own personal Savior and according to His Word, right now I am saved. Amen.

  • @solstice1681
    @solstice1681 4 года назад +2

    My husband suffers from tremendous pride, so bad that he even thinks he knows more than doctors, he's an alcoholic in denial and the world is as he says it is, not as it is. The need for sex is in me, not in him, and I keep myself fit and attractive, but I only get attention from other men, never from my husband. Pray for him, please pray for us.

    • @togodbetheglory3353
      @togodbetheglory3353 4 года назад

      😂😂 sounds just like my husband!! Haha literally had an argument the other day where I told him what doctor's are saying and STILL he thinks he is right. Every time I say something that is different than what he believes, he always has to go and look it up just to prove me wrong....btw I have my bachelor's degree and my husband has his GED....get what I'm saying?! I so desperately want him to stop being prideful before God makes him...which will only be tougher 🙄 praying for you!

    • @realtorgiftee
      @realtorgiftee 2 года назад +1

      Same sis!

  • @crgislimes984
    @crgislimes984 4 года назад +1

    I would love to talk to this guy n his wife!

  • @laragreene8328
    @laragreene8328 4 года назад +1

    MY YOKE IS EASY!! ..........LOVE IS THE ONLY REQUIREMENT IN A GOOD MARRIAGE!!.......... MARRY SOMEBODY YOU LOVE THAT LOVES YOU! AND BOTH LOVE GOD!! SIMPLE!!.......THE WORLDLY WAYS ARE COMPLICATED,GOD ISNT!!..........STOP BEING WORLDLY!!

  • @MrsDburnett923
    @MrsDburnett923 4 года назад

    This was good... Thank you!

  • @GloriaSol
    @GloriaSol 6 лет назад +8

    “Get out the house!” Why do husbands do that?

    • @mattlove9066
      @mattlove9066 5 лет назад

      BECAUSE THEY CAN AND HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO, WHAT GETS ME IS WHEN A WIFE TRIES TO DO IT TO HER HUSBAND ESPECIALLY WHEN IT'S HIS HOUSE

    • @Frostops6
      @Frostops6 4 года назад +7

      @@mattlove9066 it's never his hosue! If youre married it's your house. What in the world 😂

    • @mattlove9066
      @mattlove9066 4 года назад

      @@Frostops6 not if the husband is paying the bills

    • @Frostops6
      @Frostops6 4 года назад +9

      How sexist to assume women don't work, I make more then most men I know, but even if I didn't. If a women is raising a man kids, cleaning thier house, cooking their dinner, grocery shopping, hes not just paying the bills. That's his children nurse, their daycare worker, the maid, the cook, the personal shopper, the one who makes sure the bills are paid on time and money is where it needs to go, makes sure the kids get to school volunteers. She is who makes him look good and makes life easier. Try to change your thatd my house mind set or pay someone else to do all of that.

    • @togodbetheglory3353
      @togodbetheglory3353 4 года назад +3

      @@mattlove9066 misogynist....women do more than men even if the woman works too...the men just don't see everything they do to keep their life afloat

  • @TheTechCguy
    @TheTechCguy 5 лет назад +1

    Imagine having someone with a loud and booming voice wake you up when you don't want to in the morning. Yeah, that's real normal.

  • @kabzakathunder3323
    @kabzakathunder3323 4 года назад

    This is beautiful

  • @speedskater5613
    @speedskater5613 5 лет назад +5

    What if one is doing it gods way and the other isn’t, uses porn and is disrespectful. How long do you hold on?

  • @raeezatjiramba8693
    @raeezatjiramba8693 4 месяца назад

    Is this offer still available?

  • @jesuschristsaves392
    @jesuschristsaves392 3 года назад +1

    Querido Deus🙏no céu, venho até você em nome de Jesus. Reconheço-te que sou um pecador e sinto muito pelos meus pecados e pela vida que tenho vivido; Eu preciso do seu perdão.
    Eu creio que o seu filho unigênito Jesus Cristo derramou Seu sangue precioso na cruz no Calvário e morreu por meus pecados, e agora estou disposto a abandonar meus pecados.
    Você disse na bíblia que se confessarmos o Senhor nosso Deus e crermos em nossos corações que Deus ressuscitou Jesus dos mortos, seremos salvos.
    Agora mesmo eu confesso Jesus como meu Senhor. De coração, acredito que Deus ressuscitou Jesus dos mortos. Neste exato momento eu aceito Jesus Cristo como meu Salvador pessoal e de acordo com Sua Palavra, agora estou salvo. Um homem.

  • @jesuschristsaves392
    @jesuschristsaves392 3 года назад +1

    The Gospel of salvation of our souls: 💜💕💜💖💞💜💕For what I received I passed on to you as of [first importance]: that Christ died for our sins according to the Scriptures, that he was buried, that he was raised on the third day according to the Scriptures, and that he appeared to Peter, and then to the Twelve. After that, he appeared to more than five hundred of the brothers and sisters at the same time,

  • @davidvanderveer5882
    @davidvanderveer5882 5 лет назад +2

    You talk so fast that it is easy to dismiss what you are saying. My wife will not listen to me! Even when I make a great point she says I am just making excuses and the best I can hope for is to have her walk away, rethink what I said, come to the conclusion - I should change myself! Needless to say, that never happens.

  • @jesuschristsaves392
    @jesuschristsaves392 3 года назад +1

    Evangelio para la salvación de tus almas💞💕💜💕❤💞💕💜
    Porque ante todo les transmití a ustedes lo que yo mismo recibí: que Cristo murió por nuestros pecados según las Escrituras, que fue sepultado, que resucitó al tercer día según las Escrituras, y que se apareció a Pedro, y luego a los doce. Después se apareció a más de quinientos hermanos a la vez,

  • @ginnyperdue3157
    @ginnyperdue3157 5 лет назад +2

    I divorced a narrcisstic psychopath

  • @oleandra3759
    @oleandra3759 4 года назад

    That laughter seems so contrived

  • @carolsmite
    @carolsmite 4 года назад +1

    What if a woman over 70 years old has no sex drive at all but her husband does?

    • @sf808opalaman
      @sf808opalaman 3 года назад

      Can a husband who is NOT emotionally open/ emotionally available to you, change his ways??

  • @jesuschristsaves392
    @jesuschristsaves392 3 года назад +1

    O Evangelho: 💜💕💜💖💞💜💕Pelo que recebi, passei a vocês como de [primeira importância]: que Cristo morreu pelos nossos pecados segundo as Escrituras, que foi sepultado, que ressuscitou ao terceiro dia de acordo com as Escrituras, e que ele apareceu a Pedro e depois aos Doze. Depois disso, ele apareceu para mais de quinhentos irmãos e irmãs ao mesmo tempo,

  • @nanadanarocks
    @nanadanarocks 4 года назад

    Wow!

  • @marcellofunhouse1234
    @marcellofunhouse1234 2 года назад +1

    My dad stole my moms inheritance behind her back verbally abuses me persacutes my mom for being Christian threatened to skin me alive or kill me last year

  • @allenketzer9872
    @allenketzer9872 5 лет назад +4

    Why try to sell what God gave you in the night wisdom just tell us what God told you it helps God will give you what you need

  • @mattlove9066
    @mattlove9066 5 лет назад +1

    A MAN SHOULD NEVER SHOW ANY WEAKNESS TOWARD HIS WIFE AS SHE WILL HARP ON THAT FOREVER, WOMEN HAVE A HARD TIME FORGIVING AND FORGETTING, THEY TAKE FULL ADVANTAGE OF A MANS WEAK POINTS TO GET THE UPPER HAND, MEN , NEVER EVER SHARE EMOTIONS OR WEAKNESS TO YOUR WIFE, WOMEN CAN'T HANDLE IT NOT EVEN THEIR OWN WEAKNESSES, EXAMPLE, IF YOU.HAVE A BAD DAY AT WORK, WHEN YOU COME HOME AND YOUR WIFE ASKS HOW YOUR DAY WAS YOU SAY GOOD

    • @shelleyd9910
      @shelleyd9910 4 года назад +1

      Sounds like you are mistaking Satans voice for your wife. She is not your enemy. Watch the latest Marriage Today podcast. It will set you free.

    • @mattlove9066
      @mattlove9066 4 года назад

      @@shelleyd9910 we're divorced anyway well in the process, that was an old post

    • @shelleyd9910
      @shelleyd9910 4 года назад

      @@mattlove9066 that's sad Matt. Happens too much. Marriage is hard work. And today's. Culture actively fights it. But Jesus can heal all broken hearts. Because I have been there,. Jimmy and Karen can still help with this ministry. Bless you

  • @Joniyah444
    @Joniyah444 4 года назад

    God help us if this is who is teaching the masses. There is no solid advice on being a true man or real woman. Even agnostic pages have success then some flimsy half hearted message.

    • @shelleyd9910
      @shelleyd9910 4 года назад +1

      ? Scripture quoted all through this ministry. He sends people straight to Jesus.

    • @ShaeThompsonthehairdiva
      @ShaeThompsonthehairdiva 4 года назад

      You are not very smart are you?!

    • @Joniyah444
      @Joniyah444 4 года назад

      Shae Thompson nope. Definitely not. Anything else ?

  • @lindasanderlin4444
    @lindasanderlin4444 11 месяцев назад +1

    I love your Sermons and they have changed my life, marriage and family. I find it exceedingly sad that you are always selling your complete sets of sermons so unless a family is rich, they can’t gain access to all your sermons. It feels like televangelism and sinfulness to refuse access to people who need your full lessons unless they can pay for it. Wouldn’t it be more Godly to offer your full sermons for the donation people can afford?

  • @ivangodin1850
    @ivangodin1850 Месяц назад

    In all of Jimmy's sermons, it's always him (or men) that are hurting their wives. The guy is the sloppy one, the jerk, the insensitive one, the lazy one, the one ridiculed, the one that never gets it.
    I'm tired of this narrative.
    Me, I love Christ, my family, I am a hard working man with high moral values. Never drank, smoked, used drugs, never been unfaithful, I am very attentive to my wife's needs, I am romantic, caring and devoted. Gave a kidney to my dying brother. Get the picture? That's me.
    And yet, my Christian wife is constantly nagging, complaining, extremely jealous, imagining crazy scenarios, disrespectful to me, etc etc.
    I wish Jimmy would address that issue as well, in a serious manner. Because I'm not the only one out there.